Same with my dad... never was around to even ridicule me.. absolutely absent. Only met him once and I didn't even know he was my dad until my mom told me when we drove off....
Ash, you’ve done so well and learnt so much - you’ve sucked up those DBT skills like a sponge! You’d actually make a really good therapist if you decided to go down that path in the future. Keep up the great work!
Thank you for sharing! I really got some really good ideas about how to stay connected and how important it is to not isolate yourself! You’re amazing!
You have inspired me so much and you’re absolutely gorgeous! I haven’t been diagnosed w/ BPd, but I have bipolar, ptsd and major depression with symptoms of bpd. Seeking help now. I just want to say thank you! And to keep creating videos like this as they help me out words to my thoughts and feelings. ❤❤❤❤
My dad is also absent from my life and was absent in a lot of ways throughout my childhood. Me and my sister had to cut him out of our lives many years ago because of some traumatizing things that he did that he wouldn’t admit to doing. It’s very very difficult to lose a parent because it’s a part of you that always feels “missing” you know what I mean? Healing from that takes a lot of time and it isn’t always a one and done deal, so I can really empathize with you Ashira. I am so sorry your father made you feel like you don’t deserve to be in this world because you are such an open and honest and beautiful person inside and out. Like my therapist says to me, YOU ARE A TRUTH TELLER! ♥️
i really can relate to what you are saying and i'm in the same situation as you atm 2023 i wanna focus on taking myself on dates and take more care about me listening to your video really helped me and it feels good to know i'm not the only one struggling with lonliness we can do this!!
Wish I watched this before Xmas & new year to start me off with a good mindset like how you explained social media triggers. Regardless, I'm grateful to have watched this and resonate so much with you. Thank you truly ❤
I relate to everything listed in this video. I'm experiencing a big moment of loneliness recently, and i think that all the things you said are right ❤️ loving yourself is important, and i'm still learning to do that. Thank you for this video ❤️❤️
Yes. Today I went onto Instagram and saw that someone I used to live near had just given birth to their second child and I had two feelings the first was happiness for her and her family and it morphed into, why can't I have this? Why aren't I good enough for this experience? And more along those lines. I have a Son, a wonderful, amazing, sweetheart of a boy who I love more than anything, I feel I've failed him for not keeping his family together and being able to give him siblings the way I wanted. Things went sideways from the day I found out I was pregnant and I'm still processing/healing. Sorry for the rant it's just nice to know I'm heard/that I'm not the only one From the UK
Thanks for this! I recently was diagnosed with BPD and…well I haven’t been taking it well. 😅 your videos have been a HUGE help in me seeing the light in being diagnosed and how it’s possible to live with this. ❤
I'm really grateful as well that I found one of your videos and landed on this one. There is some really great advice that I need to remember. I'm on my own journey right now with my mental health and loneliness is one thing I am struggling with, even with friends and family I am still finding the fact not everyone understands or knows what to do lonely and I rely on others too much. I need to really learn some self-worth and self-love. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. I am 42 but it still applies at my age too. ❤
You really helped me with this video, I’m glad I came across it. You’re not alone! You are so loved and special! You are beautiful inside and out queen! And I know you’ll find your group of people when the time is right, I find it helpful to pray to God to choose the people that I should be surrounded by because it sure is better to be alone than in bad company. So we just have to be careful who we become friends with as well!
I’m off social media too. It hurts to see everyone else doing something fun
I’m so grateful for this video. I’m in the same life situation and that’s what i needed to watch and hear, thank you so much ❤️
Same with my dad... never was around to even ridicule me.. absolutely absent. Only met him once and I didn't even know he was my dad until my mom told me when we drove off....
❤❤❤ thank you for sharing, I'm so sorry this happened - some people aren't meant to be parents 😞
It's best not to have no friends at all because alot of people nowadays don't know what true friendship is
Ash, you’ve done so well and learnt so much - you’ve sucked up those DBT skills like a sponge! You’d actually make a really good therapist if you decided to go down that path in the future. Keep up the great work!
I also have BPD 😥 relate to your story a lot. I’ve gone from arts to real estate - and now I want to move on again.
Thank you for sharing! I really got some really good ideas about how to stay connected and how important it is to not isolate yourself! You’re amazing!
Your calming voice and pretty face brings peace to my soul. ❤ I love how personable your videos are felt like you was talking to me directly
You have inspired me so much and you’re absolutely gorgeous! I haven’t been diagnosed w/ BPd, but I have bipolar, ptsd and major depression with symptoms of bpd. Seeking help now. I just want to say thank you! And to keep creating videos like this as they help me out words to my thoughts and feelings. ❤❤❤❤
you are so emotionally stable
My dad is also absent from my life and was absent in a lot of ways throughout my childhood. Me and my sister had to cut him out of our lives many years ago because of some traumatizing things that he did that he wouldn’t admit to doing. It’s very very difficult to lose a parent because it’s a part of you that always feels “missing” you know what I mean? Healing from that takes a lot of time and it isn’t always a one and done deal, so I can really empathize with you Ashira. I am so sorry your father made you feel like you don’t deserve to be in this world because you are such an open and honest and beautiful person inside and out. Like my therapist says to me, YOU ARE A TRUTH TELLER! ♥️
i really can relate to what you are saying and i'm in the same situation as you atm
2023 i wanna focus on taking myself on dates and take more care about me
listening to your video really helped me and it feels good to know i'm not the only one struggling with lonliness
we can do this!!
This is relatable and comforting. Thank u ❤️
Wish I watched this before Xmas & new year to start me off with a good mindset like how you explained social media triggers. Regardless, I'm grateful to have watched this and resonate so much with you. Thank you truly ❤
❤❤❤❤❤ sending you light and love
Love this. I’ve just been diagnosed with BPD so it’s nice to hear that I’m not alone in this. Great tips!
I relate to everything listed in this video. I'm experiencing a big moment of loneliness recently, and i think that all the things you said are right ❤️ loving yourself is important, and i'm still learning to do that. Thank you for this video ❤️❤️
Yes. Today I went onto Instagram and saw that someone I used to live near had just given birth to their second child and I had two feelings the first was happiness for her and her family and it morphed into, why can't I have this? Why aren't I good enough for this experience? And more along those lines.
I have a Son, a wonderful, amazing, sweetheart of a boy who I love more than anything, I feel I've failed him for not keeping his family together and being able to give him siblings the way I wanted.
Things went sideways from the day I found out I was pregnant and I'm still processing/healing.
Sorry for the rant it's just nice to know I'm heard/that I'm not the only one
From the UK
I love your hair your so beautiful
Thanks for this! I recently was diagnosed with BPD and…well I haven’t been taking it well. 😅 your videos have been a HUGE help in me seeing the light in being diagnosed and how it’s possible to live with this. ❤
I'm really grateful as well that I found one of your videos and landed on this one. There is some really great advice that I need to remember. I'm on my own journey right now with my mental health and loneliness is one thing I am struggling with, even with friends and family I am still finding the fact not everyone understands or knows what to do lonely and I rely on others too much. I need to really learn some self-worth and self-love. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. I am 42 but it still applies at my age too. ❤
Yay thank you for posting! 😊 I can relate to a lot ❤
You really helped me with this video, I’m glad I came across it. You’re not alone! You are so loved and special! You are beautiful inside and out queen! And I know you’ll find your group of people when the time is right, I find it helpful to pray to God to choose the people that I should be surrounded by because it sure is better to be alone than in bad company. So we just have to be careful who we become friends with as well!
Been a rough year. I needed this. Thank you.
For me when I go in public and see literally everyone w/ someone it makes me really feel insecure and sad . I dk what to do at this point
You want friends, first learn to be friendly
If you want love, learn to be Lovable
If you want to get, give out that same energy.
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