10 Signs You Need to Break Up

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

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  • @Thatgurlamg
    @Thatgurlamg 3 года назад +2617

    well I think the fact we even searched for these videos says enough

    • @averyaubrey6944
      @averyaubrey6944 3 года назад +1

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    • @tiasayka3867
      @tiasayka3867 3 года назад +84

      I've never in my entire life seen as big of a Fact in just one compact sentence as this one

    • @eshaunthomas3586
      @eshaunthomas3586 3 года назад +1

      @@averyaubrey6944 U

    • @potatobuety629
      @potatobuety629 3 года назад +23

      Try the recommended section 💀

    • @adamhafez7453
      @adamhafez7453 3 года назад +31

      yeah it is sad when you think about what happened in the past in your relationship when you hear the songs you guys use to hear together and when you think about your great memories it honestly makes wanna give it another chance, but i truly know deep down that this is the end

  • @nickwick35
    @nickwick35 4 года назад +3013

    Deep down we all know it's time to end it with our partners but we're all scared to do it...

  • @zachannan23
    @zachannan23 3 года назад +902

    Be honest guys we always look back at the beginning of the relationship and look at those good memories and always think it’s going to get better and this person will change but they never do…

    • @thedreamclairvoyant7654
      @thedreamclairvoyant7654 3 года назад +2

      I can address you to this man he can read your present relationship status ,solve relationship problems and bring back your ex WhatsApp him

    • @thedreamclairvoyant7654
      @thedreamclairvoyant7654 3 года назад

      +23408162078306

    • @fizzypunch1625
      @fizzypunch1625 3 года назад

      OMG YEAH

    • @ajgjngfthyfbk7564
      @ajgjngfthyfbk7564 2 года назад +1

      I don't know, I'm more nostalgic about the middle part.. In my case the first 6 months were kind of scary, not having a lot of trust yet, and not seeing each other as much as I would have wanted. After a while things became a lot nicer for me.

    • @sunset2798
      @sunset2798 2 года назад

      Shit I don't

  • @CatoZaz
    @CatoZaz 3 года назад +1024

    The hardest thing is when your partner is actually a really wonderful person and on paper you two are perfect for each other but you slowly start recognizing some of these signs as you've been together for a while

    • @ch-im7ps
      @ch-im7ps 3 года назад +24

      I’m in the same boat

    • @dxsireonce1890
      @dxsireonce1890 3 года назад +31

      Ohh god same here like we were the best with each other like anyone could think but then I realised that I can't give him the same love and happiness he does and he is just attached with me not love and their was always a little voice always in my head says you should wait to meet someone soon but he is not the one and always mocks me when I am with him and after recognising my feelings for him I broke it of for his and my god but he is so stubborn that he thinks I dumped him for someone else like SERIOUSLY I never once seen someone with that eye and now we are own our own I still miss him and want him as my best friend that we were before but u know he needs time and all to put it all together....... I always when I am with him just want to run of or to meet him in group I barely even look into his eyes and I just kinda feel that he is not my one but who make him understand....... I swear one day he will say thanku that I left him for good so he can find someone better....

    • @saulexiscl6377
      @saulexiscl6377 3 года назад +19

      Ugh i know… i feel like i’m trapped.

    • @kristinastojadinovic3117
      @kristinastojadinovic3117 3 года назад +3

      My SITUATION sad the same.I Broke me engagement with my boyfriend.We were short time together and didnt know each other that well and after 3 months i realised i will Never be happy with him,or he will not be happy with me.We both deseved to find someone who wil truly love us.Now Im happy and hope he will be to when he realise WE ARE NOT FOR EACH OTHER

    • @dxsireonce1890
      @dxsireonce1890 3 года назад +3

      @@kristinastojadinovic3117 you did good it was my situation he was happy with me but I was suffocated around him and I was never happy with him but he was so I broke it of and now I am sooo soo happy without him and I don't know about him but what I did was for his good cause he deserves love and me to and he will find someone some day like me and you ...

  • @eyeoffelicia3434
    @eyeoffelicia3434 3 года назад +340

    I just broke up with someone I have been nearly 9 years with. I just realised I'm literally on the verge of death or what ever you call it. It hurts so much I feel like I am having a heart attack. Please if anyone is reading this just pray for me. I will pray for everyone who has been hurt and is hurting.

    • @greenbean5812
      @greenbean5812 3 года назад +8

      I hope everything will be alright for you and Don't worry, life is all about your improvement to your best self.
      May this was the last breakup you are having and beyond this there's infinite loop of love for you ✨❤️

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @pinkfluffyunicorn1228
      @pinkfluffyunicorn1228 3 года назад +8

      I pray for you and everyone going through that. I wasn't expecting it to hurt so much...

    • @abhishekraj9930
      @abhishekraj9930 3 года назад

      You will get her surely

  • @WisdomWealth77
    @WisdomWealth77 4 года назад +753

    A breakup is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave than risk hurting yourself trying to pick up all of the broken pieces. 💯

  • @803slimm7
    @803slimm7 3 года назад +485

    Breaking up with my ex was the best thing I ever did. I finally feel FREE.

    • @mz.necie1976
      @mz.necie1976 3 года назад +4

      Me toooooooo🙌🏾

    • @hslhrd707
      @hslhrd707 3 года назад +3

      Guilty! Lol 😜😁👍 i agree!

    • @dieselblaze6665
      @dieselblaze6665 3 года назад +9

      Tell me about it buddy!
      I didn't actually go through a break up myself recently, but I got rid of a toxic roommate I once cared very much about!
      (Now I'm finally free, and have been for at least a month now)

    • @latashawilford9352
      @latashawilford9352 3 года назад +1

      Not as happy as she was to be free... No fear.

    • @debralowe869
      @debralowe869 3 года назад +1

      AMEN!!!!!!!!!

  • @joelkaben
    @joelkaben 4 года назад +522

    If there was ever a time to be single and focus on yourself, it's now.

    • @elpieceking1498
      @elpieceking1498 4 года назад +20

      Most comments on yt are shit but this is very true I recomend people work on themselves find who they are nice comment g💯💯

    • @charlizecabanag3764
      @charlizecabanag3764 4 года назад +2

      :'(((

    • @sunshinestarboard4253
      @sunshinestarboard4253 2 года назад +1

      I'm not even left alone to do that...

    • @pythefnos
      @pythefnos 2 года назад +1

      Thank you

  • @AnupamMukherjee316
    @AnupamMukherjee316 3 года назад +135

    Never be scared to end.. it will hurt in the short term but will be beneficial in the long run..

    • @AnupamMukherjee316
      @AnupamMukherjee316 3 года назад +1

      @Outdated Fool haha well said !

    • @AnupamMukherjee316
      @AnupamMukherjee316 3 года назад

      @Outdated Fool I know where you coming from but sometimes even after knowing we tend to fall for it..

    • @Recipesdaily
      @Recipesdaily 2 года назад +3

      It even will never hurt me becoz i have now that much courage Alhamdulillah but ithas been 4 years we are together🥲🥲 it's hurting nothing else.... Allah will surely bring someone who will respect me care for me and Inshallah love me

    • @radon222u
      @radon222u Год назад

      Have you done?

    • @AnupamMukherjee316
      @AnupamMukherjee316 Год назад

      @@radon222u Yes.. it’s painful but it’s good..

  • @sweetdisposition7978
    @sweetdisposition7978 3 года назад +647

    *Me:* finding out my relationship has all 10 reasons for breakup
    *Also me*: too scared to make the move

    • @alexchilton2473
      @alexchilton2473 3 года назад +10

      Did you do it

    • @timcluckey8806
      @timcluckey8806 3 года назад +41

      Read this comment couple months ago and thinking I'm in same boat as you. Returning now to tell you I finally told her I wasnt in love with her anymore and how I feel 50 lbs lighter and smile every day.

    • @MASON091
      @MASON091 3 года назад +5

      Lucky for you your beautiful, you can find anyone good luck finding the right one.

    • @akankshamaurya6662
      @akankshamaurya6662 3 года назад +6

      Well you are not alone :(

    • @missindie4199
      @missindie4199 3 года назад +4

      Its the hardest thing to do😭😭😭😭

  • @LloydChristmasAspen
    @LloydChristmasAspen 2 года назад +61

    I'd rather someone broke up with me than me breaking up with them. I don't like hurting people's feelings.

  • @CS-em4bh
    @CS-em4bh 3 года назад +78

    The eye contact test is so valid . You'll get to know all ..your own discomfort, comfort, love , feeling detached etc . It just says all.

  • @SY-sp8uo
    @SY-sp8uo 4 года назад +160

    Never try to fit somewhere that you don't belong, find a place where you are irreplaceable!

    • @montesa9136
      @montesa9136 2 года назад +4

      @Classy entrepreneurss - LOL!
      Winning the lottery would be easier than doing that .....

  • @cantfailent
    @cantfailent 4 года назад +131

    Yep! It's time to break up. Deep down I already knew that.

  • @shaelynnmartinez8820
    @shaelynnmartinez8820 2 года назад +120

    1. Yo-yo relationship (intense up and downs)
    2. Sinking ship (they bring out the worst in you)
    3. The growing gap (harder to talk to them)
    4. Living on the edge (how often you think of breaking up)
    5. The big division (different 5 year future plan)
    6. The eye test (struggle to give eye contact)
    7. Hijacking the relationship (the use of a relationship to satisfy other needs)
    8. Dispensable partners (are they important to you?)
    9. Avoiding showing you to their family
    10. Defensive blaming

    • @jcolinmizia9161
      @jcolinmizia9161 2 года назад +1

      I’m stuck in #5 right now. It sucks that it has nothing to do with how we feel about each other now, but knowing how we will feel about each other in 5 years.

    • @Goldnlotusworld
      @Goldnlotusworld Год назад

      It sucks

    • @Tarantulisimo
      @Tarantulisimo Год назад +2

      every relationship on earth is probably experiencing at least 25% of these at any given time -- I guess if you reach a sustained 50%, then it's time to stop the madness

  • @su-enaahleebeautifulcontra3617
    @su-enaahleebeautifulcontra3617 4 года назад +593

    Just seeing this just confirms it for me

  • @Uwa99
    @Uwa99 4 года назад +384

    10 Signs You Need to Break Up
    1. Yo-yo relationships: unbalanced emotions
    2..Sinking ship: bring out worst habits
    3. Growing gap: harder to talk/interact
    4. Living on the edge: How often you think of breaking up?
    5. Big division: Walking different paths; different values/futures
    6. Eye test: Struggle with eye contact >5 seconds
    7. Hijacking relationship: Toxic= more control for personal satisfaction; no compromise
    8. Dispensable partners: Are they essential to you?
    9. Avoiding family: Doubtful of commitment or relationship
    10. Defensive blaming: Cruel & critical about relationship; don’t accept blame

    • @LEARNWITHPANDA
      @LEARNWITHPANDA 4 года назад +16

      Thanks for your work. You saved me some time.

    • @Uwa99
      @Uwa99 4 года назад +3

      @@LEARNWITHPANDA no problem👍🏿

    • @Walkin2046
      @Walkin2046 4 года назад +5

      Thank you

    • @Uwa99
      @Uwa99 4 года назад +3

      @@Walkin2046 you’re welcome

    • @romovlogs1546
      @romovlogs1546 3 года назад

      Fax

  • @sauldrei5488
    @sauldrei5488 3 года назад +76

    This hurts me a lot, I can relate to almost all of these signs. I love her so much yet everything is just so hard. I'm such a hopeful person but maybe it's about time we stop.

    • @sallyelizabeth5215
      @sallyelizabeth5215 3 года назад

      I know of a relationship except who can help you bring your broken relationship within 48hrs he is from Texas and he help me and my lover get back after many years of separation

    • @sallyelizabeth5215
      @sallyelizabeth5215 3 года назад

      text me on WhatsApp to know more about the doctor

    • @allaboardthegravytrain5987
      @allaboardthegravytrain5987 3 года назад +10

      @@sallyelizabeth5215 aren’t you guys gonna stop tricking people? Ever heard of Karma

    • @jamesnguyen7069
      @jamesnguyen7069 3 года назад

      maslows hierarchy of needs

  • @samipso
    @samipso 3 года назад +87

    The ups and downs are pretty steep. There’s no hate or ill-will, but conversations mostly just feel toxic.
    Now I’m telling myself to break up, but suddenly I get emotional..Crazy how that goes..

    • @austinhedgeman4192
      @austinhedgeman4192 3 года назад +11

      Easier said then done huh

    • @shreyas9318
      @shreyas9318 3 года назад

      I might be late here but y'know, maybe talk to them about what you're feeling and see if they want to salvage the relationship? There's always couples counselling too if only conscious communication doesn't help.

  • @ateachableheart2649
    @ateachableheart2649 2 года назад +25

    28 years of being together, 20 years of marriage. This video says it all about my spouse. I'm crushed, I'm old and I have no idea what to do, I have no place to go. I'm 90% certain he's having an affair and that this is fueling his behaviour toward me. My head doesn't want to believe, my gut says it's true and my heart is torn between the two.

    • @tijanagrabovac3359
      @tijanagrabovac3359 2 года назад +2

      I am so sorry you are going through this! I hope soon u will be in a better situation

    • @kokolatte825
      @kokolatte825 2 года назад

      try counseling. if he won't go then get therapy for yourself before making any permanent decision.

    • @Dancon90
      @Dancon90 2 года назад

      😪😪😪

    • @alisha9788
      @alisha9788 2 года назад

      Hey, how are you today?

    • @suzannelograsso3358
      @suzannelograsso3358 Год назад

      I am so so sorry 😐❤️

  • @framed-tales
    @framed-tales 4 года назад +152

    The more tech savvy and self-aware we are becoming as individuals, the less chances we are taking to be patient and compromise for the betterment of the relationships. It's like a paradox. Many videos and advice tell us to do this or that, many motivators tell us to do this or that......but are we really taking the time to solve the problem with patience or just letting it go just to start the same process all over again? You know, at one point people get tired.......

    • @aaishasingh3565
      @aaishasingh3565 3 года назад +10

      I agree on working to improve what you have.

    • @itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723
      @itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723 2 года назад +8

      One exception is: if you cannot resolve the problems. Then it’s time to leave. Wha my we call love nowadays is actual limerence, it’s the initial thrill of being with someone. Love is committing to someone and wanting the best for them. As you would for yourself. If you are being neglected by your mate, address that. If things don’t change. Time to pack! I agree we must pay attention to each other and get OFF social media. It can become an addictive thing.

    • @Vickzzzbeco9974
      @Vickzzzbeco9974 2 года назад +3

      It’s true. And that’s why I’m here searching for this video now. I’ve been telling myself to just wait. That I have to be understanding and patient and whatever else my relationship may need. But now I don’t know

  • @souravghosh1107
    @souravghosh1107 3 года назад +30

    It is good to snuff out a relationship when there is no reciprocity. A good relationship be it friendship or something else depends on how two people take care of each other. If it is one-sided then it is definitely not going to last long. Because to keep a relationship alive it is important to nurture it.

  • @aidansawatsky6966
    @aidansawatsky6966 2 года назад +4

    “i know what i have to do but i dont know if i have the strength to do it”

  • @DeepEnd-sm3uw
    @DeepEnd-sm3uw 3 года назад +24

    Smh... This definitely CONFIRMS everything for me... Especially the EYE CONTACT part ... It's to the point where we not sleeping in the same room and if we are it's no body contact. Better yet she shuts the door at night and try make my son or the dog sleep in the room with her.

  • @darrylhudson2182
    @darrylhudson2182 2 года назад +7

    Feeling like your a "priority" is a big one for me. Knowing that your partner can just put you on a shelf for friends and family at the drop of dime hurts. Trying to have a adult conversation about and your partner simply gives you a deaf ear and no results...burns deep.

  • @playboikakashii
    @playboikakashii 2 года назад +6

    I needed this so much. Time to focus on myself and fix my inner problems. wish me luck

  • @ChaddyMack
    @ChaddyMack 3 года назад +18

    "When a good thing goes bad, its not the end of the world, its just the end of the world, that you had with 1 girl". Drizzy voice

    • @abdulrashidsadanu2818
      @abdulrashidsadanu2818 3 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him.

    • @abdulrashidsadanu2818
      @abdulrashidsadanu2818 3 года назад

      Wh@tsApp him for help.

    • @abdulrashidsadanu2818
      @abdulrashidsadanu2818 3 года назад

      +19177227027⏯⏯⏯| 💕||

  • @Randi-m1k8g
    @Randi-m1k8g 4 года назад +63

    This video uploading now is a sign I should break up!

    • @Randi-m1k8g
      @Randi-m1k8g 4 года назад +2

      @Roy Batty yup I broke up today. Feel sorry for her but I did it for good reasons.

  • @itguy7336
    @itguy7336 3 года назад +20

    Well, i am here to watch this after breakup..as i am getting panic attacks, this is working like a medicine

    • @mr.hamster6459
      @mr.hamster6459 3 года назад +3

      I'm here with you about to break up today

  • @miminawewe-j8j
    @miminawewe-j8j Год назад +1

    From my own experience, walk away when it's early. You don't have to wait till you have kids engaged and battling with betrayal to break up! I really miss my time before I met her. I don't know who I am right now.
    Regrets, regrets, regrets!

  • @andrewcombe8907
    @andrewcombe8907 2 года назад +6

    Abandoned husband here. My wife left on 8 January when I was away on a Scout Camp. I was gutted but we had an up and down relationship with massive fights in front of the kids. In the last year of marriage we had sex once. The sad part is there are two kids and now they live in a separate State. I would have left her but for the kids. If a relationship doesn’t feel right get out of it before kids come along.

  • @avrillee311
    @avrillee311 Год назад +1

    When I think about I want to be alone every single day!!! This is how much I want to be away!! I’m scared of losing my dog! So I haven’t done it yet

  • @amandasligar9269
    @amandasligar9269 3 года назад +72

    Wishing I had known this information about 20 years ago...would have saved me a lot of money, time, energy, and my overall physical and mental health.

  • @jamesconnell5242
    @jamesconnell5242 3 года назад +3

    A real take on things! Not a ‘save marriage at all costs’ message. I needed to hear this.

    • @abdulrashidsadanu2818
      @abdulrashidsadanu2818 3 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him.

    • @abdulrashidsadanu2818
      @abdulrashidsadanu2818 3 года назад

      Wh@tsApp him for help.

    • @abdulrashidsadanu2818
      @abdulrashidsadanu2818 3 года назад

      +19177227027⏯⏯⏯| 💕||

  • @josselinsegoviarivera8985
    @josselinsegoviarivera8985 4 года назад +27

    For the longest I was analyzing my relationship, but still fought. But after an argument a couple days ago, my partner told me she hasn’t felt nothing for me for the longest. And right now listening to this, I was the cause of this. And I really cant fix this. I don’t know if I’m in love or I’m just used to being with her.

    • @drisellaowens425
      @drisellaowens425 3 года назад

      Hello Dear, I know of a man who can help you to get back with your ex easily, he was the one who helped me to fix back my broken relationship of 3 years by making my ex come back to me

    • @drisellaowens425
      @drisellaowens425 3 года назад +2

      Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me.

    • @drisellaowens425
      @drisellaowens425 3 года назад

      What sApp him

    • @drisellaowens425
      @drisellaowens425 3 года назад

      +2347030894892.

  • @abacdse
    @abacdse 4 года назад +76

    The grass is always greener but at the end of the day it's just another relationship.Breaking up is the norm these days compared to previous generations

    • @LifeNavigation
      @LifeNavigation 4 года назад +8

      Too easy to move on with apps nowadays

    • @BobbyMakepeace
      @BobbyMakepeace 4 года назад +20

      Nonsense
      Break ups have always existed
      We’re just more connected now so you hear about them more

    • @david3atista
      @david3atista 3 года назад +3

      true, sometimes people breakup because they undervalue what they have

    • @bweewp
      @bweewp 3 года назад +2

      Relationships take a lot of work. We get caught up in our emotions, try being more objective. Everyone has to be able to see what they bring to each situation and work on their own issues. Communication is the key to a mutual resolve. Know yourself and your capabilities.

    • @jordanunknown5128
      @jordanunknown5128 3 года назад +4

      @@BobbyMakepeace I do think that social media and the fact like you said we’re more connected now than before both play a role in a larger amount of breakups these days though. People have more options and it’s all within a click of a button, you don’t even have to leave your house to find love anymore. Look at the show Catfish lol.

  • @steveco1800
    @steveco1800 2 года назад +4

    Reminded me why we broke up but I still think of her everyday and we sometimes hug in my dreams. I think I'm missing being in a relationship more than her, but it's hard to move on 😩.

  • @lynncameron7291
    @lynncameron7291 2 года назад +6

    You mentioned everything that I have been through and everything that happens in my life with him. I already knew that it was done a long time ago and I'm presently starting my divorce! One thing everyone should know, it's not easy to throw away such a big part of your life better or worse and if you ask about why they stayed, the answer is usually, I don't know

  • @chichihardy4482
    @chichihardy4482 3 года назад +82

    I just don’t want to leave him😭

    • @clayhova
      @clayhova 3 года назад +5

      I feel the same about my partner

    • @cherylthompson2731
      @cherylthompson2731 3 года назад +8

      @@clayhova If you feel that way, then stay. Don't let a video dictate how you were going to live your life.

    • @david3atista
      @david3atista 3 года назад +2

      then take a deep breath and solve your issues together

    • @aaronmullenix5409
      @aaronmullenix5409 3 года назад +9

      My partner and I were completely essential to each other... We made each other stronger.... We accomplished many goals together... She did something stupid that put her son in jail... And I ended up feeling like I cared more about her kids than she did... It took many months for me to realize that I was never going to get over it and that I was always going to be angry at her.... Of course she moved on before I did.... And now she and I don't even talk.... It's heartbreaking we had the perfect relationship.... 24 years down the drain.... But at least I still have a good relationship with her sons..... And her eldest son gave me a grandbaby.... It's kind of funny that she despises the fact that her sons and I have a good relationship... But why wouldn't we...lol... I still cry about it sometimes.... She and I were perfect.... But we all have to move on I guess

    • @sarahrankin7453
      @sarahrankin7453 3 года назад +2

      I'm the same. He is the 1st real relationship I've ever been in and my longest one. I'm just afraid that if I break up my heart will shatter because I have so many happy memories

  • @fooleos
    @fooleos 2 года назад +11

    I'm happiest when I'm by myself. I guess that's a sign to move on.

  • @ttv_grylato
    @ttv_grylato 3 года назад +13

    Relationships are not perfect
    It’s difficult to create a bond between 2 different type of people. You have you expect and work on the negative qualities of each other, which takes years.

  • @bweewp
    @bweewp 3 года назад +33

    This video is awesome! Right to some actual points that I definitely relate to. Thanks for breaking it down for me! It can be difficult to assess relationships with all the emotions pulling at you. This is a sign you need to at least take some time off. Be you, alone and or with friends and family.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

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    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

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      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

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    • @aaishasingh3565
      @aaishasingh3565 3 года назад

      So true!

  • @PennyJackson123
    @PennyJackson123 3 года назад +24

    It’s even worse when you break up finally after 2.5 years based on valid reasons (incompatibility, one-sided, neglecting behaviors, not meeting my basic needs at all) and then he turns around and begs me to stay, saying:
    “I need you. I will change. I know I said this before, but this time it’s truly different. Please don’t break us apart. I’m full of anger. Why are you doing this?”
    I’m still being firm, but it’s hard to know how to deal with the desperate begging and the only way is to be cold and firm.
    Should I ignore him, should I block him, should I continuously try to explain the same thing like a broken record? Why can’t he be a mature man and just move on too..
    Smh🤦🏻‍♀️ breaking up sucks, especially when you care about someone who you have to let go of due to incompatibility.

    • @nicolegio9173
      @nicolegio9173 3 года назад +3

      Yes, in my opinion you need to move on. Maybe he is just comfortable or afraid of being alone but it sounds like he doesn't want to stay for the right reasons. Is he telling you and SHOWING you how he will change. But, then again you can't change incompatibility.

    • @PennyJackson123
      @PennyJackson123 3 года назад +2

      @@nicolegio9173 He says the words I want to hear, but he is just very comfortable giving very little and investing even less into the relationship. This has always been the case. Whenever I would express my needs he would say “that’s something teenagers do, I don’t care about those things” and that was in relation to me wanting to video call or send more selfies of each other. Just asking to include each other more in our separate lives would be dismissed and referred to as unnecessary.
      He clearly states that he is content and satisfied this way, whereas I am in the lacking and desire more. More connection, more time together, more communication, more interest.
      When I do say I want to leave, he begs for some days and is completely desperate, and when I give an inch of myself he starts threatening me, as he sees my wish to end things as me wronging him and hurting him.
      It is tiring. He claims he is capable but he shows the opposite. The other day he claimed he had an emergency and promised me to further elaborate after breakfast. He stalled for 13 hours leaving me in the dark about what had taken place. I reminded him once, and he still failed to follow through on his promise to further elaborate.
      This is our communication issues in a nutshell. He says he will do XYZ and leaves me in the dark, waiting, expecting, getting anxious, and disappointed. This is truly the main reason we are incompatible in my opinion. The biggest issue I have is being left in the dark and not being informed about changes that are affecting me too. If he would just communicate clearly then I would not feel so awful, and this has been explained over and over again like a broken record.
      Every time he has promised changes and better communication, but he does not follow through. I said I would move on, and he did not even respond. 4 days later I had moved on, and then he got upset that I did not wait for a response as he claimed he had “thought about a response and would provide his response eventually”
      Again with the lack of communication. How would I know what he thinks unless he communicates that? How do I know if he changed his mind unless he communicates that?
      It would have worked out if the communication part was solid, but some people are just incapable of being in a relationship with another person.

    • @jordanunknown5128
      @jordanunknown5128 3 года назад +1

      @@PennyJackson123 Hello Otilia, I just read through your comment and realised this is the exact situation I am in however in reverse as I am the male. Literally everything you said I can relate to and it just breaks down trust. She doesn’t see this and when I convey what I want to see it’s not met. It’s completely one sided and I’m fed up of feeling used. We had planned a week away last week however poor communication from her part and then made up excuses as to why she didn’t get back to me. Been like this for months and today I finally cut things off. Everything in this video I can relate to it’s crazy.
      I wondered how you are getting on 2 months later, how are things?

    • @PennyJackson123
      @PennyJackson123 3 года назад +2

      @@jordanunknown5128 Hey. I am sorry to hear that. Good on you for placing a boundary and choosing yourself and your own well being.
      2 years and 7 months, and things are getting better now. He is still not following up on things he says he will do, but it is definitely not with intention. He spaces out and forgets, and as much as it used to disappoint me, I have started to accept that part of him.
      He is a forgetful person, that’s for sure.
      He has been giving more of himself, but I was looking at the wrong things. Instead of appreciating and acknowledging that he is more open and more transparent with me, I kept focusing on his forgetfulness.
      When I look at the overall picture I see that he is trying and he is not doing all that bad. And I have started placing my own boundaries too, and that helps me to feel better in my own skin.
      I have decided to stay with him. Just the fact that we stayed together for this long and still are highly devoted to each other and our future together, validates me a lot and I feel secure from that fact alone.
      I want to see where it all leads us. And if things don’t go the way we want, then I will choose solitude for a while. Being okay alone is a great skill. Being able to be content and comfortable without a partner.
      Good luck to you, and good job on the boundary placement!

    • @jordanunknown5128
      @jordanunknown5128 3 года назад +1

      @@PennyJackson123 Thank you for your reply and kind words, you’re right it’s essential I feel to show that you respect yourself and won’t let it run or they will continue to take the p*ss!
      I am glad to hear that you are still together and seem to be in a better place of understanding with your partner and you have planned a future together as I feel having the same direction is crucial!
      I hope that all goes well and you continue to grow together!!! In my case I feel we are done, especially at this current stage however like you said “see where it leads us” but you’re right being okay alone is a great skill I will remaster before another relationship 👌🏾

  • @LifeNavigation
    @LifeNavigation 4 года назад +32

    So many options now with internet dating, people don't have or want to do the hard work to make relationships work

  • @achanyialemnji8240
    @achanyialemnji8240 3 года назад +18

    Not everyone trying to explain themselves are justifying what they did. Normalise giving people the chance to explain themselves. They may be wrong but the intention wasn't. I could stain your shirt but if you give me a chance, you'll notice I was tryna dust an insect of it without knowing my hands were stained. Its ok to be angry but patient anger is love💗💗💗

  • @jamiehieronimus365
    @jamiehieronimus365 Год назад

    This is so amazing to me because I wondered if anyone ever knitted with the needle pointing up? I also found that it speeded up my knitting as well. So glad to see I'm not doing it wrong.

  • @bettermanchannel770
    @bettermanchannel770 4 года назад +6

    The person is not adhering to your standards...never surrender your direction for less than

  • @Mothana808
    @Mothana808 4 года назад +17

    Boys and girls, dont settle with bullshit instead of happines ! You should live this life with respectable caring loving partner this is a should

  • @scottcavill4807
    @scottcavill4807 4 года назад +20

    All the signs were there, but I was blind with love.

  • @KpopR9
    @KpopR9 2 года назад +2

    Watching this as I've never been in a relationship and have no idea why couples break up.

  • @trueone3093
    @trueone3093 2 года назад +3

    My girl was so distant cold hearted for pass 3 months. After our trip she broke up with me. I seen it coming but man I’m still crush

  • @Tarantulisimo
    @Tarantulisimo Год назад +1

    every relationship on earth is probably experiencing at least 25% of these at any given time -- I guess if you reach a sustained 50%, then it's time to stop the madness

  • @Basillic
    @Basillic 3 года назад +10

    #4 is a big one for me, i already had my doubts the first month and kept procrastinating breaking up with her for several months cause iwanted to give her a chance instead of feeling ike i judged her to early.
    Was a good instinct i had that i ignored, several months later i dumped her after she did something really bad which i could sue her for (defamation, alongside stalking and theft shortly after). Waiting several months made the break up hurt much more than it should have

    • @rihannabill5733
      @rihannabill5733 3 года назад

      My dear, do you need help?

    • @rihannabill5733
      @rihannabill5733 3 года назад

      There's is a powerful spiritual man that helped me when my husband left me with the kids and disappeared, he made him come back to me just within 24hours of contacting him

    • @rihannabill5733
      @rihannabill5733 3 года назад

      +2348073359108

    • @rihannabill5733
      @rihannabill5733 3 года назад

      His name is Dr Oseguale, write him on wtzp for help.

  • @xXJade_AssassinXx
    @xXJade_AssassinXx 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for this. I couldnt put it right in words, but sinking ship was the one.

  • @ancisuyo8056
    @ancisuyo8056 4 года назад +8

    So true. So draining....

  • @yumicassandra9028
    @yumicassandra9028 Год назад +1

    9 out of 10 happens . I know this is the last for us . She change but here i am still stuck and hoping we can go back like how we used to be before . We not in the same page anymore

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 3 года назад +14

    Interesting I'm coming across this vid when I have been questioning my relationship lately

  • @markbowman5515
    @markbowman5515 Год назад +2

    Incredibly upbeat narration for such a grim subject...but good info

  • @vipetai4201
    @vipetai4201 4 года назад +10

    Thank you it was soo helpful and we break up and am single again

  • @CENA896
    @CENA896 3 года назад +1

    She doesn't even want me to have a social life or even let me bring my daughter around my family only cares if I work work work I need a break to tough times but maybe its best to move forward glad I seen this video coming

  • @ChattyCheugy
    @ChattyCheugy 2 года назад +3

    Sometimes things get hard so you look these videos up and run with it. But if you both develop good relationship skills you can make almost any relationship work

  • @damiendawn567
    @damiendawn567 2 года назад

    Just go do it bro...u may feel bad the first couple days but everything will be okay after

  • @AokoFgo1
    @AokoFgo1 4 года назад +19

    I'm glad i never had relationships.

    • @mz.necie1976
      @mz.necie1976 3 года назад +1

      WOW🙄

    • @furywild9576
      @furywild9576 3 года назад +1

      Lucky guy

    • @aryancyrus8076
      @aryancyrus8076 3 года назад

      Much better really ,

    • @Imjustspeakingmymind
      @Imjustspeakingmymind 3 года назад

      Same and I don't even believe in love or "true love" I don't think it's real I think it's jus a word but yea I agree

  • @DMLWSHR
    @DMLWSHR 2 года назад +1

    My lover and I havent been quite good nowadays. He’s sexist, racist and homophobic. He also keeps making heart breaking jokes about my weight. He keeps telling me “Noone loves me, Im forgotten, you dont care for me” and stuff. He first treats me like shit, then gets mad at me for not wanting sexual stuff with him, and later he thinks that I wont be mad at him and tries to hug me or kiss me. He forces me to tell him whats wrong when Im in a bad mood, he brings up my rape experience when I dont want to do sexual stuff with him and says “But you did it with HIM, why not do it with me?”. He doesnt even believe the rape situation and thinks that Im lying for attention. And yet I cant break up with him.

  • @jolinkhun2272
    @jolinkhun2272 2 года назад +3

    Deep down I really want to break up with my current fiancé, but I’m so scared of the consequences. I live with his family, which make the situation worse. He is still a mama boy, so I don’t think I could handle this situation anymore. I’m so sad and upset with everything right now

    • @farhanlobo2698
      @farhanlobo2698 2 года назад

      I have been suspecting my girlfriend has been doing something with another man , and so after taking a service from SOLUTIONCOMPLAINT on Instagram truely you are God sent. ...my thoughts were turned out to be true.Thanks so much for that proof.

    • @deepamamtora6109
      @deepamamtora6109 2 года назад

      Did u ?

  • @bethannalou
    @bethannalou 4 года назад +17

    So funny this comes out the day I end things.

  • @Thirst4livingwater
    @Thirst4livingwater Год назад

    She is the most amazing person, the most loving, the most caring person ...but we just weren't meant to be 😞😞
    This video gives me confidence we did the right thing

  • @chahathasija4414
    @chahathasija4414 3 года назад +3

    Defending oneself by criticising the another, ah I can't 🥺

  • @ChrisyClass-zp2yh
    @ChrisyClass-zp2yh Год назад +1

    Ok goodbye thanks for the songs x

  • @mrkeitt
    @mrkeitt 3 года назад +16

    Wow. One of the most spot on videos I've seen in relation to relationships. Welp, I guess me and my fiancee won't be getting married.

    • @dodolo6498
      @dodolo6498 3 года назад

      wow love spell works i got my ex back

    • @dodolo6498
      @dodolo6498 3 года назад

      a spell caster from casifonia helped me cast a love spell to return my lover

    • @dodolo6498
      @dodolo6498 3 года назад

      she can also bring back your ex lover

    • @victorvictor3554
      @victorvictor3554 3 года назад

      I want to use this opportunity to testify to the world how Dr.victor help me out to bring back my ex husband after 3years breakup i tried to so many places but it seems that am wasting my time till one of my friend introduce me to this spiritual Doctor within 2 days he was the one that is calling me on phone begging for our reconciliation. Thank God i meet a great spiritual man like Dr.victor

    • @victorvictor3554
      @victorvictor3554 3 года назад

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  • @BMLR1970
    @BMLR1970 2 года назад +2

    My relationship as we speak!!

  • @Marc-pg7gb
    @Marc-pg7gb 3 года назад +8

    And there’s me... watching this Video while im not even in a Relationship :)

    • @mz.necie1976
      @mz.necie1976 2 года назад

      😳That’s the BEST way to be!!!!FR

  • @ricosurvillion
    @ricosurvillion 2 года назад +1

    These were all true. Thank God i ended it. I feel at peace now.

  • @e.manuel
    @e.manuel 3 года назад +15

    I’m going exactly through all of this in my relationship. We are talking about splitting up. We’ve been together for 7 years now. Any tips on how to overcome the breakup and not feel miserable?

    • @victorvictor3554
      @victorvictor3554 3 года назад

      I want to use this opportunity to testify to the world how Dr.victor help me out to bring back my ex husband after 3years breakup i tried to so many places but it seems that am wasting my time till one of my friend introduce me to this spiritual Doctor within 2 days he was the one that is calling me on phone begging for our reconciliation. Thank God i meet a great spiritual man like Dr.victor

    • @victorvictor3554
      @victorvictor3554 3 года назад +1

      You can contact him with he's number on WhatApp

    • @victorvictor3554
      @victorvictor3554 3 года назад

      +2,3,4,8,0,7,8,6,9,6,3,9,0,,,,,,

    • @elvesbrahh4129
      @elvesbrahh4129 3 года назад +1

      How you doing? Think I'm about to be in the same boat lol

    • @renztaylor5904
      @renztaylor5904 3 года назад +6

      I’m there too 7yrs nothing. God it hurts😭😢

  • @nickyseccia3478
    @nickyseccia3478 2 года назад +1

    I have bipolar disorder and my strongest belief to cure yourself of bipolar disorder is to never get married relationship or never do sex because the drama of thoughts and emotions degreenesses is always the biggest trigger of many and most bipolar relapses. You must really cultivate your mind to always know yourself from always being with yourself most from your most alone mind

  • @ugbaadma9279
    @ugbaadma9279 3 года назад +14

    but i can't stop crying !

    • @pinkfluffyunicorn1228
      @pinkfluffyunicorn1228 3 года назад

      How are you doing now, I'm going to move out for once and for all it already hurts...

  • @longlivedabosslady7420
    @longlivedabosslady7420 3 года назад +1

    Once a month. The relationship is a yo yo and hills and valleys. He thinks large sums of money will appear on my bank account magically. He’s toxic and always criticize me and degrade my past..

  • @cheefechef7589
    @cheefechef7589 4 года назад +3

    I don't have any girlfriend but I still watch this video

  • @DalilaJones
    @DalilaJones Год назад +1

    Yeap I agree from the time we search for them.means it's over

  • @gmoors89
    @gmoors89 3 года назад +5

    I played this out loud for him to hear. Time to go

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

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      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

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      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

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  • @laurasalmond2794
    @laurasalmond2794 3 года назад +1

    36 married but it's time to end. Very scared and heartbroken too. I wish things were different. :(

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

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      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

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  • @valeriewalker5831
    @valeriewalker5831 3 года назад +17

    Almost all of the signs are about us, both me and him are at fault, but why can’t we just end it? We’ve been separated for a year and we’re still sort of together. We care about each other a lot , but we’re so toxic together

    • @robotmark7558
      @robotmark7558 3 года назад

      I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without stress and delay

    • @robotmark7558
      @robotmark7558 3 года назад

      Text him on whatsap

    • @robotmark7558
      @robotmark7558 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 7 0 4 5 9 8 3 7 6 0.

    • @rodneynahwegezhic8598
      @rodneynahwegezhic8598 3 года назад

      Send me an email

    • @man_of_lawlessness
      @man_of_lawlessness 2 года назад

      @@rodneynahwegezhic8598 Control yourself

  • @fanssywd5522
    @fanssywd5522 3 года назад +2

    Thanks for the video...
    I don't like the eye contact since the beginning but it had nothing to do with what you explained.
    Some people just don't like it.

  • @safeeffective385
    @safeeffective385 4 года назад +3

    TopStink has all the answers, but no solutions.

  • @pamjones247
    @pamjones247 6 месяцев назад

    You are so right, blame for everything, puts everyone down. They are the only one that is right! I call them fence rider , they want to see what side you are on then start argument why you are wrong!!!!! And they are right

  • @lifewithme602
    @lifewithme602 3 года назад +7

    I feel so depressed and not myself around him when we’re together we have nothing to talk about it’s just the same routine for 3 years

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

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      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

      Send him a text message on Whatsapp 💓

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      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

      +2 3 4 7 0 3 0 8 9 4 8 9 2.

    • @ericich.5769
      @ericich.5769 3 года назад

      On the same boat ...I feel sick aswell

    • @Mockduck2020
      @Mockduck2020 2 года назад

      So what’s the point of staying together?

  • @jjagwedennis6683
    @jjagwedennis6683 4 года назад +2

    I just came here to break up with my bad habits, wish me luck.

  • @illegallogic3132
    @illegallogic3132 4 года назад +10

    this makes me happy... realizing that my relationship is fine.

  • @youtuber3328
    @youtuber3328 3 года назад

    at 1:20 every bit of me appreciates your COMPLETE honesty seriously period no questions asked AT ALL

  • @cincinatus90
    @cincinatus90 2 года назад +3

    I have been using my girlfriend for years for money while I stay at home and do nothing. I always promise to do things like clean the house, get my license back, get a job but then I don't do anything. I watch her cry about it and think, wow what an idiot she is for believing I would ever do something good for her.

    • @gkauto1959
      @gkauto1959 5 месяцев назад

      Ive seen guys like you all my life, "men" that live off women, too lazy to get out there and make it by themselves so they climb onto someone else and use them until they have nothing else to give, then they dump them. Real hero, arent you? And yet there are thousands of guys just like you all through out this country, preying on women's emotions and using them , its like you have no self respect for what you can do on your own, but you will readily use another. But no worries, there is always Karma, and somebody just as wicked as you will come and deal you that way too. And nobody will come and help!

  • @mortalkomment8028
    @mortalkomment8028 3 года назад +2

    Being single is a good thing nowadays. Just don't be without support!

  • @debbeeright7729
    @debbeeright7729 2 года назад +3

    Thanks!Top Think 👍For another informative video.☺️

  • @Roxi.Content
    @Roxi.Content 8 месяцев назад +1

    I broke up with him today.!..

  • @hhyuugo8765
    @hhyuugo8765 3 года назад +6

    I’m in all of these relationships and I’ve dated my girl for 2 years...

    • @victorvictor3554
      @victorvictor3554 3 года назад

      I want to use this opportunity to testify to the world how Dr.victor help me out to bring back my ex husband after 3years breakup i tried to so many places but it seems that am wasting my time till one of my friend introduce me to this spiritual Doctor within 2 days he was the one that is calling me on phone begging for our reconciliation. Thank God i meet a great spiritual man like Dr.victor

    • @victorvictor3554
      @victorvictor3554 3 года назад

      You can contact him with he's number on WhatApp

    • @victorvictor3554
      @victorvictor3554 3 года назад

      +2,3,4,8,0,7,8,6,9,6,3,9,0,,,,,,

  • @jasonmark6942
    @jasonmark6942 2 года назад

    I Know it's time too break up but I know that we can talk things over and just be straight and honest towards ourselves

  • @lily-mayjohnson6132
    @lily-mayjohnson6132 3 года назад +10

    I just recently broke up with my boyfriend and I’m happy that I’ve done it because I started to loose feelings for him but also I’m bisexual and figured out a have a preference to girls than I do guys so I just had to end it and I got the most bull shit response ever like I spent 10 mins texting out a whole entire paragraph trying to make sure I wasn’t hurting him and the response I got was “ok goodbye”
    That’s all like wtf I didn’t say anything back I just deleted his number and everything I had of him but now i regret not saying anything back to him cuz now I feel like he never cared about me at all 😭😭😭 like ugh I hate him so much
    Btw I’m sorry about ranting I just had to get that off my chest

    • @averyaubrey6944
      @averyaubrey6944 3 года назад

      Hello dear, there are a lot of ways and chances to get your ex back if you truly want them back.

    • @averyaubrey6944
      @averyaubrey6944 3 года назад

      I got my ex husband back through the help of a love specialist

    • @averyaubrey6944
      @averyaubrey6944 3 года назад

      The love specialist can help you get your ex back just the way he helped me.

    • @averyaubrey6944
      @averyaubrey6944 3 года назад

      Contact or text me on Whatsapp or Signal so I could tell you more about how he helped me

    • @averyaubrey6944
      @averyaubrey6944 3 года назад

      +12049006139⏯⏭⏯

  • @Coyote-wm5op
    @Coyote-wm5op 3 года назад +1

    Broke up today. Nothing to fight about. Every single one of these. I get blamed for everything and she’s always in a bad mood. Never content, always spending and buying more junk.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

      I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

      Send him a message on Whatsapp 💕

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 3 года назад

      +2347030894892.

  • @christianbenn316
    @christianbenn316 3 года назад +5

    Toxic signs like that in relationships are big red flags & nobody should tolerate such nonsense like that when you have a low value person who has no qualities or ambition those are also red flags so get out.

  • @chuckchizzle
    @chuckchizzle 2 года назад

    When my girl went to Florida with her daughters, I was very happy alone…was happy when the flight got delayed and wasn’t really excited when they got back…she invited me to go but I was looking forward to her NOT being around.
    It was obvious I wasn’t happy

  • @ginikafaith8512
    @ginikafaith8512 3 года назад +15

    How can I over come heartbroke? My heart is really bleeding and I can't think straight

    • @goodvibes7935
      @goodvibes7935 3 года назад +1

      Did you get better yet?

    • @jafhio2284
      @jafhio2284 3 года назад +1

      Been there.but i finally moved on

    • @ginikafaith8512
      @ginikafaith8512 3 года назад

      @@goodvibes7935 yes.. I tried to put my mind in other things