@Stephan Speaks For Men. Thx for pouring into the men’s community so much lately. Many of us out here really trying and def appreciate u and ur guidance.
Emotionally Aware Individuals 🎯 Trusting him to lead 🎯 Open and honest Communication 💗 Lack of healing will affect your health 🎯 All Fact's ......💃 Well said 😇🙌
So i was laying down the new traits i needed in the woman i want in the next stage of my life. Last year in college im a d1 rugby player and want to go pro, draft in aug 2025. In first two years i let her get away some bad behavior that exclusively occurred when she is drinking. She drinks maybe 4-5 times a year so its not much but her choices will stress me out! So i began to pull back after she did some dumb shit at a bar. I could tell that my choice to rationalize her behavior allow her to manipulate me for too long. She bossy n needy and i gave her her way way too much. So i did a 180 and she is feeling stressed out and i am Trying to bring some changes to the table so i can focus on my goals to play pro rugby. What i need from her is not easy. I have to prioritize my self and peace of mind. This is my last year to maximize my abilities in hopes to be drafted. We spoke last night i was going to give her the details and see if she wanted to join me in my next stage of growth, maturity and manhood (I'm 22). She ended up insisting we part ways as friends. She said I'm free to date but she is NOT wanting to date and only wants me. Im happy to be single. I had to be willing to walk if she was not going to meet my new relationship parameters. But she again made the decision snd im just going along. I love her and i know she loves me but this love needs a specific container or it wont work for me. So for now moving on. My schedule n new priorities really has minimal room for her. She requires a lot and i feel relieved tbh. And i do love her dumbly. Its like if you cant handle what i need im good with walking. She did throw me off my taking her tact. Any advice grateful.
Hi Stephan, I’m a good man with a strong desire for a long term, happy, healthy romantic relationship. I’m currently in a financially uncertain position. Does that at least temporarily disqualify me from pursuing such a relationship?
good video. Alot of the points made or no issue as I already do them. Though you alot of it mentions people that already have some kind of relationship . There's a couple girls I have tried to get on dates. They seem to have that wall up you mention. Canceling a date we planned etc. Is there a way to get her wall down without being in relationship with her yet?
Everything you said in this video is EXACTLY how I felt in my previous marriage.. hence I said previous because unfortunately it didn’t work out and I did not want to be in the marriage any longer. We both agree that we should’ve went to counseling of course.
@Stephan Speaks For Men. Thx for pouring into the men’s community so much lately. Many of us out here really trying and def appreciate u and ur guidance.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Emotionally Aware Individuals 🎯
Trusting him to lead 🎯
Open and honest Communication 💗
Lack of healing will affect your health 🎯 All Fact's ......💃
Well said 😇🙌
Stephan, you're very correct✨💯
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
So i was laying down the new traits i needed in the woman i want in the next stage of my life. Last year in college im a d1 rugby player and want to go pro, draft in aug 2025.
In first two years i let her get away some bad behavior that exclusively occurred when she is drinking. She drinks maybe 4-5 times a year so its not much but her choices will stress me out! So i began to pull back after she did some dumb shit at a bar. I could tell that my choice to rationalize her behavior allow her to manipulate me for too long. She bossy n needy and i gave her her way way too much. So i did a 180 and she is feeling stressed out and i am Trying to bring some changes to the table so i can focus on my goals to play pro rugby. What i need from her is not easy. I have to prioritize my self and peace of mind. This is my last year to maximize my abilities in hopes to be drafted. We spoke last night i was going to give her the details and see if she wanted to join me in my next stage of growth, maturity and manhood (I'm 22). She ended up insisting we part ways as friends. She said I'm free to date but she is NOT wanting to date and only wants me. Im happy to be single. I had to be willing to walk if she was not going to meet my new relationship parameters. But she again made the decision snd im just going along. I love her and i know she loves me but this love needs a specific container or it wont work for me. So for now moving on. My schedule n new priorities really has minimal room for her. She requires a lot and i feel relieved tbh. And i do love her dumbly. Its like if you cant handle what i need im good with walking. She did throw me off my taking her tact. Any advice grateful.
Yessir another great video🔥🔥🔥
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Hi Stephan, I’m a good man with a strong desire for a long term, happy, healthy romantic relationship. I’m currently in a financially uncertain position. Does that at least temporarily disqualify me from pursuing such a relationship?
Stephan i tried with a lady that has childhood trauma and her upbringing. Make it difficult for her to open up to me.
Make a video about how to date in a healthy way as a religious person ?
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
No trust no relationship
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
good video. Alot of the points made or no issue as I already do them. Though you alot of it mentions people that already have some kind of relationship . There's a couple girls I have tried to get on dates. They seem to have that wall up you mention. Canceling a date we planned etc. Is there a way to get her wall down without being in relationship with her yet?
Everything you said in this video is EXACTLY how I felt in my previous marriage.. hence I said previous because unfortunately it didn’t work out and I did not want to be in the marriage any longer. We both agree that we should’ve went to counseling of course.
Why do women have walls for good men but break all the rules for Raheem and Cornelius
Because attraction isn't a choice
Because Raheem and Cornelius aren't sincere and don't feel bad about tricking her to get what they want.
Because women know they themselves are not good people so they prefer someone that doesn't have the moral high ground to judge or condemn her.
#1 get your money up
women try to emasculate you by trying to talk their emotions to you, is it really a good advice to pay attention to their never ending emotional talk?
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️