Then came back and said he isn’t a cheater because he knows the lord. These dudes, especially black are complete dubs, even more so among the “unicorn” and “educated lame”…and the gag is he has the nerve to be ugly as hell lmao
Hes not attractive to be having all these stipulations about what type of woman he wants. If he was a real Man Of GOD cheating wouldn't be in his mind... red flag all day 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
For someone who has a relationship with God, I wonder why he put so much emphasis on the material, he might want to take inventory and examine which god he serves. He also gives off the energy he would cheat on you and then ask you to prey with him about it. Oh I know the word is spelled pray but thats what I meant stay woke
I've dated yt men my entire life (Im a black woman). Let me tell you something. If he is saying you're beautiful. He is definitely interested. The thing is, yt men aren't as bold as black men, who might ask you directly. They tend to be more subtle, plus they've probably have heard the stereotype that black women are devoted to black men, so they aren't sure if they can ask you out- they're intimidated. HOWEVER, if he's already approaching you- you KNOW he likes you. Ashley is right, open up the conversation so he feels inspired to ask for your contact info. Be inviting. Don't let the conversation die at them calling you beautiful. Be super smiley, classy (you already are) and compliment him back. The more you do it, the easier it'll come..
The women that he wants are not checking for him, especially because he's a high school teacher in Florida. I just moved from Florida and the beautiful women there are very superficial and won't give him the time of day because of the salary. Now once he gets his law degree that he's working on, those women will flocked to him like bees to honey.
When they say God, ask them, " Which God?' If God is not Jesus, then there god is satan. Do you really want to get involved with a devil? If he is not in love with Christ, he cannot love you.
He sounds like the type of guy who will end up sending his whole check to someone in Nigeria because the person looked good. He’s too hung up on looks. If he’s a man of faith he may want to pray that he attracted to inner beauty.
A man who has a strong real relationship with God, doesn’t start with her needing to be physically attractive so he doesn’t cheat. His standards too high, he needs someone on his level. Why would an entrepreneur salon owner leave her business for you to go to law school?!! Make it make sense, he’s the problem!
🤦🏾♀️ Headphones on in the gym are NOT an indicator of not wanting to be bothered. Most people have them on to stay focused and keep the workout interesting. I used to multitask by listening to videos or audiobooks for grad school. If you’re polite (funny is even better) most women will give you a chance. Read the room though. Don’t tap her shoulder while she’s in the squat rack with 225 lbs on her back. Also, he’s hung up on looks. The character he desires doesn’t come in the physical body he wants. 🤷🏾♀️
@@chanelgriffith8161purrrr somebody finally pointing out the elephant in the room, promise the DUDES he’s ACTUALLY into don’t have to have half of those expectations he places on women. Ladies learn to spot these dudes and steer clear, all these guys are looking for is to use and abuse you.
That first guy too picky does he have a mirror to take a good look at himself instead?💀 them eyes probably too seperated to see😂 no reason to be that picky
I listened without reading the comments and I felt that everything he was asking for sounded level headed. This is the first guy that came up that didn’t sound crazy to me 😂
You would do good with what im about to say I feel! My love, men who don’t stare don’t like women firstly. Secondly, this is natural thing for them to admire women use this to your advantage! It won’t end so don’t stress it. Be “sincere” with your family, friends and babies!
He's picky & nitpicky...which most women are. Nitpicky is not a good thing. Like Im picky...but im not nitpicky about this or that. My picky is just being my type or close...be honest, have good communication skills and be a good considerate person. Simple! I'm not talking about you gotta do this or that or that...that's just extra stuff. I will get to know her and see if we're a good match. It's That Simple!
Zya; bc she has such a striking look - she should smile more- white men WILL talk to her… she has to counter the striking confidence with a “girly” attitude. Just smile.
He needs someone smarter than him. He needs someone who can calm him down. His ego is too much. He stated he wants a woman of God, but he’s not a man of God basically. I understand you have to be attractive to someone but he has a specific type. And that’s why he still single. He’s not willing to compromise in certain areas. If he found exactly what he’s looking for she probably wouldn’t give him a second thought.
Not my type (much too arrogant and negative) BUT he’s a 6ft attractive man who will (presumably) be a lawyer and is willing to provide. We have to recognize when ppl offer above average qualities. Those people can always demand/request more
oh my! the second gentleman sounds like he is terrified to enter a relationship. I got from him thay uf a woman is not everything he wants he will cheat on her. Why cant he just not cheat? Why does he not trust himself to be faithful that part i cant understand
This guy needs a mother figure….a robot built for him that will be perfect😂he can't see himself or hear himself. He can talk the talk but can't walk the walk he needs to grow up‼️ You are a child of God…then read your Bible carefully and you will find the right woman sent by God….keep praying son🙏
Idk why some women think its that easy to get a woman. Maybe if youre in ATL or Houston....where I hear its kinda easy for guys...and super hard for good women to get a decent man...especially ATL. But thats the same exact thing for good men looking for something real in NYC. I just went to this event just now. You can hardly talk to these women. Most ppl here gravitate to the smooth talking players. If I want some attention back from the opposite sex, I gotta go to a white bar. Facts! IJS So yeah, its been like that for a little min now. SMH 🤦♂️
Dating women more for their personality than their looks isn't as good an idea as it seems. At the end of the day women want to be craved physically. No matter how noble you decide to be as a man by minimizing the look aspects, she'll be insulted if she feels she isn't your physical type or there's some other girl out there you are more attracted to physically even though you prefer the full package of what she has to offer. As a man you're better off finding the girl you want packaged with the looks you desire.
Yeah... it's a double edged sword on this one. Men also want to be admired and sexually desired by their partners. From my perspective, as long as the person is average, I will be able to find physical attraction once I am exposed to what I want personality wise. Though, I can imagine that hurting my future partner if they were to ever figure out the truth. I guess I will just keep it to myself lol.
Yes Ash please say it lol he’s picky . And I understand his standards I think they are reasonable but it’s funny how God works he will sometimes send just the person you thought you wouldn’t fall for.
Because he has standard because he wants a woman of God that who cares about her body does not mean he’s picky that is not fair that you guys are going in on him like that..
@karendavis5988 Judging by your picture he wouldn’t piss on you if you were on fire so why are you caping? Get some self esteem and self respect boo, it will really help you see things more clearly.
What is he even talking about lmao I’m convinced he’s the type of man who loves to hear himself talk that’s why he can’t find anyone 😂. He lacks self awareness.
I hope the first guy finds his woman..good for him for taking a chance and asking for what he wants. Dont settle there are women out there who will fit the bill
“I want someone attractive so I won’t cheat” lmao. Just say you aren’t a man of integrity 😂💀
Clearly.
He thinks he's a smooth talker but a discerner will see right through him.
@@allthingsmia007 📌📌📌
Then came back and said he isn’t a cheater because he knows the lord. These dudes, especially black are complete dubs, even more so among the “unicorn” and “educated lame”…and the gag is he has the nerve to be ugly as hell lmao
Exactly
🔥🤣 Facts
His EGO is through the roof, and no woman wants to deal with him
He wants a “woman of God,” but not the ones that are in the church, because they’re “not attractive.” (???)
??????
😂 frfr
Have you seen the women in church? Most have let themselves go.
There are plenty of attractive women in the church. He sounds silly. 😜
@@jayscott5618 Not every church. And the few that are are taken already...at least thats how it is in NYC. Lol
Hes not attractive to be having all these stipulations about what type of woman he wants. If he was a real Man Of GOD cheating wouldn't be in his mind... red flag all day 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
He's single because no one want him ..,...Boom
He’s not about God. He knows those are the key words BW love to hear. A man about God is focused on the inside and not the superficial.
For someone who has a relationship with God, I wonder why he put so much emphasis on the material, he might want to take inventory and examine which god he serves. He also gives off the energy he would cheat on you and then ask you to prey with him about it. Oh I know the word is spelled pray but thats what I meant stay woke
💯 agree with all of this!
😂😂😂😂😂 love it
🎯
The first guy. You can tell he wasn't super popular in highschool lol. He will do well with a woman who doesn't speak English well.
Why you add that last part 😭
@@ChanChan-tv1wp😂😂😂😂
@ChanChan-tv1wp So she can mumble under her breath how dumb he sound and he won't understand it 😂
I've dated yt men my entire life (Im a black woman). Let me tell you something. If he is saying you're beautiful. He is definitely interested. The thing is, yt men aren't as bold as black men, who might ask you directly. They tend to be more subtle, plus they've probably have heard the stereotype that black women are devoted to black men, so they aren't sure if they can ask you out- they're intimidated.
HOWEVER, if he's already approaching you- you KNOW he likes you. Ashley is right, open up the conversation so he feels inspired to ask for your contact info. Be inviting. Don't let the conversation die at them calling you beautiful. Be super smiley, classy (you already are) and compliment him back. The more you do it, the easier it'll come..
The guy likes Ashley. That’s all he came for 😅
The women that he wants are not checking for him, especially because he's a high school teacher in Florida. I just moved from Florida and the beautiful women there are very superficial and won't give him the time of day because of the salary. Now once he gets his law degree that he's working on, those women will flocked to him like bees to honey.
The way he easily blurted out”if she’s not attractive I’ll cheat “ ????? If you’re a man of God that shouldn’t even be an option 💀 🚩
When they say God, ask them, " Which God?'
If God is not Jesus, then there god is satan.
Do you really want to get involved with a devil?
If he is not in love with Christ, he cannot love you.
Ash is right. There are women who fit his description. He needs to understand that what he describes as “picky,” is actually him turning off women.
Too picky as a high school teacher 😂 get who you can get you’re an average earner you get an average woman
So he wants an attractive woman so he won't cheat.... By his logic he must be ok with her cheating... I'm just saying
Lmao 😂
Damn 😂 Bars 🤣💯👍 it's the viciousness for me 🤣💯👍
He wants a woman of God so he can take advantage of her
Say it again for the ppl in the back!
He gave narc energy
He's annoying
Lol every woman comes on with that kind of energy.
I read this at 6:12 💀
He really thinks he’s rememberable and a catch. He really thinks he’s more attractive then what he is
Zya is gorgeous ❤
He sounds like the type of guy who will end up sending his whole check to someone in Nigeria because the person looked good. He’s too hung up on looks. If he’s a man of faith he may want to pray that he attracted to inner beauty.
Zya is BEAUTIFUL 😮😍
Yes, she is stunning.
Yesss
She looks unreal, especially those eyes ! 🤩
Yessssss
A man who has a strong real relationship with God, doesn’t start with her needing to be physically attractive so he doesn’t cheat. His standards too high, he needs someone on his level. Why would an entrepreneur salon owner leave her business for you to go to law school?!! Make it make sense, he’s the problem!
The way ashley face said "DONT TRY IT" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
HAD ME OUT.
🤦🏾♀️ Headphones on in the gym are NOT an indicator of not wanting to be bothered. Most people have them on to stay focused and keep the workout interesting. I used to multitask by listening to videos or audiobooks for grad school. If you’re polite (funny is even better) most women will give you a chance. Read the room though. Don’t tap her shoulder while she’s in the squat rack with 225 lbs on her back.
Also, he’s hung up on looks. The character he desires doesn’t come in the physical body he wants. 🤷🏾♀️
Is he looking for a unicorn? If you love your significant other, then you should not start with thoughts of cheating.
This the one
Or maybe hes looking for a man
He want a woman EXACTLY LIKE HIM. Just marry yourself 😂
Acting so picky looking like that💀
@@user-gn7in7tp4b whew! I wasnt even gonna go there but u said it😂
See that's the problem...I don't think he wants a woman at all
@@chanelgriffith8161purrrr somebody finally pointing out the elephant in the room, promise the DUDES he’s ACTUALLY into don’t have to have half of those expectations he places on women. Ladies learn to spot these dudes and steer clear, all these guys are looking for is to use and abuse you.
A leader like him 😂
I had to fast forward pass that man!
I think he came on to show Ashley that there’s no one in the world for him than her. lol aaawww
Agreed. I feel like he came to impress Ashley frfr lol His potential “dream woman” saw this 😂😂😂
Excuses, excuses, excuses...he is definitely the problem...he needs to take a hard look in the mirror
If no female is attractive then he wants a dude! Period!
That first guy too picky does he have a mirror to take a good look at himself instead?💀 them eyes probably too seperated to see😂 no reason to be that picky
Let’s see what you look like
Honey a man’s beauty is NOT based on his facial attractiveness .he has a lot of potential but yeah he sounds a bit picky
I listened without reading the comments and I felt that everything he was asking for sounded level headed. This is the first guy that came up that didn’t sound crazy to me 😂
Can we please see what you look like? He asked for no cheating, godly, and attractive. That is literally the bare minimum.
Yeah , hes not attractive lol
Ladies...This is a NO!
He seems too immature to be teaching high school….
I’m tired of men staring at my body , very annoying I don’t think I’ll ever find a sincere man
Wait until you turn 60 and you start to smell old.
You would do good with what im about to say I feel! My love, men who don’t stare don’t like women firstly. Secondly, this is natural thing for them to admire women use this to your advantage! It won’t end so don’t stress it. Be “sincere” with your family, friends and babies!
The first guy picky for no reason. Lol
No he’s picky because he’s not actually into women.
He's picky & nitpicky...which most women are. Nitpicky is not a good thing.
Like Im picky...but im not nitpicky about this or that. My picky is just being my type or close...be honest, have good communication skills and be a good considerate person. Simple!
I'm not talking about you gotta do this or that or that...that's just extra stuff. I will get to know her and see if we're a good match. It's That Simple!
@@CONGLOMERATE32 Oh Wow!!!
Ok Ashley bet. Grabbing my all white outfit, no necklace and open toe shoes with cherry lips💋.,,?I’ll be right back💃🏽
He wants an attractive woman so he won’t cheat, but even Jay z cheated on Beyonce so men need to make it make sense.
Zya; bc she has such a striking look - she should smile more- white men WILL talk to her… she has to counter the striking confidence with a “girly” attitude. Just smile.
She was smiling the entire interview, don’t be condescending.
@@rosewatersweettea it’s the energy behind the smile; a person that’s about to “delete” you can smile at you.
First guy is delusional, you can tell by how he speaks he’s not ready for the one.
He needs someone smarter than him. He needs someone who can calm him down. His ego is too much. He stated he wants a woman of God, but he’s not a man of God basically. I understand you have to be attractive to someone but he has a specific type. And that’s why he still single. He’s not willing to compromise in certain areas. If he found exactly what he’s looking for she probably wouldn’t give him a second thought.
Not my type (much too arrogant and negative) BUT he’s a 6ft attractive man who will (presumably) be a lawyer and is willing to provide. We have to recognize when ppl offer above average qualities. Those people can always demand/request more
He is not a challenge. He has more work to do.
Yes!!!
I’m from NC too, went to school in Durham. Congrats to her for making it out of Durham, NC.
oh my! the second gentleman sounds like he is terrified to enter a relationship. I got from him thay uf a woman is not everything he wants he will cheat on her. Why cant he just not cheat? Why does he not trust himself to be faithful that part i cant understand
Boy Bye
He is not it but I wish him luck. So annoying lol
This god fearing ish is hilarious and corny
What about a girl in the gym? Grocery store ? Are you approaching?
Dude aint just picky...hes nitpicky. Most women are nitpicky. Thats not a good thing bro. Gotta get it together.
He should go on Pop the Balloon Show. Women with his requirements are always there..he can see them visually there.
Ashley wasn't feeling him the whole live lmao she kept rolling her eyes the whole time he spoke lol
This guy needs a mother figure….a robot built for him that will be perfect😂he can't see himself or hear himself. He can talk the talk but can't walk the walk he needs to grow up‼️
You are a child of God…then read your Bible carefully and you will find the right woman sent by God….keep praying son🙏
I had to call me. He really came all here for Ashley. That is hilarious.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂
Idk why some women think its that easy to get a woman. Maybe if youre in ATL or Houston....where I hear its kinda easy for guys...and super hard for good women to get a decent man...especially ATL. But thats the same exact thing for good men looking for something real in NYC.
I just went to this event just now. You can hardly talk to these women. Most ppl here gravitate to the smooth talking players. If I want some attention back from the opposite sex, I gotta go to a white bar. Facts! IJS
So yeah, its been like that for a little min now. SMH 🤦♂️
He will not be able to handle a leader. He needs to grow up.
FALSE. “It takes a good follower for someone to lead”
TRUE “it takes an adequate LEADER for the meek to be safe enough to follow”
It’s crazy that y’all saying his standards are too much…have y’all heard other standards…It’s wild that these standards are too picky
Zya you’re stunningggggg! Please date out asap!
Dating women more for their personality than their looks isn't as good an idea as it seems. At the end of the day women want to be craved physically. No matter how noble you decide to be as a man by minimizing the look aspects, she'll be insulted if she feels she isn't your physical type or there's some other girl out there you are more attracted to physically even though you prefer the full package of what she has to offer. As a man you're better off finding the girl you want packaged with the looks you desire.
Yeah... it's a double edged sword on this one. Men also want to be admired and sexually desired by their partners. From my perspective, as long as the person is average, I will be able to find physical attraction once I am exposed to what I want personality wise. Though, I can imagine that hurting my future partner if they were to ever figure out the truth. I guess I will just keep it to myself lol.
A God fearing man! He gives me hope!!!
His whole personality is a facade
Non wrong by being specific with what you want,standards
I didn’t see anything wrong with Ray or his requirements. If he’s really how he portrays to be, he should be able to get the woman he asks for.
He wants a women of God but he over here flirting with Ashley 😂😂😂 and he wants an attractive woman so he won’t cheat 😮
Yes Ash please say it lol he’s picky . And I understand his standards I think they are reasonable but it’s funny how God works he will sometimes send just the person you thought you wouldn’t fall for.
I could tell her like her! lol😍😍😍 Kind of hard to resist ha!
I think he has to pay to cheat 😂😂😂
Because he has standard because he wants a woman of God that who cares about her body does not mean he’s picky that is not fair that you guys are going in on him like that..
@karendavis5988 Judging by your picture he wouldn’t piss on you if you were on fire so why are you caping? Get some self esteem and self respect boo, it will really help you see things more clearly.
You go date him then
100% Me you and someone else's baby 😂💯👍
He’s describing my daughter
What is he even talking about lmao I’m convinced he’s the type of man who loves to hear himself talk that’s why he can’t find anyone 😂. He lacks self awareness.
Reached high school? I get predator vibes. He’s there to find a naive victim
I honestly don’t see anything wrong with what he’s asking for lol. He def should go up to the ladies at the gym though but maybe after
I hope the first guy finds his woman..good for him for taking a chance and asking for what he wants. Dont settle there are women out there who will fit the bill
Remember nothing. 1st guy🚩👎🏾
12:47 wow what a beautiful woman
I totally get what he’s saying and sadly what he’s looking for is hard to find now- but it should be the basics; God, Health, Independent Thinker.