the ivy league and what no one talks about
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i love to give a complete picture when describing things--especially college-- and so that leaves me to talk about hustle culture at yale university. i will admit, it is subtle. yet, it is very much there. in this video I go in-depth on how hustle culture shows up at yale, why it is harmful, and what ar some ways to combat it. this is a hard subject to talk about, and most people want to skip by it, but it is 100% part of the ivy college experience.
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I definitely agree with how school now a days except students to constantly work, whether that’s a job, attending more classes or accepting a postín for an internship. The hustle culture will burn you out and I’m glad that you are bringing more awareness to this situation because it’s real! Mental health is just as important (even more tbh) than what’s on your resume.
yes yes yEs mental health is so important && definitely want it to be focused on soooo much more than it is :)
@@HannahMariaXX i guess the plus side of this pandemic had made people realize how toxic the hustle culture is. Which does make us focus more on our mental health.
@@Conmaritzzzaa yess i agree! definitely
@@Conmaritzzzaa Unfortunately, in the post-pandemic world, we're back to square one as far as hustling is concerned...
I went to Yale! I graduated in December 2021. I really struggled with my mental health in college and I know it's no secret that a lot of students do, particularly undergrads. Looking back, I put so much unnecessary pressure on myself, and I wish I hadn't. I think there were so many constructed expectations at Yale that do not translate into the postgrad world, *especially* if you are a liberal arts major. For example - the pressure to have various extracurriculars and always be "doing something" is not necessary or realistic. It's a lot better to focus on gaining work-related experience outside of college that speaks to you personally, even on-campus jobs (my semester job at the YUAG helped me get the job I have now, which I love). Extracurriculars do not hold as much weight on a resume as internships or jobs. You don't have to follow a formula in order to make it through Yale. Truly the best thing you can do is focus on what you're passionate about - or, if you're still figuring that out, enjoy your classes and learn as much as possible so that towards the end, you can synthesize all you've learned and determine your next steps postgrad. 💕
Living in Australia and growing up in England, it’s hard to me to understand the constant push that seems so common in the states to work yourself into the ground, and the constant pressure of success. It makes me sad that there must be so much burn out among young people over there. I really liked watching your video and what you said, I think it’s very important to have that balance xx
i wish american culture had gap years. i took one and got accepted to an elite uni
Hi, is the Australia system easier? I graduated from Ivy League and if the best University in Australia is easier, I may consider doing my doctoral program there. But I'm talking about the best of the best university there in Australia. Thanks!
@@erxijie916 Graduate school is another bag of beans. Also, what's considered the "best of the best" to you will depend on the discipline you want to pursue, but a starting point for you should be the Group of Eight (Go8) universities...
It’s a choice. You can easily choose another college, it’s just a business at the end of the day.
Ahh thank you so much for this! I’m going to an ivy next year and I’m definitely worried about the stress/hustle culture
i think that if you are prepared & have support & truly think the ivy league is the best option for you, it is worth it & is do-able!!
Hey Hannah, I'm a huge fan of your RUclips videos especially the Yale ones. I'm a high schooler considering applying to Yale I have a question for you, and it'd be great if you answer. I was thinking about writing about my traumatic experience for my college essay, not for pity or anything but I want to showcase my growth. Is it a good idea or would it be I come off as a sympathy seeker?
And one more thing, what grade should you start seeing a college counsellor?
it depends how you write it! i would definitely have a lot of people look it over and also make sure you focus on the good that came out of it/what shaped you/why relates to your career goals/etc! and i would say asap!
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Stop doing this. Future employers may view your vids with suspicion.
Getting A’s is not easy for some people, but it is for others. I work hard for the A’s and B’s I get, but people who haven't put as much effort as I have, get better scores. It's just frustrating that my best isn't enough for academic excellence.
i feel that, and it sucks! just know that whatever level of academic success you acheive does not define you. there is so much more in this world, and you have so much value by just existing and doing life!
@@HannahMariaXX tysm :D
Everything you said in this video is just so pure and beautiful. It didn't just apply on being a student but as a person, in general.
yess thank you so much love!!!
I'm currently a high school senior and am looking forward to applying to Yale! Just wanted to say I love your videos!!! Whether big or small, I always see some resemblance or similarities between us. I'm wishing you lots of growth and happiness! I always say this to everyone and I suck at accepting my own advice, but mental health should always come first! You're amazing
thank you so so much! i feel the same ab accepting my own advice lol, we'll work on it! definitely hard to prioritize mental health but we all can start small :))
So how did you do? What school are you attending?
Exactly what I needed to hear today! I really relate to the duck floating on water analogy.
yay! that makes me so happy to hear. you are definitely not alone & we will get through this together--struggles and all!!
omg a firend of mine, who's also a yale student, talked to me about how she was a bit disappointed about the academics in yale during her first year. she told me there wasn't a huge like "wow" moment. you're so genuine, thank you.
yes exactly! and thank youuu for watching🥺🥰
I'm so scared that I'm going to screw up my essay. My heart is literally pounding
i know how scary it is but at the same time just try to be you. remember that it is not the end of the world to not get into an ivy league & romanticize life not only within an ivy league but if you don’t get in! some rlly amazing ppl did not go to yale so remember that & maybe it will help w the nerves!
The whole concept of the ivy league is ridiculous 🤦🏻♂️ Got my 10 year old having anxiety attacks about her grades 😠 Pathetic!! An electrician or butcher can become a millionaire
yea its hard when kids put pressure like that, ive been there
Hi Hannah!
As a Stanford student I wanted to tell everyone seeing this video that the Duck Syndrome is very real! It truly is easy to romanticize college, but remember that it is not an end goal but just the beginning of another phase in your life. I know a lot of you are High Schoolers about to apply to college, so it's important to keep these and Hannah's words in mind!
As for you, Hannah, I wanted to thank you for talking about these issues. I began thinking about them and reflecting on my own experience and it was incredibly gratifying to see someone relating to them. I think your video also helped me process a few thoughts. Never get tired of helping others!
yes yes! thank you sooo much!!
thank you for sharing this. so many people need to hear this. this is so reassuring and authentic overall to hear this as a high school student!
yayy im glad you liked it ah means so much❤️
I’m so glad you make this video. Last year I pressured myself a lot into a burnt-out where I had to take a break. I want to go to a top-tier university although I’m preparing for the pressure and hard work, my mental health scares me.
yes i wish i was more knowledgeable about the culture here!
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What did you expect it? Yale is one of the best universities in the world, a walk in the park? Of course, not. College in general is hard, nonetheless in the ivy, the best of the best! Let me tell you a fact of life: The struggles are not only on the Ivy schools, but the struggles are part of life. Life is NOT easy! Every stage of life is hard. When you are in school, your focus should be your classes and grades, and you don't have to be in any club if you don't want to. You don't have to take summer classes either if you don't want to if you are going to feel burned out. Just don't do it. You just need to adjust, don't do what everybody does, do what is good for you! I guess nobody prepared you to what to expect, but you are already there which is a privilege in itself, and stop complaining and enjoy it while you are there because what is coming is harder than just getting good grades! Your generation is too weak, always depressed and feeling sorry for themselves, you guys have it too easy that expect everything to be handle to you!
Damn...you didn't have to be so harsh. If you don't have anything good to say then do not say anything at all. SIMPLE.
lol thank u @beehappy650
Go out every night and gaze at the moon for 20-30min. Ask for your wishes. This will calm you can keep you focused. You can do sun gazing first hour or last to get more energy and combat depression. This is mother nature’s way to heal her babies- that who we are. Just try and you will be amazed after a few days. If you need energy during the day- put feet on ground and look straight up to the sky and ask for divine guidance- it takes doing it a few times. Keep asking with open heart.
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Would taking a normal full-time course load and joining just 1 or 2 clubs that really interest you not be a choice at Yale? If someone does just that, would being a student at Yale be as overwhelming as you pointed out? Just out of curiosity from a parent's perspective.
that is pretty much what i do (3 clubs currently tho) soooo i feel like it depends! it depends on a lot of things: (1) the high school preparation...i did not go to a preparatory high school, but many of me peers did. coming from a low-income background, i definitely was not prepared (comparatively) for intensity of work & level required. (2) depends on the course load. a full-time load can be anywhere from 3.5 credits (like 3 classes) to 5 credits/classes && each type of class has a varying amount of work expected/learning curve so scheduling is very important. (3) how demanding the clubs are/what the students' role is in them (4) how much of a general social life one wants to have ...etc. i hope this helps!
really appreciate this video!!❤️
so happy!!
I love your videos and I’m just like you. I’m Christian snd my dream is to go to Yale. Can you please do another video on tips on how to get into Yale?
awww i love to hear that! yes i will!
Most important. Who are your parents and what do they do?
construction & physical therapist assistant!
Why is that important?
"Everyone acts as if getting As in all classes is not that hard, but it is"
Well, how about getting yourself into a place that is out of your comfort zone, but not by that much. Ambition should not fall too far from talent. Otherwise you are harming yourself, as well as society (habits of rushed studying methods can manifest to habits of rushed results at work just to get that promotion, that can probably result in some dangerous mistake)
Such a real discussion 👏🏾
Hey I recently got into the MDiv program at Yale for this coming Fall 2024. I'm an international student coming from Canada. I noticed you are Christian, and would really appreciate if you could share what your experience was like in finding a Christian community at Yale/New Haven. Thanks in advance!
congrats! Christian community is great in New Haven. there are gorups for grad students specifically (not sure the name), a lot of churches, and the elm institute which is a place for intellectual discussion among Christians. it is really easy to get involved with the body of Chirst if you are intentional!
Thank you for this video! I don't normally like responding to RUclips videos, but I've felt so inspired by this.
I'm definitely in the same boat as you, and the pressure to succeed in my life is high. But this video reminded me what matters most in life.
Keep this up! Keeping being you! And may the Lord Bless and guide you on your path!
i’m so glad this impacted you! you got this❤️
For anyone who’s feeling down:
Romans 8:18 “The pain you’ve been feeling can’t compare to the joy that is coming!” John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Whatever is going on right now, have faith, your situation will get better. :) Jesus bless anyone reading this and have a great day!!🥰✨💖
I love this!! Spot on and thank you for the reference to the NY times article too I enjoyed reading it. I'm also curious to learn about how based on the hustle culture at ivy leagues like Yale, what is the student life balance like? More specifically if you would consider your school also a "party school" where students have that work hard, play hard mentality? I'm curious because these days I've been thinking a lot about how many universities in the world are considered "party schools" whereas others are not, and how in life you will meet different people, some who work hard so that they can then party and let loose, and others who don't think that's their scene and are more academically-oriented. (I guess you can have both though)
i definitely think there is both because i know both types of people...im def not a party person but yea soo i wouldn’t consider yale a party school but there is definitely a good amount of parties too haha
Omg do your shit on time, or best... early Literally everyone else in the Ivy League has been able to do it. You’ll get through it like we all did =)
lol i do thts not what i was talking ab in the video but ok my dude
@@HannahMariaXX Lmfaoo I love you already haha you really said my dude 😂💀
@@naomia472 HA ❤️❤️ but likeee it true thoo lol