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Although it may not seem like it at first, being ghosted can be a blessing in disguise. Think about it, do you really want to be with someone who will disrespect you like that?
Be thankful, you just dodged a bullet. If she ghosted you, she's emotionally immature & unstable. Move on boys! Remember what the master said: Abundance mindset....
Great comment dude, this really made me realize that I'm so lucky that she ghosted me so I don't have to feel bad because I reject or hurt her at the end lol
It sucks. But never forget that women are usually dating many guys at once. So if your competitors make progress after your date with the girl, you will get ghosted after. Women are only as loyal as their options. Never forget that.
Yep, it’s very disrespectful, but can’t fall into their trap and chase after them. Hold onto your power, don’t give it to someone who’s not interested in you.
Yes, I got rejected and ghosted before and getting rejected hits harder, but stays for less time and is less painful. and there’s this girl that’s been „ghosting“ me for a day and I don’t know if she’s just busy or Abt to really ghost me. I’m not chasing her, I’m giving her time to decide if she’s gonna text me back finally or just gonna ghost me.
@KnowYourDestiny that's a big f lie, I'm ripped and much better looking than when I was on my 20s, (I'm 30 now), I have almost 0 pussy with a lot of positive changes on my physical and mental self, what get you girls is social circles not gym.. that's a lie
If she ghosts you, move on emotionally. You’re wasting your time. Don’t text her or call. If she happens to see you out or decides she wants to reconnect, don’t act bitter or angry rather be civil and be unavailable. She will most likely now want you because you’re not chasing her. I put a few in the, friends with benefits zone and that’s where they would stay because they’re not relationship material.
"She will most likely now want you because you’re not chasing her" This is your imagination and hope. If she liked you in the first place, she would already be with you.
@@goranvuletic8873 this from actual experience. I’ve had a lot success with meeting and dealing with women but very little success in finding women of quality. I myself had to also do some maturing which eventually led my success in finding a good wife. Nothing delusional here.
That kind of irresponsible action is actually a fore warning of narcissism. Dudes, just be glad you got the news before you got obligated with the unstable type.
@@LiquidSnakeSSJ4 yes i had sex with ah ex and they are not marriage type they seem like happy people but reality they are getting desperate and old infact i meet 38 year old woman who has BPD wants to divorce and wants to have sex with me no joke
Same except i had 2 then i broke up with them and all of a sudden im getting choosing signals shit test and a little touching. A bump and a reach for my food but not too much.
Im 54 a man, Im still dealing with all these clownish games they play. You remember when you were a child and 8 hours seemed like half your life well you feel the same at my age. Dont waste time on women they will waste all your time and money and not think twice. This guy has good advice.
keep your head up brother, i'm 33 and just learning this now.. when a girl ghosts I just delete/block and move onto the next. 90% of these girls act & think they are movie stars they need to be brought down a peg or two.
I'm exhausted about all these "rules" or "tips" about dating. Everything is counterintuitive and nobody wins. I just started watching dating tips for men and they're almost the complete opposite of dating tips for women. One says "Men love to pursue women. Don't chaise. Don't initiate conversations. Let them do all the work." Then the other is "Never chaise a women. If she's not initiating conversation, then that means she doesn't like you. Let her do all the work." I'm so tired and about to just give up.
Im thinking exactly the sameee!!! i came across some female dating tips and they where very contradicting to what ive been learning from the male dating tips loool i dont even know what to do anymore
Show the women some respect. Give her space but dont ignore her. Treat her right especially if shes a nice/kind/decent person. Be there for her..take her on a date. She loves it..You talk on the phone every other night or so. She talks and acts like she has real feelings and you cant help but start to feel the same. Then just before Valentine's day she ghosts you lol. She acts like you no longer exist, and while you continue to be kind and respectful, you still get ignored. All while she continues posting stories on her snapchat to her 2k+ male followers, telling them "hmu😑" which itself doesn't mean much if anything. But when you are PURPOSELY ghosting the "one guy I care about, you are the only guy I talk to" blah blah blah yet I cant even get rejected by you. Which I'd prefer. I can handle rejection and breakups. But the past week she been talking like we were going to be seriously dating soon. I didn't force her. And now I am just so confused. She was cool af. Still dont hate her and am not angry. Just a bit hurt and confused. Really wish shed just send one message saying why..I mean she hasn't blocked me or deleted me. So whats going on? And how are you ok with fucking with people like this? I havent dated in years cuz my last gf cheated. I never knew what ghosting was but ive just found out the hard way . How can you happily continue living your life like nothing happened? Are you that cold hearted and cruel? If I had closure I'd be much better. Then I could know the truth and move on. This sucks so much. Like Im the butt of her joke and they all watch as I get cucked like some pathetic soy boy simp.
@@ElPatron42069 Same situation bro, don't know either what to do, but I guess she was just not into you, due to other factors, character, personality, humor etc...
About a year ago I was ghosted. I moved on and last night I randomly had a dream with her in it. I didn’t know why, and I’ve been thinking about it all day so I watched this video, and it helped a lot. thanks!
If you feel someone ghosts you...you take the next step of removing that person from your profile or deleting the contact,she will remember you for ages ! When you aren't afraid of losing a girl , there is some invisible , irresistible masculine vibe which women sense , works like a charm on others trust me :)
@@horizonkage I meant that you're going the wrong way by chasing her. I'm 72 years old now and have had a lot of life experience regarding relationships, marriage, divorce etc. I'm thinking that technically it should be a lot easier to meet women today with all the social media tools at your disposal, which we didn't have in the 1960's and 70's. It just seems to be like a minefield, with the thought of having to interact with the opposite sex striking terror into the hearts of the male species in general, what happened?
@@GeeCeeWU I mean that people shouldn't be chasing any woman. Either she doesn't like you or she's playing immiture games. If she's moving away from you, look for someone else. Someone that moves towards you. But to answer the question, I'm sure this problem with guys has always existed. Men with better role models will always do better, and we have a lot of broken homes nowadays. The other problem is social media, People, especially women have too much choice but the other problem is the easy access to porn and how easy it is to hide at home and never go outside. Accessibility has actually resulted in far more isolation then ever.
Women who ghost men are toxic. If you waste time chasing them you feel like a loser begging for a reply. Nowadays you have to be mindful of this. One or two missed calls or unanswered text is basically ghosting a guy. No respect there. Stay focused on your purpose guys.
The abundance he's talking about can be applied to your goals and hobbies aswell, if she does ghost you it doesn't matter you can focus more on achieving your goals without distraction
@@miamitrancemissions6425 i totally agree with you. I feel the same way but people keep shoving down your throat that "you need to learn to be happy with yourself " I'm like yeah no s*** I do love myself this is a completely separate issue lol
@@miamitrancemissions6425hahahaha no. I go to the gym solo and I only have my gym bros there to share it with. Everything else also doesn’t have to be anyone romantic
I walked away from the most beautiful woman ever who was my gf of 3.5 years and happened to be a narcissist. So if some random woman from Tinder or wherever ghosts me, I delete, block and move on. It's called having pride and self respect guys. Do not waste your time with those that don't value you.
If she ghosts you. Never contact her again, and make sure you delete her number. That is if you had intentions of dating her. If she reaches out, DO NOT respond. Quit putting yourself beneath women who likely see themselves as above you and are average at best. Know your worth and value as a hard working man.
In today's world unfortunately many women have a false sense of their attractiveness and think they should be on a pedestal. Texting has made this much worse. Another form of ghosting is avoidant behavior, which points to issues she may have had from childhood.
Fellas, if a female or anybody ghost you, consider it a blessing. The second thing is ghosting might mean you need to do some internal work. I was ghosted by a guy but what I realized I was coming from a place of lack. I had to do some internal work. Come to the table with confidence, know you are a good man, live your life, date, be unbothered and the ladies will come. There is nothing sexier then a confidence but yet kind man. That's one of the things that made me fall for my guy. Good Luck !!!
Wife of 21 years had an affair and I recently found out. During those 21 years, I was basically subjected to narcissistic abuse, where I was degraded, insulted, isolated, etc. I tried to forgive her over the years, thinking that she will come around. Nope. Instead she had an affair. I tried to forgive that also, but it drove me nuts that she betrayed me this way. Recently I met someone online, but she ghosted me (my fault - I was a little too pushy), came back, and ghosted me again, but this time I have no bloody idea why as I didn’t say or do anything. It’s almost as if she is shit testing me in some way. Or, she’s another narc that is looking for a victim.
Everything seemed great for a few weeks while we talked. And only got better. Started to get attached to each other. We were up til like 3 am gaming the day before Valentine's day. Still, everything was going great. She seemed so happy. And now she acts like I don't exist. No idea why. Im not gonna spam her with messages. Or cuss her out or anything. All I said was "if you're no longer interested thats fine. Just lmk so I can properly move on please? No hard feelings whatsoever " word for word and, still nothing. I saw her posting on her snapchat to her 2k+ followers saying "hit me up😑" and that made my heart sink. I can take rejection and breakups. But I hate liars. You say you aren't talking to other guys like that. Yet shes more content to continue posting snapchat stories to all those 2k+ random horny dudes who just wana fuck..and tbh I didnt say any of that. And the snapchat thing never bothered me. I trust you so theres nothing to worry about. But after ghosting me the day before Valentine's day and being shady and doing your snapchat stories for attention, I started to not trust her. Its just cruel how you can lead someone on, convince them you care for them dearly, and just hang them out to dry like that. Thats the only reason the snapchat thing got to me. You can be so cold hearted that you can just live life normally and cut me off while my mind goes berserk, but you cant be cold hearted enough to just message me on snapchat and say something like "its over loser. Im hot, you're ugly. I found a better/real man" or whatever the reason is. Honestly any of those would be better than getting ghosted. At least I'd know what to work on. And it would be so much easier to move on!!! But not knowing drive me insane! :(
Ghosting is a less polite version of being friend-zoned to oblivion, but they both end up the same. Just recently, a woman was starting to pull this crap with me, when I quickly realized I was the only one initiating communication and her texts were few and far between. So I pulled back and stopped. After a week and a half of not seeing or hearing from each other, she had the nerve to look at me funny when I wasn't facing her or giving her the puppy treatment of a Beta, like she was used to before. I'm 50 now, and I've been through this countless times. Chasing has never worked, NEVER! You have to remind yourself that you have too much value and self respect to chase after someone who holds you at far less worth than you hold them... Be the Alpha, brothers!
I’ve been dating a girl for a little over 2 months. Everything has been going amazing. We talk all day fall asleep on the phone. Then she ghosted me out of no where... I really thought she was the one . She brought me peace and now I feel empty because the bond I thought we had is gone
Same here. Had great chemistry, she initially showed interest. I shared personal stuff about my life that only a handful of people on earth know about me, I was emotionally invested in her. She intentionally ignored me when I wished her happy thanksgiving. It stings badly because I simply don’t get very many opportunities. I unfriend her from Facebook and moved on. It really sucks because I made absolutely sure there was enough signs there to have preponderance of the evidence that she was interested
I have had the same shit happen to me. I told her straight up what the fuck is going on, I spilled the beans all over her. Turns out we just wern't compatible so I just ended the whole thing there and then and never looked back. Don't fuck around with ghosters, they'll fuck your soul and leave you dead. If you ever get ghosted or friendzoned, just move on.
Guys, we've all been there. Trust me, even the Chads and Tyrones have gone through this at some point in their life. I think the problem boils down to us young men trying to fill a hole with women. We instead need build ourselves, work towards a greater goal, and find inner peace. Whether women wanna get onboard or not should not bother us too much.
Married for 14yrs newly divorced and dating in this world now is so savage and brutal. We have failed in a society in which ghosting exists. Empathy and communication no longer exists. Courtesy tex thats all is needed, how hard can this be.
Getting ghosted is like building up calluses on your fingers when you're learning guitar. It sucks, it hurts, but the only option is to forge ahead and keep progressing. Each time you get calluses, they hurt less and less, and when they heal, you're stronger than you were before. I no longer get calluses on my fingers from playing guitar.
Man! I so love your analogy since I'm a guitar player and that is so true! Those callouses are what allow you to become a guitar god later on! I'm gonna see this stuff this way from now on bro! 🎸
Honestly. I’m over 30 and I’m not really annoyed that I’m learning this now. My 20s were all about me, and I didn’t really care that much about dating.
Same here. I'm now 46, but back in my 20s and 30s and into my early 40s I had no time for women, game and serious dating since I ended up being a caregiver on many levels to my sickly family. My life only finally became my own 5 years ago, so I have a lot of catching up to do.
Tripp is right. I’ve been using this advice and technique since my 20s. I am now 33, yes I am still single but I choose to be because I have not met anyone who I wanted to settle down with in quite a while. And that is OK with me. Do not fall for peoples so-called unwarranted opinions of what you should be doing with your life, partners, etc.
I want to find a woman to love and be loved by! It's all that I long for in life! But women are driving me insane! It's like they want to be treated like sex-objects... Give them respect and they disrespect you... Love them and they betray you... They don't want to live in the sincere truth that true love requires! Even the Bible states "Who can find a virtuous woman?" And then it's all our fault! I pour my heart out in hopes of finding the same response, but I get the opposite! This is destroying my heart from within! I don't know how much I can take before I give up on love! But love is all that I long for in this life... 😔
xMCxVSxARBITERx I’m praying for you brother. I have the same feelings at times but Jesus is the way and He has someone for you. The key is obedience to Him and patience
Yep. This is me... Fit. Almost 6 ft. Good job. Own apartment. Make them laugh. I can get them into the bedroom no problem. Good family upbringing with good values. I think I'm not too bad looking face wise but definitely not top tier... But if I go for a woman who I consider "on my level" or close enough... Maybe I get to a 3rd date but it only takes one tiny slip and she's onto the next one. As if she's perfect herself! I just know they will wind up alone with their cats but that guys like me lose out too. It's just so sad.. Why can't women pull their head in and understand that James Bond is not going to suddenly want to wife them up after they've whored around past the age of 30! And why is it such a horrible thing to express a bit of interest after a 3rd date and expect a bit of respect to not play this cat and mouse bullshit of not texting back in a timely manner! God. I just can't stomach having a long term relationship with someone who is into those kinds of manipulation tactics. It's so immature.
If a person feels they don't need to respond to you, then they have issues with themselves. The issue is not with you. That's just rude and immature as well as playing games.
I don’t date period… the last thing I need is another lifeless coward that would rather disappear on me than actually show me any kind of empathy towards my personal well-being. There’s no emotional support or confidence boost from your partner. It’s never ending mind games and walking on eggshells. No loyalty whatsoever. As a modern man that grew up in generation-Z I’m done. I’m done going through the motions.
This just happened to me yesterday. She reached out to me first (Tinder), met and so forth. Great chemistry and meet. Hours later blocked, ghosted. I did reach out (yeah I know..) and said if she changes her mind let's meet. She was glad we met but not going to pursue with it. Moving on. Lesson learned.
Being alone in your teens/twenties feels super-lonely..when you are then married for 15 year+....being left alone is the best thing that can ever happen to you....gives you time to re-evaluate the worth of BAD partners.
We don’t tolerate nor accept ghosting. Go out and find another girl. Unless she had a valid excuse, she shouldn’t fear confrontation. She also has to do 100% of the calling texting and pursuing by that time if she decides to come back to you. For the first date she should go to your house or somewhere convenient to you (if she had a valid reason. if she cares, she will offer to make up for the lost time) If not move on.
Better to be single then be with the wrong person and there's a lot of wrong women out there. Hopefully you have friends and family , hobbies , a career , loads of money and a fit and healthy head and body. There's not a lot of women out there that can say the same..........GROOVY BABY!
If a woman stops talking to you all of a sudden, simply delete her from social media and act like she never existed.. it’s about self-respect! She lost the prize, not you.
It really worked on myself. As an introvert i dont chase women. If she ghosted me then its fine. I have my life and i enjoyed myself being alone most of the time 😅
Most guys need to learn from introverts. I am personally more of an extrovert, and I would easily get hurt by rejection and a lack of social arrangements. Introverts have a hidden power in being able to enjoy their own company for a long period of time.
Good sound advice! This is my method of handling rejection also. It’s true, a lot of woman aren’t as horrible as you think-they just don’t do well with the confrontation of telling you their not interested. Truth be told, neither do I! I love the way you focused on the individual instead of demonizing the women out there. Most problems can be solved right where they start...your attitude. Great job!
I've never been ghosted before, but it happened to me for the first time recently. My female co-worker chased me for sex months (i wasn't/i am not terribly into her). We made out before the end of 2019 (but i took it just as a simple "making out session", i am not in love with her). So i was gone for two weeks, came back and she didn't say a word to me, ignoring me etc. Found out she is with my other co-worker who she knew before me :) i don't trust girls anyway so i wasn't really surprised at all :P best thing to do is to go on with your life, not a single word, no attention, no nothing. Have some dignity & self-respect guys :)
It sucks that a lot of guys don’t know this yet but if a girl is willing to meet up with you right away after asking her out that’s a sign that’s she’s interested but if she keeps dodging you or always has something coming up when you ask her out she’s clearly not interested. You should obviously find someone that’s willing to give you her time of the day and wants to me meet up. It took me a while to finally understand that all thanks to you and all these dating coaches.
I used to simply ghost anyone I lost interest with during my college phase and a bit after that. But when you mature, you will realize that ghosting is for immature and indifferent people who dont care about the self esteem they might destroy when they ghost them
This is exactly what happened to me ghosted, went back to her ex after two months of dating... I was her rebound, no explanation it's a form of abuse, no empathy coward like Manor they can't just tell you I'm going back for leftovers🍗
@@JustinMasters1989 there's usually another guy in the picture, that you never knew about, they tried to move on but it wasn't enough time for them to heal, and then they screw you over and then you are in the same boat sinking oh, it's never ending it seems
@@JustinMasters1989 I did the same thing with her, I told her what I wanted she tried to friendzone me, I said no friends !!! got plenty of them romance only) we had a great time together a lot of like likes, I told her if you change your mind or your heart give me a call .... I never called or text her ever again no chasing , walked away like she was dead ...like you said never existed you have to do that. If you chase you'll just push her further away... she has to go back to figure it out, she had more time with him than me,,,, will she ever come back? Flip a coin,,, I know people that came back 5 10 20 years later amazing that's your choice then... always go by your gut feeling, your gut is connected to your brain it will tell you..., I haven't heard from her in three years ... dating many other women, but that one was the Unicorn, 🦄one-of-a-kind , she was definitely amazing, in every aspect,
I was ghosted starting yesterday. What’s funny is I met her on hinge and her profile said “direct communication and honesty is soooo sexy” 🤣 I almost texted her earlier today but after watching like 4 videos on this topic I’m truly glad I didn’t and feel much better knowing I’m exacting revenge my moving on with my life.
Thanks for the advice Tripp, even though I'm 24 and never got a girlfriend. I've been constantly improving my approach and habits. If it didn't work before, try something else. "You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great. " - Zig Ziglar
I'm a fucking confident men she go and talk to alot of guy's meet new guy's and we're like talking not as boyfriend and girlfriend but i get jealous and i don't wanna tell her
she's not this beautiful I'm more beautiful than her but she got me trapped i don't really fucking know how and andd i can't fucking stop thinking about her please help
@@thamuzm2684 maybe listen to some Sandman vids... Helps to see the techniques they use on us... Helps to be educated on what we're dealing with... Being in the dark on how they operate leaves u more helpless
My girlfriend at the time ghosted me for a week, but I only thought that she was busy. It wasn’t until a few days later that I started feeling worried. So me, being my dumb self, decided to search for her because I was worried and a little angry that she was ignoring me. I went to her house, no response. I spoke with her mom at her job but she apparently never even told her mom about our relationship which is very weird. Lastly, I spoke with her friend about her cheating on me bc that’s what her mom told me (my girlfriend wasn’t). I was absolutely freaking out and I couldn’t think straight. Her friend made her respond to me finally and my girlfriend was pissed. She originally wanted to hang out with me but when she realized I was pulling these crazy stunts and talking to her mom who I thought knew about us, she changed her mind and ended the relationship. Some of this is her fault tho bc if she was busy, she would’ve told me that she was with one simple text. I don’t know why she waited for her friend’s call to tell me to hang out bc she was clearly not doing anything. If anyone gets ghosted, never chase someone. Simply leave her and move on. I learned my lesson.
I was ghosted by a girl who I have now known for 1.5 years and we did all kinds of stuff and shared very personal stories with each other. Now she just didn't said anything to me for a few months after the last time we met.
After a bad trip on Tinder and Bumble I think the core idea is this: AVOID portraying yourself or adapting to someone you simply are not. If you are not comfortable write in your bio you don't want to write first, list your boring hobbies, don't photoshop your images. Online dating is a really bizarre market and pretending to be something you are not will only give you attention from women you don't want to be around. Even if the the result is zero new contacts at least you know and can assess the situation. Otherwise you only waste your own time and nerves.
I have also come to another conclusion. When a girl ghosts us, it's better to do nothing. Sometimes maybe ask if she's ok, but if she won't reply, then it's time to move on. By chasing her we will end up becoming the creep most of us deep down dislike. The girl is so special that she don't give rat's ass about responding to you. No priority to someone = back off.
Look, girls don’t like to ghost. It’s passive aggressive and rude so if a girl’s going out of her comfort zone to be mean she’s not enjoying it and she’s only doing it because there’s a really good reason in her head and you have no chance of changing her mind so GIVE UP!!
The only female to never ghost me, ended up being my wife. Then she cheated, abused, and destroyed my confidence. I feel so hopeless, and I'm ab to give up. I want to die
Years ago I was chasing a girl for 2 years, I'm glad I've ignored her and gave up her after she ghosted me. Thanks for the years of advice Tripp, you've made me better with women and life in general.
As a rule of thumb, if she doesn’t respond after 1-3 month, I simply delete her from social media, etc. After we had a few months of continuous talk and I start doing all the work in initiating communication. You can’t talk to someone in these conditions.
Kyle Hartley To be more explicit, if she responds with 1-2 words after 10-15min when I initiate, for a month or two I simply delete her. Nobody can be busy for such a long time. Am I too generous?I am serious about the question.:)
Kyle Hartley That sounds fine. The situation I was in was a bit different. I texted a girl for around 2 months continuously. In time she responded less and less, then after two months she stopped initiating at all. I tried 2-3 times to reconnect and I gave up. After that 1-2 months after giving up I finally cut any connection, facebook or instagram. I gave her some time if she wanted to come back. After this period, I lost any interest of reconnecting with her and I don’t want to give her the opportunity to text me anymore.
Kyle Hartley Thanks, man. I guess it depends on how long you talked to a girl. One week is fine if you dated for a few days. But I sometimes think I give too much credit to some girls.
Much easier to be in an abundance mindset when you're in a big city with a lot of girls your age and type in close radius. This is something I realized recently after moving into a bigger city.
Eh I lived in Chicago for 22 years and I used to think the same thing. That same pendulum will eventually swing the other way where it is not an advantage.
"Hey" worked for me after 8 months but I didn't perpetually send her texts. When she ghosted me I just forgot about it and then I texted her "hey" 8 months later and she replied right away. I'm just saying.
In 2 months, I went from watching first date tips, second date tips, third..., how to escalate, tips when slow reply, signs the girls lost interest, and now I'm at this video.
I got ghosted because she had a boyfriend already and we were romantically involved. The thing that hurt me the most! . We were friends before for about 3 years!. She lied and said she moved away!. I honestly did care , but i cared more about our connections as friends. She would call me asking for help! Im super confused, but youre video is awesome. She hyped me up really well. My grandparents are sick and leaving to Mexico " legendary way of Ghosting! She also texted me streching the lie. Mistakes were made!
I have been in a relationship with a woman for 4 years and out of nowhere she comes home from holiday gaslights me leaving me confused packs her bags moves out ghosts me leaving me more confused. She probably was cheating on me. However watching these videos now I realise relationships in these times it's like a role of a dice I can understand now why people just have fun and are afraid to open up humans are mysterious and dangerous.
I don't agree with your solution: "Be more attractive and she won't ghost you." That's like telling someone to be more ugly and they won't get raped. There is no fail-safe against shitty behaviour. A person with avoidant tendencies will ghost others regardless of how attractive, wealthy, or desirable they are; do even the slightest thing that puts them off, they go cold turkey. Women work of off emotions. If she feels it, she doesn't ghost. And if she doesn't feel it, she ghosts. There is really no way around it. I'm successful, tall, well-educated, confident, and loyal and I still got ghosted. Attraction is binary; it either happens or it doesn't. Work on yourself but don't assume that you won't be ghosted thereafter. Ghosting is wrong whether the other person is attractive or not.
I went through so much I thought she was a true friend she starting talking to me first and then she just crushed me. She just texted me again I wont respond I cant afford the risk. I dont even want to risk talking to a girl again. I have had to get through my harder's battles on my own anyway.
I got ghosted after almost 4 years! Haven't experienced this before and it sucks! We have so many things in common, but she just dissappeared from Whatsapp and Messenger :/ Had bad experiences with women in the past and now i have been ghosted :/
this girl ghosted me for like 4 hours on text saying she wanted to plan something with me then never hit me back up and said she was tired and tried apologizing to me but I don’t trust her
What do you do when you want something serious with someone and dont want to date a bunch of women? I have done that but i end up feeling worse. I know I can always self improve but it comes to a point where theres no motivation. I have my advanced degrees, no debt, own a house, know practical skills, speak multiple languages, travelled and all that shit is kindnof meaningless to me. I want to share my life with someone but it seems women are either to emotionally wrecked or scared of commitment
You sound like you need yourself a woman from a 3rd wold country. Western women today are not worth marrying, and a man with your profile should have no trouble getting any woman from abroad.
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Just borrow money from her, you'll never be ghosted
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This!!!!!
You sir are a genius. I agree 100%
and if she doesnt let you borrow money its time to git rid of her
What a good way of responding, if anybody ghosts someone.
Although it may not seem like it at first, being ghosted can be a blessing in disguise. Think about it, do you really want to be with someone who will disrespect you like that?
Matty Matt i agree man. He/she doesn’t even respect the person they ghost enough to give them a polite rejection. It’s called zero empathy
Or she's a narc..
That last sentence, fuck. Thanks haha
It still would’ve been better if she didn’t ghost u
BINGO!
Be thankful, you just dodged a bullet. If she ghosted you, she's emotionally immature & unstable. Move on boys! Remember what the master said: Abundance mindset....
Great comment dude, this really made me realize that I'm so lucky that she ghosted me so I don't have to feel bad because I reject or hurt her at the end lol
Abundance of goals aswell, not just women.
I agree she is immature and needs to emotionally suffer , and her kids should be taken away ,
I agree she is immature and needs to emotionally suffer , and her kids should be taken away ,
Facts bro
A girl ghosted me, so I tried to go out with an another girl, to make the first girl jealous , and she ghosted me too 🤣
MIDWAVY 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I thought i had it bad
Dang Bro....that's too bad...LOL
Damn, I’m sorry to hear that.
I remember one line you said in another video
“Never chase the wrong one, the right one won’t run”
They might
They always run
@@morelions4014 😢
It sucks. But never forget that women are usually dating many guys at once. So if your competitors make progress after your date with the girl, you will get ghosted after. Women are only as loyal as their options. Never forget that.
This is gold 💯
There is no excuse for ghosting. Its a sign of the loss of healthy interpersonal communication in our society.
It’s true :(
WORD
Finally someone gets it..,
💯💯💯
Yep, it’s very disrespectful, but can’t fall into their trap and chase after them. Hold onto your power, don’t give it to someone who’s not interested in you.
If she ghosts... don't chase.
If you chase... she wins Big Time.
She ghost you fuck her she deserves to be single for the rest of her life
I just want revenge
@@Suspect333 You want revenge ? Date another woman.
Don't chase. 🙂
@@Suspect333 what happens when you chase a cat ?
You'll be fine 👍
@@kkenason8728 She’s not going to care
Getting ghosted is worse than getting rejected
Yes, I got rejected and ghosted before and getting rejected hits harder, but stays for less time and is less painful. and there’s this girl that’s been „ghosting“ me for a day and I don’t know if she’s just busy or Abt to really ghost me. I’m not chasing her, I’m giving her time to decide if she’s gonna text me back finally or just gonna ghost me.
@KnowYourDestiny that's a big f lie, I'm ripped and much better looking than when I was on my 20s, (I'm 30 now), I have almost 0 pussy with a lot of positive changes on my physical and mental self, what get you girls is social circles not gym.. that's a lie
They both suck!
Yes. Ghosting is cowardly.
I wish women would say.
“Look, I’m sorry this ain’t gonna work, best of luck”
This is more respectful than to leave you in obscurity
My life is not so low to care for somebody who doesn't care me.
If she ghosts you, move on emotionally. You’re wasting your time. Don’t text her or call. If she happens to see you out or decides she wants to reconnect, don’t act bitter or angry rather be civil and be unavailable. She will most likely now want you because you’re not chasing her. I put a few in the, friends with benefits zone and that’s where they would stay because they’re not relationship material.
Nah I would act bitter. I hate being an adult
TD3 - That is the whole point about ghosting. You don't know it is being done until after some time.
"She will most likely now want you because you’re not chasing her"
This is your imagination and hope. If she liked you in the first place, she would already be with you.
@@goranvuletic8873 this from actual experience. I’ve had a lot success with meeting and dealing with women but very little success in finding women of quality. I myself had to also do some maturing which eventually led my success in finding a good wife. Nothing delusional here.
@@WORLD8NSH5KNIGHT1 did you not read the paragraph?
That kind of irresponsible action is actually a fore warning of narcissism. Dudes, just be glad you got the news before you got obligated with the unstable type.
As long As you had sex with her and and didnt pay and making money youl come ah long way being single
does this apply for BPD too?
@@LiquidSnakeSSJ4 yes i had sex with ah ex and they are not marriage type they seem like happy people but reality they are getting desperate and old infact i meet 38 year old woman who has BPD wants to divorce and wants to have sex with me no joke
@@LiquidSnakeSSJ4 Run away from BPDs before its too late.
@LiquidSnakeSSJ4 don't waste your time with those girls. Flakes at the best of time, nightmares at the worst.
there’s a technique. If she sees you with another woman, she’ll want your attention. This worked for me, Tripp
Especially if she gorgeous I heard, its like the jealousy pre selection bachelor effect according to my research
Same except i had 2 then i broke up with them and all of a sudden im getting choosing signals shit test and a little touching. A bump and a reach for my food but not too much.
Oh yeah she even be in my business ik because my stepmom sister told me.
Thats your ego talking if she ghosted you she doesnt have feelings for you strong enough. You cant make a woman jealous who isnt "interested" in you
@@ritagomes9186 yess ecactly what I was thinking
Im 54 a man, Im still dealing with all these clownish games they play. You remember when you were a child and 8 hours seemed like half your life well you feel the same at my age. Dont waste time on women they will waste all your time and money and not think twice. This guy has good advice.
keep your head up brother, i'm 33 and just learning this now.. when a girl ghosts I just delete/block and move onto the next. 90% of these girls act & think they are movie stars they need to be brought down a peg or two.
The fact that you're dealing with this shit at 54 makes me lose what remaining hope I had for this dating stuff.
I can introduce you to a man who can bring your ex back permanently without delay
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I'm exhausted about all these "rules" or "tips" about dating. Everything is counterintuitive and nobody wins. I just started watching dating tips for men and they're almost the complete opposite of dating tips for women. One says "Men love to pursue women. Don't chaise. Don't initiate conversations. Let them do all the work." Then the other is "Never chaise a women. If she's not initiating conversation, then that means she doesn't like you. Let her do all the work."
I'm so tired and about to just give up.
Im thinking exactly the sameee!!! i came across some female dating tips and they where very contradicting to what ive been learning from the male dating tips loool i dont even know what to do anymore
If women would stop playing games
Show the women some respect. Give her space but dont ignore her. Treat her right especially if shes a nice/kind/decent person. Be there for her..take her on a date. She loves it..You talk on the phone every other night or so. She talks and acts like she has real feelings and you cant help but start to feel the same. Then just before Valentine's day she ghosts you lol. She acts like you no longer exist, and while you continue to be kind and respectful, you still get ignored. All while she continues posting stories on her snapchat to her 2k+ male followers, telling them "hmu😑" which itself doesn't mean much if anything. But when you are PURPOSELY ghosting the "one guy I care about, you are the only guy I talk to" blah blah blah yet I cant even get rejected by you. Which I'd prefer. I can handle rejection and breakups. But the past week she been talking like we were going to be seriously dating soon. I didn't force her. And now I am just so confused. She was cool af. Still dont hate her and am not angry. Just a bit hurt and confused. Really wish shed just send one message saying why..I mean she hasn't blocked me or deleted me. So whats going on? And how are you ok with fucking with people like this? I havent dated in years cuz my last gf cheated. I never knew what ghosting was but ive just found out the hard way . How can you happily continue living your life like nothing happened? Are you that cold hearted and cruel? If I had closure I'd be much better. Then I could know the truth and move on. This sucks so much. Like Im the butt of her joke and they all watch as I get cucked like some pathetic soy boy simp.
@@ElPatron42069 update?
@@ElPatron42069 Same situation bro, don't know either what to do, but I guess she was just not into you, due to other factors, character, personality, humor etc...
About a year ago I was ghosted. I moved on and last night I randomly had a dream with her in it. I didn’t know why, and I’ve been thinking about it all day so I watched this video, and it helped a lot. thanks!
It doesn’t matter how attractive you are, no man has a 100% success rate. Rejection is part of the the game.
100%
If you feel someone ghosts you...you take the next step of removing that person from your profile or deleting the contact,she will remember you for ages ! When you aren't afraid of losing a girl , there is some invisible , irresistible masculine vibe which women sense , works like a charm on others trust me :)
@@atreaunews6174 blame women...they want to reproduce with the best genes possible or they just want you for your money
Ghost me in any way possible, in the minimum way imaginable and it’s over for us girl. Forever.
If your chasing a woman she's going the wrong way.
No, you're going the wrong way.
@@GeeCeeWU Probably right, I tend to crab walk around attractive women until they become uncomfortable and leave.
Forever sideways!
@@horizonkage I meant that you're going the wrong way by chasing her. I'm 72 years old now and have had a lot of life experience regarding relationships, marriage, divorce etc. I'm thinking that technically it should be a lot easier to meet women today with all the social media tools at your disposal, which we didn't have in the 1960's and 70's. It just seems to be like a minefield, with the thought of having to interact with the opposite sex striking terror into the hearts of the male species in general, what happened?
@@GeeCeeWU I mean that people shouldn't be chasing any woman.
Either she doesn't like you or she's playing immiture games. If she's moving away from you, look for someone else.
Someone that moves towards you.
But to answer the question, I'm sure this problem with guys has always existed. Men with better role models will always do better, and we have a lot of broken homes nowadays.
The other problem is social media, People, especially women have too much choice but the other problem is the easy access to porn and how easy it is to hide at home and never go outside.
Accessibility has actually resulted in far more isolation then ever.
@@horizonkage You are right, I'm glad I was born when I was. Most of the social scene today seems to be superficial and fake.
Women who ghost men are toxic. If you waste time chasing them you feel like a loser begging for a reply. Nowadays you have to be mindful of this. One or two missed calls or unanswered text is basically ghosting a guy. No respect there. Stay focused on your purpose guys.
Great speech
I’m a girl and I would agree the same for men
The abundance he's talking about can be applied to your goals and hobbies aswell, if she does ghost you it doesn't matter you can focus more on achieving your goals without distraction
Yes. But goals and hobbies are more enjoyable if you have someone in your life to share them with.
You know that's not as easy to actually do when you're in a state of trauma or depression ....
@@miamitrancemissions6425 i totally agree with you. I feel the same way but people keep shoving down your throat that "you need to learn to be happy with yourself " I'm like yeah no s*** I do love myself this is a completely separate issue lol
@@miamitrancemissions6425hahahaha no. I go to the gym solo and I only have my gym bros there to share it with. Everything else also doesn’t have to be anyone romantic
I walked away from the most beautiful woman ever who was my gf of 3.5 years and happened to be a narcissist. So if some random woman from Tinder or wherever ghosts me, I delete, block and move on.
It's called having pride and self respect guys. Do not waste your time with those that don't value you.
Your a boss
I feel your pain 💯 percent
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You are right
Correct
If she ghosts you. Never contact her again, and make sure you delete her number. That is if you had intentions of dating her. If she reaches out, DO NOT respond. Quit putting yourself beneath women who likely see themselves as above you and are average at best. Know your worth and value as a hard working man.
learnt something here as a lady who's been ghosted I'm going to apply the laws you have stated.. thank you
In today's world unfortunately many women have a false sense of their attractiveness and think they should be on a pedestal. Texting has made this much worse. Another form of ghosting is avoidant behavior, which points to issues she may have had from childhood.
Fellas, if a female or anybody ghost you, consider it a blessing. The second thing is ghosting might mean you need to do some internal work. I was ghosted by a guy but what I realized I was coming from a place of lack. I had to do some internal work. Come to the table with confidence, know you are a good man, live your life, date, be unbothered and the ladies will come. There is nothing sexier then a confidence but yet kind man. That's one of the things that made me fall for my guy. Good Luck !!!
Very excellent point. Thanks for that!
Wife of 21 years had an affair and I recently found out. During those 21 years, I was basically subjected to narcissistic abuse, where I was degraded, insulted, isolated, etc. I tried to forgive her over the years, thinking that she will come around. Nope. Instead she had an affair. I tried to forgive that also, but it drove me nuts that she betrayed me this way. Recently I met someone online, but she ghosted me (my fault - I was a little too pushy), came back, and ghosted me again, but this time I have no bloody idea why as I didn’t say or do anything. It’s almost as if she is shit testing me in some way. Or, she’s another narc that is looking for a victim.
Everything seemed great for a few weeks while we talked. And only got better. Started to get attached to each other. We were up til like 3 am gaming the day before Valentine's day. Still, everything was going great. She seemed so happy. And now she acts like I don't exist. No idea why. Im not gonna spam her with messages. Or cuss her out or anything. All I said was "if you're no longer interested thats fine. Just lmk so I can properly move on please? No hard feelings whatsoever " word for word and, still nothing. I saw her posting on her snapchat to her 2k+ followers saying "hit me up😑" and that made my heart sink. I can take rejection and breakups. But I hate liars. You say you aren't talking to other guys like that. Yet shes more content to continue posting snapchat stories to all those 2k+ random horny dudes who just wana fuck..and tbh I didnt say any of that. And the snapchat thing never bothered me. I trust you so theres nothing to worry about. But after ghosting me the day before Valentine's day and being shady and doing your snapchat stories for attention, I started to not trust her. Its just cruel how you can lead someone on, convince them you care for them dearly, and just hang them out to dry like that. Thats the only reason the snapchat thing got to me. You can be so cold hearted that you can just live life normally and cut me off while my mind goes berserk, but you cant be cold hearted enough to just message me on snapchat and say something like "its over loser. Im hot, you're ugly. I found a better/real man" or whatever the reason is. Honestly any of those would be better than getting ghosted. At least I'd know what to work on. And it would be so much easier to move on!!! But not knowing drive me insane! :(
Everything is a waste if you're ugly. Hard truth for us as a man
Thank you
Ghosting is a less polite version of being friend-zoned to oblivion, but they both end up the same. Just recently, a woman was starting to pull this crap with me, when I quickly realized I was the only one initiating communication and her texts were few and far between. So I pulled back and stopped. After a week and a half of not seeing or hearing from each other, she had the nerve to look at me funny when I wasn't facing her or giving her the puppy treatment of a Beta, like she was used to before.
I'm 50 now, and I've been through this countless times. Chasing has never worked, NEVER! You have to remind yourself that you have too much value and self respect to chase after someone who holds you at far less worth than you hold them...
Be the Alpha, brothers!
Wait so where did you see her at after the week and a half of silence from both of you?
Now i just block girls who takes 1-3days to open a message
im a sigma..
I’ve been dating a girl for a little over 2 months. Everything has been going amazing. We talk all day fall asleep on the phone. Then she ghosted me out of no where... I really thought she was the one . She brought me peace and now I feel empty because the bond I thought we had is gone
Same here. Had great chemistry, she initially showed interest. I shared personal stuff about my life that only a handful of people on earth know about me, I was emotionally invested in her. She intentionally ignored me when I wished her happy thanksgiving. It stings badly because I simply don’t get very many opportunities. I unfriend her from Facebook and moved on. It really sucks because I made absolutely sure there was enough signs there to have preponderance of the evidence that she was interested
I have had the same shit happen to me. I told her straight up what the fuck is going on, I spilled the beans all over her. Turns out we just wern't compatible so I just ended the whole thing there and then and never looked back. Don't fuck around with ghosters, they'll fuck your soul and leave you dead. If you ever get ghosted or friendzoned, just move on.
Guys, we've all been there. Trust me, even the Chads and Tyrones have gone through this at some point in their life. I think the problem boils down to us young men trying to fill a hole with women. We instead need build ourselves, work towards a greater goal, and find inner peace. Whether women wanna get onboard or not should not bother us too much.
Married for 14yrs newly divorced and dating in this world now is so savage and brutal. We have failed in a society in which ghosting exists. Empathy and communication no longer exists. Courtesy tex thats all is needed, how hard can this be.
I totally agree man we need to hit the reset button
Getting ghosted is like building up calluses on your fingers when you're learning guitar. It sucks, it hurts, but the only option is to forge ahead and keep progressing. Each time you get calluses, they hurt less and less, and when they heal, you're stronger than you were before. I no longer get calluses on my fingers from playing guitar.
As I sit here stroking my numb rock hard fingers nodding my head saying yes yes this is so true lol 😆
Man! I so love your analogy since I'm a guitar player and that is so true! Those callouses are what allow you to become a guitar god later on!
I'm gonna see this stuff this way from now on bro!
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@@ignaciocarda6004 👍
thats such an awesome analogy man!! I'm glad i found and read your comment and i play guitar myself. You're right we gotta keep going💪
Honestly. I’m over 30 and I’m not really annoyed that I’m learning this now. My 20s were all about me, and I didn’t really care that much about dating.
Same here. I'm now 46, but back in my 20s and 30s and into my early 40s I had no time for women, game and serious dating since I ended up being a caregiver on many levels to my sickly family. My life only finally became my own 5 years ago, so I have a lot of catching up to do.
Dude I barely dated in my 20s but now in my 30s I want to. Glad I'm not the only one.
Dating in the 40s is an absolute nightmare.
Let's be honest, social medias ruined girls/women and society in general
Yup too much options for their own good
If she ghosts
She's not the right one
Go to the next and focus on YOU
Move on, stop chasing people who don't like you
Tripp is right. I’ve been using this advice and technique since my 20s. I am now 33, yes I am still single but I choose to be because I have not met anyone who I wanted to settle down with in quite a while. And that is OK with me. Do not fall for peoples so-called unwarranted opinions of what you should be doing with your life, partners, etc.
So basically not chasing doesn’t work either 😅
I want to find a woman to love and be loved by! It's all that I long for in life! But women are driving me insane! It's like they want to be treated like sex-objects... Give them respect and they disrespect you... Love them and they betray you... They don't want to live in the sincere truth that true love requires! Even the Bible states "Who can find a virtuous woman?"
And then it's all our fault!
I pour my heart out in hopes of finding the same response, but I get the opposite! This is destroying my heart from within! I don't know how much I can take before I give up on love! But love is all that I long for in this life... 😔
@L L savage af bro
xMCxVSxARBITERx I’m praying for you brother. I have the same feelings at times but Jesus is the way and He has someone for you. The key is obedience to Him and patience
xMx go off shore for a fertile woman it beats the odds the costs are extra, but your the prize.
Love your self..how can you love youre self when you let them treat you like that.Treat them like they are treating you👍I wish you well brother
Exactly the same here. I can't find a woman who knows what she wants.
Bro you just saved my life, you and all those other dating coaches out there... Thank you
Woman with chase a guy with multiple girlfriends more than the stable good guy who is picky...so always be busy and abundant
Ass backwards ....
Yep. This is me... Fit. Almost 6 ft. Good job. Own apartment. Make them laugh. I can get them into the bedroom no problem. Good family upbringing with good values. I think I'm not too bad looking face wise but definitely not top tier... But if I go for a woman who I consider "on my level" or close enough... Maybe I get to a 3rd date but it only takes one tiny slip and she's onto the next one. As if she's perfect herself! I just know they will wind up alone with their cats but that guys like me lose out too. It's just so sad.. Why can't women pull their head in and understand that James Bond is not going to suddenly want to wife them up after they've whored around past the age of 30!
And why is it such a horrible thing to express a bit of interest after a 3rd date and expect a bit of respect to not play this cat and mouse bullshit of not texting back in a timely manner! God. I just can't stomach having a long term relationship with someone who is into those kinds of manipulation tactics. It's so immature.
If you've been romantically involved with someone, and they ghost you, it's because they've left you for someone else.
i can introduce you to a man who can bring your ex back permanently without delay
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If a person feels they don't need to respond to you, then they have issues with themselves. The issue is not with you. That's just rude and immature as well as playing games.
I don’t date period… the last thing I need is another lifeless coward that would rather disappear on me than actually show me any kind of empathy towards my personal well-being.
There’s no emotional support or confidence boost from your partner. It’s never ending mind games and walking on eggshells. No loyalty whatsoever. As a modern man that grew up in generation-Z I’m done. I’m done going through the motions.
This just happened to me yesterday. She reached out to me first (Tinder), met and so forth. Great chemistry and meet. Hours later blocked, ghosted. I did reach out (yeah I know..) and said if she changes her mind let's meet. She was glad we met but not going to pursue with it.
Moving on. Lesson learned.
You've been ghosted, solution: get other girls to ghost you. Very smart.
Genius level
Lol
😂
Yep. Lets all get more depressed and sulk! It doesnt mean the next is gonna work out. The whole dating pool is garbage
@@alesitercrimson24absolutely.
Being alone in your teens/twenties feels super-lonely..when you are then married for 15 year+....being left alone is the best thing that can ever happen to you....gives you time to re-evaluate the worth of BAD partners.
I just gave up on women. Modern dating is too difficult. Something is broken in society and its not worth it anymore.
Blocked & Deleted her. Thank you for this.
im 21 and starting to learn about women, and im glad i found this great advice, not all of us have fathers lol.
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doesn‘t matter if you have a father. Most fathers these days would be in the same situation with this messed up generation of woman these days
@@Chris-gw2xgExactly even now it’s so much worse
We don’t tolerate nor accept ghosting. Go out and find another girl. Unless she had a valid excuse, she shouldn’t fear confrontation. She also has to do 100% of the calling texting and pursuing by that time if she decides to come back to you. For
the first date she should go to your house or somewhere convenient to you (if she had a valid reason. if she cares, she will offer to make up for the lost time)
If not move on.
Better to be single then be with the wrong person and there's a lot of wrong women out there. Hopefully you have friends and family , hobbies , a career , loads of money and a fit and healthy head and body. There's not a lot of women out there that can say the same..........GROOVY BABY!
There is no age for this watching this...Abondance mindset is the only solution🔥 🔥 🔥
This is literally the first guy on RUclips to make me change my mind on stuff. Thanks so much Tripp, I appreciate your tips!
Corey wayne too
If a woman stops talking to you all of a sudden, simply delete her from social media and act like she never existed.. it’s about self-respect! She lost the prize, not you.
It really worked on myself. As an introvert i dont chase women. If she ghosted me then its fine. I have my life and i enjoyed myself being alone most of the time 😅
Best answer by far on here
Most guys need to learn from introverts. I am personally more of an extrovert, and I would easily get hurt by rejection and a lack of social arrangements. Introverts have a hidden power in being able to enjoy their own company for a long period of time.
Good sound advice! This is my method of handling rejection also. It’s true, a lot of woman aren’t as horrible as you think-they just don’t do well with the confrontation of telling you their not interested. Truth be told, neither do I! I love the way you focused on the individual instead of demonizing the women out there. Most problems can be solved right where they start...your attitude. Great job!
I've never been ghosted before, but it happened to me for the first time recently. My female co-worker chased me for sex months (i wasn't/i am not terribly into her). We made out before the end of 2019 (but i took it just as a simple "making out session", i am not in love with her). So i was gone for two weeks, came back and she didn't say a word to me, ignoring me etc. Found out she is with my other co-worker who she knew before me :) i don't trust girls anyway so i wasn't really surprised at all :P best thing to do is to go on with your life, not a single word, no attention, no nothing. Have some dignity & self-respect guys :)
good on you man play it cool. look at her character she can change guys like changing clothes.. u deff dodged a bullet homie!
It sucks that a lot of guys don’t know this yet but if a girl is willing to meet up with you right away after asking her out that’s a sign that’s she’s interested but if she keeps dodging you or always has something coming up when you ask her out she’s clearly not interested. You should obviously find someone that’s willing to give you her time of the day and wants to me meet up. It took me a while to finally understand that all thanks to you and all these dating coaches.
I used to simply ghost anyone I lost interest with during my college phase and a bit after that. But when you mature, you will realize that ghosting is for immature and indifferent people who dont care about the self esteem they might destroy when they ghost them
Most ghosts have come back in my experience some times there’s another guy maybe you was a rebound from him
This is exactly what happened to me ghosted, went back to her ex after two months of dating... I was her rebound, no explanation it's a form of abuse, no empathy coward like Manor they can't just tell you I'm going back for leftovers🍗
@@JustinMasters1989 then what happen after 2 months, are you still seeing her? Or did she flake back out like a box of Frosted Flakes
@@JustinMasters1989 there's usually another guy in the picture, that you never knew about, they tried to move on but it wasn't enough time for them to heal, and then they screw you over and then you are in the same boat sinking oh, it's never ending it seems
@@JustinMasters1989 I did the same thing with her, I told her what I wanted she tried to friendzone me, I said no friends !!! got plenty of them romance only) we had a great time together a lot of like likes, I told her if you change your mind or your heart give me a call .... I never called or text her ever again no chasing , walked away like she was dead ...like you said never existed you have to do that. If you chase you'll just push her further away... she has to go back to figure it out, she had more time with him than me,,,, will she ever come back? Flip a coin,,, I know people that came back 5 10 20 years later amazing that's your choice then... always go by your gut feeling, your gut is connected to your brain it will tell you..., I haven't heard from her in three years ... dating many other women, but that one was the Unicorn, 🦄one-of-a-kind , she was definitely amazing, in every aspect,
I was ghosted starting yesterday. What’s funny is I met her on hinge and her profile said “direct communication and honesty is soooo sexy” 🤣 I almost texted her earlier today but after watching like 4 videos on this topic I’m truly glad I didn’t and feel much better knowing I’m exacting revenge my moving on with my life.
Thanks for the advice Tripp, even though I'm 24 and never got a girlfriend. I've been constantly improving my approach and habits. If it didn't work before, try something else. "You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.
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- Zig Ziglar
yeah, I lost my virginity wayyy late. not ashamed because I had an amazing girl! honest humble people get the best for real... Keep working!
Some girs have that kind of charm, that you can't quit this just like that. That's a real crap trap.
I'm a fucking confident men
she go and talk to alot of guy's meet new guy's and we're like talking not as boyfriend and girlfriend but i get jealous and i don't wanna tell her
she's not this beautiful I'm more beautiful than her
but she got me trapped i don't really fucking know how and andd i can't fucking stop thinking about her please help
Bullshit go & hire escort you will forget everything
Go into the bathroom after the "goddess " has scented and come to YOUR Scenses.
@@thamuzm2684 maybe listen to some Sandman vids... Helps to see the techniques they use on us... Helps to be educated on what we're dealing with... Being in the dark on how they operate leaves u more helpless
Take time to grieve the lost relationship. Don't put yourself and someone else at enhanced risk for rebound.
0:27 "Find another girl", LOLOL
it is a good advice.
"Anything that is wasting your time is red flag, red zone, big danger warning!" -Tripp
Thanks i needed that hahah
'Do THIS If She Ghosts You'
rejoice, have a party and enjoy your freedom!
then remember;
the only winning move not to play
This is some of the best advice you can get about women.
He left out a common issue: the girl is either in a relationship or is in an on/off scenario. It's not as simple as "she wasn't turned on"
Being ghosted is a victory ...you earned your freedom without guilty feeling and arguments
Self-respect is more important than any woman.
My girlfriend at the time ghosted me for a week, but I only thought that she was busy. It wasn’t until a few days later that I started feeling worried. So me, being my dumb self, decided to search for her because I was worried and a little angry that she was ignoring me. I went to her house, no response. I spoke with her mom at her job but she apparently never even told her mom about our relationship which is very weird. Lastly, I spoke with her friend about her cheating on me bc that’s what her mom told me (my girlfriend wasn’t). I was absolutely freaking out and I couldn’t think straight. Her friend made her respond to me finally and my girlfriend was pissed. She originally wanted to hang out with me but when she realized I was pulling these crazy stunts and talking to her mom who I thought knew about us, she changed her mind and ended the relationship. Some of this is her fault tho bc if she was busy, she would’ve told me that she was with one simple text. I don’t know why she waited for her friend’s call to tell me to hang out bc she was clearly not doing anything. If anyone gets ghosted, never chase someone. Simply leave her and move on. I learned my lesson.
I was ghosted by a girl who I have now known for 1.5 years and we did all kinds of stuff and shared very personal stories with each other. Now she just didn't said anything to me for a few months after the last time we met.
After a bad trip on Tinder and Bumble I think the core idea is this: AVOID portraying yourself or adapting to someone you simply are not. If you are not comfortable write in your bio you don't want to write first, list your boring hobbies, don't photoshop your images. Online dating is a really bizarre market and pretending to be something you are not will only give you attention from women you don't want to be around. Even if the the result is zero new contacts at least you know and can assess the situation. Otherwise you only waste your own time and nerves.
She said she would never leave but I guess she lied💔😔😞😢
Same here bro …. Still not recovered
Chase after ideas, careers and goals to better yourself. But never chase people.
Luv the long form content you've been releasing lately, Tripp. Keep it up!
I have also come to another conclusion. When a girl ghosts us, it's better to do nothing. Sometimes maybe ask if she's ok, but if she won't reply, then it's time to move on. By chasing her we will end up becoming the creep most of us deep down dislike. The girl is so special that she don't give rat's ass about responding to you. No priority to someone = back off.
Look, girls don’t like to ghost. It’s passive aggressive and rude so if a girl’s going out of her comfort zone to be mean she’s not enjoying it and she’s only doing it because there’s a really good reason in her head and you have no chance of changing her mind so GIVE UP!!
The only female to never ghost me, ended up being my wife. Then she cheated, abused, and destroyed my confidence. I feel so hopeless, and I'm ab to give up. I want to die
Don't give up bro
Take heart bro❤
if you want to drive her crazy,,send her a text saying``can you keep a secret? it will drive her nuts,,,,but don't respond right away,,have a plan
That's fucking genius man. Hhhhaaaa! But really smart !
Years ago I was chasing a girl for 2 years, I'm glad I've ignored her and gave up her after she ghosted me.
Thanks for the years of advice Tripp, you've made me better with women and life in general.
Chased a girl for 2 years!?!!,?!!???! The fuck?
As a rule of thumb, if she doesn’t respond after 1-3 month, I simply delete her from social media, etc. After we had a few months of continuous talk and I start doing all the work in initiating communication. You can’t talk to someone in these conditions.
Kyle Hartley To be more explicit, if she responds with 1-2 words after 10-15min when I initiate, for a month or two I simply delete her. Nobody can be busy for such a long time. Am I too generous?I am serious about the question.:)
Kyle Hartley That sounds fine. The situation I was in was a bit different. I texted a girl for around 2 months continuously. In time she responded less and less, then after two months she stopped initiating at all. I tried 2-3 times to reconnect and I gave up. After that 1-2 months after giving up I finally cut any connection, facebook or instagram. I gave her some time if she wanted to come back. After this period, I lost any interest of reconnecting with her and I don’t want to give her the opportunity to text me anymore.
Kyle Hartley Thanks, man. I guess it depends on how long you talked to a girl. One week is fine if you dated for a few days. But I sometimes think I give too much credit to some girls.
Simple solution, forget about her. She’s not worth your time. Someone ghosting you is disrespectful.
Much easier to be in an abundance mindset when you're in a big city with a lot of girls your age and type in close radius. This is something I realized recently after moving into a bigger city.
Eh I lived in Chicago for 22 years and I used to think the same thing. That same pendulum will eventually swing the other way where it is not an advantage.
Im 19 thank god i have time but rn corona virus quarantine is just wasting my precious timeeee!!!!
SAME BRO SAME
"Hey" worked for me after 8 months but I didn't perpetually send her texts. When she ghosted me I just forgot about it and then I texted her "hey" 8 months later and she replied right away. I'm just saying.
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I got ghosted because she had a boyfriend already and we were romantically involved. The thing that hurt me the most! . We were friends before for about 3 years!. She lied and said she moved away!. I honestly did care , but i cared more about our connections as friends. She would call me asking for help! Im super confused, but youre video is awesome. She hyped me up really well. My grandparents are sick and leaving to Mexico " legendary way of Ghosting! She also texted me streching the lie. Mistakes were made!
Why did my grandfather’s generation never have to go through this BS?
because they got married after the second date lol
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I told him: “ In case you have moved on, I enjoyed my conversations with you. I wish you the best and hope that you find good.
That’s what i did. Just came here to get a confirmation, thanks mate.
I have been in a relationship with a woman for 4 years and out of nowhere she comes home from holiday gaslights me leaving me confused packs her bags moves out ghosts me leaving me more confused. She probably was cheating on me. However watching these videos now I realise relationships in these times it's like a role of a dice I can understand now why people just have fun and are afraid to open up humans are mysterious and dangerous.
Even my friends ghost me :,v
It's normal human shitty behavior. This is why I barely hang out with anyone anymore
Everyone is a piece of shit.
I feel you bro, I wished it would never happen to anyone.
Respect the dead and never bother them again, and if you see them in person disregard their existence like you’ve never spoken to them at all
I don't agree with your solution: "Be more attractive and she won't ghost you." That's like telling someone to be more ugly and they won't get raped. There is no fail-safe against shitty behaviour. A person with avoidant tendencies will ghost others regardless of how attractive, wealthy, or desirable they are; do even the slightest thing that puts them off, they go cold turkey. Women work of off emotions. If she feels it, she doesn't ghost. And if she doesn't feel it, she ghosts. There is really no way around it. I'm successful, tall, well-educated, confident, and loyal and I still got ghosted. Attraction is binary; it either happens or it doesn't. Work on yourself but don't assume that you won't be ghosted thereafter. Ghosting is wrong whether the other person is attractive or not.
I went through so much I thought she was a true friend she starting talking to me first and then she just crushed me. She just texted me again I wont respond I cant afford the risk. I dont even want to risk talking to a girl again. I have had to get through my harder's battles on my own anyway.
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I got ghosted after almost 4 years! Haven't experienced this before and it sucks!
We have so many things in common, but she just dissappeared from Whatsapp and Messenger :/
Had bad experiences with women in the past and now i have been ghosted :/
Thank you. I'm going through this after 20 years with her. It hurts. I needed to hear this. It's really hard.
That absurd! 20 years and she pulls this s***?
@@mawnki8037 yes. We were of and on for 20, but steady the last 8.. so broken....
I've been ghosted a lot as a child. It happened every time I watched Casper. 👻
this girl ghosted me for like 4 hours on text saying she wanted to plan something with me then never hit me back up and said she was tired and tried apologizing to me but I don’t trust her
What do you do when you want something serious with someone and dont want to date a bunch of women? I have done that but i end up feeling worse. I know I can always self improve but it comes to a point where theres no motivation. I have my advanced degrees, no debt, own a house, know practical skills, speak multiple languages, travelled and all that shit is kindnof meaningless to me. I want to share my life with someone but it seems women are either to emotionally wrecked or scared of commitment
You are one of a kind. Wishing you all the best in your journey of finding a life partner.
You sound like you need yourself a woman from a 3rd wold country. Western women today are not worth marrying, and a man with your profile should have no trouble getting any woman from abroad.
Been there. It hurts. But... self respect is the 🔑. Move on... its a blessing in disguise