As a woman who grew up without a father and only had a narcissistic mother, there is something so peaceful and paternal about you and your videos. I love it. ❤️ Maybe I’m projecting lmaooo😅
Thank you for helping so many by sharing this information. My mom is malignant narcissist and at 52 I'm still being affected. 6 yrs no real contact and received text today. Now filled again with guilt
Self-preservation is not something to feel guilty for. Trust yourself and your intuition. Sometimes I think it is very helpful to write down all the reasons you had to go no contact. When you start to doubt yourself, all that out and read it to remind yourself. All my best to you.
I’m not offended that you touched briefly on how projection and gaslighting has recently played out in the American political arena. It’s not the first time and unfortunately it won’t be the last. It’s a real-world example and relatable. If psychological concepts are relegated to intellectualism and not applied to common human behavior and experience - how useful can it really be?! Dr. Bandy X. Lee and hundreds of colleagues raised concerns about how psychology applied to what they were witnessing behaviorally in the political arena. Unfortunately they were suppressed by the APA, who misapplied the Goldwater rule. I’m looking forward to learning more about defense mechanisms!
Hallo, great content. May i give you one tip. Don't put music under it. It makes it harder for the real message to come through. Thanks for the insight on projection.
This guy I just met said he thought I wanted to be around him 24/7. Not sure if that was projection or just dismissive avoidant fear, but it was certainly ridiculous.
Projection…. My wife ranting that my friend was cheating on his wife for 4 years…… a month or 2 later found out wife my had married boyfriend for at least 3 years. To the see the projection it’s really creepy it’s just real with these narcs
Projection…In a recent relationship, it felt as though I was being caddy/coy when asked very personal questions. In my mind, I had already worked through my trauma(s) enough to where I don’t feel the need to talk about them in depth but ‘I was wrong’ for not delving into my past? That’s my past, my pain. I felt as though it was being projected onto me if I didn’t indulge…then I wasn’t being upfront and honest. Personally, I don’t want to go back and relive my past. I’m not hiding anything…just trying to move on and live in the present. Am I wrong for feeling this way?
I question why when mentioning political projection that you didn't bring up the notion that half of the citizens of the US were called fascists if they don't agree with certain political views.
This was my take. He is projecting and biased. He could be wrong as well. 🤷🏼♀️i think I’m out. Looking for a good solid definition with examples that or more relational than his political views. As far as I’m concerned; not that it matters but both sides of the political are arena are doing what the other is doing 😂. It’s designed that way. lol 😂
I think you do a great job at explaining things in a clear and easy to understand method, but please do not ever again use a political example. It simply showed your personal opinion and bias rather than a concrete and factual example. Perhaps a future theme for a video should be the workings of brainwashing and propaganda of the masses.
@@jimbrillon I forgot to ask a question that perhaps you could address at some point. I understand your point about projection and it is valid. But how do you prove your claim in the political example you gave that the last election was lost rather than rigged? How do you prove that you and many others are not the victims of brainwashing and a propaganda agenda by the owners of all of the media? (All of the media in our country is owned by only 6 companies - all backing the DEM Party and under the auspices of the NWO - those are facts). How can you be certain that this was a conspiracy issue with the "MEGA supporters"? How can you be certain that the Mega supporters are not the ones fighting against the destruction of our country - especially since the primary financier of the DEM Party - George Soros - publically states that his number one goal is to destroy the United States of America and is videoed as saying so? You certainly have your opinion about the election, but the entire world has more than sufficient facts and evidence of a rigged election that's been completely stolen and covered up, so perhaps it would be a wise thing to do a video explaining how to determine one's own opinion as opposed to reality and FACTS. You used the example of the Nazi Holocaust and yet, so many people are not seeing the exact process being played out here in our last election. It was as far from a conspiracy as Hitler was from the Holocaust! The citizens who toured the concentration camps afterward and were forced to see the ovens where Jews were burned, all exclaimed that they were deceived and tricked into believing Hitler's deadly delusion. How do people today know whether the same thing is happening again with the NWO and their plans against America? I for one would be extremely interested in knowing how exactly a person establishes reality from simply an opinion, especially in this insane world. I really do enjoy your videos and think this is a most critical question to be addressed as it seems the world today is becoming more unhinged by the minute. Thanks for your help - and God bless!
@@dude4173 Now that it is a year after this video has been produced, I stand by my comment since it has been proven that the media was the source of propaganda and lies and we have proof now that the election really was stolen and have so much evidence of interference in conjunction with the far left. Time shows the truth when it comes to political matters and so making a statement on such is bound to change. As such, perhaps a more stable example should be used.
it's kinda annoying that projection being explained is always in a 1-on-1 situation, though people also project on a 3rd party, just to deal with frustration with their spouse for example
I am 61 and after 35 years I'm getting out of toxic marriage. This hits home. Omg.
This is so good. It's difficult to do I'm trying..i think 2023 is my year to finally break free from the toxic abusive marriage.
As a woman who grew up without a father and only had a narcissistic mother, there is something so peaceful and paternal about you and your videos. I love it. ❤️
Maybe I’m projecting lmaooo😅
I agree: projection and gaslighting can be done on a collective or individual level.
Thank you for helping so many by sharing this information. My mom is malignant narcissist and at 52 I'm still being affected. 6 yrs no real contact and received text today. Now filled again with guilt
Stay strong my friend you're not alone.💜
Self-preservation is not something to feel guilty for. Trust yourself and your intuition. Sometimes I think it is very helpful to write down all the reasons you had to go no contact. When you start to doubt yourself, all that out and read it to remind yourself. All my best to you.
I’m not offended that you touched briefly on how projection and gaslighting has recently played out in the American political arena. It’s not the first time and unfortunately it won’t be the last. It’s a real-world example and relatable. If psychological concepts are relegated to intellectualism and not applied to common human behavior and experience - how useful can it really be?!
Dr. Bandy X. Lee and hundreds of colleagues raised concerns about how psychology applied to what they were witnessing behaviorally in the political arena. Unfortunately they were suppressed by the APA, who misapplied the Goldwater rule.
I’m looking forward to learning more about defense mechanisms!
My ex Narcissist husband was always accusing other straight men of being gay
I just found your channel in a short and subscribed ASAP. You have interesting information that you are projecting out to us. Thank you for that:-)
Hallo, great content. May i give you one tip. Don't put music under it. It makes it harder for the real message to come through. Thanks for the insight on projection.
This guy I just met said he thought I wanted to be around him 24/7. Not sure if that was projection or just dismissive avoidant fear, but it was certainly ridiculous.
Thanks for the video!!!
Projection…. My wife ranting that my friend was cheating on his wife for 4 years…… a month or 2 later found out wife my had married boyfriend for at least 3 years. To the see the projection it’s really creepy it’s just real with these narcs
Thank you so much for this information seriously
Yes
❤ Excellent video
In my opinion these vids can do without the politics.
Projection…In a recent relationship, it felt as though I was being caddy/coy when asked very personal questions. In my mind, I had already worked through my trauma(s) enough to where I don’t feel the need to talk about them in depth but ‘I was wrong’ for not delving into my past? That’s my past, my pain. I felt as though it was being projected onto me if I didn’t indulge…then I wasn’t being upfront and honest. Personally, I don’t want to go back and relive my past. I’m not hiding anything…just trying to move on and live in the present. Am I wrong for feeling this way?
I question why when mentioning political projection that you didn't bring up the notion that half of the citizens of the US were called fascists if they don't agree with certain political views.
His defense mechanisms are too strong, he'll never accept your logic.
5 months of ignoring the OP's comment proved he's too rigid to see or acknowledge his own bias. Very disappointed in him.
This was my take. He is projecting and biased. He could be wrong as well. 🤷🏼♀️i think I’m out. Looking for a good solid definition with examples that or more relational than his political views. As far as I’m concerned; not that it matters but both sides of the political are arena are doing what the other is doing 😂. It’s designed that way. lol 😂
Can two people be projecting at same time on each other?
Hi Mary, absolutely, this can happen.
Don't forget the toxic climate cult.
I think you do a great job at explaining things in a clear and easy to understand method, but please do not ever again use a political example. It simply showed your personal opinion and bias rather than a concrete and factual example. Perhaps a future theme for a video should be the workings of brainwashing and propaganda of the masses.
Hi Lin, with all due respect, I think we need to be able to name behaviors wherever we see them. All my best to you...
@@jimbrillon
With all due respect back to you, I agree - WHEN the behavior is in context and not portrayed in a way that promotes the media's bias.
@@jimbrillon I forgot to ask a question that perhaps you could address at some point. I understand your point about projection and it is valid. But how do you prove your claim in the political example you gave that the last election was lost rather than rigged? How do you prove that you and many others are not the victims of brainwashing and a propaganda agenda by the owners of all of the media? (All of the media in our country is owned by only 6 companies - all backing the DEM Party and under the auspices of the NWO - those are facts). How can you be certain that this was a conspiracy issue with the "MEGA supporters"? How can you be certain that the Mega supporters are not the ones fighting against the destruction of our country - especially since the primary financier of the DEM Party - George Soros - publically states that his number one goal is to destroy the United States of America and is videoed as saying so? You certainly have your opinion about the election, but the entire world has more than sufficient facts and evidence of a rigged election that's been completely stolen and covered up, so perhaps it would be a wise thing to do a video explaining how to determine one's own opinion as opposed to reality and FACTS.
You used the example of the Nazi Holocaust and yet, so many people are not seeing the exact process being played out here in our last election. It was as far from a conspiracy as Hitler was from the Holocaust! The citizens who toured the concentration camps afterward and were forced to see the ovens where Jews were burned, all exclaimed that they were deceived and tricked into believing Hitler's deadly delusion. How do people today know whether the same thing is happening again with the NWO and their plans against America? I for one would be extremely interested in knowing how exactly a person establishes reality from simply an opinion, especially in this insane world.
I really do enjoy your videos and think this is a most critical question to be addressed as it seems the world today is becoming more unhinged by the minute. Thanks for your help - and God bless!
Why? It fits perfectly…
@@dude4173 Now that it is a year after this video has been produced, I stand by my comment since it has been proven that the media was the source of propaganda and lies and we have proof now that the election really was stolen and have so much evidence of interference in conjunction with the far left. Time shows the truth when it comes to political matters and so making a statement on such is bound to change. As such, perhaps a more stable example should be used.
Political projection goes both ways.
Your left wing blindside reduces the value of your work. Look at politics now and try to see the agenda is just as destructive as far right.
it's kinda annoying that projection being explained is always in a 1-on-1 situation, though people also project on a 3rd party, just to deal with frustration with their spouse for example