Being a Godly Wife || Marriage Series, Part 1
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- Опубликовано: 4 авг 2022
- Hey Friend!
Join me as we embark on a mini series on what it looks like to be a wife that the Bible describes as honorable, holy, and reverent.
In this series we will talk about what scripture has to teach us. We will learn about some amazing women who've gone before us, discuss what character traits we can pray to incorporate into our lives, gather up some valuable habits that can help us be the helpmate God intended us to be, and discover some practical ways we can make our home a haven!
Bible Verses Used/Referenced (in order as they appear):
1 Peter 3:1-7
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A women submitting to her husband is sooo beautiful ❤❤❤❤ !! The world will not understand ❤
I’m the person that lacked faith in my marriage! I thank God for a amazing husband that teaches me daily! And helped me to find Jesus.
I was born in 1997. I am watching this in hopes to be a better wife to my husband. Thank you so much!
Im a 1995 baby, and I am trying to do the same (:
I'm trying to unlearn and relearn and overcome the enemy's attacks on my marriage. Marriage is hard, but husband and I don't really want to give up on each other. I'm going to put these videos to work. Please pray for my husband and I. Thank you!
Same here
I learned the hard way the danger of going against the order God has created in marriage. My 22yo self newly married back in 2019 simply refused to submit, obey, be secondary to my husband and it nearly destroyed our marriage. I turned to my Heavenly Father for help and of course I was directed towards that verse "Submit to your husband". I asked for God to help me to submit to my husband and not only has my marriage been better, my character is changing as well and I have the desire to be a Proverbs 31 woman. When God instructs us to do something, listen, its for our own good. Going against God's will is setting ourself up for self destruction.
What if your woman says she is strong-minded and not willing to change that 😢😢
Sadly, I am such a mess, I grew up in an awful, abusive home I was molested by nearly every man who had a significant role in my life, and I find it so hard to be a submissive wife. Sometimes I wish that God would just instantly make me a Susy Homemaker submissive wife as I am SO far from that. I love the Lord, but I am such a failure as a wife and mother, and I seem powerless to be otherwise. The thing that I seem to do best in life, is fail, and mess things up. I pray every day, but I am not changing fast enough for my spouse which only causes more problems between us.
Thank you for this video, as it has given me some hope. I will check this series out as I need something to break through this awful place I am in.
I need to suggest getting some inner healing so you can have freedom.
Praying in Lord Jesus Christ's Mighty Name, Full Surrender & Breakthrough: Please read Matthew 11:28-30 then go let everything to Jesus Christ in a private place (car, closet, side room) and lay all struggles, hurts, past hurts, out to Jesus every single day/night & ask Him to Fill you with His Holy Spirit & Make You a Born Again Brand New Creation & let God carry you & change you, & take over; Good Worship music, fast, pray, study His Word Daily. You are Loved & His mercies a new everyday; Lamentation chapter 3:***Jesus Christ is coming back soon and God is calling everyone to repentance (2 Peter 3:9 KJV) *** Prayers for all, message for all: Please Get in the Ark of Jesus Christ now. We all must Repent and be Born Again of the Holy Spirit of Jesus Christ to see God:: Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born? Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
John 3:3-7 KJV
bible.com/1/jhn.3.3-7.KJV*** Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
Acts 2:38 KJV
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Getting married at the end of the month. And I’m still trying to unlearn these single habits and ways and be able to be obedient to God and his way as well as my soon to be husband. Thank you for this video it was right on time.
Same girl
Congratulations on your new marriage! ❤
I’ve really struggled to be a biblical wife. Recently I’ve started my journey in honoring my husband and your video has helped me so much! He is a baby Christian and I love how you touched on that. Thank you for making this series, it’s so helpful ❤
My husband and I met in church, one of the things that I loved most about him was the love he showed the Lord how devoted he was to serving Jesus in any way possible. The church hurt is deeply (not Jesus) but it was a deeper hurt for him, I made my peace and want to go back to a church but I will be going alone with my two boys. All I do is pray for him and maybe someday he’ll join us, but as a mother I need to teach my children about the Lord. I love this church and I work for this church so my heart knows it’s here where he wants me now. His name is Christhian and I would appreciate prayers for him so that his heart would go back to the Lord.
You had me the second you mentioned how you use to be so jealous and how untrusting you were of your husband. I came to RUclips in a desperate search to find out how I could fix those very things in my relationship. You were the first video I watched, and within minutes you said exactly what I was searching for. God led me to YOU! Though you didn't go into any detail, in this video, I want to say that after watching til the end, that you have inspired me in so many ways. My heart is full with so many possibilities ahead. I subscribed to your channel and I hope and pray that I can learn to be a Godly( not jealous and trusting woman) for my man. Please direct me to where I can find more content on this subject. I desperately need help before I loose the most amazing man that God has ever put in my life. Thank you for an amazing video and I look forward to watching your other videos. God bless!
GLORY to God!!! I am SOOO grateful this has helped you. I think you will find great value in becoming a part of my online (leg) of this ministry... The Kitchen Table... found over on Facebook if you are over there? The link to find us is always below every video, but here it is for easy reference. I am in a Sunday Series now called my Marriage Edition that you might find helpful. Here is the link to come over and join us! facebook.com/groups/2227896347529507/
Thank you SO much! I will check all of these out❤
Thank you woman of God. I am 27 this year. I have been a Christian since 2015... after a series of rise and fall on the back of me thinking I was so ready for marriage.... I am learning the truth of the part in Scripture which says " in Him we live, breathe and have our being. " I was trying to sustain a relationship without God and after I reflected on His mercies I had to let the young go... Now I am healing and I pray he is too.... Today I watched the video and the holy Spirit showed me things I did that I could have done better.
I just want to glorify the Lord God my Father and Savior will alllllll I am. Lovely video.
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I am a 23 year old bride to be! Getting married June 2024. Thank you for sharing these biblical truths and this wisdom on how to be a Godly wife and submit to your husband. I took lots of notes and plan to utilize what you said/what the Bible says in my marriage. This is such a great video, thank you for making it! Part 2 here I come! :)
Getting prepared to be a Godly wife
I would love to listen to you on marriage. Im 57years young almost 58… Was married in 1984 started dating in 1981. And my prayers are to get my husband to go to church with me. He says when he’s older.☹️ He’s almost 62. So I keep praying 🙏 Sorry maybe that’s to much information. 💒📖✝️🙏🥰
Never too much information! I love that you shared that! Always grateful to know peoples stories! Keep praying and keep believing. Most importantly… keep being Jesus and shining His light for your husband to see! 😍
I hope you received this answered prayer
Ezr 10:2 And Shecaniah the son of Jehiel, of the sons of Elam, addressed Ezra: “We have broken faith with our God and have married foreign women from the peoples of the land, but even now there is hope for Israel in spite of this.
Ezr 10:3 Therefore let us make a covenant with our God to put away all these wives and their children, according to the counsel of my lord and of those who tremble at the commandment of our God, and let it be done according to the Law.
They didnt want to adhere to believing so they divorced. Nothing wrong with divorcing a non believer.
Your prayer @angelaarmstrong6405 might save his soul. How is it going now ?
I’ll pray for you! I’ve been praying the same for my husband ❤
Oh I love this!!! I attempt to have a "gentle and quiet spirit" but I'm not sure I always do. This will be our second marriage (for both) and I want to do all I can with my choices and behavior to honor him and make our marriage last.
As a man, What if your woman says she is strong-minded and not willing to change that 😢😢 It breaks my heart. Do I let go or remain in the relationship? 😢
I can't wait to dive into these videos! My husband and I were so far from the Lord when we married almost 20 years ago, although we were both raised in Christian homes. There was a brief period in our marriage when we went to church together, but things at that church took a terrible turn (lots of corruption among the leadership). That situation left our entire family spiritually traumatized and without a church home. Instead of praying for guidance, we all decided we were no longer Christians. Long story short, the Holy Spirit tugged at my heart and pulled me back to God, but everyone else in my family (including my husband, whom I love and respect immensely) are antitheist. They mock God and ridicule Christianity while I sit and pitifully mumble about how maybe they're just seeing it through the biased lens of being on the receiving end of spiritual abuse. I can't bring myself to boldly proclaim my faith yet. I'm too afraid it will put me at odds with my family during an already difficult time (my dad was recently diagnosed with cancer and the prognosis isn't great) and hurt my marriage. For now I enjoy my daily quiet time, pray constantly for God to soften hearts, and try my best to live by example❤
Loved this! Looking forward to next video! We have been married 54 years & are more in love than ever before because we practice this with each other in our Retirement years. It has lifted us to new happiness & harmony. ALL Jesus has done for us... we can't ever give enough!! God bless you
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Hi Judith! So glad to see you!!!
My boyfriend and I are currently dating and I found it so helpful to watch this video and listen to your insight as a wife of many years. Thank you for this series! I pray the Lord would use it to grow me into an excellent wife someday 🙏🏼
Oh hallelujah!! So happy! Glory to God!!!
Thank you so much for this series. I am recently married, November 11 2022. My parents have been married since 1997 as well, July 19 1997. I plan on watching all your videos in this series, I want to build strength in my faith so that the Lord can work in my life, in my husband's life, and in our marriage. Please pray for our marriage if you see this message! We are doing amazing, and your story is so similar to ours. I want our marriage to be stronger every day, and I desperately want to be a godly wife to my husband!
Oh sweet girl! Thank you so much for commenting and sharing a part of your story! I am SOOO grateful that this video was able to touch your heart! I will certainly pray for your marriage!
This is amazing encouragement thank you.. I am listening to you after dropping off my son from school.. I am a young wife and still need these reminders I repent that I have not reverenced my husband as the Lord commands, now I am working on it daily with the Lord. This mini series is a blessing to me thank you Wendy ❤
Hallelujah! Yes this is a child of GOD! You are the best preacher I have ever heard! May GOD almighty bless and give you many many more years to win souls for the KINGDOM of GOD in HEAVEN AMEN!!🙌🙌
I always listen to these kind of teachings every month or quarterly as a REMINDER because I have such a head strong personality and Ive always taken care of myself since I was a child. Like walk to the bus, get my siblings up and prepare them for school, walk home from school, cook for me and my sinlings etc etc that being married now its HARD TO LET go. Even to God its hard for me to let go to Him because ive been soo strong my whole life and I know without God I am nothing. But that inner child in me where I was taking care of everything is still inside me and comes out whenever I feel like things are not getting done accordingly to my desires. But I have to listen to these teachings to remind myself its OKAY to let go. God please continue to help me.
Absolutely love your guidance! I’m 24, love the lord & my fiancé. I am so thankful to have found your videos. ❤
I have gotten a lot of revelation these past few days in regard of what type of wife I have been. I am struggling. I am angry. I have been so guarded not only towards my husband but to God. Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this because sometimes the way I perceive it from my husband I immediately feel judged. I just want to say thank you for this video!
Bless your heart!!! Thank you for reaching out! Make sure if you were not already, come and visit me over on Facebook at the kitchen table. It’s linked down below in the description box, and I would love for you to join us on our journey of discovering Jesus more fully over there. I am also getting ready to launch in the fall and additional study opportunity for marriages that I think you will love! ❤️❤️
Thankyou so much.... im listening to this on repeat for the third time in a raw... Really needed this.... Because i always complain about my husband but i always forget first i must be a godly wife..... That he needed a godly influence... Please pray for my family.... I want to apply this on my life....❤
I am SOOO thrilled that it has been helpful!!
I’m 26, just celebrated our 5th year anniversary… thank you so much for this video! I subscribed and I’m going to watch part 2 and 3. This was so encouraging and uplifting and edifying!
This is absolutely beautiful! And such a help as a 19 year old Godly wife trying to do better❤
This was so timely and truly a blessing to me. Thank you for posting.
Halfway through the video, very interesting and I'm learning a lot. Thank you!
Edit: now I finished the video, thank you for the women's Bible study! I really appreciate the teaching. I am learning a lot from this, God Bless you for taking time to teach other wives this Biblical knowledge. I am going to implement this immediately into our marriage.
I'm 31, married for 8 years, with 3 children. Thank you for your testimony ❤️
Welcome friend!
I really would like to hear more on how you overcame the jealousy and what that looked like practically. I know you said you fell more in love in Jesus…I do love Jesus but having some practical examples and tools would be super, super helpful.
You have helped me with your testimony more than you know! Thank you so much! I am sure I will love the rest of the video also.
Thank you for this video. I'm 25 yrs old, been, married for 3 yes it will be 4yrs in October and I'm kinda a new christian thank you so much again
this is exactly what I needed to see. This is so helpful.
I’ve been married 43 years and was married at age 19. I love him but he is not a believer. I pray for him a lot.
You are beautiful and awesome, wise and such a great role model! I will be married in October and I know I have lots of things to work on if I want to be the best wife I can be. Thank you for teaching me, and thank you for being used by the Lord. May he bless you and your family abundantly!
Aww!!! What kind words!!! Thank you and glory to God!!! Congratulations and I’m so thankful you could be encouraged by this message! ❤️❤️
Absolutely glory to God!! Thank you so much for everything 🤍
I absoluty love you!! Thank you for this talk! You are speeking directly to my heartstrings!
Good word sis! 👏 I look forward to watching part 2.
Amen 🙏 ❤ you just made it so much clearer for me about what my pastor ment by we the wives lead our husband's to faith. Thank you and God bless you so much for making this video. I'm so grateful to have found it. 💛
I feel so guilty about not being a godly wife for my husband. In fact, I've been far from exemplifying holiness and helping my husband as I should. I came here for the 1st time for encouragement and I'm receiving that. Thank you, Wendy for your videos. I intend to continue to watch your other videos when I have the extra time. God bless you!
Sweet girl! Please don't allow yourself to feel shame... that is not what this video was intended to do... but rather open our eyes to things we might not have seen. My purpose is for us to come humbly before the Lord and teachable to see from a different perspective.
God Bless you. I've been looking for exactly this subject matter. ❤❤❤
God has gifted you with impactful speech. I loved this video and I praise God for your wisdom that has come
from the father of lights. Looking forward to watching all your videos as a newly wed. Blessings
Oh my goodness. This popped up in my feed, so amazing and ment for me. My husband is not a believer so I'm excited to hear what you have to say. I'm going to dive in now. 😊
This is so applicable to my life right now! Thank you for your videos!
I am so grateful to hear that!!
That was very.informative I enjoyed watching ur.video.what a blessing It was.im going to watch more of u to.help.strengthen our marriage.
Thank you Wendy for this timely video, I have 3 pages of notes just from todays episode! I am 62 years old and still very much a work in progress. Thank you again! Be Blessed
Loved this devotional thank you for sharing
Thank you for this video. I'm gonna apply it and try to be a better wife. I have never had anyone to help me with what a godly wife looks like and I am thankful for this series.
This was so good! Thank you! I’m going to watch again and take notes ❤
Don’t forget the other parts! It’s a whole series! ❤️❤️
Wow, Wendy. Just wow. You are a role model in our community. I pray that this message reaches hearts.
Aww thank you so much for your sweet comment!
The recommitment portion of your testimony had me bawling. 😭. Praise the Father for calling your husband 🙌🏼. I’ve been married 16 years and so much of your story is similar to mine. Glad I found your channel. ❤
Welcome!! I’m so glad you’re here!! ❤️❤️
Thank you so much Wendy for this video! I have been married to my hubby 27 years and in these years a few months ago I complimented my hubby. Thank you for the reminder that this is something I should be doing more often. Although they seem so strong but they also have feelings and need encouragement. God bless you and looking forward to your next video. Hugs.
So glad you could be encouraged today, friend! Keep going! Keep doing the hard work! Jesus is our reward! ❤️❤️
Thank you Wendy.
I am learning.
Loving this from Jamaica❤.
I loved this video...Thanks I needed to hear this.
This was great! Thank you sister❤
Thank you for posting this 🙏 God Bless you
Thanks for this video. It really ministers to me.
This is brilliant! Honestly thank you so much - it's like you spoke straight to me. Thank you so much - I love the practical tips I will apply. I am praying my husband comes to know the Lord for himself very soon. Bless you xx
Glory to God!!
Thank you for this teaching. I learned a lot.
Thank you for this testimony! Very similar journey for my marriage and you gave a glimmer of hope to keep praying for change for my husband, in Jesus name 💖
Praise the Lord, Natisha!!! ❤️
Wow, thank you for this!! Its lit a fire under my butt to be better as my husband’s wife and helpmate. Almost 5 years married 💓 we’re 27 and 31 with 3 kids, 6, 5, and 4 months.
Oh I am SO glad this helped you! THANK YOU for commenting so!
Thank you for sharing your testimony.
Thank you for watching!
This was really good thank you for sharing your time with me ❤️
Thank you so much for your video! ❤🙏
Thank you for the encouraging messaga God bless
I really loved this.
❤ I love this!
I was looking for some videos about how to be a Better wife, I'll marriage next april so I really want to be a good wife to my husband, under good direction.
Thank u so much!!.. Im listening to u from Colombia!!.. God bless u!
Amen!!! Welcome!
This is really good info ❤
Thank you!🥰🙏
I needed this so bad today.
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Wendy, I just wanted to say thank you so much for this video. As a younger sister in Christ and in my third year of my marriage, I can relate to your story. Thank you for the encouragement and the truths spoken in this video, they have truly made an impact. Thank you so much for your ministry!!
Glory to God!!!!
I don't want to be married. I am a lesbian
@@inspireministries As a man, What if your woman says she is strong-minded and not willing to change that 😢😢 It breaks my heart. Do I let go or remain in the relationship? 😢
Really enjoyed this. I will definitely TRY hard and apply the teachings from the word of god. Of cause it is not easy but I would like to strive to be a godly wife
Thank you !!!❤
I was very jealous when got together. Same since we put the Lord in the middle, our love for eachother have grown.
Thank you for this ❤
Excellent
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Getting ready to be a Godly wife---to the glory of God, our Heavenly Father.
I got a lot of valuable information from this video. I would like to add the video seems to align with stay at home wives/mothers. As a working mother/wife I could not relate to some of the content. Really praying for content for working wives/mothers who are expected to work and take care of home 😢
Thank you.
answer will be nice very greatful, x
Thank you Wendy 💗
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Thank you so much!!!!!
Watching these videos for the 1st time.
Welcome!!
Thank you
Hey, thank you so much for sharing this video. And for sharing your story, it is amazing. Absolutely touching This is what I really need to hear right now because God told me to study how to be a good wife. 😍🙏🏽 Can you show me the girl you are talking about that is making meals for her husband I really want to see her videos ❤ God bless you dear❤❤❤
Yes and amen!
Thank you so much for this video. I’ve only been married a year and a half and we have a two month old. I just officially quit my job to be a SAHM as my husband is an electrical lineman and works away from home Monday-Friday and sometimes goes away on storm calls for weeks on end. I will admit a hard area for me is being vocally thankful for my husband doing some jobs around the house. For example, he usually unloads the dishwasher for me. I am so thankful for that of course but it is hard for me to thank him for the one task when I am responsible for all the other household tasks, much without outward thanks from him. I know he works so hard and is the breadwinner and is exhausted when he is home. But how can I become better at thanking him when I am not always thanked?
I hope you will listen to the new marriage series video coming out this week... I think it will help you.
Good morning Wendy 🥰
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I love dirtly shoes - especially converse! sqeecky clean shoes are not done yet lol
I love your story! And I’m sorry that you had to pray so long in order to get where you are. As a Christian woman and a believer, I know that many women struggle with why their husbands cannot be the spiritual leader. I have learned over time that women were never made to look for a man, but the man was made to find a woman, and it is our job to make sure that they are spiritually align with God‘s plan. The problem that most marriages have is that the women lead spiritually in the males do not step up to their role. I have learned over time that Eve was made for Adam not Adam made for Eve. When God made Adam and Eve he had to break the men in order to form the woman. The man came broken, and the woman came full. So as a godly wife, it is our job to make sure that our husbands are spiritually alone with God’s plan.. many times I find myself getting weary because my husband is not spiritually aligned with God‘s plan and I get frustrated, but I have learned over time and I hope this helps someone out that you have to pray and wait for the Holy Spirit to lead you in the way that he wants to leave you so that you can lead your husband back onto the right path. It was never designed for the woman to stay in that position as a spiritual leader, never get comfortable being the spiritual leader keep your faith and stay close to Jesus, so that he can align your marriage.
This is my testimony too
I thought you were holding a colourful cookie or cupcake in the thumbnail for a solid minute. Took me a bit of staring before I realized it was a Bible.
I want to be a godly women, godly wife, a warrior for God. Thank you for your videos. This is going to help me so much. I am new to your channel and can't wait to explore all your other videos. As a Christian woman I would like to know what your thoughts are on being a Christian woman and wearing a veil. I have really thought about doing that since that is one of God's commandments. That is just one commitment that i would like to keep sacred that i have not broken. I got saved as a child and when i became a teenager i left being a Christian to explore the world. I had a traumatic experience that led me to not want to be where i was at; even though I still claim to have God in my heart. Now that i have found Jesus again I feel like my duty is to be a godly woman, a godly wife and have a godly marriage and be a warrior for God. 💔💓💞
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What would to recommend for a partner who isn’t parenting as godly or acting loving or as godly as you? How to go through those moments
Hi Wendy :) This is kind of off topic of your video (I’m still watching it lol). But do you know if Chloe is done with her RUclips channel? I keep up on her videos but noticed she hasn’t posted for a couple months.
Hi! She’s taken a break. Being a pregnant momma of a little one has proven to be a lot. 💙. She’ll be back. 😊
i do always feel blameness not working hard enough not being nice my mood myself doesnt feel same for some reason my life has haulted husband is growing😢