Christian Wife of a Non-Believing Husband? What do you do? Part 1
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- Опубликовано: 12 фев 2015
- What do you do when you're a Christian but your husband is not? You practice 1 Peter 3:1-4. Find out how on today's Front Porch Friday with author/Christian women's speaker Laurie Cole.
Born again christian here. My husband told me today that my faith bothers him and thinks it's "ridiculous". It broke my heart, but I told him it will never change and I will choose God over him. All I can do now is pray. I don't want to lose him, I don't want him to leave me over this, but I won't give up my faith no matter what he says.
I'm in this storm right now. I would love to hear if anything has changed a year later.
Same here . Update pls ?
Update please 😭
I'm in this too
Stay strong my sisters. What this lovely sister is explaining in this video is all we need to do. When we struggle with patience ask Jesus to help you. If you struggle with unforgiveness ask the Lord to teach you how to love unconditionally. Whatever it is, when we change for the love of God, when we will be occupied studying the word and praying for our spouse and when we are too busy loving them (even when it's hard) we will have no time to worry and before we know it, our faith will have already moved mountains. Glory to God. By the way, my husband was teaching in Church, and now he won't even enter into a Church. I'm believing for him to fall in love with Jesus like never before. But as this lady here said, we need to be respectful to him, and loving, and be gentle. We can win them by obeying the word of God.
🩷 Joshua 1:6-9 KJV
Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.
When my husband and I first started dating, I was the sinner and he was the man of God. Now, 3 years of marriage and 2 children under 2, it’s the other way around. Please pray for my husband David, and please pray for me. I love him so much. I just want him to be that man again and to have God in his life once more.
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Please pray for my husband and I, that we become equally yoked. Thank you for posting this video.
God bless both of our marriages and help us become equally yoked in Jesus name Amen 💚
God Bless our Marriages/Relationships with our spouses
So you husband is non believer?
Sisters and brothers look for the definition of yasa-h3318 and badal-h914 in Hebrew I want to show you what ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH has shown me giving clarity and understanding so that we see what HE is commanding us to do HalleluYAH
And everyone that has forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or woman, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life. MATTITHYAHU (MATTHEW) 19:29 את CEPHER
ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH is speaking to HIS remnant men and women of Israel, sons and daughters of ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH to come out from the polluted the unclean be ye not mixed with them we must separate from them and be a separate qodesh nation for ABBA YAH TZEVAOTH only
Houses-
G3615 ››
‹‹ G3613
οἰκία
Transliteration: oikia
Pronunciation: oy-kee'-ah
Part of Speech: feminine noun
Root Word (Etymology): From οἶκος (G3624)
TDNT Reference: 5:131,674
Outline of Biblical Usage:
1 a house
1 an inhabited edifice, a dwelling
2 the inmates of a house, the family
3 property, wealth, goods
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My heart has been so heavy for my husband all I do is cry for his salvation thank you for this video..my husband believes in god but he doesn't really believe anything else he told me he wants to believe but he just can't believe in it as much as I do. He thinks hes a good person which he is but he think that's all that's needed. His name is Chris please pray for em. Ty
Hello dear my name is Jima. Incase your faith is limited towards the life of your husband or marriage,please read my testimony. 30 years ago when I got married to my lovely husband,he pretended to be a chirstain. Immediately after our marriage he turn against God and church. Since then, the devil entered his life and he started drinking and womanizing. I was worried about the situation until a friend of mine recommended me to a powerful prophet. I contacted him and to my greatest surprise,he healed and deliver my husband from his afflictions and to today he is free. My husband is one of the strong members in my church. If you need same healing and deliverance in the life of your husband and marriage,message prophet on WhatsApp. (+234814435818) via email healowaemay@gmail.com
I have the same situation with my girlfriend of 2 years.. we have so many plans together. And she doesn’t believe in God the way that we believe. She believes that we can both be together even if we have diferente believes but I know that that’s not true. It will be a constant battle. Idk what to do but I really want her to follow God with me
Do not get married if you’re unequally yoked. If it’s His will for you to be married, God has made your wife equally yoked to you. Do not hurt yourself by disobeying Him and His will for your life. It will only hurt you if you do.
I'm Canadian and married a man from Pennsylvania. I went from a busy city of Vancouver to the farm country. This was 3 years ago. My son and I were saved last year. My husband grew up catholic for doesn't believe in anything anymore. He throws in my face that I'm Christian then some days he will go to church with me. He is a logical man and lives by science as proof of no God. We fight a lot. I needed this video. So thank you. He is stubborn and can get pretty mean. I hope I can do this.
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Is he doing something that is not right in God's eyes. There are degrees of sin. My husband was addicted to pornography. Just saying. God bless you.
OMG this was good. This was so so good. Thank you so much for this video. It popped into my heart this morning and it's been something I have struggled with in my marriage as well. I have renewed my walk with the Lord, but I have never fallen out of my faith. My husband has been "agnostic" since he fell out of his faith in high school 10 years ago. I realized I had been that pushy girlfriend/wife that was trying to force him to believe again and I, myself wasn't even living out the life he needed to see to even want to come back to his faith. I was not submissive to him, I was not respecting him as my husband the man of our household. And I have been a huge hypocritical Christian wife. I am learning and growing stronger in my walk with the Lord on this deployment and when I return home in a few months, I pray that my actions will show my husband I am changed and I am going to submit to him like a wife is suppose to, I will respect him and in my actions, I pray that sooner or later, God will work in and through my husband and he will believe again and we will be able to worship as husband and wife. I pray this so often, but just realized I need to get out of God's way and work on myself first and allow God to work in my husband. This was something I really needed to hear. Thank you so much for this message!!
This God mindset is why most women will never submit to their man...they can't serve two masters. This trick knowledge was the hate set between man and woman in archaic times. They/we thank God for all good and evil and women thank God even in orgasm saying, "oh my God", not crediting the man for his sincere intimacy. You will terminate your God in the flesh for your God in the Bible? Any woman considering leaving him clearly shows you who her body and mind belong to. Men, this is why most of you don't get all the goodies you want and thus have to resort to cheating with a freak...When a woman realizes she and her man are one God body then they will know the truth and ascend together. Love your partner whole and make that your ultimate God/Goddess. 🌳
This was amazing! I have so much work to do on myself. My husband proposed to me in 2018. We moved in together and I hadn’t been to church since then. Now, I’m paying for it. Because I could’ve spent those years working on myself and commuting myself to Gods word and be an example. But instead I did come under my fiancés leadership and I just ended up falling into my rebellious ways. Now we’ve been married 7 months and it has been difficult. I want to serve my husband and work on my terrible attitude. My pastor told me the same thing. Now I need to get back into church. It’s going to be a slow process. There’s going to be a lot of alter calls and learning to pray for my husband and let God work on him. I can’t wait for the day! I have to remind myself not to get discouraged but also have patience. Because God was patient with you when you were lost.
I am still thankful for this message and have grown closer to the Lord in the last several weeks. Alot has changed in the form of communication with my husband too. Praise the Lord! We were able to be in God’s house together today. Wishing you a Happy Easter! God is always good.
I'm in an unequally yoked marriage. I had become pregnant as he left to Iraq as my boyfriend. I didn't get to tell him for a few weeks after he had gotten to his deployment area. He was gone for nearly the entire pregnancy returning 1 month before delivery. During the time he was gone, God worked on my heart, pulling me back into the fold. My extremely conservative Christian father told me that sometimes, God allows things like this to happen to pull us from a path leading to destruction, that my child was a blessing. To receive such grace and encouragement from him was a huge deal as I was sure he would be so angry. During that time, I decided that my daughter deserved to be born into a family. I'm not sure whether or not it was the right decision, but it seemed as though having her mother and father under one roof was most important. He returned and we got married 2 weeks before she arrived in front those few family and friends who could make it with a 2 day notice. We have made 9 yrs and my faith has been shaken from dealing with financial struggle to natural disasters and there were many times where I wanted to give up and stop trying. It seems as though the more I seek God, the more Satan uses my husband to deter me. My daughter was saved at 6 and that child sincerely hurts for her daddy's salvation. When I feel weak, God has always used her to remind me that He is in control. She reads her bible to her younger brother and sister and helped lead my son to Christ when he was 6. My prayer has always been that my children accept Christ young. So where there was only one dim light burning in our home, there are now three. This video keeps the reminder forefront, that I need to stay out of God's way and continue to minister to my children and praying for my husband. I always hope my kids will see this one day as God's timing is not our own when my husband finally decides to serve Christ.
AS if it's an inevitability. LOL. You need to accept that there is a very good chance that your husband will never "serve" Christ. People do not choose their beliefs. You do your thing and let him do his thing if you want the marriage to last.
Tabitha Dupas your husband is not going to get an imaginary friend just because you have one. leave him alone. as long as he loves you, be happy.
I can so relate to every line here...
Satan using my husband to deter me...
Getting married while being pregnant and deciding that having both parents is the most important ...
Praying for my children to choose Jesus from a young age
@@welshie2007 me too
Feels like the story of my life actually
@@davidveilleux944 maybe to some extent you're right
I've come to the point where I have to decide to serve God even if He doesn't ever save my husband
To just make up my mind to not get divorced cos we're unequally yoked
To serve God regardless of my husband
To be the happy devoted wife of an unbelieving husband
I wish I had seen this 5 years ago before I got married, or was thinking clearly enough to know how hard it would be to be unequally yoked in my marriage. I've been struggling with fear of divorce and loneliness in my marriage because my husband is a non-believer. These dividing and stressful times have made things even worse. This was a message full of practical and encouraging words - thank you so much. It's given me hope and purpose. I'll be watching more - to be sure. :)
How's your marriage? Is it easy or difficult?
I just broke up with my gf of 6 years. Amazing women but the fact she didn't believe in God really made me walk away. I feel horrible, heart broken, but I just felt like how can I have a wife that doesn't pray for my kids, my kids will be confused if Dads a believer and Mom believes in science. Disappointed but if God wants me in her life I'm sure it'll happen.
@@Unxpekted yeah your right believer only marry to believer
You should never get a divorce if your husband is living don’t leave remember your vows live by the BIBLE
Thank you... I am literally in tears after watching this. I could not wrap my mind around the Christians that constantly push Hell on people for simply loving someone. Please any and everyone on this post, pray for my strength in my marriage
Her case is different. She married someone who she thought was Christian like her, hence the grace. Her situation is not the typical story of a Christian who knowingly marries an unbeliever.
The chapter she read is mostly for a Christian who accepted Christ after marriage. Those types of soul winning are common.
But a Christian who knowingly marries an unbeliever? In nearly 10 years of faith I've only seen 1 case of an unequally yoked Christian woman before marriage who won her husband to Christ. It's the exception not the rule, God knows why he allowed it. If that was supposed to be the rule, warnings FROM GOD about being unequally yoked wouldn't have been written.
ALL my Christian friends married to an unbeliever told me to never ever ever do it. If those marriages won souls that would be the easiest way to win them. My point is unless God gives you permission, calling you to a special mission, you should not entertain the idea. Many believers lives have been wrecked for making such a choice.
Purple Rose why do you have to win a soul? why not just leave them alone and be happy in the marriage. my wife is christian, i am an atheist. she doesn't nag, and i don't bother her about it. all i require is evidence. i always tell believers, ask god what to say to change my mind. after all, if god didn't want me to be an atheist, i wouldn't be one.
Melanin Setapart just enjoy your marriage, if he loves you, that is what matters. i am an atheist, my wife is a christian,we are happy.
@@louiscyfer6944 I agree, I myself do not believe in organized religion even though my heart does belongs to Christ; because I am a witness to a supernatural miracle in his name,"; as crazy as that may sound; NO where did he ever tell people to be religious nor did he ever say to be CHRISTIANS, he actually at one point said he HATES religion. Christians have issues with conviction. EVERYTHING given in this world is an assignment and most people miss their blessings because they are so busy cursing! Each one of us is a church...
For we are God's fellow workers; you are God's field, you are God's building..(Cor 3:9) Religion is man made because the Bible teaches KINGDOM, and the Kingdom of God is within you not a building!
Melanin Setapart how did you determine that it was a miracle, and that it was supernatural?
I’m a Christian and my husband is not we had a baby before and so we got married now that we are married I feel totally lifeless and negative living with him and it’s so hard to remain hopeful in a situation where you feel like you can’t truly share yourself with your spouse. Pray for me please ladies I have no idea what to do and I feel like I couldn’t spend one more day in this
I spent 23 years with my unbelieving (now ex husband) I know exactly how you feel. I felt like I was dying in the last 2 years of the marriage. I now regret divorcing him because I have to remain single as I watch him happily with a new partner of 10 years. I hope you both are doing better.
@@iamtlc4u Theres still hope most unequally yoked women that have separated think they can’t marry but they actually can .
SING, O barren, you that did not bear; break forth into singing, and cry aloud, you that did not travail with child: for more are the children of the desolate than the children of the married woman, says Yahuah. Enlarge the place of your tent, and let them stretch forth the curtains of your habitations: spare not, lengthen your cords, and strengthen your stakes; For you shall break forth on the right hand and on the left; and your seed shall inherit the other nations, and make the desolate cities to be inhabited. YESHA'YAHU (ISAIAH) 54:1-3 את CEPHER
@@iamtlc4u if you have children file child support. Some men act certain ways with you, other ways with other woman.
So my daughter was a Christian. I say was because I feel like she's falling off. The fence like she's falling off onto the other side of the fence because she got enticed by a man who I believe is a demon. He doesn't believe in God he mocks God. He laughs at my daughter for it. He makes jokes about it. He thinks it's a huge joke and my daughter was enticed from him with money. And she was easily enticed by money and that's the spirit of money from my mom and my dad and I'm not for me because I don't care about money but from them. And so she was enticed by that and he lied to her and then he got her pregnant 3 months into their relationship talked her into it and yeah, she wavered easily. She was a week and then she made him marry her before the my granddaughter was born and thinking that that was gonna be OK with God. But I know that it's not and so they got married and. Then on, and on, he's constantly mocking God, he has kids that are wicked that cast spells, and you know do witchcraft in my daughter's house with my granddaughter who's 2 and a 1/2, and my daughter says she can't do anything about it. And she all a while can't stand her husband but won't leave him. And now she's pregnant again and I'm telling you. I feel helpless. I keep praying to God that something will change. But my faith with God is fairly new. My walk with Jesus. I haven't made friends with the Holy Spirit yet. I don't have the Holy Spirit in me. So I feel like I don't have that fight yet. And I'm just so worried about my granddaughter who is in a bad place. I'm a bad home and now. Another baby's coming. And so I know how you feel. And i'd like to know what to do too. Cause I've left a message here.
I find your videos so comforting. I viewed this a few years ago. I am now separating from my husband because he is abusive. He wants a divorce. I have a peace about not living in the same home with him. I have done all I could, but I can't have my children abused and witnessing me be abused. I have done all I could to rectify the situation.
be careful when you decide to go through a divorce. in the past judges gave primary custody to women. I will say those of women now days ruin that for good moms. women who lie about fathers being abusive yup! so some judges will favor the father side. there are more fathers now getting full custody! some fathers who are a narssistic parent even women that are Narssistic parents win full custody!!! a lot of judges can be sexist. You should listen to Steve miller who speaks about family law when it comes to custody issues. keep in mind some children will lie for the parent then alienation will come next
I bursted out in tears when you said that your husband eventually came to Christ. I met my boyfriend two years ago, after having many bad experiences with men who said they were Christian but didn’t live through God. I was so sick of it, I prayed and prayed to God for a good man who would treat me right. A week later he showed up. My current boyfriend isn’t Christian but he is so pure and so good. I want to marry him so badly and we have plans for a great future. This video showed me what I have to do, which is work on myself and let the Lord take care of him. Thank you so much.
I'm looking for love... I'm praying God to help me find that right woman from God.. I see her in my visions many times. If you se this message.. answer, because maybe its you that I see.
@@rachelpaul9988 Why do you laugh, woman? LOL Yes..
This is exactly my story too
Don't marry an unbeliever. If you are already married, then leave it to God. If you aren't married to them yet, RUUUUUUN!!
This message is for un equally yoked already Married couples. If you aren’t married do not continue a relationship with an unbeliever! It will hinder your relationship with God and will go against His will for you and will cause you lots of suffering. You submit to your husband not your boyfriend. Pray for him but if it’s not God’s will I pray He gives you the strength and wisdom to walk away and that He would make a way if there be one or block the way if it means protecting you for a lifetime of unnecessary suffering.
In tears! Thank you for these words and may God bless your life tremendously. I really needed to hear this. I recently decided that is time to give Jesus my ALL and have been praying everyday for my husband’s salvation. I have been debating within me on how to tell him that he needs to give is life to Him and change his ways. Your words have opened my eyes! Only God almighty can change and work in his hearts. I trust that the Lord will reach him in His timing, not mine. I most definitely will continue to pray for him every single day. God bless you!!
No two lives are the same. Every person's spiritual journey is like climbing a mountain and whose path may be totally different from another person. I feel like a large percentage of Christians spend most of their time circling the base of the mountain trying to convince others that they are going the wrong way.
Ten Second BuickGN its hard to know the difference and not want to share it. I was not raised in Christianity...and didn't see my life transformed until I surrendered to God fully.Spent time with God.
Then,... depression. Anxiety, fears,... started to leave me. Deliverance prayers have helped so much .
How can u not share that?
Transformed you say.....you mean indoctrinated.
SkepticalJ do you know me? I'm talking about a relationship. Not a doctrine.But, hey you miss all you want. You have free will ....because transformed means... my life is better. Im not religious as you are assuming. Im free.i came from a rough past.i was skeptical too.
Skeptical is a spirit.Let God set you free.
Most Christians I know also say they have a relationship with god. So is Christianity not considered a religion anymore? Is it just a relationship with an imaginary being now?
@@user-or4dm1fv3f not an imaginary being. Christianity isn't what you think it is. it's only and only a relationship with GOD. just because i haven't seen a kangaroo doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Same is with GOD. GOD still loves you and the greatest news ever is that HE died for your sins, that is if you're willing to accept it.
Thank you, I've been nagging so much... And it's all because I love him so much and want him to know Jesus. I understand that I need to step aside and let the Lord take care of it.
Megie Pie nagging doesn't help. if god didn't want him to be an atheist he wouldn't be one. if he loves you that is what matters. why do you want to push an imaginary friend on him. it is your imaginary friend. if that helps you get through the day, fine, but why bother other people with it?
@1987shachar that's very good, i am not aware of anyone who thinks that's what happened. no wonder you reject science when you don't understand it. i wouldn't accept your silly strawman version of it either. as far as salvation, do you bother people because of other fairy tales? you do understand you are presenting another logical fallacy, either the big bang (however flawed your understanding is) or the christian god. what is spiritually? can you even define it coherently? the way i see people use it, it seems to mean wishful thinking.
@1987shachar the big bang is not a hypothesis, and it was not an explosion and everything was created by it. it is certainly way beyond the scope of this comment section to educate your dumbass on big bang cosmology, especially after you demonstrated a complete lack of understanding.
@1987shachar it is actually considered a theory. as i said, i can't possibly educate your dumbass in a comment section. go take some cosmology, you'll learn it. are you asking fir evidence that gives a 100% certainty?
Same here. Guess we have been going about it all wrong.
I’m so blessed to find this video. It’s exactly what I needed to hear. There’s nothing that hurts more than growing in God and wanting my husband to grow with me but he has no interest. I will pray and work on myself to become a 1 Peter 3 woman.
Lord, increase my love and patience for my husband and my faith in You. Guide me in my conduct as a woman of God and a Christian wife. Give me choice words at the right moment, and let me know when to bite my tongue. Father God, I declare and decree that the Holy Spirit will powerfully convict my husband of his sin and of the cross. Make Yourself known to him in a radical way that has him confessing You as Lord and Savior of his life. Lord, I know that only You can give my husband his Salvation! I extend and multiple this prayer for all souls who need Jesus. I know that you are a miracle worker, that you desire a relationship with your lost sheep, and that you embrace your disobedient children in forgiveness. Father, you are so long-suffering and merciful. I believe my God is able! In Jesus' Name. Amen!
Amen!!
AMEN and God Bless you. Beautiful prayer. 🙏🏼
e g leave him alone. he doesn't bug you about it, why do you think everyone needs to believe as you do? silly. if you are happy with having an imaginary friend, good for you. doesn't mean he has go have one. just enjoy your marriage.
Please pray for me to be a Godly wife and for my unbelieving husband to come to Christ.
This is incredible, Thank you. I really need this in my life right now. May God be with me and help me never leave my walk with him despite any push back and bad circumstances that discouraged me going to church and serving him. May He bless me with courage and endurance for my sake and my daughters. Lead me and give me joy and peace. Thank you for sharing this much needed word Laurie❤️💛
I just found your channel. My husband is saved and this is how he tells others how he was won over. Watched it for friends with unsaved husbands. I Love your sweet spirit and looking forward to looking up your other videos. Blessings from Delaware! 🤗🙏
Thank you so much for that testimony, Stacie! There is hope for everyone! In the mighty name of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.
How's that happened? huhuhu
We were both non believers when we married 35 years ago. Raised 5 children. I came to Christ in 2006, was baptized. Went to church with 3 of the kids, who wanted to go. They are all grown now. Husband started going to church with me in 2013, but has now decided not to go. I recently cried out to the Lord, about our family struggles, in my heart I heard, “Work on you” “Love them, leave the rest to me” it’s a minute by minute choice to trust God, and stay out of His way some days, but, I know He is faithful. He loves my family more than I ever could. Would you please pray for the salvation of my unsaved family members.
I have been a christian for almost 9 years, and married also that long, but we had a child before that, so i thought we had to get married, when i met Jesus. My husband doesn`t believe in God. And thats so hard. Now we have 2 boys growing uo in this family and its hard to see them growing up without their father teaching them about God, i try to teach them myself. The most hardest part is that our hearts arent the same, our lives arent the same, he doesnt love God, but i do, and its hard to deal with it. I really try not to think about that, cause it makes me cry. I do pray for him every day and love him. Sometimes i have the hope, that he gets saved, but it goes away , it has been 9 years of prayers and i really would like to serve God with my husband. Prayers are welcome:)
maarja p You have a mighty God, who hears your prayers, if the Lord says in scriptire it is his will for everyone to be saved this is what he truly wants , and if you are praying for him to be saved , then why wouldn't God answer? if u have faith and belive he said it will be done , don't let the enemy discourage you , even though it's hard , stand firm on faith and not by what u see in your marriage, I belive as scripture has told us if u pray believing your prayers have been answered , then it is , God wants him to be saved as much as you do , keep praying for his soul do give up the Lord will answer u just have faith ...
as for me I have been with my now fiance 20 years and he is an unbeliver aswell , iv Been praying for him, and I see the lord has started to work in his heart even though days he says I will never become chrsitian , I then say well I guess u do not know my god becuse my god is faithful to his children, I don't let him discourage me I stand firm knowing the day is comming thst he will be saved , becuse I belive it .. my problem now is iv Been saved 2 years and read scripture says don't be with an unbeliver and want we want to marry eachother so bad , but everyone says no your not aloud , so I don't know what to do I can't break up after 20 years , as many chrsitians are telling me to do , I feel the Lord can work things out for our good , I also read scripture that says , if if an be living spouse is willing to live with u then do not leave them , if God really didn't want us with unbelivers he would of said now that u are saved leave him , but he dosnt say that he says stay , so as for me I'm in confusion if I can marry him ? he belives Jesus is a prophet and nothing else but he dosnt pull me away from the lord , if anyhthig he encourages me to follow my god and dosnt hinder me , so why can't I marry him ? see God can use any situation for his glory and I'm be living he will in my situation , did u marry your husband when u were saved ?? why is everyone telling me not to , it's so not right for they don't know God will for your life in this matter , I just want to marry him tommorw I'm seeking an answer to weather it is ok to ,?
We had a child allready when i got saved. Closely after that we married. So we where a family allready.
It has been very hard.
I believe that it is easyer not to live with a nonbeliever, you may hope and think that he gets saved, but it is not guaranteed. And even if now he has no problem with you being a christian, in years it can change. You must love God more. He wants the best for you, but sometimes we do not want to hear His plans, because we can`t let our plans go..we love ourself more than Him.
I dont know youre situation, but i think you should talk to youre pastor..God has given pastors the wistom to help us.
maarja p we have been togther 20 years , he would even go to church with me to my old church before I got born again , he has no problem with my god or my walk with Jesus , he has no problem with out kids being of my faith since he dosnt have one he truly follows , I we live together for 13 years , he is my family , I do not see why we cannot marry ? even my pastor says it ok , but others on here or online say no , it's confusing
maarja p as for saying it is not quaranteed, that is why we live by faith not by sight, if you BELIVE WHAT U HAVE PRAYED FOR SAYS THE LORD IN SCRIPTURE YOU WILL HAVE WHAT U HAVE ASKED FOR , WE NEED TO LIVE BY FAITH NOT BY WHAT OUR MIND TELLS US MIGHT NOT BE guaranteed, that is why most have no manifestations in life they don't belive or stand on God's word, nothing in life is guaranteed buy the Lord all thing are possible if u just belive , my faith won't be shaken I hold on to the word of the Lord, I will not get discouraged , this is the faith the Lord is looking for if we walk in it he will answer , his will IS for everyone to be saved , so if he says it , then belive it , and recieve it in faith since you are praying for him . 😉 we live by direction from the holy spirit not our selves , do u really belive u weren't ment to be married to this man , I do , i belive u were , so he can be saved , just belive it girl and it's yours . don't doubt that is what the Lord saying in scripture your guarantee is your faith .and belief in it happening.. I hope your encouraged God bless u
kathy gaitanis it is youre dessission, what do i know, i dont know youre life. it is good that you have talked to youre pastor, but why do you seek for answers in network?
Thank you for that verse..brought me to tears. I used to ask God why he gave me a non-believer husband when a Christian family is all I ever dream of. I'm close to giving up. You're right; I must have been saved so Jesus can reach my husband. Definitely need to focus on myself / my faith and let God do what I can't do. Please include us in your prayers. Thank you so much!
Sarah May Arenas you chose your husband without asking to Jesus.
About to give up too oh my goodness this is sooooo hard😭😭😭😭
Have you ever thought of accepting him for who he is? That means being okay that he's an atheist / non-believer. If you want to be respected as a Christian you need to be respectful of others who may not share your beliefs.
You are close to giving up? Because your husband doesn't share the same unjustified belief that you do? That's sick. You should give up. He deserves better. He deserves someone that will really love him. Real love is unconditional. Sad the extent to which religion warps minds and sews division.
There's no way Christ can give u an unbeliever when He Explicitly COMMANDED us to separate from unbelievers. God's word is not Yes and No. Pls examine your doctrine and what u are taught in your church dear. I see danger...
Thank You, Laurie This message is truly a blessing for me, My husband is non-believer please remember us your prayers -Love From 🇮🇳
Thank you Laurie. Finding this message today was such a blessing. May God make me a new creature...a 1Peter 3 woman🙏🏾🙏🏾.
Wow, good message. I'm gonna continue to pray for my husband I believe God can and he will.
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YES!!! Words rarely get through to others, it’s actions and the love of god that people see through you that shows them who god is
If i can offer some advice? JUST LET GO AND LET GOD!
Little is much when God is in it. This short but fulfilled Godly message to saved women was very encouraging. Thank you Jesus 💕
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
Our pastor said that "equally yolked" was related to business transactions between Christians and non-Christians, not marriages. He's actually one of the heads of the synod. I just wanted to mention that because it was a interesting point. But absolutely agree on the rest of this. God has to grow the seeds, and we can be an example. But we don't create the faith ourselves. Thank you so much for this word!
God bless you sister and your family, what a beautiful testimony and beautiful message. I have been doing the same and I already see a few changes. I use to always pray for my husband to change, when it was me that needed to be changed, and since I changed my behaviour I see changes in his life, hallelujah I give Jesus all the glory, through prayer and fasting, love and respect your husbands, God will do a mighty, mighty work hallelujah 🙏🕊🙌🔥🙏.
Wow, thank you. I absolutely needed to hear this. Can't thank you enough.
Wowww! Amen, this is still encouraging and needed after so many years. Thank you Lord and thank you for making this vid 💓👑🦋
Thank you so much for this post Laurie, it has such divine timing, I truly appreciate women of God who pay it forward. Where would we be as young wives who have never had guidance with regards to being a good wife or even a good woman as a whole. I truly appreciate your service. God bless Xxo
Thank you so much, Laurie. This is exactly what I needed to hear. God bless you!
What changed it for me was she stopped drilling me about what I was doing wrong and just started being genuinerly nice to me and loving to me and had a since of peace over her not like before when she was loving but I could tell she was not happy with me, she started loving me with a love I have never experinced and one i did not deserve, I pray that Jesus will help you love him in that way and He will either flee or flee and then feel so bad and repent Don;t give up there is a reason I seen your post this morning God is moving you just love him dont tell him about the bible, church, nothing just love him stay close to him just like Jesus does for us Praying for a breakthrough for you guys in Jesus name Amen check out my song to my wife it explains everything she did to win me over to Christ, )ruclips.net/video/BCh8EhP6990/видео.html
If anyone reads this please pray for my daughter the enemy is targeting her through her husband anger is deadly dangerous you are meant to see and hear me Change me Holy Spirt
Im so glad today god spoke to me with u.. please pray for my husband and me, that we become one in gods love..
Praise the lord
Please pray for me and my unequally yoke marriage
I totally needed to hear this. ve been waiting for 17 yrs for my husband to turn himself over to God. Thank you for posting.
Lupita Serrano he is not going to. just thank god that your husband is smart enough that he doesn't believe in fairy tales and imaginary friends.
Just hope and pray. Read the story of Elizabet Lezeur. She suffered a lot for the conversion of his husband and she died when he was still a non-believer. But, after her death, the husband found a diary where Elizabeth wrote down their feelings and prayers. That had being sufficient beaucause the husband will turn his path to God.
The husband decided to became a religious man.
Weel, you see, God takes time for humans, because He respect pur free will.
Courage! Don't stop now! The power of a prayer stays ij the faith you put in that. More faith, more chances of a prayer which have been fulfilled with success.
Remeber, God answer our prayer when we accept the 100% (not 99%, 100%) of His teaching.
This because a people who don't follow and accept the entire amount of God's teachings does not have faith, and the power of a prayer lies in the faith of the person.
How's the marriage with an unbeliever?
@@Unxpekted It was the toughest marriage ever. Mainly because he would put me down a lot about my beliefs and was very abusive towards me and the kids. We are divorced now but he did meet God. He now believes. A lot of things happened to him were he saw miracles happen and he saw God was real.
@@lupitaserrano3379 wow that's amazing. My gf was very healthy and supportive but she really just didn't feel anything for God. I feel horrible for stringing her on for 6 years and wanted it to work terribly bad. I just felt that how are we gonna raise kids with two opposing views, Christian belief vs science belief.
This was very helpful. Thank you so much, God bless you!
Please , please pray for my unsaved husband , Paul . This is my second marriage of over 30 yrs . And nothing much has changed . If anything , it has deteorated . God bless you , sweet lady . 🌹🙏💖🐰💖🙏🌹 Xxx Ooo Ps : And please pray for the salvation of my first husband -: Cameron . The marriage only lasted a year and a half . But it was the best year and half of my life . We were very young . He was a seventh day Adventist . And his mother separated us . The pain is still in my heart 💔 , today . Thank - you for your beautiful message , my dear sister in Christ . 💖🐇💖 Amen 🙏
This was great, thank you so much! Exactly what I needed to hear.
This was so needed. My husband is a non believer and I've grown in Christ sooo much. I'm beginning in children's ministry work and I feel pressure for my husband to become Christian. But I needed this. He is so supportive. But he's just not there.
Thank you! I really needed this, I´ve never heard it like this before.Blessings to you.
Thankyou so much for this! This is so encouraging to hear this
This was sooooo Good! Thank you!!
Thank you for this video! So helpful!
Thank you so much
This gives me a focus
God bless you xx
Thank you for your words, I needed to hear this.
I'm so glad I cam across this video because I am a Christian woman and I have been praying that my husband would come to know christ and that he would get baptized. I try not to push it on him and to let God do his work and it is very hard when my husband is living in sin and I am trying to be the wife and submit myself to him without falling into sin. God has been putting it in my heart to read 1st and 2nd Peter and I did a couple weeks ago and he told me this week I need to study it again. My brother also called me yesterday and was telling my about a revelation he had in his life and was reading out of 1 Peter 3 and I see your video and thats where you are reading. This is what I needed. God was using this for me ❤🙏
Thank you! I needed this.
Plz pray for me as I’m dealing with an unequally yoked marriage. I love him so much and he don’t share my love for the lord as I do. I know in my heart that God will answer my prayers but he has more patience than I do. I wish he would understand my love for him is nothing compared to love God has for him. If only he believed the same way as I do then I wouldn’t worry so much about his death. He’s in law enforcement and I’m afraid that the devils gonna take him before God can save him. I want to be able to tell my children that they will see him again one day in Heaven but as it stands I could not bring that comfort to them or to myself unless he is saved. He’s promised me that he would ask God to reveal himself to him but has not taken the effort to do so. Watching this video has been helpful to me in regards to just let Jesus handle this and pray every day as I have been for the past almost 5 years.
Angie Evans know your not alone in this. (My husband is also in law enforcement) Praying for the both of us 🙏🏼
Sharon Velez Thank you! At least I’m not alone
I’ll be praying for you as well
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Thank you, this has spoken to me so deeply. Thank you.
yes ma'am, please pray for Moises and Dena... Being a 1 Peter 3 woman is super hard.
I am going to put these things into practice! Thank you Jesus and thank you Laurie!
Wow! I’ve been praying for this and you really helped me!
This is exactly the message I needed. You are an inspiration, in how much you love and care for your husband! Thank you sister for sharing from the bottom of my heart.
BEAUTIFULLY SAID THANK YOU!
Loved this! Thank you!
This was so amazing thank you. Thank you so so much.
My husband is non attentive harsh and absent and causes me great anxiety and stress…. I serve him has he is Christ…. Prayers
Wow this was amazing thank you for sharing.
I have been with my spouse for 24 years and we have 4 kids. I found the lord and was baptized and married on Aug 2020.
He isn’t a Christian he was actually baptized Catholic when he was young.
It’s a challenge to be honest especially now being a Christian because I can’t speak or behave as he does rude, or not emotional or loving because he doesn’t know God.
He’s an amazing provider and we still laugh with each other but I’m craving his love and affection and he isn’t like that. I feel I crave it now more then ever.
I truly was asking myself what did I do, never did I imagine being married to someone that doesn’t know how to show affection, be loving or emotional but then again I was with him for 24 years and it wasn’t like that for a long time. I thought once I was baptized the lord would fill me with all the love I’m lacking from him but I’m still struggling with that and asking God to fill me as I know he could.
However, this video just taught me to just pray about being a 1 Peter 3 women and to just pray and love him during the process of the lord working on both of us.
We need to be that sacrificial love that Jesus is for us.
My Lord, I pray for anyone, that’s in the same situation that you will help us to just lean on you and to be that 1 peter 3 woman help us to love our husbands and see him through your spiritual eyes, and also give us the endurance that we all need going through this process. in Jesus name I pray amen.
Is your husband ok with you going to church and your faith?
Yes! He calls me an extremist. Which I don’t take personal because it means I’m doing something good in the sense of spending time with the lord.
thank you for this. this is very enlightening.
Wow!!!! You have no idea what you just did for me! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! And may God bless you and your family!
Thank you for this. I wish I had the words to type how I feel. I'm grateful that God knows the silent petitions of my heart and it is encouraging to hear other husbands have turned back to God.
I needed this ❤️
Going through this right now. It is not an easy walk. I have cried and it's such a hard thing to go through. I want to pursue a real authentic relationship with the lord. I want everything that he wants for me. I am going through my own spiritual warfare so I am feeling really defeated if yall could pray for me I would appreciate it so much
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Thank you I so much for this upload sister
So blessed by this message Loura. God be praised
I started dating a christian man. So confusing because he was very knowledgeable on the word of God, was an active member of his church.
He turned out to be a liar and a womaniser
I learnt that actions speak louder than words!!! Whether someone is a Christian or not!!!
I love this, please pray for me and my husband thank you
this was so good,thank you
I really needed to hear this❤️
Thank you this is very timely..it's like God was speaking to me. God bless you always.❤
This is exactly what I needed to hear, thank you ❤
Wow and 8 years later this is helping...God bless you and your family. ☺ 🙏🏾
Hello,
Thank you for posting this. I would love and appreciate your prayers. You’ve been very encouraging.
I'm looking for love... I'm praying God to help me find that right woman from God.. I see her in my visions many times. If you se this message.. answer, because maybe its you that I see.
Thank you this was needed!
Thank you. This gives me great hope.
This is amazing, I needed it :-)
I thank God for this awesome word that inspired many, i know this is a God sent word🙏
I found what I was looking for.. I am really blessed with your message. Thankyou so much! While praying for my husband I found this exact verse, late last night in the bible. And now I understand why God gave me this verse... Thankyou so much again! Please remember me in your prayers. God bless you!
I really needed to hear this word. Lord I need to become a 1 Peter 3 woman.
Lovely teaching 💞😊💞 Thank you
Thank God for this video! I thought my husband and I were Christians but as I have grown spiritually I realized going to church every other Sunday and believing in Jesus does not means you are a Christian! I did not live my life according to the Bible the way God wants us to. By the music we would listen to the things we watch or even the things we would say. Was not Christ like most of the times. I have changed but my husband is stuck in the same place. We have grown apart and I don’t see our marriage making it. It will be by the grace of God if we make it to be honest. I need all the prayers possible for my self and my husband. Our life styles do lot line up. I feel the more I preach the more annoyed he gets and does not even want to hear it. I have struggled with being submissive because I want every decision we make to come from a Godly place and to be Gods will but my husband is a part of the world and his morals do not match my morals.
Thank you Lord for this word. Amen
I'm going through this, thank you , God had already giving me these words , but I'm so hard headed sometimes, he is so patient with me and loving ... But he is working on me and I have faith that he will get to my husband ... Thank you for these words just re affirmed what God had already told me.
I have been with my husband for 17 years I love him i know he was not when we got together, I know it was God's will my kids seek God and I teach the gospel to my kids God I know is happy we are together, lately we are talking about Jesus daily, but his still lurning God said he is going to take care of it and he has plans for him.
He let's me teach my children and saif you are a Christian your attitude is holy I know you live Jesus, he now believes he died on the cross but I never poosh it I just pray and try to live by example my children pray with me and I love for God first I want my hosband to see Jesus in me a child of God, I respect him love him sapport he even takes me to church, and will pray with me.
God bless your woundful message, God bless you sister in christ. We have three beautiful boys.
My husband is in charge but It seems to be that my influence of Jesus is in his life
God knew I needed this. God bless you ladies and give roots to all the seeds of truth and salvation that have been planted in our husbands. Give us strength and courage and patience and hope. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and peace of mind and the heart. Thank you for all of your blessings and for bringing us here to support one another in Jesus name Amen. I really need help with prayer, thank you. 🙏💚
Thank you so much for this. This really spoke directly to me! God bless you and your family, and I will start prayerfully pray for my husband and let God handle his heart as He works in mine. Please pray for me also, thank you!
My husband has been attending church with me the entire 13 years we have been together. As I have grown mountains he still on sideline. This and part 2 I am listening to to transform our lives.
Thank you thank you thank you. Exactly what I needed to hear.
Thank you for this encouragement and wisdom Laurie. You're truly a 1 Peter 3 woman ❤
Asking for prayer for myself and my husband, we are separated and I am asking God to forgive his sons and to give me strength. Thank you
You were such a blessing to my life.
Thank you so much for posting this. It helped me a lot. 💗 you have such a sweet and non-judgmental spirit.
Wow, it is February 13, 2021, and God brought me to this channel to listen to this. I am in a unequally yoked marriage. I am going to practice this. I just repented and prayed for God to use me to save my husband. We have been married 4 years. Thank you sister for this. God's timing is wonderful!!
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I needed this thank you so much God bless you sister.
This is great! I've been trying to find answers on how to convince my husband to turn to God but watching your video gave me an idea. Thank you for sharing God's Words. Please pray for me and my husband.
Awesome teaching!