Women Who Enjoy Hurting Other Women
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- Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024
- Belittling and embarrassing another woman seems to be a pattern for some women.
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I've worked at places in male dominated fields. The number of married women that act up in places like that are disgusting. I've had a female boss and her female cohorts sustain mean girl attacks on me for speaking to the men at work. I had to do this as part of my job. Why do these married women who are 10 years younger than me, get upset that I'm speaking to someone who happens to be male while doing my job? I'm not even an attractive woman. I'm obese, and I'd give myself a 3 or a 4. None of these men come looking for me or ask me out. I just wanted to do my job, and that's it. Living inside their heads must be miserable. I don't work there anymore. Petty petty petty.
It's the Jezebel spirit within woman....it's incredibly vial dear one. I've had to deal with it most of my working life. Most of my attacks in my working life came from women of all ages. It's demonic. I finally figured it out when I didn't have to work in corporate America anymore. While I was in it, I thought there was something wrong with ME...uh, NO, it was Jezebel. Look it up in the most Holy Bible. It's simple. We make it complicated. Once you know, you never go back. I'm all good now and won't deal with Jezebel and if I have to, I'll know what to do with that spirit. Be aware, it's not the human you are dealing with, it's the spirit of Jezebel. God Bless and keep you always.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. When you’ve had an intimate friendship with someone for many years, it’s okay to have an honest conversation with them directly about what hurt you, but it’s never okay to use vulnerable information you’ve learned about them to hurt them or embarrass them. Even if my ex best friend was stealing from people I’d talk to her about it first, before deciding if I was going to contact authorities.
The cruelest misogynists are other women...
Amen...it's that "Jezebel spirit" that overtakes them....vial.....
I won't deal with a mean person anymore if I can get someone else to help me.
I had a woman I've known for several years recently do something quite uncouth, whom I considered more of a mother than my own (without going into details). Although it wasn't as malicious as the things you were describing, I was still upset for days, and pretty emotional. I never saw it coming. She's one of those far left-wingers that is all: "Women need to lift each other up, not tear each other down" types. Obsessed with "female power." I'll be friends with any and all types of people, but, I just can't help but think, Wow...what a hypocrite, there.
Good for you for keeping it all in perspective!
All's fair in love and war. Many times, people become friends to learn things about them to leverage them in the future. It's not right and I wish it didn't happen, but it does. And sociopaths have no sense of loyalty.
You are right, there are so many weird reasons that people friend others. I find that when I’m not at my best I always pick the wrong people 😢
What do you mean by sociopaths?
Yeah..people these days think HATEFULNESS is an art-form. It is not 🙄
You are so right!
I love this channel and am quite surprised you don't have many more subscribers ! I wish this channel lots of growth and blessings. You've helped me not feel so alone within myself. Thank you
Thanks I just made my videos public about two months ago❤. I’m excited to get the channel going. Took me a while to get the nerve😂
I feel the same. You said it very well! She'll probably get more subscribers soon. I can relate to her and her attitude about things.
@@laurahillauthor Grateful you got the nerve :-) now I just need to get mine.....🙂
A true test of a good friend is how they speak of you to others behind your back. There are usually early indications of disrespect with a toxic friend. The person was a fake person, and not a good friend to begin with. Not really.
It was surprising to me that people I thought would have stood up for me didn’t. After being so disappointed in them I finally realized they are too scared of what the woman will do to them. What they don’t realize is that she is already doing it. Tough lesson.
Women to other women can be extremely competitive, very envious (for a multitude of reasons), and prize *itches at times. And sometimes all at once!
These kinds of people have narcissistic tendencies. Unfortunately, it’s all about them, but they can draw you in with their charm, seduce you into thinking you’re the dearest of friends, and exhibit shocking behavior when they’re not getting their expectations or their needs met. These personality types will always go for the jugular, because they always must be right and they must always win. Do your best to create distance between you and escape, and never look back.
Agree💯
other women are terrible
They can be but it’s wonderful when you find women who really care about you❤
The mean ones are awful, the nice ones are a gift❤
So good Laura. I had a friend and I thought it was a special friendship over many years. I think the betrayal of trust was the worst possible thing. She ended up being like a stranger. It certainly took me some time to get my head around it.
I’m still working through a similar situation. It’s tough
Im a male and i think women are more supportive of one another than men. Women are told that they have to compete with each other. Its conditioning.
Well you apparently don't know about the competition amongst women then hahaha. Men have nothing on women when it comes to competing with each other. They'll stab each other in the back in a heartbeat to get ahead. Of course not all women, just most(it seems like anyway). It's sad.
Women tell on one another. Men don't.
@LP-hs6yz I'm a male , and men tell on one another. They also gossip about people. I know because I would associate with other men. I'm ot like they are.
Thanks for your perspective. I guess it’s the view out of our own window
Mommies. Theirs is the kingdom and the power and the glory. But the difference between what Hallmark cards think mothers are and how they treat other women is something I wish someone would blow wide open. When all my "friends" were having babies and I had to listen regularly to them say how selfish they had been before their precious progeny arrived and what saints they were now... If you used to be selfish, I guess you oughta know. But I didn`t think *I* was selfish, and I resented the constant implication. I had raised a sister after my mother`s death. But that didn`t count because it didn`t involve an episiotomy. When I was trying, and failing, to get pregnant myself the mother-of-two who I thought I was "closest" to said in full voice to the person standing next to me that perhaps people who can`t get pregnant should stop *trying* -- with a chuckle! Felt like a slap in the face as she knew full well my sorrow. Satisfying karma: she is divorced now. Perhaps she should have thought about *trying* at her marriage.
Karma is a bitch. Especially for the cruel
I've experienced this scenario with one women in my life. It was a hard lesson to go through. What I learned was to let her go, to stop the communication with her (no replies to her voice messages and text messages or emails) and eventually her toxic fires became a way of the past that I am glad to say farewell to (for my sanity and hers). I did direct her to counselors and church groups that I truly prayed would help her get her victim mentality turned around and all the mean girl ways she felt was acceptable to her but not to me.
You are so right, the only way to deal with it is to completely walk away. It’s hard especially in the short term, but long term it’s a relief to no longer have all the negativity in your life.
They turned their back on me literally. So I drop them . I understand a lot of women want attention but oh the gossip. Why would anyone gossip under my window ....trying to spread more rumors. They do it to everyone they meet
You hit the nail on the head, they do it to everyone. I’m trying to learn not to take it personally
They are usually the one’s with something to hide!! Good for you for walking away
I have always kind of been a loner for reasons i cant go into. At work i had plenty of co-worker friends, they didnt really go beyond work. Someone i had tried to befriend when i started my job clearly had no interest. Four or five years later she love bombed me, she did this the very day i returned from work after my third baby was born. Because all of my time wzs about my family i didnt really have any friends. Years later after loving her like a sister i found out the reason she came into my life so suddenly that day. Her best friend was either wanting or was already having an affair with my husband. I think she believed she could really have the scoop on me and my husband that would make it easier for her to snag my husband. I really cared so much for her and believe she felt the same after we got to know each other. I feel so used, im not sure its possible to get over a betrayal like that, especially when your husband was involved in it the whole time. That was around 2008 or so and i have not had a close friend since then, really not even a friendship of anykind. Thanks for your videos and a place to vent :)
Oh I’m so sorry and I’ve heard so many similar stories. People can wear you out with their insincerity. All we can do is draw our boundaries and move forward more cautiously thanks for sharing
Wow, very sorry to hear this, designingmama. I hope one day you can learn to trust again enough to find a friend. There ARE some good people still out there, just so you know :)
So sorry to read this. That certainly would be the ultimate betrayal. I completely understand never getting close again with another person. Hopefully you will find someone you can trust again. It is tough though. I am very much a loner myself as I have been burned before as well.
Good message.
Thanks!!
There is no such thing as a "friend" when it comes to children, money and husbands.
sad but profound comment
I think you can add career progression to that list too.
Sounds like she never liked you. It may be that she doesn't even know how to like another woman and had to fake an approximation of friendship just to get by in the world. It may be that she was quietly jealous of you all the time you thought you were creating memories. I suppose it would be cold comfort to know you probably weren't the first and probably won't be the last.
Thanks for taking the time to comment. Definitely a lot to think about. But on to much better times
volume is toooo low!!
Thanks
Who said you were smart?
I think we are all pretty smart….. not brilliant just good old fashion smarts
Good answer.