The beauty tools I promised in the video, invest in these and have them at home; NAIL KIT: - Nail polish in different colours alongside a top coat - Manicure set - Nail dissolver - Polish cleaner - Stick-on nails - Nail glue - UV lamp for gel polish (optional) HAIR TOOLS: - Flat iron/straightener - Blow dryer - Curling wand - Hot comb - Paddle brush - Set of comb - Edge brush - Hair clips - Bobby pins - Silk hair bonnet - Elastic bands or scrunchie - Hair products according to your hair needs
I love your tips. I have to do better. I am trying to work on when I leave the home for a short period of time to go to the store etc. I need more relaxed, lounging clothing. ❤ What do you think about logos and monograms on clothing for women over 45?
I’m literally looking for seamless panties today, because I have a dinner to go to and I’m on my menstrual cycle. The last thing I need is my pants line showing 🤦🏾♀️
I'm fully with you on panty lines, and so easy to be avoided! However, being a plus size women I feel I have no chance of avoiding my bra showing on the bank. If I bought it larger, it wouldn't hold my breast. So if you got tips for that - please share!! ❤
@@LiNa-yl8qs omg, panty lines are the bane of my dressing experience rn😭 How is it easily avoided?? I try and buy seamless underwear and the whole nine but there always seems to be a very OBVIOUS lines and I hate it soo much! Any advice will be greatly appreciated!!!🤍
@@carlygreen2293You can try thongs or even no underwear. If you feel uncomfortable with no underwear, you can wear shapewear with no underwear (weather permitting of course). The shapewear is sometimes long enough to not show lines. There’s even seamless shapewear, but seamless doesn’t always work with ultra thin fabrics.
OMG! You need to absolutely keep it! Whether it's true or not, this is special to you. People create packages, packages do not create people. Rock it girl, salute *suluxy* !
3 Reasons Why I Subscribed 1. You get directly into the content at first click 2. Your advice is timeless without gimmicks 3. It's like me listening to a friend who wants me to be my best
A signature scent that captivates and gets compliments over and over again is THEE cherry on top! And they should only smell it when they lean in for a kiss or a hug.
I have learned less is more. I recently was in Europe and one thing I noticed was the women did there makeup and attire more simply which made them look so much more sophisticated
I agree. It depends on the country, but overall it's true. I am French (born and raised in Paris), and I was definitely raised with a "less is more" approach, for any occasion (work, dates, parties, even my own wedding). For ex, regarding nails budget: I take care of them with homemade family recipes (basically lemon, sugar and oil). With a simple trim and nude polish on that I apply myself, I am good to go and it looks elegant without costing money. Same for my face, hair, and body: with proper care, you don't need many tools, products, or make-up to feel that you CAN look elevated if you need/want to. I love that women can choose whatever they want, minimalistic or maximalist style, but it's nice to know that you have alternatives when you lack time, money, or motivation.
@@jasminetandie2700 Sure! First I prepare a mix of ground brown sugar and oil (jojoba, or olive oil), and a mix of olive and castor oils. Sometimes, just olive oil. For a few minutes, I start with a "little bath" for my nails with warm water and about (half a) lemon juice. Then I change the water to warm water without lemon, to put my whole hands in it (when I am lazy I use the same water, but lemon can be aggressive on the skin). I use the DIY sugar and oil scrub on my hands, then rinse it and apply the oil mix while massaging my hands and nails with it. It's incredible! I found this idea on RUclips years ago, but I cannot remember who made it if anyone knows, because they would deserve the credit. Hope it helps!
Ladies a short French press on nail saves time, money and you always look elegant. Also go to the gym and make sure you maintain a decent shape. Don’t have to be skinny, but don’t have to be obeseEither. none of this matters if the canvas is not put together.
@@parishers6351most people I know are working full time with kids. Still go to the gym or do a daily home workout. The tip is great. Not for everyone, but true nontheless. Being in shape helps you look put together. It’s not the only way, but A way.
A beauty schedule for me has always worked Friday is exfoliation day Every 1st of the month is mani-pedi Every 2 months -eyebrows. Every 5-6 weeks major hairstyling. .
@@lydiaheelu2681samee. I always try ti look good when i am out. Never know when you might into an x. It happened to me twice and both times he trief to talk to me. So it is always good to look good.
and best way to look classy, is aim to look like 'Old money'. Dont even bother getting your nails done, learn how to do basic manicure yourself, buff shine ur nails. dainty jewelry
Old money European post 1900s? Or old money from Africa, India, Asia? Or old money European pre 1900? Because many people of real old old money who were dripping in colorful fabrics and jewels?
@thesensitiveowl but why does it have to be post 1950s European old money? It's so boring and basic! Bring back the colors of OLD money around the world! We live in a global economy why be basic and boring?!
@@MsWill813this! Different things suit different people. Same with the “old money” look, it suites some but not others. Colourful clothing from India, Africa (either traditional or modern fashion) or other places can also look amazing and really classy, especially on people from those cultures (it’s the same as how some colours look good on different people).
Tips 1. Develop a maintenance schedule 2. Choose short, nude colored nails. Get a nail kit 3. Wear strip lashes underneath your eyes 4. Have a go-to outfit for lazy days 5. Have a quick makeup routine 6. Dress for your body shape and complexion 7. Choose flattering hair style/invest in hair tools 8. Choose timeless pieces (cut, color, fabric) over trendy pieces. Choose neutral colors and timeless prints (ie. Houndstooth). Choose fabrics that look expensive (ie. Slk, cotton, viscose) 9. Use accessories to elevate wardrobe (ie. Sunglasses, dainry necklaces, structured bags, belts). When in doubt, wear heels. 10. Pay attn to the details
I searched RUclips until I found a hair cut that I could do to myself that I really liked. I know that’s not for everyone, but it makes my hair look nice and saves money. Just takes time and it’s pretty scary the first time, but if you go slow and just take the time, it’s very doable. OR I’ve also just done a super simple haircut that can be maintained by getting a friend with a steady hand or my mother to just trim the ends straight when need be.
I like it here. It’s giving clean, polished and classy. Since those are the things I like I’m going to subscribe because we become like those we associate with.
I used to be very frumpy and not put together regarding my looks overall. I figured out that's no the life I wanted anymore so I changed. I decided to level up severely all of sudden and became so beautiful and put together. Even though I feel so good and very confident it's no easy to maintain yourself everyday. You should properly planning and stick to your schedule to avoid delays a procrastination 😊. By the and of the day it is worth it.
@purpleviolet9046 read this book: Emotional Intelligent Leaders, read alot of about self improvement mostly Emotional intelligence, look for therapy as well. You'll become emotional stable and very strong mentally.
I cover my hair, a nice, well done hair wrap is my ultimate hack. It doesn’t matter how bad of hair day it is or how tired you are, you will look put together with your hair wrapped.
#4 is the very best tip for me. When I was in an office and seeing clients daily, I would plan outfits for a week at a time. Now that my work is remote, it’s sometimes a struggle to put together an outfit on short notice. Having a “go to” outfit is the perfect solution.
I maintain my natural nails, that's because my nails have white tips and I like to accentuate them. Additionally, I wear my natural hair and I go for a natural look when it comes to makeup if you can identify what works for you and you are comfortable in your own skin go for it, ladies. Less is more
Clean, manicured nails look way better than grown out acrylics! If you cannot afford the upkeep or need to cut back in some areas, make sure you keep up with your natural nails! Clear polish, clip cuticles, and filed nails go further than unkept acrylics! Trust me!
Funny enough the bonus tip was most helpful especially when you mentioned how we are not prioritizing a nice appearance to impress others but for ourselves. An important reminder!
No matter how old my hair style is, if i keep it shiny it looks fresh. Just some Sheen spray/serum will bring the shine back and make my old hair look freshened up and intentional! Plus my silver hairs pop with a shine spray and i get compliments often... On my old hair lol!
I'm from Brazil. Here, it's common to wear the nails natural. There are some people that have nails like she said in the video, but I prefer to have my real nails done every week at the salon. It also makes it easier to change the nail color ❤
Ditto, I like choosing colours by the week and often I do them myself if I'm stuck. People with shellac,gel,fake nails always complain that they're due to be done,broken etc seems tiresome
For some people who are doctors for example or other healthcare professionals, natural nails are all they are allowed. A lot of people have very weak, unhealthy nails under acrylic and shellac nails. Nothing wrong with getting a clean simple manicure(or doing it yourself) and painting your nails at home. Plus side, is you can actually close your zips yourself.
You look so elegant,well put together and look like you practice exactly what you preach.A very good example for all ladies,especially these young girls coming up.Well done sista!
I don’t subscribe to YT channels…it’s probably been years since the last time I did before just now. I’ll just say I’m Gen X and I thank you for making quality content that’s usable. 🥰
I love nude nails tip. But right now i have been LOVING maroon nails with gold rings. They look incredible ❤ the reddish nails and gold combo is super classy
Guys update: the maroon definitely does chip and looks pretty bad unless u regularly keep touching up which is a lot of extra work every night. Today someone showed up as a surprise at work and I felt embarrassed about my chipped marroon nails. Definitely need to switch to nude coloured nails
@@umchileanywaysso Give your nails an extra wipe with polish remover to ensure all oils are removed then apply Orly base coat, 2 coats of polish and Orly top coat. I get 5-6 days without chips.
You are beautiful and your message is so positive. It really comes down to organization and loving yourself. We all get busy, take care of others, and put ourselves last sometimes. If we begin with ourselves it enhances what we give to others
Intentional outfit.. for a lazy day! Ah I definitely do this. I scowl the stores for such garments that are easy to wear and elevated for that exact reason. Now my wardrobe is built and it’s easy for me to have outfits for days ahead on reserve and I match them that way in the closet. You got a follower ❤️💐
OMG! You need to absolutely keep it! Whether it's true or not, this is special to you. People create packages, packages do not create people. Rock it girl, salute *suluxy* !
I highly recommend to figure out your Kibbe Body Type (free) and get a colour analysis. Body Typing focuses on the proportions and bone structure, not just size/weight. For example for me as a Soft Dramatic, delicate Jewelry makes me look heavier and bigger, same for small details in clothing. I need bigger shapes. Colour Analysis also changed my buying habits. Its so much easier to shop now
The tip I really needed to hear is having a go to outfit and commit to my appearance. I had to learn how to be feline on my own so this video is super helpful.
I would suggest a headband wig for emergency or lazy days. I have natural curly hair. Sometimes in the harsh winter months here in Europe, I wear headband wigs. I have 2, a curly and a straight. Both are same length and texture to my natural hair. My coworkers actually believe it is my hair. I just got a ponytail also.
Ayanime, i just found your channel and I already love your content. All your tips are so true and valuable! Maintenance schedule is a must; I know every three weeks is waxing and nails day. Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday are exfoliation day, and so on. I call the lazy day outfit my “uniform”, I follow Kibbe ID body types to dress, so I know tight clothes make me look like a turkey 😂, I always go for flow, long lines and silky fabrics with open necklines. For hair, my go-to accessories are silk scarfs. I have heavy HEEEEAVY locks, so when I’m on a bad hair day I just cover it with a beautiful silk scarf that matches my outfit. Loved your video, subscribed!
The one that was new to me and that I will keep in mind is the idea of a lazy day outfit, that would be pre-planned. I need to save "decision-making energy" in the morning so that is a brilliant idea. Thank you.
Master wearing DRESSES!!! dress dress dress a wmn will ALWAYS look elegant, polish, classy throwing on a dress. even with hair in a bun/ponytail clean face, lil color clean body and perfume but with a DRESS ON, ull always look like (esplly to men) like u put in maximum effort into ur look. Lol plus its MEGA EASY to just put on a dress.
@@delaslightno, it is bad for your legs and also not suitable for active work. Nice shoes can be on the small platform or with a small elegant heel. Just something neat is fine
I definitely follow this line of thought for some years now. I get compliments when I am in a dress. I alos work in a male dominated space, so I make sure to look like a woman and wearing a dress does help.
not only that you don’t have to waste time matching pieces together and everyone treats you different when you’re wearing a dress, including other women. strange but true.
I love that you are doing this content! God knows our people need classy representation. Sorry, not sorry but ladies please send this to al your friends and family in need of some class
Hi Ayanime, can you please do a separate video for your simple makeup look? I've been looking for simple makeup looks for the longest, but RUclips is full of full-on makeups 🤦♀️
These are some really good tips. I have two piece outfits available for my lazy days. I'm a lazy person, so having two to three piece outfits always available is a must, half my wardrobe is sets hanging up in my closet.
Babe I literally played the video and pictured Dimma, new subscriber here and you are soo good at this. You are doing good work. Thank you 🙏💕@@ayanime_edem
My take today is appearance on errands, I always found myself meeting people that respect me but found me messy which upset me so going forward I will leave home looking my best as I never know who I will meet on the way
Great job. I praise God that zi learned all this from a youth as my mother was a woman of class. I also learned what a lady is through my church. One key thing you didn't mention is UNDERGARMENTS. Girdles, shapewear, slips, pantyhose, camisoles, etc. The continued proper use of undergarments is the difference between a woman and a lady 💜
I appreciate the information, people would always call me African as if it meant something dirty and ugly. I like how you project yourself, your tone and speech is also elegant.
😂 how funny, my nails haven’t been done in MONTHSSSS and that’s NOT like me. I just did my nails a few hours ago in a nude pink color. I missed my 💅🏽 so much 😢 But first I did my hair. 🎉 I’m so happy and feel so feminine already. 🥰
I would say nails every 2 weeks. I don’t like seeing growing out at all. I like seeing toe nail polish matching finger nails. I also get my lashes done every 2 weeks. I don’t like to have a long beauty routine daily. I was expecting your lazy day outfit to look lazy-ish 😂. Girl, that was glam!
My go-to outfit for when I'm running late or grabbing something quick from the store are black leggings, a cardigan and black tank top (long sleeve turtle neck now that it's cold). Or I'll do black leggings with a black pull over hoodie with sneakers. It's not over dressed but it also doesn't give "I just rolled out of bed".
Thank you so much for this video. I work so much, along with being a wife and mom, and many times I just throw on some stretch pants and go. One day I was looking so far away from my best, and I kept seeing people who knew me everywhere I went! 😩😩 I want to look nice and well put together but I don’t have the time or energy most days. This video is such a big help! Thanks!
The beauty tools I promised in the video, invest in these and have them at home;
NAIL KIT:
- Nail polish in different colours alongside a top coat
- Manicure set
- Nail dissolver
- Polish cleaner
- Stick-on nails
- Nail glue
- UV lamp for gel polish (optional)
HAIR TOOLS:
- Flat iron/straightener
- Blow dryer
- Curling wand
- Hot comb
- Paddle brush
- Set of comb
- Edge brush
- Hair clips
- Bobby pins
- Silk hair bonnet
- Elastic bands or scrunchie
- Hair products according to your hair needs
I love your tips. I have to do better. I am trying to work on when I leave the home for a short period of time to go to the store etc. I need more relaxed, lounging clothing. ❤ What do you think about logos and monograms on clothing for women over 45?
I’m literally looking for seamless panties today, because I have a dinner to go to and I’m on my menstrual cycle. The last thing I need is my pants line showing 🤦🏾♀️
Just wear your natural hair is the best
@@NeishaPeterson-b7k?
Uhhhhnhhhhhh
One final tip ladies, watch out for bra and panty lines...
Thank you for watching 🤍
I'm fully with you on panty lines, and so easy to be avoided! However, being a plus size women I feel I have no chance of avoiding my bra showing on the bank. If I bought it larger, it wouldn't hold my breast. So if you got tips for that - please share!! ❤
Yesss 100%
@@LiNa-yl8qs omg, panty lines are the bane of my dressing experience rn😭 How is it easily avoided?? I try and buy seamless underwear and the whole nine but there always seems to be a very OBVIOUS lines and I hate it soo much! Any advice will be greatly appreciated!!!🤍
@@carlygreen2293You can try thongs or even no underwear. If you feel uncomfortable with no underwear, you can wear shapewear with no underwear (weather permitting of course). The shapewear is sometimes long enough to not show lines. There’s even seamless shapewear, but seamless doesn’t always work with ultra thin fabrics.
Buy them in a nude color that matched your skin so if the fabric is thinner there isn’t a color contrast between your body and underwear.
Best advice I’ve ever heard, “Dress like you’re going to meet your ex, your crush and the love of your life all in the same day”.
Love this!!
OMG! You need to absolutely keep it! Whether it's true or not, this is special to you. People create packages, packages do not create people. Rock it girl, salute *suluxy* !
Love it!!
3 Reasons Why I Subscribed
1. You get directly into the content at first click
2. Your advice is timeless without gimmicks
3. It's like me listening to a friend who wants me to be my best
I am glad to have you here!! 🎉🤍
Aaaaand she looks like what she’s preaching. I like it here. ❤
She's like that teacher that wants the best for their student & loves them all insanely much! :D
Facts! I was thinking the same I had to put my headphones in to listen close lmao
Agree! No stories. These days, attention is currency and she gets it! ❤
Smelling nice is also an invaluable tip.
Yes, and nothing overpowering. Just a nice scent that people notice when they step into your personal space.
Yaaassssssss
That can be tricky. Fragrance can be a turn off and even make other people sick.
Avoid strong perfume, don't use spray in public spaces, including the gym and the restroom
A signature scent that captivates and gets compliments over and over again is THEE cherry on top! And they should only smell it when they lean in for a kiss or a hug.
I have learned less is more. I recently was in Europe and one thing I noticed was the women did there makeup and attire more simply which made them look so much more sophisticated
I agree. It depends on the country, but overall it's true.
I am French (born and raised in Paris), and I was definitely raised with a "less is more" approach, for any occasion (work, dates, parties, even my own wedding).
For ex, regarding nails budget: I take care of them with homemade family recipes (basically lemon, sugar and oil). With a simple trim and nude polish on that I apply myself, I am good to go and it looks elegant without costing money. Same for my face, hair, and body: with proper care, you don't need many tools, products, or make-up to feel that you CAN look elevated if you need/want to.
I love that women can choose whatever they want, minimalistic or maximalist style, but it's nice to know that you have alternatives when you lack time, money, or motivation.
I must say I prefer how French women in particular dress and makeup. It is not over the top, loud and ostentatious.
@@HeyTitouvideos hi. Can you tell me how you do the lemon, sugar for nails?
@@jasminetandie2700 Sure! First I prepare a mix of ground brown sugar and oil (jojoba, or olive oil), and a mix of olive and castor oils. Sometimes, just olive oil.
For a few minutes, I start with a "little bath" for my nails with warm water and about (half a) lemon juice. Then I change the water to warm water without lemon, to put my whole hands in it (when I am lazy I use the same water, but lemon can be aggressive on the skin).
I use the DIY sugar and oil scrub on my hands, then rinse it and apply the oil mix while massaging my hands and nails with it. It's incredible! I found this idea on RUclips years ago, but I cannot remember who made it if anyone knows, because they would deserve the credit.
Hope it helps!
❤❤❤👍💯
I have natural nails, hair, lashes and all but I don’t see the need to be on here attacking people in the comments for what they do.
Ladies a short French press on nail saves time, money and you always look elegant. Also go to the gym and make sure you maintain a decent shape. Don’t have to be skinny, but don’t have to be obeseEither. none of this matters if the canvas is not put together.
Gluing plastic on your body is as classy as it sounds
You sure working full time with these comments. Go away with your prideful spirit.
@@alyxxa6182 Agreed.
@@parishers6351most people I know are working full time with kids. Still go to the gym or do a daily home workout. The tip is great. Not for everyone, but true nontheless. Being in shape helps you look put together. It’s not the only way, but A way.
@@alyxxa6182trolling🤷🏽♀️
Watching clean rich classy beautiful women videos is my favourite hobby 😂
A beauty schedule for me has always worked
Friday is exfoliation day
Every 1st of the month is mani-pedi
Every 2 months -eyebrows.
Every 5-6 weeks major hairstyling. .
Discipline is good. Budget friendly also !
The tip that really helped me is the nude / natural colored nails
Awesome! 🤍
Take care of your skin. Have a good skin, make the things a lot easier in the mornings to look good without effort with make up.
Taking notes
Wonderful 🤍
0:23 That's true. When you look your worst you run into people who you want them seeing you looking absolutely the best.
This!
Facts. That’s why I don’t take chances. Not even when I run into the grocery store right next to my house.
@@lydiaheelu2681samee. I always try ti look good when i am out. Never know when you might into an x. It happened to me twice and both times he trief to talk to me. So it is always good to look good.
Every time.
I have learnt that you can look good with little budget, just pay attention to details
What I hear is that being intentional also means being disciplined enough to take care of your appearance and your personal items
You look elegant miss Ayanime
Thank you beautiful 🤍
and best way to look classy, is aim to look like 'Old money'.
Dont even bother getting your nails done, learn how to do basic manicure yourself, buff shine ur nails.
dainty jewelry
Old money European post 1900s? Or old money from Africa, India, Asia? Or old money European pre 1900? Because many people of real old old money who were dripping in colorful fabrics and jewels?
@@HosCreates the old money style that is very trendy now. Everybody knows which
@thesensitiveowl but why does it have to be post 1950s European old money? It's so boring and basic! Bring back the colors of OLD money around the world! We live in a global economy why be basic and boring?!
Jewelry that suits you. Dainty looks ridiculous on me.
@@MsWill813this! Different things suit different people. Same with the “old money” look, it suites some but not others. Colourful clothing from India, Africa (either traditional or modern fashion) or other places can also look amazing and really classy, especially on people from those cultures (it’s the same as how some colours look good on different people).
Tips
1. Develop a maintenance schedule
2. Choose short, nude colored nails. Get a nail kit
3. Wear strip lashes underneath your eyes
4. Have a go-to outfit for lazy days
5. Have a quick makeup routine
6. Dress for your body shape and complexion
7. Choose flattering hair style/invest in hair tools
8. Choose timeless pieces (cut, color, fabric) over trendy pieces. Choose neutral colors and timeless prints (ie. Houndstooth). Choose fabrics that look expensive (ie. Slk, cotton, viscose)
9. Use accessories to elevate wardrobe (ie. Sunglasses, dainry necklaces, structured bags, belts). When in doubt, wear heels.
10. Pay attn to the details
Thank you 😊
Also always go for pieces that look well made! Neutrals won't fix the cheap impression if the shirt is sewn badly
I love no 6, very important❤❤
What does it mean to wear lashes underneath?
Note: I've never used lashes before.
God bless
The biggest thing is keeping your hair looking good, but sometimes I just can’t afford to, it’s hard when you’re broke
I feel you😢
Then go to simple hairstyles that do not require too much maintenance… there are tons of options. Check Pinterest
I searched RUclips until I found a hair cut that I could do to myself that I really liked. I know that’s not for everyone, but it makes my hair look nice and saves money. Just takes time and it’s pretty scary the first time, but if you go slow and just take the time, it’s very doable. OR I’ve also just done a super simple haircut that can be maintained by getting a friend with a steady hand or my mother to just trim the ends straight when need be.
A cute head wrap, edges, and dainty earrings goes a long way
RUclips a slick ponytail! It always gets me right!
I like it here. It’s giving clean, polished and classy. Since those are the things I like I’m going to subscribe because we become like those we associate with.
Awww… glad to have you here! 🎉🤍
Yessss ma’am 🥰💕
Omg the lazy day outfits is genius, thank you!!!!
My pleasure 🤍
Looking your best on your worst day is a power move! Thanks for sharing your expertise with us!
My pleasure
I used to be very frumpy and not put together regarding my looks overall. I figured out that's no the life I wanted anymore so I changed.
I decided to level up severely all of sudden and became so beautiful and put together. Even though I feel so good and very confident it's no easy to maintain yourself everyday. You should properly planning and stick to your schedule to avoid delays a procrastination 😊. By the and of the day it is worth it.
Absolutely! It’s always worth it 🤍
@purpleviolet9046 read this book: Emotional Intelligent Leaders, read alot of about self improvement mostly Emotional intelligence, look for therapy as well. You'll become emotional stable and very strong mentally.
@purpleviolet9046therapy, reading books to improve in areas you want to improve in, journaling, if you’re a person of faith- developing in this
I just create my own lazy day outfits, natural nails is a win win😁
👏🏾👏🏾
I cover my hair, a nice, well done hair wrap is my ultimate hack. It doesn’t matter how bad of hair day it is or how tired you are, you will look put together with your hair wrapped.
#4 is the very best tip for me. When I was in an office and seeing clients daily, I would plan outfits for a week at a time. Now that my work is remote, it’s sometimes a struggle to put together an outfit on short notice. Having a “go to” outfit is the perfect solution.
I’ve been using the lazy day outfit tip .. and it really does work!!! You’ll never catch me slipping 😂
I maintain my natural nails, that's because my nails have white tips and I like to accentuate them. Additionally, I wear my natural hair and I go for a natural look when it comes to makeup if you can identify what works for you and you are comfortable in your own skin go for it, ladies. Less is more
I always say; "take what works and leave what doesn't." 🤍
Clean, manicured nails look way better than grown out acrylics! If you cannot afford the upkeep or need to cut back in some areas, make sure you keep up with your natural nails! Clear polish, clip cuticles, and filed nails go further than unkept acrylics! Trust me!
Funny enough the bonus tip was most helpful especially when you mentioned how we are not prioritizing a nice appearance to impress others but for ourselves. An important reminder!
I cannot believe I am just finding such chanel!!! I love....now let me binge watch everrrrrry video.❤❤❤❤ 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇩🇪 🇩🇪 🇩🇪 🇩🇪 🇩🇪
Yay! 🎉🎉 I’m glad to have you here 🤍
No matter how old my hair style is, if i keep it shiny it looks fresh. Just some Sheen spray/serum will bring the shine back and make my old hair look freshened up and intentional! Plus my silver hairs pop with a shine spray and i get compliments often... On my old hair lol!
Which shine spray u used ??
I'm from Brazil. Here, it's common to wear the nails natural. There are some people that have nails like she said in the video, but I prefer to have my real nails done every week at the salon. It also makes it easier to change the nail color ❤
Ditto, I like choosing colours by the week and often I do them myself if I'm stuck. People with shellac,gel,fake nails always complain that they're due to be done,broken etc seems tiresome
I compliment your advice. It is good to smell fresh always. Any loose helm in your cloth should be amended in order to look polished at all times.
It's expensive in the states to get nail done weekly. But I plan to do my own beginning of the new year
For some people who are doctors for example or other healthcare professionals, natural nails are all they are allowed. A lot of people have very weak, unhealthy nails under acrylic and shellac nails. Nothing wrong with getting a clean simple manicure(or doing it yourself) and painting your nails at home. Plus side, is you can actually close your zips yourself.
You look so elegant,well put together and look like you practice exactly what you preach.A very good example for all ladies,especially these young girls coming up.Well done sista!
I don’t subscribe to YT channels…it’s probably been years since the last time I did before just now. I’ll just say I’m Gen X and I thank you for making quality content that’s usable. 🥰
Oh glad to have you here! 🎉🤍
I love how subtle your make up looks 😍
Thank you beautiful 🤍
I love nude nails tip. But right now i have been LOVING maroon nails with gold rings. They look incredible ❤ the reddish nails and gold combo is super classy
I agree, it gives an aura of sophistication.
@@chidinmannadozie9730 I agree 😍
Guys update: the maroon definitely does chip and looks pretty bad unless u regularly keep touching up which is a lot of extra work every night. Today someone showed up as a surprise at work and I felt embarrassed about my chipped marroon nails. Definitely need to switch to nude coloured nails
@@umchileanywayssohave you tried top coat?
@@umchileanywaysso Give your nails an extra wipe with polish remover to ensure all oils are removed then apply Orly base coat, 2 coats of polish and Orly top coat. I get 5-6 days without chips.
If I even saw you on your lazy day’s dress I would have complimented you 😂.. you looked soo sophisticated ❤😭
Yessss! Dressing for your body type is the key to looking polished and wearing solid colors always looks classy, more expensive. Great tips!
You are beautiful and your message is so positive. It really comes down to organization and loving yourself. We all get busy, take care of others, and put ourselves last sometimes. If we begin with ourselves it enhances what we give to others
Intentional outfit.. for a lazy day! Ah I definitely do this. I scowl the stores for such garments that are easy to wear and elevated for that exact reason. Now my wardrobe is built and it’s easy for me to have outfits for days ahead on reserve and I match them that way in the closet.
You got a follower ❤️💐
You're gorgeous and you sound like Dimma Umeh ❤
You know I’ve heard that several times and she’s one of my favorite RUclipsrs… thank you beautiful 🤍
I always wear dresses, and prefer a preppy, resort, or structured look. I’d love to see a video of more casual options.
OMG! You need to absolutely keep it! Whether it's true or not, this is special to you. People create packages, packages do not create people. Rock it girl, salute *suluxy* !
Have grooming schedule. That is what I need.
I highly recommend to figure out your Kibbe Body Type (free) and get a colour analysis. Body Typing focuses on the proportions and bone structure, not just size/weight. For example for me as a Soft Dramatic, delicate Jewelry makes me look heavier and bigger, same for small details in clothing. I need bigger shapes.
Colour Analysis also changed my buying habits. Its so much easier to shop now
Agreed❤ It made WONDERS for me when I figured it out (although I had to let go some pieces I loved 😢😅
How did you do the colour analysis?
Please how
The tip I really needed to hear is having a go to outfit and commit to my appearance. I had to learn how to be feline on my own so this video is super helpful.
Tip 6 - so important. There are so many clothes I love looking at but can’t wear.
I would suggest a headband wig for emergency or lazy days. I have natural curly hair. Sometimes in the harsh winter months here in Europe, I wear headband wigs. I have 2, a curly and a straight. Both are same length and texture to my natural hair. My coworkers actually believe it is my hair. I just got a ponytail also.
Ayanime, i just found your channel and I already love your content. All your tips are so true and valuable! Maintenance schedule is a must; I know every three weeks is waxing and nails day. Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday are exfoliation day, and so on. I call the lazy day outfit my “uniform”, I follow Kibbe ID body types to dress, so I know tight clothes make me look like a turkey 😂, I always go for flow, long lines and silky fabrics with open necklines. For hair, my go-to accessories are silk scarfs. I have heavy HEEEEAVY locks, so when I’m on a bad hair day I just cover it with a beautiful silk scarf that matches my outfit. Loved your video, subscribed!
Please include more pictures
The one that was new to me and that I will keep in mind is the idea of a lazy day outfit, that would be pre-planned. I need to save "decision-making energy" in the morning so that is a brilliant idea. Thank you.
Love your tiny necklace so beautiful .
Thank you beautiful 🤍
Master wearing DRESSES!!!
dress
dress
dress
a wmn will ALWAYS look elegant, polish, classy throwing on a dress.
even with hair in a bun/ponytail
clean face, lil color
clean body and perfume
but with a DRESS ON, ull always look like (esplly to men) like u put in maximum effort into ur look. Lol
plus its MEGA EASY to just put on a dress.
Excellent tip! Thank you for sharing...
@@delaslightno, it is bad for your legs and also not suitable for active work. Nice shoes can be on the small platform or with a small elegant heel. Just something neat is fine
I definitely follow this line of thought for some years now. I get compliments when I am in a dress. I alos work in a male dominated space, so I make sure to look like a woman and wearing a dress does help.
not only that you don’t have to waste time matching pieces together and everyone treats you different when you’re wearing a dress, including other women. strange but true.
I love that you are doing this content! God knows our people need classy representation. Sorry, not sorry but ladies please send this to al your friends and family in need of some class
Gotta appreciate how 4RA handles recalculations, always fair and quick
The nails and makeup part felt like a wake up call :)
Hi Ayanime, can you please do a separate video for your simple makeup look? I've been looking for simple makeup looks for the longest, but RUclips is full of full-on makeups 🤦♀️
These are some really good tips. I have two piece outfits available for my lazy days. I'm a lazy person, so having two to three piece outfits always available is a must, half my wardrobe is sets hanging up in my closet.
Sounds so stress-free... it's great to hear you found a way to deal with it rather than adopting the "take me as I am" mindset. Love it! 🤍
Omgggggg….. you sound so much like Dinma umeh….. like it’s actually scary how similar y’all sound. ❤❤❤
Right!? It’s so uncanny…
Exactly
I've heard that several times, I guess I have to start believing it
Really true 😅
Babe I literally played the video and pictured Dimma, new subscriber here and you are soo good at this. You are doing good work.
Thank you 🙏💕@@ayanime_edem
I also only wear my lashes under now. I agree with nude nails but also I do my own with glue on nails so they are never in need of a fill.
EXCELLENT video. All of the tips were extremely informative. I especially appreciated the have a “lazy outfit “ tip.
My pleasure, I’m glad it was helpful 🤍
My take today is appearance on errands, I always found myself meeting people that respect me but found me messy which upset me so going forward I will leave home looking my best as I never know who I will meet on the way
Great job. I praise God that zi learned all this from a youth as my mother was a woman of class. I also learned what a lady is through my church. One key thing you didn't mention is UNDERGARMENTS. Girdles, shapewear, slips, pantyhose, camisoles, etc. The continued proper use of undergarments is the difference between a woman and a lady 💜
Simplicity is elegant. Less is more.
I appreciate the information, people would always call me African as if it meant something dirty and ugly. I like how you project yourself, your tone and speech is also elegant.
So soft spoken and I felt more like a friendly advice😊
You look so beautiful 😍 new Subscriber. New tip I learnt: have a lazy day outfit prepared ✅️
Yay!🎉 Glad to have you here beautiful 🤍
Having an outfit for lazzy days was really an amazing idea that i never thought of
I love how 4ra handles verification, so quick without any fuss
Gotta love how 4ra manages to keep every bet feeling fresh and fair, they know how to run a game.
😂 how funny, my nails haven’t been done in MONTHSSSS and that’s NOT like me. I just did my nails a few hours ago in a nude pink color. I missed my 💅🏽 so much 😢
But first I did my hair. 🎉 I’m so happy and feel so feminine already. 🥰
The under eye lashes❤❤❤❤
FINALLY!!! Someone else talks about the nail glue. I’ve carried it around with years of I’m not walking around with a missing nail lol 😭
I like how precise your videos/tips are…what stood out for me is the “grooming schedule’ and “lazy outfit “ days
Thank you so much Ayanime . This video was so valuable ❤
I would say nails every 2 weeks. I don’t like seeing growing out at all. I like seeing toe nail polish matching finger nails. I also get my lashes done every 2 weeks. I don’t like to have a long beauty routine daily.
I was expecting your lazy day outfit to look lazy-ish 😂. Girl, that was glam!
My weight fluctuates, so I need several lazy day outfits!
Yoh this advice is so helpful! 🎉 Thank you so much for putting us on GAME with this ❤
The only stile i know is pleasing God going tothe gym keeping your body in shape anx your smiles light makeup alittle lip st is all a lady need .
The powder pallet tip, Solved a major problem Ime thanks
My pleasure 🤍
What is the name of the powder pallet?@@ayanime_edem
My go-to outfit for when I'm running late or grabbing something quick from the store are black leggings, a cardigan and black tank top (long sleeve turtle neck now that it's cold). Or I'll do black leggings with a black pull over hoodie with sneakers. It's not over dressed but it also doesn't give "I just rolled out of bed".
I loved that bonus tip
Amazing tips. I struggle with wearing necklaces, I also do not like scarves around my neck
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Keeping my nails nude! Thank youuuu ❤💅
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Girl I just love your presentation . Thank you. I really needed this
Thank-you so much girl❤
First time watching you here and I love it. Subscribed ❤❤
Yay! Glad to have you here 🤍🎉
love your hairstyle. you look so beautiful and elegant
No.6...Ding!Ding!Ding!
Developing a maintenance schedule was the best for me and having a lazy day outfit. Thank you for sharing.
All the points are for meeeee
Can you achieve this while dressing casual?
Thank you so much for this video. I work so much, along with being a wife and mom, and many times I just throw on some stretch pants and go. One day I was looking so far away from my best, and I kept seeing people who knew me everywhere I went! 😩😩 I want to look nice and well put together but I don’t have the time or energy most days. This video is such a big help! Thanks!
I love your entire look here, especially the minimal/ dainty jewelry. This is my everyday goal.
I'm glad I chanced on this channel. I know a lot already and I'm learning so many things. Thank you, Ayanime
Just won with 4ra last week, their odds made it so easy.