Arey bhai sahab koi aesa jamana bataiye jab parents khul ke apni aulaad ko sab disclose karte thaey. Mere dada ko 40 ki umar mein pata chala tha ki hum itne gareeb nahi hain. Shock laga. Mere papa ko bhi post office ki FDs ke baare mein dada ke antim samay mein pata chala. Papa ko apne baap ke marne ka dukh nahi tha, kyunki FDs hone ki aur saare kaagaz papa ko mil jaane ki khushi itni thi. Mereko bhi apne papa ki bas property ke baare mein pata hai, kyunki market rate toh mereko maalum hai, lekin aur kya assets hain. Mereko kuch bhi maalum nahi aur chhup chhup ke darwaza band karke papers wala suit case kholte hain. Bahar se mereko suit case khulne ki aur band hone ki awaaz aati hai. Kayi baari baahar se dekha hai suit case kaisa dikhta hai. Uske andar kya hai mujhe nahi pata.
One more thing, , ज्यादातर बुजुर्ग लोग कान के कच्चे होते हैं अपने बेटे और पोतों की बात कम सुनते हैं और यार दोस्त या पड़ोसी या रिश्तेदार की ज्यादा बात मानते हैं कोई बेटा या पोता अगर गलती से किसी संपत्ति का बंटवारा की चर्चा भी करता है शातिर चालाक और लालची समझा जाता है।
Sir. I agree with you but please let me know that should we give away all our property to our married sons. Or should we make a will so that after our death they get it
Mera ek example hai. Family me ek doctor the wo 82 sal me umar me expire ho gaye. wo city ke bahut bare doctor the beta papa ke status se niche tha aaj ke bhasa me simple civil engineer jo daddy se kafi kam kamata hai (hum ye nahi bol rahe ki civil engineer job achcha nahi hai hum to khud ek engineer hai). doctor saheb kabhi beta ko ek futi kauri nahi diye (wo to ghus nahi diye taki government job mil jaye 1989 me)or unake marane par ab beta village ka property bech raha hai ye kam to unake zindagi me bhi so sakta tha single male child or few daughters sari beti ka status bete ke kafi age sare damad non donation doctors or city ke famous doctor. Agar aap beta se aamir hai to beta ka jarur help kijiye. or agar beta apane papa se age nikal gaya to or bhi problem.
Really appreciated the content. Luckily I am one of the few to have that kind of understanding family but I see people in my surrounding struggling with these issues.
Families having properties in which everyone is having ownership in it. So it become very difficult to value it and distribute. Also there are issues of status quo mind sent of some members. Also the stamp duty income tax and other law issues are there. How to resolve these issues. It is prevailing in all over Indi.
Nice , pls also cover if there is no such present issue as inheritance but still one wants to keep things easy going for future generations...how to plan inheritance
Sir,please do consider this point in your next sequel video- beta bahu dono well settled h…achi jagah pr property lena chahte h….lekin jo inheritance wali property h vo papa k jane k baad mummy ne khud le rkhi h …..she is not ready to give….same point….marne k baad tumhari hi hogi lekin abhi ni kahi tum meri sewa na kro ….aur vo h bhi gaon mein jiski abhi koi value nahi h to tb inheritance property ka best use kaise kiya ja skta h??
Such a common theme sir. I have a strong hunch that lot of 60+ parents have gone more into this victim mindset by seeing Baghban. Every parent is recognising himself with Amitabh Bacchan and thinking their kids out to usurp their property
Your opinion is good but I think in Indian situations where we r not getting good facilities from government so we hv to rely upon our own money.If we will sell assets and children will loose all money so what will be assurance of survival as nowadays moneyless person is total neglected by their own child also.A middle class person hv generally a flat or two and a bit farmland and some gold so it's easy to say but hard to implement.
in this kalyug old people will have respect attention if they have assets and liquidity in their names..this will protect them from ill times..also the leftover assets can be security of children in their bad times..children to be happy must be taught yog not bhog..the person whose needs are less with average income is richer happier than an arabpati whose desires are endless..finally..life is simple but people make it difficult by increased desires..YOG should be the aim. It is simple to be happy but difficult to be simple.
Mummy humesha taana deti h ki beti property chord kr gyi h ehsaan maano uska…behn ka krte bhi h pr unko taane bhi dene h ki property chord kr gyi h to acha khaasa krna bhi pdega uska…..meri mummy aur wife ki nahi banti isliye mummy ko h ki bahu k pas na jaakr sara beti ko du
Same same….khoon jalana beta bahu ka hai….or karenge sab kuch beti ka Mere 1 saal k baby ko in laws ne ek achi dress ni lake di….or beti k liye sab kuch hai…they are rich enough Mujhe or mere husband ko ghar se nikal diya because we were questioning this unfair deal…. Ab Kya kare hume samaj ni aata….inki bimari me hum help nhi krenge to bhi duniya hume hi galat khegi….inki partiality kisi ko dikhti nhi
Honestly, I don't feel like even thinking of having any rights on my father's or in-laws property. I earn well and by god's grace will be able to make it better with time. Whenever I will get any property due to law etc. I will takr an investment decision and will pass that money to my kid on regular basis or to my own parents if they do so while they are alive. No matter what sango sir say here. But I just don't feel connected to the money/property that is not earned by myself. My husband's feelings are same on this matter. I have seen so many children fighting with their parents on this. In my view, they all are useless and have no talent of their own to have any success in life. They spend their school/college life by wasting all their time, and jab kuch ban nahi paate and dhang ki job nahi lagti to parents ko blame karte hain ki unhone apne bacchon ke liye kuch nahi kiya
Bro, I would like to share my personal opinion. There are hundreds of lenders including all major banks which are desperate to offer loans to people with decent credit history. The interest rates are not more than 12%, which means around 1% per month. Banks are very serious players in the business of lending money, so if your friend isn't qualified to take a bank loan, I think you should avoid giving him a loan too. There is a French proverb: He who lends to a friend loses twice.
My husband r 5 brothers .The eldest cheated all the 4 brothers of their rights and put all the property in his daughters name ,and became the executioner of will , and cheated all father's money too.He was the first person to leave the house in 19 83. Since I did not leave the house we were given a 2 room flat only when the garden house was on 18 and a half quattas. The other 3 brothers were deprived just because they stayed out of country. All this happened because my father in law did not discuss inheritance even after his property was inherited from his Grandfather's. I am the wife of the 3rd son and 62 years old now .Hope we knew things about inheritance and our rights and discussed it with our father in law before so that He , his wife and rightful heirs were not deprived or cheated..🙏❤️
Mere saas ki desires hi nahi end ho rahi sab bachhon ko Khali kar diya ilaz ke nam per Ghar bada bananai ke bhanai kya karei meri sas ko koi taqlif nahi hai 70 above hai kya Kari rambharose hai hum sab kuchh bole to ladnei ko ati hai kya kare koi bolta hi nahi hai
Now a days old parents don't want to disclose their property or related documents to their children they think children have eye on their property
Yes
Yes, You are right.
This is so shameful.
Bagban movie effect and the there are many such cases of bad children
Arey bhai sahab koi aesa jamana bataiye jab parents khul ke apni aulaad ko sab disclose karte thaey.
Mere dada ko 40 ki umar mein pata chala tha ki hum itne gareeb nahi hain. Shock laga. Mere papa ko bhi post office ki FDs ke baare mein dada ke antim samay mein pata chala. Papa ko apne baap ke marne ka dukh nahi tha, kyunki FDs hone ki aur saare kaagaz papa ko mil jaane ki khushi itni thi. Mereko bhi apne papa ki bas property ke baare mein pata hai, kyunki market rate toh mereko maalum hai, lekin aur kya assets hain. Mereko kuch bhi maalum nahi aur chhup chhup ke darwaza band karke papers wala suit case kholte hain. Bahar se mereko suit case khulne ki aur band hone ki awaaz aati hai. Kayi baari baahar se dekha hai suit case kaisa dikhta hai. Uske andar kya hai mujhe nahi pata.
😂@@Clarityinlife335
One more thing, , ज्यादातर बुजुर्ग लोग कान के कच्चे होते हैं अपने बेटे और पोतों की बात कम सुनते हैं और यार दोस्त या पड़ोसी या रिश्तेदार की ज्यादा बात मानते हैं कोई बेटा या पोता अगर गलती से किसी संपत्ति का बंटवारा की चर्चा भी करता है शातिर चालाक और लालची समझा जाता है।
Sir. I agree with you but please let me know that should we give away all our property to our married sons. Or should we make a will so that after our death they get it
Ekdum sahi
Shi bol rhe ho👍
Apne bache jisa kou nhi ho skta
If u don't give to your children ,they will be bitter even after your death .
N.g.o vaale bhi aapki foolishness pr hsenge.
Kitna bevkoof banaya aapko.
Sir,
Respect, respect and respect for you. Takes lot of strength and open mind to talk on these issues much prevalent in today's time.
Mera ek example hai. Family me ek doctor the wo 82 sal me umar me expire ho gaye. wo city ke bahut bare doctor the beta papa ke status se niche tha aaj ke bhasa me simple civil engineer jo daddy se kafi kam kamata hai (hum ye nahi bol rahe ki civil engineer job achcha nahi hai hum to khud ek engineer hai). doctor saheb kabhi beta ko ek futi kauri nahi diye (wo to ghus nahi diye taki government job mil jaye 1989 me)or unake marane par ab beta village ka property bech raha hai ye kam to unake zindagi me bhi so sakta tha single male child or few daughters sari beti ka status bete ke kafi age sare damad non donation doctors or city ke famous doctor. Agar aap beta se aamir hai to beta ka jarur help kijiye. or agar beta apane papa se age nikal gaya to or bhi problem.
Please make a sequel. It is one of the most sensitive topics to talk about without being taken wrong or greedy.
Im 62 years old, but I really enjoyed. It’s pretty hilarious but so true. Great insight.
Most sensitive topic to discuss with parents,
Topic nicely 🙂 taken up
Really appreciated the content. Luckily I am one of the few to have that kind of understanding family but I see people in my surrounding struggling with these issues.
Aatank macha dia sir aap ne
Gyan se raste khul jaate Hain
Families having properties in which everyone is having ownership in it. So it become very difficult to value it and distribute. Also there are issues of status quo mind sent of some members. Also the stamp duty income tax and other law issues are there. How to resolve these issues. It is prevailing in all over Indi.
U have a very pragmatic person who has met and known many person.
Superb! I love your explanation with humour & reality.
we say "jab daant hai to akhorot nanhin and jab akroht hai to daant nahi".
Superb video. This is real practical topic of present situation. Please make part 2. 🙏 🙏🙏
Brilliant explanation! i wish old generation can understand this
कभी-कभी बच्चे दगा दे देते हैं इसका डर पैरंट्स को सदैव रहता है.
wealth must have to flow otherwise it will become poison.
Please make sequel. Thank you for great subject and info!
Reality of life with nice comedy, very touching, keep going Amitji. Thanku
Nice , pls also cover if there is no such present issue as inheritance but still one wants to keep things easy going for future generations...how to plan inheritance
U really practical and revolutionary like osho it's really deep
Sir...aap kya bolte Hain.... really maja aata hai aapko sunne Mai... reality dikha dete hai aap ...
Sir…foreign me bethe students ab India Ki property ko käse effectively use kr skate he?
Its BETTER to live intensely and don't go until 70 80
Thankyou so much for guidance.
Very deep video...
pranam guruji....aap aise videos laate rehna,,,,apke saare videos mentamodel hi h...NEED SQUEL PLS
Very nice video!! Very thankful to you sir for this video !!
Excellent video, thanks for creating this.
Sir,please do consider this point in your next sequel video- beta bahu dono well settled h…achi jagah pr property lena chahte h….lekin jo inheritance wali property h vo papa k jane k baad mummy ne khud le rkhi h …..she is not ready to give….same point….marne k baad tumhari hi hogi lekin abhi ni kahi tum meri sewa na kro ….aur vo h bhi gaon mein jiski abhi koi value nahi h to tb inheritance property ka best use kaise kiya ja skta h??
Such a common theme sir. I have a strong hunch that lot of 60+ parents have gone more into this victim mindset by seeing Baghban. Every parent is recognising himself with Amitabh Bacchan and thinking their kids out to usurp their property
True
Absolutely right sir
S sequel chaahiye.
Two daughters.
Both married.
Perhaps All scenarios.
And one female eldest, next one male elder and then another male youngest!
Dada should take sanyas instead of grabbing assets, or should should help family by selling little bit
Jabardast as always
Sir, please create a video on the concept- The best possible education in India.
Bhut bdia knowledge
Sequel🔥🔥🔥🔥
Your opinion is good but I think in Indian situations where we r not getting good facilities from government so we hv to rely upon our own money.If we will sell assets and children will loose all money so what will be assurance of survival as nowadays moneyless person is total neglected by their own child also.A middle class person hv generally a flat or two and a bit farmland and some gold so it's easy to say but hard to implement.
Aajkal 70 cross karna hii mushkil ho raha hai. 90 tak kaun jayega, hardly 1-2%
in this kalyug old people will have respect attention if they have assets and liquidity in their names..this will protect them from ill times..also the leftover assets can be security of children in their bad times..children to be happy must be taught yog not bhog..the person whose needs are less with average income is richer happier than an arabpati whose desires are endless..finally..life is simple but people make it difficult by increased desires..YOG should be the aim. It is simple to be happy but difficult to be simple.
V rght,God bless you🙏
Your parents must be proud of you
Best vidoe🙏
S s s s s
Buddho ko bhi bol lo tab YOG karne ke liye.
Hadd hai yaar. Young couples ko zarurat hoti hai bhai support ki. Property ki
Mummy humesha taana deti h ki beti property chord kr gyi h ehsaan maano uska…behn ka krte bhi h pr unko taane bhi dene h ki property chord kr gyi h to acha khaasa krna bhi pdega uska…..meri mummy aur wife ki nahi banti isliye mummy ko h ki bahu k pas na jaakr sara beti ko du
Same same….khoon jalana beta bahu ka hai….or karenge sab kuch beti ka
Mere 1 saal k baby ko in laws ne ek achi dress ni lake di….or beti k liye sab kuch hai…they are rich enough
Mujhe or mere husband ko ghar se nikal diya because we were questioning this unfair deal….
Ab Kya kare hume samaj ni aata….inki bimari me hum help nhi krenge to bhi duniya hume hi galat khegi….inki partiality kisi ko dikhti nhi
Bhai makhan lagao mummy ko, ancestor property aise ni de sakte kisi ek ko bhi, you should consult lawyer , bhen ki saas ko bhi aise kare toh 😅
Very nice
True reality
Sequel needed. It's really interesting and eye opening
Honestly, I don't feel like even thinking of having any rights on my father's or in-laws property. I earn well and by god's grace will be able to make it better with time. Whenever I will get any property due to law etc. I will takr an investment decision and will pass that money to my kid on regular basis or to my own parents if they do so while they are alive. No matter what sango sir say here. But I just don't feel connected to the money/property that is not earned by myself. My husband's feelings are same on this matter. I have seen so many children fighting with their parents on this. In my view, they all are useless and have no talent of their own to have any success in life. They spend their school/college life by wasting all their time, and jab kuch ban nahi paate and dhang ki job nahi lagti to parents ko blame karte hain ki unhone apne bacchon ke liye kuch nahi kiya
Yes waiting for them go
Wonderful and very true video
I m only 17 years old and i enjoyed after qatching this
सही गुरु जी पृणाम
Your all the videos are very informative
Please make sequel 🙏 you are a true social reformer
Excellent video. Very well explained.
Excellent video
Sequel please
Want part 2 👍🏿
💯💯💯👍👍
Great topic as ususal, Solution bhi bateye. Your every vlog is different and touching very important issues odlf our society.
Yes sir
Thank U sir, for ur videos.waiting for next videos.
Very informative
😊😊 good but inlaws are selfish they dont think of two sons equally they favourite is the youngest son even though he does nothing he is preveliged
so true
Sir please guide on friends asking money for starting business, whether to lend or not .
Bro, I would like to share my personal opinion. There are hundreds of lenders including all major banks which are desperate to offer loans to people with decent credit history. The interest rates are not more than 12%, which means around 1% per month.
Banks are very serious players in the business of lending money, so if your friend isn't qualified to take a bank loan, I think you should avoid giving him a loan too. There is a French proverb: He who lends to a friend loses twice.
Strict no.
No
@@AshishSingh-mz6pl No.
Very nice suggestions
Today's time parents can cheat there child also
My husband r 5 brothers .The eldest cheated all the 4 brothers of their rights and put all the property in his daughters name ,and became the executioner of will , and cheated all father's money too.He was the first person to leave the house in 19 83. Since I did not leave the house we were given a 2 room flat only when the garden house was on 18 and a half quattas. The other 3 brothers were deprived just because they stayed out of country. All this happened because my father in law did not discuss inheritance even after his property was inherited from his Grandfather's. I am the wife of the 3rd son and 62 years old now .Hope we knew things about inheritance and our rights and discussed it with our father in law before so that He , his wife and rightful heirs were not deprived or cheated..🙏❤️
Excellent
Great info, Sir
Best education doesn't exist in India. Kaha se Lena chahiye?
Thank you sir🙏🙏👍👍
Please do this social Reform
Very nice informative video sir
it is a issue. awareness is v important
S there is no problem but don't know what to do with the asset
sequel sir😇😇
Yes sequel video
Gajab
Yes make it
What to do with the bori wala paisa, if received more than 50% against sold asset in cr's
Sequel when ?
mast video hai
Mere saas ki desires hi nahi end ho rahi sab bachhon ko Khali kar diya ilaz ke nam per Ghar bada bananai ke bhanai kya karei meri sas ko koi taqlif nahi hai 70 above hai kya Kari rambharose hai hum sab kuchh bole to ladnei ko ati hai kya kare koi bolta hi nahi hai
S yes please make a sequel
Sequel pleaseeeeeeeee aur ego walay kya krein? jo parents se kuch lena nai chahtay?
Wonderful video 😊
Uncle g u r amazing ❤
Awesome Inc
Sequell required
Sir how to give the best education?......yeh video chiye.
S. 🙏
Sequel part 2 please ❤❤
Awesome 👌
True said marne k intzar nai blkay jeenay ki dua wale kaam hoon
Where is the second part of this video?
Sangwan ji, it means v should move to old age home after 65 or 70yrs
Yes. U shud definetely move to an old age home.
PRACTICAL ans. is Yes, EMOTIONAL ans. is No.
Go for sanyas, bhakti, meditation and leave home
❤
Part 2
We want sequel
Yes
How to make best use of village properties?
Same question...
Yes sir template for cashflow
PLEASE MAKE A SEQUEL FOR GIRL ONLY INHERITANCE !!