*NEW SERIES* My Family Fat Shames Me | Big Sis Ft. Saffron Sharpe

In the second episode of our new series, Saffron and special guest Nicole Liel dive into real talk about their body insecurities. They share their personal experiences and offer candid tips on dealing with your vulnerabilities and insecurities, dealing with family and partners.
Here are the timestamps of the topics covered during the episode:
0:00 - Intro
3:16 - How do I build confidence when I don’t fit into SG beauty standards?
5:28 - I can’t get over that i have gained weight and can’t really fit into my old clothes anymore. 6:55 - How do I not let my friends and family fat shaming me affect me?
8:28 - How to be more confident when you are being intimate with your partner?
9:24 - I'm skinny but I'm insecure about being flat
10:38 - How do you detach your insecurities from your self worth?
11:47 - I get insecure sometimes because I'm physically bigger than my bf.
12:37 - How do we accept that there are some things that we can’t change no matter what we do?
13:43 - Wrap-up & Takeaways
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[@ZULAsg]

Let's keep this comment section a safe and kind environment to share about your own stories :) Also, comment down below who else you would like to see with Saffron on Big Sis!

[@gerallyngoh3633]

love the interaction between both of you!

[@jeanpierreochoa9920]

Love the dynamic between these two. You both are beautiful in your own way ❤

[@Fongieeee]

Especially for fat shaming, it is very common and it happens very frequently and at many context and became like a 'norm', people get 'desensitized' at times and think that it is okay to talk about other people's weight. I've been fat shamed ever since I was young and I got targeted frequently especially in school and I always received very mean comments (Since I was 6 years old and even up to now). When someone did not ask for any feedback about his/her body, we do not need to comment or project beauty standards onto others unnecessarily. Hope that there will be a shift in culture and belief so that people won't get bullied over their weight/body appearance. Thank you for raising the awareness of fat shaming and body diversity:) Look forward to the day when more people are aware of the Body Neutrality concept!

[@chelseaann334]

Loveed this episode! I've been facing the same thing as well, family members telling me I've put on weight but that's because they keep comparing me to how i looked like when i was in high school, aka 6 years ago. Thank you for making me feel less alone, and the reassurance that our bodies are MEANT to change and grow with us! You're both so beautiful and this meant so much to me. Thank you, Saff, Nicole and Zula! ❤️

[@theclothesholic9644]

“like”

[@salmoncubes22]

ikr

[@minhui1766]

I love this series and both of youuuu!
Feels like a heart to heart session 🥲🥰

[@DeniseLimKele]

Super interesting and love the real talk 🔥

[@joeyxrascal8836]

The most like i think i heard like 100 times of like and is like distracting me like i love this talk! No offence but like there are too many like for me to continue watching it. But like, i really like this video!

[@hayleyxx4497]

I loveee saffron so much, she is so so wise, insightful and open, and she's truly been my internet big sis since 2018. thank u ZULA for making her the host of this series! p.s. can we bring fiqah in or jade rasif if u have the budget 😭

[@jen5138]

UnliKE Nicole who just keeps spewing vulgarities. Anyways I feel she matured n learned a lot along the way..sometimes we have to go through stuff to learn. Everyday's a learning process.

[@Rachelrock11]

Nicole made SO MUCH sense

[@lijunlow]

Really enjoy this new series

[@escapefox93]

Why is no one also discussing about the other side, where people also shame others who are skinny? This is also a problem that most people ignore because it's not the "trend" now. Both sides are equally bad. Plus, it will be great if there are less vulgarities for proper discussions.

[@Syd7088]

Is this episode on Spotify?

[@amandaseek314]

Second this! Would like to hear it via Spotify especially during at work or travelling to work

[@densy23]

it's rly v annoying to hear nicole curse every 30sec...

[@456seven8]

Is it me or is this video a bit rushed...