heartbroken: our failed adoption💔

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  • it would be easier to sit here and question God... but with broken hearts, even still, we are trusting His timing. none of it makes sense to us, but we have an overwhelming peace that He is not done. we love you all so much. please be kind in the comments as our hearts are tender.
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Комментарии • 563

  • @melissakell1222
    @melissakell1222 Месяц назад +262

    Putting this out there into the universe…. there’s a pregnant woman or girl that is looking to place their baby, but feels unsure… Maybe with you they will know it’s the right thing to do! ❤

    • @kr2003
      @kr2003 Месяц назад +13

      In Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾

    • @jessicasmurthwaite2159
      @jessicasmurthwaite2159 Месяц назад +10

      Can I add on to this prayer that if there is a pregnant woman or a child in need of parents that they will be delivered with her RUclips or information so they can reach out to them and make this beautiful blessing happen in Jesus name amen!!

    • @JamiesLife
      @JamiesLife Месяц назад +5

      100% I just met someone the other day who chose adoption and if it were me I would easily chose them I'm 35 but I would have gladly done surrogacy for them because I want them to have a baby so bad however I was unfortunately diagnosed with health issues so now that's no longer the greatest option I feel pregnant and have been so worried for my baby because of my issues thank God my baby's great I would have only done surrogacy with someone else's eggs ofc

    • @pennyname2756
      @pennyname2756 Месяц назад +40

      This feels like a very wrong prayer. I seriously wouldn’t wish or pray for any woman to feel unsure about their pregnancy just to fit somebody else’s journey.

    • @melissakell1222
      @melissakell1222 Месяц назад +2

      It wasn’t a prayer… I’m just putting it out there in the universe…. It’s manifestation🫶🏼

  • @madelyngrace7745
    @madelyngrace7745 Месяц назад +276

    As a birth mama. I’m so grateful that this mama felt safe enough to change her mind.

    • @user-momof7
      @user-momof7 Месяц назад +22

      same...from one birth mom to another

    • @Jean-nr5ch
      @Jean-nr5ch 28 дней назад +11

      No it's the way adoptions are done, prebirth matching should not be done.

  • @TheCosmeticsAddict
    @TheCosmeticsAddict Месяц назад +220

    You gave that mama the blessing of feeling like she had a choice. That child was CHOSEN by her mom, all because you gave her the space to make that decision and not feel forced into motherhood or stuck with a baby.
    Your heart is broken, but you’ve blessed this mom and her baby more than you know.
    Your time is coming, chin up. ❤️

  • @bahalto
    @bahalto 28 дней назад +28

    “Birth mother” only applies after they’re separated from their babies. Until then, they are expectant mothers or mothers.

  • @Jennijenniwcitt
    @Jennijenniwcitt Месяц назад +420

    I know it’s hard to hear/see right now but that mama choosing her baby was a huge blessing to them and a very big part of their story forever is both of you. The best way to rid your heart of hurt and feel peace is to do what you’re doing and pray for them. Imagine how sweet it’s going to be when you finally hold that baby who needs you more than anything in the world. That baby won’t have a mama that chose them. You will be the mama that chose them. I can’t wait to see the day. I’ll be praying for you. Thank you for sharing. You deserve a baby. You deserve this.

    • @ourcozycorner8517
      @ourcozycorner8517 Месяц назад +5

    • @alexdavis7664
      @alexdavis7664 Месяц назад +9

      So beautifully said!! ❤

    • @arseckler
      @arseckler Месяц назад +23

      Beautiful comment. A mother being moved & falling in love with her baby once it was earth side, finding she can’t walk away & choosing her child is a blessing, not a negative. ❤

    • @jessicadaniel6345
      @jessicadaniel6345 Месяц назад +14

      Well said!!! Hallelujah that the Holy Spirit worked through that mom’s heart and soul to keep her child 🎉
      Brittany, while we all appreciate you being transparent with us of this journey that you’re on, maybe this time just don’t tell us when a mom chooses you and your husband.
      Pray about this first before making a video.
      Honestly, it was really hard to sit through this video and to listen how you both are hurt about it falling through when you should rejoice for the mom to pick her child.

    • @Jennijenniwcitt
      @Jennijenniwcitt Месяц назад +4

      @@jessicadaniel6345 it is more than ok for her to be sad. I bet this helps a lot of people who struggle with the same thing. I respect your opinion. Praise God for us all to be kind and accepting and understanding of one another. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @margaretjanec8484
    @margaretjanec8484 Месяц назад +310

    It’s never a “failed” adoption. A mother choosing to raise her baby is a beautiful thing. It will only benefit that baby and mama. And that baby doesn’t have to experience any separation trauma. This is why we don’t refer to expectant moms as birth moms. They are the primary and only mother until they sign those relinquishment papers. Praise the Lord!

    • @crystalslattery1712
      @crystalslattery1712 Месяц назад +17

      Thank you!! That’s what I stated above as well.

    • @emmab1745
      @emmab1745 Месяц назад +19

      I have to disagree when you say "It will only benefit that baby and mama." Many birth moms decide to place their children up for adoption because of circumstances that will likely cause the child to grow up in a less safe, stable, and healthy environment than if they were to be adopted into a family seen "fit" by the state and birth mom. I think it's very naive and almost harmful to create the notion that the "biological parent" = the best parent for a child. We've seen hundreds of thousands of cases where that could not be further from the truth.

    • @jenniferlawrence9598
      @jenniferlawrence9598 Месяц назад +12

      @@emmab1745100% agree. All these commenters self righteously “educating” this heartbroken couple as if they aren’t aware it’s often better if the mom chooses to raise the child. There are MANY children raised in terrible environments by parents who love their kids but don’t know how to show it, parent them, protect them, and provide for them. All things that can be provided by an adoptive parent. The commenters here are infuriating. Even if they were right, time and place. Time and place. No wisdom.

    • @desmo8755
      @desmo8755 29 дней назад +5

      It can be "failed" if the birth mother never had real intentions of adopting and this happens too often. OK, the child stays with the mother, which is a "success" if you want to view it that way. But from the perspective of a well-intending adoptive couple who gave up their hearts and a lot of money, and for the credibility of the adoption system, it's a huge failure !

    • @sobersherpalive1766
      @sobersherpalive1766 28 дней назад +1

      @@jenniferlawrence9598 your words don't matter, this is RUclips

  • @peekaboopixie
    @peekaboopixie Месяц назад +53

    Try not to think of it as a failed adoption. It was a successful emotional attachment for the birth mother. That's a good thing. Hopefully, she will be able to raise her daughter well. I pray she does. Your baby will come.

  • @LK-bn7sz
    @LK-bn7sz Месяц назад +45

    Adopt older kids, there are thousands that need a home!

    • @victorial8764
      @victorial8764 26 дней назад +7

      That’s what I want to do as a single woman who loves Jesus ❤ Pray for me. I may be engaged soon but either way I know Jesus wants this for me.
      Edit: finances are going to be needed. It’s so expensive it’s saddening

    • @FLMAMACBEAR617
      @FLMAMACBEAR617 20 дней назад

      Yes ❤

    • @alishamashburn412
      @alishamashburn412 18 дней назад +4

      Stop telling people what they should do!

    • @LK-bn7sz
      @LK-bn7sz 18 дней назад

      @@alishamashburn412 adopt older kids!!!

  • @genuinedelusionsmusic
    @genuinedelusionsmusic Месяц назад +22

    When I was born, I was meant to be given to a young christian couple, but my mom decided to keep me after she had a look at me. I'm so glad she did. ❤

    • @user-ke1ym9nh3j
      @user-ke1ym9nh3j 28 дней назад

      This is so beautiful. I'm so happy you stayed with your family ❤

  • @Allie75459
    @Allie75459 Месяц назад +150

    I am so sorry, Brittany. How I choose to see it in Jesus' eyes is that, that mother needed you and Jordan to show her the love and guidance of God. You helped this family find their way, while working forward in yours. I sincerely hope your adoption comes to light and Jesus works a miracle. What is yours will always be yours.

    • @aubreylong4942
      @aubreylong4942 28 дней назад +3

      100% it takes a good person with genuine care for that child to offer themselves as a resource for that woman if she ever go to a point that they needed something. They are still there for her. THIS is stewardship- fostering parenting as a Christian. Not simply purchasing a child.

  • @madison8568
    @madison8568 27 дней назад +37

    It’s not a failed adoption. You aren’t entitled to adopt. You should be happy the mother chose to parent. We should be doing everything we can to make sure first mothers keep their children.

    • @suzannenelson919
      @suzannenelson919 20 дней назад +4

      They never said they were entitled to adopt. I feel they were very gracious.

    • @alishamashburn412
      @alishamashburn412 18 дней назад +3

      They literally said in the video they knew that this could happen and that they know they aren’t entitled to adopt! Did you even watch the video lol?!

  • @erikacalderas_69
    @erikacalderas_69 Месяц назад +53

    Brittany, I am so sorry that this happened to y'all. My parents could not conceive for years... they adopted my sister in 1967 and I was born two years later.... GOD IS SO GOOD Brittany... YA'LL WILL BE BLESSED ONE DAY TOO!! 🙏

  • @kara3930
    @kara3930 Месяц назад +75

    Prayers for the birth mom and baby. Prayers for you and your future family. 🙏❤️

  • @Suzen_S.
    @Suzen_S. Месяц назад +30

    I am so sorry for you guys! 💔 The same thing happened to me in 2006. I was at the hospital with our baby for two days bonding and loving on her and bam out of nowhere the mom changed her mind. Total devastation…..Of course God was in total control with that situation. What I didn’t know at the time was exactly one year later I would become pregnant at age 42 after being diagnosed with two blocked tubes after having my last baby 16 years earlier. Heads up ~ the Lord has already gone before and knows the outcome. Prayers for another precious baby soon. 💖

  • @Victoria_Loves_Jesus
    @Victoria_Loves_Jesus Месяц назад +78

    i am a birth mama and i was not ready at 29 - i chose open adoption and it was a blessing to a couple who'd had 5 miscarriages in 6 years. It was all providence - God is absolutely in control! His timing ❤️

    • @Abmafatima
      @Abmafatima Месяц назад +10

      How can you say you weren't ready? And how did you get pregnant? At the age of 29, you don't know how to protect yourself against pregnancy? Does your child have to suffer because you are irresponsible? I just can't read such nonsense.

    • @c.j.m.mariaa
      @c.j.m.mariaa Месяц назад +4

      ​@@AbmafatimaI know Islam is against adoption but Christianity is not! You are not supposed to judge thats God work even some married people are not ready and sometimes people get pregnant even when on birth control you dont know the situation so maybe you should keep your judgement to yourself this woman loved her child enough to make sure he or she went to a loving family plenty of people have kids and are horrible parent so to assume the child is not well of because its adopted is just wrong.

    • @Abmafatima
      @Abmafatima Месяц назад +1

      @@c.j.m.mariaa I am a single mother myself and I often didn't have anything to eat. The situation was tragic for me... My pregnancy was conscious, but in the meantime the father of the child changed his mind and after giving birth I was alone. How stupid do you have to be not to protect yourself and then give someone YOUR OWN child who will suffer because of it? Oh no. Sad stories don't appeal to me. The girl wasn't ready ahahha SHE DID NOT WANT BABY. And she knows it. If you are not ready to have a child (and according to her statement that she was not raped, so she is just stupid and allowed herself to be impregnated), she protects herself!!!! If you don't have money to raise a child (there is a lot of help for single mothers nowadays), you can also protect yourself. Nowadays, if you get pregnant unexpectedly, it's only because of your own stupidity. You won't be able to change my mind. How should I empathize with such a person? Ps. And I don't believe in this nonsense that someone gets pregnant using contraception.

    • @c.j.m.mariaa
      @c.j.m.mariaa Месяц назад +6

      @@Abmafatima so you think your better because you raised your child? You know children from single mothers are at high risk to have problems? Do you know your child is not learning what a healthy marriage looks like because his father left you? I am not saying you cant be a wonderfull mother when your single but its not the best for the child. When you look at numbers adopted kids that are raised in a stable family setting with mom and dad and enough financially freedom to give them a good life are actually better of then around 80 procent of children from single mothers you said it yourself you didnt have money to get food yet you brought poverty upon your child. Not saying again that you are not a wonderfull mother but trust me that is also pretty hard on a child. I also assume from your story you got pregnant unmarried because in Islam it is not allowed to separate when a woman is with child al talak is very clear about it the man cant leave when you are with child and has to take care of you and the baby your pregnancy and the period you are breastfeeding.

    • @katekneprath3733
      @katekneprath3733 Месяц назад +11

      @@Abmafatimawhat a hurtful thing to say. everyone is on their own journeys, you have no idea what she was walking through at the time. i am so glad she chose LIFE for her child and that she put them first in that difficult situation!

  • @hilarybarrett727
    @hilarybarrett727 Месяц назад +53

    Our first call from our agency telling us a birth mother chose us to raise her baby boy turned into her changing her mind to parent him herself (which is a great thing but still a bittersweet to receive that call). The second call that another birth mom chose us, 4 months later, we were told we had a new daughter. They waited to call us once the revocation period had expired so we wouldn’t have our hearts broken again.
    I am sorry you guys have experienced this. You will understand this no once you are holding the baby God has for you in your arms.

    • @ourcozycorner8517
      @ourcozycorner8517 Месяц назад +5

      Oh, this comment is really encouraging 💜 bless you!

  • @annie7617
    @annie7617 Месяц назад +88

    I know this must be hard, but you must be happy for that little baby and mumma. The right thing happened here, and the best possible outcome is for a baby to be with its mumma. I hope you can find the strength to be grateful. Mumma not only has the right to do that, but she made the right decision.

    • @aterryadg
      @aterryadg Месяц назад +8

      Yes I totally agree.

    • @jenniferlawrence9598
      @jenniferlawrence9598 Месяц назад +4

      Thank you so much for educating this sweet couple with your wisdom. I’m sure they didn’t know that or hadn’t thought of it at all. Very wise of you to make sure you set them straight in the middle of their heartbreak. Can we clone you so more people can experience this “comfort”? Also unless you actually know this mom AND can see the future you have zero evidence to say the birth mom made the right decision. That implies that every mom who decides that adoption is best for her child made the wrong one. There are MANY situations where adoption really is best for both mom and baby. Ignoring these is irresponsible and childish and also hurtful to any mother who chose adoption who has the misfortune of running across your hurtful and inaccurate comment.

    • @aubreylong4942
      @aubreylong4942 28 дней назад +1

      A purchased baby for more content and so God will “bless her with her own”.

  • @mountainmusicfarm
    @mountainmusicfarm Месяц назад +25

    Life can be so hard, but it's such an amazing thing to have God by our sides with His peace and comfort. I'm praying for you both.

  • @sanktaKoroleva
    @sanktaKoroleva Месяц назад +15

    Definitely time to get off of these platforms where THOUSANDS of people are wishing you ill and speaking death and curses over you non stop. Get out of the public eye for a good long while. Let them forget about you entirely. I'm sorry, but this is not helping you or Jordan. It truly is time to separate yourselves in faith and close this door the enemy is using against you

    • @Picklesorganics
      @Picklesorganics 27 дней назад +3

      She invites it

    • @queenc2144
      @queenc2144 19 дней назад +1

      You realize this is her only source of income. She isn’t giving it up.

  • @myshelhilty4068
    @myshelhilty4068 Месяц назад +102

    People who adopt only give a shit about unborn babies when there are millions of children out there that need love too. They watch these videos and just wish they were good enough. Sorry but it is what it is.
    I am so grateful for my parents. They chose me as a 7 year old!! They chose me!

    • @Reformedandrevived
      @Reformedandrevived Месяц назад +7

      I’m sorry if that’s your experience but that’s not true. ❤️ Many people adopt older children. My cousin was adopted at 3 ❤️

    • @LK-bn7sz
      @LK-bn7sz Месяц назад +9

      Agree, there are so many kids that need a home, but they get overlooked because they aren't newborns.

    • @McAnultyBunch
      @McAnultyBunch Месяц назад +6

      It’s kind of like puppies and kittens. Everyone wants the baby stage. Very sad. My aunt has done foster care since I was a young child. She has one biological child and all the children she has fostered were always older. She even fostered teen moms, and pregnant teen moms. She helped the kids that no one blinked in eye at. She made huge impacts in their lives and they are all still apart of her life to this day.
      Because of her it makes me want to do foster care and show these kids they deserve love no matter their age, or struggle. ❤

    • @de5072
      @de5072 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@Reformedandrevivedthat situation is the exception not the rule. I work closely with foster and adopted kids. Olders kids are harder to place in foster homes and harder to get adopted.

    • @Reformedandrevived
      @Reformedandrevived Месяц назад +2

      @@de5072 Totally. But is the system a big part of that? I’ve heard they make it harder to adopt older children?

  • @runnerupcsal8241
    @runnerupcsal8241 Месяц назад +11

    Women interrup men So Much its so annoying. Please let him finish a dang sentence 😫😫😫

  • @micaelagrant9240
    @micaelagrant9240 Месяц назад +15

    I'm sorry about the grief of the failed adoption I am also so happy the birth mom chose to raise her baby. God's plan is perfect. This is only going to refine you

    • @user-ke1ym9nh3j
      @user-ke1ym9nh3j 28 дней назад +1

      Is it not a failed adoption. The mother and child stayed together, which is the best situation possible for that child.

    • @micaelagrant9240
      @micaelagrant9240 27 дней назад +2

      @user-ke1ym9nh3j it literally is a failed adoption, that's the term used when the adoption falls through and it's still something people grieve over and that's fine. But it's God's plan and the best potential outcome for mommy to stay with her baby.

  • @stacieparker8919
    @stacieparker8919 Месяц назад +14

    First, I am so deeply sorry. I can’t imagine the heartbreak for you guys. Praise God this mama was able to still choose life for her sweet girl with the hope in knowing she had a plan if she didn’t feel able to raise this baby God gifted her. I’m sure knowing all the pressure was off gave her some time to reflect during pregnancy. Thank you for being selfless enough to give her the gift of hope and time. ❤

  • @katekneprath3733
    @katekneprath3733 Месяц назад +6

    so sorry to learn of this! when we adopted our son just under a year ago, i was in awe at the peace i felt that it HAD to be be HIM. he was the child we waited and prayed for. God’s timing is perfect, don’t lose hope! i am praying for you, i know how long the journey can feel! you’re not alone.

  • @alliskelton7495
    @alliskelton7495 Месяц назад +15

    Praying for you all! Once you get your baby you’ll say I would’ve gone through whatever it took to get to you ❤

  • @lalala6420
    @lalala6420 Месяц назад +10

    I thought they were doing IVF?! God sees you....the birth Mum sees you....and thank goodness you didn't get that baby!

    • @sobersherpalive1766
      @sobersherpalive1766 28 дней назад +4

      She believes most of her followers are not intelligent.

    • @alishamashburn412
      @alishamashburn412 18 дней назад

      What are you talking about!? Don’t say that to someone! They seem like they would be good parents!

    • @lalala6420
      @lalala6420 18 дней назад +1

      @alishamashburn412 look into a video of him on duty beating someone up. Look into her being sued by the state. Now tell me they would be good parents.

  • @ptl3564
    @ptl3564 Месяц назад +5

    Praying for you and your family ❤. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this with us.
    Benjamin Hasting’s song “seasons” helped me a lot through my waiting season.

  • @daniellefoster5017
    @daniellefoster5017 Месяц назад +4

    Praying for you both. This moved me to tears. Thank you for being so open to share. You are such a light. I ask God to continue guiding you and giving you strength. ❤

  • @macieleighty2249
    @macieleighty2249 Месяц назад +13

    Thank goodness it did!

  • @Ali.91510
    @Ali.91510 Месяц назад +15

    That is really hard to take in praying for both of you guys! ❤

  • @Arlene_DOTK
    @Arlene_DOTK Месяц назад +20

    God is Good ALL THE TIME. He has something very special for your family 👪 Once he reveals his plan, you both will be in absolute awe. Until then, keep trusting and praying 🙏 God bless you both ❤️❤️❤️

  • @krystlemaes4400
    @krystlemaes4400 Месяц назад +55

    I am a birth mom and I have placed twice ❤ so just know God has the perfect plan for your beautiful family xo

  • @alishadyess8208
    @alishadyess8208 Месяц назад +7

    Thank you for sharing. I am waiting on something different. But yes, the ups and downs are both heartbreaking and yet wonderful.

  • @sunshinemama38
    @sunshinemama38 Месяц назад +11

    Hugs, Your baby will find you, in HIS time. You are so faithful. Bless you 🙏🏻 ❤

  • @live.the.revival
    @live.the.revival Месяц назад +3

    I’m so thankful you’ve been so vulnerable and brave sharing your whole story. Thank you ❤️ praying you have children filling your home very soon xx

  • @lisenolet2856
    @lisenolet2856 Месяц назад +28

    Click bait? Same with Bella and her husband…

    • @rmukuzwazwa
      @rmukuzwazwa Месяц назад +17

      Exactly! I think they posted the last video knowing that they weren't getting the baby. All for views and money. Disgraceful.

    • @samanthaf.3270
      @samanthaf.3270 26 дней назад +5

      ⁠@@rmukuzwazwait’s pretty disgraceful that you are making public assumptions about someone who is doing their literal job. She is a content creator. It’s not uncommon that they have videos ready to be posted in advance and I’m not understanding why she isn’t allowed to share the journey of her adoption process.

    • @rmukuzwazwa
      @rmukuzwazwa 26 дней назад +2

      @@samanthaf.3270 I didn't say she couldn't post about her journey. But I think it's pretty awful to post about a failed adoption the way they did. In my opinion, the adoption had fallen through when they posted the nursery video and they only posted it so they could monetize it. The decent thing to do would be to skip that video and post this one. Just my opinion. Also it's her job to put her life on the internet so people will naturally read between the lines. If they don't like it, they should find another job.

    • @samanthaf.3270
      @samanthaf.3270 26 дней назад +2

      @@rmukuzwazwa they also would still need to prepare a nursery since they are still planning on adopting so even still, what the fuck is the problem 🤣

    • @lisenolet2856
      @lisenolet2856 7 дней назад

      @@rmukuzwazwa crazy what money does to people.

  • @samreilly7152
    @samreilly7152 Месяц назад +25

    I was praying so hard for this outcome. I do not wish you pain, but I also wish to save any baby you would be gifted.

  • @lacey.1371
    @lacey.1371 Месяц назад +6

    God is so good. I can’t wait to see at the end of your trial how he blesses you! Praying praying praying for y’all!

  • @stephaniegraham9155
    @stephaniegraham9155 Месяц назад +6

    Praying for you both! ❤🙏🏻 so brave to share !

  • @chelsiterry804
    @chelsiterry804 Месяц назад +8

    I’ve been down this exact road. It’s so hard. Praying for you guys.

  • @Evangelinenoelle1997
    @Evangelinenoelle1997 Месяц назад +10

    I’m praying for you both. Love you guys! ❤

  • @sydneyaplin9572
    @sydneyaplin9572 Месяц назад +39

    I pray over you that you get your baby. And your house is full of little footsteps. God bless you, honey. Any baby would be blessed to have you as mom and dad.

  • @LK-bn7sz
    @LK-bn7sz 28 дней назад +6

    At this point she is only doing it for the views

  • @erikacamilleabraham
    @erikacamilleabraham Месяц назад +3

    I can only imagine how hard this must have been for you both. Thank you for being so transparent. Praying for your continued healing. Everything in its time 🙏🏽🤍

  • @kristinmikes6227
    @kristinmikes6227 Месяц назад +5

    Praying for continued peace for your hearts and strength for pushing forward. Praying for birth mom and baby as well. Sending you so much love! ❤️

  • @KayChardonnay380
    @KayChardonnay380 Месяц назад +9

    I am so glad that the mama chose her baby. I also understand your disappointment.

  • @Iambrandyleigh
    @Iambrandyleigh Месяц назад +10

    It seems maybe the Lord is trying to say he's closed the door on you having a baby adoption or whatever..he doesn't always give us what we want ..it's what HE wants...sorry

    • @graciejaime7035
      @graciejaime7035 Месяц назад

      So like a teen adotion or older?

    • @sobersherpalive1766
      @sobersherpalive1766 28 дней назад

      God doesn't influence in these ways or over human biology.
      What is the practicality that the Lord can affect billions of individual human beings daily going on? Is it practical or reasonable? of course not

  • @maycievanpatten6633
    @maycievanpatten6633 Месяц назад +7

    Oh how amazing will it be to finally see gods promise fulfilled.
    “Even when we are faithless….. he remains faithful”

  • @lmd2454
    @lmd2454 Месяц назад +13

    I really don't understand vloggers anymore, especially family vloggers. There for a little while it seemed like a pretty cool idea, but the thought of just having nothing sacred or private and constantly thinking of ways to set up shots or do videos to benefit the channel, even during the intimate and hard times of life just seems to cheapen these life experiences. It wasn't long ago that you were being called out for other drama, then you started dragging everyone through baby drama, and now it's adoption drama. Was any of it real? That's the thing, vlogging your whole life just makes everything seem like it's done for show, even if it isn't. I hope one day you'll consider shutting the camera off and just living life privately. Or if you want to be a content creator to make a living, maybe shift to something less personal. Family vloggers are really starting to give us all the ick.

    • @jenniferlawrence9598
      @jenniferlawrence9598 Месяц назад +3

      Wow. I can’t imagine saying this to someone that just lost the child they thought they were going to adopt. Let’s say you’re 100% right about not keeping things sacred. Even so why are you so lacking in wisdom that you choose to basically call them out as farming drama for dollars on this day? I have no idea who this couple is and you may be totally right but in order to say something this cruel at this time I would need to be completely convinced that they did not care at all if they got this child and are faking being heartbroken. My god, your selfishness and inconsideration honestly takes my breath away.

    • @eril8134
      @eril8134 Месяц назад +8

      @@jenniferlawrence9598 they didn't lose a child. FFS. There is ALWAYS a chance the birth mom will change her mind which is her right. It's wild that Brittany announced anything about this.

    • @sobersherpalive1766
      @sobersherpalive1766 28 дней назад +4

      Yes, you're right.... it's probably the RUclips money is good? Of course it is.
      Imagine what her family she is when they watch these videos.... I'll bet you they're secretly cringing and letting her do her thing because... they already know that she's one of these 21st century digital e-girls.
      This is e girl life

    • @sobersherpalive1766
      @sobersherpalive1766 28 дней назад

      What other people do in the comments section is none of your business ​@@jenniferlawrence9598

    • @karay.7345
      @karay.7345 22 дня назад

      AMEN

  • @WindySayers-ONeill
    @WindySayers-ONeill Месяц назад +15

    🫂❤ - virtual hugs to you both! Keep your head up and your faith strong. The Lord will answer your prayers...We just never know when. ❤

  • @peggylott4546
    @peggylott4546 Месяц назад +4

    Praying for y’all!!! I promise that God has a child for you! We walked through a failed adoption in 2012 but God had an incredible plan for our family. We have 2 incredibly beautiful children. God’s timing is perfect!!!

  • @lorifrancis8171
    @lorifrancis8171 Месяц назад +2

    Brittany, hugs for you! May the peace of God just continue to be wirh you in everything.

  • @amycallihan3691
    @amycallihan3691 Месяц назад +2

    Praying that something good will come out of this for you two. Praying for you two ❤

  • @shiratedesco2683
    @shiratedesco2683 Месяц назад +13

    God is good!!! Thank you Jesus!

  • @TravisGarnett
    @TravisGarnett Месяц назад +9

    🙏Greater is in-store for you both, Jordan-and-Brittany!🙏

  • @bornstandin
    @bornstandin 29 дней назад +6

    "Anger?" Wtf! Religion hasn't changed a thing in this dude's heart.

    • @elona.147
      @elona.147 25 дней назад +1

      God gives us emotions. Anger being one of them. Read the book of Job! He had trials and tribulations, and he was angry, but he still gave everything to God and never gave up faith. Anger is an emotion given to us from God. Just like joy and happiness. Just give it to God.

    • @cashews4894
      @cashews4894 23 дня назад +1

      Being a Christian doesn't mean one can never make a mistake or always follow through with God's words. It's possible to be angry as humans but as Christians we should be able to overcome that. I could say the same to you for swearing. It's a hard time for them, let's give them some grace.

    • @alishamashburn412
      @alishamashburn412 18 дней назад +2

      Yikes! That’s a big assumption to make about someone you don’t even know!

    • @court1611
      @court1611 16 дней назад +1

      It’s a normal part of grieving for a dream they had and were so close too. Lucky you if you’ve never felt anger in an emotional situation ….🙄

  • @goaldilocks2800
    @goaldilocks2800 Месяц назад +3

    I'm so sorry. Your faith is so incredibly inspiring and you're so blessed to have each other to lean on. I see you two with twins one day! I'm praying for you. 🙏💖

  • @crystalm8105
    @crystalm8105 Месяц назад +1

    My heart goes out to you 💔 take care of yourself and feel all the feelings to process it all 🙏🏼

  • @MadelynnK
    @MadelynnK Месяц назад +2

    Praying for yall!!!❤️🙏

  • @diana4043
    @diana4043 Месяц назад +2

    I am so sorry♥️. Continue to choose joy. This journey will reap beautiful rewards. God is good. 🙏

  • @stevienicolepeters
    @stevienicolepeters Месяц назад +4

    Hey girl, I’m so sorry that happened to you and your husband. God has it all planned out for y’all. It’s like He’s getting you prepared for a bigger and better blessing that you can ever imagine ❤️ Don’t give up! Ly

  • @charity8422
    @charity8422 Месяц назад +2

    Praying for you! ❤

  • @gracebigelow4278
    @gracebigelow4278 Месяц назад +2

    Praying for you all ❤

  • @hannahlawrence7893
    @hannahlawrence7893 Месяц назад +1

    So sorry this happened to you guys. 😢I believe God has got something great in store! Praying for that open door for you and Jordan. ❤🙏🏻

  • @Crystalhurb
    @Crystalhurb Месяц назад +1

    Oh no im so very sorry hun. This just broke my heart for you and your husband. Your such a beautiful soul inside and out and i know their is a child out their for you that will get the honor to have you both as their parents. I know you will love that child with your whole heart and i pray god will bring that beautiful child to you and your husband soon. Im so very sorry i know how much this ment to you. I love to see that your still being faithful and believing in gods plann and not giving up and allowing the devel to completely destroy you cuz this is the most important thing you want right now in your life. Keep strong sister i know god has a plann and it will be fulfilled in his time. Just keep believing and sharing his word and i know he will bless you and you husband one day for your faithfulness and dedication to him. Your heart is in the right place and he is going to complete it very soon. Stay strong sister your in my prayers. God bless you and you husband 🙏 ❤

  • @ShannonMisener
    @ShannonMisener Месяц назад

    Thank you for sharing your hearts in a real and raw way. I am not walking this journey but witnessing you living your testimony out loud is encouraging to me. I read somewhere that we are a microwave culture and as a Christian we fall victim to that thought pattern. I am learning to walk with Him at his pace and not my own. I pray He reveals your child to you soon!

  • @spartan9405
    @spartan9405 Месяц назад +1

    We love you both so much going to your journey with you God is good and it is your right in Gods timing wait on him I promise it will prevail . Pray with you and walking in your walk with you . I pray if your watching this and you feel like blessing and you are thinking about adoption please keep this beautiful couple in mind . Amen 🙏

  • @dairylea2
    @dairylea2 23 дня назад +3

    take in older kids that need a home... but you wouldn't bother with them hey!

  • @jacquelinethomas5948
    @jacquelinethomas5948 Месяц назад +1

    Even in the storm and the hardest of times never lose faith. I've been going through a lot and I have been hanging on toy faith like never before. God has the greatest power ever. He is truly a healer and I truly believe he isn't vengeful he just doesn't stop certain things because we have to be broken down to be blessed back up

  • @mariaesquivel1656
    @mariaesquivel1656 Месяц назад +1

    I'm so sorry😥. You both are in my prayers. Thank you for letting us know. Your faith and trust in God is beautiful🙏❤💞

  • @synettastone505
    @synettastone505 Месяц назад +2

    Praying for you guys❤❤

  • @tblanks2012
    @tblanks2012 24 дня назад

    Im sorry to hear that you're going through this pain and praying that God will open doors for you and your husband to conceive a child or even adopt an older child.
    I am also proud of the potential birth mama choosing to mother her baby. As a birth mom i placed my son in an open adoption almost 3 years ago to a couple who struggled with 11+ miscarriages and i truly felt compassion in knowing i could bring them the joy of a beautiful healthy baby boy. However, that was the hardest thing ive ever done and still continue to grieve the decision since the adoptive family made their decision to keep contact very limited. We are lucky to get pictures a few times a year..
    It is a sad reality of how many open adoptions close after the baby is received and the papers are signed and many birth parents are discarded regretting their decision.
    Thank you for sharing your vulnerable journey and truly i know God will bless you in His perfect timing there is nothing impossible for Him

  • @saara586
    @saara586 Месяц назад +1

    Praying for your blessing ! 🙏🏽

  • @katiehayward7530
    @katiehayward7530 Месяц назад +5

    So, sorry. You are right, God has the perfect child for your family.

  • @nush_vaz
    @nush_vaz Месяц назад +3

    Thank you for still keeping your faith❤

  • @user-ke1ym9nh3j
    @user-ke1ym9nh3j 28 дней назад +3

    While it may feel sad to you that baby got to stay with their mother, and that's the best thing that could ever happen for that child. Adoption is a tragic situation for mother and child.

  • @ShanaRRose
    @ShanaRRose Месяц назад +1

    I can’t imagine what you are both going through, I can however see the faith and trust that you approach this area of your lives with. I have no doubt that our Father loves and delights in you. He will continue to guide you, to protect, to provide, to pour His favor out in your marriage, in building a family, in business and every other part of your lives. We continue to pray and believe that you will have the fulfillment of the promise of children to raise up knowing how much God loves them and how much you love them too! Rather through adoption, naturally conceiving, through medical intervention, or maybe even all of the above, He will deliver everything He has spoken over you and deliver it into your hands. He will anoint you and illuminate your path. He is faithful to finish what He begins. I know that He will take away any sorrow and sadness and turn it into immeasurable happiness as you continue to wait on The Lord. Mourning and weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning. Be of good courage and He will strengthen your heart. Not only are the two of you in our prayers as well as the precious little ones that God has already chosen to be yours, we also pray for your family and friends, your church community, the people you lean on, the people that stand with you, that impart into your lives that they would continue to remind you that you are surrounded by His goodness, His healing, His hope, His wisdom, His favor, mercy and grace, and above all else, His unwavering, steadfast love. I’m looking forward to one day soon seeing a video on RUclips introducing all of us to the little one or little ones that He has chosen to entrust to you to raise in the wisdom and knowledge of God. To see a video with the baby, with the children that you will soon have the honor of dedicating to The Lord and raising them up to be known by Him, loved by Him and teaching them to walk in the ways of The Lord! Showing them daily how to love Him back by the way you live your lives, which is a beautiful example of a what a real relationship with The Father and His unconditional love looks like. With Jesus as Savior and friend, with The Holy Spirit as Comforter, as the one who illuminates and guides believers through The Word of God. Obviously He is so so so much more and I know you will teach them to pursue His heart and every part of who He is. We can’t wait to see your prayers answered in a way only God can do!

  • @Mirjam-van-vliet
    @Mirjam-van-vliet Месяц назад +2

    Went through the same and it is heartbreaking. But God had a plan and He send us a beautiful baby one month later. Dont give up, keep on trusting Him❤

  • @carysmith759
    @carysmith759 Месяц назад +1

    Praying for yall❤

  • @strawberryme08
    @strawberryme08 Месяц назад +1

    This happens a lot it’s heartbreaking I’m so sorry. I’m confident that you will get your baby soon. 😘 sending all the prayers!

  • @HoneyBee0316
    @HoneyBee0316 Месяц назад

    Im so sorry to hear that. Keep praying and trusting in the Lord. Im praying for you sis.

  • @Kelly_Hamm
    @Kelly_Hamm Месяц назад +1

    Praying for you @BrittanyDawn I’m so sorry God has the best plan for you just have to wait it’ll be worth it ❤

  • @alohafueled
    @alohafueled Месяц назад +1

    It’s really challenging. Have similar experience w/part of your story. It’s actually such a blessing for the child that people wanted her, you guys AND her birth mom/family. You never know how your faithful actions are influencing others…beyond what you perceive. He is faithful. Aloha n prayers ❤️🙏🏽

  • @stargazingcatgirl3233
    @stargazingcatgirl3233 Месяц назад +4

    I’m so sorry.
    Delayment is not always denial. I hope your time comes soon.

  • @mycupofcocoa1125
    @mycupofcocoa1125 Месяц назад +1

    I’m sorry to hear Britt ❤ I’m thinking ur going to be in the right situation and think God had it right.

  • @ericam.9571
    @ericam.9571 Месяц назад

    I’m so sorry to hear this news, especially since you have been through so much. It’s beautiful that when you could both easily be upset and turn away from God, you instead continue to give Him glory while holding steadfast to your faith. I believe that someday the Lord will show you how many people were encouraged and helped by your testimony. He always has a greater purpose and he will bless you greatly in the end. As you know, he remains Good even when we can’t understand His plan/timing. He is working and using you in the process. Praying that you remain encouraged and sending big hugs.
    🩷🩷🩷

  • @kelliwright1404
    @kelliwright1404 Месяц назад +1

    Praying for you guys 🙌🙌

  • @Cass6
    @Cass6 Месяц назад

    Praying for you and Jordan! Your time will come and you both will be awesome parents. Keep your faith strong and he will deliver. ❤

  • @jodybrand3076
    @jodybrand3076 Месяц назад +1

    Praying for all. 🙏 God’s will, God’s timing, peace that passes all understanding. 🙌🙌

  • @makaylacampbell289
    @makaylacampbell289 Месяц назад +1

    Gosh I truly feel for you after watching the journey. In mine and my whole family’s prayers.

  • @elliehenry9011
    @elliehenry9011 Месяц назад +4

    As a person who was adopted from China. I think most couple who are struggle with fertility, the couples does not think about adoption and how many babies need to be adopted by loving parent like y"all. I've been following your journey for awhile! I pray for y'all to adopt the baby The LORD has planned for y"all!♥

  • @ciliawillia9454
    @ciliawillia9454 Месяц назад +2

    That peace that only God can provide 🙌🏻🙏🏼praying for you both 🙏🏼 ❤

  • @emilyrobbiesmith
    @emilyrobbiesmith Месяц назад +2

    so proud of you guys ❤️

  • @landilanimkangama6558
    @landilanimkangama6558 Месяц назад +2

    God is on the throne, he is with you, and this journey will wnd in praise.. sending you guys love

  • @crazyaboutmakeup
    @crazyaboutmakeup Месяц назад +1

    God bless you both and thank you for sharing. Even though I’m not waiting on a baby like you I have plenty other things I can apply waiting in my life and this helps me by seeing your strength and conviction helps more than you know ❤❤🙌

  • @jayceeneudorf-ob9rk
    @jayceeneudorf-ob9rk Месяц назад +1

    Praying for you both ❤️

  • @rmukuzwazwa
    @rmukuzwazwa Месяц назад +16

    How did i know this would happen? I could have written this myself. They posted the last video knowing that they weren't getting the baby. All for views and money. Disgraceful.

  • @user-xc7lv8iv2s
    @user-xc7lv8iv2s Месяц назад +1

    God is with you guys🙏🏻

  • @perle13930
    @perle13930 Месяц назад +5

    Children don’t change your lifestyle, you integrate them

    • @Chilerellanos-nf6en
      @Chilerellanos-nf6en Месяц назад +5

      They probably werent gonna be allowed to show her on social media i think thats what she meant by lifestyle change 😂

  • @Raisingwildminds
    @Raisingwildminds Месяц назад +6

    Oh guys I'm so sorry ❤ The Lord is preparing your miracle. Praying that your hearts are filled with peace, in Jesus' name.