“My Partner Just Came Out as Bisexual - Now What?” | Advice From a Relationship Coach

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @notdefining
    @notdefining  13 дней назад +2

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  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 13 дней назад +6

    Thank you for mentioning the whole bisexual/Polyamorous conflation. It’s more common than we realise.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  13 дней назад +2

      Yes it is. I’m glad it was helpful.

  • @Ww2warbirds
    @Ww2warbirds 12 дней назад +5

    Thank you so much!!! I recently came out to my wife as bisexual and to my surprise she was very open and loving about it and she was the one that encouraged me to explore my sexuality and told me just be safe. I feel so blessed and relieved

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  11 дней назад +1

      Hey thank you so much for sharing this wonderful story. I am blessed to read it. Well done! I’m so delighted for you.

    • @Ww2warbirds
      @Ww2warbirds 11 дней назад

      @@notdefining you are amazing

    • @Ww2warbirds
      @Ww2warbirds 10 дней назад

      @notdefining question how and where do I go to find a partner to experiment with? I'm so nervous

  • @NH-ub4ub
    @NH-ub4ub 12 дней назад +2

    Thanks for this video. It really helps for partners to be reminded that sharing your sexuality is because they care, not that they intended to cause any harm. I think for the partner who identifies as straight, they fear 'what will change' and may also feel they have to know lots about lgbtq+ and so they can find their partner coming out as overwhelming rather than the journey of knowing. ❤

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  12 дней назад

      Hey thanks so much. Yes I agree. It can be the unknown that feels so scary.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 13 дней назад +5

    Charlie Spring and Sahar approve of this video. #IYKYK

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  13 дней назад +2

      Ah thank you so much ❤️😍

  • @TonyAMO
    @TonyAMO 13 дней назад +3

    This kinda reminds of this one comic by a furry artist (SigmaX) where they portray healthy communication between partners on the topic of bisexuality. And to be quite honest, it helped me navigate those feelings and made me feel valid in my attractions as i was recently discovering them.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  12 дней назад

      Hey I’m so glad it was helpful. Thanks for saying.

  • @panthersworld5587
    @panthersworld5587 13 дней назад +3

    If I was in that scenario I will let he or her know I am cool with it

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  13 дней назад +1

      Hey that’s so great. I’m so glad. It would be fab if everyone could be the same.

  • @anthonyblakely399
    @anthonyblakely399 6 дней назад

    a time of growth for you and him. So, you have got to make a decision whether you are comfortable and secure in your relationship with him having feelings for a female and whether he will pursue those desires to mate with a female. And he has to make decision whether he wants to pursue a relationship with a female and probably start a family or not. Personally, I decided that it would be prudent that my bi-sexual partner and I needed to break up. And we did. It was very hard on me. I cried a lot!!! I started having sex a lot trying to numb the pain. I watched and observed him go through his girlfriends. Eventually I moved away and I have been out of touch with him for 15 years.....and I am happier now than ever. I do not have that complication anywhere in my life. But that's just me. You are on a different path than I. Choose wisely. Choose that which is going to promote better human development for you. Good Luck! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jwb52z9
    @jwb52z9 2 дня назад +1

    When I was a kid and a teenager, the prevailing idea about bisexuality was that it is imaginary. You weren't hated for it in the US because most people before the late 90s seemed to just think it wasn't real.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  День назад

      Yes I hear you. A lot of people think that still now. The ignorance is widespread.

  • @BrandonJulianWindsor7
    @BrandonJulianWindsor7 13 дней назад +5

    I would love my partner all the same if he came out as Bisexual, doesn't change who he is as a person.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  12 дней назад

      Omg thank you for this. Why can’t we all just be more like Brando?

    • @australiazone3723
      @australiazone3723 12 дней назад

      ❤️

  • @taraastube
    @taraastube 13 дней назад +1

    Would be very interested to see a video about non monogamy 💜 Thank you for all you do 🫀

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  12 дней назад +1

      Thanks for the idea! I’ll consider making one. Here’s one I did on polyamory. Polyamory explained: could I be polyamorous?
      ruclips.net/video/w04rJj6baRw/видео.html

  • @Ww2warbirds
    @Ww2warbirds 10 дней назад +1

    How does rhe one on one coaching work? How do i get it set up? I jjst came out to my wife and she was so open and loving about it. I would like to do some coaching with my wife present if thats possible

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  10 дней назад

      Hey there. Give me an email on marknotdefining@gmail.com and I can give you some more information. ❤️

  • @user-sh5yu1sd7h
    @user-sh5yu1sd7h 7 дней назад

    It's a no for me

  • @user-sh5yu1sd7h
    @user-sh5yu1sd7h 7 дней назад

    I'm not into it