Hello ma'am, thank you so much for the tips. I'd do well to practice them. However, do you think this is applicable to public speaking and voice acting? Cause, I personally feel it's apt only during a conversation not during presentation. As we're always told to put life into our presentation during public speaking and voice over, depending on what you're trying to pass across. It shouldn't be calm all the way. I'm confused at this point, cause I'm someone who speaks calmly at the start of a public presentation, but in the process I begin to sound energetic, rush my words and put much emphasis into my presentation. Though, I usually notice the rapt attention in my audience , which has always given me the notion of a good public speaker, but stumbling on your video yesterday, makes me ask myself if I was doing it right or are these tips majorly meant for dialoguing?
@chellyberk fun fact, I’m holding a training next month and one of the feedback I received was that my voice is too calm and it’ll put the participants to sleep. I laughed because my conversation voice and presentation voice are two different things so you’re right. This is helpful during personal conversations while you want to be energetic and “perform” during public speaking or a presentation.
I wish I could say I “stumbled” across this video but I didn’t. I absolutely looked up “how to speak softer” and your video popped up. I really felt weird about looking this up because I’ve kinda accepted that I’m an aggressive talker. But I no longer want that for me. I’ve been happily single for about 2 years and focusing on growing my business. But I think that has put me deeeeeep in my masculine energy and I noticed I’m so unaligned with my energy. I want to be more intentional with the way I speak. Thank you
I am literally trying to teach my children this. Or I should say unteach them this bad habit I taught them. Ahhh joys of motherhood... most times I feel like I am learning just as much as they are! Makes me wish I didn't wait till my 30s to have my first child!
it's so funny how difficult yet easy this is. it's difficult to break away from what your used to and your habits, but it's so easy because soft, beautiful, femininity is our nature.
Tell me about it. The first step for me was to accept that change was possible. I grew up in a house with really strong women who would often neglect their feminine energy. So for me, that was what I should aspire to be like.
when i was younger (teens to early 20s) i had a very soft, feminine voice. i loved my voice and they way i spoke. then something traumatic happened to me and i realized my voice totally changed. i lost my old personality almost in my voice, the way i speak sounds so flat and harsh and i hate it. i've been watching videos to try to break free from that and find my voice again and yours has been so helpful!!
Speaking in the mirror may help. I’m the same way. My voice is very high pitched. I’m also a teacher with ADD. I’m extremely impulsive. I’m recently into my mid-fifties and about to retire. I want to sound different.
I appreciate your authentic voice in the video. Unlike other videos where the voice feels forced, yours feels genuine. Also, those examples you included? Absolute perfection! *Chef's kiss*
I didn't realize that I talked too much until I sat down with a new friend who talked a lot. It was soooo exhausting for me to keep up with the conversations and usually just excused myself. After 2 or 3 encounters with him I started questioning my own character of speech and I realized I sounded just like him to other people's ears. So now before I talk, I often ask myself if it's necessary and mind my tone. I'm glad I came across this video as it has given me more insights. Thank you so much.
I searched out lessons on becoming a more elegant woman. I grew up in a chaotic, violent, loud, fear induced home and my behavior was a direct reflection on the position my father had in the church. When I left home, the bubble I was raised in, I left those behaviors behind too. The problem is I adopted new ones. This video sparked the interest in continuing to discover who I am. Thank you
I love this. I have a deep voice but still feminine. I like it and I really appreciate that you specified we don’t have to speak in a childish way. These were wonderful tips. I love your channel.
I started my soft last journey without even knowing, I noticed I was always loud and I needed to be more calm and elegant so I started working on myself. Thank you girl for this video is really helpful ❤
Back to school is coming soon and I'm moving to a new high school with people I don't know so I want there to be another look at me. I want to be more feminine and take care of myself more and I want to become stronger and more assertive. I want everyone who sees me to remember me and be noticed. And i'm working on this✨🧜🏻♀️
here because when i’m on the phone w my distant family, they tell me i sound like my 10 year old brother. i’m an 18 yr old woman aspiring to change that. thank you for this video!
I stumbled upon this video and I don’t think it was a coincidence because I am on this journey of self development. I have never been a girly girl, not that I haven’t tried, it just always felt like something forced. Anyway I’m being very intentional about changing the way I speak, because I find that I am little aggressive and unnecessarily too. Thank you for posting this! Thank you for building women! Cheers Queen 🥂👑
A lot of older ladies speak so softly and elegantly as if that were more the norm back when they were my age. It is so charming and makes them more attractive. Also the same with little girls when they speak. I have been on this journey for a minute and have gotten much better over the past 2 years and one of the most amazing perks is how much faster and more efficient customer service (whether male or female) helps me! I love it!
I’m an extremely moody, passionate and impulsive person. I’m a very bossy, assertive, firm yet fair teacher that grew up with lots of males and violence. I’ve been through some very traumatic experiences in my lifetime. I want to become a little softer.
Voice indicates psychological, mental and physical health. Voice has a big secret. I usually don't listen to the channels because when I hear their voices I feel like they need to fix themselves before they give advice. But when I watch you, I listen to you to the end, and the secret is your voice, because it is real and comes from within you. I appreciate your advice and thank you very much. Sending you energy of love and peace
This was soo me till the kids start popping out,4 kids now and i can't even recognise my own voice cos of the constant talking,my kids are super super active and is a whole lot of talking on loudly daily,i pray i work it out amen
I truly needed this. I am a loud person. My friend keeps telling me to lower my voice while talking... it's so embarrassing. I stutter and it is natural so I tend to use energy to pronounce some words. Thank you for this video
My voice is naturally strong, and due to some trauma of my own, aggression has unfortunately been added to the mix. I'm seeking out videos like this as I heal from the trauma so I can move forward in a softer way. I wanted to share this just to encourage you that you're not alone, and WE can absolutely develop the voices we desire 🙏🏻💓
I grew up being a tomboy (only girl in the family) and never really had the chance to be a "woman" but always the "sister" and "daughter" so I have this feminine voice but talk like a tomboy… With practice I’ve learned to speak more feminine but still need practice.. I am so nervous when it comes to dating, what if I talk like a dude? But the 1st tip is really useful, I will use that. Another tip is to find a famous woman who have a feminine voice that you similarly want, and mimic the way she speaks. Thank you for this
This video answered prayer literally...I listened over and over my voice notes and I questioned all of it and I realized it is definitely misunderstood due to some of the tones and the pace .... simply amazing! Definitely making the adjustments 👏🏽👏🏽 Thanks dear.
This was very helpful, I am going through a lot dealing with my bi-polar disorder. My partner unfortunately has to deal with this harshness that can come with my emotions the most. I really believe this is going to help save my relationship.
I often get mistaken for a man when I talk because my voice is not only quite deep, but also kinda harsh and loud. Not like screaming loud, but just has a lot of chest power, you know. Kinda as if I'm holding a speech on stage with no microphone. So I've been wanting to just speak more softly. I think that alone will help a lot, because I do notice I get treated much better on the rare occasions I actually manage to speak softly. I do however already speak clearly, with lots of melody/variation, kinda slowly, and I've always been very keen about my pronounciation. I do try to avoid excessive filler words, but they do come out a lot still when I'm nervous. So I appreciate your advice here, it's very helpful!
Thank you for this video. I'm attempting to describe a feminine voice of one of my characters in a book I'm writing, and your video was far more helpful than any other video I cam across.
The older I get, the less emphasis I place on appearance although that is always a consideration. But now I pay much more attention to a woman’s voice. Soft, slow, intentional, good enunciation and throw in pleasant eye contact and I find this very alluring and attractive. Loud, vindictive, sarcastic or antagonistic speech is an instant turn off for me. Another side note is the volume of speech. I find that too many women simply talk too much. Just some observations from the male perspective. And I actually got a few ideas that I need to work on my own speech as a man.
i enjoy using " like, uhm, and right " softly in conversation tbh, in a girlish way i practice this particularly with other gfs it's more to use for fun
I really like your video teaching women how to speak more feminine. What I learned from you is that I can speak in my natural raspy voice than trying to make my voice to high-pitched just to be feminine.🌸
I found your channel when i actually needed to learn speaking intentionally , but i struggle the most finding the appropriate words for my tone so many times i just end up using slangs and short cut words like bro or yaar which we commonly use in India i want to learn more about the words and tone ❤❤ Well...... Now I'm Subscribed ❤
Yay! Glad to have you here... 🎉 Be kind to yourself and take it one day at a time. It may take a while to unlearn but if you commit to working on it, trust me, speaking eloquently and elegantly will become second nature...
Thank you darling sist for reawakening me. Yes, I have almost forgotten who I was. Now I will be deliberately intentional with the way I speak with feminine voice.
Glad you like it because it was important to me that there’s inclusivity here too. It doesn’t matter the pitch of your voice, if you apply the tricks in the video, you’ll sound soft & feminine.
Thanks for sharing. I enjoyed the information shared. Personally I am drawn to a well sounding voice but this video brought awareness to me which makes me excited to try. It showed me my imperfections when in company with my friends I ramble my words during an exciting conversation. So I'm happy I have something new and interesting to work towards. 🙂 🙌🏾❣
That first tip ❤ I noticed that when I have on my own use some of these tips, ppl will act like they didn’t hear me. However, when I am loud then they listen. Idk if this is a Philly/NJ/NYC thing but it’s so frustrating
These tips have taught me how to grow in my speaking. I recently just began my journey on self discovery and one of the things i realized is how poorly i speak as a lady. I would work on improving myself accordingly, thank you ma'am
@@ayanime_edem yes, please. You should. I'm sure many of us there still don't know there's some sweetness going on here😘 I want to ask you something, don't you act anymore?
I have a natural deep voice but not as deep as male voice lol like you can tell it’s still female voice. It’s not loud neither low just normal tone but I always liked high pitched voice because I thought it’s a sign of femininity. However when I try to make my pitch sound high it sounds so fake because it’s not my natural voice. Also as a female I have broad shoulders and I am quiet tall, so that could be the reason why I have a deep and chill type of voice.
I always struggled speaking properly because i keep mumbling my words and im wayyy too soft spoken that people cant hear me. Ill definitely keep your advice in mind and practice this. You are also soo beautiful!🥹 and feminine voice really brings out more beauty in a woman🤍 Thank you so much! 🥹🌹❤
I loved all your tips. I’m really struggling with speaking soft and I’m glad I came across your video. Thanks and I’ll be practicing all you’ve said and with God by my side, I know I’ll improve. Thanks again 🙏
Thank you so much for filming this video. I didn’t notice that I was an aggressive talker until I watched this video. Most times, people would ask me to repeat myself and I didn’t understand why. Ever since I watched this video last week, I’ve been taking out my words one at a time and it has worked for me.
What a fantastic video! It contains so much valuable information. I'm really looking forward to watching more of your videos. Also, I love your eyeshadow! Your makeup is flawless.
Because I am in teaching English major, I have to emphasize on sounds and present with enthusiasm. This is what make be loss my breath, a dry mouth, and stopping in certain sounds 'this what may be seen as starring' 😊 I need more support on that,
Are well it will take me like two yrs to complete, me that love talking too louder. If i talk lower I'm thinking ithers won't hear me😢😢. I was searching for how to talk softly, n look feminine, your video came up, thanks you. I had problem in pronouncing words 😢
I’d just like to express how grateful I am for being able to come across your videos. I never knew how imperative this type of information was, until now. I’ve been told that I sound monotone TWICE in my life. Unfortunately, it was in the work area of my life. I’m now excited to go to work and utilize the information you so gracefully provide. Thank you and God bless❤
I struggle to say soo many things and end up saying gibberish...i am optimistic the video will help greatly when i start practicing and being intentional about it
I'm glad you found this video… Regarding what you’re struggling with, remember to take a few seconds to gather your thoughts… you can always say to your conversation partner: “give me a few seconds to gather my thoughts, I want to get my response right” 🤍
WALK INTO THE ROOM TO SPEAK TO THEM, DO NOT YELL ACROSS THE ENTIRE HOUSE - I am literally trying to teach my children this. Or I should say unteach them this bad habit I taught them. Ahhh joys of motherhood... most times I feel like I am learning just as much as they are! Makes me wish I didn't wait till my 30s to have my first child!
as raised in military family, it's somehow disgusting when i heard women sounds this soft. But i'm a lady, i really need to bring out my real self as feminin😭. Thanks for the video ya...
I work in a construction firm as an HR, soft voice doesn't work for me. I am in the midst of men all day, if I speak softly, they disregard my words. But when i speak firmly and not so soft they move.
This was so good. I could listen to you all day long. You should be charging us for this kind of imormation. You are very graced in teaching, I felt like I was attending an English class. And of course, I had to subscribe 🎉🎉🎉
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Thank you for watching! I look forward to reading your thoughts 🤍
Hello ma'am, thank you so much for the tips. I'd do well to practice them.
However, do you think this is applicable to public speaking and voice acting?
Cause, I personally feel it's apt only during a conversation not during presentation.
As we're always told to put life into our presentation during public speaking and voice over, depending on what you're trying to pass across. It shouldn't be calm all the way.
I'm confused at this point, cause I'm someone who speaks calmly at the start of a public presentation, but in the process I begin to sound energetic, rush my words and put much emphasis into my presentation.
Though, I usually notice the rapt attention in my audience , which has always given me the notion of a good public speaker, but stumbling on your video yesterday, makes me ask myself if I was doing it right or are these tips majorly meant for dialoguing?
@chellyberk fun fact, I’m holding a training next month and one of the feedback I received was that my voice is too calm and it’ll put the participants to sleep.
I laughed because my conversation voice and presentation voice are two different things so you’re right.
This is helpful during personal conversations while you want to be energetic and “perform” during public speaking or a presentation.
@@ayanime_edem oh really? when and where will the training hold?
Oh it’s a private training for a company
I came here from Instagram. Thank you.
When my love speaks to me softly, nor matter how I am angry, I calm down. A soft woman has a lot of power!
Absolutely! 🤍
God help me to be a calm woman 😢
Lol my partner does this too he instantly stops becoming angry 😅😅😅
I wish I could say I “stumbled” across this video but I didn’t. I absolutely looked up “how to speak softer” and your video popped up. I really felt weird about looking this up because I’ve kinda accepted that I’m an aggressive talker. But I no longer want that for me. I’ve been happily single for about 2 years and focusing on growing my business. But I think that has put me deeeeeep in my masculine energy and I noticed I’m so unaligned with my energy. I want to be more intentional with the way I speak. Thank you
Very much same here. And we’d get there. ❤
So beautifully written!
Oh girl. I understand 😅 that's how I am. I'm learning to get away from my masculine energy 😅 we shall be there my sister ❤
Oh girl. I understand 😅 that's how I am. I'm learning to get away from my masculine energy 😅 we shall be there my sister ❤
Ouhu sounds like the Capricorn in me?
“ Walk to the person to talk. No yelling!” ❤
🤍
I am literally trying to teach my children this. Or I should say unteach them this bad habit I taught them. Ahhh joys of motherhood... most times I feel like I am learning just as much as they are! Makes me wish I didn't wait till my 30s to have my first child!
I never yell at people. Never! Only time I may yell is at my dog but I have been working on not doing that either.
it's so funny how difficult yet easy this is. it's difficult to break away from what your used to and your habits, but it's so easy because soft, beautiful, femininity is our nature.
Yes it’s in our nature, we simply have to soften into it 🤍
Tell me about it. The first step for me was to accept that change was possible. I grew up in a house with really strong women who would often neglect their feminine energy. So for me, that was what I should aspire to be like.
I really need to become more soft
❤❤❤ God help me.
when i was younger (teens to early 20s) i had a very soft, feminine voice. i loved my voice and they way i spoke. then something traumatic happened to me and i realized my voice totally changed. i lost my old personality almost in my voice, the way i speak sounds so flat and harsh and i hate it. i've been watching videos to try to break free from that and find my voice again and yours has been so helpful!!
I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m glad this video was helpful 🤍
Same here
Very interesting, thanks for sharing that. Didn’t even know that was a thing!
I feel like this is what happened to me
Speaking in the mirror may help. I’m the same way. My voice is very high pitched. I’m also a teacher with ADD. I’m extremely impulsive. I’m recently into my mid-fifties and about to retire. I want to sound different.
I appreciated that you showed different voice inflections that are soft.
Absolutely! 💯
I appreciate your authentic voice in the video. Unlike other videos where the voice feels forced, yours feels genuine. Also, those examples you included? Absolute perfection! *Chef's kiss*
Thank you for your kind words! I had to remind myself to not fake my voice because my voice is feminine just the way it is! 🤍
I hope that every woman who watches this video comes to love their voice regardless of what they may think a “feminine voice” should sound like.
I agree
I didn't realize that I talked too much until I sat down with a new friend who talked a lot. It was soooo exhausting for me to keep up with the conversations and usually just excused myself. After 2 or 3 encounters with him I started questioning my own character of speech and I realized I sounded just like him to other people's ears. So now before I talk, I often ask myself if it's necessary and mind my tone. I'm glad I came across this video as it has given me more insights. Thank you so much.
I searched out lessons on becoming a more elegant woman. I grew up in a chaotic, violent, loud, fear induced home and my behavior was a direct reflection on the position my father had in the church.
When I left home, the bubble I was raised in, I left those behaviors behind too. The problem is I adopted new ones. This video sparked the interest in continuing to discover who I am.
Thank you
Nice tips! Diction is so important. Great video! I will add: Be concise. Be clear. Share the air, listen twice as much as you speak.
Great tips… Thank you for sharing 🤍
I’ve always been insecure about my soft-spoken voice. But now I see that it’s desirable! ☺️
It Is, use It!
I love this. I have a deep voice but still feminine. I like it and I really appreciate that you specified we don’t have to speak in a childish way. These were wonderful tips. I love your channel.
I started my soft last journey without even knowing, I noticed I was always loud and I needed to be more calm and elegant so I started working on myself. Thank you girl for this video is really helpful ❤
I appreciate this video so much, it reminds me of an ebook I read on synfla which helped me become more feminine ❤
Back to school is coming soon and I'm moving to a new high school with people I don't know so I want there to be another look at me. I want to be more feminine and take care of myself more and I want to become stronger and more assertive. I want everyone who sees me to remember me and be noticed.
And i'm working on this✨🧜🏻♀️
Love that for you...
@@ayanime_edem i will, thank you✨
same I am too 😭
You can do it 🩷 I'm moving schools too and feel the same. Breaking out of our shell 🤞
@@h11009 we can dooo itttt!!!!
U know her advice is actually worksss my voice is a little calm Than it was
here because when i’m on the phone w my distant family, they tell me i sound like my 10 year old brother. i’m an 18 yr old woman aspiring to change that. thank you for this video!
My pleasure!🤍
so true! im 13 and my family says i sound like my boy cousin 😢
I need to put this in my daily watch cause my speech needs improvement
I stumbled upon this video and I don’t think it was a coincidence because I am on this journey of self development. I have never been a girly girl, not that I haven’t tried, it just always felt like something forced. Anyway I’m being very intentional about changing the way I speak, because I find that I am little aggressive and unnecessarily too. Thank you for posting this! Thank you for building women! Cheers Queen 🥂👑
A lot of older ladies speak so softly and elegantly as if that were more the norm back when they were my age. It is so charming and makes them more attractive. Also the same with little girls when they speak. I have been on this journey for a minute and have gotten much better over the past 2 years and one of the most amazing perks is how much faster and more efficient customer service (whether male or female) helps me! I love it!
Wonderful. Love that for you! 🤍
I actually picked a notepad and wrote down action points from this video. This was really insightful. ❤❤
I’m glad 🤍
When the student is ready the teacher will appear. I have been thinking i need to soften my voice for weeks now.
I’m an extremely moody, passionate and impulsive person. I’m a very bossy, assertive, firm yet fair teacher that grew up with lots of males and violence. I’ve been through some very traumatic experiences in my lifetime. I want to become a little softer.
Voice indicates psychological, mental and physical health. Voice has a big secret. I usually don't listen to the channels because when I hear their voices I feel like they need to fix themselves before they give advice.
But when I watch you, I listen to you to the end, and the secret is your voice, because it is real and comes from within you. I appreciate your advice and thank you very much. Sending you energy of love and peace
This is such a beautiful comment... Thank you so much 🤍
@@ayanime_edem 🤍🕊
This was soo me till the kids start popping out,4 kids now and i can't even recognise my own voice cos of the constant talking,my kids are super super active and is a whole lot of talking on loudly daily,i pray i work it out amen
I truly needed this. I am a loud person. My friend keeps telling me to lower my voice while talking... it's so embarrassing.
I stutter and it is natural so I tend to use energy to pronounce some words.
Thank you for this video
My pleasure...
My voice is naturally strong, and due to some trauma of my own, aggression has unfortunately been added to the mix. I'm seeking out videos like this as I heal from the trauma so I can move forward in a softer way. I wanted to share this just to encourage you that you're not alone, and WE can absolutely develop the voices we desire 🙏🏻💓
Same here
I grew up being a tomboy (only girl in the family) and never really had the chance to be a "woman" but always the "sister" and "daughter" so I have this feminine voice but talk like a tomboy… With practice I’ve learned to speak more feminine but still need practice.. I am so nervous when it comes to dating, what if I talk like a dude? But the 1st tip is really useful, I will use that. Another tip is to find a famous woman who have a feminine voice that you similarly want, and mimic the way she speaks. Thank you for this
I love this woman’s energy and tone 😤♥️
You made me blush! Thank you beautiful 🤍
@@ayanime_edem My Pleasure 😇
This video answered prayer literally...I listened over and over my voice notes and I questioned all of it and I realized it is definitely misunderstood due to some of the tones and the pace .... simply amazing! Definitely making the adjustments 👏🏽👏🏽 Thanks dear.
I love the light right above your head, not sure if that's intentional but makes awesome effect
It wasn’t intentional… it was after filming I noticed it too… talk about happy coincidence
You made me notice that. 😊
This was very helpful, I am going through a lot dealing with my bi-polar disorder. My partner unfortunately has to deal with this harshness that can come with my emotions the most. I really believe this is going to help save my relationship.
I often get mistaken for a man when I talk because my voice is not only quite deep, but also kinda harsh and loud. Not like screaming loud, but just has a lot of chest power, you know. Kinda as if I'm holding a speech on stage with no microphone. So I've been wanting to just speak more softly. I think that alone will help a lot, because I do notice I get treated much better on the rare occasions I actually manage to speak softly. I do however already speak clearly, with lots of melody/variation, kinda slowly, and I've always been very keen about my pronounciation. I do try to avoid excessive filler words, but they do come out a lot still when I'm nervous. So I appreciate your advice here, it's very helpful!
Thank you for this video. I'm attempting to describe a feminine voice of one of my characters in a book I'm writing, and your video was far more helpful than any other video I cam across.
You're the first person Ive seen that talks and articulates with a balanced lips/mouth😅like your lips arent twisting to a specific side. I love that❤
Thank you... 😅
Please tell me more about this
I love the way you speak,so soothing to the ears😊
Thank you beautiful 🤍
She truly has mastered sounding soft and feminine.
The older I get, the less emphasis I place on appearance although that is always a consideration. But now I pay much more attention to a woman’s voice. Soft, slow, intentional, good enunciation and throw in pleasant eye contact and I find this very alluring and attractive. Loud, vindictive, sarcastic or antagonistic speech is an instant turn off for me. Another side note is the volume of speech. I find that too many women simply talk too much. Just some observations from the male perspective. And I actually got a few ideas that I need to work on my own speech as a man.
the first thing i thought GAWDDAMN she 's beautiful i get rich elegant women vibes fr
Being soft and feminine is the key.
i enjoy using " like, uhm, and right " softly in conversation tbh, in a girlish way i practice this particularly with other gfs it's more to use for fun
Exactly… they can be used in a softer more feminine way 🤍
I really like your video teaching women how to speak more feminine. What I learned from you is that I can speak in my natural raspy voice than trying to make my voice to high-pitched just to be feminine.🌸
My fluffy, soft Persian cats respond to soft speaking. The less friction and forcefulness, and more kindness, the better.
just stumbled across your channel, i love it sis ❤ doing my self care watching this was a treat
That’s so wonderful to hear! 🤍
I found your channel when i actually needed to learn speaking intentionally , but i struggle the most finding the appropriate words for my tone so many times i just end up using slangs and short cut words like bro or yaar which we commonly use in India i want to learn more about the words and tone ❤❤
Well......
Now I'm Subscribed ❤
Yay! Glad to have you here... 🎉
Be kind to yourself and take it one day at a time. It may take a while to unlearn but if you commit to working on it, trust me, speaking eloquently and elegantly will become second nature...
@@ayanime_edem 💖💖✨️✨️✨️
Thank you darling sist for reawakening me. Yes, I have almost forgotten who I was. Now I will be deliberately intentional with the way I speak with feminine voice.
Wonderful!
The “cheyous” was really something else
😂😂 fr. me trying to figure out what that was 😂
I listened like I know that’s not what I think she’s saying
Great video
Amazing!!! I love how all voice types are included. I love it ❤🔥
Glad you like it because it was important to me that there’s inclusivity here too.
It doesn’t matter the pitch of your voice, if you apply the tricks in the video, you’ll sound soft & feminine.
17:50 posture was an unexpected one but makes so much sense!
Thanks for sharing. I enjoyed the information shared. Personally I am drawn to a well sounding voice but this video brought awareness to me which makes me excited to try. It showed me my imperfections when in company with my friends I ramble my words during an exciting conversation.
So I'm happy I have something new and interesting to work towards. 🙂 🙌🏾❣
I love this! Implementing with immediate effect!
Wonderful! 🤍
Love your content❤ You're so elegant
I couldn't stop watching this video till I got to the end . ❤ Profound advice 🎉
Glad you liked it!! 🤍
I looove how u are speaking and you are also elegant and funny. So beautiful 🥹🩷 Thank you for these great tips 😍😍😍
My pleasure beautiful 🤍
A true Godsend. This lady.
That first tip ❤ I noticed that when I have on my own use some of these tips, ppl will act like they didn’t hear me. However, when I am loud then they listen. Idk if this is a Philly/NJ/NYC thing but it’s so frustrating
These tips have taught me how to grow in my speaking. I recently just began my journey on self discovery and one of the things i realized is how poorly i speak as a lady. I would work on improving myself accordingly, thank you ma'am
Thank you for always sharing insightful knowledge👏🏾.
My pleasure
Ayannime!!! You're here! I'm glad I found your channel. Your voice is so soothing 😊
Yes I’m here… I guess I have to talk more about my channel on IG. Glad to have you here 🤍
@@ayanime_edem yes, please. You should. I'm sure many of us there still don't know there's some sweetness going on here😘
I want to ask you something, don't you act anymore?
@Josephine2.0 not really, only when I’m called upon
As an autistic with clumsy and monotone speech, thank you.
I really loved listening to this thank you Bravo 👏🏽 it has been so helpful.
You are actually talking to me directly 😂
I love the way you sound real ❤️
Thank you 🤍
Hi, you called me intentional i love it.
I have a natural deep voice but not as deep as male voice lol like you can tell it’s still female voice. It’s not loud neither low just normal tone but I always liked high pitched voice because I thought it’s a sign of femininity. However when I try to make my pitch sound high it sounds so fake because it’s not my natural voice. Also as a female I have broad shoulders and I am quiet tall, so that could be the reason why I have a deep and chill type of voice.
I always struggled speaking properly because i keep mumbling my words and im wayyy too soft spoken that people cant hear me. Ill definitely keep your advice in mind and practice this. You are also soo beautiful!🥹 and feminine voice really brings out more beauty in a woman🤍 Thank you so much! 🥹🌹❤
I am here for a reason. Getting my femininity game back up
This is the best video I have watched so far. I was so glued from the first second till the end. Well done my lady
I loved all your tips. I’m really struggling with speaking soft and I’m glad I came across your video. Thanks and I’ll be practicing all you’ve said and with God by my side, I know I’ll improve. Thanks again 🙏
Thank you so much for filming this video. I didn’t notice that I was an aggressive talker until I watched this video. Most times, people would ask me to repeat myself and I didn’t understand why. Ever since I watched this video last week, I’ve been taking out my words one at a time and it has worked for me.
What a fantastic video! It contains so much valuable information. I'm really looking forward to watching more of your videos. Also, I love your eyeshadow! Your makeup is flawless.
Because I am in teaching English major, I have to emphasize on sounds and present with enthusiasm. This is what make be loss my breath, a dry mouth, and stopping in certain sounds 'this what may be seen as starring' 😊 I need more support on that,
This is golden! Thank you for this video
Glad you enjoyed it! 🤍
Are well it will take me like two yrs to complete, me that love talking too louder. If i talk lower I'm thinking ithers won't hear me😢😢. I was searching for how to talk softly, n look feminine, your video came up, thanks you. I had problem in pronouncing words 😢
I’d just like to express how grateful I am for being able to come across your videos. I never knew how imperative this type of information was, until now. I’ve been told that I sound monotone TWICE in my life. Unfortunately, it was in the work area of my life. I’m now excited to go to work and utilize the information you so gracefully provide. Thank you and God bless❤
This video is really helpful to me 😢 speaking like a lady is really what I’m not good with 😊Thank lol ma’am.
I struggle to say soo many things and end up saying gibberish...i am optimistic the video will help greatly when i start practicing and being intentional about it
I'm glad you found this video…
Regarding what you’re struggling with, remember to take a few seconds to gather your thoughts… you can always say to your conversation partner: “give me a few seconds to gather my thoughts, I want to get my response right” 🤍
This is lovely . I enjoyed watching and I learnt a lot . I just stumbled on your videos yesterday and now I am glued . Beautiful one! Well done . 👏🏽
Best video I have watched on this subject. Thank you so much for really clever tips. Love from Australia 💖
Oh thank you for your kind words! I’m glad it was helpful 🤍
WALK INTO THE ROOM TO SPEAK TO THEM, DO NOT YELL ACROSS THE ENTIRE HOUSE - I am literally trying to teach my children this. Or I should say unteach them this bad habit I taught them. Ahhh joys of motherhood... most times I feel like I am learning just as much as they are! Makes me wish I didn't wait till my 30s to have my first child!
as raised in military family, it's somehow disgusting when i heard women sounds this soft. But i'm a lady, i really need to bring out my real self as feminin😭. Thanks for the video ya...
This is really helpful, thank you very much 🙏
I am a very loud person and i speak fast. I hope i change.
This was such a lovely, helpful, and informative video. I deeply appreciate that you made it 🤍
I discovered you today and I am completely in love with your content. Thank you
Oh wow! 🎉 Glad to have you here! 🤍
The best teacher in the world 👏🏻 god bless you
Thank you si much for this valuable lesson 🥰
My pleasure 🤍
Very insightful.
Glad you think so! 🤍
I work in a construction firm as an HR, soft voice doesn't work for me. I am in the midst of men all day, if I speak softly, they disregard my words. But when i speak firmly and not so soft they move.
This was so good. I could listen to you all day long. You should be charging us for this kind of imormation. You are very graced in teaching, I felt like I was attending an English class. And of course, I had to subscribe 🎉🎉🎉
Wonderful! 🎉 I’m glad to have you here 🤍
I absolutely love this video....I've been following you a week now and i have learnt sooo much. You have a faithful new subscriber in me
Yay! 🎉🎉 I’m glad to have you here
First of all, I can listen to you allll day 😍
Awww… thank you 🤍
Thank you! I appreciate the separate, doable ideas. I also want to forward the link to a few friends🤣
Awww, thank you! 🤍
I loooove EACH and every one of your videos❤!!!
My boyfriend will always ask"why the bedroom voice"😂
As he should! 😉
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6:08 love the giggle 😂❤
Okay, now I'm shy 🙈
@@ayanime_edem omg you are so cute I can’t 🤭🫠❤️
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I spontaneously liked your video when you said ummm can you like this video please, it really work😊
I pray I change ooo😂😂 cause I shout alot
This video is so helpful! Thank you!! 🌷🤍
Thank you so much I enjoyed watching and learning from it…❤
Wow..
I got massive value..
Thank you so much ma’am..
I’ve subscribed too.🥰
Yay! glad to have you here 🤍