Bro 100% spot on. I live in germany and I intentionally never get out my phone in public and just observe people and how they act. Its just sad sometimes really. Regardless, there are things you can control and some things you cant. I just try to be the best version of myself and treat myself as good as I can (Gym, Business etc.) and treat the people around me as good as I can. The world is gone very crazy especially after covid just like you said. Just remember there will be always people like you and me around, even if I am sitting right now on the other side of the earth. I appreciate you and your view man. Just all the best for you and keep it up man
thats different. eye contact in conversation is good. randomly eyeing people is gonna trigger them. they think you want something from them (which to them is most likely not good) or you’re judging them. i wouldnt trust some shmuck staring me down either
@@badman666 the people who get mad over that have such bad insecurities, and this is coming from someone who used to get offended when people would stare at him. It stems from mental health problems/insecurities. It’s just petty to get all mad and lash out just for “staring” like idk what they’re staring at me for so i don’t rlly care much anymore, getting mad over something so small is petty and weak, anyone who gets so mad over it either has a huge ego or was traumatized, and also what else were you supposed to stare at? that guy had issues obviously, i would only get mad at someone for staring if they looked dangerous or suspicious
I only look at people when I'm talking to them. Some people don' t want to be looked at. Also the reason people don't have attachment is because they no longer need it anymore. People can move, go to other states, meet new people constantly. If they don't like the people they meet personally they can go online. There are less social consequences as well, because people can move to different communities.
The only time when homosapiens no longer need attachment is when we stop being homosapiens. The death of God and worship of the self is a symptom of a society that lacks a homogenous culture, religion, ethnicity and value system.
I'm attractive guy and considerably tall 6'feet i get often compliments and huge smiles from mature ladies above 40 The problem is in my generation and younger girls they act like im invisibile they pass by infront of me looking left or right direction without even blinking or looking at me its super weird
@@tempest_2222 you didn't get my point , it doesn't matter if im attractive or not its not the most important thing to me as a man health and status for me are non negotiable but sometimes youngs women loves to manipulate and reject people as impowerment move
@@outcast9229Definitely an ego thing. They probably found you attractive but they are acting like they’re too good for you probably cause they wanted you to chase them.
It’s all about intentions. Some people have good genuine intentions when it comes to interacting. But you got those scammers, creeps, or just plain lunatics that have other intentions that’s not good so that’s where street smarts kick in. In this day and time people are just in high anxiety
Honestly, I don’t look at random girls in the eye fr because everything is seen as creepy if you’re not her type and I don’t look at dudes because it’s just energy consuming to acknowledge 200+ random dudes I see everyday.
I would make eye contact with people, but I realized I was making too much eye contact and I came off creepy at times. I’ve felt more comfortable with minimal eye contact.
I screenshot this just to remind myself , I think phones have taking over and social media, people just not used to making eye contacts. They care more about what’s on the social media now
a lot of people also overdo eye contact due to videos like these. it ends up making interactions extremely uncomfortable when people make "strong eye contact" for the sake of appearing "dominant".
Slightly off topic, but when I was a kid, every parent taught their kids at the youngest age to always look in both directions before crossing the street; that was deeply ingrained in everyone's lives. In the past couple of years, I noticed that most people do not even sneak even the slightest glance in any direction before crossing a street. Boggles my mind.
That's a cultural change. The rise in third-world immigration from nations with poor driving standards and street-crossing etiquette is a heavy factor in why this and also vehicle-related accidents and deaths has risen sharply.
The saddest thing that ever happened in my lifetime was the invention of the internet soon after I became an adult. Everybody has turned into morose, grumpy turtles.
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Bro 100% spot on. I live in germany and I intentionally never get out my phone in public and just observe people and how they act. Its just sad sometimes really. Regardless, there are things you can control and some things you cant. I just try to be the best version of myself and treat myself as good as I can (Gym, Business etc.) and treat the people around me as good as I can. The world is gone very crazy especially after covid just like you said. Just remember there will be always people like you and me around, even if I am sitting right now on the other side of the earth. I appreciate you and your view man. Just all the best for you and keep it up man
@cookieeeeee1337 Nah I appreciate you fr just keep it pushing superstar you got this you are destined for greatness God bless ya 🙏🏼♥️
Porn and perversion has lowered peoples self confidence probably alot of shame and guilt going around.
real bro, also social media. unrealistic expectations
Looked at a guy on the metro. He started to get aggressive and asked me what im looking at and if im good?
thats different. eye contact in conversation is good. randomly eyeing people is gonna trigger them. they think you want something from them (which to them is most likely not good) or you’re judging them. i wouldnt trust some shmuck staring me down either
Don't hold on strangers like that 😂 if it lingers give em a head nod and move on
@@badman666 the people who get mad over that have such bad insecurities, and this is coming from someone who used to get offended when people would stare at him. It stems from mental health problems/insecurities. It’s just petty to get all mad and lash out just for “staring” like idk what they’re staring at me for so i don’t rlly care much anymore, getting mad over something so small is petty and weak, anyone who gets so mad over it either has a huge ego or was traumatized, and also what else were you supposed to stare at? that guy had issues obviously, i would only get mad at someone for staring if they looked dangerous or suspicious
No wonder people can't find love without eye contact it's difficult to fall in love
Well I see I'm not alone in this.
Not by a long shot, unfortunately.
I only look at people when I'm talking to them. Some people don' t want to be looked at.
Also the reason people don't have attachment is because they no longer need it anymore. People can move, go to other states, meet new people constantly. If they don't like the people they meet personally they can go online. There are less social consequences as well, because people can move to different communities.
You literally understood nothing bro. Hit the gym as Fit told you to.
You speaking facts. It's easy to move on now, so no need to really put any effort in 💯
The only time when homosapiens no longer need attachment is when we stop being homosapiens. The death of God and worship of the self is a symptom of a society that lacks a homogenous culture, religion, ethnicity and value system.
Tbh avoiding eye contact when you’re talking is when it’s weird. Otherwise, looking someone in the eye off the cuff is a hit or miss
That was the creepiest three seconds of my life
That was the best three seconds of my life
I'm attractive guy and considerably tall 6'feet i get often compliments and huge smiles from mature ladies above 40
The problem is in my generation and younger girls they act like im invisibile they pass by infront of me looking left or right direction without even blinking or looking at me its super weird
why do you want them to look at you so badly? get over urself
You ain't as good looking as you think dude women do this to me also. Older women just want attention even more than young women.
@@tempest_2222 you didn't get my point , it doesn't matter if im attractive or not its not the most important thing to me as a man health and status for me are non negotiable but sometimes youngs women loves to manipulate and reject people as impowerment move
@@outcast9229Definitely an ego thing. They probably found you attractive but they are acting like they’re too good for you probably cause they wanted you to chase them.
@@outcast9229 random girls don’t owe you attention
It’s all about intentions. Some people have good genuine intentions when it comes to interacting. But you got those scammers, creeps, or just plain lunatics that have other intentions that’s not good so that’s where street smarts kick in. In this day and time people are just in high anxiety
Honestly, I don’t look at random girls in the eye fr because everything is seen as creepy if you’re not her type and I don’t look at dudes because it’s just energy consuming to acknowledge 200+ random dudes I see everyday.
Work on your inner confidence bro
@ has nothing to do with confidence bro. Just an observation of modern times in America.
I would make eye contact with people, but I realized I was making too much eye contact and I came off creepy at times. I’ve felt more comfortable with minimal eye contact.
The Spartans would look away to not cause problems
I screenshot this just to remind myself , I think phones have taking over and social media, people just not used to making eye contacts. They care more about what’s on the social media now
a lot of people also overdo eye contact due to videos like these. it ends up making interactions extremely uncomfortable when people make "strong eye contact" for the sake of appearing "dominant".
Brother you're just straight up spitting FACTS
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Always appreciated welcome to the 304 club broseph 🤣🍻
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Seriously... its disturbing 💔
Slightly off topic, but when I was a kid, every parent taught their kids at the youngest age to always look in both directions before crossing the street; that was deeply ingrained in everyone's lives. In the past couple of years, I noticed that most people do not even sneak even the slightest glance in any direction before crossing a street. Boggles my mind.
That's a cultural change. The rise in third-world immigration from nations with poor driving standards and street-crossing etiquette is a heavy factor in why this and also vehicle-related accidents and deaths has risen sharply.
The saddest thing that ever happened in my lifetime was the invention of the internet soon after I became an adult. Everybody has turned into morose, grumpy turtles.
FairPlay bro , you popped up and your dead right
This generation? Almost every generation within the last 40-50 years.
That tracks perfectly with when mass immigration to Western countries from third-world nations started exploding year-on-year.
Becauuse everyone is in there heads
Juppppp
Watching this video rewired my brain
@@user-hl1ct3yh1r glad it helped broseph cheers 🍻
Great video. Its thr phones
Fax. Keep it up
Nah I'm good