11 Tricks To Sound MORE Feminine & Attractive || How To Speak Softly & Elegantly

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @ayanime_edem
    @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад +92

    Thank you for watching! I look forward to reading your thoughts 🤍

    • @chellyberk
      @chellyberk 6 месяцев назад +6

      Hello ma'am, thank you so much for the tips. I'd do well to practice them.
      However, do you think this is applicable to public speaking and voice acting?
      Cause, I personally feel it's apt only during a conversation not during presentation.
      As we're always told to put life into our presentation during public speaking and voice over, depending on what you're trying to pass across. It shouldn't be calm all the way.
      I'm confused at this point, cause I'm someone who speaks calmly at the start of a public presentation, but in the process I begin to sound energetic, rush my words and put much emphasis into my presentation.
      Though, I usually notice the rapt attention in my audience , which has always given me the notion of a good public speaker, but stumbling on your video yesterday, makes me ask myself if I was doing it right or are these tips majorly meant for dialoguing?

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад +2

      @chellyberk fun fact, I’m holding a training next month and one of the feedback I received was that my voice is too calm and it’ll put the participants to sleep.
      I laughed because my conversation voice and presentation voice are two different things so you’re right.
      This is helpful during personal conversations while you want to be energetic and “perform” during public speaking or a presentation.

    • @chellyberk
      @chellyberk 6 месяцев назад

      @@ayanime_edem oh really? when and where will the training hold?

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад

      Oh it’s a private training for a company

    • @justus8327
      @justus8327 4 месяца назад

      I came here from Instagram. Thank you.

  • @leoA678
    @leoA678 3 месяца назад +463

    When my love speaks to me softly, nor matter how I am angry, I calm down. A soft woman has a lot of power!

  • @alexondrajenkins1096
    @alexondrajenkins1096 5 месяцев назад +302

    it's so funny how difficult yet easy this is. it's difficult to break away from what your used to and your habits, but it's so easy because soft, beautiful, femininity is our nature.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  5 месяцев назад +12

      Yes it’s in our nature, we simply have to soften into it 🤍

    • @lalailm
      @lalailm Месяц назад +3

      Tell me about it. The first step for me was to accept that change was possible. I grew up in a house with really strong women who would often neglect their feminine energy. So for me, that was what I should aspire to be like.

    • @yolz555
      @yolz555 Месяц назад +1

      I really need to become more soft
      ❤❤❤ God help me.

  • @promisemochi
    @promisemochi Месяц назад +89

    when i was younger (teens to early 20s) i had a very soft, feminine voice. i loved my voice and they way i spoke. then something traumatic happened to me and i realized my voice totally changed. i lost my old personality almost in my voice, the way i speak sounds so flat and harsh and i hate it. i've been watching videos to try to break free from that and find my voice again and yours has been so helpful!!

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  Месяц назад +11

      I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m glad this video was helpful 🤍

    • @nimscuisine1
      @nimscuisine1 Месяц назад +1

      Same here

    • @Brit876
      @Brit876 Месяц назад +2

      Very interesting, thanks for sharing that. Didn’t even know that was a thing!

    • @SulanAlexander-vb1mc
      @SulanAlexander-vb1mc Месяц назад +1

      I feel like this is what happened to me

    • @maryjflanagan1922
      @maryjflanagan1922 24 дня назад +1

      Speaking in the mirror may help. I’m the same way. My voice is very high pitched. I’m also a teacher with ADD. I’m extremely impulsive. I’m recently into my mid-fifties and about to retire. I want to sound different.

  • @treluvstrees999
    @treluvstrees999 6 месяцев назад +203

    “ Walk to the person to talk. No yelling!” ❤

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад +3

      🤍

    • @LearnWithBellaMichelle
      @LearnWithBellaMichelle 2 месяца назад +7

      I am literally trying to teach my children this. Or I should say unteach them this bad habit I taught them. Ahhh joys of motherhood... most times I feel like I am learning just as much as they are! Makes me wish I didn't wait till my 30s to have my first child!

    • @jackwalker1822
      @jackwalker1822 2 месяца назад +1

      I never yell at people. Never! Only time I may yell is at my dog but I have been working on not doing that either.

  • @AbigailAshley
    @AbigailAshley 2 месяца назад +188

    I wish I could say I “stumbled” across this video but I didn’t. I absolutely looked up “how to speak softer” and your video popped up. I really felt weird about looking this up because I’ve kinda accepted that I’m an aggressive talker. But I no longer want that for me. I’ve been happily single for about 2 years and focusing on growing my business. But I think that has put me deeeeeep in my masculine energy and I noticed I’m so unaligned with my energy. I want to be more intentional with the way I speak. Thank you

    • @jahskeryxstephen7551
      @jahskeryxstephen7551 2 месяца назад +2

      Very much same here. And we’d get there. ❤

    • @mondo5412
      @mondo5412 2 месяца назад +3

      So beautifully written!

    • @sumeennakakande-zx8px
      @sumeennakakande-zx8px Месяц назад +2

      Oh girl. I understand 😅 that's how I am. I'm learning to get away from my masculine energy 😅 we shall be there my sister ❤

    • @sumeennakakande-zx8px
      @sumeennakakande-zx8px Месяц назад

      Oh girl. I understand 😅 that's how I am. I'm learning to get away from my masculine energy 😅 we shall be there my sister ❤

    • @CultureofDiamonds
      @CultureofDiamonds Месяц назад

      Ouhu sounds like the Capricorn in me?

  • @godizself1
    @godizself1 5 месяцев назад +232

    I appreciated that you showed different voice inflections that are soft.

  • @hereisTio
    @hereisTio 6 месяцев назад +87

    I appreciate your authentic voice in the video. Unlike other videos where the voice feels forced, yours feels genuine. Also, those examples you included? Absolute perfection! *Chef's kiss*

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you for your kind words! I had to remind myself to not fake my voice because my voice is feminine just the way it is! 🤍

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад +5

      I hope that every woman who watches this video comes to love their voice regardless of what they may think a “feminine voice” should sound like.

    • @Melinamiu007
      @Melinamiu007 2 месяца назад

      I agree

  • @cinnystar889
    @cinnystar889 Месяц назад +17

    I didn't realize that I talked too much until I sat down with a new friend who talked a lot. It was soooo exhausting for me to keep up with the conversations and usually just excused myself. After 2 or 3 encounters with him I started questioning my own character of speech and I realized I sounded just like him to other people's ears. So now before I talk, I often ask myself if it's necessary and mind my tone. I'm glad I came across this video as it has given me more insights. Thank you so much.

  • @meriem_ztn99
    @meriem_ztn99 2 месяца назад +60

    Back to school is coming soon and I'm moving to a new high school with people I don't know so I want there to be another look at me. I want to be more feminine and take care of myself more and I want to become stronger and more assertive. I want everyone who sees me to remember me and be noticed.
    And i'm working on this✨🧜🏻‍♀️

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 месяца назад +6

      Love that for you...

    • @meriem_ztn99
      @meriem_ztn99 2 месяца назад +1

      @@ayanime_edem i will, thank you✨

    • @bambithoughtssxx
      @bambithoughtssxx 2 месяца назад +1

      same I am too 😭

    • @h11009
      @h11009 Месяц назад +3

      You can do it 🩷 I'm moving schools too and feel the same. Breaking out of our shell 🤞

    • @meriem_ztn99
      @meriem_ztn99 Месяц назад

      @@h11009 we can dooo itttt!!!!
      U know her advice is actually worksss my voice is a little calm Than it was

  • @jackwalker1822
    @jackwalker1822 2 месяца назад +32

    The older I get, the less emphasis I place on appearance although that is always a consideration. But now I pay much more attention to a woman’s voice. Soft, slow, intentional, good enunciation and throw in pleasant eye contact and I find this very alluring and attractive. Loud, vindictive, sarcastic or antagonistic speech is an instant turn off for me. Another side note is the volume of speech. I find that too many women simply talk too much. Just some observations from the male perspective. And I actually got a few ideas that I need to work on my own speech as a man.

  • @treluvstrees999
    @treluvstrees999 6 месяцев назад +102

    Nice tips! Diction is so important. Great video! I will add: Be concise. Be clear. Share the air, listen twice as much as you speak.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад +3

      Great tips… Thank you for sharing 🤍

  • @melindasolheim3470
    @melindasolheim3470 Месяц назад +18

    I searched out lessons on becoming a more elegant woman. I grew up in a chaotic, violent, loud, fear induced home and my behavior was a direct reflection on the position my father had in the church.
    When I left home, the bubble I was raised in, I left those behaviors behind too. The problem is I adopted new ones. This video sparked the interest in continuing to discover who I am.
    Thank you

  • @aylinxily
    @aylinxily 3 месяца назад +57

    here because when i’m on the phone w my distant family, they tell me i sound like my 10 year old brother. i’m an 18 yr old woman aspiring to change that. thank you for this video!

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад +2

      My pleasure!🤍

    • @brownie-fn1kf
      @brownie-fn1kf Месяц назад

      so true! im 13 and my family says i sound like my boy cousin 😢

  • @Augustafitfussion
    @Augustafitfussion 2 месяца назад +14

    I started my soft last journey without even knowing, I noticed I was always loud and I needed to be more calm and elegant so I started working on myself. Thank you girl for this video is really helpful ❤

  • @ShalondaWright
    @ShalondaWright 4 месяца назад +41

    I need to put this in my daily watch cause my speech needs improvement

  • @edithdarko5470
    @edithdarko5470 3 месяца назад +66

    I truly needed this. I am a loud person. My friend keeps telling me to lower my voice while talking... it's so embarrassing.
    I stutter and it is natural so I tend to use energy to pronounce some words.
    Thank you for this video

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад +3

      My pleasure...

    • @JaiKahina
      @JaiKahina Месяц назад +2

      My voice is naturally strong, and due to some trauma of my own, aggression has unfortunately been added to the mix. I'm seeking out videos like this as I heal from the trauma so I can move forward in a softer way. I wanted to share this just to encourage you that you're not alone, and WE can absolutely develop the voices we desire 🙏🏻💓

    • @AshantiCampbell1
      @AshantiCampbell1 22 дня назад

      Same here

  • @toria97love
    @toria97love Месяц назад +14

    I stumbled upon this video and I don’t think it was a coincidence because I am on this journey of self development. I have never been a girly girl, not that I haven’t tried, it just always felt like something forced. Anyway I’m being very intentional about changing the way I speak, because I find that I am little aggressive and unnecessarily too. Thank you for posting this! Thank you for building women! Cheers Queen 🥂👑

  • @Sugarlala-m7f
    @Sugarlala-m7f 2 месяца назад +7

    This was soo me till the kids start popping out,4 kids now and i can't even recognise my own voice cos of the constant talking,my kids are super super active and is a whole lot of talking on loudly daily,i pray i work it out amen

  • @jasminealexia
    @jasminealexia 3 месяца назад +39

    A lot of older ladies speak so softly and elegantly as if that were more the norm back when they were my age. It is so charming and makes them more attractive. Also the same with little girls when they speak. I have been on this journey for a minute and have gotten much better over the past 2 years and one of the most amazing perks is how much faster and more efficient customer service (whether male or female) helps me! I love it!

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад +2

      Wonderful. Love that for you! 🤍

  • @AdunniAfo
    @AdunniAfo 6 месяцев назад +21

    I actually picked a notepad and wrote down action points from this video. This was really insightful. ❤❤

  • @shigarigirl
    @shigarigirl 5 месяцев назад +46

    i enjoy using " like, uhm, and right " softly in conversation tbh, in a girlish way i practice this particularly with other gfs it's more to use for fun

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  5 месяцев назад +9

      Exactly… they can be used in a softer more feminine way 🤍

  • @MARIAMMIA-d6i
    @MARIAMMIA-d6i 2 месяца назад +5

    Voice indicates psychological, mental and physical health. Voice has a big secret. I usually don't listen to the channels because when I hear their voices I feel like they need to fix themselves before they give advice.
    But when I watch you, I listen to you to the end, and the secret is your voice, because it is real and comes from within you. I appreciate your advice and thank you very much. Sending you energy of love and peace

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 месяца назад +3

      This is such a beautiful comment... Thank you so much 🤍

    • @MARIAMMIA-d6i
      @MARIAMMIA-d6i 2 месяца назад

      @@ayanime_edem 🤍🕊

  • @misscleo_
    @misscleo_ 2 месяца назад +11

    I grew up being a tomboy (only girl in the family) and never really had the chance to be a "woman" but always the "sister" and "daughter" so I have this feminine voice but talk like a tomboy… With practice I’ve learned to speak more feminine but still need practice.. I am so nervous when it comes to dating, what if I talk like a dude? But the 1st tip is really useful, I will use that. Another tip is to find a famous woman who have a feminine voice that you similarly want, and mimic the way she speaks. Thank you for this

  • @breakthrough2682
    @breakthrough2682 4 дня назад

    This video answered prayer literally...I listened over and over my voice notes and I questioned all of it and I realized it is definitely misunderstood due to some of the tones and the pace .... simply amazing! Definitely making the adjustments 👏🏽👏🏽 Thanks dear.

  • @T.Shen-ya
    @T.Shen-ya 3 месяца назад +9

    You're the first person Ive seen that talks and articulates with a balanced lips/mouth😅like your lips arent twisting to a specific side. I love that❤

  • @joykome5599
    @joykome5599 2 месяца назад +11

    The “cheyous” was really something else

    • @Starrgirl_jae.the.miss.Bougie
      @Starrgirl_jae.the.miss.Bougie 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂 fr. me trying to figure out what that was 😂

    • @Tatianarain
      @Tatianarain Месяц назад

      I listened like I know that’s not what I think she’s saying

  • @aturuchiagwu3845
    @aturuchiagwu3845 Час назад

    I loved all your tips. I’m really struggling with speaking soft and I’m glad I came across your video. Thanks and I’ll be practicing all you’ve said and with God by my side, I know I’ll improve. Thanks again 🙏

  • @jasiel__
    @jasiel__ 4 дня назад

    Thank you so much for filming this video. I didn’t notice that I was an aggressive talker until I watched this video. Most times, people would ask me to repeat myself and I didn’t understand why. Ever since I watched this video last week, I’ve been taking out my words one at a time and it has worked for me.

  • @fannahjamal
    @fannahjamal 2 месяца назад +4

    I love this woman’s energy and tone 😤♥️

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 месяца назад +1

      You made me blush! Thank you beautiful 🤍

    • @fannahjamal
      @fannahjamal 2 месяца назад

      @@ayanime_edem My Pleasure 😇

  • @Thathappymulgi
    @Thathappymulgi 3 месяца назад +18

    I found your channel when i actually needed to learn speaking intentionally , but i struggle the most finding the appropriate words for my tone so many times i just end up using slangs and short cut words like bro or yaar which we commonly use in India i want to learn more about the words and tone ❤❤
    Well......
    Now I'm Subscribed ❤

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад +4

      Yay! Glad to have you here... 🎉
      Be kind to yourself and take it one day at a time. It may take a while to unlearn but if you commit to working on it, trust me, speaking eloquently and elegantly will become second nature...

    • @Thathappymulgi
      @Thathappymulgi 3 месяца назад +1

      @@ayanime_edem 💖💖✨️✨️✨️

  • @anthoniasegun7000
    @anthoniasegun7000 2 месяца назад +12

    Thank you darling sist for reawakening me. Yes, I have almost forgotten who I was. Now I will be deliberately intentional with the way I speak with feminine voice.

  • @Tpluxuryshuttles
    @Tpluxuryshuttles Месяц назад +1

    This is the best video I have watched so far. I was so glued from the first second till the end. Well done my lady

  • @Raisewithlay
    @Raisewithlay Месяц назад +3

    Love your content❤ You're so elegant

  • @theodoranorvor2021
    @theodoranorvor2021 6 месяцев назад +13

    I love the way you speak,so soothing to the ears😊

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you beautiful 🤍

    • @crc5430
      @crc5430 4 месяца назад +1

      She truly has mastered sounding soft and feminine.

  • @elizabethmccomie-paul1984
    @elizabethmccomie-paul1984 3 месяца назад +5

    Thanks for sharing. I enjoyed the information shared. Personally I am drawn to a well sounding voice but this video brought awareness to me which makes me excited to try. It showed me my imperfections when in company with my friends I ramble my words during an exciting conversation.
    So I'm happy I have something new and interesting to work towards. 🙂 🙌🏾❣

  • @buttercup2054
    @buttercup2054 19 дней назад

    I really like your video teaching women how to speak more feminine. What I learned from you is that I can speak in my natural raspy voice than trying to make my voice to high-pitched just to be feminine.🌸

  • @DanicaDG
    @DanicaDG Месяц назад +1

    What a fantastic video! It contains so much valuable information. I'm really looking forward to watching more of your videos. Also, I love your eyeshadow! Your makeup is flawless.

  • @Vanessa-Claire
    @Vanessa-Claire 3 месяца назад +9

    just stumbled across your channel, i love it sis ❤ doing my self care watching this was a treat

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад +1

      That’s so wonderful to hear! 🤍

  • @Amjad_HA
    @Amjad_HA 28 дней назад

    The best teacher in the world 👏🏻 god bless you

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 2 месяца назад +1

    A true Godsend. This lady.

  • @brigitaurbonas4580
    @brigitaurbonas4580 3 месяца назад +23

    I love the light right above your head, not sure if that's intentional but makes awesome effect

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад +5

      It wasn’t intentional… it was after filming I noticed it too… talk about happy coincidence

    • @maryjflanagan1922
      @maryjflanagan1922 24 дня назад

      You made me notice that. 😊

  • @mfonxo
    @mfonxo 6 месяцев назад +8

    Amazing!!! I love how all voice types are included. I love it ❤🔥

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад

      Glad you like it because it was important to me that there’s inclusivity here too.
      It doesn’t matter the pitch of your voice, if you apply the tricks in the video, you’ll sound soft & feminine.

  • @TinotendaNyarirangwe
    @TinotendaNyarirangwe 4 месяца назад +6

    I love this! Implementing with immediate effect!

  • @maryjflanagan1922
    @maryjflanagan1922 24 дня назад +1

    I’m an extremely moody, passionate and impulsive person. I’m a very bossy, assertive, firm yet fair teacher that grew up with lots of males and violence. I’ve been through some very traumatic experiences in my lifetime. I want to become a little softer.

  • @njitonesonia
    @njitonesonia 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for always sharing insightful knowledge👏🏾.

  • @HelixKorm
    @HelixKorm Месяц назад +4

    the first thing i thought GAWDDAMN she 's beautiful i get rich elegant women vibes fr

  • @nikolettdurgo979
    @nikolettdurgo979 3 месяца назад +5

    I looove how u are speaking and you are also elegant and funny. So beautiful 🥹🩷 Thank you for these great tips 😍😍😍

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад +1

      My pleasure beautiful 🤍

  • @Shival_magic
    @Shival_magic 15 дней назад +1

    This video is really helpful to me 😢 speaking like a lady is really what I’m not good with 😊Thank lol ma’am.

  • @thvtgirl_Chrissy
    @thvtgirl_Chrissy Месяц назад

    I’d just like to express how grateful I am for being able to come across your videos. I never knew how imperative this type of information was, until now. I’ve been told that I sound monotone TWICE in my life. Unfortunately, it was in the work area of my life. I’m now excited to go to work and utilize the information you so gracefully provide. Thank you and God bless❤

  • @SylviaAputazie
    @SylviaAputazie 5 месяцев назад +7

    I couldn't stop watching this video till I got to the end . ❤ Profound advice 🎉

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  5 месяцев назад +2

      Glad you liked it!! 🤍

  • @Josephine2.0
    @Josephine2.0 6 месяцев назад +6

    Ayannime!!! You're here! I'm glad I found your channel. Your voice is so soothing 😊

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад

      Yes I’m here… I guess I have to talk more about my channel on IG. Glad to have you here 🤍

    • @Josephine2.0
      @Josephine2.0 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@ayanime_edem yes, please. You should. I'm sure many of us there still don't know there's some sweetness going on here😘
      I want to ask you something, don't you act anymore?

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад

      @Josephine2.0 not really, only when I’m called upon

  • @marvannie
    @marvannie 6 месяцев назад +6

    I love the way you sound real ❤️

  • @lopezpatral1491
    @lopezpatral1491 3 дня назад

    Thank you so much I enjoyed watching and learning from it…❤

  • @AnonymousSpirit
    @AnonymousSpirit Месяц назад +1

    17:50 posture was an unexpected one but makes so much sense!

  • @karenkumah9401
    @karenkumah9401 3 месяца назад +3

    This is golden! Thank you for this video

  • @kandidwithkiarenee9157
    @kandidwithkiarenee9157 Месяц назад

    Absolutely love this!! I needed this today!

  • @humaneenough6719
    @humaneenough6719 6 месяцев назад +7

    Omg you had to include Karen on the high pitch, which is just perfect 😂😂😂😂 meanwhile thank you for this

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  6 месяцев назад +3

      I couldn’t resist and amazingly, that’s not her real voice 😅

    • @humaneenough6719
      @humaneenough6719 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@ayanime_edem for real 😳 🤔 now I know

  • @emilyrenee357
    @emilyrenee357 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks for the examples in the video

  • @dcbatsy
    @dcbatsy 10 дней назад +1

    I always struggled speaking properly because i keep mumbling my words and im wayyy too soft spoken that people cant hear me. Ill definitely keep your advice in mind and practice this. You are also soo beautiful!🥹 and feminine voice really brings out more beauty in a woman🤍 Thank you so much! 🥹🌹❤

  • @being_Omotutu
    @being_Omotutu Месяц назад

    These tips have taught me how to grow in my speaking. I recently just began my journey on self discovery and one of the things i realized is how poorly i speak as a lady. I would work on improving myself accordingly, thank you ma'am

  • @SonaFese
    @SonaFese 3 месяца назад +3

    I struggle to say soo many things and end up saying gibberish...i am optimistic the video will help greatly when i start practicing and being intentional about it

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад

      I'm glad you found this video…
      Regarding what you’re struggling with, remember to take a few seconds to gather your thoughts… you can always say to your conversation partner: “give me a few seconds to gather my thoughts, I want to get my response right” 🤍

  • @karinadaufa
    @karinadaufa 4 месяца назад +5

    First of all, I can listen to you allll day 😍

  • @EmpressFemininityTM
    @EmpressFemininityTM 12 дней назад

    Being soft and feminine is the key.

  • @ryptoll4801
    @ryptoll4801 28 дней назад

    I often get mistaken for a man when I talk because my voice is not only quite deep, but also kinda harsh and loud. Not like screaming loud, but just has a lot of chest power, you know. Kinda as if I'm holding a speech on stage with no microphone. So I've been wanting to just speak more softly. I think that alone will help a lot, because I do notice I get treated much better on the rare occasions I actually manage to speak softly. I do however already speak clearly, with lots of melody/variation, kinda slowly, and I've always been very keen about my pronounciation. I do try to avoid excessive filler words, but they do come out a lot still when I'm nervous. So I appreciate your advice here, it's very helpful!

  • @rosemondphil-othihiwa3647
    @rosemondphil-othihiwa3647 Месяц назад

    I am here for a reason. Getting my femininity game back up

  • @LearnWithBellaMichelle
    @LearnWithBellaMichelle 2 месяца назад +2

    WALK INTO THE ROOM TO SPEAK TO THEM, DO NOT YELL ACROSS THE ENTIRE HOUSE - I am literally trying to teach my children this. Or I should say unteach them this bad habit I taught them. Ahhh joys of motherhood... most times I feel like I am learning just as much as they are! Makes me wish I didn't wait till my 30s to have my first child!

  • @Rainwithsun
    @Rainwithsun 4 месяца назад +14

    I like Marilyn voice

  • @feliciastreeter3529
    @feliciastreeter3529 Месяц назад

    Good topic and important. I’ve actually been working on all these things.

  • @ercy_d
    @ercy_d Месяц назад

    This was really helpful, thank you.

  • @tamarashavon575
    @tamarashavon575 Месяц назад

    I loooove EACH and every one of your videos❤!!!

  • @blessinggreat6353
    @blessinggreat6353 2 месяца назад

    I enjoyed every bit of it. Thank you for the video, it was worth the time.

  • @TheProsperousPrincess
    @TheProsperousPrincess Месяц назад

    I needed this. Thank you so so much for sharing. Just got a subscriber!! ❤

  • @toniamaclean8311
    @toniamaclean8311 Месяц назад

    This was so good. I could listen to you all day long. You should be charging us for this kind of imormation. You are very graced in teaching, I felt like I was attending an English class. And of course, I had to subscribe 🎉🎉🎉

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  Месяц назад

      Wonderful! 🎉 I’m glad to have you here 🤍

  • @preciousnwachuku830
    @preciousnwachuku830 Месяц назад

    This video is really insightful.
    I actually stumbled on it, and im glad I did.
    Thank you so much *Chef's kiss*

  • @mawufemortettey6568
    @mawufemortettey6568 6 месяцев назад +6

    Very insightful.

  • @butterflylovenj7300
    @butterflylovenj7300 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this video. I speak softly and elegantly like my mother and aunts. They sound just like Claire Huxtable from the Cosby show!

  • @FairyAngel111
    @FairyAngel111 4 месяца назад +2

    Best video I have watched on this subject. Thank you so much for really clever tips. Love from Australia 💖

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  4 месяца назад +1

      Oh thank you for your kind words! I’m glad it was helpful 🤍

  • @stellachinaecherem2144
    @stellachinaecherem2144 2 месяца назад +28

    My boyfriend will always ask"why the bedroom voice"😂

  • @emonechica790
    @emonechica790 3 месяца назад +1

    I discovered you today and I am completely in love with your content. Thank you

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад

      Oh wow! 🎉 Glad to have you here! 🤍

  • @cheetahcat3940
    @cheetahcat3940 Месяц назад +4

    I personally lose interest when people talk too slowly. My boss speaks slow and soft 😴. My mind wanders. When it's a back and forth type of conversation, it's OK. But when telling a story, I need them to speed it up. Lol

  • @Dearmarycoach
    @Dearmarycoach 6 месяцев назад +4

    Brilliant teaching ❤

  • @juliemiller4461
    @juliemiller4461 Месяц назад

    I absolutely love this video....I've been following you a week now and i have learnt sooo much. You have a faithful new subscriber in me

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  Месяц назад

      Yay! 🎉🎉 I’m glad to have you here

  • @wesswessal861
    @wesswessal861 4 месяца назад +4

    Thank you si much for this valuable lesson 🥰

  • @sohan--yt
    @sohan--yt 24 дня назад

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  • @Elexis-e8d
    @Elexis-e8d Месяц назад

    Very informative, thank you 🤍

  • @AMARACHUKWUKA1
    @AMARACHUKWUKA1 2 месяца назад

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    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 месяца назад

      Yay! glad to have you here 🤍

  • @rebeccapage4411
    @rebeccapage4411 2 месяца назад

    Thank you! I appreciate the separate, doable ideas. I also want to forward the link to a few friends🤣

  • @NipuniKaluarachchi
    @NipuniKaluarachchi 3 месяца назад +1

    Your voice is so soothing sister
    Love it❤

  • @adelekecomfort6259
    @adelekecomfort6259 Месяц назад

    This is really helpful, thank you very much 🙏

  • @lyongakaren7425
    @lyongakaren7425 3 месяца назад +2

    Great content 😊

  • @isabelmares8387
    @isabelmares8387 26 дней назад

    As an autistic with clumsy and monotone speech, thank you.

  • @IyawoKajo
    @IyawoKajo 3 месяца назад +8

    It's the fake pitch for me 🤣🤣🤣. It got me laughing out of my feminity 😂

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад +1

      🙈🙈 well, I had to show us how ridiculous it looks…

  • @blessed1958
    @blessed1958 Месяц назад

    Thanks so much girl that's really awesome...I learned alot❤

  • @NaomiEsegine
    @NaomiEsegine 6 месяцев назад +4

    This was such a good video to watch ❤ thank you so much for sharing!

  • @TheGoddessNotebook
    @TheGoddessNotebook 5 месяцев назад +5

    Very helpful ❤

  • @theuntold7564
    @theuntold7564 2 месяца назад

    Really awesome tips.

  • @supermodeljaz6829
    @supermodeljaz6829 4 месяца назад +3

    Melanie Griffith’s voice ❤❤❤❤

  • @Magical11.
    @Magical11. 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much , very helpful❤!

  • @blessingkinanee
    @blessingkinanee 2 месяца назад

    Thank you, this is insightful.