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-As someone else here said it: first learn about yourself. -Secondly, experience is key but you must work on yourself first to create positive reinforcement because if you go on negative reinforcement streak, it will just kill your confidence. That's why you must work on yourself and be at least decent, hygiene, looks, and voice because if you have squeaky shy voice you're not gonna make it. Personally I have a background in singing and it helps tremendously. I used to be fat and not so attractive, girls were not interested in me. Then I became leaner and athletic, then good clothes etc, and quickly I had a lot of positive interactions with girls. And my confidence started to build up and I had acquired the skill of being able to be smooth. Then you will make mistakes etc but it's about having a positive balance and not juste make a compilation of negative interactions. -3rd : I find it particularly great to talk with women who are interested in you physically. With experience you can easily tell which women are into you (at least physically). It's like starting with 100 points and you lose points when you say dumb shits. It's easier than to start at let's say 50 (neutral) where most mistakes are more impactful. Being smooth mostly rely on chemistry between 2 ppl. I can be smooth but only with girls who are interested in me (or neutral). For other girls where there's no chemistry, I remain "neutral" not smooth but not clumsy either. Which means being smooth is not just being smooth all the time it's about having that skill and being able to use it when needed. (It's like singing, you can sing great, but you don't do it all time) -4th: no pressure, don't expect anything, just enjoy the moment. You will have bad interactions with some women sometimes finding excuses to leave conversation or whatever. It doesn't matter.
This is probably all most guys need to know. It's not about talking to girls, it's about building social skills and talking to people. The romantic crap will follow.
These are some golden words. I know they are mostly spot on because that is how life and learning works. Great guy and extremely knowledgeable too. No lies, no over the top excitement and no fake promises. Just simple cause and effect. Most important is his familiarity with topic and the delivery of speech.
I was out doing some errands yesterday and I struck up conversations with strangers at all four stops. Even bullshitted with the guys pumping my gas. Now I look forward to going out and make reasons to do so.
I agree with you as it makes a man more social, however you left out a very important factor because I know many guys who talk to men and women all the time and they are not smooth at all and rarely date. I think it's because their internal communication structure has not improved since they were young . That takes a lot of work as an adult and working on this internal dialogue is what gives the initial part of confidence .
Mind blowing speech Tripp. Wow. How every your video is better than the other haha. Really life changing channel Tripp. When I will have children I'll definitely show your videos to them for becoming a high value person in life! =)
What makes me laugh? Memes I find on Twitter. Most of them are political memes. I'm not sure I can carry a conversation with a woman talking about that stuff.
I don't got fear to talk to women, I just don't know how to hold the conversation. I can say something, see the girls laugh or smile and then it goes flat 100%. I might go and say something completely random or try to repeat the same conversation and say something like "but yeah, that's crazy how...." and she/they will say "yeah, smile/laugh" and flat again... I do 5% of the talking and the girls do 95%, but I can tell they know I'm not saying anything. Sometimes, they don't say anything waiting for me to talk and I just don't say anything.
I’m good at talking to people in general but then when it comes to trying to talk to girls I find attractive or I want to have like me I struggle with saying the right things I usually make mylsef sound weird or I just can’t progress in a flirting way
I think you really utilize comments to improve the quality of your videos and not only to have some sort of personal gain. In my opinion this video is the one that top any other ones without taking anything from the others. It really covers everything in regards to what is to be considered when wanting to approach women in a less energetic (you call it smooth) way. Still the word approach is not my favorite though. I think getting into people space and talk normally is effective and less compromised I'm just saying.
To learn how to turn yourself into an excellent conversationalist who can naturally talk to any girl you meet and get her number, be sure to check out my popular online course HOOKED ► www.getherhooked.com.
-As someone else here said it: first learn about yourself.
-Secondly, experience is key but you must work on yourself first to create positive reinforcement because if you go on negative reinforcement streak, it will just kill your confidence.
That's why you must work on yourself and be at least decent, hygiene, looks, and voice because if you have squeaky shy voice you're not gonna make it. Personally I have a background in singing and it helps tremendously.
I used to be fat and not so attractive, girls were not interested in me. Then I became leaner and athletic, then good clothes etc, and quickly I had a lot of positive interactions with girls. And my confidence started to build up and I had acquired the skill of being able to be smooth.
Then you will make mistakes etc but it's about having a positive balance and not juste make a compilation of negative interactions.
-3rd : I find it particularly great to talk with women who are interested in you physically. With experience you can easily tell which women are into you (at least physically). It's like starting with 100 points and you lose points when you say dumb shits. It's easier than to start at let's say 50 (neutral) where most mistakes are more impactful.
Being smooth mostly rely on chemistry between 2 ppl. I can be smooth but only with girls who are interested in me (or neutral). For other girls where there's no chemistry, I remain "neutral" not smooth but not clumsy either. Which means being smooth is not just being smooth all the time it's about having that skill and being able to use it when needed. (It's like singing, you can sing great, but you don't do it all time)
-4th: no pressure, don't expect anything, just enjoy the moment. You will have bad interactions with some women sometimes finding excuses to leave conversation or whatever. It doesn't matter.
This is probably all most guys need to know. It's not about talking to girls, it's about building social skills and talking to people. The romantic crap will follow.
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How to be a smooth talker is to NOT be a smoother talker! Learn about yourself until you re truly comfortable in your own skin. Then you are ready.
Where to start in knowing yourself? How to explore?
These are some golden words.
I know they are mostly spot on because that is how life and learning works.
Great guy and extremely knowledgeable too.
No lies, no over the top excitement and no fake promises.
Just simple cause and effect.
Most important is his familiarity with topic and the delivery of speech.
Can't wait 'till you hit 1 million.
He deserves it. 👏
I was out doing some errands yesterday and I struck up conversations with strangers at all four stops. Even bullshitted with the guys pumping my gas. Now I look forward to going out and make reasons to do so.
Great video tripps. It’s all about momentum. Once you starts, the talk just naturally comes
I agree with you as it makes a man more social, however you left out a very important factor because I know many guys who talk to men and women all the time and they are not smooth at all and rarely date. I think it's because their internal communication structure has not improved since they were young . That takes a lot of work as an adult and working on this internal dialogue is what gives the initial part of confidence .
Man I love this guy. Thanks a lot.
This is the go to video, made notes got my armour on. I'm going in.
Be yourself. If girls do not like you. Who needs em. MIKE DAMONE fast times.
Mind blowing speech Tripp. Wow. How every your video is better than the other haha. Really life changing channel Tripp. When I will have children I'll definitely show your videos to them for becoming a high value person in life! =)
Great tips. I also know that reading can give a significant boast to your creativity when talking
It feel great when you know what to do at any situation thanks for helping us
That could be the most helpful Tripp video I have watched so far! Thank you, and nice job.
Agreed!!!
This video is pure gold
Any one can do it . I used to be shy and timid , but now I can smooth talk sexy women .
What makes me laugh? Memes I find on Twitter. Most of them are political memes. I'm not sure I can carry a conversation with a woman talking about that stuff.
The way it teleported to my hand 😭💯
Your videos were already full of valuable advice, but the quality has gone up spectacularly the last months.
This is why Tripp Advice is the best
I don't got fear to talk to women, I just don't know how to hold the conversation. I can say something, see the girls laugh or smile and then it goes flat 100%. I might go and say something completely random or try to repeat the same conversation and say something like "but yeah, that's crazy how...." and she/they will say "yeah, smile/laugh" and flat again... I do 5% of the talking and the girls do 95%, but I can tell they know I'm not saying anything. Sometimes, they don't say anything waiting for me to talk and I just don't say anything.
Thanks Tripp, your advice is a great reinforcement for many of us
Got hooked and magnetic from you and they are gold. Keep this newer style videos coming!
Who else single af
There is more of us than we think
Me!!
never had a girlfriend in my life neither a relationship and I'm 23.
@Shield Liger oh man you think that's an issue? I kind have already accepted my destiny
Were brothers mah boi
Its that's confidence it makes a big difference
This is the greatest video in your channel. No secrets and no bullshit. Great advice!
Be yourself . She likes you or does not. Age 14-42. All I saw work.
Awesome Tripp 👏 Thanks my man 👍
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Have 632 approached in the last 2 years. I'm doing 10-20 approaches every week.
Got 2 numbers yesterday
Throw them away they are useless. Now... The next two will be really relevant.
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2 in bad way
I’m good at talking to people in general but then when it comes to trying to talk to girls I find attractive or I want to have like me I struggle with saying the right things I usually make mylsef sound weird or I just can’t progress in a flirting way
Thank you
- karte la?
- Barachon
- Scott, nice to meet you.
Friend, hello friend! How is your ice cream?
Like if you get the reference
What do I do now that it's covid? I try to get people on call though and it always goes great
I think you really utilize comments to improve the quality of your videos and not only to have some sort of personal gain. In my opinion this video is the one that top any other ones without taking anything from the others. It really covers everything in regards to what is to be considered when wanting to approach women in a less energetic (you call it smooth) way. Still the word approach is not my favorite though. I think getting into people space and talk normally is effective and less compromised I'm just saying.
bruh does this guy livve in the uk i cant "go out to speak to people"
unlesss... i drink every weekend
Then I'm smooth
thanks Men
do people actually overthink this so much, i have OCD and even i wouldnt dive into this guys pool of thought, Do you Jan?
Hey Tripp I just want to ask you a question why is it women don't pick up men ?
They do all the time, just happens you haven't been there to see it.
Because they don’t have to. They get attention from guys all the time
kurtis sent me here. And its all guys.
Hes always tall good looking or bouth
Should guys join toastmasters.
MR.DC COMICS can’t hurt
Ok you won. I am going to a bar tonight, I will start conversations with anyfuckingone
I ain’t doing all that for women lol.
You could try it on guys too(making friends)
That’s why you ain’t gone get none lol why are you even watching this vid🤔
Not a option in this covid generation I guess