40 Year Age Gap... "Im Not A Gold Digger"
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Bruh nobody cares if you wanna gold dig or if you wanna be a sugar daddy. Just dont expect others to buy into your delusion that its something else lmao.
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She's really just into dead guys.
How about he's a PEDOPHILE for fukin women young enough to be his granddaughter.
I haven't laughed like the way you guys make me laugh in years bro thanks so much
I agree 👍 💯 🙆♀️
She's not a Gold Digger, she's the whole Mining Company.
She's a mining conglomerate 🤣
😂😂😂
And he's paying for p**** so what? They're two adults who obviously worked out a deal. He knows without money he's not getting that p**** and she knows without that p**** she ain't getting none of his money. The only stipulation I would have if I was him was I catch you f****** someone else and you're out of here and there is no marriage and you ain't living at my house
Every relationship is transactional….ESPECIALLY in dating so this is no different.
"I ain't saying she a gold digger but she ain't messing with no broke...."
3 months dating and you’ve gone on more vacations than average families go to in a decade. Yea sure, it’s a solid relationship based on true love of each other’s characters.
Right?? Delusional 😂😂
I was thinking the same thing, and I'm ok with age gap relations. Not to mention the dinner in the wine room, where she orders Dom Perignon. Then she gets diamond ear rings to match her diamond neckless. All this in 3 months, and we aren't even seeing all of it. She's all about the $$.
Your comment has me laughing bro 🤣
But _he's_ a creep for dating her according to the older women that have already hit their wall even though _she_ clearly has chosen him for the big payday. Lmao.
Yo the mom was like I never seen her so happy I’m like if I just vacationed for 3months I’d be happy too
I can hear Aba saying "IT IS A SICKNESSSSSS" from the thumbnail 😂🤣😂
That’s how you know it’s going to be a quality vid
ME TOO!!!!
SAME!! 😂😂🤣😂
It really is a goated phrase at this point
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Personally I don't have a problem with these relationships. They both win in some way. The problem I have is the lies. I would have more respect for the girl who says she's tired of brokenness and the old guy who says he missed some young couchie.
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Booom 🎯
I agree.
Disgusting you all say that shit until you have a daughter of your own
@@cheyb2257 It would only be a problem if she's under age. A 23 year old daughter is old enough
Her mother is happy she got the payday she missed out on, and knows once he kicks the bucket, she is going to be able to live the high life off the daughter.
For about 3 months until the money runs out.
😭😭
@@domgia9248 Lmao
Very possible
It would be hilarious if he didn’t include her in her will 😂
Aba really out here using how adorable his niece is to sell lamps. Absolutely shameless. I’ll be buying two.
C'est rouge!
🤣🤣🤣 I was thinking the same thing. But she was absolutely adorable and that was a cool ass lamp 🤷♀️
Facts 🤣
The best advertising I've seen in a while. Had my heartstrings pulled.
& me
As a North Carolina native, the joke was always that Charlotte was full of gold diggers since it's a huge financial sector for the state. Miners know where to find gold! 😂
I live in Charlotte, and I can confirm this.
Why are you going to mine gold where there is none? Woman are smart at being stupid. (there are good women out there)
the shock i saw when charlotte popped up on my screen lol. not familiar w the triangle like that, all i know is the drivers are monsters
Charlotte is a whole other world compared to the rest of the state, for sure
moving to Charlotte lmao
I would buy a “This is a sickness!!” T-shirt instantly just to let you know.
💯
And “Mental Health”
Same! Get the merch and we shall buy.😃
Saaaame
Wait you're telling me they haven't made merch with that quote yet? WHAT!? I'm honestly surprised
I went to college with a girl who told me straight up that she wanted to have a much older sugar daddy, said she understood the transaction and desired that kind of dynamic. Ran into her randomly 3 years later and boom... she found her sugar daddy and was wearing very expensive clothes and seemed really happy. Just call it what it is. If that is what you want then do you, ppl definitely gonna question your motivations and authenticity but who gives af if you're doing what you want
Agree. However it is the inevitable separation with the sugar daddy losing half or more of his shit that she made NO contribution toward that grinds my gears
@@PaulGirdlestone What about the prenup?
@@opinanlosjovenesrd3477 haven’t you heard? There are prenups that are being voided and thrown out at divorce court. Nothing keeps you safe
Same. I see random pics on fb but she posts very seldom. Living the life and time to time she posts her friends with different sugar dads
Only problem with that is when the dude dies and she inherits the income + responsibility of how he got all that money, she might as well adapt or lose it all. Hopefully they know this lmao
Look if you’re gonna be a gold digger watch this girl 😂 She is good at it. She massages his ego. She preemptively reassures him and soothes his worries/skepticism away. She has great mirroring skills and her manipulation is 👌🏾
Yup, there's a reason most young women don't do it. It takes a level of manipulation and compromise. :/
Yep! When she said "I kissed him first", I was like this girl is good!
@@justjackie4394 it’s hard to do it and feel normal. IT IS A SICKNESSS😂
@@justjackie4394 yep, it will not end well… lol. A beautiful conscience-free woman can be a very dangerous thing. Saying that though, he’s a grown man, she’s using his vanity and lust against him. There’s a saying, you can’t cheat an honest man 🤔 if it’s too good to be true…
@@maktata3742 yes! That part!
When you're dating someone old enough to be your grandfather, that's when I know there's a lot more going on than you're admitting.
a lot more money??
Old dick and balls...
Bro needs 45 minutes to an hour just to prep up for her with the magic blue pill,aint no way she not a Gold Miner 🤣🤣
Nah it seems you don't talk to enough women some would like to date older man not just cause of the sugar daddy stuff cause women who are young like her knows older man are much wiser and knows how to handle their success.
Oh, let them be.
I bet you those parents are glad to get her out of their pocketbook!! I bet she was a horror to have as an adult child.
Lol right
Haha - her parent just want her to secure the bag for them too!
Why do you love each other.
Her: Well I think he has a Rich personality and wealth of knowledge.
Him: I believe she has good assets and I will always stand behind her.
@@theinsurance2450 🤣🤣
I knew a girl who’s parents introduced her to her boyfriend who was almost 40 and she was 21. They’d even go to the bar and try to help her pick up guys. Now she’s dating a man who the same age and looks like her stepdad. IT IS A SIIIICKNEESSS!
Meh. If it works for them, then it works for them. Maybe your friend has bad taste in men and the parents are trying to keep her from bad decisions? I think people are only tripping because they're older women that think they're missing out on older men or younger men that think older men are taking their younger women, but if they're not for you, then they are not for you. There are 8 billion people. Just pick someone else.
So, what is the problem if they are both getting what they want out of it?
@@mac1bc IKR especially if the physical attraction is mutual. Chris Hemsworth was just named sexiest man of the year for people magazine and he is 40.
@@mac1bcthe ppl that sell their bodies on the street get what they want too
@dapo09 damn first part you seem to be projecting, second if they are happy and not hurting anyone, what is the problem ?
just the body language and the way they look at each other says it all. they dont care about each other, they care about what they can do for each other
That’s the harsh truth of most relationships tbh
Yes. But that's the state of the world
Bro I’m in a great relationship precisely because there’s care about what we do for each other, and we hold each other to a certain level of expectation of good behavior.
The sooner you realize all relationships except maybe a parent to a child is based on what the other person can do for you (and what you can do for the other person) the sooner you can build solid, meaningful, and REAL relationships.
its true love. why hate? love comes in all sizes
Isn't that how most relationships work nowadays?
“I’ve never seen my daughter this happy” cause she finally found a man dumb enough to give her everything she wants without question lmaooo
For some reason, I doubt this girl's father is in her life. But I guess her mother expects some of that rich man's money eventually
wait till he tells her no, for any reason. 🤣
😆😆😆😆
Facts!
@@dapo3538 Men are one of the most interesting hypocritical creatures on this planet, are you constantly reminding women that we have an expiry date, you throw ageism in our face you tell us after 35 we are no good. We are expired and you constantly remind us that you can get any woman you want, especially the more successful you are, now here is a perfect example of an older, successful man, with a young woman and the men are still mad, judging this woman so heavily.
Why are you mad at the woman and none of you have questions for the man ????
You constantly talk about the double standard with age, gap dating and women are allowed to be cougars, but when the roles are reversed men are chastise and yet you are still mad, you are still calling her a golddigger.
I thought this was the woman that a lot of you wanted, I thought you told us you can get any woman that you want, so what’s the problem ??!?
"I didn’t ask him what he did" sounds like a murderer who's already looking for an alibi.
Been dating 90 days and been on more trips then people who are married, but she's not a gold digger 🙄
Maybe he also wanted to do these things but not alone? Let the old man live.
@@LetMeEatDem Listen again, they listed like 10+ trips they have taken in 90 days including Vegas, the Bahamas, West Virginia and a trip to a Backstreet Boys concert. I'm happy for the old man living his life but at least be honest about your relationship if you're going to put it online for everyone to judge. Don't bs and say he wanted to do all those things by himself, that's cap. Nothing wrong with him being her sugar daddy, he should just know what it is he's getting himself into. Also, the parents should be ashamed of themselves for encouraging it.
@thehappyhuman Lol noones upset, as I just said I'm happy for him, just be honest about your situation and make sure that bitch sign a prenup. Don't fall for the hype that she's not there for the money lol
@@thehappyhuman4809 Your reading comprehension is on par with a second grader if you couldn't understand that he didn't have a problem with their relationship. I don't get why they feel the need to lie about their relationship in the first place? Their not hurting anyone by dating, but people have a problem when you go out and lie straight to their face, its pure disrespect of their intelligence.
@@umarkamali2249 Good point.
I think it's pretty CLEAR that both are aware of the dynamics of this relationship. So long as they are both consenting adults, it honestly doesn't matter.
Word
Yeah but I think it’s sad youd basically pay someone to pretend to like you.
👆👆That... and that only
He wants to be around (and inside) beautiful things. She wants to be around (and inside) expensive things. It's the perfect trade.
Nah it still matters, it's like saying ''As long as they're both consenting adults, it honestly doesn't matter they like scat sex''. Sure, you can say such individuals shouldn't be persecuted, but surely you cannot expect people not to give them side eyes for eating shit during sex. Just because something's between consenting adults who don't hurt no third party, that doesn't mean it's not weird as fuck.
3 months together and he already took her to the Bahamas 3 times, Vegas 2 times. He’s doing everything just so she don’t get bored and leave 🤣
Eventually he's not going to keep up with her anymore and she's going to run off with some dude her own age.
He trying to get as much hot young pus*y as possible until The Factory closed down for good. Let him get as much he needs.
Yo, I thought my ears was buggin. They been together for 90 days ?
I was thinking the same thing. This all within 3 months
SHE IS PROBABLY BANGING ONE OF THE BACKSTREET BOYS ON SIDE LOL! HAHAAHAHAH
My mother baby-trapped my father who was from a very wealthy family because she thought she would get a taste of the family money after she baby-traps my father. Unfortunately for her, my grandfather cut my father out of the family money, and my father had to start from scratch. My mother spent the majority of her marriage hating my father and me until she eventually divorced my father for her "soulmate." Oh, she, for some reason, tried to get child support even though she had no custody of me.
Wow, that's another level of crazy. I'm sorry for you. I hope you're holding up there somewhere
Hope you doing okay. That's so sad💔
That's terrible, the upside to it all is that you know the truth. Mother's tend to brainwash their child into believing the father was a piece of shit. When in reality 8 times out of 10 they're lying. It's what ended up happening with my situation. Now it's a bunch of damage that's going to be tough as hell to fix based on lies. Women can be terribly spiteful (not all but most)
Just curious how’d the whole “soulmate” relationship go for your mom?
Damn you could've had a rich dad but she messed it all up!
If you have to say “I’m not a gold digger” then you definitely are. Why do these girls really think they are fooling people?
How can a sixty something millionaire be fooled into believing a hot young blonde would be into him for him? He's an adult, no one is forcing him.
@@EvolianTiger he ain't talking about the old simp
@@frivolousarguments8578 Why _isnt_ he talking about the old guy when this guy is also in the relationship? Wouldn't he also be fooling people? Or is the woman always bad redpill at play?
@@EvolianTiger you’re hella weird in these comments. She’s a gold digger and he’s acting like a delusional simp with all the lovey dovey bs. The whole thing is cringe and everybody sees it for what it is.
This logic is pretty F'in stupid.
Damn shes been on vacation more in three months than many families take in a decade, no wonder her Mom says shes never seen her daughter happier I think I would be happy too after a 3 month long vacation.
The parents capping so hard man. I hate to say it because I am from North Carolina and I do think we are genuinely nice and friendly people so I hate when others call us Southerners fake but these ones definitely are. They deserve an Oscar for that performance!
@@chenanigans Those were the old man’s friends, not the parents of the girl. I understand the confusion tho
He is rich, what do people think they would do...
Those parents were super glad to get their daughter out of their pocketbook! They don't want to pay for her lifestyle I guarantee you that!!
@@ashleysanford8645 bingo and who is she gonna date? Broke Kenny nope and I can't talk, I'm 40 and I have never dated a woman over 28
Well we know she doesnt need to ask how much he has, she see's the car, the house, the clothes or maybe even hearing about these awesome vacations he's going on and she's got an idea of how much he's making. good for him living his dream, just be careful with these "serendipitous" relationships.
Precisely. Why would she need to ask how old he is and what he did for a living? 😂 He literally looks like Santa, and it's Christmas season!
I actually feel happy coz at least she has a dominant personality doesnt look like the old creep is exploiting her
I have to say, the sweet little girl you had on the ad for the galaxy projector was so heartwarming lol I have a toddler son and it’s the best seeing the world through their eyes.
Their burning eyes due to the projector's light
Seeing aba interact with a child was unexpected but wholesome
What's that even supposed to mean?
Christmas spirit
@@the_gratefulgamer it means I've only seen aba in settings with other adults for the nearly 4 years I've been following this channel and other ones he visited. I've never seen him interact with a kid before, it's weird in a good way cuz I'm just not used to it
Facts. The little one was adorable
@@the_gratefulgamer He comes as the kinda guy who hates being around kids
I didn't realize 3 months into a relationship was something to celebrate
She is probably very time-efficient. Find out within a week if the target is wealthy enough and will give her whatever she wants. After all, her looks and youth won't stay forever so she's gotta speedrun until she finds the right sucker.
@@ramitch4581 damn she really in the older man any % category
@@ramitch4581 sucker? Idk about that.
It is when you're in a relationship with a pensioner that could die at any moment
sounds like one of those highschool romances, damn three months is almost an, entire term, the way hes carrying on reminds me of some love struck dudes in junior high.
I struggle to feel sorry for the man. To me it looks like he just got himself an expensive hobby/pet. "love me, feed me" etc.
Blame the woman. Typical.
Exactly, hes the actual adult here taking advantage of a gullible 23 year old. He's the pig in this.
@@bellz9440 THANK YOU! Everyone here wants to talk about the fact that she’s only with him for his money well why do you think he’s with her? Idiots.
@khal flavian he's also older with a fullt developed brain, he has a bigger responsibility. He should know better than to go after gullible young girls.
@@bellz9440 don’t come here with that brain development non sense. She old enough to vote, to own a gun, to go to jail. She’s old enough to pick a significant other
We got so much in common. She's born on a day and I'm born on a different day... It's like we're meant to be together!
Lol
When I heard that I almost lost it lol
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Another day 40 years earlier.
"We have so much in common. I was born in February 3rd and she was born in February 2nd, except I was born 4 decades apart, exact same year as her grandma."
How is that the only thing he can come up with
I’ll believe she ain’t no gold digger if she signs the prenup
Prenups get thrown out all the time. They don’t mean anything. Homeboy would be stupid to get married.
@@salineaddict9850 He will, and she'll win.
as long as shes with him, hes paying for her presence. prenup or not.
I would believe it if she was ugly.
A prenup is useless if he dies though
A 3 month anniversary? This guy is under her spell. 100%.
It’s sad
She's stunning tho
This dude is just a phase for her, and she will have another by next year
Of course, did you see that @ss?
He want s*x, she want his money. I think they both got what they want. Well, it wont last long anyway.
She is pretty much an escort, that exclusively deals with one person. He is the kind of guy who wants an escort rather than an equal relationship.
Yep 💯
rofl men and women aren't equal.
@@coltonsmith3270 what ☠️
You mean a real relationship when two people feel for each other.
Lol exactly they both know how it is
The Galaxy Lamp ad was the best part of this video! That little girl is adorable, reminds of when I used to play with my boys when they were little. I got divorced when my oldest was 3 y.o.and my youngest was 1 y.o. and my weekends with them were just goofing around and playing with toys. In a way they were my therapy to forget the demon of a mother I gave them.
Agreed, she was so cute, I just wish aba explained who she was because I couldn’t tell if Aba was her uncle and her dad was his brother or just his best friend.
@@asara8065 Pretty sure it's his niece, he mentions her often
You didn’t have to share your family’s business, but you did. Thanks for telling the RUclips community
demon of a mother😂😂, I feel u bro I got demon of a sister myself!!
@@unkelbin5739 for real, that story had the randomness aura of "I like aba's sweater, it reminds me of the time I was wearing a sweater when I realized I needed therapy to get over my evil ex wife."
Everyone’s jokes are really funny but some of us are in age gap relationships and it hurts our feelings. My 78 year old boyfriend and I are very offended.
jesus christ this is hilarious xD
Just turn down his hearing aid... 🤣
Enjoy it while you still have him cuz he ain't got much time left 😆😆😂
Entitled sense of someone who never grew up.
As a young man it is comforting knowing there is still at least 20 years before my pontential soulmate is going to be born.
I could maybe for a second imagine that they are happy together and compatible and whatever. But never in a million years could you convince me that she would be with him if he wasn't rich.
She's happy she got the bag and he's happy he got the 🐈. But yes you're right, if he wasn't rich she wouldn't even talk to him.
@@frivolousarguments8578 the only thing of value an old man has that an age appropriate man doesn't.
@@justjackie4394 same thing vise versa an old 50 year old woman who doesn’t look as good and probably has kids isn’t valuable either.
@@justjackie4394 Her youth and beauty are the only valuable things she has that an age appropriate woman doesn’t have.
He wouldn't be with her if she wasn't hot and young, so the feeling is mutual lol
You couldn't have possibly made a better ad. My heart melted over how sweet and excited that little girl was 😂
That guy's friends were smiling through the pain fr! Because they know when this girl takes him for everything he's got they're going to be the ones picking up the pieces.
If the guy is 62 and still rich you know he already has some damn good asset protection lawyers, and he knows how to make a prenup that stands up in court. He'll be fine.
At one point they both let that "face" slip up. If you notice carefully, in the last shots that they appear in, you can just see their faces of judgment.
Something tells me this guy's security head Pedro will make sure they will always be happy together.
True love knows no age. She loves him for his RICH personality and WEALTH of knowledge. I think that is just wonderful.
yep and when that RICH personality and WEALTH of knowledge is gone so is she
You can BANK on that
😂😂😂😂 master of words
You can even say he has a heart of gold.
She loves him for his heart of GOLD, not just cuz he's OLD
Part of me admires women like this. I could never force myself to be with someone I wasn't into.
I tried once with a woman who was 39 while I was 25. It was nice at first, getting food paid for and presents. Once we had to have the “what are we doing for the holidays” talk, it got too weird for me though and I ended it.
@@ItsAlwaysRainingInWa what's wrong with that question, lmao
There are so many people in none age gap relationships with people they don’t even like. At least these two are having fun and enjoying life.
@@cecee3480 they've basically just met
@@bambina5604 Nothing wrong with it but if you have a psyche or emotional compass it should begin weighing on you. It can bring you into thinking a bunch of shit not least "holly shit for this woman it's not just fun she's actually really invested when I'm only in for fun. " Some people with no remorse or psyche won't even care about that shit and be like I'm getting money! kinda like the main actor in American psycho movie lol. Not anyone can adopt this kind of lifestyle whether you're the older or younger person. It takes two special mofos with super low empathy for starter. lol
I heard a lot of talk about what he does for her (Opens doors, pulls out chairs, and of course the money spent on trips, concerts, dinners, diamond ear rings to match he diamond neckless, that I'm sure he got her). I never once heard what she does for him (though we all know). She didn't even get him a small gift for their anniversary, though he got her one. She just smiled and complained that he didn't pull her chair out there.
Open her legs?
Sex and affection... What most men want he wanted a young attractive women no matter if she really loved him or not. But who can say if their love is real and I really don't care cause in the end it's none of my business.
If he's happy with her behavior... Who cares?
Also the small gift, that's what you would want and do. Doesn't mean that matters to everyone. I know many people, especially many wealthy people who hate small token clutter gifts. When people can afford to buy everything they want already, you find they don't care about receiving material things, especially token things. Just on average.
She clearly gives him joy, life and peace. She’s eye candy, a companion, and something warm at night. He’s getting everything he wants.
@@lpk6372 The hypocrites in the comment section don't care. Don't ask for logic here today.
I get the “call it what it is” BUT
In this case, part of the job is the charade itself. He needs it to feel real and she understands that.
It’s sad, really. But I think you’re right
"He needs -it to feel real- to lie to himself and she understands that."
FTFY
That's just manipulation. If he never agreed to that and was just tricked into it.
@@ZephyrinSkies “tricked” it literally is comically obvious what’s going on. If he really cared about love he wouldn’t be searching for 20 year old girls online. Say what you will… She’s doing more for that money than most would ever be willing😂
Yeah, I'm sure she is absolutely IN LOVE with his personality.
Why is the man in these situations always the monster, while the women who willingly join relationships like this get off without criticism typically? She is crying about people calling her out, but the men aren't afforded the same sympathy.
Or being like “she for the streets!” She’s obviously with him for the money and buying her whatever tf she wants simply because the dudes absolutely in love and simping for hard to the point he’ll spend THOUSANDS on her fr
Because he is mAnIpUlAtInG her with his position of authority given his age and socio-economic standing...
Or some b.s. like that. Ya know, because women can't be predators or manipulators.
Who is calling him the monster? Lol she's getting called the gold digger, everyone wrongly assumes she's the monster. You want grown rich men to be victims so bad lol
dude, both are losers in this scenario. the man and the woman
@@EvolianTiger If you had reading comprehension and common sense, you would see I didn't say HIM, I said "men". Look at how Leonardo Di Caprio is treated in the media for example. You want grown women with agency and who are fully grown adults to be victims so badly. Now put your helmet back on, give your mommy back her phone, and sit down and shut up before you make yourself sound stupid again.
As long as he leaves her out of his will, I think it's a perfect arrangement. She enjoys his money, he enjoys her youth and her body. When he dies, she finds another cash cow to milk.
If she sticks with him for 10 years, I think she's earned her way into the will.
She's not getting any younger either.
@@headkicked get the fuck out of here w that💀😂😂😂
She could also divorce him at any time and get half his assets. It's crazy to me how she's pushing marriage after just 3 months
@@headkicked i disagree.
@@dapo3538 thats the telling point
These kind of relationships are like business deals. Why is it wrong for her to date him for his money when he's only dating her because she's a young hot 20-something? They're the same kind of person, shallow users who wouldn't be with each other f circumstances were different. Bc he wouldn't be taking her anywhere if she were a saggy tittied sixty year old same as him. Stop acting like these men are victims
They aren't. They the same kind of person as you said.
Welcome to Incel Doublethink. Rich successful men are both entitled to hot young arm candy, and victims of the same girls.
Hot young women are both the only women who can be considered desirable and simultaneously worthless whores if they are he object of desire.
It's a worldview driven exclusively by bitterness and resentment. Don't expect it to make a lick of sense.
I don't think anyone's calling him a victim, if anything, they're calling him a pervert for dating someone so much younger
Nobody is calling him a victim he’s actually being labelled as a creep but she’s definitely a gold digger tho
Hes rich. And shes young amd beautiful. Both have something the other wants. Give and take. If theyre happy then its fine
I've noticed in the comments of this video that men are saying the men are the one's that usually get called monsters in these situations (older man, younger woman), but women are saying it's the opposite and the women usually get called monsters (gold diggers). I'm here to say, both happens. The older men get called creeps, predators, etc, typically by women, and the younger women get called gold-diggers, etc, typically by men. It seems like we only ever notice criticism when it's directed at our gender, and not notice it when it happens to the opposite gender.
I believe you are correct 💯🎯
That’s true with most gender issues. Most men and women have no ability to empathize with each other’s struggles.
@@rico14 truth.
Nah
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She dating a dude who saw Jesus get crucified live & I’m supposed to believe he not her sugar daddy🤨?!? Yeah *OKAY🤣💀💀*
Lmfaaooo
I personally know a couple people who are gold diggers but try to mask their intentions as genuine love. A family friend of ours is close to twenty years younger than their spouse. They complain about their in-laws not accepting them when, honestly, they have every right to be. This friend will share pictures of them traveling the world, their spouse at home taking care of the children. Over the years, their appearance has changed to appear younger and somewhat fit in with their white peers. When we go shopping, it has to always be at name brand stores. I remember when they visited one time, they had the audacity to look down on another age gap couple. Although serious, one of my parents joked with the friend that they were literally in the same boat as that couple. And not knowing them, the friend told us that they were different because they actually loved their spouse. Sure Jan.😂
How has their appearance change to fit in with their white peers? How sad
I would recommend to stay far away from these kinds of people. Imagine if they are okay lying to your face, what else are they lying to you and not telling you.
@@wanglee21 something about the two people in the Video makes me edgy I would not want to hang out around them, they set my spidey senses to tingling.
i'm guessing the genders of who was older/younger were also reversed in the other couple?
I feel sorry for men like this, it's like watching a genius who can't tie his shoes.
How? He looks super happy
@@naviifra2374 for now
He is getting what he paid for
@@spanishboy4331 there is infinite replacements
LOL really? He's living the dream!
My mother has this type of mentality. Her parents always tried to get her to change her ways but to their embarrassment she ended up getting knocked up by a bum. Than when she hit the wall she tried to get me to date these old geezers while i was still a minor. These girls always end up being disgusting adults.
:( I am really sorry that's terrible.
Thats horrible….and yea, when u live a self absorbed life like these type of women do growing up to be a decent person isnt really an option
Seen this too often though
So sorry. Horrible. That's no mother at all.
Attempted human trafficking of daughter. She should be in prison for that...
ngl the ad with the baby was adorable, shes so sweet, kids areso innocent at that age and its amazing to watch them learn in real time how quick they figure stuff out is amazing
The fact they are talking about marriage after only 3 months is sus as fuck lmao.
Mans about to get fleeced🤣
she just wants to take the money and go so she can be with whoever she actually wants, she already wasted 3 months in this, she wants this to go as fast as possible so she get the money for herself
A special relationship like this only struggles with one thing...
A prenup.
Doesn't hold up in court usually but it wouldn't matter, he's too old to end divorcing her so she's going to end up real wealth
@@EvolianTiger
Wrong, prenups 100% hold up in court. Stop spreading this lie. All you need is a lawyer for each of you (a different one) have the interaction recorded, bring it up EARLY and get it done EARLY, and not have any stupid stipulations in it such as "you can't get any child support" it just needs to deal with the property that you own before the marriage, and you are good to go. Stop spreading this misinformation.
@@EvolianTiger if you have a lawyer that knows what he is doing that prenup will stand in court.
He’s too busy thinking about wanting to smash, he’s not thinking of no prenup
@@09tashay she pussy-whipped him before he even hit it. He’s a lost cause, imo.
I can't believe a 60+ years old man would still believe it is love... i just can't... so I'll assume he knows what's up and he's just in it for fun like Leo Dicaprio
People believe that the government has their best interests in mind, this is nothing on the global delusional scale.
He doesn't, he knows exactly what it is and he's willing to pay for it.
Man Aba mad love for sharing that special moment with that little lady. That was awesome and I enjoyed it. It brought a big smile on my face after a crappy day. Thanks for sharing my good sir!
Let’s emphasize the fact they were only together 3 months at the time of filming. And they took THAT many trips? Way more than the average person. AND the fact that they already live together??? 🤔🤨
And the clip where his friends came over is a façade. The body language of the woman wasn’t matching her words. She was gripping the arms of the chair with all her might. The other guy had his hand on her arm as if to soothe her. She also said the young girl was too pretty to be with him. Who throws their “friend” under the bus like that? Seems like she’s insinuating she shouldn’t be with him. She doesn’t support it. Like Aba said, it’s just for the cameras.
Soon as that relationship inevitably ends, she will be the first one saying she never liked her blah blah blah.
She’s really not playing with losing all this financial freedom. She’s locking him lmao i wouldn’t be surprised if she gets pregnant in a few months with him
Wtf only 3 months together???
@@kathydelarosa1286 Disgusting 🤮🤮🤮
When they first met, she didn’t ask his age.
But she can guess.
When they first met, she didn’t ask him what he did.
But she could guess based on the clothes, the attitude, the bill he was paying?
Definitely finalised her decision after the first few holidays to the Bahamas
Let's be real. They met via a sugar daddy website.
The fact she didn't ask says it all. She didn't want to know about the man she supposedly was falling in love with? Those are the basics.. if you don't even know your partners age or what they do 10+ hours a day.. guarantee she don't know crap about his past..his ideals.. his wishes... fears..insecurities..etc
My wife is 10 years older than me. We are together for 6 years, I was 27 and she 37. I guess the age gap is not a problem, if you are in the same page. By the way, we were both broke, so money was not involved.
money seems to be involved here though
10 years ain't nothing though. they are 40 years apart. That really big difference
Major difference between 10 and 40 years🤣
10 years isn’t bad at all. “We both broke” is funny af
Age gap relationships are weird only when the gap is too big. 10 years is nothing, in fact is quite normal when you take into account people's emotional development and maturity. Some mature faster than others. It's ok to date someone more mature because you have a higher chance to be with someone who's got their life figured out and you can both grow and learn from eachother. But in this case of the two individuals in the vid - yeah this is a classic older guy getting with a young girl to feel young himself. Also theirs is just completely imbalanced, he could literally be her granddad..... That's too much, that's weird. And the maturity levels are not even close.
If he mom told me "you must have met in another life" I'd think the whole family was trying to scam me lol
🤣😂😂🤣
Facts😂😭😭i felt the same way bro😭😭😭
That has to be the most wholesome sponsor spot I've ever seen. Uncle Aba comin thru clutch with that promo code
If she's not a gold digger, then I'm the long lost son of Elon Musk. 😂
Dave's friend at 6:30 probably jealous as hell. He's probably thinking why he got the old Ford while Dave has the Ferrari. 🤭
Considering how many children he has, you might actually not be lying 😂
Nah you aren’t if you were your official name would sound like a dial up modem like Elon’s legitimate son
@@prachetasnayse9709 I came here to say this
@@marlom7882 idk man, Sir Yeetus sounds like some name he would come up with from his funny ass polls on Twitter
This is probably the easiest gold mine she ever digged even she can’t believe it.
I like how they said happy "anniversary" for 3 months of relationship, to make it seem like they've been together for long, when the prefix "an" is latin for year.
That always drives me nuts. Happy monthiversary!
@@Thessalin haha same 😅
And she didn't even think to get him an anniversary present... sure she's not a gold digger lmao
@@dapo3538 of course she didn't bruh, giving is not part of a gold digger's job
10:35 When she spoke about the Ocelot it reminded me of Archer.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Seeing aba interact with a kid was everything I needed… I am but a weak woman
I’m 24 and dated a 48 year old for 7ish months but it was daddy issues af. I was drawn to him because he was like my cold, volatile, distant, abusive dad. And the relationship was toxic af.
It’s true that she’s a gold digger. She still may be into him, kinda, but she’s majority into him because of the money he has and the lifestyle she can live by being with him. Not gonna last. Poor guy should’ve just waited for someone to come around and actually love him to share his wealth with. But at least he gets to bang a hot chick for a while. Prob worth it to him.
Don't feel bad for the guy. Who knows how many failed relationships he has under his belt. I can see he fits in the stereotype of the rich man who couldn't build a meaningful relationship with a woman his age and therefore went for the easy 20 year old. He ain't dumb. He knows it's just for the money.
No sympathy for his old stupid ass. If she cleans him out, than that's on him.
The man's living the dream. Why go for an old wrinkled up 60year old woman with mental issues when you can bang a hot mid 20s girl for a while. Good job old man 👍🏻
@@veronagrant7637 Hahaha so bitter 🤣
@@veronagrant7637 u wish u were her huh 😂🤣
My immediate thoughts after having viewed the video:
1. I noticed that she spoke about her mother's reaction about the relationship, but not who? Her father. This girl has more daddy issues than Dad Magazine. Her mother laying on that line about how she was convinced that the gentleman and her daughter knew each other in a previous life -- Yikes, that is a pickup line that a mother, who is a gold digger, would say. That line is "zodiac" level of cringe. The mother is hoping to reap the benefits through her daughter.
2. "I didn't ask him about what he did." That doesn't mean that she didn't notice the yacht or a Mercedes-AMG GT in his profile picture. Or, better yet, there is a $250,000 tournament poster on his wall.
3. I noticed that she never extols his virtues. She never talks about how smart he is or how hard he works and so on. The only thing she talks about is her vacations and that she can keep up with him (in order to try and act like a 40 year age gap isn't enormous or strange).
4. The gentleman said he thought it was too good to be true. Yeah? There is an old saying about that.
Her mother supports her because she is her mothers future meal ticket.
"I'm not a gold digger, he just happens to be very, very wealthy."
Kids having fun is so pure man. Best sponsor segment yet.
She not a gold digger.
She is a gold collector
Money prospector.
Wealth selector
wallet interceptor
Diamond detector
13:39 she didn't even look at him when she said that!!! She said it to the jewellery!
It’s gonna suck getting older as an established man. Knowing you were just loved for your money
Let's be honest, that's probably all he's got to offer anyone, he knows it, and that's why he's doing it.
Her motto is "if you want to ride a Mercedes you have to ride an old joystick"
@@AngryReptileKeeper yeah like idk man maybe because I’m on the outside looking in. It’s probably not a bad compromise. The man gets a good time the girl gets a boost in life financially.
Her: "I'm attracted to his mind, not his money." Meanwhile she gets gifts from him and gets run through by the pool boy.
Dad's mind: Alright, my daughter is a dummy, this is as good as it gets to make sure she's set for the future.
A wise man once said ”I ain’t messing with no gold digger”
Back when Kanye west was based
@@llamapartyy He still is. Even more now.
now thats a fat cap
@@Helmutlozzi yep, he talks real s**t...most about kim and baalenciaga stuff thats going on
This man does not care if she's a Gold digger , he feels good that his has a young blonde on his arm.
Good luck to both of them.
lol lol lol lol you are funny
pretty much, I feel that a lot of ppl are just different and if it brings them happiness sobeit, theyre both well old enough to make decisions and know the risks
I don’t see the problem either, and I’m tired of people always bashing the woman. He’s the older one, he’s older with more experience he should be able to detect a phony. And obviously he’s only with her for her looks so what’s the difference?
Why do you love each other.
Her: Well I think he has a Rich personality and wealth of knowledge.
Him: I believe she has good assets and I will always stand behind her.
Exactly.
Aba with cutest RUclips Ad of all time for a galaxy lamp. That was seriously good. probably the best galaxy lamp commercial or ad ever. very well done.
That kid was mad adorable man, it’s so heartwarming to see kids playing and getting to know their family 🤜🏽🤛🏽
Gold diggers, sugar babies, etc. I don't care. Do your thing but don't lie to yourselves saying it's love 😂😂😂 I just hate people who have to make their relationship public especially when they know it's out of the norm knowing they'll get backlash.
Meeting his friends...
The dude is thinking "Where can I get one of those?"
The wife was tripping over her words trying not to say something bad on camera. I was expecting her to end with "Bless your heart" That's old Southern lady speak for F-You.
Yeah the jealousy was real
YEP. THE WIFE KNOWS WHAT TINE IT IS THESE OLDER FRIENDS ARE NEVER GOING TO FULLY ACCEPT THIS YUOUNG LADY
Lookin at himself in the mirror as he throws on the shades with the double finger gun/snap combo thing is my favorite part of the video 😂😂😂
Timestamp?😂
@@Snoop_Dugg it's at 12:34
And they say white people don’t have culture
Thanks for that find lmao.
In this situation if a female has to say "I'm not a gold digger." but hasn't done anything to help accumulate his wealth but just be a trophy piece and help spend his money, I can only think of this one expression...."If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck well it's a f#$king duck".
😂😂😂
Women are not supposed to contribute to a man's wealth that's a manly trait
Their relationship is like a dad trying to pls his spoiled daughter 😂😂
“I was influenced a lot in my teenage years by Rihanna”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I just pissed myself!
The infomercial was my favorite part. She is adorable Aba! Family is everything
Gold diggers and sugar daddies. sure ok.
But did you see how genuinely happy Aba was playing with his niece?! That's that wholesome vibe we all need every now and again. My day just got brighter after seeing that.
I've experienced the opposite. My mom is 70 and was seeing a 21 year old. I didn't like it at all and it affected the entire family. That is over now but it was a difficult two years.
How did she meet this 21 yr old!?
@@deemen7132 he worked for a cell phone company in Target and he helped my mom with her phone. I am still angry about the whole thing and it changed our relationship in certain ways. People tell me that my mom is an adult and can do as she pleases but my brother and I were really angry about it. Yes, my mom can do what she wants but it doesn't mean that I have to like it. I'm so glad that it's over now. I am in my 40's and it made me sick.
Im wanting to bet she doesnt look like your average 70year old woman..
🤮🤮🤮I can’t imagine how disgusted you felt. The 21 year old could have been your child.
😳😳😳
This man is basically Leonardo DiCaprio when he gets to his 60s 🤣. Except he dumps them when they get too old for him 🙃. Opps!
I can't say anything I date younger women I don't think I dated a women over 28. I'm 40 now it's just it is what it is.
@@jwoods9659 no one cares
I have no empathy for him, he knows what time it is…
That was the most wholesome ad ive ever seen
Its not getting enough credit fr, it was so warm bruh
There was a girl at my ex's high school that married her 50 year old teacher. Best of my knowledge, they're still together almost 15 years later.
Awesome that you speak multiple languages to the youngsters in your life I do that myself because every child should know more than one language to open their minds much love y'all.
Sound like a pedophile
It is a wholesome!🤣🙂
"I have a baby face"..... No. You're actually a baby 😂😂😂😂
23 is not a baby though. At least not here in the U.S. Shes been an adult for like six years
@@miac2382
18 means nothing but old enough to vote and serve the military.
Clearly some can't make responsibile decisions at 23..... Shit apparently a bunch of 60 year olds too.
He was 40 when she was born. That's a baby.
I'm from the US. It's viewed as controversial everywhere.
Honestly the best sponsorship ad that I’ve ever seen on RUclips, just so adorable man , guess I gotta get one of these lamps
She’s “just here existing “ lmao
That line was sussssss
The parents were tired of her spending their money
4:43 I am never going to skip this ad sequence for as long as the channel stays! She's so adorable!🥺 Give that little nugget a hug on my behalf.
Lmfao!! I'm pretty sure he knows What he's getting into. They know what this is. But they're grown adults and capable of making their own decisions.
right. yet they expect people to buy into their delusion of "love" . they are kids in old bodies
That’s it
I saw a look of pure disappointment on his friend's face. He looked annoyed that he was being asked for approval of their relationship on camera 😂
I don't know man, I've never seen a 40 year old man in puppy love, much less a man deep into his golden years. This dude's about to cleaned out I think.
@@Aaron-kj8dv lol that's what I'm saying man. I think he knows the reality of the situation, both of them do. They're playing to the cameras saying one thing but living the reality of gold digging. It is what it is.
Their relationship overall seems a bit weird mostly because what they’re outwardly projecting doesn’t match what they’re saying their relationship is. That being said, I don’t particularly mind the age gap. My aunt and uncle have a 25 year age gap and they met when she was 19 and he was going through a divorce. My mom used to tell me no one on either side of the families was thrilled about it. They’ve been together now for 40 years and are still very much happy and in love.
Side note: Aba says “go listen to this song”. Literally as soon as he said that an ad for a cologne named Bad Boy started playing with THAT SAME SONG IN THE BACKGROUND. What are the damn odds of that?!
Good for uncle and aunt, honestly the only relationship with a age gap more than 15 years is Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall. Glad your fam is still going strong.
Even though that's a big gap, I think a 20 year old and a 45 year old have waaaaay more in common (and depending on the person, some 45yo people are very young-spirited) than a 23 year old with a 60-something year old. Plus, 40 years ago, people had a certain level of maturity at 19.
25 years age gap is huge but its near to half of the age gap between these two.
I think your family had every reason to not accept that relationship. At 19 with an age gap that large so many important moments in her development as a mature adult are being shaped by an individual old enough to be her father.
I think it's weird when you just look at the legal age. The same moral argument that defends age of consent can also be used against age gap relationships.
@@goddessrick8734the same argument you use against them can be used in their favor
Did anyone else notice that when she said "I love you" she was looking at the jewellery 🤣
I'm happy for her. Him too. So many people are doing this....
13:27 fully expected the anniversary present to just be a gift bag full of money
i thought the exact thing