Financial Strain On Marriage - Til Debt Do Us Part - For Richer Or For Poorer
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- Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024
- After 18 years together, Paula and David’s relationship is at the breaking point, and it’s all due to finances. Paula feels exhausted by the stress of trying to manage their money on her own, and she’s frustrated by David’s debt denial. It’s definitely taken a toll on them, and their two young children. Once Gail gives David a wake up call, this couple makes money the focus of their vows when they decide to finally take a walk down the aisle. .
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I love how she grabbed some snacks from the kitchen in the beginning😂
Can we send Gail to oversee the US Congress's budget? 😁
A government's budget is not the same as a households. Governments don't die or retire. This is a erroneous comparison made by people who don't understand economics.
@@xkaokdkl11933 true but they still have a budget they need to stick to or the country ends up in debt.
@@xkaokdkl11933 The country will die if they don’t get this debt under control.
@@xkaokdkl11933 it was the largest joke and you missed it. It’s okay we can’t all have common sense.
Even if you try, she is retired! She ain't shelling out any financial info anymore.
I just had a thought: Gail said she couldn't think of another way to say the same things over and over so that's why she decided to quit. I wonder if we could talk her out of retirement with the knowledge that online shopping means she'd have to do a LOT more work to catch people who have their credit & debit card info saved on the computer?
Interesting. I saw an interview with her a couple of years ago where she said she decided to leave her show and retire because the producers originally gave her full control of how much money each couple received. However, as the show went on, the producers started butting in and demanding she give the couples amounts she didn't agree with. Eventually, the arguments with the producers was no longer worth it, so she quit.
@@davidtree2511 that is very interesting given an episode I saw where she gave 3k to people who didn't stick to the plan AT ALL
I enjoyed watching this series when it first came out many many years ago. I didn't learn as much as I should have then, but am re- watching it now, in our current social situation, sure Rings a great big bell. I wish Gail lived near me, because even at my Advanced age, Gail could sure help me even now. Wherever she is, I hope she is doing well, and her upbeat spirit survives. We all need to pay attention to every penny nowadays, and I'm really enjoying re-watching this series. Thanks Gail wherever you may be in 2022. Blessings to all from Central Florida, USA.
I follow her on Twitter. She's salty and funny and has self-published her memoirs. She's very compassionate and very much concerned with the plight of poor people, and talks about things like basic income.
@@nanettemorton4054 thanks for the update. I'll have to look her up.
Buy her book. It will help!
Hobbies are what you enjoy with EXTRA money. Not with the money you are supposed to spend on your responsibilities.
I love it when Gail says, “Lord love a duck!”
Im so gpad this couple worked it out ..i had tears in my eyes when they actually got married
Aw I love how they ended up at the end. So excited for them, and I hope they continue doing an amazing job
Spoiler alert: they split up, I saw a follow up video with her saying they split up
@@erinsmith8074 where do you find the follow up videos???? I'm dying to see them 😢😢😢🤣🤣🤣
great videos! i learned a lot...it all boils down to pay your bills and get them out of the way..then enjoy life.
Pay yourself like a bill. Meaning put something in savings for your future self
Time to tie the knot more security for your sons and yourself but honestly I would have been gone a long time ago
Same - I’m double minded about it
Exactly!! The last part!!
A cynical thought: he finally decided to marry her because he's a hot mess and he knows he'll never find another woman like her!
What a great couple, who are now set on the right path!
Their family didn't looked overjoyed at the wedding. He's a man brat. Spending all that money on stereos. Surprised Gayle didn't make him sell it. Love Gayle but I think she was soft on this couple. Their in deep debt and their challenges were to have fun.????
The stereo equipment may have depreciated to the point that it's not worth selling or no wants to buy it.
Dear God, they defintely live beyond their means. My Cousin has alot of Old School Equipment, CD with Speakers and the like. She won't get rid of it. He's like Sam on another Episode. Using The Debit Card so many times a day is very dangerous, if you go to a Machine not affiliated with your Bank, they will charge you like nobody's business. Also if you're not on the same page financially you will have problems. My Cousin has 10 Pairs Of Nike Shoes at $350.00 each which blew me away. I think why do you have to have so many expenses when you have one pair of feet.
Did anyone else notice that when they announced to all of their friends & family that they were going to get married... nobody looked pleased lol
Don’t always trust the edits, if there was only one camera they couldn’t catch both directions. They don’t alway edit in chronological order either
When someone spends money on themselves over their children's needs is beyond insane.
"common law" smh such a bunch of nonsense. AND having children ! So stupid !
I think some of these couples’ plans should involve therapy.
I can not agree more!!
People do stupid things like being common law and having kids but spending money like they are rich and single.
Happy couples on the path to financial peace and security.
Gaill... get back to doing this show
Great program!!
Common law makes it sound like anyone could walk away, like they haven’t decided they’re all in. (In their case)
Running after a baby is hard on the pelvic floor
Well, babies don't run too fast so she's probably fine...
🙃 I had to😆😉
"Common law marriage" requires a lot more than living together, even if you have children. Look it up.
It’s Canada, so the laws may be different.
Gail so thoughtful 💖.
Marriage doesn’t have to cost anything.. just go to the court house guys. Marriage should be about making a life commitment not a party.
16:00 Uh, David spotted "the real problem" and its not him buying useless stuff, no, it is his wifes maternity leave. He managed to lead the blame back.
If he spend stupid,I'm spending stupid also the lady say....she's really helping but to get things worse...!
LEAVE HIM RUN RUN AWAY QUICKLY
Question for Paula. If you know your common law partner is a man child and is a spender, to the point he puts himself before the needs of the children, why would you have another child with him? Did you think a fairy god mother was going to arrive and make it all better?
Love?
Stupidity?
She kinda did.
@@user-wq7hw2ow9l You are right. 🙂 Gail is the fairy god mother.🙂
Found by accident. Like
I’ve watched every episode at least twice. Doesn’t matter they are 15+ years old - problems with money haven’t changed.
I used to watch this show years ago. I try to keep my traceable spending to 10 items per month, including bills I pay.
I never understood why people with backyards look for venues to get married. Like other than having to change their plans for the day, rhe guest were completely relaxed and unburdened.
All that elecronic stuff looks so old fashioned...but i like these guys
The show is 15 or so years old so it does make sense.
This show started in 2004 -2005 give or take. I am certainly not up on the latest technology but it's like a time capsule. Big box tv and monitors that cost thousands of dollars. No smart phones, flip top only. I remember a show where they used phone cards that I think they used for the public phones. (Do they even have such a thing anymore?) Everything seems to be on a "pay as you go" plan, which seemed to cause a lot of problems with their debt.
Like SEE HIM ON SKATE'S LOL😱😂🤢
He may never realize what drives his ridiculous spending. He just needs to change his behavior which might resolve his problems.
Why is there daycare cost when she's on maternity leave?
For the boy. He's not started school yet and he'll need stimulation that a mum with a baby can't do. Good if you can afford it
Probably so she won't lose her daycare spot for when she works. If you don't pay, they find some other child to put in that spot.
Because believe it or not even a full time Mom needs a few hours off here and there...to go for a haircut, to catch up on sleep, to clean the house properly, to get the groceries without worrying about a baby with you! Yep, I was a full time Mom to 4 children and appreciated some day care services sometimes !!
Daycare only if you can afford it if not working
Oh BS parents have been raising multiple kids forever@@janebaker4912
Love to know what happened in the future; doubt it worked out
Nice
Gail should go to Washington DC over see the budget.
She is gonna have a heart attack.
She is Canadian. She believe in healthcare and Universal Basic Income. Do not think your government would welcome her with open arms. lol! She is also retired living her best life.
We have very few of the right pols in DC and I suspect the same is true in Ottawa.
The people we should have there don't want to live in a swamp of deception, lies.
In the US, it hasn't been "we the people" for a long time, maybe never.
@@denysenielsen8115 UBI? Lololol
@@Rooneytunes01 Laugh all you want, UBI makes great economic sense. Ability to eat, take care of yourself and the ability to self improve without financial ruin. Not everyone believes in pillaging the poor so the rich can get richer. Many understand that if everyone gets a somewhat equal chance at life, quality of life improves for all. Medical costs reduce, more educated people, homelessness reduced, more people contributing to the economy.
What a great idea. Congress needs your help.
Block QVC type shows
Wow, that computer. This must have been years ago.
This was around 2007/08
And the stereo set 🤣🤣🤣
Probably still paying for it
@@Sharoneagles82 that would be sad lol
@@Sharoneagles82Good one!
He bears a slight resemblance to Matt Damon.
Gail can you come and help me in the usa
Lets get Gail out of retirement for a special of a few shows in todays time !!!!!
Binge watching Gaul in 2024.
Love this couple!
If PEOPLE KNEW GETTING MARRIED PEOPLE GIVE YOU $$$$
I agree with you chica.
Shit down the computer!!
Not the common law husband 😩😩
$160 entertainment. Come on DUH
HE'S WORKING AT THE P.O. YOU KNOW NOT DJ. WTH HE NEEDS STEREO EQUIPMENT FOR. NOTHING NOTTA. PROBABLY DOESN'T HAVE HOUSE PARTIES DO WEDDING'S NOTHING
2024 Vote R as DJT has Musk on board to audit the fed.
Geek better NOT eat THAN
He works for the Post Office and cannot balance a simple household budget !!
You don't have to be a genius to work for the Post Office.
And?? How are those two related? Lol
Lol wut?
But getting pregnant.i see not.thats all
lol
No such thing as Common Law any more!
In Canada a common law marriage is one where a person is living with someone of the opposite sex in a romantic relationship without being legally married. You're considered common law after a year of cohabitation or having a child together, whichever comes first.
Did they out law it in Canada?
@@euenfheiejrj I'm not sure what this person is talking about, it definitely still is a thing, and it's more common now than it was 20 years ago.
Wrong. It's very much alive and kicking in Canada
Disposable diapers and formula are Expensive. Breastfeeding is free.
Cloth diapers are cost savers in the long run and better for the environment.
Not everyone van breastfeed.
Not free as you have to eat more to produce the milk. I was insanely ravenous after I gave birth.
No thanks to both.
@@jc7453 not so. Some babies will not suck, some mums don't have enough milk or get medical problems, etc etc.
I breastfed 4 children for years and I was a breast feeding counsellor.
The only cases where it is really difficult for a baby to breast feed is with inverted nipples on the mother, or cleft lip on the baby.
Also, a mother who has eating issues, like anexoria, is a problem.
The rest of the time the so-called 'problems' with breastfeeding can be solved.
Not having enough milk is very easy to solve....just drink a lot of water and keep feeding....the more the baby sucks the more milk you make.
Baby not sucking can also be solved easily.
Women need to trust in their ability to do what the body is designed for, and stop creating problems where there are none.
Just relax, sit back, and let baby feed on demand.
He is a man-child, and her teeth are brown. Yikes and double yikes. 😳😬
You do realize that bleaching your teeth is an American phenomenon and having super white teeth is is no way normal. Slightly yellowed teeth is actually the norm in most parts of the world. Bleaching can also damage teeth if not done safely.
@@hannahj489 Please show me where I said “having super white teeth” is normal. Go ahead, I’ll wait. No? Then STFU. There is a big gap (more of a canyon, really) between having teeth that are tinged yellow and having teeth that are brown. As for bleaching, you can get that done pretty much anywhere, and you can buy whitening toothpaste the world over
@@hannahj489 right!
Remember Simone from antother show. She had alot of Purses and Jeans. Electronics are dangerous. Over the past Five Years I have had Amazon Kindle Tablets, Samsung Tablets (one of which II gave to My Sister), but I know when to say when. I have alot of Books downloaded about Money Management. These couple of months I helped out my Mother with House Tax, House Insurance, Lawn Mowing Services, and Spray Services to keep away pestecides. She felt bad since I was giving her "extra" but I said I didn't mind. My Dad is dead and My Sisters live far away and they have their own responsibilites. I manage my Money with an Excel Program, and every second week I get paid and then I check my Payroll Deposit Sheet then I calculate my Bills. My cousin and her husband took an extra Bedroom and converted it into a Home Office and each saturday they go over their bills and it helps alot.
@@hannahj489 "Slightly yellow," yes. She looks like she's been munching on potting soil.