To learn more about what it means to be "dominant" in a relationship and how to take the lead so girls see you as a lover and not as just a friend, be sure to check out my online program HOOKED ► www.getherhooked.com.
I have done this all my life, and always got men chasing me by being unavailable or less approachable but from my experience its not good when you are dating as it comes off as rude or not fully invested/interested, people who are looking for something serious don't like it when they have to try so much. humans hate complicated shit!
Exactly. I asked my highly attractive female friends and they told me that they would not tolerate a guy who is not fully invested in her. They would then pick one of the other 1000 guys that chase them. Too many options to have time for complicated games.
Axel Hart you like the attention you get, but not everyone is playful and not everyone has the patience, if you make them chase you, it’s trying a lot and some people feel they are good enough, to not be in the waiting game, so they give up and try where they are valued without trying too much, if you are into the attention game then it might give you an ego boost but in the long run, people will give up on you!! And you will lose out on some incredible people!
Amazing tips from trips. I always disagree but most importantly with a smile. I need to implement the dominant side to my character. But hey one step at a time. 👌
Speaking of disagreeing I got tested at a bar without even realizing it. This woman was adamant on something the way it was because of X when I stated Y. She got cold and firm so I let her go over her case. I nodded and told her she made a great point but I am sticking with my view because of xyz. She then laughed slapped me on the back and got real flirty. I was thinking wtf just happened as she looked mad 15 seconds earlier. She offered me her number. I them realized it's a test
Tripp, I enjoy watching your videos. Have you ever thought about providing relationship advice for women? I can see how some of your info can go both ways, but I would like some insight about men from you. Thanks! 😊
Imagine you say 'it wouldnt work out between us' followed with a smile...but what to do if she's answering with..'uuuhm who said I like you...you're not my taste, so you could never be my friend.
Tripp...used your advice on staying away after a breakup...didn't reach out for two months. Called her and asked if I could take her out to dinner for her Birthday...she said that sounded like fun..👍 when I drop her off afterwards if I'm invited in should I take a rain check or go in? Don't want to seem over eager....we had dated seriously for 3 years
Would these work with girls who's first language isn't English, but their English is decent enough for conversation? Because I've noticed that girls with first languages that aren't English, tend to not get sarcasm or distinguish when you're being playful, they'll take lines like "I totally disagree" a bit too seriously, how would one approach or deal with that? Thanks!
I disagree with using tailor made sentences. I think it's better to change the overall mindset of not being desperate and a simp, instead get hobbies and get a life then just be honest and say yes and no when you want to without putting her on a pedestal
Also meet a women get her number. Wait a few days then call her once. Then don't hang out or talk to her for a few weeks. She will wonder why is he not talking to me. Which means she's thinking about you. Then you don't come off as desperate, trying too hard, smothering exc. When she sees you again. She will come to you. You're not at her feet doing what most guys do.
@davidbaker2085 i experienced this by accident. I never called her never dated her met her once briefly got her number. Two or three weeks went by. Within the two three weeks I saw her once But I didn't talk to her she saw me though. she approached me asking why I don't talk to her. I realized I was on her mind. Worked
Hi, thanks for your all those advises, I'm really appreciate your advices but I have a question what to say when she ask " you don't love me like before", " you don't have so much feelings for me like before" then what should I say to her? It'll be really helpful. thank you again.
I totally disagree with a girl in class (which i kinda like) and she tries to defend her opinion and i try to defend mine so we fight at the end of almost every chat😂😂😂😂 tense as Sh**t
Not agreeing to everything she says and not being always available are basic behaviors I would expect all guys to know. However, those behaviors alone will not make her to chase you. In conversations with high quality women this behavior is expected from you. Beside that, I don't like the concept of a funnel to get many women in. There are not enough cute, available women around to make the dating process an event where you can choose the best girl. I'm doing research for a book I am writing on the availability of high quality women, and the numbers suggest that you do not have the time to go through a long dating process. They are never really single, at most for a few days in rare cases. Either you are quick or you might be eliminated from the gene pool.
@@blackout2430 I'm talking about the attractive, interesting women. I have several of them in my friends circle. I asked them about their relationships and dating experience. ALL of them reported that they never had a time in their adult life when they were single. Not even one day. Not surprisingly, I never ran into one of those attractive women that were available /single.. and I met thousands and thousands of women in the past decades.
Can someone please tell me if I’m in the right or wrong, myself and my gf are going away for the night Friday being the 6/3 , well last week we made plans on what was happening about meeting and picking up, we decided that she was coming to mine leaving her car at mine then leaving. We are meeting on the 5/3 which is Thursday so we can confirm our plans, we’ll tonight her mate calls her and after their conversation she then tells me that I’m picking her up from her mates house as her mate has made arrangements with my gf to go have a brew and see some puppies!!!!’, so I wasn’t happy as I said baby don’t you think it would have been nice if you’d have said your mate look I’m going away with my bf I’ll talk with him first to see if it’s ok as we’ve made plans and specific time to leave and I’ll get back to you but ohhhh no she tells me if it’s ok now can I pick her up from her mates house which they arranged tonight after she’s had a brew and seen some puppies, I’m now the bad guy as I have aired my views, some of you might say where’s the problem!!!!! I see it as she’s not spoken with me before hand to alter our original plans but only gone behind my back as her mate is the kind of girl who gets angry when blokes don’t pay her attention, I’ve bf we met my gfs mate and already I don’t like her
To learn more about what it means to be "dominant" in a relationship and how to take the lead so girls see you as a lover and not as just a friend, be sure to check out my online program HOOKED ► www.getherhooked.com.
Shouldn't this be natural though why does this seem like a such a complicated process.
Thanks for this advice... I tried this once before (by accident) and I was shocked how she came towards me vs. pull away.
This is my very first time to comment on a RUclips video. I always watch your videos and I can confidently say, you are the best coach in this!
I forgot to smile when I said it and she stormed off. Damn it!
Yoo T what’s yours WILL BE yours eventually🙏🏾there’s no one rule🔥
Well, I guess learn from the mistake and work smarter.
Your working to hard.
lol now that's funny shit
I have done this all my life, and always got men chasing me by being unavailable or less approachable but from my experience its not good when you are dating as it comes off as rude or not fully invested/interested, people who are looking for something serious don't like it when they have to try so much. humans hate complicated shit!
Exactly. I asked my highly attractive female friends and they told me that they would not tolerate a guy who is not fully invested in her. They would then pick one of the other 1000 guys that chase them. Too many options to have time for complicated games.
Axel Hart you like the attention you get, but not everyone is playful and not everyone has the patience, if you make them chase you, it’s trying a lot and some people feel they are good enough, to not be in the waiting game, so they give up and try where they are valued without trying too much, if you are into the attention game then it might give you an ego boost but in the long run, people will give up on you!! And you will lose out on some incredible people!
Axel Hart I agree to his point where he says to lead, to dominate but not always, as that may come off as controlling!
This is just a line that you use sometimes, otherwise be yourself. It gives you a slight edge. This is sexy if you execute with charisma
It’s like a game that you play once she starts liking you and you fall in love with each other you can be yourself
Amazing tips from trips. I always disagree but most importantly with a smile. I need to implement the dominant side to my character. But hey one step at a time. 👌
Speaking of disagreeing I got tested at a bar without even realizing it. This woman was adamant on something the way it was because of X when I stated Y. She got cold and firm so I let her go over her case. I nodded and told her she made a great point but I am sticking with my view because of xyz. She then laughed slapped me on the back and got real flirty. I was thinking wtf just happened as she looked mad 15 seconds earlier. She offered me her number. I them realized it's a test
Great advice as usually gonna implement asap
Tripp, I enjoy watching your videos. Have you ever thought about providing relationship advice for women? I can see how some of your info can go both ways, but I would like some insight about men from you. Thanks! 😊
exactly! these are the types of videos you should make
Imagine you say 'it wouldnt work out between us' followed with a smile...but what to do if she's answering with..'uuuhm who said I like you...you're not my taste, so you could never be my friend.
"glad we're on the same page then, I hate when women just want me for my body" *smile*
@@adelfhipster3936 that's good
These tips are gold 👍🏻
Great and nice practile study and advice😀👏👏
Ive had great success nicely or in a fun tone telling women what I want from them and what we'll do and leaving some room for their imput.
Weird question Tripp, I know...but where did you get that shirt??
Tripp...used your advice on staying away after a breakup...didn't reach out for two months. Called her and asked if I could take her out to dinner for her Birthday...she said that sounded like fun..👍 when I drop her off afterwards if I'm invited in should I take a rain check or go in? Don't want to seem over eager....we had dated seriously for 3 years
Great advice Tripp!!!!
Actually fellas you really should not have to say much.
You look like that dude from flushed away
FS Chris 🤣🤣🤣🤣The disrespect
Jason Lika 😭💀
I’m Dead. *Young Chop Voice
I think a woman did the "were never gonna work out" thing on me. And all I could think about was trying to make us workout after that. 😂
Would these work with girls who's first language isn't English, but their English is decent enough for conversation? Because I've noticed that girls with first languages that aren't English, tend to not get sarcasm or distinguish when you're being playful, they'll take lines like "I totally disagree" a bit too seriously, how would one approach or deal with that? Thanks!
why u need instructions about how to communicate with people? o.o
I disagree with using tailor made sentences. I think it's better to change the overall mindset of not being desperate and a simp, instead get hobbies and get a life then just be honest and say yes and no when you want to without putting her on a pedestal
7:11 I totally disagree. There is no such thing as good sushi.
Tripp
Ur tips r awesome
Just one thing .... you must humorize the convo .. humor s key
Thanks for the tips as usual!
I asked my ex gf to go out to a different place but she disagreed due to society pressure 😆
If you are not manipulative you are an ordinary cloth with which she will wipe the dust
Also meet a women get her number. Wait a few days then call her once. Then don't hang out or talk to her for a few weeks. She will wonder why is he not talking to me. Which means she's thinking about you. Then you don't come off as desperate, trying too hard, smothering exc. When she sees you again. She will come to you. You're not at her feet doing what most guys do.
I wouldn't wait days more like 3 hours
@davidbaker2085 i experienced this by accident. I never called her never dated her met her once briefly got her number. Two or three weeks went by. Within the two three weeks I saw her once But I didn't talk to her she saw me though. she approached me asking why I don't talk to her. I realized I was on her mind. Worked
Hi, thanks for your all those advises, I'm really appreciate your advices but I have a question what to say when she ask " you don't love me like before", " you don't have so much feelings for me like before" then what should I say to her?
It'll be really helpful. thank you again.
tanmoy ask her back a teasing question
I totally disagree with a girl in class (which i kinda like) and she tries to defend her opinion and i try to defend mine so we fight at the end of almost every chat😂😂😂😂 tense as Sh**t
This is totally not going to work out
Result: date is over, you are again alone lol
Women only chase men when they feel the man has something to offer her in the form of resources.
OK, I wrote it down. So what do I do now?
I had 102 girls and all of them I meet on FB , when I see them I life they’re mine :)
Just promise her money
We understand Greatt Broo 👏👏👏👏👏👏💯❤️💯
U are doing well
Disagree and put your own opinions.
Oh you and I are not gonna work out
Here’s what we gonna do~ dominate
I can’t that day~ don’t be too available
Is ir reupload we v seen it already
I drink around beer a clock
With mask will make this interesting...
Not always 'woman want you to lead them'!!! Maybe at some moments but not the whole time!
Not agreeing to everything she says and not being always available are basic behaviors I would expect all guys to know. However, those behaviors alone will not make her to chase you. In conversations with high quality women this behavior is expected from you.
Beside that, I don't like the concept of a funnel to get many women in. There are not enough cute, available women around to make the dating process an event where you can choose the best girl. I'm doing research for a book I am writing on the availability of high quality women, and the numbers suggest that you do not have the time to go through a long dating process. They are never really single, at most for a few days in rare cases. Either you are quick or you might be eliminated from the gene pool.
So then what should one do? Give up?
Single for a few days is kind of a stretch. That’s probably more so true with the outliers
@@blackout2430 I'm talking about the attractive, interesting women. I have several of them in my friends circle. I asked them about their relationships and dating experience. ALL of them reported that they never had a time in their adult life when they were single. Not even one day. Not surprisingly, I never ran into one of those attractive women that were available /single.. and I met thousands and thousands of women in the past decades.
Axel Hart i’m not saying you’re wrong but keep in mind these women could also be lying 🤷🏼♂️
@@blackout2430 I followed up with the women. All that claimed to be in a relationship were in a relationship. Good women are never single.
dating life? too much time and money.
👍👍👍
F
Can someone please tell me if I’m in the right or wrong, myself and my gf are going away for the night Friday being the 6/3 , well last week we made plans on what was happening about meeting and picking up, we decided that she was coming to mine leaving her car at mine then leaving. We are meeting on the 5/3 which is Thursday so we can confirm our plans, we’ll tonight her mate calls her and after their conversation she then tells me that I’m picking her up from her mates house as her mate has made arrangements with my gf to go have a brew and see some puppies!!!!’, so I wasn’t happy as I said baby don’t you think it would have been nice if you’d have said your mate look I’m going away with my bf I’ll talk with him first to see if it’s ok as we’ve made plans and specific time to leave and I’ll get back to you but ohhhh no she tells me if it’s ok now can I pick her up from her mates house which they arranged tonight after she’s had a brew and seen some puppies, I’m now the bad guy as I have aired my views, some of you might say where’s the problem!!!!! I see it as she’s not spoken with me before hand to alter our original plans but only gone behind my back as her mate is the kind of girl who gets angry when blokes don’t pay her attention, I’ve bf we met my gfs mate and already I don’t like her
Don't go as you planned. The whole trip will be a shit show from all this anger