Hi Shelly! I totally identify with your experience. I really wish abusive partners would let their abusees go when they realize they cannot control themselves or love them the way God intended us all to be loved by a partner. Unfortunately, when you walk away they try to make you into the villain even when you leave peacefully. I hope you find your way back to your church community or find one that you'll fall in love with. It is because of brethren that I am standing so strong today. The way my church has supported me and were there for me is something I will never be able to forget and I am grateful God led me there. I truly believe that my relationship with God is the love my heart has always desired and did not realize I always had. Once you realize that, the love of others that God may later bless you with hits totally different because they see you as God sees you when you are shining for Christ. It is truly surreal. It is remarkable when someone is attracted not only to you physically but your passion for Christ and your spiritual walk.
Yes indeed and amen Sis! 🙌🏽 I’m still a work in progress but I agree with you wholeheartedly!!!! Also, thank you for your awesome comment. I truly enjoyed reading it! 🥰🤗
Hi Shelly, I don't know how I missed your channel. I live in Arizona as well. You were brave to go without leave ins and deep conditioners in this dry climate. Whew Chile, I couldn't do it. Your hair looks great. I haven't mastered those two products yet. If I run into to you I will say Hey Girl Hey. I am in Scottsdale.
Omgoodness Sis, I can’t believe I was silly enough to stop using them based off the advice of some “experts!”🙈 Girl especially in dry and hot arse AZ! 😝 NEVER AGAIN!!!! We are neighbors❣️🥰💃🏽
Sis! I'm so glad to have found your channel. You're a breath of fresh air. I'm about to celebrate my 44th birthday and going no heat natural. Watching you is inspiring. Thanks for being in this space
Aww thank you so very much Sis! 💖🙏🏽 Omgoodness, I absolutely love birthdays! So happy early birthday to you girl! 😍🥳 Being natural is so much fun and what a perfect time to start! Let’s Go‼️🤩💃🏽
Shelly, I love it. Sorry I missed the live though. I have the mousse def but never tried the other and kinky curly knot today, but the other two products never used before. Everything you use looks good in your hair.❤
Beautiful 😍… I love your content, sense of humor and also when you are serious .. thank you for sharing💕 …BTW when mentioned your Pastor passing away, are you by chance referring to Pastor B at ROL?
Aww thank you so very much Sis! It wasn’t but I’m sad to hear that someone else’s passed away too. 😔 I hope you’re having a wonderful and blessed day! 🥰🤗
I actually do have the crazy curl foam. I tried it on its own as the directions stated that would work but it made my hair feel so dry. I will try it with some leave-in sometime and see what happens 🤔
Sasha is looking fierce. I love your personality. Your school is great. We had to purchase everything. I hear you on things going so well that you're waiting for the other shoe to drop. I'm and old school blow out cut woman.
Thank you so much my beautiful curl friend! 🤗 Haha I’m so glad you get my sense of goofy humor! 👀🤣 Girl that grad school program cost so dang much they should have thrown in a PhD! 😆 Also, you’re so smart for getting cuts on blown out hair! You need to be out here educating the people because you clearly knew what we didn’t know! 💖😅
Girl, i went in with the gel 😩. I have to do it again with a little less but the curls i got were doing what ots supposed to do. Your results are top tier! 🙌🏾
@@shelly.v.247 ya know some things I took from them i actually don't use raw oils or butters anymore, but the over shampooing (when all my products are already water soluble), no deep conditioning, no leave ins, and the curly cuts 🫠 I had to big chop
I stopped because I think I was sensitive to some of the ingredients in them. However, I think the shampoo was also a tad bit too stripping for my hair. So I’ve moved away from using the shampoo and conditioner. I am still playing around with deep conditioners. So far I like Amika Soulfood, Miche Indulge, Shea Moisture Intense Hydration, Morrocan oil hydration smoothing mask and TGIN Intense Hydration Mask. 💖
It’s in my link in my Instagram bio but here it is as well sis. 🥰 www.amazon.com/shop/shelly.v.247?ref_=cm_sw_r_mwn_aipsfshop_aipsfshelly.v.247_3WRE5RQHYTH3R86J8M6C
I think we might also remember that our water has chlorine in it and in some cities it's heavy. For instance where I live in Rahway, New Jersey the chlorine is very strong because I can smell it.....I don't drink their water and I'm seriously considering a Counter Filter for my kitchen, and Shower Filter. More importantly in the County where I previously lived all Tenants received a warning letter that the County had received Notices from The Board of Health to fix their water problem....but I must say it wasn't the fault of the County....it was the fault of the "Property Complex Owners" who waited a whole year after knowing the problem to finally notify us Tenants that they were dealing with a water problem....so much for caring the Tenants who are paying their rent. And, yes there are lawsuits against that Property Owner. Take care of yourselves ladies....find out what's in your water. (I'm just saying.)😍👍🏽
Water can definitely play a role in the health of our hair. The build up of minerals from hair water can be very detrimental for sure. Great point Sis!
Yes, they actually seem to last longer because my hair doesn’t start feeling all extra dried out! I can go 7-9 days easily with most sets. My scalp starts itching way before my wng gives out! 😅
Haha don’t give my crazy butt no ideas 👀💡🤣 cuz I’ll be like, WE UP IN THE STORE TODAY YALL and I’ll be busting open a bag of chips eating and walking the aisles 🤷🏽♀️🤣
I’m so glad you used that analogy with the leave ins and lotions 🙄. I would and could never go without a leave in ever again.
I’ll never go without it ever again either! I can’t believe I ever stopped! My hair feels way better with them back in! 💖💯
🥰 AGREE
You made it through and you deserve all the beautiful wonderful things! Your hair looks beautiful
Thank you so much my beautiful friend! I appreciate you so very very very much. You’re such a kind person‼️🥰♥️
Hi Shelly! I totally identify with your experience. I really wish abusive partners would let their abusees go when they realize they cannot control themselves or love them the way God intended us all to be loved by a partner. Unfortunately, when you walk away they try to make you into the villain even when you leave peacefully. I hope you find your way back to your church community or find one that you'll fall in love with. It is because of brethren that I am standing so strong today. The way my church has supported me and were there for me is something I will never be able to forget and I am grateful God led me there. I truly believe that my relationship with God is the love my heart has always desired and did not realize I always had. Once you realize that, the love of others that God may later bless you with hits totally different because they see you as God sees you when you are shining for Christ. It is truly surreal. It is remarkable when someone is attracted not only to you physically but your passion for Christ and your spiritual walk.
Yes indeed and amen Sis! 🙌🏽 I’m still a work in progress but I agree with you wholeheartedly!!!!
Also, thank you for your awesome comment. I truly enjoyed reading it! 🥰🤗
You have me cracking up 😂 'gone ahead and build it' 😂 😂
I was on a roll that day! 👀🫣🤣
Hi Shelly, I don't know how I missed your channel. I live in Arizona as well. You were brave to go without leave ins and deep conditioners in this dry climate. Whew Chile, I couldn't do it. Your hair looks great. I haven't mastered those two products yet. If I run into to you I will say Hey Girl Hey. I am in Scottsdale.
Omgoodness Sis, I can’t believe I was silly enough to stop using them based off the advice of some “experts!”🙈 Girl especially in dry and hot arse AZ! 😝 NEVER AGAIN!!!!
We are neighbors❣️🥰💃🏽
'It's the wild, wild west '😂
👀🤣
Just stunning
Haha it came out so good huh 😂🥰
"what in the Sam Hill, the devil is a liar" 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
👀🫣🤣 Haha to see someone write it makes me laugh so hard! 😂You’re so awesome Sis! You get me! Lol 💖🤣
I just found you on RUclips and I love your personality. You are so funny to me.
Haha well I’m glad you’re here and I am also happy that you get my goofy sense of humor! 👀🫣🤣
We enjoy you ❤
Aww thank you so very much 💖🤗
Sis! I'm so glad to have found your channel. You're a breath of fresh air. I'm about to celebrate my 44th birthday and going no heat natural. Watching you is inspiring. Thanks for being in this space
Aww thank you so very much Sis! 💖🙏🏽
Omgoodness, I absolutely love birthdays! So happy early birthday to you girl! 😍🥳
Being natural is so much fun and what a perfect time to start! Let’s Go‼️🤩💃🏽
Your videos are so much fun 🎉
Yay! Thank you beautiful and thank you for helping me have such a beautiful wng that day! 🥰
Okay Shelly .. I see Sasha doing her thang & being Great! Looks beautiful 🥰💙
Aww you’re always so extremely kind! I appreciate you sis! ‼️💖💯
First vid of yours im watching and im hollering 😂😂😂. Subscribed!!!
Haha well welcome aboard Fren!!! I’m so glad you get my personality! Lol 👀🫣🤣
You go girl. I’ve started doing some deep conditioners and once in awhile leave in.
Nice
So glad to hear that Sis! I bet your hair feels amazing with them sprinkled into your routine! 🥰
new subbie ... hey girl hey ✋🏾
you hair is "gawgeous"!
Hey Girl Hey 👋🏽 🥰 So happy and excited to have you here with us! 🤗 Thank you so very much for your kind compliment. I truly appreciate it! 💖
Shelly, I love it. Sorry I missed the live though. I have the mousse def but never tried the other and kinky curly knot today, but the other two products never used before. Everything you use looks good in your hair.❤
Aww thank you beautiful! I do lives quite often, so you should be able to catch me on one soon. Hope you’re having an amazing day!💖🤗
I like that bee girl pump idea 💗✨
You can get it on Amazon 🥰
😂😂😂😂 I’m over here dying laughing! Not not tryinta hump her leg tho 😮
👀🫣🤣
Beautiful 😍… I love your content, sense of humor and also when you are serious .. thank you for sharing💕 …BTW when mentioned your Pastor passing away, are you by chance referring to Pastor B at ROL?
Aww thank you so very much Sis! It wasn’t but I’m sad to hear that someone else’s passed away too. 😔
I hope you’re having a wonderful and blessed day! 🥰🤗
I actually do have the crazy curl foam. I tried it on its own as the directions stated that would work but it made my hair feel so dry. I will try it with some leave-in sometime and see what happens 🤔
Definitely use leave-in with it then sis. The Bee Girl Custard is what can make my hair feel dry! 😅
Sasha is looking fierce. I love your personality. Your school is great. We had to purchase everything. I hear you on things going so well that you're waiting for the other shoe to drop. I'm and old school blow out cut woman.
Thank you so much my beautiful curl friend! 🤗 Haha I’m so glad you get my sense of goofy humor! 👀🤣
Girl that grad school program cost so dang much they should have thrown in a PhD! 😆
Also, you’re so smart for getting cuts on blown out hair! You need to be out here educating the people because you clearly knew what we didn’t know! 💖😅
You're so so blessed because you're so so amazing Ms. Shelly! I'm so cheesy 😂 lol
Haha no I think you’re awesome! Thank you my beautiful curl friend‼️💖🤗😘
@@shelly.v.247 😘
You're amazing! I like a caste....especially when hoping to keep for a week or more. 😊
I like a very light & flexible cast now. That works the best in my hair. 😍
Also, you’re so sweet and kind! Thank you so very much ‼️🥰😘
This was so helpful 💗
Glad it was helpful Luv! 💖🤗
Girl, i went in with the gel 😩. I have to do it again with a little less but the curls i got were doing what ots supposed to do. Your results are top tier! 🙌🏾
Haha, girl a little goes a lonnnnngggg way for sure! 😅
You got this Sis! 💖💯
💞 LOVE IT 🥰 ENJOY WATCHING THE VIDEO AND GOOD JOB DOING YOU'RE HAIR
Thank you so much Luv! 💖🤗
Ooowww, I just bought the bee girl custard and I have some foam left. I'm trying this next wash day 😁
Oh please lmk how it works out for you! 🥰You know we nosey over here and want to know sis! 🤣
We would watch
Aww thank you sis 🥰
All of the Doux products are 🔥. My favorite is the BeeGirl line, especially the Custard, CrazySexycurl and Deep Conditioner
I’ll have to try the deep conditioner! Now you got me wanting to run to the store! Lol👀🤣
I just love your videos 💕🙏thanks for sharing 👏
You are so welcome Beautiful! Thank you so very much for watching! 💖🙏🏽😘
"Some experts" 😅
Right!!!! 👀🤪
@@shelly.v.247 ya know some things I took from them i actually don't use raw oils or butters anymore, but the over shampooing (when all my products are already water soluble), no deep conditioning, no leave ins, and the curly cuts 🫠 I had to big chop
So what deep conditioners do you love and I know your using leave in now but why did you stop using Innersense styling products.
I stopped because I think I was sensitive to some of the ingredients in them. However, I think the shampoo was also a tad bit too stripping for my hair. So I’ve moved away from using the shampoo and conditioner.
I am still playing around with deep conditioners. So far I like Amika Soulfood, Miche Indulge, Shea Moisture Intense Hydration, Morrocan oil hydration smoothing mask and TGIN Intense Hydration Mask. 💖
This video just made me subscribe! 😍
Aww thank you beautiful for all of the Luv and support! 🥰
I went without a leave-in for 2 months and absolutely hated it. My hair was so much drier. It felt like 7-8 day hair after 1 or 2 days.
Same except my dumb butt did it for over a year 👀🫣🤣
Same except my dumb butt did it for over a year 👀🫣🤣
#teamleavein ❤
Yasssssss‼️🙌🏽💯
Where can I find the link to your Amazon storefront?
It’s in my link in my Instagram bio but here it is as well sis. 🥰
www.amazon.com/shop/shelly.v.247?ref_=cm_sw_r_mwn_aipsfshop_aipsfshelly.v.247_3WRE5RQHYTH3R86J8M6C
💖💯👍🥰 GOOD JOB
Thank you Luv! 💖🤗
I think we might also remember that our water has chlorine in it and in some cities it's heavy. For instance where I live in Rahway, New Jersey the chlorine is very strong because I can smell it.....I don't drink their water and I'm seriously considering a Counter Filter for my kitchen, and Shower Filter. More importantly in the County where I previously lived all Tenants received a warning letter that the County had received Notices from The Board of Health to fix their water problem....but I must say it wasn't the fault of the County....it was the fault of the "Property Complex Owners" who waited a whole year after knowing the problem to finally notify us Tenants that they were dealing with a water problem....so much for caring the Tenants who are paying their rent. And, yes there are lawsuits against that Property Owner. Take care of yourselves ladies....find out what's in your water. (I'm just saying.)😍👍🏽
Water can definitely play a role in the health of our hair. The build up of minerals from hair water can be very detrimental for sure. Great point Sis!
Does your wash and go still last as long with leave ins?
Yes, they actually seem to last longer because my hair doesn’t start feeling all extra dried out! I can go 7-9 days easily with most sets. My scalp starts itching way before my wng gives out! 😅
Your hair is beautiful. The Bee girl mousse made my hair dry. I will use a leave in when I use it again.
Bee girl custard has been making my hair dry. I’ve been using it constantly for a month. My CIK stylist realized that
I agree. So now if I use it, I’m going to use a leave-in underneath it. 💖
Thank you for sharing. I’ll keep that in mind next time. Have a great weekend
Jesus does know our heart and yours is joyful about life in Him!
Amen! 🙌🏽💖
Not a whole man and family 🤣🤣🤣
Girl a while independent life!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Ummm with your personality we'd watch blogging content. Ijs.❤
Haha don’t give my crazy butt no ideas 👀💡🤣 cuz I’ll be like, WE UP IN THE STORE TODAY YALL and I’ll be busting open a bag of chips eating and walking the aisles 🤷🏽♀️🤣