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What caught my attention was when she tries to be where I'm at as much as possible. We mostly see each other when I'm leaving work and when she is about to start. We were talking a few days ago and she had been wearing her uniform shirt over her hips. I noticed that she lifted up her shirt a couple of times and I noticed here hips and waist line, not revealing any skin. That was kinda leaving me wondering if she meant to do that in front of me? I felt very good today. I think I made her evening. I hope I did. As I was about to leave I saw her getting ready for work. I went up to her and said this in a soft sincere voice "Carolyn, (She looks up at me) If I don't see by Thursday Thanksgiving, I hope you enjoy the holiday as much as you can. (Her mother past on about a month ago and she told me about it and how she was feeling)" She replied back kindly "Oh, thank you Rick. Happy Thanksgiving to you." I replied "Thank you. You as well". So then she asks me if I'm Working tomorrow? I told no I'm not I'm off the next couple days then I work on Thanksgiving. She continued to tell me when she's working and the days she's off. We said our good byes and She started work and I left for the day. As I was leaving I felt a good feeling running through me as If I made her evening.☺
What Surprise me, was that thought. Alarm in the opportunity turn on. Do Not Disturb to you but then just watching one of your. Conversations i was Checking youout and you looked at my eyes and said basically the way i understood your remark was , you are looking in the wrong area because tour never going to have a chance ,so i leave you at that
I’d say the biggest thing about dating in the workplace, is that if things go pear shaped, you still need to be civil, because you’re both still in close quarters. If things ended badly, then that can be very difficult.
I have that now. I know she likes me. She tells me she is happy to see me. This can mean she likes me as a friend so haven't moved it from professional to personal.
I would not recommend dating someone within your team and definitely NOT your boss/subordinate. If you 2 are on different teams or depts, then that's a maybe. Don't risk your career or reputation.
I work in a school which makes it impossible to respond to flirtatious behavior. I’m attracted to this to this counselor but she’s married. She’ll say “hi” in a very flirtatious tone which confuses me. She’s very professional which makes it hard to think she’s toxic but idk. Trying my best to keep things kosher at work.
Emoji and my favourite is 🤔 I’m a long time watcher, first time on the comments.. I enjoy watching your videos and I often find that I pay more attention to signs that have been mentioned either towards me or observing interactions between others.. have a good week 😊
I know coworkers who are or/and were in relationships. And I kinda know there's a couple of coworkers that are into me. And I'm into one of them. You have great talking points here.
I believe she is just overly flirtatious and a little crazy because I knew within the first five minutes of meeting her that something was wrong. But then, I became her first target, and she started playing games with me. She started giving me weird looks and flirting whenever I made eye contact with her until I could take it no more, so I pretended to make a move on her. I was nice about it, just saying I was interested, and she replied that she was in a relationship, which I was 100% okay with until her boss approached me the following day and said I had made her feel uncomfortable.
Biggest point is dealing with other co-workers that also like you, or they notice that you two have something going on... They will try to come between you two by hidding on you infront of her.
She makes me speachless! I am on a temporary business trip, she is on the same crew and even more temporary. We seem to gravitate towards each other... She does not live in my area nor I hers when we are not on this trip. Ahh so frustrating!!!
I've worked with women for two decades and I've been through this lots of times! And i say this as humbly as i can, i'm not trying to act like Mr stud muffin 😄
Sounds like a similar situation im going through at work as im very quiet and noticed a cute girl glancing here and there especially passing through the halls for the past several weeks. It was actually cute seeing her reading my name tag passing by as i just act casual like nothing is going on. Even noticed her changing her lunch routine eating closer to me as I usually like to eat alone. Nothing against her at all but just having a hard time questioning my own decisions on if i really want to go through dating someone from work. I’ve only seen two people make that mistake so far yet she’s really cute. 🙈
EMOJI. I think the sign of her wanting to be where I am is a neat sign to be aware of. It's not likely that there will be a female co-worker show any of these signs towards me due to me working at a truck repair garage / shop that has no females on staff there. However, there are some females on staff with the company in other locations. I believe the hardest part of dating a female co-worker at the workplace is when some co-workers become nosy, intrusive and gossipy about it all. Privacy would be difficult to come by. Thank you for another fine video. I hope you continue to have a good weekend and have a safe week ahead. May God richly bless you. 🙏
That's one of my favorite signs! It's incredibly common and sometimes easier to spot. I agree with you on some of the potential challenge with dating a coworker. It's important to try and keep the relationship between just two people if you can. Thank you for your kind words and support! I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving! God bless 🙏🙏🙏
Okay I’ve been working at this place for about 4 months now and promised myself to keep work and play separated. It’s not working out too well cause there’s 2 girls doing a lot to get my attention the sad part is that they are twins 😅. I’m kind of a nerdy engineering student but god blessed me with a great sports iq so at a glance people tend to take me as the player type of guy. I’ve dated once and that experience was so hurtful now I just force myself to be cold and only make conversation about work. Well recently both girls have been acting weirdly for instance going out of their way to run into me, also saying hi every time I pass by. I usually just give everyone at work a nod to let them know I’ve acknowledged their presence and if they need something they start the conversation or vice versa. In all honesty I just want to keep this job and work on the business during the free time. So my question is, am I being an a-hole by not pursuing either or is only one interested and the others just doing the digging up? Also to add I do not like their friend who’s also my work partner because she doesn’t pull her weight and I’m always left picking up the slack. One thing I’ve learned is that you can tell a lot about someone by the company they keep and this friend of theirs is very rude and ignorant to the consequences of her actions, to the point where she’ll acknowledge that it’s making my work life much harder and just laughing it off like some harmless prank.
i sent the gifts without the date and ended up so bad, i don't even want to tell the full story. did i do anything criminal or bad character, i don't think so, but still ended up so bad
This girl I worked with was giving me clear signs she liked me. I waited too long and when I expressed my feelings she was back with the guy she had broken up with before we started flirting. She then acted as if I made things uncomfortable and got me fired. Would a girl that actually cared ever do that for any reason outside of not being interested. I just want to leave her alone but part of me feels like I should at least explain how I feel.
What if you’re in a marriage and she’s in a long term relationship and she follows so close behind you, and blows up your phone when you’re not in eyesight. Makes excuses to contact you. You don’t want anything more than a coworker friendship
Hi Coach Melannie!!! I think the biggest challengeof dating in the work place is keep the things in context; I mean, if I have to finish something really urgent and I am very focus on it and I do not go to lunch or I do not see her when she is passing by my cubicle. How I can send a sign I am not avoding her, and tell her I really want to spend sometime to know ker but in this momment I can not do it? But without be to agressive. ---------- It would be nice if someday I let a EMOJI ball on her desk with a post-it saying "Have a nice weekend"? 🤔🤔🤔 I really like that EMOJI, because it is thinking, trying to figure out what is going on or wondering if what I say it was clear enough.
That can certainly be a challenge! She should be pretty understanding about things like that because she's trying to stay professional at work as well. A good strategy can be to simply focus on creating a good connection when you do get to talk with her. Thank you so much for your kindness and support! 😀
About music: Shure, if You are listening music so much like me, you are looking like for the best voices you can find. Espacially when you had have singing as a child sopran as the time, when vice had broken (this is a great problem for us boys when we are young! Because you have to find your voice after brokening voice ever at a news, wich is tenor or deeper)
Now she comments you she just might being polite and very nice. She sets next to you she's being polite or she likes the points you make or you have the right seat . If she carpools with you it might be convenient or if it's because of lunch it's a lot easier with 4 of you out for lunch together very convenient and saves on gas.
I have a coworker who I don't know what to make of. In one sense she'll call me sometimes and we'll talk for hours. Or she'll call me to have lunch with her. We both have the other's phone number, and we'll text often too. Our conversations have a flirty tone to them. And she's not like this to other guys. However, she's very aloof. Hard to read. These signs could mean everything or nothing at all. I've tried to get us to kick it outside of work, but that hasn't been successful
I don't know what my favorite emoji is since I rarely use them. I would rather meet my future wife at church than the workplace. I see a lot of people flirting where I work. Perhaps you might want to make a video on how to appropriately pursue a woman at church when one or both of us are new.
Hi..Melanine !! Really love and appreciate your videos. I am facing a similar situation in my workplace. But the situation is different. Here ,I am in a showroom. Only me and her are there. (All other coworkers are in the adj room). She and I sit together and work most of the time together. She cares and supports me. But I can't identify if she actually loves me. (I know she likes me ). She is going through the final phase of her divorce and also her brother's have access to her whatsup. She has accompanied me to lunch outside and also for company meetings. I frankly had told her I loved her. But I don't have the guts to go for an embrace or kiss her (as this is not common in our culture). 🥺
Hello I need to know something. You guys have a lot of experience with this I think. A lady might like me? 1. She always laughs at my jokes and sayings. 2. She always turns fiery red when she says something to me, not to others. 3. She makes comments when she's around me, like if only I had a friend or husband who can cook for me (I'm a cook myself) 4. I can watch you all day when you're cooking in the kitchen😊 5. Have you been to the hairdresser, looks good. 6. She always compliments me on everything! Are these hints, or is she just being nice? Now she probably liked me before I liked her, because I didn't even realize that she likes me. Or is this not the case? Only now do I understand the comments. Now it's been 2 weeks since I've completely fallen in love with her. But I don't want to look like a fool since it's a colleague. Soon she will say no, and then the working relationship will be ruined. I like her so much. I take it carefully. I just had to get it off my chest.
After the, "How you doin'?" comment, your word at the end of the video should have been "JOEY"!!! I must say that this is the LAST subject I expected to see a video about. The awkwardness and the consequences "if it goes bad" just simply SCREAM... IT'S NOT WORTH IT!!! I really didn't think you would recommend it at all because of all the GAZILLION ways that it could ruin not just your relationship, but even your career if she is toxic and dysfunctional. It just seemed as if the risks were too high. But you pulled it off and now I might, MIGHT consider the possibility!
It took me 8 months to get my job. The market is very tight today for work. I work in a company and on my floor it's 90% women. I never discuss anything personal not what I do on weekends with male or female at work. If I get on an elevator I will not get on an elevator if there's a single female. In today's society you can't trust anyone. Just be safe and keep your job.
Melannie, You must know, that I have wonderful friends one of them I love. I don't have much. But thouse I have, from this I know, what they mean, what happend. There it never is a lie.
If she has to ask if you are single or not and she is a coworker she most not have worked there very long. Most places and people already know if a person is single or not. Unless they are new that's the only way they wouldn't know if you where single or not.
Ok she sets up a double date after work now this can go as a good thing or they could be there for damage control if it goes south. You never know she might even have plans of her own where she likes you as a friend but she has a girlfriend she thinks you will like this can go so many ways.
Would never date a co worker way way too awkward it is almost like dating a relative iam asexual and aromantic do not want her in any way dating is overrated and not worth the risk or effort iam not christian and i don't believe in love but i love you're channel
Hot and cold is a manipulation tactic, and also a sign there are other guys in the background. Watch out for male orbiters, which is normally also a sign for validation seeking behaviour. Is she selective, is she seeking validation from any guy, or is she constantly attached to her phone? Absent dads often results in daughters with validation seeking behaviour. If someone is playing mind games, especially at work, it's just more like they're immature, or damaged good; be careful, you get what you chose. Better observe and assess her first, you still can make a move later if she passed all your tests.
"Signs" AKA games. None of these will tell you she likes you. You will see all these signs and in the end she doesn't like you like that. Its better to be an adult and make an actual relationship with clear communication.
Hi dear Melanie great video as always😊 I have similar issue with one my female coworker sometimes she touch my arm or asked me what i do this weekend and so on. But hard to do anything i cannot risk i am on work
Does anybody really feel it's a good idea to date someone in the work place? With all these lawsuits of sexual harassment cases being brought these days I think ....Ummm I'll pass.? I live in a town with a prominent University and I was discussing this topic with a friend and employee of that University. He said right in the rules and regs or Bi-Laws about sexual harassment, that if you looked at an employee for more then 3 secs at a time you could be accused of "Gauking" or "Oggleing". I think we have hit the extreme definition of going way too far with this corporate bull. Employers want auto - trons working for them. With the way AI technology is accelerating these days I think they my get their wish!
This seems like dangerous advice. I have no interest in my name getting dumped on some PR Karen's desk for giving a woman in the workplace attention that she claims to hate yet secretly lives and hopes for every moment of the day. No thanks.
What if shes waiting at the time clocks for me. What if she stays late at the time clocks for me. What if she knows my exit route and chooses to be right in the way of that path. What if she walks by biting her lip. What if she wears the same colors as my work shirt. What if the whole workplace knows and is spying on me for her....😂 She knows my schedule and is getting in my way....
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What caught my attention was when she tries to be where I'm at as much as possible. We mostly see each other when I'm leaving work and when she is about to start. We were talking a few days ago and she had been wearing her uniform shirt over her hips. I noticed that she lifted up her shirt a couple of times and I noticed here hips and waist line, not revealing any skin. That was kinda leaving me wondering if she meant to do that in front of me? I felt very good today. I think I made her evening. I hope I did. As I was about to leave I saw her getting ready for work. I went up to her and said this in a soft sincere voice "Carolyn, (She looks up at me) If I don't see by Thursday Thanksgiving, I hope you enjoy the holiday as much as you can. (Her mother past on about a month ago and she told me about it and how she was feeling)" She replied back kindly "Oh, thank you Rick. Happy Thanksgiving to you." I replied "Thank you. You as well". So then she asks me if I'm Working tomorrow? I told no I'm not I'm off the next couple days then I work on Thanksgiving. She continued to tell me when she's working and the days she's off. We said our good byes and She started work and I left for the day. As I was leaving I felt a good feeling running through me as If I made her evening.☺
Pretty much everything, all though I knew some things, but H.Q.W. are looking for a gentle, caring, kind man with integrity.
What Surprise me, was that thought.
Alarm in the opportunity turn on. Do Not Disturb to you but then just watching one of your.
Conversations i was Checking youout and you looked at my eyes and said basically the way i understood your remark was , you are looking in the wrong area because tour never going to have a chance ,so i leave you at that
I might have the Opportunity
That didnt print what i said i opplogize
I’d say the biggest thing about dating in the workplace, is that if things go pear shaped, you still need to be civil, because you’re both still in close quarters. If things ended badly, then that can be very difficult.
I think the biggest challenge with workplace relationships is "Other Coworkers Spreading News Around".
Biggest challenge is the ice breaker from professional to personal!
I have that now. I know she likes me. She tells me she is happy to see me. This can mean she likes me as a friend so haven't moved it from professional to personal.
I fall in love with a coworker,, because she is very caring. And her laugh.
The workplace is a big challenge for sure. Noone wanting to make advances because of workplace policies
Biggest challenge is nosy people in the work place.
and everyone is nosy af
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Yup facts
@@liudizzle Real talk
All the reason to move it out of the workplace ASAP!
I would not recommend dating someone within your team and definitely NOT your boss/subordinate. If you 2 are on different teams or depts, then that's a maybe. Don't risk your career or reputation.
I'm kinda going through with this right now at my job.
How about when she smiles boldly and looks right at you.
I have a ton of female coworkers clearly into me. They are all married.
Women are always testing us, my friend. 🤫
Try and pursue it and see how quick they change their minds. They like the attention and ego boost but won't follow through most of the time.
The bane of my existence.
I work in a school which makes it impossible to respond to flirtatious behavior. I’m attracted to this to this counselor but she’s married. She’ll say “hi” in a very flirtatious tone which confuses me. She’s very professional which makes it hard to think she’s toxic but idk. Trying my best to keep things kosher at work.
@@Greatlakeskyle. Have the same exact thing. Keep it professional.
The bad is everybody gets in between the relationship with a co worker. If it goes bad it gets awkward not only with woman but, her friends too. ❤
Emoji and my favourite is 🤔 I’m a long time watcher, first time on the comments.. I enjoy watching your videos and I often find that I pay more attention to signs that have been mentioned either towards me or observing interactions between others.. have a good week 😊
I know coworkers who are or/and were in relationships. And I kinda know there's a couple of coworkers that are into me. And I'm into one of them. You have great talking points here.
I’m going to check out looking forward to listing to you Merry Christmas and Happy New Year coach 👍🎁🇺🇸🙏🇮🇱
One challenge is finding common ground in conversation that goes beyond the everyday small talk. Got any ideas on that one?
I believe she is just overly flirtatious and a little crazy because I knew within the first five minutes of meeting her that something was wrong. But then, I became her first target, and she started playing games with me. She started giving me weird looks and flirting whenever I made eye contact with her until I could take it no more, so I pretended to make a move on her. I was nice about it, just saying I was interested, and she replied that she was in a relationship, which I was 100% okay with until her boss approached me the following day and said I had made her feel uncomfortable.
Im in kinda a situation similar but i haven’t made a move so I’m glad I’ve backed off
@@Max-qk3xi You making the right move. They love the attention pay her no mind, sound like she is just playing games.
Biggest point is dealing with other co-workers that also like you, or they notice that you two have something going on... They will try to come between you two by hidding on you infront of her.
Getting myself to open up to people
She makes me speachless! I am on a temporary business trip, she is on the same crew and even more temporary. We seem to gravitate towards each other... She does not live in my area nor I hers when we are not on this trip. Ahh so frustrating!!!
I've worked with women for two decades and I've been through this lots of times! And i say this as humbly as i can, i'm not trying to act like Mr stud muffin 😄
Work regularutions . Fear of dismissal
Sounds like a similar situation im going through at work as im very quiet and noticed a cute girl glancing here and there especially passing through the halls for the past several weeks. It was actually cute seeing her reading my name tag passing by as i just act casual like nothing is going on. Even noticed her changing her lunch routine eating closer to me as I usually like to eat alone. Nothing against her at all but just having a hard time questioning my own decisions on if i really want to go through dating someone from work. I’ve only seen two people make that mistake so far yet she’s really cute. 🙈
I remember this employee liked me I remember she would ask other people what was my name. But she would look at me and look away.
EMOJI. I think the sign of her wanting to be where I am is a neat sign to be aware of. It's not likely that there will be a female co-worker show any of these signs towards me due to me working at a truck repair garage / shop that has no females on staff there. However, there are some females on staff with the company in other locations. I believe the hardest part of dating a female co-worker at the workplace is when some co-workers become nosy, intrusive and gossipy about it all. Privacy would be difficult to come by. Thank you for another fine video. I hope you continue to have a good weekend and have a safe week ahead. May God richly bless you. 🙏
That's one of my favorite signs! It's incredibly common and sometimes easier to spot. I agree with you on some of the potential challenge with dating a coworker. It's important to try and keep the relationship between just two people if you can. Thank you for your kind words and support! I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving! God bless 🙏🙏🙏
Good news, I know a woman at work who makes my heart flutter. Bad news, she works in HR
Why did the movie Dodge ball come to mind?
If you can dodge a wrench, you can dodge a ball!
Coach Melannie. If i notice she kinda seem to be everywhere i am. I would think she is stalker.😊. What would she do to reassure me? 😁
Awesome content. Favorite Emoji...😝. I'm just convinced using that Emoji after a joke...makes the joke that much more funny.
Trouble is I work with my dad.and he just transitioned and I'm wondering if she likes me like he did before
Emoji. It depends on the situation, but for humor these are my favorite ones 😂🤣
Ahhhhhh, My favorite EMOJI is 🤔
I wish I knew you, and that you could help me understand what I do wrong. . I'm 39 still single.
The challenges dating in workplace is afraid to be fired..
Emoji .. I like the one with the Halo
Okay I’ve been working at this place for about 4 months now and promised myself to keep work and play separated. It’s not working out too well cause there’s 2 girls doing a lot to get my attention the sad part is that they are twins 😅. I’m kind of a nerdy engineering student but god blessed me with a great sports iq so at a glance people tend to take me as the player type of guy. I’ve dated once and that experience was so hurtful now I just force myself to be cold and only make conversation about work. Well recently both girls have been acting weirdly for instance going out of their way to run into me, also saying hi every time I pass by. I usually just give everyone at work a nod to let them know I’ve acknowledged their presence and if they need something they start the conversation or vice versa. In all honesty I just want to keep this job and work on the business during the free time. So my question is, am I being an a-hole by not pursuing either or is only one interested and the others just doing the digging up? Also to add I do not like their friend who’s also my work partner because she doesn’t pull her weight and I’m always left picking up the slack. One thing I’ve learned is that you can tell a lot about someone by the company they keep and this friend of theirs is very rude and ignorant to the consequences of her actions, to the point where she’ll acknowledge that it’s making my work life much harder and just laughing it off like some harmless prank.
i sent the gifts without the date and ended up so bad, i don't even want to tell the full story. did i do anything criminal or bad character, i don't think so, but still ended up so bad
This girl I worked with was giving me clear signs she liked me. I waited too long and when I expressed my feelings she was back with the guy she had broken up with before we started flirting. She then acted as if I made things uncomfortable and got me fired. Would a girl that actually cared ever do that for any reason outside of not being interested. I just want to leave her alone but part of me feels like I should at least explain how I feel.
What if you’re in a marriage and she’s in a long term relationship and she follows so close behind you, and blows up your phone when you’re not in eyesight. Makes excuses to contact you. You don’t want anything more than a coworker friendship
Yes mellanie,🤔🙄🤨😘😊here we are,,these were great news indeed🎉hehehh
You are amazing person ❤❤❤👍
Hi Coach Melannie!!!
I think the biggest challengeof dating in the work place is keep the things in context; I mean, if I have to finish something really urgent and I am very focus on it and I do not go to lunch or I do not see her when she is passing by my cubicle. How I can send a sign I am not avoding her, and tell her I really want to spend sometime to know ker but in this momment I can not do it? But without be to agressive.
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It would be nice if someday I let a EMOJI ball on her desk with a post-it saying "Have a nice weekend"?
🤔🤔🤔
I really like that EMOJI, because it is thinking, trying to figure out what is going on or wondering if what I say it was clear enough.
That can certainly be a challenge! She should be pretty understanding about things like that because she's trying to stay professional at work as well. A good strategy can be to simply focus on creating a good connection when you do get to talk with her. Thank you so much for your kindness and support! 😀
About music: Shure, if You are listening music so much like me, you are looking like for the best voices you can find. Espacially when you had have singing as a child sopran as the time, when vice had broken (this is a great problem for us boys when we are young! Because you have to find your voice after brokening voice ever at a news, wich is tenor or deeper)
That’s how you get into trouble at work and make your coworkers your own enemies. You never want to do that.
My most used emoji is 😂, but I'm not sure I have a favorite.
Coworkers she ask the guy ride with her.
@Coach Melannie. She right.
what about if she knows she knows you like her
Now she comments you she just might being polite and very nice. She sets next to you she's being polite or she likes the points you make or you have the right seat . If she carpools with you it might be convenient or if it's because of lunch it's a lot easier with 4 of you out for lunch together very convenient and saves on gas.
I have a coworker who I don't know what to make of. In one sense she'll call me sometimes and we'll talk for hours. Or she'll call me to have lunch with her. We both have the other's phone number, and we'll text often too. Our conversations have a flirty tone to them. And she's not like this to other guys. However, she's very aloof. Hard to read. These signs could mean everything or nothing at all. I've tried to get us to kick it outside of work, but that hasn't been successful
I don't know what my favorite emoji is since I rarely use them. I would rather meet my future wife at church than the workplace. I see a lot of people flirting where I work. Perhaps you might want to make a video on how to appropriately pursue a woman at church when one or both of us are new.
What if she is touchy an rubs your back more than once because that has happened to me more than once is that something I love the heart emoji ❤
And shure, I like musc all in my love! Unless music, this is'nt not my life!
Hi..Melanine !! Really love and appreciate your videos. I am facing a similar situation in my workplace. But the situation is different. Here ,I am in a showroom. Only me and her are there. (All other coworkers are in the adj room). She and I sit together and work most of the time together. She cares and supports me. But I can't identify if she actually loves me. (I know she likes me ). She is going through the final phase of her divorce and also her brother's have access to her whatsup. She has accompanied me to lunch outside and also for company meetings. I frankly had told her I loved her. But I don't have the guts to go for an embrace or kiss her (as this is not common in our culture). 🥺
Hello
I need to know something. You guys have a lot of experience with this I think.
A lady might like me?
1. She always laughs at my jokes and sayings.
2. She always turns fiery red when she says something to me, not to others.
3. She makes comments when she's around me, like if only I had a friend or husband who can cook for me (I'm a cook myself)
4. I can watch you all day when you're cooking in the kitchen😊
5. Have you been to the hairdresser, looks good.
6. She always compliments me on everything!
Are these hints, or is she just being nice?
Now she probably liked me before I liked her, because I didn't even realize that she likes me. Or is this not the case?
Only now do I understand the comments.
Now it's been 2 weeks since I've completely fallen in love with her. But I don't want to look like a fool since it's a colleague. Soon she will say no, and then the working relationship will be ruined. I like her so much. I take it carefully.
I just had to get it off my chest.
Ok now the last if she does those things yes and no she could just being polite and she might like you more than friends.
After the, "How you doin'?" comment, your word at the end of the video should have been "JOEY"!!!
I must say that this is the LAST subject I expected to see a video about. The awkwardness and the consequences "if it goes bad" just simply SCREAM...
IT'S NOT WORTH IT!!!
I really didn't think you would recommend it at all because of all the GAZILLION ways that it could ruin not just your relationship, but even your career if she is toxic and dysfunctional. It just seemed as if the risks were too high. But you pulled it off and now I might, MIGHT consider the possibility!
The HR DEPARTMENT
Lol not if she feels the same
my friend always tells me you look like our former front desk lady,like its a bad thing
It took me 8 months to get my job. The market is very tight today for work. I work in a company and on my floor it's 90% women. I never discuss anything personal not what I do on weekends with male or female at work. If I get on an elevator I will not get on an elevator if there's a single female. In today's society you can't trust anyone. Just be safe and keep your job.
Melannie, You must know, that I have wonderful friends one of them I love. I don't have much. But thouse I have, from this I know, what they mean, what happend. There it never is a lie.
If she has to ask if you are single or not and she is a coworker she most not have worked there very long. Most places and people already know if a person is single or not. Unless they are new that's the only way they wouldn't know if you where single or not.
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Ok she sets up a double date after work now this can go as a good thing or they could be there for damage control if it goes south. You never know she might even have plans of her own where she likes you as a friend but she has a girlfriend she thinks you will like this can go so many ways.
Would never date a co worker way way too awkward it is almost like dating a relative iam asexual and aromantic do not want her in any way dating is overrated and not worth the risk or effort iam not christian and i don't believe in love but i love you're channel
but that makes me think too more about what yiu have to say
What if shes in another dept. These examples dont work. You will never know who she is talking too because her female friends won't tell you.
Super thanks
Yep no co workers like me . What else is new.
She’s hot and cold with me but all the signs are there but we work too closely together and I’m too chickensh*t to make a move
Hot and cold is a manipulation tactic, and also a sign there are other guys in the background. Watch out for male orbiters, which is normally also a sign for validation seeking behaviour. Is she selective, is she seeking validation from any guy, or is she constantly attached to her phone? Absent dads often results in daughters with validation seeking behaviour. If someone is playing mind games, especially at work, it's just more like they're immature, or damaged good; be careful, you get what you chose. Better observe and assess her first, you still can make a move later if she passed all your tests.
The other guy interepat me
How about a lady at church
Melannie, when You would come to me about marrige, if you ar'nt ?
"Signs" AKA games. None of these will tell you she likes you. You will see all these signs and in the end she doesn't like you like that. Its better to be an adult and make an actual relationship with clear communication.
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Is that a giant rock on Coach Melannie’s finger? 🤭
This is untrue. Much of her advice is good but just cuz a girl invites you to a group event outside work does not mean she 'likes' you
Emoji, what's my favourite? 😎This one is my favourite! Whats your favourite? God bless!x
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Getting caught by the wrong person.
No..... The HR Lady is attracted to me
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Hi dear Melanie great video as always😊
I have similar issue with one my female coworker sometimes she touch my arm or asked me what i do this weekend and so on. But hard to do anything i cannot risk i am on work
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Does anybody really feel it's a good idea to date someone in the work place? With all these lawsuits of sexual harassment cases being brought these days I think ....Ummm I'll pass.? I live in a town with a prominent University and I was discussing this topic with a friend and employee of that University. He said right in the rules and regs or Bi-Laws about sexual harassment, that if you looked at an employee for more then 3 secs at a time you could be accused of "Gauking" or "Oggleing". I think we have hit the extreme definition of going way too far with this corporate bull. Employers want auto - trons working for them. With the way AI technology is accelerating these days I think they my get their wish!
Thanks Melanie. Men at least to know this…cuz us men are dumb…I mean dumb…and we need help
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This can be a huge red flag.
This seems like dangerous advice. I have no interest in my name getting dumped on some PR Karen's desk for giving a woman in the workplace attention that she claims to hate yet secretly lives and hopes for every moment of the day. No thanks.
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I get a lot of smiles and stares from females at work. All I think they are just being nosey..
Melannie: kissyourhands*
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Never mentions Jesus randomly calls herself a Christian dating coach haha
What if shes waiting at the time clocks for me. What if she stays late at the time clocks for me. What if she knows my exit route and chooses to be right in the way of that path. What if she walks by biting her lip. What if she wears the same colors as my work shirt. What if the whole workplace knows and is spying on me for her....😂
She knows my schedule and is getting in my way....