We also give a slight nod to a man we make eye contact with as a sign of mutual respect. If a man drops something lets say in a super market, I could help him to get it. That doesnt mean I think he is less capable, its just manners.
Yes, Well stated. Which Men know they can’t have. There is no such word as fairness for Men, As to Women have gotten it by all the social programs that Men hardly have for homelessness and housing. Men are still treated as the muscle, Until the robots replace all but the sperm we carry. Then look out.
One of my wife's friends was like this even when she got married. He grew sick of her narcissism and instead of correcting things, she convinced herself that he had turned gay. 4 years later, he has two kids with his new wife and she's alone with her dog
Girls that get offended for opening door for them, they have insecurities more than being feminists. They think men are thinking of them as weak when in reality, their insecurities make them think all time that they’re weak and everyone knows it. So they burst on men helping them and fail to see positive side. That also happens in other matters not just door scenario. Men are less insecure or not at all in this matter so they recognize good deed and helpful nature. Otherwise opening door is nothing, we can open it for ourselves men and woman easily but thought and manners are what that count.
Its bizarre: men are alone and they embrace solitude and self improvement. Women are alone; and they are mad at the men who are happy to leave them that way
@@RebeccaBarrett Face it. You marched in the streets demanding to be " Strong, Independent , and Empowered Women that Don't Need No Man ". So men are giving you what you Marched for. So what's the problem now ?
@@ogremgtow990 it’s true but that’s why I’m trying to help more women break free of that mindset. Trust me, I was one of those women too and I broke free from the delusion
@@RebeccaBarrett pure gold, totally agree, but it's too late for most women during the next 2 generations at least, the ggod news, however, is that they'll become extint and nature will recover in a far future.
@@edamerburg8866 I’m hoping to help correct that with my videos. I know I’m just one woman but the message needs to be spread to more women. I’m in it for the long haul lol
Guys are not afraid.....we just are not stupid. Men adapt and overcome. And dating doesn't exist anymore. Women need to take accountability for setting the standard for catch and release
Qhat I have seen since the "burn your bra" era...is the envy of men... We as men have to tear down to build...to make a qorld ro livw in for WVWRYONE...yet we are placed last on the liat of conaidetation qhen it comes timw to be happy and comfortable. This is qhy qe die earlier than women...working ourselves to death providing and then having all we worked for taken by the one we worked so hard for. And in a lot of cases...its the invasion of the relationship by other women telling the female spouse how to handle her man and if the friends advice is not accepted by the man...his woman is gone and she begins acting like the female friend. Women should be secure in their own decisions in the life they have with their man...not the advice of other females that are probably single or divorced. Today there are more same sex relationships with women than ever before..besause its easier to be with a woman..than to be a woman for a man...they don't want to do the work of a woman..they want to be idolized and treated as if they are Cleopatra..and the feminist wants to run the world that men build...with help of the knowledge taught to them by man...Just my personal opinion..
then women get angry with the men who *do* fit their standards and they get a taste of the "ejaculate/evacuate" doctrine, lol. the dating scene is destroyed, man.
Here in the UK if you don't hold the door open you are an asshole with no manners but if you do it's "benign misogyny". I have had the last laugh though, some 5'1 shrew had a go at me saying something like "so you think I cant open the door open because I'm a woman?" Turns out she was right behind me with a load of bags on the way out, I let the door slam in her face. She was going to let rip again so I said her words back to her.
If someone objected, I would say, "I apologize. I am a gentleman, and I hold doors for ladies. Unfortunately, it's just not possible to tell whether or not you are a lady by looking at you, so I just take the chance and hold the door for all females."
Get a clue: Men aren't scared, they,re disgusted. Why bother chasing a woman when she isn't willing to put in any effort? It boils down to appreciation and respect on both sides. It takes two to make a relationship work and only one in a relationship to destroy it.
To all modern woman enjoy your cats When you are 30plus all you are good for is being f w b No man wants to marry a spream bank!!!!!!! So go and watch sex an city 😉😉😉😉😉🌆
@@beckynunn4649 it does but when 80% of divorces and relationship breakups are initiated by college educated women we know it's a one sided problem. Women need to be raised better period.
I think the whole "men are scared of our powerfulness" is just a coverup for their ego, because they know that men like myself are simply NOT ATTRACTED to their lame personality, lack of femininity and overall shitty behavior.
Because you scatter the eggshells in front of them...you want a man who is feminine. He was gestated as a man and will behave like a man. Doesn't want eggshells in his way.
@@Surfbird11 100 out of 100 women that disliked Kevin will “ Woof Woof “ die alone. Because this is getting ridiculous now adays. I mean my god listen to this author, she’s digging her own lonely grave
All I can say now, and moving Forward....there are a lot of bitter women out there...but , there are still and always will be cool women...thank the lord for them...
One night I tried to stop a young lady from walking into a certain back street... But, she kicked me on the shin and ran down that same street..... 4 days later she stopped to tell me she got mugged and punched in the face.... I was like I tried to warn you but you assulted me and ran away... She was like you should have tried harder...
As a 48 year old man, I love feminism, I think it makes dating so much easier. I have never been scared of women and this new wave feminism brings to light the toxic women out there. It makes it easier to avoid them with a couple of calculated questions about the patriarchy and chivalry and then boom, they can't help but expose themselves as to what they truely are and what they believe and then you can say bye bye.
Honestly, this is how I scope out a new friend, too, as a woman. I dont have any liberal feminist friends. I have to tolerate my sister, but I keep praying she will grow out of it with big sister influence. I digress, when I meet a new gal who I get along with, I seek to figure out where their values are and how they view the world.
The guys aren't "afraid to make a move." They recognize your brand of toxic hatred for them and want to find peace with someone who doesn't resent them for existing. "They're going to have to figure it out..." They have figured it out...which is why they aren't dating you.
Exactly. Women make up their mind on looks, as do we, but looks with out depth means a very short relationship. If a woman has that toxic feminism (you know it when you see it) look, then it doesn't matter how good she looks, I am not getting near it. It's okay what they say about me because none of them matter.
@@muskokamike127 told a 19 year old on Reddit guys, real husband material guys don't settle with feminists anymore. She's like THAT'S NOT TRUE I said good luck then you're 19. Hop back on here when u 30 and still single 🤣
If you’re an attractive, rich, successful man she wants you to pursue her yet if you’re not then you’ll be getting a call from HR for sexual harassment. The juice is definitely not worth the squeeze
As to why I'm going solo in life... I'll quick my job when I'm 30, and travel. For sure, along the way I'll end up dying, since I ain't much of a traveler.
I was on a date with a gorgeous lady. We had plans to go to dinner after a show. Leaving the show, I opened the car door. She said she can open her own car door. I drove, and soon she said "Are we going the right way?" Indeed we were. I took her straight home and dropped her off. Never saw her again.
I don't get these modern women. They want a man and a family but they actually hate men. Sorry most modern men are not going to play that game. They would rather stay single.
@@RebeccaBarrett No you don't understand what it's like to be male everyday. Women choose their path to destruction it was her choice alone let them carry on!! This is nothing to do with men it's the woman's problem that made it happen. Men are fine on their own just gives more time for them to enjoy their freedom and do other things with life to enjoy it as much as possible and do what they do be the best version of their self and hardworking.
@@mdsalahuddinullah6793 dude... She didn't say she understood what it felt like to be a man. She said she understood why you would be upset. As any rational human being would.
I just want to encourage you guys, I was one of those women… very feminists and trust me women can change. It’s all about taking personal accountability and responsibility for your own actions. It’s hard, but there are good women out there especially out of bigger cities. Good luck guys, I know the struggle is real
@@RebeccaBarrett I highly encourage you to make more videos like this, women I think will receive and process the information better coming from one of their own, but be blunt don't sugarcoat it
@@RebeccaBarrett plus try to make contact with the FRESH & FIT show, they could have u on the show as a changed woman, u can't a lot of views for u channel Or make a reaction video from their show, that will boost your views 😉
I was leaving a FedEx Office location the other day the Ground girl was struggling bringing in the packages on a dolly, so I held the door for her. I didn't expect anything, she was appreciative, we went our separate ways. That's it. Feminists, take notes. This is how normal people act.
feminist theory redefines actions so woman INTERPRET THEN NEGATIVELY. that means genuine kindness is seen as repulsive. psy-op used to make men and woman repulsed by each other
Give them options when you see SOMEONE may appreciate help. "Need someone to hold the door?" By getting way is answered, you know right away if you wish her to have a nice day
Invest now. It's booming. Might as well profit from these women's mistakes. I mean they profit from a man's desire to protect and provide. And men who refuse to date are now the bad guys? Seriously? Whatever. I'll keep my money thanks.
Feminism wasn't created for relationships. It was created to "destroy the need for relationships/marriage" with men. It literally, gave women the option to choose one or the other; but not both. You can't destroy the need for relationships, then expect a relationship to survive that destruction. That said, thanks for speaking out.
@@Sigma37 I hear you, but I think it's more like the Jenga game. The more you erode the base, the more likely it'll destroy the whole structure. However, the objective is to change the structure without causing the tower to collapse. The funny thing is the effects of Feminism are intentional, unintentional, and inevitable; all at the same time. Which shows that men primarily look at "sustainment" for life decisions, but women seem to look at "satisfaction" when making life decisions; no matter the outcome. So, as long as they get what "they" want; "some women" just don't care about anyone or anything else. Hence the phrase, "If mama ain't happy; nobody's happy."
Men wouldn’t mind paying for dates if women wouldn’t use men for a meal. If women dated with intent, as in only date someone you are attracted to. Stop friend zoning and having orbiters.
Maybe that should be my next video. How to date with intention. When the friend zone happens to you or to friends you know, do you easily pick up on it or is it much later?
@@RebeccaBarrett There are women who put people in the Friend zone for ulterior purposes and there are women who have men as friends. There are men who enjoy having women as close friends and there are those who put themselves into a woman's orbit wherever or not she is a user, there are men who think opening a door entitles him to her time, and there are men who just want to be nice. People need to treat others with respect, thank you for being one of them Miss Barrett.
@@RebeccaBarrett Men and women CAN be friends, IMO, even if one or both is attracted to the other. They have to be mature about things though. Also, just because somebody is attractive to you doesn't mean that y'all would be a compatible couple. I don't mind treating a friend to a meal or something, as long as the friendship was a 2-way street. I don't care if they're male or female. I get called effeminate for having female friends. I get called "cheater" because I'm married now. I also get called effeminate for not wanting a bro-dozer/Mercedes, cool tats, a Tapout hoody, a fancy job-title, a huge house, a huge TV, an alcohol/nicotine/drug addiction, a gun collection, a molosser dog, or my own MMA dojo. I don't feel the need to prove myself to anybody. I don't feel the need to be macho when I'm already masculine. I have an honorable discharge from the Marines, a college degree, a CCW permit, and financial independence. That's man enough FOR ME. I choose to be more of a masculine intellectual than a macho thug.
I am a therapist and my reputation is my livelihood. As such, I have stopped dating all together. Three simple words from someone who is vindictive, unstable, or simply angry and irresponsible; could destroy my life. It could be the next day or 20 years after the fact. It isn't worth it. I very much appreciated your speaking out.Great video!
I do mean this kindly but you don't need to do that. I've worked in mental health for over 30 years and it's something we all have to deal with. You probably have other reasons for not being in a relationship.
Absolutely. Hearing women speak like her with a pretty strong understanding of men's perspective brings me such a profound feeling of peace. On the other hand, it's kind of sad that things have gotten so bad that just hearing a woman really empathize with the male perspective can bring out such powerful feeling in us.
60 yrs ago i would've been married with 3 kids & house. Thanks to feminism I'm now childless not paying alimony or child support and traveling to my 15th country.
Exactly!!! The profane of the female side was finally exposed!!! Now you kind of understand why some texts of thousand of years ago,like the bible,the coaran,and so on warned us all bout the female nature
Feminist: If I hear even the slightest opinion contradictory to the Feminist movement, we are DONE. Also Feminist: oH mY GoD WhY mEn WaLKinG oN EgG ShELls aROunD mE?!
Men are scared to date now, from what I've been able to find out, for the following reasons: *1. The courts are stacked against them* If a man enters a relationship (marriage) and that relationship fails, it's an almost certainty that the courts will side with the woman "to the lifestyle to which she has become accustomed" costing the man a significant part of his income, and the woman in most cases just has to be a woman to win. Doesn't matter if she was abusive or a horrendous drug addict, the courts will most likely side with her. *2. The woman can destroy his reputation with ease* With the rise of #MeToo, it's easier than ever to destroy a man's reputation. If a man enters a serious relationship and that relationship ends, a spiteful woman can accuse him of rape, sexual assault and all kinds of horrible things, and the court of public opinion will do the rest. Even the accusation of some of these crimes is enough to make a man unable to work. If a woman falsely accuses a man of rape and he goes to prison for 5 years and she later recants saying it was false, there are no repercussions for her. The man, meanwhile, has lost 5 years of his life and he becomes a societal pariah through no fault of his own. What modern feminists won't (or can't) understand is that when entering a relationship the man is at an extreme disadvantage, both biologically and societally. On the societal side, unless this is rectified, you are going to see less and less men entering into serious relationships because the risk far outweighs the benefit.
100%, society hates men, maybe they're not saying it outright (well, a lot of people do and nothing happens to them), but their actions prove it all. The only safe place for men is among other men.
Also, men are afraid to date because women can hop from man to man as she desires via social media and dating apps, and the man will be left holding the bag and the blame. Who wants that?
I would definitely NOT say "afraid" to date a feminist. More just not interested or attracted. Toxic feminism is simply not a turn on. To a guy, this stuff borders on mental disorder, bi-polarism and compulsive disorder. Very simple. It's not about fear, it's about respect and attraction... which is not there.
There was this dude on TikTok that asked his female followers what they'd rather have: A loving man who does everything they want but is terrible in bed, or a useless man who is fire in the sack. Pretty much every single female reply was 'I'd take the first but I'd cheat'. Someone told him it wasn't fair to just ask his female followers, so he asked the guys as well Would you rather have a wife who does everything you could possibly want include being faithful but doesn't sleep with you, or a useless wife who's fire in the sack There were a couple "I'd cheat on her" but the majority of dudes replied something to the effect of "can she still show me intimacy in other ways? Hugging, kissing, cuddling" etc. The thing that women don't seem to understand is that men love you for what you do after sex. For us, that's the question. "Do I enjoy being around her after I bang her?" if the answer to that is 'yes' then he's going to fall for her. Women aren't like that.
@@davidrosensin7985 it's really odd isn't it? How the idea in society is that Men are hungry for only sex while in reality most of us just want a partner that won't fuck us over.
I think you're on to something there. Toxic femininity isn't sexually attractive at all. Toxic masculinity can still attract some females. We're even better at being toxic...
lol i dropped that on 23yr old on reddit like listen. Men dont settle down with a feminists. Hubby MATERIAL men dont. Down vote this shit all you want doesnt make it any less true. Take my advice. Youre 23, plenty of time to change your standards before youre still single in your mid 30s. It was in reply to her bf leaving her because of her hairy arm pits. I asked _are you a feminist or is that just your thing? if you're a feminist, then i dont blame him, if that's just your thing, then eff him._ She went off because she was clearly the first lol FELLAS hang a trump flag in your car or home. That'll weed out your inner feminist chick pick ups and save you time.
Wow. Someone points out the obvious. never in history have there been so many women so determined on dyeing alone. It's ALMOST too late for an entire generation.
@@Graciashauf You, me and a couple of million more. Of course, the ladies figure this out in their 30's and 40's when its' too late and they hit a wall. It's amazing the total lack of self awareness. I saw this coming 25 years ago. The most beautiful women I know NEVER have stable relationships and have proved over the course of 30 - 40 years that they are unable to get alone with a man for more than a few years. It is amazing how determined some of these ladies are to destroy ANY potential to have a healthy family life. We will have an entire GENERATION of cat ladies if they don't get their sh1t together.
Yeh.. true... I also am more productive when I'm alone... being alone is very rewarding when it comes to SELF GROWTH.... But hey... don't forget that we all need a partner to some extent.... pls don't die alone.
peace is good but we humans weren't created to be alone. just get involved with someone who respects your peace and adds to your life creating a great team
As a women I avoid most women lol, the only friends I still have are the ones that never went to uni and got infected by this ideology. I'm in uni and I'm literally alone because I don't want to walk on egg shells in order to make friends
If I could compress the overall message of your video in a single phrase is that 'having a good attitude can make all the difference in the world'. Wise advice for all of us :)
OP same. They're not on my menu. No harm in that. But I do want a partner for life, and I'm not gay. My solution is to get a matchmaker to help me find the type of woman I'm interested in. She's out there somewhere. Maybe.
I dated a feminist once, never again! The fatal flaw with modern feminism is that it assumes men will give in. The truth is men can be happy alone more than women can. Women need companionship more than men do so if the choice for men is to deal with difficult women or be alone, the latter choice is the better one for us. Most men can get into their hobbies and interest and be perfectly happy with that.
There's a difference between women that are feminist, and women that are FEMINIST. Just saying. You wouldn't necessarily know if a woman is a feminist, but you will know if she is a FEMINIST.
You are totally right. Men are starting to walk away in a big way. So much so that it's becoming very noticeable. Men are way more capable of living alone just fine and being happy alone. These women don't see just how bad they shoot themselves in the foot. One day they are going to be super desperate to find that companion and it will be next to impossible. Good quality men are getting wise and women who want a good man nowadays have a big hill to climb to gain that quality of man's trust. If they ruin their trust just once, they are back out in the streets. Because the tolerance of men with values are extremely low now and they are becoming extremely selective. They don't want to sign a contract where half of their stuff goes to a woman by default. They don't want to be involved in a woman who thinks baby trapping men to legally enslave them for money is big money moves. Unfortunately this kind of abuse of the system is becoming a regular thing. Men have no choice but to be very selective and cautious around women nowadays.
The author assumes , as a lot of women do , that men are “ afraid” to approach her. BS! Men aren’t afraid of women ; we just don’t want to bother anymore . Modern women need to get over themselves , and just be decent people . We , as men, don’t need them either. The effort isn’t worth it anymore .
Some guys are afraid. Its too easy for a woman to accuse a man of inappropiate behavior with no evidence and that guy is toast. Even a compliment or leaning forward for a kiss at the end of a date is interpreted at assault. Even if he is found innocent of any accusation, his life, personally and professionally is over.
Modern **feminists- not modern women. Modern feminists are sexist and ugly af. There are good young women who cringe at & condemn this garbage, and are disappointed that they get attention on social media. Changing your circles will help, trust me. I know good men & women who deserve each other, but the problem is that good people on both sides are too reluctant to approach each other because of all of today’s bullshit.
This is great! Thank you for reacting to this ridiculous article. It's nice to know that there are other women out there who acknowledge that this is absurdity. I believe the biggest reason why I have never followed any group is because I am not on social media. These groups are doing the opposite of what they preach, which is causing more segregation. Love watching this kind of content from you (and from other youtubers on the subject.) 🙏👍
once sleeping around became normal it was the writing on the wall. It has never been easier for people who dont pay for nothing. Only pay if you get to play lol
I courteously open a door for women: I get "the look" and a rude comment I hold a door open for a guy: I get a thank you I don't open doors for women anymore...
Women: I want a tall guy I want a rich guy I want a man who can take charge I want a guy that's masculine I want a guy with big muscles I want a guy with a cute butt I want a guy to treat me like a princess Also Women: I don't want men looking down on me. I don't want men to make more money than me. I don't want a man that tries to control me. I don't want a toxic macho man. I don't want men who think they are stronger than women. I don't want a man that objectifies my body. I don't want a simp. Wake up women.. you don't make any damn sense. Men don't want you because you're literally insane.
the "also women" part isn't even problematic??? Bruh I literally don't get it... Did I land the perfect guy that DOESN'T look down on me, that DOESN'T try to control me, that ISN'T a toxic macho man, that DOESN'T objectify my body, that ISN'T a simp???? While fulfilling all the top points that women want? Like how are any of these "Also Women" points unrealistic? There's nothing wrong with expecting your partner to respect you.
@@reb2229 Don't you get it? Literally all of those things contradict each other. Everything at the bottom is the exact opposite of the corresponding thing at the top. DUH... that was the point. You can't have up and down at the same time.. >.< This is why I can't talk to women. They can't be reasoned with at all. Their idea of logic and reason is a nightmare of impossibilities and contradictions.
@@chaosmastermind ah, so if women get a guy with desirable features then she deserves to be abused? Because they're not the "opposite". You're just insecure and abusive. Incels say the darnest things
When I worked at a Junior College in the 90's, the most sexist person I ran into was the "Women & Society" instructor. Her courses were "Manbashing 101", and the only time she wasn't spouting hate was when she needed me to do something technical for her. Feminism = Hate.
I encountered these feminists in an art history class in the early 80's where every male artist was a misogynist. I was a model and according to them was ignorant of my own enslavement by the patriarchy........so I seduced my profs boyfriend and made it all real for her..........don't judge, I was 20
I hold the door open for everyone, women, men, kids, the elderly. Its just plain courtesy that my parents taught me. So now we will teach our sons to not be polite?
@@valorandstrength2829 I'm a bilateral amputee and often have women hold the door for me. At first it made me uncomfortable because I was taught to open them for women. Now I just thank them and have the policy whomever reaches the door first opens for the other folk. It's still interesting watching the looks I get sometimes when I hold the door for others. My legs got cut off, not my hands and civility :).
Where I come from both men and women should be holding doors for each other it's not about a sexual thing it's about a decency thing.... Women should learn from the time they're little girls to hold the doors for men elderly people children etc....
@@f4ephantom not going to lie, unless you have already gone through the door i might have to politely refuse. I was almost a quadriplegic, doors would have sucked, i kinda like being able to consider doors the most minor of inconvenience.
Lol, I had one femnazi when I hald the door for several people, she complained after which I slammed it shut in her face, asked her if she was happy now but she was still unhappy
As an Eastern European I went the first time to England in my 20s. I opened the door to a girl and she got angry with me. First I was deeply puzzled, then the West just fell in my eyes. A lot.
I think that Eastern Europe is one of the big strongholds for the European spirit. After having lived through the horrors of Communism, you're more aware and vigilant about stopping it from happening again. Feminism is just Marxism based on gender instead of class. Both manifestos are extremely similar to each other.
@@Thalanox Thanks mate. Everybody forgets how Eastern Europe used be normal Europe. 45 years of communism later we came out as stupid wretched laughable poor guys. We are recovering but the West is going into this shitstorm. Sad to see people believing the lies of the Marxists, building their own grave.
@@gyozop yep. I’ve been to western and Eastern Europe. Where did I have the most fun with beautiful women? Eastern Europe! They’re more feminine, sophisticated and truly love pleasing men. That’s from my experience. 👍
@@josephj6521 In English speaking countries there is a war between men and women, now I know it is media generated. I am not saying we are better, we just don't have that war, relations are more natural.
What is wrong with opening doors or closing them for others and self as long as it is not a part of torture where people are locked up. I am a woman myself and I close and open the doors of my house if my father forgets it or is not in the mood for it. I am very glad if anyone open the doors for me whenever I am in a new place or unfamiliar places.
I honestly didn't think "real" honest and SENSIBLE women still exist out in the open due to the constant nonsense that's promoted in media..I love this woman for just being fair and honest; it truly adds sooo much to your physical beauty.
I keep seeing this quote and I immediately think, “Doesn’t quoting a serial killer just hurt your point?” But then I remember I’m thinking of Ted Bundy.
In the 1980s, the feminist movement in Greece began to grow stronger. Suddenly a member of parliament who supported it, proposed for compulsory conscription of women, just as men were conscripted (then it was 2 years). Since then we have been hearing about feminism.
As a man, I open doors for other men, couples, families, children, elderly, disabled, or basically anyone that isn't a single woman or group of single women because I am tired of being yelled at for being polite. I was taught all my life to have good manners. If you don't like it, then open your own damn door and leave me the hell alone.
Angry feminists routinely reprimand men publicly for "arrogantly" offering to help a woman. If a unicorn (an anti-feminist and feminine woman) is nearby, she will never come to the man's defense. Perhaps they think that will be emasculating? An astute man quickly learns there is no upside to helping women. It is safest for men to avoid interacting with women they don't know. But sometimes that is not possible. Recently, I was grocery shopping and minding my own business. A beautiful young woman (I am 65) asked for my help reaching a product off the top shelf. I quietly responded, "I support feminism and female empowerment. I would never insult a modern, strong, and independent woman by helping her. That would be demeaning and misogynistic. I respect women too much to help them." I walked away. She was shocked and stood motionless for a moment. I could see she was trying to comprehend what had just happened. I wonder if she ever figured out that unchecked feminism has ugly consequences? When feminists behave rudely toward men, the unicorns need to humiliate the feminists in public at the moment of their offense. Perhaps they do? Perhaps unicorns are so rare that most men never witness them coming to a man's defense? Only women can fix this problem. But, unfortunately, I don't see that happening.
I have worked around and closely with many women over my business career. A consistent comment that many women made was that they did not like working with or for other women and most preferred working for a man. Many women I have known have also stated that women are crazy. These comments were made without me asking or soliciting the comment. With that being said, I offer a quote from one of my favorite movies. In the movie, “As good as it gets”, Jack Nicholson, who plays a writer in the movie, is just leaving the publisher. The young female receptionist asks Nicholson a question. Receptionist: “How do you write women so well?” Nicholson: “I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.”
I worked with women and men, and had women bosses as well. They were no better and no worse than men. However, I noticed women PREFERRED working for men. The constant issue was that women bosses were crazy, tempermental, and more petty. Even my sister said she preferred working for men.
Men aren’t scared. We love overt feminists. It’s like seeing a bright colored frog. Makes it much easier to avoid danger and a life of strife. It’s the chameleons we worry about.
Men should not worry about being seen as a misogynist. Be a gentleman, and if you get a bad reaction, she has simply told you that she is not the one for you. It's not you...it's her. Don't be disappointed that she didn't want you. Realize that YOU don't want HER. You can't change her, so move on. The key to happiness in life, whatever your dating/marital status, is not giving a f*** what anyone else thinks, period.
If the price of a pencil suddenly increases from mere cents to $2M, would you buy it? This is exactly what has happened in the dating market. Women overvalued themselves so much that only millionaires can afford them. And no millionaire would want a pencil for $2M either. The pencil is still ultra overvalued.
millionare put down a $1000 deposit, takes the pencil, writes a page or two for a week or so, then he returns the pencil back to the streetshop he found it.
Hook-up culture is how men have adapted to feminism. It's funny, but marriage and monogamy probably was the most supportive societal support for women. Human kind going back to various forms of poligany is really a huge benefit for the top 20% of men just like kings of the past pre-Christianity.
But not really. It gets old after awhile man. I was (still am) in "the bubble" tall, athletic, charismatic, all of that shit. And it was fun in my twenties but after awhile (ok a long while), if you are a man of substance; you want substance. You want stability and legacy. Purpose. Gluttony is fine for a short while.
And now the governments around the world are in free fall trying to figure out how to tax the workers to support women. Women were traditionally supported by men. Now that half of marriage age women will be single by 2030, there's no way taxes can support all of them. Men are checking out, thus aren't making enough to make meaningful contributions to the tax slave system. Not only that, but I doubt the U.S. economy will hold for another 10 years. This is check mate. I've lived in Russia for half of a year, and I already had a preview of what's to come. Suicides will soon skyrocket, there won't be anyone to fix basic things since they'll all be dead or alcoholics. The younger women will live out their days in their mom's tiny crumbling apartment. I only saw a handful of men over 50 during my stay there. It's coming to the U.S. and to the rest of the world.
Honestly woman were more depressed in a marriage then the men , it was harder to get a divorce and they were stuck with an domestic abusive husband , they were treated like 2nd class citizens, and men went out and cheated on their wives. 🙄 I have nothing against old fashion values but the men in society aren't exactly innocent in all this . No I don't think men should take accountability for what their fathers did but I find it bullshit that i have to take accountability for the actions of other woman. The laws were put in place because men in the past treated woman like their personal property .
My last comment was removed. It wasn't even anything bad, just very truthful. I love the censorship on this channel... But I guess women love censorship.
THANK YOU! I've always talked about how it's frustrating that every girl has a different set of rules and it's good to hear a woman mention this. I've literally seen threads where women complain about not being approached and in the same thread you have girls complaining about being approached. And they're like "well if they do it this way..." and it's a different way every time.
@@RebeccaBarrett As much as we would love to see that, the damage has been done. It will take a lot of work to deprogram the effenist mindset they have acquired just to spite us. No righteous man with character and values will let those unhappy harpies interfere with their peace and tranquility because they have better things to do than to worry about "feelings". They brought this on themselves and now we got a population crisis. I wish them luck in finding someone to spend their lives with, but it's impossible if the ability to pair bond is lost.
@@poeticassassin4699 I’m a bit of an optimist. I know you have lost hope but I see and speak to women who are desperate for a change. They need to hear the truth from another woman
@@RebeccaBarrett I wish you well for this because it must come from women like you to deal with these women with that mindset. No man can tell them shit, thus by the Bible's standards they are out of order by The Most High's rules on how he made the earth. I am sure you know some will try to throw the Bible out there to justify what they do, but they are true hypocrites and they will pay for their foolishness in the long run. You have also repeated what Kevin Samuels have been saying to these women about buying a dog and dying alone because they refuse to be traditional while requiring men to be traditional. We both know modern woman and traditional man doesn't not bode well because traditional men are the head of the household and they look at being wives as slavery while being promiscuous as liberation. Effenism sold them a lie, and they bought it hook, line and sinker. Every man and woman are accountable for their actions, but if the rules make it unfair to one side while giving the other side an advantage, then we look at it as warning shots and we will play the long game because it is war and no one wins in the end.
@@RebeccaBarrett We have to look at the next generation. The vvomen of our generation have been damaged beyond repair. The best thing we can do is educate the new generation while they are still oblivious to the toxic polarization between man and vvoman. The funny thing is that children seem to know their gender better than the adults. My nephew of eight refused to wear a shirt because it had a pink label on the inside. I probably get canceled for this but my first thought was of that dog Spike and his son of the WB cartoons: "THAT'S MY BOY!"
@@RebeccaBarrett Probably too late - men have already woken up. There is hope though, in the ingenuity of man. Men went from the Kitty Hawk to the moon in 67 years. I am sure men can come up with a replacement for women that is better. Sex motivates men more that almost anything else. It will be interesting to see what women do when men stop pursuing them for sex. I wonder how they will finance their lives?
@@billburr5881 fr that's why women hate the film the Stepford Wives. It's a horror movie for them. Right now women aren't bringing anything positive to the table besides sex, and once men can purchase or finance a Marilyn Monrobot, most women will have a really rough life.
Sometimes I go to restaurants, I don’t ever see couples. There are men and women isolated from each other at different tables no interaction between them. This is very common today.
Mark-sist f-inism has destroyed male-female relationships. Back when I was dating young women they actually liked and respected men. For the most part they were a joy to be around. That was before 2nd wave f-inism took hold. I feel sorry for the younger brothers out there trying to find a kind feminine girl. Edit: What a breath of fresh air to hear a cute young lady have the courage to say these things.
Notice how it’s an issue when women make it out to be? That’s why men are checking out. A lot of women don’t respect men nor what they have to say. I’m 37, always wanted to have a family, but I gave up a while back on that.
"I'm starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they're afraid to make a move". OK, so why don't YOU make the first move? We're all for equality so why don't you practice it ? I mean you're empowered, right? RIGHT? Or do you think you are not able to endure the shit-ton of rejection men have historically always had to handle ?
When a woman "settles down" she finds a chump to pay for her existence. When a man settles down he's betting the government 90% of his current and future stuff that he can keep her happy the rest of her life
It is sad that you are right and in fact men my age are in the biggest trouble 20-25 because we will be wanting a girl soon or looking to get married soon to the very girls being told brand new that this is just haw it is and that it is the right way
Its a slave situation. A gun is held against your head. Like most men I got a married in church. Then after the ceremony I was invited to one side and asked to sign a contract... WITH THE STATE. I never realised what it meant at the time but divorce was rare and based on fault. As soon as no fault divorce came in men lost all their rights.
Right on the money! It sucks being a drawn in with femininity only to talk to the young lady to find out how she's a feminist with a victim hood mentality.
I know many women still trapped in that mentality but I was once one of those women and I broke free of it. There is hope. My husband will bear witness to that.
“The juice isn’t worth the squeeze”, is the mantra of many if not most of today’s guys. The majority of millennial males, would rather play video games, than risk everything for a bit of very expensive tail.
Rebecca needs to be heard by all women struggling with themselves, who have fallen for the ruse of feminism. She has confidence, good ideas, consistency and is a role model. Things every man truly wants for the women in their lives
I have a cousin who is never satisfied with her partners, no matter how much they please her, but I after awhile realized she's needy and unreasonable, lonely. She put a relationship as a fulfillment to her life rather than a complement.
Honestly many if not most people are not actually healthy as single people. Thus it is not unreasonable to consider marriage/relationships therefore would fulfill their lives. The problem is just the unreasonable expectations. No relationship, nothing in this life, will make you happy or make life perfect. Part of the problem is that people these days do not allow themselves to admit they need a relationship, and if they cannot be honest with themselves about themselves and relationships, they can not have reasonable expectations about relationships. I.e. because your cousin cannot admit that she needs a relationship, she does not have to ask herself what a real relationship with a real person would actually be like. She can keep looking for Mr perfect because she assumes that she does not need to "settle"
Let me address the "Open Door for Others" from my perspective as a man who was walking, and needed a wheelchair at the age of 30, I am now in my 50s... At first, and for a long time, I was offended and resentful when someone opened a door for me BECAUSE I can do it myself! Even though I was taught at a young ago that holding a door for someone was a kindness, I didn't want help, I didn't need help, and my counselor coined the behavior as Militant Independent. Then I started to say thank you... it was forced at first... but eventually it became genuine because I KNOW that they are just being helpful.
I think opening doors is a little gift to anyone. And accepting it, and give back a "thank you" is a gift in it self. We all feel good in giving gifts. This is also a "pay it forward" mentality that makes your everyday going good. I hope you are having a good day!
I am mad when she read about the guy opening doors. What the hell! When a guy open the door for me, I am happy because he is polite and was raised right. Feminist might kill me if they find out I hold the door for men too because it's called being nice.
@@ZipMapp Yep, if a woman cooks she was raised right. If a man cooks he was raised right. Human beings should be raised in a way that they can take care of themselves and look out for others.
@@grinningchicken That's so high level it doesn't make sense. I get your general idea and there's definitely some sense to it not gonna argue that. Reality is far more fine grained though. Also right or wrong are, at high granularity levels, very subjective
I agreed with everything you said about the person you named Jennifer. She had called men "trash". Is that a sexist statment coming from a person who walks and screams sexism is wrong and we are equal? Nice job on your work Rebecca. Keep it up. Best
I learned that Chivalry is an old French swordsman code to other swordsman in a public space. It is a show of respect to one another where they do not duel.
@@markthirkell7056 True but h s right in a way as it was mostly founded by Charlemagne. Who was of course a Frankish (French) king who was considered the first knight.
In that case chivalry is about respect for women on account of the woman being either the daughter of a father or the wife of a husband. In other words, it's about respect for your fellow man.
Chivalry was about relations and interactions. Between feudal lord and his vassal, between fellow knights. How to act on a field of battle or in a social settings. How to treat subordinates in other words nobelman vs farmers. The courting and treatment of women was the small parts of it, but it also stated how women should act against the man.
As a man, if I were trying to find a woman for a serious relationship, the attitude "one wrong word, and it's life without parole for you" would be a deal breaker, for it would tell me two things: 1. You're not willing to compromise, to work on your relationships, to grow with your partner. You expect everything to be perfect, and if it's not, you just call it quits and move on. That is THE worst attitude you can have going into a relationship. Why would I want to waste my time and resources on a person who's not willing to compromise, who can cancel all that we've built on a whim, over one wrong move or some petty political argument? 2. Our relationship will be a mine field from the start. Our world is a tough place, life is often a struggle. So we all want this safe haven where you can be yourself, relax, be with someone who loves you, and forget about it all even if only for a few hours. Why would anyone want their safe haven to be a political forum, a pissing contest, a battlefield? No, I'd rather be alone than have partners with whom I can never relax and be myself. You want someone to walk on eggshells around you without ever cracking a shell? Then find yourself an invisible friend.
I'm a man and I appreciate the video this lady posted 📫. If more women like her are willing to speak up and support men, the rules of dating and relationships would be less complicated and divisive.
@@RebeccaBarrett If they think ALL western men are patriarchal, evil, etc., and they truly care about other women, maybe they should enlist to fight the Taliban and their ilk...in droves.
@@evaphillips2102 men are happier single because he can actually save his money and invest it and do what he wants instead of being forced to spend it on entitled materialistic women, then having to work 12 hours again to give her his paycheck
I actually want to be with a normal human being. Somebody who puts in effort, accepts me for who i am and is doing her part in our life as a couple. And thats all i want.
that doesnt exist in todays women - they are either too entitled or have so much emotional baggage that they want you to pay for, that its just not worth even looking anymore.
@@darklegion3693 sucks to be you. You can always stack some money and buy some sort of business in a third world country. They still have some normal human women.
Women: don’t look at me you creep Also women: yes police officer, there was a man who talked to me in a manner I didn’t agree with. Also women: why won’t men talk to me! It’s illegal to be ugly.
As a man that falls under the invisible category I don’t miss any of these problems. Just level up and work on yourself, the juice isn’t worth the squeeze.
If that were illegal most radical feminists would be in jail. Remember what grandma said- Beauty's only skin deep, but ugly goes all the way to the bone.
That writer is absolutely nuts, she cannibalizes herself because she doesn’t just doesn’t want to own up to her mistakes. If you want to make yourself more appealing in the dating scene, you have to compromise. Just like guys compromise these super feminist women need to understand that to make a partnership work you have to meet your partner halfway. Making adjustments to give yourself the upper hand and make yourself the unanimous victor does not coincide with compromise.
@@Graciashauf and they hate us. And look don on us. I can’t wait to get my passport…I’m gonna be sipping brew while I watch the collapse of the evil empire.
@@defjamfanboy3096 lol literally my plan. Get rich and go abroad to find a wife or pay one here to birth me a kid and I'll raise it myself. Enjoy your dumb pets i want a someone to visit me when im old af.
I stopped looking for a partner about a decade ago. I'm almost 40 now, and smoking weed for a decade and growing a garden has great for my mental health. I think that I can do another 40 years of this without a woman.
I used to just accept bad behavior as being typical for females, but I've changed. Now I hold them accountable and if they can't correct I'm out. I still plan, take charge of, and pay for dates, open doors, whatever, because that's my way. Most women crave the attention. Few will admit it.
It’s interesting because when I was coming out of feminism right at the time I met my husband he was always holding the door, walking on the outside of sidewalk and it caught my attention and I asked him why he did that. He said that’s my job as a man. At first I was tough and he softened my hard exterior until I relearned my femininity. I remember I used to start fights with him because I wanted to see his reaction. We got through it because we went through counseling but honestly it took a lot to break that for me. Many women crave that attention, we think that we need friction in the relationship for it to spark but that’s far from the truth. It will only create more strife and pain for both parties. You are good dude, there are good women that will love you to do that for them. I’m telling you. Have faith
@@RebeccaBarrett Lmao, so he wasted bucks on your ass for counseling + you were naggy and gave him attitude YET you have the audacity of coming to us and preach. My god, learn your place
I was cheated on, in a extremely bitter and spiteful way, so im insecure and closed off and am hesitant to enter another relationship. Im aware that not all women are cheaters and women genuinely can love you. But personally I am nervous AND am also aware that it is a personal issue and should not allow 1 person to transform my views of human relationships...but its just how I feel.
Improve yourself, it will help your healing process. Learn, grow and don't give a damn about women until you make the choice to, not because you have some sexual urges
It's honestly hard to find a woman that hasn't or won't cheat. Hypergamy is a bitch. I know how much that shit can hurt, but use that pain as a lesson. Always keep your guard up, eyes open, and let her be the emotionally dependent one in the relationship (if either of you are).
I'm hauling oil in west texas. I enjoy my freedom and let go of the thought of marriage. Just date here and there and find myself waiting for the date to end lol
"one little anti-feminist comment can completely turn me off." then immediately "It's like guys are walking on eggshells around us." hmmm... She's like, "I wanna be pursued but I hate it when guys come on to me"
They're happy to turn a regular dating scenario into some pseudo- reality TV dating scenario where theirs some big red button that they can hit that'll make the dude vanish. They're looking high and low for the perfect house trained obedient male that'll give them what they want and they cannot figure out why they're unsuccessful. As for shit tests, I remember sitting the last girlfriend on my knee, looking her right in the eye and stating 'you've won me over, you don't have to keep testing me.' But nope...
Men actually open doors for other men, all the time, and it is seen as good manners and we say "thank you".I know it sounds crazy.
TRUE! You can hold the door for even the biggest asshole open, he will thank you anyway.
We also give a slight nod to a man we make eye contact with as a sign of mutual respect. If a man drops something lets say in a super market, I could help him to get it. That doesnt mean I think he is less capable, its just manners.
@@Diogolindir Crazy isnt it, men will help other men, feminists, well lets ust say they hate everybody, I guess thats equality...
Every time a dude holds the door open for me I usually wait for them to walk on in first
I open doors and hold doors for anyone, I am in no hurry and believe in treating others with respect.
Modern women want
1. The authority of a man
2. The privilege of a woman
3. The accountability of a child
Women wants to be both capitalists and socialists at the same time.
So true
Facts.
Yes, Well stated. Which Men know they can’t have. There is no such word as fairness for Men, As to Women have gotten it by all the social programs that Men hardly have for homelessness and housing. Men are still treated as the muscle, Until the robots replace all but the sperm we carry. Then look out.
Hhhh
Modern speed dating:
Man - Are you a feminist?
Woman - Yes, I am a proud feminist.
Man - NEXT!
Nice name 👍🏽
She gone..
Exactly! Although they're usually the best for one night only haha
Amen brother
@@eirini98 Only risking STD and a false rape accusation.
One of my wife's friends was like this even when she got married. He grew sick of her narcissism and instead of correcting things, she convinced herself that he had turned gay. 4 years later, he has two kids with his new wife and she's alone with her dog
Lol wtf 😂
If she's still single I wouldn't doubt that she got a couple of cats too.
IMHO, the dog is probably looking for a food dish somewhere else....
And the dog probably Tolerates her, rather than loving her
Wow, poor dog.
All feminist should date each other, because they're looking for someone who is just like them
FACTS!!!
@Rudy O'Brien PREACH 👏🙌
Women understand women.They can't stand each other. 😂🤣😂🤣
Best comment ✊✊
Correct
No man has ever been offended by someone holding a door open for him.
It is polite and helpful
I only hold doors for other men, they always say thank you.
I also will hold a door for an older woman who still appreciates common courtesy.
So true...
@@MrSenta56 I will show courtesy to anyone: if they are offended that is not my problem!
@@markthirkell7056 unfortunately it becomes a problem if you do something courteous and then here negatively about it.
Girls that get offended for opening door for them, they have insecurities more than being feminists. They think men are thinking of them as weak when in reality, their insecurities make them think all time that they’re weak and everyone knows it. So they burst on men helping them and fail to see positive side. That also happens in other matters not just door scenario. Men are less insecure or not at all in this matter so they recognize good deed and helpful nature. Otherwise opening door is nothing, we can open it for ourselves men and woman easily but thought and manners are what that count.
Its bizarre: men are alone and they embrace solitude and self improvement. Women are alone; and they are mad at the men who are happy to leave them that way
It’s very true and honestly sad.
@@RebeccaBarrett Face it. You marched in the streets demanding to be " Strong, Independent , and Empowered Women that Don't Need No Man ". So men are giving you what you Marched for.
So what's the problem now ?
@@ogremgtow990 it’s true but that’s why I’m trying to help more women break free of that mindset. Trust me, I was one of those women too and I broke free from the delusion
@@RebeccaBarrett pure gold, totally agree, but it's too late for most women during the next 2 generations at least, the ggod news, however, is that they'll become extint and nature will recover in a far future.
@@edamerburg8866 I’m hoping to help correct that with my videos. I know I’m just one woman but the message needs to be spread to more women. I’m in it for the long haul lol
No one likes to be around someone who is pissed off all the time.
I have worked with people who have this attitude, and everyone can sense it. They spend a lot of lunch times eating alone!
Yep!!!!!!!
lol Exactly.
Except for other feminists. They love to gather and share their hatred of men.
Exactly, I know I am a moody asshole and I don't expect people to like me, but I own it.
Guys are not afraid.....we just are not stupid. Men adapt and overcome. And dating doesn't exist anymore. Women need to take accountability for setting the standard for catch and release
Facts
Qhat I have seen since the "burn your bra" era...is the envy of men... We as men have to tear down to build...to make a qorld ro livw in for WVWRYONE...yet we are placed last on the liat of conaidetation qhen it comes timw to be happy and comfortable. This is qhy qe die earlier than women...working ourselves to death providing and then having all we worked for taken by the one we worked so hard for. And in a lot of cases...its the invasion of the relationship by other women telling the female spouse how to handle her man
and if the friends advice is not accepted by the man...his woman is gone and she begins acting like the female friend. Women should be secure in their own decisions in the life they have with their man...not the advice of other females that are probably single or divorced. Today there are more same sex relationships with women than ever before..besause its easier to be with a woman..than to be a woman for a man...they don't want to do the work of a woman..they want to be idolized and treated as if they are Cleopatra..and the feminist wants to run the world that men build...with help of the knowledge taught to them by man...Just my personal opinion..
Spot on!
then women get angry with the men who *do* fit their standards and they get a taste of the "ejaculate/evacuate" doctrine, lol. the dating scene is destroyed, man.
Omar is my hero. Please write a book or start a YT channel
Holding doors open is a respect thing, always has been. Men hold doors open for each other too. It's called being polite and having manners.
I look at it more as a traffic management thing, and it's worked for me so far.
And we say thank you if others hold the door open for us!
Here in the UK if you don't hold the door open you are an asshole with no manners but if you do it's "benign misogyny". I have had the last laugh though, some 5'1 shrew had a go at me saying something like "so you think I cant open the door open because I'm a woman?" Turns out she was right behind me with a load of bags on the way out, I let the door slam in her face. She was going to let rip again so I said her words back to her.
If someone objected, I would say, "I apologize. I am a gentleman, and I hold doors for ladies. Unfortunately, it's just not possible to tell whether or not you are a lady by looking at you, so I just take the chance and hold the door for all females."
Is like just opening a door XD wth is with overthinking about ir
Get a clue: Men aren't scared, they,re disgusted. Why bother chasing a woman when she isn't willing to put in any effort? It boils down to appreciation and respect on both sides. It takes two to make a relationship work and only one in a relationship to destroy it.
It does take 2 to make a relationship work.
To all modern woman enjoy your cats
When you are 30plus all you are good for is being f w b
No man wants to marry a spream bank!!!!!!!
So go and watch sex an city 😉😉😉😉😉🌆
@@beckynunn4649 it does but when 80% of divorces and relationship breakups are initiated by college educated women we know it's a one sided problem. Women need to be raised better period.
I think the whole "men are scared of our powerfulness" is just a coverup for their ego, because they know that men like myself are simply NOT ATTRACTED to their lame personality, lack of femininity and overall shitty behavior.
Both in the relationship cannot be men though.
Author: “Every little thing a man does pisses me off, as a feminist!”
Also author: “Why do men walk on egg shells with me?”
because they are insecure and it's a good thing! :D
You can't make this shit up
Because you scatter the eggshells in front of them...you want a man who is feminine. He was gestated as a man and will behave like a man. Doesn't want eggshells in his way.
@@princenwaegerue4705 RIP Kevin Samuels.
@@Surfbird11 100 out of 100 women that disliked Kevin will “ Woof Woof “ die alone. Because this is getting ridiculous now adays. I mean my god listen to this author, she’s digging her own lonely grave
"Chivalry is dead, and feminism killed it" - Dave Chappelle
Chivalry is earned. These modern women haven't earned a damn thing.
@@craig581 Earn you say, what is that crazy concept? That’s so last century they would say!!
Chivalry has nothing to do with how to treat women. It's a set of rules for how noble men should treat other nobles. -A Medieval Historian.
the exact quote is " Chivalry is dead. and women killed it."
All I can say now, and moving
Forward....there are a lot of bitter women out there...but , there are still and always will be cool women...thank the lord for them...
"Women like to be pursued..."
Yeah, then they accuse you of stalking. No thanks!
amen brotha
It all depends on how attractive you are to them. If they like you, they're thrilled. If they don't like you, they're gonna call the cops.
Yes they do, but they only want the men they want to want them pursue them.
One night I tried to stop a young lady from walking into a certain back street... But, she kicked me on the shin and ran down that same street.....
4 days later she stopped to tell me she got mugged and punched in the face....
I was like I tried to warn you but you assulted me and ran away...
She was like you should have tried harder...
@@harrymills2770 or Karen in H.R. and you lose your job, your home, your car, credit rating, savings, et cetera.
“A strange game. The only winning move is not to play.”
Quote from War Games.
Games are not for relationships and most definitely not for marriage.
@@RebeccaBarrett wish the feminists knew that....
@@akireviews9753 yea I think most people would benefit from hearing that
Watch Bruce Lee's *"The Art of Fighting without Fighting"* lol.
ruclips.net/video/o_Ycw0d_Uow/видео.html
@@RebeccaBarrett but women have *always* played games in relationships. Why do you think men came up with the term "shit test?"
As a 48 year old man, I love feminism, I think it makes dating so much easier. I have never been scared of women and this new wave feminism brings to light the toxic women out there. It makes it easier to avoid them with a couple of calculated questions about the patriarchy and chivalry and then boom, they can't help but expose themselves as to what they truely are and what they believe and then you can say bye bye.
Honestly, this is how I scope out a new friend, too, as a woman. I dont have any liberal feminist friends. I have to tolerate my sister, but I keep praying she will grow out of it with big sister influence. I digress, when I meet a new gal who I get along with, I seek to figure out where their values are and how they view the world.
What questions do you ask them? Genuinely curious..
The guys aren't "afraid to make a move." They recognize your brand of toxic hatred for them and want to find peace with someone who doesn't resent them for existing.
"They're going to have to figure it out..." They have figured it out...which is why they aren't dating you.
LMAO BOOM! Yes we have. That's ok. Stocks for tendies. Ill cry in a bugatti or a box because im an option degenerate LOL
Exactly. Women make up their mind on looks, as do we, but looks with out depth means a very short relationship. If a woman has that toxic feminism (you know it when you see it) look, then it doesn't matter how good she looks, I am not getting near it. It's okay what they say about me because none of them matter.
@@jamie49868 BOOM. And dont let them give you shit for having your preferences, as they also have theirs... ya know be a 10 and not less lol
That's priceless: "they're going to have to figure it out..." we have, which is why we're not dating you lol
That should be on a T shirt!
@@muskokamike127 told a 19 year old on Reddit guys, real husband material guys don't settle with feminists anymore. She's like THAT'S NOT TRUE I said good luck then you're 19. Hop back on here when u 30 and still single 🤣
If you’re an attractive, rich, successful man she wants you to pursue her yet if you’re not then you’ll be getting a call from HR for sexual harassment. The juice is definitely not worth the squeeze
50 Shades was only a turn on because Christian was handsome, and rich af...
Put it in the trailer park and its a Criminal Minds episode --.--
It's long since time to repeal all affirmative action. It should be obvious.
@@michaelriddick7116 🤣🤣🤣👏👏
@@michaelriddick7116 Haha, hat's off to that one!
@@michaelriddick7116 I need to go find whoever the fuck stole your chill. You desperately need it back. 😂👍
Afraid no, choosing not to engage with toxic people is more like it.
Escorts it is then.
@Frank Rauen That's what I'm saying 👍
As to why I'm going solo in life... I'll quick my job when I'm 30, and travel. For sure, along the way I'll end up dying, since I ain't much of a traveler.
Yeah exactly. These feminists are awful, vile people
@@ChaolaoFueChi Better that than dating a feminist lmao
I was on a date with a gorgeous lady. We had plans to go to dinner after a show. Leaving the show, I opened the car door. She said she can open her own car door. I drove, and soon she said "Are we going the right way?" Indeed we were. I took her straight home and dropped her off. Never saw her again.
I don't get these modern women. They want a man and a family but they actually hate men. Sorry most modern men are not going to play that game. They would rather stay single.
It's not messy, a lot of men just don't find women worth it anymore. You can keep to yourselves and enjoy feminism and metoo without us.
I totally understand why you feel that way. I can only imagine the frustration. That’s why I want to help modern women break out of that like I did
@@RebeccaBarrett No you don't understand what it's like to be male everyday. Women choose their path to destruction it was her choice alone let them carry on!! This is nothing to do with men it's the woman's problem that made it happen. Men are fine on their own just gives more time for them to enjoy their freedom and do other things with life to enjoy it as much as possible and do what they do be the best version of their self and hardworking.
@@RebeccaBarrett You should reach out to Blondie in the Belly of the Beast for her take.
@@mdsalahuddinullah6793 dude... She didn't say she understood what it felt like to be a man. She said she understood why you would be upset. As any rational human being would.
@@mdsalahuddinullah6793 bud trying to dismiss her effort to at least understand the struggles of men makes you as toxic as those feminazis.
Honestly when I meet a new girl, if she has the slightest feminist mindset, I just walk away I don't need constant disagreements nor extra drama
I just want to encourage you guys, I was one of those women… very feminists and trust me women can change. It’s all about taking personal accountability and responsibility for your own actions. It’s hard, but there are good women out there especially out of bigger cities. Good luck guys, I know the struggle is real
@@RebeccaBarrett I highly encourage you to make more videos like this, women I think will receive and process the information better coming from one of their own, but be blunt don't sugarcoat it
@@RebeccaBarrett plus try to make contact with the FRESH & FIT show, they could have u on the show as a changed woman, u can't a lot of views for u channel
Or make a reaction video from their show, that will boost your views 😉
@@80club45 oh trust me I’m not holding back. I gotta do it for everyone sake lol
@@80club45 oh I’ve seen many of there videos. They are local to me. I’ll see what I can do lol. I should make a reaction video for sure though
Being a feminist and wanting/getting a quality man are mutually exclusive.
Preach. Any woman I have dated that was worth anything wasn't a rabid feminist.
@@squeebbb Loser women are usually raging feminists. 😂 My image of a feminist is Andrea Dworkin but I am old now. 😂
I was leaving a FedEx Office location the other day the Ground girl was struggling bringing in the packages on a dolly, so I held the door for her. I didn't expect anything, she was appreciative, we went our separate ways. That's it.
Feminists, take notes. This is how normal people act.
Exactly. 👏👏👏
well said Rory. but according to the fems you were humiliating her. i dont care what people say about this, most women just dont think straight
feminist theory redefines actions so woman INTERPRET THEN NEGATIVELY. that means genuine kindness is seen as repulsive. psy-op used to make men and woman repulsed by each other
wow lucky she didnt go to HR nowadays lol
Give them options when you see SOMEONE may appreciate help. "Need someone to hold the door?"
By getting way is answered, you know right away if you wish her to have a nice day
Not afraid. Annoyed. No desire to lose everything I have. Here’s the rub… I literally enjoy being alone. I’m investing in cat food stocks.
Hahaha…WELCOME!!!
Invest now. It's booming. Might as well profit from these women's mistakes. I mean they profit from a man's desire to protect and provide. And men who refuse to date are now the bad guys? Seriously? Whatever. I'll keep my money thanks.
Though I don't have a lot of it as of writing this.
I have a rule if a girl has more then two cats then just move on, she's given up on dating she just doesn't know it.
@@jamiebeebe9606 you know what? you're correct about that. brutal about how right you are.
👯 16-30 " I don't need no man
🤱31-36 " where the good men at
👵37-45 "I'm still young
🧟46-death " I made a mistake
☠️ Last word I blame men
That's a fact
This comment is pure gold!
You forgot to add at the end of each line... "still letting chad and tyrone break her hymen"
FUNNY how that works....
@Dr Z Divine chad and tyrone
All these reasons amount to, "I was fine before i was brainwashed."
truth!
Feminism wasn't created for relationships. It was created to "destroy the need for relationships/marriage" with men. It literally, gave women the option to choose one or the other; but not both. You can't destroy the need for relationships, then expect a relationship to survive that destruction. That said, thanks for speaking out.
To divide for conquering... To disbuild the tradicional pattern, to mess up the system.
@@Sigma37 I hear you, but I think it's more like the Jenga game. The more you erode the base, the more likely it'll destroy the whole structure. However, the objective is to change the structure without causing the tower to collapse. The funny thing is the effects of Feminism are intentional, unintentional, and inevitable; all at the same time. Which shows that men primarily look at "sustainment" for life decisions, but women seem to look at "satisfaction" when making life decisions; no matter the outcome. So, as long as they get what "they" want; "some women" just don't care about anyone or anything else. Hence the phrase, "If mama ain't happy; nobody's happy."
The first gen of womanists never married or had kids. I get these types better then the latest generation. They were ornery from the get go.
@@whenniceguysretaliate5619 facts
@@Sigma37
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Men wouldn’t mind paying for dates if women wouldn’t use men for a meal. If women dated with intent, as in only date someone you are attracted to. Stop friend zoning and having orbiters.
Maybe that should be my next video. How to date with intention. When the friend zone happens to you or to friends you know, do you easily pick up on it or is it much later?
@@RebeccaBarrett There are women who put people in the Friend zone for ulterior purposes and there are women who have men as friends.
There are men who enjoy having women as close friends and there are those who put themselves into a woman's orbit wherever or not she is a user, there are men who think opening a door entitles him to her time, and there are men who just want to be nice.
People need to treat others with respect, thank you for being one of them Miss Barrett.
@@jonathanburmeister1946 yes you hit it on the head. We need to treat each other with respect 👏 you’re welcome. Thanks for commenting
This is the reason why you can’t pay on the first date. You have to go Dutch. You pay your meal and I pay my meal.
@@RebeccaBarrett Men and women CAN be friends, IMO, even if one or both is attracted to the other. They have to be mature about things though.
Also, just because somebody is attractive to you doesn't mean that y'all would be a compatible couple.
I don't mind treating a friend to a meal or something, as long as the friendship was a 2-way street. I don't care if they're male or female.
I get called effeminate for having female friends. I get called "cheater" because I'm married now. I also get called effeminate for not wanting a bro-dozer/Mercedes, cool tats, a Tapout hoody, a fancy job-title, a huge house, a huge TV, an alcohol/nicotine/drug addiction, a gun collection, a molosser dog, or my own MMA dojo.
I don't feel the need to prove myself to anybody. I don't feel the need to be macho when I'm already masculine. I have an honorable discharge from the Marines, a college degree, a CCW permit, and financial independence. That's man enough FOR ME. I choose to be more of a masculine intellectual than a macho thug.
Social media has given women a platform to display what they truly are, and men are paying attention.
Rule of thumb. The less social media presence she has, the better she is as a person.
Ender
SPOT ON.
Unfortunately, women dont think ee listen to them but we do . Thats why marriage rates have dropped,lol.
Agree
I am a therapist and my reputation is my livelihood. As such, I have stopped dating all together. Three simple words from someone who is vindictive, unstable, or simply angry and irresponsible; could destroy my life. It could be the next day or 20 years after the fact. It isn't worth it. I very much appreciated your speaking out.Great video!
I do mean this kindly but you don't need to do that. I've worked in mental health for over 30 years and it's something we all have to deal with. You probably have other reasons for not being in a relationship.
When she said "we women need to speak up for other women's bad behavior , and I will be one of them". She won my heart.
Absolutely. Hearing women speak like her with a pretty strong understanding of men's perspective brings me such a profound feeling of peace.
On the other hand, it's kind of sad that things have gotten so bad that just hearing a woman really empathize with the male perspective can bring out such powerful feeling in us.
To be honest I think feminism has been the best thing for men. We now realise what female nature is and many men are now out of dating permanently
60 yrs ago i would've been married with 3 kids & house. Thanks to feminism I'm now childless not paying alimony or child support and traveling to my 15th country.
feminism has freed men of the chains and burden they didn't know they had.
Exactly!!! The profane of the female side was finally exposed!!! Now you kind of understand why some texts of thousand of years ago,like the bible,the coaran,and so on warned us all bout the female nature
Permanently??? The first step to human self destruction.
Let em drown in their own piss, tears, an makeup lol
If the Woman likes you, it is "Pursuing", if she doesn't, you become at best a Creeper, at worst, a stalker.
Make them pursue you or only date foreign women
"When a hot guy stalks a chick, it's not stalking but courting"
From Hey Shipwreck
I think she should politely decline and both of you leave it at that point
@@wrongway1100 that depends on if the girl thinks she's good enough for her. Even a hot guy can be a staler with the right girl
Feminist: If I hear even the slightest opinion contradictory to the Feminist movement, we are DONE.
Also Feminist: oH mY GoD WhY mEn WaLKinG oN EgG ShELls aROunD mE?!
Exactly
The cognitive dissonance is strong in her!
Go look in the mirror. There is your problem. Now you will know who to work on or just remain stupid.
Feminism is narcissism in a collective form
Y'all women's keep beating around the same simple bush!?... Tilda bush is trodden down! Why??...
Men are scared to date now, from what I've been able to find out, for the following reasons:
*1. The courts are stacked against them* If a man enters a relationship (marriage) and that relationship fails, it's an almost certainty that the courts will side with the woman "to the lifestyle to which she has become accustomed" costing the man a significant part of his income, and the woman in most cases just has to be a woman to win. Doesn't matter if she was abusive or a horrendous drug addict, the courts will most likely side with her.
*2. The woman can destroy his reputation with ease* With the rise of #MeToo, it's easier than ever to destroy a man's reputation. If a man enters a serious relationship and that relationship ends, a spiteful woman can accuse him of rape, sexual assault and all kinds of horrible things, and the court of public opinion will do the rest. Even the accusation of some of these crimes is enough to make a man unable to work. If a woman falsely accuses a man of rape and he goes to prison for 5 years and she later recants saying it was false, there are no repercussions for her. The man, meanwhile, has lost 5 years of his life and he becomes a societal pariah through no fault of his own.
What modern feminists won't (or can't) understand is that when entering a relationship the man is at an extreme disadvantage, both biologically and societally. On the societal side, unless this is rectified, you are going to see less and less men entering into serious relationships because the risk far outweighs the benefit.
I think it's all by design.
This.
100%, society hates men, maybe they're not saying it outright (well, a lot of people do and nothing happens to them), but their actions prove it all. The only safe place for men is among other men.
True.
Also, men are afraid to date because women can hop from man to man as she desires via social media and dating apps, and the man will be left holding the bag and the blame. Who wants that?
I would definitely NOT say "afraid" to date a feminist. More just not interested or attracted. Toxic feminism is simply not a turn on. To a guy, this stuff borders on mental disorder, bi-polarism and compulsive disorder. Very simple. It's not about fear, it's about respect and attraction... which is not there.
There was this dude on TikTok that asked his female followers what they'd rather have:
A loving man who does everything they want but is terrible in bed, or a useless man who is fire in the sack.
Pretty much every single female reply was 'I'd take the first but I'd cheat'. Someone told him it wasn't fair to just ask his female followers, so he asked the guys as well
Would you rather have a wife who does everything you could possibly want include being faithful but doesn't sleep with you, or a useless wife who's fire in the sack
There were a couple "I'd cheat on her" but the majority of dudes replied something to the effect of "can she still show me intimacy in other ways? Hugging, kissing, cuddling" etc.
The thing that women don't seem to understand is that men love you for what you do after sex. For us, that's the question.
"Do I enjoy being around her after I bang her?" if the answer to that is 'yes' then he's going to fall for her. Women aren't like that.
Indeed.
@@davidrosensin7985 it's really odd isn't it? How the idea in society is that Men are hungry for only sex while in reality most of us just want a partner that won't fuck us over.
I think you're on to something there. Toxic femininity isn't sexually attractive at all. Toxic masculinity can still attract some females.
We're even better at being toxic...
Exactly
I'm not afraid to approach. I just don't approach. There is just no incentive anymore.
What, losing your kids and over 1/2 your finances, becoming an indentured servant for the next 18 isn't a great deal?
@@austntexan I mean, you don't need to have kids or get married to have healthy relationships with females
This is the reason why I went abroad to meet and marry my wife.
Where did you move? Thinking of the same. And theyre probably not overweight
15:25 - "Feminism doesn't work for relationships" - this is the best sentence I've heard in a looong time!
Thanks for a really good video.
lol i dropped that on 23yr old on reddit like listen. Men dont settle down with a feminists. Hubby MATERIAL men dont. Down vote this shit all you want doesnt make it any less true. Take my advice. Youre 23, plenty of time to change your standards before youre still single in your mid 30s.
It was in reply to her bf leaving her because of her hairy arm pits. I asked _are you a feminist or is that just your thing? if you're a feminist, then i dont blame him, if that's just your thing, then eff him._ She went off because she was clearly the first lol
FELLAS hang a trump flag in your car or home. That'll weed out your inner feminist chick pick ups and save you time.
Wow. Someone points out the obvious. never in history have there been so many women so determined on dyeing alone. It's ALMOST too late for an entire generation.
@@renmes2636 exactly how I feel lol
@@Graciashauf You, me and a couple of million more. Of course, the ladies figure this out in their 30's and 40's when its' too late and they hit a wall. It's amazing the total lack of self awareness. I saw this coming 25 years ago. The most beautiful women I know NEVER have stable relationships and have proved over the course of 30 - 40 years that they are unable to get alone with a man for more than a few years. It is amazing how determined some of these ladies are to destroy ANY potential to have a healthy family life. We will have an entire GENERATION of cat ladies if they don't get their sh1t together.
I would say feminism doesn’t work period.
Single life is way more peaceful for me! Peace is so valuable.
Yeh.. true... I also am more productive when I'm alone... being alone is very rewarding when it comes to SELF GROWTH....
But hey... don't forget that we all need a partner to some extent.... pls don't die alone.
Agreed that is why I am single.
Amen brother.
peace is good but we humans weren't created to be alone. just get involved with someone who respects your peace and adds to your life creating a great team
@@apophisca2163 You die alone anyway bro... even if you have a partner, one of you dies alone.
Bye, bye, ladies. Never imagined I would go out of my way to avoid women. I kind of like it.
Ikr
It's crazy init, the modern women offer you nothing but financial and emotional pain. Yes you get p*ssy but what come after than is misery.
Been doing it for 15 years and I feel great
with you there. single and happy.
As a women I avoid most women lol, the only friends I still have are the ones that never went to uni and got infected by this ideology. I'm in uni and I'm literally alone because I don't want to walk on egg shells in order to make friends
If I could compress the overall message of your video in a single phrase is that 'having a good attitude can make all the difference in the world'. Wise advice for all of us :)
I’m not scared of women, they should live however they want. I don’t hate the player or the game, I just don’t play.
*Good call brother!!*
You should hate the player. They are the ones that keep the game the way it is.
OP same. They're not on my menu. No harm in that. But I do want a partner for life, and I'm not gay. My solution is to get a matchmaker to help me find the type of woman I'm interested in. She's out there somewhere. Maybe.
You can't take your ball and go home assuming you have one.
You cannot be passive in the face of the aggession upon traditional values. Grow a pair.
I dated a feminist once, never again! The fatal flaw with modern feminism is that it assumes men will give in. The truth is men can be happy alone more than women can. Women need companionship more than men do so if the choice for men is to deal with difficult women or be alone, the latter choice is the better one for us. Most men can get into their hobbies and interest and be perfectly happy with that.
Feminists fail to realize that among others their man has to be their best friend. Sorry loser girlfriends. No real man will settle for less.
There's a difference between women that are feminist, and women that are FEMINIST. Just saying. You wouldn't necessarily know if a woman is a feminist, but you will know if she is a FEMINIST.
You are totally right. Men are starting to walk away in a big way. So much so that it's becoming very noticeable. Men are way more capable of living alone just fine and being happy alone. These women don't see just how bad they shoot themselves in the foot. One day they are going to be super desperate to find that companion and it will be next to impossible. Good quality men are getting wise and women who want a good man nowadays have a big hill to climb to gain that quality of man's trust. If they ruin their trust just once, they are back out in the streets. Because the tolerance of men with values are extremely low now and they are becoming extremely selective. They don't want to sign a contract where half of their stuff goes to a woman by default. They don't want to be involved in a woman who thinks baby trapping men to legally enslave them for money is big money moves. Unfortunately this kind of abuse of the system is becoming a regular thing. Men have no choice but to be very selective and cautious around women nowadays.
@V Law Hear hear!
Like vr.😏
The author assumes , as a lot of women do , that men are “ afraid” to approach her. BS! Men aren’t afraid of women ; we just don’t want to bother anymore . Modern women need to get over themselves , and just be decent people . We , as men, don’t need them either. The effort isn’t worth it anymore .
Some guys are afraid. Its too easy for a woman to accuse a man of inappropiate behavior with no evidence and that guy is toast. Even a compliment or leaning forward for a kiss at the end of a date is interpreted at assault. Even if he is found innocent of any accusation, his life, personally and professionally is over.
That's like calling me homophobic because I'm not gay.
Men should just join the 4F club, then everybody is happy.
Modern **feminists- not modern women. Modern feminists are sexist and ugly af. There are good young women who cringe at & condemn this garbage, and are disappointed that they get attention on social media.
Changing your circles will help, trust me. I know good men & women who deserve each other, but the problem is that good people on both sides are too reluctant to approach each other because of all of today’s bullshit.
@@donion2122 agreed
This is great! Thank you for reacting to this ridiculous article. It's nice to know that there are other women out there who acknowledge that this is absurdity. I believe the biggest reason why I have never followed any group is because I am not on social media. These groups are doing the opposite of what they preach, which is causing more segregation. Love watching this kind of content from you (and from other youtubers on the subject.) 🙏👍
Neat. Someone else who isn't on social media. Isn't it great? :D
I really dont think there's any coming back from this. They've crossed the point of no return
once sleeping around became normal it was the writing on the wall. It has never been easier for people who dont pay for nothing. Only pay if you get to play lol
@Butt Rigging Lol. When hippies were running wild?
yup I think its to late but they wanted this and there gonna be cat lady forever
When the shit hits the fan and she needs protecting and feeding again, things will change.
The virus took hold.
I courteously open a door for women: I get "the look" and a rude comment
I hold a door open for a guy: I get a thank you
I don't open doors for women anymore...
If women want you, they will talk to you. You chase women, you get ignored plus being at risk of a sexual harassment charge.
It wasn't like that tho, but i do agree I tell this to all my students
Although when women approach yo theyre most likely narcissistic.
@@elephantmanstl if you're woman, there's no jail time for you thanks to metoo.
Except if you wait for a woman to pipe up, you're single till you die
Kind of. The man still has to initiate, set dates and lead. Waiting for women to knock on your door (not saying you said this) will get you NUTHIN.
Women:
I want a tall guy
I want a rich guy
I want a man who can take charge
I want a guy that's masculine
I want a guy with big muscles
I want a guy with a cute butt
I want a guy to treat me like a princess
Also Women:
I don't want men looking down on me.
I don't want men to make more money than me.
I don't want a man that tries to control me.
I don't want a toxic macho man.
I don't want men who think they are stronger than women.
I don't want a man that objectifies my body.
I don't want a simp.
Wake up women.. you don't make any damn sense.
Men don't want you because you're literally insane.
the "also women" part isn't even problematic???
Bruh I literally don't get it... Did I land the perfect guy that DOESN'T look down on me, that DOESN'T try to control me, that ISN'T a toxic macho man, that DOESN'T objectify my body, that ISN'T a simp???? While fulfilling all the top points that women want?
Like how are any of these "Also Women" points unrealistic? There's nothing wrong with expecting your partner to respect you.
@@reb2229 Don't you get it?
Literally all of those things contradict each other.
Everything at the bottom is the exact opposite of the corresponding thing at the top. DUH... that was the point.
You can't have up and down at the same time.. >.<
This is why I can't talk to women.
They can't be reasoned with at all.
Their idea of logic and reason is a nightmare of impossibilities and contradictions.
@@chaosmastermind ah, so if women get a guy with desirable features then she deserves to be abused? Because they're not the "opposite". You're just insecure and abusive.
Incels say the darnest things
Love this. However not all women are like this. Good women are out there, just have to sift through the weirdos.
@@krissymarie5270 Yeah well good luck with that. I haven't met one yet. And I'm 42.
When I worked at a Junior College in the 90's, the most sexist person I ran into was the "Women & Society" instructor. Her courses were "Manbashing 101", and the only time she wasn't spouting hate was when she needed me to do something technical for her. Feminism = Hate.
That's not sexy! That's UGLY
@@davidfisher5140 true words, my friend.
this may sound mean ,but it seems that most hard core feminists are closet lesbians !
@@joemummerth8340 "closet?" feminism at its core IS lesbianism. Some might be in the closet, but the core crew certainly are not.
I encountered these feminists in an art history class in the early 80's where every male artist was a misogynist. I was a model and according to them was ignorant of my own enslavement by the patriarchy........so I seduced my profs boyfriend and made it all real for her..........don't judge, I was 20
I hold the door open for everyone, women, men, kids, the elderly. Its just plain courtesy that my parents taught me. So now we will teach our sons to not be polite?
I hate that new mindset. I find people opening doors for each other (whatever gender or age) to be really sweet.
@@valorandstrength2829 I'm a bilateral amputee and often have women hold the door for me. At first it made
me uncomfortable because I was taught to open them for women. Now I just thank them and have the
policy whomever reaches the door first opens for the other folk.
It's still interesting watching the looks I get sometimes when I hold the door for others. My legs got
cut off, not my hands and civility :).
Where I come from both men and women should be holding doors for each other it's not about a sexual thing it's about a decency thing.... Women should learn from the time they're little girls to hold the doors for men elderly people children etc....
@@f4ephantom not going to lie, unless you have already gone through the door i might have to politely refuse. I was almost a quadriplegic, doors would have sucked, i kinda like being able to consider doors the most minor of inconvenience.
Lol, I had one femnazi when I hald the door for several people, she complained after which I slammed it shut in her face, asked her if she was happy now but she was still unhappy
As an Eastern European I went the first time to England in my 20s. I opened the door to a girl and she got angry with me. First I was deeply puzzled, then the West just fell in my eyes. A lot.
I think that Eastern Europe is one of the big strongholds for the European spirit. After having lived through the horrors of Communism, you're more aware and vigilant about stopping it from happening again. Feminism is just Marxism based on gender instead of class. Both manifestos are extremely similar to each other.
@@Thalanox Thanks mate. Everybody forgets how Eastern Europe used be normal Europe. 45 years of communism later we came out as stupid wretched laughable poor guys. We are recovering but the West is going into this shitstorm. Sad to see people believing the lies of the Marxists, building their own grave.
@@gyozop yep. I’ve been to western and Eastern Europe. Where did I have the most fun with beautiful women? Eastern Europe! They’re more feminine, sophisticated and truly love pleasing men. That’s from my experience. 👍
@@josephj6521 In English speaking countries there is a war between men and women, now I know it is media generated. I am not saying we are better, we just don't have that war, relations are more natural.
What is wrong with opening doors or closing them for others and self as long as it is not a part of torture where people are locked up. I am a woman myself and I close and open the doors of my house if my father forgets it or is not in the mood for it. I am very glad if anyone open the doors for me whenever I am in a new place or unfamiliar places.
I honestly didn't think "real" honest and SENSIBLE women still exist out in the open due to the constant nonsense that's promoted in media..I love this woman for just being fair and honest; it truly adds sooo much to your physical beauty.
"The greatest victory is that which requires no battle." - Sun Tzu, The Art of War.
Read up on subversion tactics and you'll see where all this comes from, it started with Sun Tzu but was perfected by the KGB and China
Be worried about what lies in peoples hearts. Cant wait to see china and the kgb fall to this.
Sun Tzu giving dating advice since ages ago 😂
lolz thats's right! Just steer clear!
@@evacope1718 the Art of War was the source of all of the KGBs tactics. It was mandatory reading, according to Yuri Bezmenov, at least.
I'm more surprised we aren't seeing articles titled "I don't understand why all the men I treated like crap aren't worshiping me"
Well, they're just paraphrased, but that's usually the essence of the title.
"son you don't have to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other"---Al Bundy
The Lord Jesus Christ quoting Al Bundy. Made me chuckle. :-)
I keep seeing this quote and I immediately think, “Doesn’t quoting a serial killer just hurt your point?” But then I remember I’m thinking of Ted Bundy.
@@socialworld1372 😉❤️
It's amazing how much truth is said in jest.
words of wisdom! as i place my✋🏼 down my jeans
In the 1980s, the feminist movement in Greece began to grow stronger. Suddenly a member of parliament who supported it, proposed for compulsory conscription of women, just as men were conscripted (then it was 2 years). Since then we have been hearing about feminism.
As a man, I open doors for other men, couples, families, children, elderly, disabled, or basically anyone that isn't a single woman or group of single women because I am tired of being yelled at for being polite. I was taught all my life to have good manners. If you don't like it, then open your own damn door and leave me the hell alone.
Angry feminists routinely reprimand men publicly for "arrogantly" offering to help a woman. If a unicorn (an anti-feminist and feminine woman) is nearby, she will never come to the man's defense. Perhaps they think that will be emasculating? An astute man quickly learns there is no upside to helping women. It is safest for men to avoid interacting with women they don't know. But sometimes that is not possible.
Recently, I was grocery shopping and minding my own business. A beautiful young woman (I am 65) asked for my help reaching a product off the top shelf. I quietly responded, "I support feminism and female empowerment. I would never insult a modern, strong, and independent woman by helping her. That would be demeaning and misogynistic. I respect women too much to help them." I walked away.
She was shocked and stood motionless for a moment. I could see she was trying to comprehend what had just happened. I wonder if she ever figured out that unchecked feminism has ugly consequences?
When feminists behave rudely toward men, the unicorns need to humiliate the feminists in public at the moment of their offense. Perhaps they do? Perhaps unicorns are so rare that most men never witness them coming to a man's defense?
Only women can fix this problem. But, unfortunately, I don't see that happening.
What? You are treating people equally and treating them as individuals? Gotta stop that 😆
Imagine being angry at someone having manners, what a world we live in.
I have worked around and closely with many women over my business career. A consistent comment that many women made was that they did not like working with or for other women and most preferred working for a man. Many women I have known have also stated that women are crazy. These comments were made without me asking or soliciting the comment. With that being said, I offer a quote from one of my favorite movies.
In the movie, “As good as it gets”, Jack Nicholson, who plays a writer in the movie, is just leaving the publisher. The young female receptionist asks Nicholson a question.
Receptionist: “How do you write women so well?”
Nicholson: “I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.”
My wife is like "I just can't take all the drama."
I heard that exact same thing from a woman today. It's pretty common. And, I love that movie scene. Hahaha.
Homie the original quote is from Author John Updike, not Jack Nickleson. They just used it for that movie.
i actually hate working for women SOOO many abuse it just to get their way like using their tits to do so anymore
I worked with women and men, and had women bosses as well. They were no better and no worse than men. However, I noticed women PREFERRED working for men. The constant issue was that women bosses were crazy, tempermental, and more petty. Even my sister said she preferred working for men.
Thank you for being objective, Rebecca. We, men, appreciate feminine ladies like you.
Men aren’t scared. We love overt feminists. It’s like seeing a bright colored frog. Makes it much easier to avoid danger and a life of strife.
It’s the chameleons we worry about.
its why i went full on monk years ago i dont worry about chameleons because i dont worry about any woman
@@jld12er30 that's "problematic" too nowadays pal.
@@TheOmegaCloud problamatic for who surely not for me and thats all that matters LOL
@@TheOmegaCloud for who exactly? If a man decides to do this and is happy, what's the problem?
@@one7decimal2eight don't ask me, I'm not the one with the "problem".
"Don't approach me!!!" "Why is nobody talking to me??" female logic ;)
Men should not worry about being seen as a misogynist. Be a gentleman, and if you get a bad reaction, she has simply told you that she is not the one for you. It's not you...it's her. Don't be disappointed that she didn't want you. Realize that YOU don't want HER. You can't change her, so move on.
The key to happiness in life, whatever your dating/marital status, is not giving a f*** what anyone else thinks, period.
Problem is when they go running to HR
Not sure any HR departments are interested in their employees' dating habits.
You're missing the point. Chivalrous behavior at work can be career limiting.
@@smasmith57 I never said anything about at work. Please re-read my original post. It was clear that I was talking about dating.
Ya until the cops are called for harrassment
If the price of a pencil suddenly increases from mere cents to $2M, would you buy it?
This is exactly what has happened in the dating market. Women overvalued themselves so much that only millionaires can afford them. And no millionaire would want a pencil for $2M either. The pencil is still ultra overvalued.
millionare put down a $1000 deposit, takes the pencil, writes a page or two for a week or so, then he returns the pencil back to the streetshop he found it.
No man is "scared" or hiding, we just arnt wasting time with people who benefit from making us suffer? Legally and emotionally to be frank.
You're damn right Frank.
Well said
Some actually enjoy watching men suffer, which is very scary.
can always swipe on another... thats my way of doing it.
She's misinterpreting "avoiding her" as being scared, there's a lot left to learn for her, and I'm afraid she'll learn it only *_after_* the wall ....
Hook-up culture is how men have adapted to feminism. It's funny, but marriage and monogamy probably was the most supportive societal support for women. Human kind going back to various forms of poligany is really a huge benefit for the top 20% of men just like kings of the past pre-Christianity.
But not really. It gets old after awhile man. I was (still am) in "the bubble" tall, athletic, charismatic, all of that shit. And it was fun in my twenties but after awhile (ok a long while), if you are a man of substance; you want substance. You want stability and legacy. Purpose. Gluttony is fine for a short while.
And now the governments around the world are in free fall trying to figure out how to tax the workers to support women. Women were traditionally supported by men. Now that half of marriage age women will be single by 2030, there's no way taxes can support all of them. Men are checking out, thus aren't making enough to make meaningful contributions to the tax slave system. Not only that, but I doubt the U.S. economy will hold for another 10 years. This is check mate. I've lived in Russia for half of a year, and I already had a preview of what's to come. Suicides will soon skyrocket, there won't be anyone to fix basic things since they'll all be dead or alcoholics. The younger women will live out their days in their mom's tiny crumbling apartment. I only saw a handful of men over 50 during my stay there. It's coming to the U.S. and to the rest of the world.
Marriage is dead.
Honestly woman were more depressed in a marriage then the men , it was harder to get a divorce and they were stuck with an domestic abusive husband , they were treated like 2nd class citizens, and men went out and cheated on their wives. 🙄 I have nothing against old fashion values but the men in society aren't exactly innocent in all this . No I don't think men should take accountability for what their fathers did but I find it bullshit that i have to take accountability for the actions of other woman. The laws were put in place because men in the past treated woman like their personal property .
My last comment was removed. It wasn't even anything bad, just very truthful. I love the censorship on this channel... But I guess women love censorship.
If guys don’t “make a move” how is she supposed to reject them?
yeah, and if she can't reject guys how is she gonna feed her "women are better than guys" feminist ego ?
@@SC-zq6cu 😂
PREECH ROBERT
She's actually made because she has no more people to reject 😂
These women aren’t worth the the trouble
THANK YOU! I've always talked about how it's frustrating that every girl has a different set of rules and it's good to hear a woman mention this. I've literally seen threads where women complain about not being approached and in the same thread you have girls complaining about being approached. And they're like "well if they do it this way..." and it's a different way every time.
You’re on your own ladies….Peace!
I hope I can help more women so we can change this around 🤞
@@RebeccaBarrett As much as we would love to see that, the damage has been done. It will take a lot of work to deprogram the effenist mindset they have acquired just to spite us. No righteous man with character and values will let those unhappy harpies interfere with their peace and tranquility because they have better things to do than to worry about "feelings". They brought this on themselves and now we got a population crisis. I wish them luck in finding someone to spend their lives with, but it's impossible if the ability to pair bond is lost.
@@poeticassassin4699 I’m a bit of an optimist. I know you have lost hope but I see and speak to women who are desperate for a change. They need to hear the truth from another woman
@@RebeccaBarrett I wish you well for this because it must come from women like you to deal with these women with that mindset. No man can tell them shit, thus by the Bible's standards they are out of order by The Most High's rules on how he made the earth. I am sure you know some will try to throw the Bible out there to justify what they do, but they are true hypocrites and they will pay for their foolishness in the long run. You have also repeated what Kevin Samuels have been saying to these women about buying a dog and dying alone because they refuse to be traditional while requiring men to be traditional. We both know modern woman and traditional man doesn't not bode well because traditional men are the head of the household and they look at being wives as slavery while being promiscuous as liberation. Effenism sold them a lie, and they bought it hook, line and sinker. Every man and woman are accountable for their actions, but if the rules make it unfair to one side while giving the other side an advantage, then we look at it as warning shots and we will play the long game because it is war and no one wins in the end.
@@RebeccaBarrett We have to look at the next generation. The vvomen of our generation have been damaged beyond repair. The best thing we can do is educate the new generation while they are still oblivious to the toxic polarization between man and vvoman. The funny thing is that children seem to know their gender better than the adults. My nephew of eight refused to wear a shirt because it had a pink label on the inside.
I probably get canceled for this but my first thought was of that dog Spike and his son of the WB cartoons: "THAT'S MY BOY!"
Keep em coming. Need more women speaking out about this. As man, we just get called misogynists and get our reputation cancelled.
I’ll definitely be making more and more of these. Trust me I have so much more more to say. Women need to wake up
@@RebeccaBarrett 👍
@@RebeccaBarrett Probably too late - men have already woken up. There is hope though, in the ingenuity of man. Men went from the Kitty Hawk to the moon in 67 years. I am sure men can come up with a replacement for women that is better. Sex motivates men more that almost anything else. It will be interesting to see what women do when men stop pursuing them for sex. I wonder how they will finance their lives?
@@billburr5881 fr that's why women hate the film the Stepford Wives. It's a horror movie for them. Right now women aren't bringing anything positive to the table besides sex, and once men can purchase or finance a Marilyn Monrobot, most women will have a really rough life.
Sometimes I go to restaurants, I don’t ever see couples. There are men and women isolated from each other at different tables no interaction between them.
This is very common today.
Soon, men and women will have separate restaurants.
@@haroldb1856 that would be amazing. beer at the bar with the boys? HELL YEAH
Good.
@@haroldb1856 i'd go to that restaurant, its annoying to get stared at for 30 minutes and then being brushed off when i try to talk to them.
they are probably on their phones not engaging in conversation as well...
Mark-sist f-inism has destroyed male-female relationships.
Back when I was dating young women they actually liked and respected men. For the most part they were a joy to be around.
That was before 2nd wave f-inism took hold.
I feel sorry for the younger brothers out there trying to find a kind feminine girl.
Edit: What a breath of fresh air to hear a cute young lady have the courage to say these things.
good to see a woman advocating personal responsibility and more self awareness.
Thank you Kim, sure trying out here lol
She probably be cancelled like all who oppose feminism and support men.
A *4 leaf clover* for certain!!
@@ericmorgan204
Nope, *Cancel Culture* does not go after anybody who doesn't have a penis!!
Correct. All women need to hear Rebecca loud and clear regardless of what they think their future is.
Notice how it’s an issue when women make it out to be? That’s why men are checking out. A lot of women don’t respect men nor what they have to say. I’m 37, always wanted to have a family, but I gave up a while back on that.
No shame. Games rigged? Take your respect colored ball and go home.
@@thewhynaut5070 can you elaborate on your comment? Not sure what you are saying.
@@fox1actual yeah. You never heard the saying take your ball and go home? It means to exit an unfair situation with your respect intact.
@@thewhynaut5070 oh ok. 👍
You can still have a family. You have to seek out potential partners who alogn with your beliefs.
Most modern women today wouldn't even be able to say accountability without stuttering or shutting down 😂
unfortunately, that's FACTS. I'll keep trying though.
😂😂😂💯
*FACTS*
Anything even remotely similar to *personal responsibility* makes them blow a fuse, it isn't in their genome!!
Exactly sir!
@@zachariahlloyd6043 😆😂🤣
I love her “I think she’s gonna contradict herself” yes…yes she is 🤦🏾♂️
It's nice to see there's at least one sane woman left in the world
There are more the ones who are sensible are taken.
Can yall stop simpin?
"I'm starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they're afraid to make a move". OK, so why don't YOU make the first move? We're all for equality so why don't you practice it ? I mean you're empowered, right? RIGHT? Or do you think you are not able to endure the shit-ton of rejection men have historically always had to handle ?
Believe me man, you don't want that.
Because she's only going to make the first move towards her dream hyper Chad, that doesn't even exist in reality
Most women do not handle rejection well. Let them believe they dumped you.
Maybe she is afraid of being rejected which is true if she is a total man hating feminist.
Sounds really cool for them to approach you until you realize they aren't used to hear "No".
When a woman "settles down" she finds a chump to pay for her existence.
When a man settles down he's betting the government 90% of his current and future stuff that he can keep her happy the rest of her life
It is sad that you are right and in fact men my age are in the biggest trouble 20-25 because we will be wanting a girl soon or looking to get married soon to the very girls being told brand new that this is just haw it is and that it is the right way
Its a slave situation. A gun is held against your head.
Like most men I got a married in church. Then after the ceremony I was invited to one side and asked to sign a contract... WITH THE STATE.
I never realised what it meant at the time but divorce was rare and based on fault. As soon as no fault divorce came in men lost all their rights.
It's a sucker bet.
@V Law 100 percent right on!!
It’s an archaic practice.
Right on the money! It sucks being a drawn in with femininity only to talk to the young lady to find out how she's a feminist with a victim hood mentality.
I know many women still trapped in that mentality but I was once one of those women and I broke free of it. There is hope. My husband will bear witness to that.
“The juice isn’t worth the squeeze”, is the mantra of many if not most of today’s guys.
The majority of millennial males, would rather play video games, than risk everything for a bit of very expensive tail.
@@ericmorgan204 yea I don’t care about a girlfriend I just want battfield2042
@@RebeccaBarrett I bet your marriage will not pass the 15 years mark. Write my words
Rebecca needs to be heard by all women struggling with themselves, who have fallen for the ruse of feminism. She has confidence, good ideas, consistency and is a role model. Things every man truly wants for the women in their lives
I have a cousin who is never satisfied with her partners, no matter how much they please her, but I after awhile realized she's needy and unreasonable, lonely. She put a relationship as a fulfillment to her life rather than a complement.
Diagnosis:
She's nuts
Honestly many if not most people are not actually healthy as single people. Thus it is not unreasonable to consider marriage/relationships therefore would fulfill their lives. The problem is just the unreasonable expectations. No relationship, nothing in this life, will make you happy or make life perfect. Part of the problem is that people these days do not allow themselves to admit they need a relationship, and if they cannot be honest with themselves about themselves and relationships, they can not have reasonable expectations about relationships.
I.e. because your cousin cannot admit that she needs a relationship, she does not have to ask herself what a real relationship with a real person would actually be like. She can keep looking for Mr perfect because she assumes that she does not need to "settle"
Let me address the "Open Door for Others" from my perspective as a man who was walking, and needed a wheelchair at the age of 30, I am now in my 50s...
At first, and for a long time, I was offended and resentful when someone opened a door for me BECAUSE I can do it myself! Even though I was taught at a young ago that holding a door for someone was a kindness, I didn't want help, I didn't need help, and my counselor coined the behavior as Militant Independent.
Then I started to say thank you... it was forced at first... but eventually it became genuine because I KNOW that they are just being helpful.
I see your point, but the analogy doesn't stand because you're not constantly bitching that it should be "the bare minimum"
I think opening doors is a little gift to anyone. And accepting it, and give back a "thank you" is a gift in it self. We all feel good in giving gifts.
This is also a "pay it forward" mentality that makes your everyday going good.
I hope you are having a good day!
I am mad when she read about the guy opening doors. What the hell! When a guy open the door for me, I am happy because he is polite and was raised right.
Feminist might kill me if they find out I hold the door for men too because it's called being nice.
That's why feminists need de-programming yesterday
You don't get to decide what makes a man "raised right". Imagine if I would say "A woman cooks, she was raised right" what the fucking fuck right?
@@ZipMapp Yep, if a woman cooks she was raised right. If a man cooks he was raised right. Human beings should be raised in a way that they can take care of themselves and look out for others.
@@grinningchicken That's so high level it doesn't make sense. I get your general idea and there's definitely some sense to it not gonna argue that. Reality is far more fine grained though. Also right or wrong are, at high granularity levels, very subjective
I agreed with everything you said about the person you named Jennifer. She had called men "trash". Is that a sexist statment coming from a person who walks and screams sexism is wrong and we are equal? Nice job on your work Rebecca. Keep it up. Best
I learned that Chivalry is an old French swordsman code to other swordsman in a public space. It is a show of respect to one another where they do not duel.
Chivalry has it's origins in the code of honour of european knights (mounted noblemen). Japanese equivalent wiuld be Bushido (samauri code)
@@markthirkell7056 True but h s right in a way as it was mostly founded by Charlemagne. Who was of course a Frankish (French) king who was considered the first knight.
In that case chivalry is about respect for women on account of the woman being either the daughter of a father or the wife of a husband. In other words, it's about respect for your fellow man.
Chivalry was about relations and interactions. Between feudal lord and his vassal, between fellow knights. How to act on a field of battle or in a social settings. How to treat subordinates in other words nobelman vs farmers. The courting and treatment of women was the small parts of it, but it also stated how women should act against the man.
@@flamenmartialis6839 yeah, most people conflate chivalry with gallantry.
As a man, if I were trying to find a woman for a serious relationship, the attitude "one wrong word, and it's life without parole for you" would be a deal breaker, for it would tell me two things:
1. You're not willing to compromise, to work on your relationships, to grow with your partner. You expect everything to be perfect, and if it's not, you just call it quits and move on. That is THE worst attitude you can have going into a relationship. Why would I want to waste my time and resources on a person who's not willing to compromise, who can cancel all that we've built on a whim, over one wrong move or some petty political argument?
2. Our relationship will be a mine field from the start. Our world is a tough place, life is often a struggle. So we all want this safe haven where you can be yourself, relax, be with someone who loves you, and forget about it all even if only for a few hours. Why would anyone want their safe haven to be a political forum, a pissing contest, a battlefield? No, I'd rather be alone than have partners with whom I can never relax and be myself. You want someone to walk on eggshells around you without ever cracking a shell? Then find yourself an invisible friend.
Only date and marry foreign women with traditional values
what a refreshing difference to see a woman who can see true reality subscribed
Thank you Michael, trying to get these women to see the light lol
I'm a man and I appreciate the video this lady posted 📫. If more women like her are willing to speak up and support men, the rules of dating and relationships would be less complicated and divisive.
@@RebeccaBarrett If they think ALL western men are patriarchal, evil, etc., and they truly care about other women, maybe they should enlist to fight the Taliban and their ilk...in droves.
@@RKmndo yea I think they should to see what equality really means
@Kevin Wilmore facts
I quit dating 7 years ago and I am so happy I did. Studies show men are happier single and women are miserable single. These women can deal with it
I’ve found studied that said the exact opposite😬
@@evaphillips2102 men are happier single because he can actually save his money and invest it and do what he wants instead of being forced to spend it on entitled materialistic women, then having to work 12 hours again to give her his paycheck
I actually want to be with a normal human being. Somebody who puts in effort, accepts me for who i am and is doing her part in our life as a couple. And thats all i want.
that doesnt exist in todays women - they are either too entitled or have so much emotional baggage that they want you to pay for, that its just not worth even looking anymore.
This is so simple yet seemingly so much to ask for nowadays, big oof lmao
Well I hope you are female or ' gay '.
@@vidard9863 straight guy
@@darklegion3693 sucks to be you. You can always stack some money and buy some sort of business in a third world country. They still have some normal human women.
Women: don’t look at me you creep
Also women: yes police officer, there was a man who talked to me in a manner I didn’t agree with.
Also women: why won’t men talk to me!
It’s illegal to be ugly.
As a man that falls under the invisible category I don’t miss any of these problems. Just level up and work on yourself, the juice isn’t worth the squeeze.
If that were illegal most radical feminists would be in jail. Remember what grandma said- Beauty's only skin deep, but ugly goes all the way to the bone.
It's super illegal to be poor.
Because you don't want to talk to us.
@@Zalifaxone If you mean grow a pair I am with you
That writer is absolutely nuts, she cannibalizes herself because she doesn’t just doesn’t want to own up to her mistakes. If you want to make yourself more appealing in the dating scene, you have to compromise.
Just like guys compromise these super feminist women need to understand that to make a partnership work you have to meet your partner halfway.
Making adjustments to give yourself the upper hand and make yourself the unanimous victor does not coincide with compromise.
THIS. and with dating apps? Why should they compromise? They can swipe right on someone else. Men are disposable to them.
@@Graciashauf agree
@@Graciashauf and they hate us. And look don on us. I can’t wait to get my passport…I’m gonna be sipping brew while I watch the collapse of the evil empire.
@@defjamfanboy3096 lol literally my plan. Get rich and go abroad to find a wife or pay one here to birth me a kid and I'll raise it myself. Enjoy your dumb pets i want a someone to visit me when im old af.
I stopped looking for a partner about a decade ago.
I'm almost 40 now, and smoking weed for a decade and growing a garden has great for my mental health. I think that I can do another 40 years of this without a woman.
I used to just accept bad behavior as being typical for females, but I've changed. Now I hold them accountable and if they can't correct I'm out. I still plan, take charge of, and pay for dates, open doors, whatever, because that's my way. Most women crave the attention. Few will admit it.
It’s interesting because when I was coming out of feminism right at the time I met my husband he was always holding the door, walking on the outside of sidewalk and it caught my attention and I asked him why he did that. He said that’s my job as a man. At first I was tough and he softened my hard exterior until I relearned my femininity. I remember I used to start fights with him because I wanted to see his reaction. We got through it because we went through counseling but honestly it took a lot to break that for me. Many women crave that attention, we think that we need friction in the relationship for it to spark but that’s far from the truth. It will only create more strife and pain for both parties. You are good dude, there are good women that will love you to do that for them. I’m telling you. Have faith
If a picture says a thousand words, then a walk-out must write a dissertation.
Please tell me there are guys out there like you? 👁👄👁 I still have hope.
@@RebeccaBarrett Lmao, so he wasted bucks on your ass for counseling + you were naggy and gave him attitude YET you have the audacity of coming to us and preach. My god, learn your place
I was cheated on, in a extremely bitter and spiteful way, so im insecure and closed off and am hesitant to enter another relationship. Im aware that not all women are cheaters and women genuinely can love you. But personally I am nervous AND am also aware that it is a personal issue and should not allow 1 person to transform my views of human relationships...but its just how I feel.
Stay strong, take your time and recover. Focus on you and f@@k the small minded haters.😊😊
Improve yourself, it will help your healing process. Learn, grow and don't give a damn about women until you make the choice to, not because you have some sexual urges
You're not alone, man. Keep doing you and focus on yourself.
no problem bud you will figure it out. I suggest learning how to read the signs and others behavior and dont commit too early.
It's honestly hard to find a woman that hasn't or won't cheat. Hypergamy is a bitch. I know how much that shit can hurt, but use that pain as a lesson. Always keep your guard up, eyes open, and let her be the emotionally dependent one in the relationship (if either of you are).
I work 13hr days EVERY DAY in the oil field. I love it.
Don't see too many "feminist" out there putting in "work".
Correction: I don't see ANY.
I'm hauling oil in west texas. I enjoy my freedom and let go of the thought of marriage. Just date here and there and find myself waiting for the date to end lol
Come on guys. Make some babies. Pass it on.
"one little anti-feminist comment can completely turn me off."
then immediately
"It's like guys are walking on eggshells around us."
hmmm...
She's like, "I wanna be pursued but I hate it when guys come on to me"
They're happy to turn a regular dating scenario into some pseudo- reality TV dating scenario where theirs some big red button that they can hit that'll make the dude vanish. They're looking high and low for the perfect house trained obedient male that'll give them what they want and they cannot figure out why they're unsuccessful.
As for shit tests, I remember sitting the last girlfriend on my knee, looking her right in the eye and stating 'you've won me over, you don't have to keep testing me.'
But nope...