The description "religious" is overrated. Most these women out here claim to be religious but they lost their virginity in their teens or very early 20s and only reference religion with regard to what it dictates a man should do for them. They twerking in the club Thursday thru Saturday and then come to church on Sunday, say a couple hallelujah amens and then back to being worldly again.
@Dallas_214-wy1ix it ain't about being a pickmeisha. Unless you women are doing the chasing, you're all pickmeishas because you either get picked or you don't. Women don't like to admit that they're with who they qualify for. Some women only qualify for bum ninjas. Some of all even prefer the advantage that you have over a bum ninja because it beats having to submit to a capable man.
So she stated he is a good guy about 10 times but yet for all he lied about his kids? Ladies yall need to stop trying to see good in these men and leave when red flags are waved.
Yes, they need to stop lying to themselves. They can see the good all they want, but the red flags as you say, is how they end up lying to themselves… I know so many women like this…just in lala land, and ignoring everyone and thing around them.
Ladies when we say "I don't know", it means "I know" but I don't like the answer. Ladies we are not Therapist or Life Coaches. This Man has a lot going on that she should NOT take on.
This woman is trying to do the “cool girl” thing and she knows it’s not working. If she were to make a new bumble account and log in she would 100% see his profile still active.
The “chill girl thing” is not it. Hanging around in situationships will usually lead to wasting time. If y’all having seggs, why don’t you want to be the girl who asks, “what are we doing?” Is it that she’s afraid he’ll leave if she asks for a title? If so, isn’t that a sign you shouldn’t be together? Willing to risk pregnancy and STI’s but draws the line on defining the relationship? I think she knows it’s probably not gonna go anywhere.
That’s the dynamic in the black community, they think having kids is a bigger commitment than marriage. That backwards logic is why the out of wedlock and fatherless rates are astronomical. Every non black man I’ve been with couldn’t wait to make me their girlfriend. These dudes don’t really like you but black women will pretend to not see it- thinking letting him use you and your body will eventually get him to love you, that will never happen.
If you are a young single woman with no kids dont get involved with a man with kids. Start fresh with a man who matches you with no kids. Now if you're 40's and older most people have lived life enough to decide if they can deal with all the conflicts that may come.
If I say jump, he’ll say how high? 😂 and miss “I don’t know” know damnnnn well that man is using her. A manipulative man will give you a few dollars initially to make it seem like they are helping you only to turn around and make you feel indebted to them later.
↪️I'll be damned to be 26 in a 6 months situationship (I'm 33), he clearly doesn't want to commit ↪️I'm Congolese and lived in Toronto for 5 years, I went back to Paris last Sept cause the Canadian dating game is DRY! Gurl leave, He's defo lying and 5 kids is too much 😮
For the first woman- they both aren’t taking each other seriously . She said she’s dating other men and she keeps saying “I can go outside …it’s summer time “. She might as well go outside because she really doesn’t want a relationship anyway. I bet it’s all ego driven since she probably think he’s talking to other women as well. She should ask herself if she really wants that man or she just wants to be the one that he picks.
This is a great point. I don’t think he’s taking her serious but if he was and wanted to pursue something serious with her, hearing this would be the end of that. Why would he? He’s be a dummy to take a woman talking like this serious. It’s not at all attractive. If a man is serious about a commitment with you, there won’t be anything to question. We make it very clear in our words and our actions.
@@sarahjoe2457 She said if he was to say yeah let’s date (referring to a commitment) , then she will feel like “oh shit, it’s really happening” and “that’s a lot of commitment to me.” Wondering why a man hasn’t committed to you in 6 months but also saying that’s a lot of commitment sounds like she’s playing games too.
@@JB19_92yeah I agree. She didn’t really say anything to show that she really likes him as a person. Just how they go on dates and chill/sleepover . Doesn’t sound serious.
If you don't know, that's not your man. My fiance on date 3 was asking about being my boyfriend I told him we could date but AI don't do boyfriend girlfriend, it's fiance or dating. I met all of his friends and family within 2 months. He asked me to marry him at month 9.
She was manic. Like over caffeinated or something. Disassociated and confused. She doesn’t know if she wants to be in a relationship or not. She like chaos. And she said if he says “no” she’s gonna be “outside.” So she’s going to open her legs for randoms because this guy doesn’t want her? She’ll be playing herself and only HERSELF. She’s too immature to see any of this I think. It’s sad. She needs to take a deep breath, be quiet for a long time, and figure out what actually matters to her and where she is going.
Case #1: As a woman, you have to understand that if a man wanted you to be anything, he’ll tell you AND show you. We’ve gotta stop wasting time & trying to assume to a “desired” position. If he hasn’t called you anything other than a friend, then that’s just exactly what you are.
These women, my goodness! This is how I know I could NEVER be Ashley! Because the kindness you have to show when these women ask the dumbest questions! 5 kids?! What’s there to discuss? Does she have any? Goodness me, these women are ‘stronger’ than me. 😮
So much is going on here. Man,we accept so much foolery. The fact that you did not know he had 5 kids is a red flag. He's giving you money because he's preparing you for something and you're going to feel obligated to do whatever it is and him asking to move with you to Paris,ma'am he's using as a means to get ahead.
As someone working on their self of stem… both of these women need to work on their self esteem…dating a man for 6 months aka half a yr that hasn’t defined the relationship,it’s time to exit… a man with 5 kids and financial troubles wanting to run away is a problem, oh HELL NO.
People always think that a God fearing person is someone, who simply goes to church. Based on her description of their situationship, their having sex and not married. And, he’s stringing her along. He doesn’t sound very god fearing, to me
@@iamstaceyrobinsonI completely disagree, DEFINITELY ASK. Ask clearly and get your answer. A mature man would have no problem asking, being asked, and responding clearly.
@@JellieJoShmo I used to think and practice this and there are some outliers, but ultimately it never works out how we want it to.. Because it's not in our best interest to initiate this conversation with the dude.. We give over our power by doing so. Please hear me out.. If he was a mature man that's not playing games and was really serious about locking her down he woulda been did that.. Listen I been the backburner bitch enough times to know that. They been together 6months. .and neither of them have met each other peoples?. He having his cake and eating it too... he knows what he's doing.. Even if she does meet his people.. if the man hasn't openly expressed with his mouth that he is going to be exclusive with you, wants you to be exclusive with him... If HE SAY SO...not because of the lovebombing and other stuff they do to manipulate and make us think we committed... Make sense? But she has to decide exactly what she really wants first. And I think that she really wants to be in a committed relationship with him, but she's afraid to rock the boat and lose him.. But that's a terrible position to be in for her.... And a real mature man that is into her like that wants her to feel comfortable and ain't gon play these games.. He ain't gonna be hiding his woman.. She only hides because he hiding.. All because she doesn't want to lose him... And what I recommend as Auntie and someone who been there is to choose herself and take what cues she's already been given and just match and mirror his energy... "GO OUTSIDE" like she said.... She should be outside anyway ..don't ever let a man change who you are and what you love.. a man should complement your life not be your whole life.. And like what Ash said, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" He's not motivated to change anything..she the one stressed out about asking him if they "go together".. She's a beautiful sister with fabulous chocolate skin.. we not being back burner bitches this summer, ok ladies?..🙏🏽💗
@@JellieJoShmo Exactly. Yall intentions should be stated from the jump on what yall both looking for. If he didn't make you his within 3 months, ask the question directly. Depending on the answer, you can give him another 3 months...then either yall together or you move on. That Simple!
@@jayc5756 I don’t think the length of time really matters. It’s not about 3 months until X, then another 3 months until Y. If you’re feeling already emotionally invested and want to define the relationship, then ask. If you’re okay with ambiguity then stay, if you’re not then leave. It’s pretty simple. We’re not going to be compatible with everyone and we are entitled to our own expectations & desired timelines. And other people are entitled to theirs. Personally, I expect a man that’s serious about me to want to be exclusive pretty quickly & move out of the dating stage pretty quickly too - like a marriage proposal within a year. That’s because I’m dating for marriage though, not to be a girlfriend. It has made me uncomfortable, and ultimately I left, when I had to ask more than once. That kind of a dynamic will never evolve into something sincere and committed imo. I would just be resentful anyway. So, to each their own. My advice is simply to: ASK CLEARLY. There is no human being superior to you that you have to walk on eggshells for. God bless ❤️
6 months? By then most men know if they would propose let alone her not being sure they're in a relationship...she's his time filler woman until he finds what he really wants
Question...why did the paris lady accept the lie of omission? You knew of one...but then found out about the other 4...what? He has no job other than being "handsome". How is that sexy?
Chile, I was wondering the same thing. How do we go from 1 child to 5? That’s a whole tribe. I’m not dealing with that! I’m shocked she never asked why he lied. And P.S. that’s not a lie by omission. That’s just a full blown lie! For him to specifically say ‘one child’ is a lie. He could’ve said any number but chose one as it sounds better. Anyone can give anyone grace for one- the condom split, he was young etc. but 5!!!! Damn!! No that’s a hard NO!! Be gone demon!
And she said she’s not religious but then said she takes that religious sh*t seriously. Which is it? They’re both deeply confused. I don’t see that situation working out at all.
I’ll be honest… it seems like she’s a placeholder for his God fearing wife. Can’t be living your life depending on his answer. Move on and if he’s serious about you, he’ll make it official
Omg that user guy “handsome” got her shaking and acting up cuz why on the earth would she fall for this 21:11 he is clearly just using her and is a horrible dad on top of it💀😂 Ladies close the legs or otherwise you’ll starts to act like this smh
These women start telling their story and realize that everyone thinks they’re dumb and then they’re like “Yea, he pays for everything, blah blah blah” Chile. The Parisian girl is getting played. She gone be taking care of a grown man with 5 kids with little coins
Fashion Designer staaap it, just stop it sis. Is it desperation or low self-esteem sis because what the hell are you doing in this mess you can't even explain to Ashley.
Yall ladies please come off of these dating apps! Get out into the real world. It’s so much better and gives you a reason to get dressed and get cute and come out. Like Shera said dating apps are for the bottom of the barrel rejects.
1st lady: why wait to ask instead of living life now? Bc if she saw him w another woman he could say- oh we never made it official. Do the same thing. Live your life and have multiple options.
Girl ruuunn..I know someone who had a child by a men who had already 9 children by 5 different women.. he will ask you to help raise his children besides that he can't just move to Paris because he is American citizen...To get a visa in some EU countries its difficult
Wanting a man to leave his children for a make believe clothing brand internationally is ultimate bum vibes. A man that denies his own children will never move honorably. Find an adult, that’s a child.
we women were given intuition yet we always want to ask someone what we should do even when Jesus smacks us in the face Himself and tells us it's a NO! bless her she came on here already not feeling good about the lying / not ever wanting to create his own business like a grown man - type of boyfriend - some women just want to be needed and feel needed but sis, he wants your money and resources and royalties, not you. You felt that from the beginning before you created that business plan. Trust your intution -God gave you that for a reason. Go to Paris and meet your REAL mate and live your best life... por la reste de la vie!
With the 2nd lady it sounds like he is making an investment up front so that later down the line he can use all of her money😬 …. & have an excuse saying… you don’t remember all that money I spent on you 👀… no mam 😂😂
That’s why I don’t take religion when it comes to black people serious. I used to go to a church where several of those god fearing women were turned into baby mamas. All a dude has to say is he is religious and god fearing to get between these women’s legs. When people say church women are the easiest they are right, make it make sense.
For the second woman, if you don’t go somewhere and sit downnnnn. Too old to be dealing with THAT kind of foolishness fr. I don’t even need to hear the whole story bc you got me at 5 kids. Learn how to say enough when it is indeed enough.
We see first hand a scam happening in person. Bring him to Paris beautiful if you want the heartache later on. Stop being desperate or helpful as you say
being the cool girl or pick me girl wont get u anywhere but used...females work on yourself first so you know your worth! have self respect self love. he sounds like too much baggage and you are walking on egg shells for whaaaat??? she seems so nice..and deserves someone who has himself together, but fill you glass first so you wont second guess yourself in dating
Girl noooooooooooooooooo😢 5 kids 😢 business plan😢move to another city 😢 works like a maniac 😢 you have freedom and you worked hard for that go outside meet someone !!! God has better for you
I’m lost if he say no you’ll just dump him. He ain’t got nothing he ain’t with you so you mean, you just walk away and except the fact that you wasted your time and gave up the box this will be honest man.
In love this channel it be giving me the game on what to look for to NOT DATE lol the min any woman I talk to sound like she on this show im Gone I got just enough money for me lol 😅😂😊
If you stay with a guy for two years, they got five kids throughout them two years you knew that’s what you deserve. Let’s just be honest man y’all be glad these women on this show and don’t check them. Be honest with them G like you got your equal
Second lady needs to go back to Paris and worry about herself, he needs to figure his own life out its not her problem, thats not her husband! Then finding out about 5 kids , 2 years into the relationship? No
He’s “religious,” but they’re having sex? And, he has not introduced you to anyone after six months? Ma’am, please stop playing yourself.
This was on my mind too
The description "religious" is overrated. Most these women out here claim to be religious but they lost their virginity in their teens or very early 20s and only reference religion with regard to what it dictates a man should do for them. They twerking in the club Thursday thru Saturday and then come to church on Sunday, say a couple hallelujah amens and then back to being worldly again.
I feel like a lot of women accept anything just to say they’re in a relationship. He doesn’t sound like a catch whatsoever
Pickmeishas 😢 and it never works out for them
Exactly so true smh
You are what you attract
@@Dallas_214-wy1ix if that’s the case both sides want to use each other and give very little if that’s the case
@Dallas_214-wy1ix it ain't about being a pickmeisha. Unless you women are doing the chasing, you're all pickmeishas because you either get picked or you don't.
Women don't like to admit that they're with who they qualify for. Some women only qualify for bum ninjas. Some of all even prefer the advantage that you have over a bum ninja because it beats having to submit to a capable man.
So she stated he is a good guy about 10 times but yet for all he lied about his kids? Ladies yall need to stop trying to see good in these men and leave when red flags are waved.
Yes, they need to stop lying to themselves. They can see the good all they want, but the red flags as you say, is how they end up lying to themselves…
I know so many women like this…just in lala land, and ignoring everyone and thing around them.
Ladies when we say "I don't know", it means "I know" but I don't like the answer. Ladies we are not Therapist or Life Coaches. This Man has a lot going on that she should NOT take on.
These girl, pages are hilarious
You are what you attract
This woman is trying to do the “cool girl” thing and she knows it’s not working. If she were to make a new bumble account and log in she would 100% see his profile still active.
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Definitely “trying” because she would be outside already if she really didn’t care and not calling Ashley.
@@EvaElyse Right, calling in for validation like the rest of these ladies
All these women is coming to her page expecting life-changing advice you are what you attract. This is keep it a bean
If his profile is still active that means he still look or he for want anything serious
The “chill girl thing” is not it. Hanging around in situationships will usually lead to wasting time. If y’all having seggs, why don’t you want to be the girl who asks, “what are we doing?” Is it that she’s afraid he’ll leave if she asks for a title? If so, isn’t that a sign you shouldn’t be together?
Willing to risk pregnancy and STI’s but draws the line on defining the relationship? I think she knows it’s probably not gonna go anywhere.
That’s the dynamic in the black community, they think having kids is a bigger commitment than marriage. That backwards logic is why the out of wedlock and fatherless rates are astronomical. Every non black man I’ve been with couldn’t wait to make me their girlfriend. These dudes don’t really like you but black women will pretend to not see it- thinking letting him use you and your body will eventually get him to love you, that will never happen.
“ I’m a young bad bitch” but yet questioning if she’s committed to something is mathematically off
Just confused
She’s young… duh
@@T.H-v4h26 is grownn , stop infantilizing adults
It’s the five kids… I can’t get over that part.
And only mentioned one…
That’s the best that she can attract. Knowing your lane is important
1 makes me woozy 2 is like DAMN lol… anything over 2 I’m out!
@@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938 no stop brainwashing them to date trash
It amazes me how these women fall for scammers, but dismiss real men.
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The dudes are likely better looking than them
If you are a young single woman with no kids dont get involved with a man with kids. Start fresh with a man who matches you with no kids. Now if you're 40's and older most people have lived life enough to decide if they can deal with all the conflicts that may come.
If I say jump, he’ll say how high? 😂 and miss “I don’t know” know damnnnn well that man is using her. A manipulative man will give you a few dollars initially to make it seem like they are helping you only to turn around and make you feel indebted to them later.
↪️I'll be damned to be 26 in a 6 months situationship (I'm 33), he clearly doesn't want to commit
↪️I'm Congolese and lived in Toronto for 5 years, I went back to Paris last Sept cause the Canadian dating game is DRY! Gurl leave, He's defo lying and 5 kids is too much 😮
Once upon a time, I was 26 in a 6 month situationship 🥴
@@DrYettyBby not judging 🙏🏾and I'm glad you're out of it 💜
Ashley’s face when she said he was gonna start a clothing line😂😂😂😂😂
The most insane story
"he's going to be he next Karl Lagerfeld?" took me out. I love this woman she's beautiful funny and smart!
But when a women wants a 1 % man that doesn’t sound to off.
@@BLessed758😂😂😂😂😂
that final word by Ms Ashley was it!!! you can do so much better alone if you gon do all that for a dummy
For the first woman- they both aren’t taking each other seriously . She said she’s dating other men and she keeps saying “I can go outside …it’s summer time “. She might as well go outside because she really doesn’t want a relationship anyway.
I bet it’s all ego driven since she probably think he’s talking to other women as well. She should ask herself if she really wants that man or she just wants to be the one that he picks.
She wants to have a relationship. She just trying to be cool.
This is a great point. I don’t think he’s taking her serious but if he was and wanted to pursue something serious with her, hearing this would be the end of that. Why would he? He’s be a dummy to take a woman talking like this serious. It’s not at all attractive.
If a man is serious about a commitment with you, there won’t be anything to question. We make it very clear in our words and our actions.
@@sarahjoe2457 She said if he was to say yeah let’s date (referring to a commitment) , then she will feel like “oh shit, it’s really happening” and “that’s a lot of commitment to me.” Wondering why a man hasn’t committed to you in 6 months but also saying that’s a lot of commitment sounds like she’s playing games too.
@@JB19_92yeah I agree. She didn’t really say anything to show that she really likes him as a person. Just how they go on dates and chill/sleepover . Doesn’t sound serious.
If you don't know, that's not your man. My fiance on date 3 was asking about being my boyfriend I told him we could date but AI don't do boyfriend girlfriend, it's fiance or dating. I met all of his friends and family within 2 months. He asked me to marry him at month 9.
He did it out of pity for you begging for a ring.
I love Ashley! 🩵she said “y’all eating …having segg” 😂😂
That lady said that she takes that religious ish seriously 😐 @3:18
Yeah. She’s really immature.
She was manic. Like over caffeinated or something. Disassociated and confused. She doesn’t know if she wants to be in a relationship or not. She like chaos.
And she said if he says “no” she’s gonna be “outside.” So she’s going to open her legs for randoms because this guy doesn’t want her? She’ll be playing herself and only HERSELF.
She’s too immature to see any of this I think. It’s sad. She needs to take a deep breath, be quiet for a long time, and figure out what actually matters to her and where she is going.
@@JellieJoShmo You said it best.
@@JellieJoShmobeing outside don’t mean all dat…
@@JellieJoShmo That’s not what outside means. 😂
Case #1: As a woman, you have to understand that if a man wanted you to be anything, he’ll tell you AND show you. We’ve gotta stop wasting time & trying to assume to a “desired” position. If he hasn’t called you anything other than a friend, then that’s just exactly what you are.
These women, my goodness! This is how I know I could NEVER be Ashley! Because the kindness you have to show when these women ask the dumbest questions! 5 kids?! What’s there to discuss? Does she have any? Goodness me, these women are ‘stronger’ than me. 😮
They know exactly how to deal with the situation they're denying the reality
So much is going on here. Man,we accept so much foolery. The fact that you did not know he had 5 kids is a red flag. He's giving you money because he's preparing you for something and you're going to feel obligated to do whatever it is and him asking to move with you to Paris,ma'am he's using as a means to get ahead.
Ladies, please trouble yourself to find the right bra.
Thank you from the men
And the 2nd lady has a 6 year old DAUGHTER contemplating letting a deadbeat dad move in?????
Thanks!
As someone working on their self of stem… both of these women need to work on their self esteem…dating a man for 6 months aka half a yr that hasn’t defined the relationship,it’s time to exit… a man with 5 kids and financial troubles wanting to run away is a problem, oh HELL NO.
People always think that a God fearing person is someone, who simply goes to church. Based on her description of their situationship, their having sex and not married. And, he’s stringing her along. He doesn’t sound very god fearing, to me
Yep
No. That's not your man.
Unless he says you my lady then you're not.
And stop asking him.. just fall back and start dating other people.😊
@@iamstaceyrobinsonI completely disagree, DEFINITELY ASK. Ask clearly and get your answer. A mature man would have no problem asking, being asked, and responding clearly.
@@JellieJoShmo I used to think and practice this and there are some outliers, but ultimately it never works out how we want it to..
Because it's not in our best interest to initiate this conversation with the dude..
We give over our power by doing so.
Please hear me out..
If he was a mature man that's not playing games and was really serious about locking her down he woulda been did that..
Listen I been the backburner bitch enough times to know that.
They been together 6months. .and neither of them have met each other peoples?.
He having his cake and eating it too... he knows what he's doing..
Even if she does meet his people.. if the man hasn't openly expressed with his mouth that he is going to be exclusive with you, wants you to be exclusive with him...
If HE SAY SO...not because of the lovebombing and other stuff they do to manipulate and make us think we committed...
Make sense?
But she has to decide exactly what she really wants first.
And I think that she really wants to be in a committed relationship with him, but she's afraid to rock the boat and lose him..
But that's a terrible position to be in for her....
And a real mature man that is into her like that wants her to feel comfortable and ain't gon play these games..
He ain't gonna be hiding his woman..
She only hides because he hiding..
All because she doesn't want to lose him...
And what I recommend as Auntie and someone who been there is to choose herself and take what cues she's already been given and just match and mirror his energy...
"GO OUTSIDE" like she said....
She should be outside anyway ..don't ever let a man change who you are and what you love.. a man should complement your life not be your whole life..
And like what Ash said, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
He's not motivated to change anything..she the one stressed out about asking him if they "go together"..
She's a beautiful sister with fabulous chocolate skin.. we not being back burner bitches this summer, ok ladies?..🙏🏽💗
@@JellieJoShmo Exactly. Yall intentions should be stated from the jump on what yall both looking for. If he didn't make you his within 3 months, ask the question directly. Depending on the answer, you can give him another 3 months...then either yall together or you move on. That Simple!
@@jayc5756 I don’t think the length of time really matters. It’s not about 3 months until X, then another 3 months until Y. If you’re feeling already emotionally invested and want to define the relationship, then ask. If you’re okay with ambiguity then stay, if you’re not then leave. It’s pretty simple. We’re not going to be compatible with everyone and we are entitled to our own expectations & desired timelines. And other people are entitled to theirs.
Personally, I expect a man that’s serious about me to want to be exclusive pretty quickly & move out of the dating stage pretty quickly too - like a marriage proposal within a year. That’s because I’m dating for marriage though, not to be a girlfriend. It has made me uncomfortable, and ultimately I left, when I had to ask more than once. That kind of a dynamic will never evolve into something sincere and committed imo. I would just be resentful anyway. So, to each their own. My advice is simply to: ASK CLEARLY. There is no human being superior to you that you have to walk on eggshells for.
God bless ❤️
6 months? By then most men know if they would propose let alone her not being sure they're in a relationship...she's his time filler woman until he finds what he really wants
Question...why did the paris lady accept the lie of omission? You knew of one...but then found out about the other 4...what? He has no job other than being "handsome". How is that sexy?
Chile, I was wondering the same thing. How do we go from 1 child to 5? That’s a whole tribe. I’m not dealing with that! I’m shocked she never asked why he lied.
And P.S. that’s not a lie by omission. That’s just a full blown lie! For him to specifically say ‘one child’ is a lie. He could’ve said any number but chose one as it sounds better. Anyone can give anyone grace for one- the condom split, he was young etc. but 5!!!! Damn!! No that’s a hard NO!! Be gone demon!
It sounds like she has all the answers to everything!
I hate ppl like this
Can the second lady right a business plan for me?😂
In 2024 we still care about men looks. I’m 24 idgaf about men looks. How is that bag and what’s ur character like!!!!!
1:28 girl 6 months and you don’t know by now? Ain’t no way.
He wants to leave the USA and that child support
The fact that she’s even considering being with a man who would LEAVE his 5 kids???
Lmao he prob can’t if he owes back support😂
Religious...but how are you "in her body"? Make it make sense
And she said she’s not religious but then said she takes that religious sh*t seriously. Which is it? They’re both deeply confused. I don’t see that situation working out at all.
That money is to keep her in this “limbo” that is convenient for him.
The First Lady comes across very immature and a little masculine too
I’ll be honest… it seems like she’s a placeholder for his God fearing wife. Can’t be living your life depending on his answer. Move on and if he’s serious about you, he’ll make it official
These shows make me so glad that I found my wife. My wife is everything these women aint …she damn sure ain’t delusional.
Omg that user guy “handsome” got her shaking and acting up cuz why on the earth would she fall for this 21:11 he is clearly just using her and is a horrible dad on top of it💀😂 Ladies close the legs or otherwise you’ll starts to act like this smh
These women start telling their story and realize that everyone thinks they’re dumb and then they’re like “Yea, he pays for everything, blah blah blah”
Chile. The Parisian girl is getting played. She gone be taking care of a grown man with 5 kids with little coins
ASHLEY THE WIG IS GIVING PIXIE CUT AND IT MEANS YOU CAN ROCK PIXIE CUT
He wants to get on your back and ride your waves with his handsome self...if he lacks drive then that's why he is standing still
Lying on children is a deal breaker.
I could barely listen to her with all the “like…like…like” at 26 years old. 😮💨
And the hands
Fashion Designer staaap it, just stop it sis. Is it desperation or low self-esteem sis because what the hell are you doing in this mess you can't even explain to Ashley.
I wish I had enough energy to get out once we are done work, it is not easy. But noone else is going to do it for us
This women know theses ain’t 💩. Be honest with yourself. I think some women like mess so they can cry foul later??? Y’all too old for this SMDH
Yall ladies please come off of these dating apps! Get out into the real world. It’s so much better and gives you a reason to get dressed and get cute and come out. Like Shera said dating apps are for the bottom of the barrel rejects.
No disrespect- but I’m happy that I’m centering self and my self esteem so I’m never a pick me again. These stories are something 🫤
First girl seems like the “fun girl” she’s the girl he chills with, not someone he’s taking serious. She’s too goofy.
The Buffalo bf of 2 years sounds like he is in some illegal entrepreneurship
run chocolate 😅🥰 both of yall deserve good bros 💯
The first girl, I could not keep up with the slang. I'm a weeeeee lost
She’s just confused and immature. If she didn’t use slang, I still don’t think we’d understand her because she doesn’t understand herself.
1st lady: why wait to ask instead of living life now?
Bc if she saw him w another woman he could say- oh we never made it official. Do the same thing.
Live your life and have multiple options.
Girl ruuunn..I know someone who had a child by a men who had already 9 children by 5 different women.. he will ask you to help raise his children besides that he can't just move to Paris because he is American citizen...To get a visa in some EU countries its difficult
The Paris woman is going to get played
Wanting a man to leave his children for a make believe clothing brand internationally is ultimate bum vibes. A man that denies his own children will never move honorably. Find an adult, that’s a child.
Ashley is such a beauty 😍
we women were given intuition yet we always want to ask someone what we should do even when Jesus smacks us in the face Himself and tells us it's a NO! bless her she came on here already not feeling good about the lying / not ever wanting to create his own business like a grown man - type of boyfriend - some women just want to be needed and feel needed but sis, he wants your money and resources and royalties, not you. You felt that from the beginning before you created that business plan. Trust your intution -God gave you that for a reason. Go to Paris and meet your REAL mate and live your best life... por la reste de la vie!
She doesn't look 26
But, sounds like she’s 15!
Yes very odd she looks old, but her mind is definitely a child.
I thought I was the only one lmaoo it’s definitely giving 36 🙃
Black does crack nowadays yall
Nooooo Paris Lady…RUN ma’am.
With the 2nd lady it sounds like he is making an investment up front so that later down the line he can use all of her money😬 …. & have an excuse saying… you don’t remember all that money I spent on you 👀… no mam 😂😂
Good observation
You dont spend the night over a mans house who says he goes to church or is supposed to be saved😂
That’s why I don’t take religion when it comes to black people serious. I used to go to a church where several of those god fearing women were turned into baby mamas. All a dude has to say is he is religious and god fearing to get between these women’s legs. When people say church women are the easiest they are right, make it make sense.
For the second woman, if you don’t go somewhere and sit downnnnn. Too old to be dealing with THAT kind of foolishness fr. I don’t even need to hear the whole story bc you got me at 5 kids. Learn how to say enough when it is indeed enough.
First female is probably fun but way too "over the top" for a lot of guys. No real feminine energy. Just too much. Take it down a few notches. IMO.
We see first hand a scam happening in person. Bring him to Paris beautiful if you want the heartache later on. Stop being desperate or helpful as you say
What’s up with the bra/chest situation?
Right? I’m trying to figure it out! 😱
19:09 😂 no waaayyyy
being the cool girl or pick me girl wont get u anywhere but used...females work on yourself first so you know your worth! have self respect self love. he sounds like too much baggage and you are walking on egg shells for whaaaat??? she seems so nice..and deserves someone who has himself together, but fill you glass first so you wont second guess yourself in dating
Girl noooooooooooooooooo😢 5 kids 😢 business plan😢move to another city 😢 works like a maniac 😢 you have freedom and you worked hard for that go outside meet someone !!! God has better for you
10:05 from
Buffalo
She is confusing herself with what her available options. That is why she hasn't left. It ain't easy being alone. Even worse for some people.
He isn’t struggling financially handing her $100 every time they go out.
I’m lost if he say no you’ll just dump him. He ain’t got nothing he ain’t with you so you mean, you just walk away and except the fact that you wasted your time and gave up the box this will be honest man.
15:39 is being intentionally misleading....
Damn I thought I put on too much makeup. Lemme continue 😩
Ai Mama. No. NEXT. Friendzone
My Love. Good Luck on your own business and Paris ❤️👑🙏🌹
Religious God-fearing but "spinnin da night" with no implications of commitments. 🚩🚩🚩 y'all both not in yall Religious bag, where is the discernment.
So many games....just ask him what it is, then move accordingly!
1 child is one too many. But 5!?!? 5!!!! 1,2,3,4,5????!!!!!!! Nah Lmao
The woman from Paris has a small daughter and she’s thinking about letting a man who doesn’t have anything come into her home? Lord
In love this channel it be giving me the game on what to look for to NOT DATE lol the min any woman I talk to sound like she on this show im
Gone
I got just enough money for me lol 😅😂😊
The first one I don’t think it takes 6 months to know 😅
There's no potential past 25
You have work ethic or you don't
Dating for 6mths is a lot of emotions involved🧐If the Man wanted her to be his Lady he would’ve made “it” official
If you stay with a guy for two years, they got five kids throughout them two years you knew that’s what you deserve. Let’s just be honest man y’all be glad these women on this show and don’t check them. Be honest with them G like you got your equal
I see why there are so many pick me's in the world
Women lie a lot. I realise the more of these videos I watch.
Move on baby you desire true commitment ❤
He has more than 5 kids hiding somewhere.
Second lady needs to go back to Paris and worry about herself, he needs to figure his own life out its not her problem, thats not her husband! Then finding out about 5 kids , 2 years into the relationship? No
My thing is if he wanted her she wouldn’t have to ask
Do not do it! At 42 with 5 children he can’t focus on you. Paris? He need to focus on his children. Find a man who can actually focus on you.
Is he really her man without a commitment?
Sorry to say sis, your a place holder. Move on
Second one lying… either her or him, but there’s lies being told
Girl no 5 kids woah 😳
Pickmeishas never get picked 🥴
I did.
@@pickmeisha LMAO 😂
Sound like counterfeit money