Just because the girl isn’t your type of pretty… that doesn’t mean she’s not his type of pretty. That girl had your man attention at 3am, he’ll definitely sleep with her.
Yea she should have told her the truth. She is beyond naive. The more details she told the more gullible she sounded. A “spark”?! Nah she in the car she calls/texts him at 3am etc. They don’t just have an “emotional” connection but also a physical texting at 3am “you up” - they screwin for sure…plus is using her as a maid and her car. As she said herself. She sounds completely gullible/delusional
@@fundssum331 say what? At some point it gets tiring to try to help people when they CHOOSE to b delusional. I’ve always tried to help people whenever I could but enabling someone’s gullible delusion that they choose (no one is responsible for them to b THIS gullible/delusional besides themselves especially after a certain age)
He’s 34. His coworker is 22 (he works at a warehouse?). He’s driving her car (I don’t believe they’re swapping cars one bit). He’s falling asleep on the phone with another woman. He’s on the phone at 3 am with another woman. He doesn’t want you to go through his phone. You’re showing him new things… what does he do for you?
She's not ready to accept what it is...Ashley's being direct and she has a million excuses and rebuttals...Stay with him and let him cheat in peace until you're ready to leave...Save yourself the stress
He might want both of them and try to get her to be in a poly relationship. People are doing all kinds of stuff. The reason the other girl is friendly with her could be for numerous reasons. But if it's being put in her face then it might be them trying to slow walk her Into this threesome. He wants them both. And if one girl wants him bad enough to let him have someone else as long as she gets some part as well , he's gonna do it.
Becka you’re helping him become a better person for the next girl. You’re wasting your time when you can’t even afford to when you already a mother of two.
13:54 Ladies, don’t let arrogance blind you to reality like this young lady. She wants to believe she’s so amazing while this other woman is playing in her face. She is friendly to her because she knows she’s goofy. She can call her man at 3am. She can leave stuff in her car. Going through a phone is a sign of distrust and insecurity anyway so it wasn’t the flex she thought it was. This is a down bad relationship!
If she calls him at that time of the morning, no ma'am. He doesn't have boundaries, and he hasn't set any with her. They have something going on, so trust your gut. Stop making excuses for him. You have allowed the behavior to continue with no consequences. He now knows you will accept anything.
I’m married and if I ask to see my husbands phone for a basic reason such as my phone is dead or whatever, he better not flinch. Boyfriend and GF, I get it though. Sometimes you have suspicions though. One time I was suspecting an ex of doing something crazy. I sure did check his phone because you cannot be lying to people like that and you need to know what danger that person may be putting you in. Welp his ass was looking at tranny escort sites. Gaslighters and narcissists are very clever and will have you questioning your own common sense and sanity. I’m not totally against it. Plus people in relationships should not be hiding their phone and being secretive about their phones, because that would make the average person want to see what’s in it that they’re so nervous about. However, general privacy and respect should be given.
When she hears the truth she immediately protects him and his behavior. She not ready to accept the truth. Men don’t think the way you do sweetie. And the more you check his phone the more he’s going to be drawn to her and less of you.
That's not even close to the truth. Didn't you hear her say that she been trying to do the space thing for the longest....and he don't want it. A lot of these guys are users. So they keep you there and around for what you do for them. So they Definitely don't want them to go...at least until they find the real one they really want.
Smt she’s pissing me off. It’s clear as day the man doesn’t respect you based on his actions. She needs to work on her self worth and respect & establish clear boundaries before she starts to entertain a man.
Its almost sad cuz she really think she got the upper hand on this girl when really she preparing him to be better to give to a female that'll do less than her.
How do you call your man a master manipulator but in the same breath say he is not the type to cheat? And also, WHY would you want to have a master manipulator as a husband??
This young lady is every cheating dudes dream girl 😂. Textbook example of “you don’t have to lie to women because when they like you enough they’ll lie to themselves.”
The level of denial this young lady has is unmatched lol smh she has all of the signs and still doesn't believe it!! Ashley is even telling her and she's not listening at all
Men are straightforward with their actions and words. Men want peace.. Men seek companionship else where. It doesn’t have to be intimate just simple peace with someone who doesn’t do drama.-One thing about a man, he can be with a woman for 10 years and meet the woman of his dreams next month and marry her within 5 months. Never sacrifice for a boyfriend. Don’t waste your youth cleaning for a boyfriend cooking food for boyfriend. That’s a lot of work. That’s struggle love. Cutting back is not leaving. You are still giving him hope to come back to you. Focus on your children and ways you can go above and beyond to build a legacy for your kids. Look at Ciara. She saw quick how future treated her and now she is with Russell. Ashley advice is golden. LEARN FROM CIARA!
Yeah they are messing around. They will never admit to it but the signs will be everywhere! Always remember to pay attention to what they do NOT what they say!! My daughter is 29 and I have laced her with the games males play and what to look out for.
I get annoyed when people ask for advice and don’t want to at the very least act like they’re going to take it. Everything Ashley says, she got an excuse for lol
Obviously, they are talking after midnight when you're not around. This is how romance starts. Office romances are the best way to meet people. It's pretty obvious there's something happening. Set your boundaries, sis. Once you do, the truth will come to light.
Excellent advice. I was lucky to have girl cousins 6+ years older than me to help me. There was so much that I didn't see or understand as a young woman in my 20s. Now, Im mid 30s, married with kids I understand this game of life so much more! I try to help young women I interact with as much as I can, so theh dont sit around wasting their time, youth, and beauty on a man that is playing around.
Becka, love yourself more - i hope you watch this and learn something. that you are worth more than what you are allowing yourself to go through. you can find someone else and one who you dont have to teach new things for him to teach a youngin.
Easier said than done. Yes she is pretty and seem demure and polite..but she has 2 kids( hopefully not multiple men) and she would like to be married? This guy might be the best she'll ever do. She will HAVE to compete for him (proving the point men are the prize). Her unwillingness to compete will become a disqualification of her own doing.
@@ronde1135 regardless of what’s anyone’s situation, they should be treated with a base line of respect and if you don’t want them anymore, move on. If this is the best she can get, she’s better off single. And both sides are the prize to each other. This is why relationships suck these days - everyone is out for themselves at the end of the day when both sides should be taking care of each other in all ways without even thinking twice. And if you have think twice, that’s not the person for you. In her case, she’s probably better off with someone who already has kids so they understand her lifestyle. Also, competing with what? Technically, this guy is not supposed to be giving someone else his attention if he’s with this girl. The fact that he’s entertaining someone else (in her car, mind you?!) is her hint that he’s not the one for her
Becka you too cute girlie get a new man. Hit up some events wine festivals, art exhibits, baseball games, derbies, car shows, get into hobbies, etc. Be Outside. My 42 yr old aunt who has a son under 18 just got proposed to by a 72 yr old she met at a rotary club he's offering to pay my cousin college tuition and he currently have her in her dream car and she advised me to start being strategic on where I go to hangout. In fact she said she would've probably been married if she started doing this when she was younger
I just want to scream! I’m a girl dad. I have 2 daughters. I taught them games early. Men you have got to teach and train your daughters. This child is pitiful and it’s her dad’s fault.
Girl 😅…just step aside and let that man go be with his heart. You’re only in the position of allowing him time to choose between you two. Take yourself out of the equation.
I would never sit up here and say what a man would do with the opposite sex. She really wants to believe that man don’t want that other woman like that.
Right!! I have a friend who would do that years ago. Manybof her male friends she would swear for that they seems to be good men and not the cheating type. One of her ex, she swear he isn't the cheating type dude was seen at the theater with another girl
If the caller is 28, her man is 34, how is she showing him new things?? 6 years difference. How does she know what he has actually had? Shes taking his word for it. He sounds like a great manipulator
She called in because her personal denial is a heavy drug. She over compensates by doing what she calls "taking care of him" because she thinks having 2 kids lowers her value while he has none. Doing wifely things for him is like a thank you card saying "Thank you for choosing to be in a relationship with me while you are childless, but I have 2 kids." And, she shouldn't think like this. Her first priority should be to work on her lack of trust. Perhaps see a therapist. Improve in that area first before trying to be in a serious relationship.
She's possessive and obsessed, giving me the vibe that she's a few steps away from sliding into stalking him and being vengeful toward the girl. She has nothing to gain by staying with this man. He will not save or rescue or fix her, she has to do that herself in the long road to recovery from relationship addiction.
@6:30 🤔🧐 FACTS !! ..REGARDLESS OF WHETHER THE CONCERNS YOU DESCRIBE ARE PROBLEMATIC OR NOT.. ..YOUR ‘HEAD-SPACE’ IS NOT IN A PRODUCTIVE PLACE WHILE YOU’RE CONSTANTLY ENGAGING IN THIS ‘SUSPICIOUS OF EVERYTHING’ BEHAVIOR.. …YOU’RE ‘28’ WITH A GOOD AMOUNT OF TIME REMAINING, EXERCISE YOUR OPTIONS WISELY..
Nah, Ashley speaking facts ma. She can be the smile in ya face and backstab later type. And he didn't set up those boundaries like he should. He's talking to her like a single man. Certain shit you just Don't Do. Cmon now.
Her in this season of her life is NOT a prize…. She has work to do on self! Not trusting ANYONE is a red flag! Thinking you can invade a man’s privacy by going through his phone bc of YOUR trust issues, red flag! Not being able to take advice that YOU called in and asked for, red flag! I can already tell he ain’t shhh but she’s no better. Just bc you don’t cheat DOES NOT make you a good partner. She attracted what she’s emotionally capable to deal with. A real man wouldn’t go for this bs smh
Oh man this sad, she sweet but so slow. Dang and she is dismissing his clear words & 🚩. Her opinion don’t matter because he holds a place for her. 34 , gurl he knows exactly what to show you and keep you right there. Thats why she thinks ,his cheating signs doesn’t fit her perception of him. She needs to look at his behavior that doesn’t match her perception of him. He clearly is making her uncomfortable and saying deal with it; and she blaming the other girl.😑
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Just because the girl isn’t your type of pretty… that doesn’t mean she’s not his type of pretty. That girl had your man attention at 3am, he’ll definitely sleep with her.
Facts, doesn’t matter body type, weight, attraction. If there is an emotional connection it’s over sis
Obviously to us but not her. 😂😏
U s right like girllllllll😂😂she have him 3am
Exactly 💯
Becca my dear, yes you sound like a good woman who has been good to the man. Bear in mind, men have left women who do more after milking the woman.
She’s not ready to accept the truth yet.
Yea she should have told her the truth. She is beyond naive. The more details she told the more gullible she sounded. A “spark”?! Nah she in the car she calls/texts him at 3am etc. They don’t just have an “emotional” connection but also a physical texting at 3am “you up” - they screwin for sure…plus is using her as a maid and her car. As she said herself. She sounds completely gullible/delusional
Next caller Ashley! Constantly deflecting every time Ashley makes a comment. She’s not preventing anything by checking his phone.
@@IntegrityMeansAlld.
@@fundssum331 say what? At some point it gets tiring to try to help people when they CHOOSE to b delusional. I’ve always tried to help people whenever I could but enabling someone’s gullible delusion that they choose (no one is responsible for them to b THIS gullible/delusional besides themselves especially after a certain age)
It kills me when ppl call for advice, and they constantly know all the answers in conversation.
there’s a quote that says “a man doesn’t have to lie to their woman if she loves him enough she’ll lie to herself” 😂😂😂😂
FR
Facts
I'm stealing this!!
😂😂that part
I have never heard this one before, but it's sooooo TRUE! I'm keeping this quote for sure!❤
They together right now watching this.
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Rubbing feet together eating popcorn 🥲
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😂😂😂 you might be right
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Her denial is draining. I cant believe i watched this whole video smh
Girl!! Like get off the line, you don't want to leave him. She just wanted to vent at this point.
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@sj1983bl yep
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Ashley you have patience to deal with these callers. This girl is in denial.
For reallllll it’s like why call in then
Yesss
I was going to write this Exact comment! God bless you Ash.
Denial is a river in Egypt 😂
😂😂😂😂😂. Your husband is GAY!!! 🗣️🗣️
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That's her boyfriend's work wife 👰🏾♀️🤦🏾♂️
Them work wives and work husbands be something serious Frfr
This ‼ She brings him lunch, does all the the things the girlfriend do, but during work hours.. Those relationships are dangerous
That the work wife and the after work wife.
Work wives become the real dream wife after a while
She thinks she has more control and insight than she actually does. .
He’s already cheating emotionally and it won’t be long until he physically cheat on her( if he hasn’t already).
He’s 34. His coworker is 22 (he works at a warehouse?). He’s driving her car (I don’t believe they’re swapping cars one bit). He’s falling asleep on the phone with another woman. He’s on the phone at 3 am with another woman. He doesn’t want you to go through his phone. You’re showing him new things… what does he do for you?
Just 🪵
Wellsaid
You can’t save someone who doesn’t want to get saved.
This entire thing was nutty nutty nutty but I can’t judge at all. I’m just hoping she’s catching what we all see drifting down the river 😭💯
She's not ready to accept what it is...Ashley's being direct and she has a million excuses and rebuttals...Stay with him and let him cheat in peace until you're ready to leave...Save yourself the stress
He might want both of them and try to get her to be in a poly relationship. People are doing all kinds of stuff. The reason the other girl is friendly with her could be for numerous reasons. But if it's being put in her face then it might be them trying to slow walk her Into this threesome.
He wants them both. And if one girl wants him bad enough to let him have someone else as long as she gets some part as well , he's gonna do it.
Exactly 😏🤷🏽♀️
Becka you’re helping him become a better person for the next girl. You’re wasting your time when you can’t even afford to when you already a mother of two.
Exactly
Whew. I’m so glad I went through this at19-22. Can’t imagine being 28 thinking like this
13:54 Ladies, don’t let arrogance blind you to reality like this young lady. She wants to believe she’s so amazing while this other woman is playing in her face. She is friendly to her because she knows she’s goofy. She can call her man at 3am. She can leave stuff in her car. Going through a phone is a sign of distrust and insecurity anyway so it wasn’t the flex she thought it was. This is a down bad relationship!
In YOUR CAR!!! Okay I screamed 🤣😂
AND the girl was in the house when she got there after they got back together. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Not you having to tell a grown ass man that it’s bed time, be f’ing forreal 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
With no children!!! 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
If she calls him at that time of the morning, no ma'am. He doesn't have boundaries, and he hasn't set any with her. They have something going on, so trust your gut. Stop making excuses for him. You have allowed the behavior to continue with no consequences. He now knows you will accept anything.
Exactly
She’s living in delulu, if he appreciated you taking care of him as a woman he wouldn’t be playing in your faceeeee
Like HELLOOO‼️‼️ the delusion is outta this world 🤦🏽♀️ it’s clear as day he don’t care about you
Ashley was in her BAG with this one. She must’ve seen herself in her cause she did not hold back. Overflow of tough love!! 👏🏾👏🏾
“I wasnt snooping I was just scrolling through the phone”.. oh ok😂
You should never need or desire to go through a man’s phone fr fr
exactly. she’s too old for that
I’m married and if I ask to see my husbands phone for a basic reason such as my phone is dead or whatever, he better not flinch. Boyfriend and GF, I get it though. Sometimes you have suspicions though. One time I was suspecting an ex of doing something crazy. I sure did check his phone because you cannot be lying to people like that and you need to know what danger that person may be putting you in. Welp his ass was looking at tranny escort sites. Gaslighters and narcissists are very clever and will have you questioning your own common sense and sanity. I’m not totally against it. Plus people in relationships should not be hiding their phone and being secretive about their phones, because that would make the average person want to see what’s in it that they’re so nervous about. However, general privacy and respect should be given.
@@ToriUptowndefinitely too old 🤦🏾♀️
She’s ready enough to call and get a second opinion but not enough to accept the truth.
It takes time for some. I pray she doesn’t not wait until he has robbed her age and energy to accept what is.
Why even ask, if you're not ready to hear the answer
Poor baby is naive. He would have to have like a baby on her or something crazy for her to go away. Bless her heart.
Maybe not even then 🤦🏾♀️
Yea she slow @TBear02
When she hears the truth she immediately protects him and his behavior. She not ready to accept the truth. Men don’t think the way you do sweetie. And the more you check his phone the more he’s going to be drawn to her and less of you.
I hate popular friendly men & too many red flags with her. Space will give you clarity ✨️
I agree she needs space to see how much of a problem he actually is
LEAVE HIM. DON'T GIVE HIM THE SATISFACTION OF THINKING HE CAN KEEP YOU. LEAVE HIM AND STAY GONE.
The New York reference got me 😂😂 "I want my eggs cracked. I want my last name dropped!"
She needs to get in detachment mode, that man has already checked out of the relationship
I have never been so bored...Ashley you were born for this,I can't.
He's trying to leave but wants you to do it first
Yeah cause she aint the prize no woman is a prize looks only go but so far
Ctfu yes I was just talking to my friend about this. They will do crazy shit to make you leave and she still holding on.
Well a lot of men don’t want to look like the asshole for leaving.
That's not even close to the truth. Didn't you hear her say that she been trying to do the space thing for the longest....and he don't want it.
A lot of these guys are users. So they keep you there and around for what you do for them. So they Definitely don't want them to go...at least until they find the real one they really want.
@@amaj_lex True. But this ain't the case here Lex
Smt she’s pissing me off. It’s clear as day the man doesn’t respect you based on his actions. She needs to work on her self worth and respect & establish clear boundaries before she starts to entertain a man.
The longest go no where conversation with all due respect. Ashley is A1 for talking her through it. ❤
You teach people how to treat you. Based on what you will and will not tolerate.
I had to learn this!
Wow these women really be answering their own questions
Its almost sad cuz she really think she got the upper hand on this girl when really she preparing him to be better to give to a female that'll do less than her.
Deep down I believe she knows bc why call in? She looks defeated.. he probably already has 1 foot out the door
Her level of delusion physically exhausted my soul. Omg, I hope Ashley said something, anything... that will stay on her mind and shake her awake.
How do you call your man a master manipulator but in the same breath say he is not the type to cheat? And also, WHY would you want to have a master manipulator as a husband??
ALL of thisss
She was definitely talking in circles.. she not concerned about him and the girl yet she needs space because of his interaction with the girl 🥴
This young lady is every cheating dudes dream girl 😂. Textbook example of “you don’t have to lie to women because when they like you enough they’ll lie to themselves.”
😂😂😂 dang 😂😂😂
She still with him to this day 😂😂
The level of denial this young lady has is unmatched lol smh she has all of the signs and still doesn't believe it!! Ashley is even telling her and she's not listening at all
She's so beautiful ❤❤ level up
Listening to this was painful. Listening to someone in denial is painful!
Listening to someone who says " like " a million times is even more painful....
She not gone be ready until he have a baby by the work wife
Or she’s pregnant 🤰
Just because you think you are "That Girl", doesn't mean he sees you that way.
Men are straightforward with their actions and words. Men want peace.. Men seek companionship else where. It doesn’t have to be intimate just simple peace with someone who doesn’t do drama.-One thing about a man, he can be with a woman for 10 years and meet the woman of his dreams next month and marry her within 5 months. Never sacrifice for a boyfriend. Don’t waste your youth cleaning for a boyfriend cooking food for boyfriend. That’s a lot of work. That’s struggle love. Cutting back is not leaving. You are still giving him hope to come back to you. Focus on your children and ways you can go above and beyond to build a legacy for your kids. Look at Ciara. She saw quick how future treated her and now she is with Russell. Ashley advice is golden. LEARN FROM CIARA!
FACTS: Charlie Wilson song " There goes my baby" says it all. Strong signs he dont care or want her but is a cowardly too afraid to tell her.
Great perspective!
Ciara was drawn to someone toxic and loved it. She knew how he would treat her BEFORE they got together..and she still had a baby by him.
Ashely looking so confused when she said take care of like no no no
I was confused too 😂
I love how Ashley just lets people talk once she realizes they won’t take heed to her advice
Sis face card is LETHAL!! No makeup, just lashes & clear skin. She is stunning!
She has all the signs but still don't want to believe it
She's his defense attorney at this point.
You are so patient and kind and give great advice sis❤
She knows this is wrong. Poor thing. He's doing this on purpose. Pushing her boundaries
It’s mental warfare
Bless her heart.
Ashley really be spitting facts. She’s so wise. I need this girl to comeback for an update
This girl is a joke. If she’s not afraid of her boyfriend sleeping with the other girl then why the heck is she calling in for?
Yeah they are messing around. They will never admit to it but the signs will be everywhere! Always remember to pay attention to what they do NOT what they say!! My daughter is 29 and I have laced her with the games males play and what to look out for.
I get annoyed when people ask for advice and don’t want to at the very least act like they’re going to take it. Everything Ashley says, she got an excuse for lol
So many red flags… because why are you cooking, cleaning, etc. with no ring for a man you don’t live with?!
Ashley is so patient. “Becca you not being honest with me”
She will learn the hard way. She keeps making excuses for him.
Every time Ashley tries to tell her the truth, she got an excuse for him smh
Obviously, they are talking after midnight when you're not around. This is how romance starts. Office romances are the best way to meet people. It's pretty obvious there's something happening. Set your boundaries, sis. Once you do, the truth will come to light.
Ashley is soooo needed! I hope she leaves his assssssss!
Whew this was exhausting….you are so patient Ashley.
Take off the blinders. Men are hunters. He’s already involved with her.
I'm so sorry she is dealing with this. I hope you she see her worth.
Ash your face said it all!
Leave him…. I like how she convinces herself, she will be like this until she is 40
how you just go through a man’s phone? lol that is insecurity. she could really use therapy before getting into another serious relationship.
No fr
Clearly she called in knowing all answers 🤦🏽♀️. Tisk tisk…the writings on the wall
Excellent advice. I was lucky to have girl cousins 6+ years older than me to help me. There was so much that I didn't see or understand as a young woman in my 20s. Now, Im mid 30s, married with kids I understand this game of life so much more! I try to help young women I interact with as much as I can, so theh dont sit around wasting their time, youth, and beauty on a man that is playing around.
Becka, love yourself more - i hope you watch this and learn something. that you are worth more than what you are allowing yourself to go through. you can find someone else and one who you dont have to teach new things for him to teach a youngin.
Easier said than done. Yes she is pretty and seem demure and polite..but she has 2 kids( hopefully not multiple men) and she would like to be married? This guy might be the best she'll ever do. She will HAVE to compete for him (proving the point men are the prize). Her unwillingness to compete will become a disqualification of her own doing.
@@ronde1135 regardless of what’s
anyone’s situation, they should be treated with a base line of respect and if you don’t want them anymore, move on. If this is the best she can get, she’s better off single. And both sides are the prize to each other. This is why relationships suck these days - everyone is out for themselves at the end of the day when both sides should be taking care of each other in all ways without even thinking twice. And if you have think twice, that’s not the person for you. In her case, she’s probably better off with someone who already has kids so they understand her lifestyle.
Also, competing with what? Technically, this guy is not supposed to be giving someone else his attention if he’s with this girl. The fact that he’s entertaining someone else (in her car, mind you?!) is her hint that he’s not the one for her
Becka you too cute girlie get a new man. Hit up some events wine festivals, art exhibits, baseball games, derbies, car shows, get into hobbies, etc. Be Outside. My 42 yr old aunt who has a son under 18 just got proposed to by a 72 yr old she met at a rotary club he's offering to pay my cousin college tuition and he currently have her in her dream car and she advised me to start being strategic on where I go to hangout. In fact she said she would've probably been married if she started doing this when she was younger
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She had an answer for everything…..
I just want to scream! I’m a girl dad. I have 2 daughters. I taught them games early. Men you have got to teach and train your daughters. This child is pitiful and it’s her dad’s fault.
She is too naive for her age.someone/somebody please wake her up from her deep slumber!!
Girl 😅…just step aside and let that man go be with his heart. You’re only in the position of allowing him time to choose between you two. Take yourself out of the equation.
Another woman shouldn’t feel intimidated by you to respect you and your relationship. Like that makes no sense.
And he had the girl in her car? Baby, please let that man go
I would never sit up here and say what a man would do with the opposite sex. She really wants to believe that man don’t want that other woman like that.
Right!! I have a friend who would do that years ago. Manybof her male friends she would swear for that they seems to be good men and not the cheating type. One of her ex, she swear he isn't the cheating type dude was seen at the theater with another girl
Omg never thought I’d see someone I know on your show 😂
Are they still together? The man she talking about is she still with him ?
Has she gained a brain cell and left?
Oh no, I never tell people to leave because they gonna do what they want.. but yeah girl they will continue to do anything if you tolerate it
Omg I can’t!! Girl Ashley telling you what it is and yet you still in denial!! 😩🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
If the caller is 28, her man is 34, how is she showing him new things?? 6 years difference. How does she know what he has actually had? Shes taking his word for it. He sounds like a great manipulator
Why did she even call in of she wasn't ready to hear the truth?
She called in because her personal denial is a heavy drug. She over compensates by doing what she calls "taking care of him" because she thinks having 2 kids lowers her value while he has none. Doing wifely things for him is like a thank you card saying "Thank you for choosing to be in a relationship with me while you are childless, but I have 2 kids." And, she shouldn't think like this. Her first priority should be to work on her lack of trust. Perhaps see a therapist. Improve in that area first before trying to be in a serious relationship.
She don’t need to be dating, she needs therapy.
yeah like why is he even with her she projecting other peoples sht on him.
She's possessive and obsessed, giving me the vibe that she's a few steps away from sliding into stalking him and being vengeful toward the girl. She has nothing to gain by staying with this man. He will not save or rescue or fix her, she has to do that herself in the long road to recovery from relationship addiction.
That man is getting ready to leave her permanently so he's playing the field to get a new woman.
Fighting the truth thats right infront of you.
Both of y’all so pretty!! Ashley you look just like a exotic Barbie 🔥😍
Ugh Ash you better than me! 😴 If in denial was a person!
If you know that you can't trust ANYONE... why date?
@6:30 🤔🧐 FACTS !! ..REGARDLESS OF WHETHER THE CONCERNS YOU DESCRIBE ARE PROBLEMATIC OR NOT.. ..YOUR ‘HEAD-SPACE’ IS NOT IN A PRODUCTIVE PLACE WHILE YOU’RE CONSTANTLY ENGAGING IN THIS ‘SUSPICIOUS OF EVERYTHING’ BEHAVIOR..
…YOU’RE ‘28’ WITH A GOOD AMOUNT OF TIME REMAINING, EXERCISE YOUR OPTIONS WISELY..
Nah, Ashley speaking facts ma. She can be the smile in ya face and backstab later type.
And he didn't set up those boundaries like he should. He's talking to her like a single man. Certain shit you just Don't Do. Cmon now.
Her in this season of her life is NOT a prize…. She has work to do on self! Not trusting ANYONE is a red flag! Thinking you can invade a man’s privacy by going through his phone bc of YOUR trust issues, red flag! Not being able to take advice that YOU called in and asked for, red flag! I can already tell he ain’t shhh but she’s no better. Just bc you don’t cheat DOES NOT make you a good partner. She attracted what she’s emotionally capable to deal with. A real man wouldn’t go for this bs smh
Oh man this sad, she sweet but so slow. Dang and she is dismissing his clear words & 🚩. Her opinion don’t matter because he holds a place for her. 34 , gurl he knows exactly what to show you and keep you right there. Thats why she thinks ,his cheating signs doesn’t fit her perception of him. She needs to look at his behavior that doesn’t match her perception of him. He clearly is making her uncomfortable and saying deal with it; and she blaming the other girl.😑
BOOM!!! THIS RIGHT HERE!!! 💯👏👇I SAID THE SAME THING
what coworker calling at 3am to vent? we gotta be smarter
Momma said, if you have to look through ANYONES phone... You dont need to be there