The first woman needs to get very clear about what she wants. She keeps on contradicting herself. If you are not clear about what you want, then how are you supposed to attract what you want?
@@myeshabrown9114 nothing wrong with being a masculine woman. However her tone here just seemed a bit combative, condescending, and unwelcoming. Her demeanor made Ash just rush end her questionnaire.
I came here for this comment. She keeps contradicting herself. She doesn’t really know what she’s saying so when Ashely tried to give her advice she was doing too much
I think she's saying that if he's of God, then they'll go on faith, and everything should work out. Too bad life isn't that way anymore, and women have to labor babies and at work. She basically wants a Bible fantasy life
@@FDouglas1895lol that’s why Jesus died for our sins. That’s why God gives us grace. He knows we wouldn’t walk the walk. The fact she hasn’t forgotten him is more important than “looking” holier than thou ❤
@@hellothere8347thank God you’re not God & God is God!!! Because he’s very patient with his children. Even in her shortcomings, he gives us grace. Read your Bible babe ❤
@@Babygirlygirl1232yup I do. God don’t bless no mess. I’m no better than her but he gone bless her with that guy when she start doing things differently and he sees she ready. Yes god gives grace that’s the one thing I truly love about him. You don’t know me hun.
I’m sorry but Lex pretty much just likes the sound of her own voice because her actions and words don’t match. God this and God that but is 25 and out here having multiple children out of wedlock. 20k a year (aka a part time retail salary) is ok but he also has to be able to fully provide. Claims to have her life somewhat together but lists off a bunch of Instagram hustle girl jobs signaling she doesn’t have a true profession. Coming onto some else’s platform to ask for advice just to get combative whenever they speak.
These women kill me with these height requirements!!!! I’ve just never thought about this in my life. My husband is 5’7” tall just like me, I couldn’t be happier!!!❤❤❤❤
Right cause, regular guys average height is 5’7. These ladies looking for athletes 😂. I also believe they just listening to other ladies videos and just repeating what they heard. This new world we living in ain’t even producing men who are 6 feet and taller. That was the average height two generations ago. Just saying.
To be the flower/sit there a look pretty is literally “to be in your feminine”. She said it’s a plus to be in your femininity but also said it’s a must to be the flower that sits, looks pretty, and waits for the bee. So many contradictions. Hope she sorts it all out!
As a nervous talker, I’m taking notes on how to talk and how not to talk… mostly the most important thing I noted is to listen and let the other person speak and don’t get too excited… which I always do 😅
These woman should not be by any standards you set yourself on . Just ask some guys that you be interested what like that give you clarity on how to express and present yourself self by connecting your heart with your mind
@@adrianroberson903 I’m not trying to modify how I talk to ‘how a guy would like it’… that would be a waste of my time and brain power… any guy that would like someone like that is not my guy, because i am my own complex and interesting Individual… I don’t want to sell myself short by focusing just on shallow things… I like a complex guy with high IQ, not someone who just looks at shoes and clothes for selecting a mate 🤗
Lord... the first young lady talks more than she listens. She's not being logical. He also gives us wisdom and knowledge to survive, sustain, and succeed. Why did she reach out to Ashley if she already "knows" the answer...
That first lady is a whole mess. She better go sit down with herself, take a book and a pen and write down what she wants out of life. She was all over the place and too defensive. Ashley was so graceful as always.
The first young lady is very confused about what she wants. She's also conflating preferences for standards. On the one hand, she doesn't care about salary yet she wants a full provider. A full provider would imply a salary requirement higher than $20K. She also wants a tall man and she's talking to a man that's 6'5. Besides height what do these men bring? She said she usually attracts narcissists but now she's been attracting higher quality men yet she's still single. She is filled with contradictions. She also implied that she's very friendly yet her ex thought she was being flirty. There's a difference between friendly and flirty. This woman is very confused and unfocused. I don't see how a man of God who earns enough to take care of her and her two children would invest time, energy, and effort in a woman who is very confused and unintentional. Also a woman of God moves in a certain way, moves with a certain grace, intention and direction. She's very clear about her boundaries and what she wants out of life. Even her stated professions seemed unfocused. She says she knows what she wants yet what I've outlined here is clearly a state of confusion. Ashley asked these questions for a reason. Her line of questioning was like a cross-examination and the young lady's answers proved Ashley's unstated point - this woman needs to slow down, be single for a while, focus on her own lot in life, focus on God, and then the right man may come into her life.
I'm willing to bet she was the problem in the relationship. She is clearly superficial - sought the attention of other men , so her ex tried to rein her in
@@brianfreckles8542 That's the impression I got from it. Too much mention about God revealing this and that. Too many excuses. Most guys won't want their woman talking flirtatiously with other guys. She never said he was controlling only that she would be too friendly. She hasn't healed yet clearly and needs to be single for a while.
She’s from NYC that’s how a lot of the women speak here. Maybe that’s why she on defense. 🤷♀️ That used to be me. I wasn’t aggressive, but because of the way I spoke I was perceived as such. I used to feel like to know me is to love me. Hopefully she does some self reflection and inner work. That’s what helped me.
I don’t believe any of these women know how to date. Before you date any man he should court you. And you should see how he handles his emotions before you are dating. And if he is not treating the women in his life well or his children, that should be a deal breaker.
"He just wants me to sit pretty, while he does everything". Where in history has that ever been the expectation. Meghan Markle is an ACTUAL princess and that life was too much for her. Unreal expectations.
based on what the first guest is saying, being of the lord is not the no.1 characteristic. Being taller than 6 feet is. She really tried to used to bible to defend saying a man is supposed to provide but its optional for a women to be feminine 😂 she was ready to argue. 2nd guest is looking for the perfect man inside and out making 200k but he can't control what she does 🙄.
The first young woman, Lex, was so defensive. It was like she was ready to argue with every question asked. Why even come up, with that type of attitude. There was no need to be defensive. Not sure if it stems from the trauma of dating narcissists. Her attitude was way off. For the guys that may have been interested, she might have scared them off. I hope she will re-listen to the interview to see herself.
I got the same impression. Swipe to the left. Unfortunately, any Man will not like that attitude. Especially a High Value Man, they will swipe to the left as soon as she answers them like this video and looks at them with sarcasm. Unfortunately, Self work is still necessary.
She was very pretty and I did like her entrepenaural spirit. But the energy was a bit on the masculine side. She was clear about wanting a man of god... wishing her all the best... ❤
Why do people put God into their foolishness? Why would god wait until after you had babies with a man that you were supposedly not supposed to be with to tell you to leave? This woman was combative and had no critical thinking skills. If you want a man to take care of you, then how much money he makes matters to determine whether or not he will be capable of doing that. "God will provide" is not an answer. There's plenty of homeless and struggling people in the world that aren't getting what they want in this world. The bee and flower analogy didn't even make any sense unless she is fine with him having other women. A bee doesn't just go to one flower.
The first woman will likely attract a broke man since she doesn’t have much financial standards. The second woman should remain single until she come back down to earth. She’s asking for too much and that man likely does not exist without kids, wanting control or short features.
You have 2 young children...you have to care about the money! Just because people are Godly, they still fall short and struggle in many areas of life . ..
My goodness, the first caller .......wow. Reminds me to ensure I am guiding my daughter with emotional and rational intelligence. My hat goes off to you and your endurance. Please keep going.
The first woman doesn’t understand how contradictory she sounds 🤦🏽♀️ just say money DOES matter because you want a provider. I wish she listened more to the point Ashley was trying to make, it was only going to help her.
Ooooh LEX 😂 BABY you are all over the place and just wanna argue… this is a DATING SHOW. The questions are necessary for establishing a CRITERIA. You can’t say in one breath a man can make $15k but then say the man for you is going to make MORE than that? Maybe some places he can provide the bare minimum on $15k/yr but not for you AND 2 kids? If God is just going to send the perfect man why put yourself out there on this platform? 7:14 and she absolutely did say she wants to “sit pretty” which is by definition resting in your feminine 🙄 my girl has been listening to the dusties complain about gold diggers or something bc she is just struggling…
The first woman is we men call a chameleon… cannot listen… gets defensive and you can tell has an attitude…. Stop the cap, money does come into the equation…
The first woman acts like she knows what she wants but still has a “I will go with the flow” attitude . Also she should stop lowballing herself. The least she should ask for is a man who makes about the same amount of money as her. She has two children, what man is providing for her( and her children eventually ) with 15/20k ?? 😂 She needs to stop being inconsistent .
@@CutieHoney13 yeah she’s not and what she’s describing is not hard to find . If she’s religious, then I’m assuming she goes to church. The church or other religious events seem like a good place to search for a God-fearing man.
@@LaiLai..she has two kids outside of marriage, we all make mistakes but those are sins. She should stop acting like she’s sin free, when she’s clearly a sinner not following gods massage when it comes to kids
It was more of a lack of logic than lowballing herself. Her answer was "God will provide" which doesn't make sense to the question that was asked. She's saying she doesn't care about the number because "God will provide", but there IS a minimum number that is necessary to take care of her, her two kids, himself, and a household.
@@CutieHoney13To take care of a family of 4 (which would be the case if he was supposed to provide for her and her kids off just his income) is WAY below poverty. As of 2023 the income needed to reach poverty level for a family of 4 is $30,000 🥴
Lexxx seems scared of admitting that she wants a man from a certain tax bracket because there's no reason to say she's okay with an impoverished man as long as he's providing - at least be more realistic and say you want a blue collar man or something. But to contradict yourself and front like that in attempts to seem less of a "gold digger" and soften the blow by saying you'd be okay with $15K/yr is a lie. Not even people who actually make this amount themselves is okay with it so why would you be? I remember lying to myself and saying I didn't care if a man had a money so I could come across as a good woman to these modern day men and ignored the teachings of my parents that a man SHOULD be a provider and he will need money to do so. Just stop and be more honest with yourself.
Second woman "i feel like guys look at me and say they cant afford me"😅😅😅 the conceited nature of young women hilarious. Nothing wrong with self-esteem but when you gravitate to conceited personality, life has away of humbling
I recently stopped talking to a friend because she was SOOO self absorbed. Some women seriously overdo it. You really can’t tell people like that 💩 because they feel like they’ve got it all figured out.
@@tasintamron true story, when I was younger, before I was married, I was at a night club, I was dancing with this young lady- as we danced she whispered in my ear "I saw you looking at me from the bar, it's okay, you know how beautiful I am" I didn't have the heart to tell her that I take my glasses off at clubs to look cool and I was blind as a bat🤣🤣🤣 this was before I discovered the blessings of the contact lens 🤣🤣
she has a really nasty personality. one second men dont approach her and thats a good thing but then they do approach her and its usually dustys lol. so you get approached by dusties in your everyday life but get on here talking like you're god's gift
Seems to be so extreme nowadays either $100,000 or $15,000 😢 the delusion.. if she’s talking to a 6’5 guy.. she better invest in him- she has an attitude as well.. what in the world is going on.. all these internet answers
i dont understand....so after you have "lived" your life a man is suppose to come into this as and take you as you are??? WHY would a single man do that ???
As a woman myself hearing everyone come on here and describe the perfect man that technically doesn’t exist on this earth is Crill and men will pick a woman really despite of how she looks really more so how she treats him and if she’s loyal, I think we all need to be a little more humble because These expectations will get us nowhere me included 😢
Any woman with a child under the age of 10, should not be dating. I think you need to focus on the babies and getting them through life. Ensuring they have a balanced relationship with the other parent. You didn't marry the man, but you pushed the kids out for him, So you are still tied to him for life. Pregnancy/delivery is still marriage.
And you must be a never married, multi-time baby daddy because you sure as heck didn't deny it. Y'all are always the loudest and most judgemental group. @@Gotinks 🤣
People who misquote the Bible and use God’s name in vain! Playing with religion should be dealt with, with serious consequences! It’s funny how women know what God told man to do but never mention what God told women to do! “Sitting pretty” is nowhere in the Bible!
The first woman was wayyy too defensive and doesn’t know how to listen. Based on the responses to her questions, she sounds very confused and she contradicts herself a lot.
You must like red but he can’t like red and he needs to be a Leo but I hate Leo’s and if his shoe size is under 6 it’s a deal breaker and I love man with small feet 😂 the contradictions are wild
Sis is just talking and contradicting herself left and right. Kevin samuels did not have the type of patience as Ashley. Lol. This young lady does not even listen to understand a single question.
The First Lady was extremely disrespectful and I see why she’s single. She knew that her child’s father was looney but chose to be with him based on her delusions. She also shouldn’t call him a narcissist because it shows that she’s a bit of one as well; like attracts like.
This first woman is superficial- you can tell by whats important to her. She probably sought the attention of other men so her ex tried to rein her in. This is something important to a healthy marriage. You have to realize that its important when you are young and married to respect the fact that your spouse wants you to respect them. You never know, the roles will certainly switch when you are 40+. Your man may now be the one attracting all the attention as your body changes- but YOU set the standards in the early part of the marriage - then its YOU who may want him to stop interacting with members of the opposite gender- life is funny like that.
It is wild to imply that this man had his way with his girlfriend, it doesn't even make sense why would he complain about her not giving it up if he was going to take it anyways making implications like that is wildly irresponsible
The first woman needs to get very clear about what she wants. She keeps on contradicting herself. If you are not clear about what you want, then how are you supposed to attract what you want?
She’s very masculine woman unfortunately.
@@myeshabrown9114 nothing wrong with being a masculine woman. However her tone here just seemed a bit combative, condescending, and unwelcoming. Her demeanor made Ash just rush end her questionnaire.
I came here for this comment. She keeps contradicting herself. She doesn’t really know what she’s saying so when Ashely tried to give her advice she was doing too much
I think she's saying that if he's of God, then they'll go on faith, and everything should work out. Too bad life isn't that way anymore, and women have to labor babies and at work. She basically wants a Bible fantasy life
She just saying that she is not putting money as the main requirement but she knows the man God has for her will want to provide that soft for her .
I think a lot of ppl throw the lord and god around and they don’t fit the bill themselves
This is absolutely true. A lot of God talk yet they clearly are not walking the walk of God.
Yes it makes me mad. Then she said Jesus you hear my prayers like girl be quiet. Don’t put God in it if you ain’t ready to do it his way
@@FDouglas1895lol that’s why Jesus died for our sins. That’s why God gives us grace. He knows we wouldn’t walk the walk. The fact she hasn’t forgotten him is more important than “looking” holier than thou ❤
@@hellothere8347thank God you’re not God & God is God!!! Because he’s very patient with his children. Even in her shortcomings, he gives us grace. Read your Bible babe ❤
@@Babygirlygirl1232yup I do. God don’t bless no mess. I’m no better than her but he gone bless her with that guy when she start doing things differently and he sees she ready. Yes god gives grace that’s the one thing I truly love about him. You don’t know me hun.
I’m sorry but Lex pretty much just likes the sound of her own voice because her actions and words don’t match.
God this and God that but is 25 and out here having multiple children out of wedlock. 20k a year (aka a part time retail salary) is ok but he also has to be able to fully provide. Claims to have her life somewhat together but lists off a bunch of Instagram hustle girl jobs signaling she doesn’t have a true profession. Coming onto some else’s platform to ask for advice just to get combative whenever they speak.
Fact: Bees avoid certain flowers. Bees even avoid some roses.
These women kill me with these height requirements!!!! I’ve just never thought about this in my life. My husband is 5’7” tall just like me, I couldn’t be happier!!!❤❤❤❤
Right cause, regular guys average height is 5’7. These ladies looking for athletes 😂. I also believe they just listening to other ladies videos and just repeating what they heard. This new world we living in ain’t even producing men who are 6 feet and taller. That was the average height two generations ago. Just saying.
How he gon provide on 15k?
😂😂😂😂😂
God will do it 😅
When you homeless, $15k goes a long way🤑
He gon provide 🍆 & stress.
To be the flower/sit there a look pretty is literally “to be in your feminine”. She said it’s a plus to be in your femininity but also said it’s a must to be the flower that sits, looks pretty, and waits for the bee. So many contradictions. Hope she sorts it all out!
She's lost in the sauce of virtue signaling Christian babble.
I heard someone recently say on social media that when you idolize your mate, a narcissistic personality will be your reward.
Very true !
I bet it was a female influencer right?? Smh
That’ll just make the flags more readable. A real man won’t take advantage and either leave or teach
Bingo!!! 💯
@@adrianrice6396you must’ve heard your name narc
Gender has no bearing on that comment
As a nervous talker, I’m taking notes on how to talk and how not to talk… mostly the most important thing I noted is to listen and let the other person speak and don’t get too excited… which I always do 😅
These woman should not be by any standards you set yourself on . Just ask some guys that you be interested what like that give you clarity on how to express and present yourself self by connecting your heart with your mind
Sameee girl
@@adrianroberson903 I’m not trying to modify how I talk to ‘how a guy would like it’… that would be a waste of my time and brain power… any guy that would like someone like that is not my guy, because i am my own complex and interesting Individual… I don’t want to sell myself short by focusing just on shallow things… I like a complex guy with high IQ, not someone who just looks at shoes and clothes for selecting a mate 🤗
🤣🤣🤣 These chicks are comedians
100%
A lot of them are not realistic.🤯🤯🤦🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
I get red flags by why do they only become red after the baby.
To the first woman- there is nothing wrong with !listening! to folks’ feedback and sitting on it for some time. Good luck
Yes. Very defensive
Right
“You could be a student” but you cant be a student yourself ! contradicting yourself!
now just imagine what her baby daddy had and still has to deal with.
Lord... the first young lady talks more than she listens. She's not being logical. He also gives us wisdom and knowledge to survive, sustain, and succeed. Why did she reach out to Ashley if she already "knows" the answer...
Bad breath is a deal breaker but felons , criminals or otherwise are okay lol😂
Right????😂😂😂
Lmao! Some threabreath will help, people are so silly 😂❤
That first lady is a whole mess. She better go sit down with herself, take a book and a pen and write down what she wants out of life. She was all over the place and too defensive. Ashley was so graceful as always.
If you are a women with children and saying money doesn't matter, you are prepping for poverty.
Say it louder for the
The first young lady is very confused about what she wants. She's also conflating preferences for standards. On the one hand, she doesn't care about salary yet she wants a full provider. A full provider would imply a salary requirement higher than $20K. She also wants a tall man and she's talking to a man that's 6'5. Besides height what do these men bring? She said she usually attracts narcissists but now she's been attracting higher quality men yet she's still single. She is filled with contradictions. She also implied that she's very friendly yet her ex thought she was being flirty. There's a difference between friendly and flirty. This woman is very confused and unfocused. I don't see how a man of God who earns enough to take care of her and her two children would invest time, energy, and effort in a woman who is very confused and unintentional. Also a woman of God moves in a certain way, moves with a certain grace, intention and direction. She's very clear about her boundaries and what she wants out of life. Even her stated professions seemed unfocused. She says she knows what she wants yet what I've outlined here is clearly a state of confusion. Ashley asked these questions for a reason. Her line of questioning was like a cross-examination and the young lady's answers proved Ashley's unstated point - this woman needs to slow down, be single for a while, focus on her own lot in life, focus on God, and then the right man may come into her life.
I'm willing to bet she was the problem in the relationship. She is clearly superficial - sought the attention of other men , so her ex tried to rein her in
Much more than 20K
@@brianfreckles8542 That's the impression I got from it. Too much mention about God revealing this and that. Too many excuses. Most guys won't want their woman talking flirtatiously with other guys. She never said he was controlling only that she would be too friendly. She hasn't healed yet clearly and needs to be single for a while.
Yea, she speaks a lot of Christianese, but the evidence is in contradiction. God is not send her no Christian man, let alone a 6' 5 dude.
These 6ft tall request is ridiculous! Yall aint never gonna find a man with this mindset
The first woman is a walking red flag and sooo aggressive when she speaks. Not soft spoken and feminine like Ashley
She’s from NYC that’s how a lot of the women speak here. Maybe that’s why she on defense. 🤷♀️ That used to be me. I wasn’t aggressive, but because of the way I spoke I was perceived as such. I used to feel like to know me is to love me. Hopefully she does some self reflection and inner work. That’s what helped me.
I don’t believe any of these women know how to date. Before you date any man he should court you. And you should see how he handles his emotions before you are dating. And if he is not treating the women in his life well or his children, that should be a deal breaker.
The first girl is drop dead gorgeous, but that ATTITUDE will scare away that “god fearing, provider man” that she is seeking.
Gorgeous?? Lol no
@@dinajones2761She was a beautiful young lady but a confused one as well.
You got to be kidding, calling her gorgeous. Something wrong with you women.
@Teetoy4 she is not beautiful. Not even close. Yall are terrible judges.
"He just wants me to sit pretty, while he does everything". Where in history has that ever been the expectation. Meghan Markle is an ACTUAL princess and that life was too much for her. Unreal expectations.
Having a kid out of wedlock and now all of a sudden you’re spiritual
Kids… plural
Everyone’s journey is different 😂😂
Whoever that therapist she is seeing, she needs to get her money back. Refund, refund and refund.
Repo that license asap 🙄
based on what the first guest is saying, being of the lord is not the no.1 characteristic. Being taller than 6 feet is. She really tried to used to bible to defend saying a man is supposed to provide but its optional for a women to be feminine 😂 she was ready to argue.
2nd guest is looking for the perfect man inside and out making 200k but he can't control what she does 🙄.
Makes absolutely no sense!!!
The first young woman, Lex, was so defensive. It was like she was ready to argue with every question asked. Why even come up, with that type of attitude. There was no need to be defensive. Not sure if it stems from the trauma of dating narcissists. Her attitude was way off. For the guys that may have been interested, she might have scared them off. I hope she will re-listen to the interview to see herself.
Exactly !!!
I got the same impression. Swipe to the left.
Unfortunately, any Man will not like that attitude.
Especially a High Value Man, they will swipe to the left as soon as she answers them like this video and looks at them with sarcasm.
Unfortunately, Self work is still necessary.
Yeah I was thinking why is she turning up on Ashley like that!?
I was trying to figure out if it was cultural. 🤷🏾♀️
She was very pretty and I did like her entrepenaural spirit. But the energy was a bit on the masculine side. She was clear about wanting a man of god... wishing her all the best... ❤
Why do people put God into their foolishness? Why would god wait until after you had babies with a man that you were supposedly not supposed to be with to tell you to leave?
This woman was combative and had no critical thinking skills. If you want a man to take care of you, then how much money he makes matters to determine whether or not he will be capable of doing that. "God will provide" is not an answer. There's plenty of homeless and struggling people in the world that aren't getting what they want in this world.
The bee and flower analogy didn't even make any sense unless she is fine with him having other women. A bee doesn't just go to one flower.
The first woman will likely attract a broke man since she doesn’t have much financial standards.
The second woman should remain single until she come back down to earth. She’s asking for too much and that man likely does not exist without kids, wanting control or short features.
She is not ugly 😂😂.. that was a good healthy laugh.. I needed that
You have 2 young children...you have to care about the money! Just because people are Godly, they still fall short and struggle in many areas of life . ..
Malaya looks wayyyyy younger than 31 good aging girllll !❤️
makeup
She’s gonna be beautiful and single with those requirements!!!!!
15K and provide - Those 2 things can't be true at the same time
This girl Malaya is literally out of her mind
My goodness, the first caller .......wow. Reminds me to ensure I am guiding my daughter with emotional and rational intelligence. My hat goes off to you and your endurance. Please keep going.
How could he fully provide if he’s on such a low salary? It’s not realistic
The first woman doesn’t understand how contradictory she sounds 🤦🏽♀️ just say money DOES matter because you want a provider. I wish she listened more to the point Ashley was trying to make, it was only going to help her.
Why was the first woman so hostile!! She was ready to fight 😅. She doesn’t need to be looking for a man, she needs to work on herself.
Both of these lovely ladies were exhausting... I wish them luck & love 😂
I agree about the husband suppose to take care of the wife and household.
Miss Lex what are you talking about girl 🤣🤣
Let's be honest, the first woman is 25 with two baby daddies. She's starting off in a bad way. She will not find a provider. Guys will still date her.
Ooooh LEX 😂 BABY you are all over the place and just wanna argue… this is a DATING SHOW. The questions are necessary for establishing a CRITERIA. You can’t say in one breath a man can make $15k but then say the man for you is going to make MORE than that? Maybe some places he can provide the bare minimum on $15k/yr but not for you AND 2 kids?
If God is just going to send the perfect man why put yourself out there on this platform? 7:14 and she absolutely did say she wants to “sit pretty” which is by definition resting in your feminine 🙄 my girl has been listening to the dusties complain about gold diggers or something bc she is just struggling…
Stop having babies without a husband ladies.
Fact: I have never seen a bee 🐝 that wanna stay on a 🌺 they usually take from the flower and leave. I guess that’s what she wants.
The first woman is we men call a chameleon… cannot listen… gets defensive and you can tell has an attitude….
Stop the cap, money does come into the equation…
Not Ashley taking Kendra G questions.
Verbatim. She doesn't even try to rephrase or add her own spin to them.
Yeah but Ashley will likely have better success stories. She’s married, feminine and compassionate. She gives feedback while still being kind.
Ppl live an Instagram life in reality. Shallow. Quick. Surface level. What appears to be.
The first woman acts like she knows what she wants but still has a “I will go with the flow” attitude .
Also she should stop lowballing herself. The least she should ask for is a man who makes about the same amount of money as her. She has two children, what man is providing for her( and her children eventually ) with 15/20k ?? 😂 She needs to stop being inconsistent .
15k sounds like poverty to me lol. She is not thinking logically.
@@CutieHoney13 yeah she’s not and what she’s describing is not hard to find . If she’s religious, then I’m assuming she goes to church. The church or other religious events seem like a good place to search for a God-fearing man.
@@LaiLai..she has two kids outside of marriage, we all make mistakes but those are sins. She should stop acting like she’s sin free, when she’s clearly a sinner not following gods massage when it comes to kids
It was more of a lack of logic than lowballing herself. Her answer was "God will provide" which doesn't make sense to the question that was asked.
She's saying she doesn't care about the number because "God will provide", but there IS a minimum number that is necessary to take care of her, her two kids, himself, and a household.
@@CutieHoney13To take care of a family of 4 (which would be the case if he was supposed to provide for her and her kids off just his income) is WAY below poverty. As of 2023 the income needed to reach poverty level for a family of 4 is $30,000 🥴
That first girl is crazy!!!😂😂😂😂
At 7:15 when Ashley says “okay” in her voice we know she didn’t bought whatever the callers say! 🤣🤣🤣
Lexxx seems scared of admitting that she wants a man from a certain tax bracket because there's no reason to say she's okay with an impoverished man as long as he's providing - at least be more realistic and say you want a blue collar man or something. But to contradict yourself and front like that in attempts to seem less of a "gold digger" and soften the blow by saying you'd be okay with $15K/yr is a lie. Not even people who actually make this amount themselves is okay with it so why would you be? I remember lying to myself and saying I didn't care if a man had a money so I could come across as a good woman to these modern day men and ignored the teachings of my parents that a man SHOULD be a provider and he will need money to do so. Just stop and be more honest with yourself.
The First girls math is not mathing 😵💫
Wants to be provided for with a 6' 200K pa man at 31yrs old and doesn't want to be 'controlled' and be free spirit - you can't make this s up
Make it make sense 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️ yet they say they want an alpha man. I love my husband being in charge, it turns me on!!!!!
Second woman "i feel like guys look at me and say they cant afford me"😅😅😅 the conceited nature of young women hilarious. Nothing wrong with self-esteem but when you gravitate to conceited personality, life has away of humbling
I recently stopped talking to a friend because she was SOOO self absorbed. Some women seriously overdo it. You really can’t tell people like that 💩 because they feel like they’ve got it all figured out.
@@tasintamron true story, when I was younger, before I was married, I was at a night club, I was dancing with this young lady- as we danced she whispered in my ear "I saw you looking at me from the bar, it's okay, you know how beautiful I am" I didn't have the heart to tell her that I take my glasses off at clubs to look cool and I was blind as a bat🤣🤣🤣 this was before I discovered the blessings of the contact lens 🤣🤣
She was annoying lmao
she has a really nasty personality. one second men dont approach her and thats a good thing but then they do approach her and its usually dustys lol. so you get approached by dusties in your everyday life but get on here talking like you're god's gift
@@brianfreckles8542😂😂😂
what type of dusty, what type of pookie 😂
Seems to be so extreme nowadays either $100,000 or $15,000 😢 the delusion.. if she’s talking to a 6’5 guy.. she better invest in him- she has an attitude as well.. what in the world is going on.. all these internet answers
Lex, please go sit with yourself and figure out what uou really want in Life and dont think about what others are saying
Second girl was attitude up and weaved up.. okay 😳
Malya is the worst type of chick to date, its clear why she is single.
The 31-year-old woman who is saying like this and like that should go to English language school. This isn't high school.
Lex was contradicting herself like crazy 😭😭
What is up with these young people and aesthetics
@5:18...Ashley calling out the BS😂😂
Short men club over here! I love them
The second guest is delusional
THE LAUGH AFTER POOKIE 😂😂😂
The pookies are looking for a place to live.
Even the bible says $$$ solve all things.... Ecclesiastes 10:19
A feast is made for laughter, and wine maketh merry: but money answereth all things.
i feel sad for a lot of these ladies....
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It’s crazy when a woman can see how delusional some of these women are
Me too they don’t even have basic common sense….
I cant date a man shorter than me, if hes got everything else i guess he can wear lifts
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the first girl needs to listen more and talk less
The first girl doesn’t really know what she wants…she keeps mentioning him needing to be “of the lord” which doesn’t really mean anything
i dont understand....so after you have "lived" your life a man is suppose to come into this as and take you as you are??? WHY would a single man do that ???
1st lady is crazy, no bees are coming to her flower bc there’s nooooo nectar or pollen. Wow
As a woman myself hearing everyone come on here and describe the perfect man that technically doesn’t exist on this earth is Crill and men will pick a woman really despite of how she looks really more so how she treats him and if she’s loyal, I think we all need to be a little more humble because These expectations will get us nowhere me included 😢
Any woman with a child under the age of 10, should not be dating. I think you need to focus on the babies and getting them through life. Ensuring they have a balanced relationship with the other parent. You didn't marry the man, but you pushed the kids out for him, So you are still tied to him for life. Pregnancy/delivery is still marriage.
Ridiculous suggestion and you sound super judgmental. 😂 Funny how you didn’t say women & MEN. 🤔Everyone deserves love! They can do both!
@@sheislaki You must be a baby mama, only BM would disagree with this. 🤣
And you must be a never married, multi-time baby daddy because you sure as heck didn't deny it. Y'all are always the loudest and most judgemental group. @@Gotinks 🤣
How can he provide if he only makes 20,000? Lmao
People who misquote the Bible and use God’s name in vain! Playing with religion should be dealt with, with serious consequences! It’s funny how women know what God told man to do but never mention what God told women to do! “Sitting pretty” is nowhere in the Bible!
That first lady did not make any sense 🤔
Why everyone says tall first? Most irrelevant
She doesn't understand what equally yoke is!.
The first lady seems to have drank the struggle love koolaid cause that made zero sense
The first woman was wayyy too defensive and doesn’t know how to listen. Based on the responses to her questions, she sounds very confused and she contradicts herself a lot.
You must like red but he can’t like red and he needs to be a Leo but I hate Leo’s and if his shoe size is under 6 it’s a deal breaker and I love man with small feet 😂 the contradictions are wild
First one willing to take care of her man based off what she said
Whew child😅
I dont understand why they keep making kids but know very well that they cant take care of them. Its sad 😢
I like the second girl.
Mam you have a whole 2-year old, you have lost all leverage😅
Lexx was surely a 25 year old to the T! 😂
Why these women look so much older than their age😭
Wearing makeup every single day for 2 decades.
He has to be 6 feet plus and she’s only 5’5? Girl be fr. 😂 These girls acting like they’re 6ft themselves with these crazy height requirements. 😂
I do not the feel bad for this new generation of women. When reality hits it will hit hard but they have to the touch the stove.smh
The first girl is still need healing, because she haven’t really figured and be clear what he wants from God
Parents are really failing their daughters today
Anybody know how to find out when these and Fashion Fridays happen?
Sis is just talking and contradicting herself left and right. Kevin samuels did not have the type of patience as Ashley. Lol. This young lady does not even listen to understand a single question.
The First Lady was extremely disrespectful and I see why she’s single. She knew that her child’s father was looney but chose to be with him based on her delusions. She also shouldn’t call him a narcissist because it shows that she’s a bit of one as well; like attracts like.
This first woman is superficial- you can tell by whats important to her. She probably sought the attention of other men so her ex tried to rein her in. This is something important to a healthy marriage. You have to realize that its important when you are young and married to respect the fact that your spouse wants you to respect them. You never know, the roles will certainly switch when you are 40+. Your man may now be the one attracting all the attention as your body changes- but YOU set the standards in the early part of the marriage - then its YOU who may want him to stop interacting with members of the opposite gender- life is funny like that.
Agreed, even those deal breakers smh 🤦🏾♀️
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If God is going to provide… why is she here… it’s confusing. We all need to do some self evaluation
It is wild to imply that this man had his way with his girlfriend, it doesn't even make sense why would he complain about her not giving it up if he was going to take it anyways making implications like that is wildly irresponsible