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This has happened against me,my wife of 20yrs married,28yrs together has done these and is doing these things now against me.. please pray for our marriage,im standing for my marriage,I pray continually day and night,I truly need prayers for her to come to her senses and remember her morals and values of her heart.. ive never experienced so much pain and hurt in my entire life
Thats why its best to be open about the opposite sex or Friends that your dealing with whether it be work related or personal! Its very dishonest to have other relationships and your Spouse not be included! Fishy behavior is never a good sign
kikibabiidoll this is what my husband I are going through right now he decided to give his number to a female that neither of us knew. its hard to get over but with Jimmy Evans ans his wife Karen we both are learning what we need to have in a marriage
kikibabiidoll I agree and my husband sees nothing wrong with having a friend I had to discover and it’s on going. I don’t want to deal with it any more
When repeating the marriage vows, you forgot to mention, “forsaking all others”. This is the statement that haunts me when I try to deal with my husband’s emotional affair. It turns into, “forsaking me, FOR all others”.
@@TheBlessedOne23 Let me make it very clear, betrayal is not a mistake! It is a choice that is deliberately made many times over. It entails secrecy, omissions, coverups and lies, lies, lies. Each one requires a choice each time! The longer it goes on, the more choices that are made to continue the betrayal. The guilty conscience is subdued each time with rationalization of those choices! Any way you cut it, it’s a deliberate CHOICE! NOT A MISTAKE! The only mistake is entertaining the thought of betrayal in the first place! Please don’t try to minimize the pain that those choices caused me by calling them a “mistake”! Those choices my unfaithful husband made, robbed me of my choices!
@terrywade3696 Relax! What are you talking about????? I was referring to her comment that Jimmy Evans "forgot to mention...." Wow. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Jumping to conclusions....hmmmm.🤔 Stay in your lane and this won't happen.
@@TheBlessedOne23 Since you tagged on to my comments “in my lane” instead of making an independent comment, how else could I take it? Maybe, you need to learn how to make comments to the person you intended to respond to. And by the way, I am the “her” that made the comment that Jimmy Evans “forgot to mention”! So much for “jumping to conclusions”! You seem confused.
I'm crying too, I'm scared this woman at my husband's work is trying to move him towards doing this. I'm doing my best to work against this, through prayer and moving closer toward God through my brokenness.
@@theonlytruetuhlulah9062 Satan's goal with ANY marriage (be it Christian or non-christian) is to DESTROY that marriage. He will use any weakness that he finds within us to try and accomplish his goal. TOTALLY RELY UPON GOD. Confront your husband, honestly, not with wrath, but with love, about what you are feeling and experiencing. You have every right to do so, after all, it is your marriage you are trying to protect.
I call them Narcissists. This one I work with. They'll covertly groom you to be their side piece his love bombing stage was very sneaky saying...Oh I like your demeanour and how you carry yourself. He did everything this guy talked about. It was that quick. I FINALLY got sick of his lack of responsibility always bad mouthing his wife by comparing me to her. There was nothing I could say without him showing displeasure... wish she would do this and that like you and such and such. I tighten up my boundaries and told him in so many words to go kick rocks!
This is a painful road. My partner thought he was not in an emotional affair. I was just crazy insecure, jealous, potty, small minded, & unsophisticated! I still feel the sting on his betrayal. It was with all the wimen he dealt with even his best friends girlfriend. I am recovering from the abuseive neglect I dealt with. I even changed his focus durning sex so he would want me. Thank God I went to Marriage on the Rock classes at my church and learn the differences. I am not crazy, insecure, etc
I'm sorry that you were unequally yoked with a narcissist. A person who truly cared and had empathy would have picked up on your turmoil and understood your anguish and would have made changes to support you rather than to turn away. If he can't love you like Jesus and meet you with love and compassion and give him your all, then he's giving to the world because he is of the world, swayed by the lust of his eyes and blinded by the prince of this world also. God can change all that, but sometimes you just have to hand them over and let them go like the prodigal son left and hope the pigs don't devour him. Mine was called up before he could add more sin onto his report card and sometimes God will also do that. None are beyond reproach. I had warned my husband and he laughed and scoffed. Now he's gone. Just left a bitter taste in my mouth.
It really matters when couple settle every little conflict they encounter ASAP before it gets complicated. If things get worse, no matter how you try to form the broken pieces from the painful emotional affair, time will come that both of you will give up which could lead to divorce. Don't let this happen because a happy family is the best gift that everyone could ever ask for.
I agree but sometimes the other party is not ready or chooses not to tackle the problem quickly. That is a very difficult challenge. That happened with my spouse and I. Then I would become scared and anxious and keep trying to push the subject which would lead to frustration for both of us. Talking through is ideal. But if you hit a wall then pray. God can softened both hearts and the right time.
FOR MARRIED PEOPLE: The feeling that you get in an affair can NEVER be love. Love comes from God, the same God who designed marriage and commanded us to honor it. I truly believe that God will not contradict Himself and put love in your heart for someone else other than your spouse. The feeling you have for the other person can be LUST, ATTRACTION, ADMIRATION, or any other feeling that satan will USE to destroy your marriage (and push you to commit a SIN by breaking the VOW that you made before God). The devil will make you believe that what you feel for this other person is love when in fact it really ISN'T. That's what satan does. That's the reason he's called a LIAR and a DESTROYER.
It is hard when your husband disrespects you over and over again. When he is Captain Save a hoe for others but can’t even be there to save you when you needed him most. When he had an emotional affair with his childhood crush. Giving her compliments that he never gave you.
Yup- he was helping her and her daughter and ditched me and the kids at their concert while i saved a seat and had to make up excuses to my parents why he wasnt there. It wasnt until a week later i found out where he was because he was drinking with a friend and talking about it. Later i found his text long conversations - yet he can’t text me- and they ended - i love you - i love you too.
my fiance had an emotional affair with a girl who knew full well what she was doing to our 5 year relationship and he broke up with me in such an awful way and after 2 months he realised what he had done and how he treated me and i eventually forgave him and we're working through it but it is EXTREMELY hard but not impossible!
Never jst a emotional affair especially when they leave u for the other one.... thats a affair. My husband is a dirty snake also .funny how we as woman are expected to close our eyes to this and accept it from men. Smh
I doubt it was intentional, I think he was just doing a quick run through. He's talking about forsaking all others, throughout the whole message. Also, remember this is a part of the message this video shows, not the entirety.
two years into my marriage we went through this trial and tribulation, she turned her heart away and could not bring herself to admit it. She argued and defended herself until the day we divorced.
I believe even if I dont have partner yet that if someone say something against me to my husband, and he turn his heart away from me without consulting me first, believing those false words without any second thought, that is destructive, like what you said, emotional affair.
I always wonder after i come across this teachings why we first marry and THEN only come to be teach about marriage.we hit trouble in our marriages because of lack of this type of teachings to the point that christian divorce is so high.some even marry for wrong reasons thus believe marry a wrong person.if we could had this teaching before we had a need for a spouse marriage would be way different than it is today.may GOD restore our marriages.
My wife and father in law have been having this emotional affair from the beginning and no matter how many people say it’s wrong; they don’t care. He’s flat out told me “she’s MY daughter and MY best friend”. It’s such an enmeshment that I’ve had numerous people ask if I think they could be having sex.
Yeah. It's common but something that is not talked about a lot. I'm guessing that he began to confide in her instead of her mother when she was very young. This pattern is well established and they're not going to stop. The only thing you can do about it is pray. Good luck.
The first thing that started a spiral of events in the end lead to my divorce . I found a old phone and it hurt more than I could ever imagined . I became depressed . It changed him and changed me .I wish I had been stronger to have fought harder . I truly loved him and it hurt so much
@@kyipasbeautyminati4172 it hurt so much ! He was always accusing me of cheating , I never did ! The old saying if you are constantly accusing, your the cheater . That being said , I have a lot of regrets about how I handled it . Because I loved him . I don’t believe he ever physically cheated , but I believe emotional affairs are just as damaging.
Do think like that turmoil. Time will help heal things. This to shall pass and in time you'll realize doing something stupid would never have solved anything.
I have found out that my wife is having an emotional affair. She even admitted to me that she already love the guy. I love my wife so much. Please pray for us.
Mac Gelz Dang! Hang in there man, my wife of 15 yrs wasnfull blown cheatin on me for 8 months and filed for divorce on me twice in the last 4 months since her double life collapsed. I chose to keep fighting for her and got her back. Its a terrible feeling. I couldnt function the first 2 months and i've probably only slept a total of 2 weeks in the last 3 1/2 months. Hope i survive.
wizard sak thanks man. Right now she is so "addicted" with the affair that it doesn't matter if I suffer. But i feel better now and more equipped with knowledge and understanding on how to cope with and tackle the problem after reading and watching any available materials I could find. I am fighting for our marriage! Hope everything will be alright with you too man. Keep the faith!
@@ayosakmet6570 how are you doing now? It's just been 3 months since I found out she was falling for another guy.. I'm still feeling the hurt and fighting to keep the marriage together. she is staying with me but she doesn't know what she wants at this point. Please pray for me.
@@mikefigueroa4075 I had let her go. I did everything I could to save our 15yrs of marriage and for the sake of our 2 kids, but she made her choice. I realized that I was just prolonging my sufferings, the longer I held onto her. It was hard, but I have to accept it, for myself and for my dignity. I trust God that He's in control of my life right now. I am hoping and praying that you can still save your marriage. You will be included in my prayers brother! God loves you!
Me and my wife are going through a separation right now we went through a rough patch had an argument and 3 months ago she asked for a separation I can’t help but discovering that she is having emotions affairs it hurts me I forgive her I want my wife back I pray unceasingly for that no matter what I will never forsake her Jesus please bring my wife back to me
God, I have to be you in everything I do. Holy Spirit guide us back together, heal our hurts. no man can separate us because God join us together from to as 1. close those windows, doors. Turn his heart back to me. teach us to talk and know how to be one again. healing and guide us to be servant's deeply in love. God I'm with you and I'm weak from all the hurt's, I've forgiven and blessings, because it keeps my heart right with you. but go before me and show him what is right and bring back his love for me. I will forever love him. Hold me for I miss all those little things. and bring the 2 to Jesus and see your love for them, save them so they will go to heaven. I'm asking the blessings over the 2, and blessings over him to be restored to come come. Amen
What about when my husband was in an affair with alcohol? He died at age 50 due to alcoholism leaving me with a business and 3 teens. I'm not sure I completely can agree "for better or worse, in sickness and health" anymore. I did stick it out, only for my kids as I didn't feel they could handle the trauma of divorce as well as their fathers death within a few short years. I will admit I did have an emotional affair towards the end as someone completely stepped in and cared about me and my kids.
The Emotional Relationship from a distance is as bad !!! Because they are now having BIG Ideas of the two of them being together , I have seen this with my own eyes... Talk about Dangerous ground... This can be very dangerous for everyone in volved.
Talking behind your partner things that should be shared to them instead of to other people is an open door to building wall against them. I really dont like the idea that, he/she share things about me to other when it is intimate, or the friend say things about me to him- which shouldnt be shared at all.
Wow. Every man needs to listen to this and really listen to it. Satan is just looking for a subtle in road and thinking that this would never happen to me is the pride he's hoping we have that will prevent us from strengthening our armour against this type of sin.
My wife has "forsaken me". I don't know what to do about it all now. It's not that she didn't have any stress, what with my losing my job, becoming disabled and sinking into despair for awhile. But, quite literally, after God turned my life around, she dropped me like a hot potato. I continue to pray. She continues to hate me. Accuse me of the most horrible interpretation or motivation for any action I take. Any question I ask. I simply want peace between us. But she won't let me in to try to help heal her pain. To quell her anger. To show my love. She is in denial of the present, and living in the past. Not the WHOLE past, even. Just the bad parts. I honestly wish she would get it out, and hit me some more. Then, maybe, she might be willing to open her ears and eyes.
Same here but I'm religious anymore but the guy hit everything 100% about emotional affairs. My wife of 15 years was hiding one from me for well over 3 months before I found out. Telling one another they love each other and plans to leave me so they can be together. Both of them married at the time and still married now and having the affair. The whole excuse from my wife that she is cheating cause she been unhappy for years yet just last valentines she posted all over her wall how in love and HAPPY she is with me and how Im a great dad and she hopes for another 15 years. But all a sudden she went from this happy and love me for life stance to saying she hasn't been happy years once she flirted on facebook with him as she flirts with guys in general and hugs up on them in public at stores even when I'm standing there but she never did that to me in public and has so many guy friends all the time. She knew and has known I have not liked how she hangs on guy friends and only prefers more guy friends. She says its her being outgoing and I need to get over it. I'm outgoing and way more outgoing before I met her over 16 years ago and yet I didn't have to have girls hang all over me or I never hanged all over my friends that were female. I didn't have friends that were female coming up to me slapping me on the butt and picking me up all flirty like. No, that is how she was when I first met her and outgoing works for her. I don't like that sort of nasty outgoing and told her that. She always says I will never change and I guess she means by not liking how she is none stop looking for dozens of guy friends and so many on her facebook that she has removed me her husband from and blocked me while keeping the affair guy a OLD FRIEND from me seeing what she is doing and talking about on facebook. I guess how I became disabled mentally for major anxiety, social phobia dosorder, panic disorder and depression with a little bipolar in the mix. Now I seem to replaceable to her since I won't just get a job like her family has said to me many times and her family has tried to chase me off ever since I was forced here to her home state to be with her and her controlling step dad the cop family. Its like a Meet the parents movie the first 5 years being up here. Then always trying to chase me off and being mean constantly to me cause I had to get on disability and they hated it. So tention built and I was told by therapist to stay away from them and I did. So now I'm the one that won't change for her to be on a puppet ideal man to put up with her mean family. So I guess this other guy will satisfy daddy for her cause he has a J O B working at a fast place flipping burgers at near 40 years old. Romeo burger flipper. Well she won't change and its apparent those two cheaters deserve each other. Im just feeling bad for my kids to go through their moms mid life crisis seeking a twilight love story with a stranger she hasn't know in over 15 years. But what ever I'm tired of the mental struggle with her ways and her judgemental family and her flirty with guys every 2 seconds and even leaves the house for hours on end to visit then old man next door for coffee. The guy I have chewed out several times cussing at my kids to were they come in crying cause he's screaming at them. Now the wife is all buddy buddy with him and just loves sitting over there belittling me. Its a small town so word gets around what she says to him and he says to the neighborhood and it comes back to me. As they say nice guys come in last and get treated and walked all over in a relationship. Man is that true. That step dad of hers after her and I got married went to Arizona to pack her stuff up cause he wanted her back where he was. We had child then just a few months old and I just got us a nice place was working and his controlling self comes down and takes off with them. I had quit my job and sell almost all my stuff and drive to where she was cause she calling me begging me to come here that she needed me and sorry she left like that and wanted to be by her family . Its been hell and I've been here since for 15 years. Every time over the years if I mentioned I wanted to move out of the state she would start up how its not working out and bla bla bla. Now with this so called romeo he lives several states away and she is willing to go there but never leave here years ago when I mentioned it. Just tired of being used and walked all over. Its making me so moody and snappy and just not myself. Used for 16 years. Love makes you stupid and blind I swear. All those warning signs how she is before we married and I never took the advice and warning signs to heart. Ignored it cause I loved her and though she would change. She should never marry she never listens to those vows and seems to think life is one big college party for her. She stays gone from home now like she has no kids at home. I'm just mentally tired of it all. I need to move on!
sorry for all those typo's and different wording like I'm some Chinese dude learning english for the first time. These auto correct stupid keyboards on android phones is really starting to piss me off by always changing around my words and not being accurate. I need a iPhone bad lol.
after suspecting my wife of having an affair, I went through her phone and discovered she and a male coworker had been privately meeting during and outside of work hours for lunch or dinner. She would text him first thing every morning and would show great concern about him eating and getting enough rest. She would always express to him that she wanted to hang out with him and drink wine...she doesn't even drink.
u I went through the same thing six years ago. Caught my wife cheating and we reconciled. Now its six years later and i wish i would have left then. I feel depressed the majority of the time. Ive been miserable for 4 out of last 6 years hoping it would get better well it hasnt just worst. Long story short should have left when she cheated.
I’m finding a huge difference ( even after 50 years), in agreement about appropriate boundaries for behaviors. In other words he thinks that since he is a very attentive husband and we have always been open and honest, that flirting should not bother me, that texting other women saying they look stunning is ok.... that hanging out in bars telling sexual jokes is ok, and sending or receiving provocative photos as a joke is ok. He doesn’t understand that for me the issue is not about trust but about boundaries. If I mention the word boundaries he gets angry and shuts down. Family and friends say that is because he doesn’t want to change his behavior but wants to throw blame on me for not trusting him which is not the case. Of course he denies many things are wrong, including the current severity of COVID. I sometimes ask myself “ who is he?” I THINK 30 years in bars changed him. And I thought he was just having lunch at a table, but he became a bar fly. He says I and my family and friends take life too seriously. Hmmmmm who is he? Lord here my prayers.
This has happened to me. Too often. When I pointed it out as an offense to me,I was told to " just get over it". Not sure what God is doing in his heart now, but we are not together. My pastor told me ,if it offends his wife. He stops.
This is why I tell God to just make me a billionaire so I didnt have to marry my husband because of his wealth. I dont love him but I chose to be with him because I had no way out. It was my only exit at that time
I lost the love of my life because she could never enter into a covenant of loyalty to me. I was always being accused of the very thing she was doing herself. I was always faithful and loyal to her and from day one but at the end of our relationship all the accusations bled on me and I absorbed her energy and had an emotional affair myself. Projecting on someone is admission of their own guilt. I hope she learns from her mistakes and grows in Christ for her future husband
i am going through this right now my husband me this women playing xbox it has gone from playing games to now talking on cell phone , texting, sending emails. sometimes they send alot of emails.. thank God the lady leaves out town. he wont own up to it i have caught him he just says that his friend . Real friends respect your marriage . with that i am Divoricing him!!!!
How can I walk in victory and not be bothered when my husband takes extra very purposeful glances at women. He used to be very addicted to porn so I also struggle when we watch movies or shows that show provocative women and in sexually explicit clothing. I desire to walk my heart and mind stayed on Abba Father God and not be distracted by this stuff. Thank you for this ministry. You and Karen have helped me become a better wife and best friend to my husband.
This sounds a lot like my life. But according to my husband I need help for my jealousy. I thought I was the only woman that had this fear. He has changed a lot since Jimmy Evan's has been part of our lives. But his eyes are always wondering. He says it's ok for him to look just don't stare. But in the beginning when we foun Jimmy Evans teaching he agreed about everything including lusting was not OK. And now we're back to the beginning again.
My husband doesn't think it's an affair if it's not physical. He is a picky eater but he went out with his female coworkers (a group or alone, I don't know) for lunch. He didn't eat but just sat there with her/them, don't know (no wonder he got laid off because he spent too much lunch time as he ate his lunch at the desk already AND then accompanied female coworker(s) for lunch). They also exchanged text messages or emails with each other (they didn't work together as a team). One time, when he left work early, she called him. Since he was driving, I answered his phone. She was in awkward silence, which was odd because we know each other too. She could say hi to me. That's how I began to think he has/had an emotional affair with her but he denies. After other episodes of catching him with porn in the middle of the night over the years, my trust for him is long gone! When there's no trust, there's no marriage.
I fully relate to this from personal experience, it's very important that people know that emotional affaires are just as dangerous as physical affairs. Immoral is immoral and it is shocking how people try to justify their wrongs, temptation is real however I feel like people who have a desire to cheat shouldn't get married in the first place. I found this website called Ashley Madison which created for cheaters, so many unhappy people looking to cheat rather deal with their issues head on.
@@devonthomas6737 I don't think he sees himself as cheating (no physical involved) and I doubt that he has desire to cheat like going on Ashley Madison but again I didn't think he would do porn either. When I met him, he seemed like a good Christian quiet guy because his mom is very religious and he was involved with all kinds of church activity growing up. Even now, he is very lazy with our sons. Therefore, I signed my sons up for scouting so they can learn more guy stuff. Of course, with 3 sons in scouting, at least one parent should volunteer. Since my husband doesn't , I have to take over. I work with many dads all these years and have to keep a friendly distance, even I admire many of them so much.
@@lifeseries7944 I fully understand, I think porn shouldn't be done behind the spouse back and my views is it should only be done together only during (making love) if both husband/wife are comfortable with it. I just feel like us married couples need to be completely honest with each other, as a father with 2 sons I agree it's very important to be involved in the those things they have interests in plus it builds a loving connection with them as a father. I've been married for 13 years and I'll admit it takes hard work and communication to make it last, having unresolved issues in a marriage can lead to problems. How long have you been married?
@@devonthomas6737 We have been married for 17 years, known for 21 years. My husband is quiet and doesn't communicate. I always have to drag him out. He's very passive, lacks of initiative and social skills, is non-driven at work and unmotivated in life. He doesn't discipline, parent or teach our 3 sons. He has good relationship with them because he doesn't expect anything from them and tries to do things for them and please them. I am this crazy mom who tries to push the kids to do better so they can reach their potential, figure out what to do like a dad. For the first 10+ years, I kept finding excuses for him....oh, maybe this is a guy thing; oh..maybe this is an American thing; oh...maybe this a small town boy thing (he grew up in small town)...I finally realized that he really can't lead our family because he failed our oldest son in Boy Scouts miserably, as he always takes a backseat. I also find that as the boys get older, it's more effective for the dad to encourage/push them to go beyond their comfort zone and learn "man" skills. When I do that, they fight and argue with me all the time.
@@lifeseries7944 Yes communication is very important in a marriage and it can make or break it, many times most men keep things inside and shut down when they are challenged to communicate on issues that require urgent attention. There's this perception that the wife is nagging when she wants to communicate which I totally disagree with, communication is a issue for many people. I grew up in a home with 2 older sisters and that in itself gave me the skills to understand the emotions of women so communication comes natural to me however it is a fact that majority men fail in that area. From reading your words I can tell your frustrated as a wife and you have every reason to be, we as husbands are suppose to be the leader of the home within reason by working together as a team with our wife. I totally understand the parenting side of things too, boys need their father to be involved emotionally by teaching them from a young age how to develop into respectful hard working goal oriented men. It's obvious your a loving mother who wants what's best for her 3 boys and I respect that fully, I'm going through challenges in my marriage and these videos on marriage etc. has been like therapy for me lol. I like honest respectful conversations like this to where both married people are able to identify with each other without being judged, you ever envy single people who never got married lol.
What if the emotional affair is my wife and her father? They have an enmeshed relationship. Her dad had several divorces and at some point gave up on women and enmeshed with his daughter. We've been married almost 14 years and the transition from him to me hasn't happened still. You'd think they were the married couple. I must admit, however, with the way this is eroding me, I don't blame her for not wanting to make that switch now. We've been to counselors, seminars like this, heard sermons, read the Bible, listened to podcasts. You name it and we've done it with marriage. After every single one of those say the same things to have a good marriage and be good parents, she still refuses to change. Any talk about it and she cries what a horrible wife and mother she is or threatens divorce. I've had her stop going to marriage counseling so I could work with the counselor on how to love her properly through this painful time and so she doesn't have to hear people tell her what she's not ready to do. She doesn't want me to talk with her dad at all or more divorce threats. I've become more of a silent cheerleader for her because of how the dynamics are between us and because of that, she can't see that I am cheering for her. I love my wife dearly and I know all of this is from having bad role models for marriage her entire life and still getting it (why would you consider marriage advice from someone who's single after three divorces?). She deserves to see the results of a properly working marriage and so do our children.
Please pray for my husband..our marriage. I feel that I losing him..my relationship with GOD is getting closer but my husband first priority is his job..everything I say..I can’t get true to him..
Try a different approach to get through to him, I have a few possible advice if you're willing to hear me out. I posted a comment, read it might help with what you are facing.
@@shereennoever927 One of the most disrespectful thing in life is when your husband isn't loyal to you. I always had a feeling my husband was cheating but I never caught him red handed so I searched for a way to be certain, until I met a hacker in the dark web “Jamiehacking99@ Gmail . Com” he helped me hack his phone without him knowing, I found all his chats with his lover.
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse.
Can you have a emotional affair with another person like your friend who is a female bc your talking about your emotions and relationship issues so much
My husband had “relationships” with countless women. He told me I was a stupid housewife that didn’t understand “business” and to stay out of his career. To not “muck” up his life. Cheated ALL the time in EVERY WAY!
Please, please, PLEASE do not make up definitions to emotionally connect the listener to your sermon. Forsaken DOES NOT mean what you just said. It means ABANDON; BREAKUP, LEAVE, TURN YOUR BACK. I struggled with this particular word in marriage vows. Leaving your spouse for another is considered forsaken. Putting the mistress' needs in front of that of your spouse is forsaken. Under these terms many people do not forsake their spouse when having an affair. Are they selfish, heck yeah! Men love their ego to be stroked and women loved to feel heard and understood. There has to be a different way to speak on this topic.
That's sad. And that can happen wife with father. Wow, don't know. Pray, pray, pray. Ask another guy who's a strong Christian to pray with you about this.
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This has happened against me,my wife of 20yrs married,28yrs together has done these and is doing these things now against me.. please pray for our marriage,im standing for my marriage,I pray continually day and night,I truly need prayers for her to come to her senses and remember her morals and values of her heart.. ive never experienced so much pain and hurt in my entire life
Jimmy has to much wisdom, God has used this man to strengthen my marriage. I'm thankful for being introduced the Marriage Today.
Thats why its best to be open about the opposite sex or Friends that your dealing with whether it be work related or personal! Its very dishonest to have other relationships and your Spouse not be included! Fishy behavior is never a good sign
The devil is all about secrets..dark places.. not telling... and hiding!
kikibabiidoll this is what my husband I are going through right now he decided to give his number to a female that neither of us knew. its hard to get over but with Jimmy Evans ans his wife Karen we both are learning what we need to have in a marriage
kikibabiidoll so true
Also he said about bringing up your personal with your spouse to another (the wall goes up towards the spouse). Good way to put it.
kikibabiidoll I agree and my husband sees nothing wrong with having a friend I had to discover and it’s on going. I don’t want to deal with it any more
When repeating the marriage vows, you forgot to mention, “forsaking all others”. This is the statement that haunts me when I try to deal with my husband’s emotional affair. It turns into, “forsaking me, FOR all others”.
So true
We are all human and make mistakes. We give grace. However, we should know this is true, spoken or not.
@@TheBlessedOne23 Let me make it very clear, betrayal is not a mistake! It is a choice that is deliberately made many times over. It entails secrecy, omissions, coverups and lies, lies, lies. Each one requires a choice each time! The longer it goes on, the more choices that are made to continue the betrayal. The guilty conscience is subdued each time with rationalization of those choices! Any way you cut it, it’s a deliberate CHOICE! NOT A MISTAKE! The only mistake is entertaining the thought of betrayal in the first place! Please don’t try to minimize the pain that those choices caused me by calling them a “mistake”! Those choices my unfaithful husband made, robbed me of my choices!
@terrywade3696
Relax! What are you talking about?????
I was referring to her comment that Jimmy Evans "forgot to mention...."
Wow. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Jumping to conclusions....hmmmm.🤔
Stay in your lane and this won't happen.
@@TheBlessedOne23 Since you tagged on to my comments “in my lane” instead of making an independent comment, how else could I take it? Maybe, you need to learn how to make comments to the person you intended to respond to. And by the way, I am the “her” that made the comment that Jimmy Evans “forgot to mention”! So much for “jumping to conclusions”! You seem confused.
Amen, ppl do not think this is a bad thing. To me its worse than doing the deed itself.
Girl I feel the same way! When a man is concerned emotionally about a woman and her well being, that is a deep and heartfelt thing.
I love their ministry! GOD has really blessed both of them. They are both a blessing to all who are interested in keeping their love together.
I'm weeping as I set here watching this video, listening to the message.
I'm crying too, I'm scared this woman at my husband's work is trying to move him towards doing this.
I'm doing my best to work against this, through prayer and moving closer toward God through my brokenness.
@@theonlytruetuhlulah9062 Satan's goal with ANY marriage (be it Christian or non-christian) is to DESTROY that marriage. He will use any weakness that he finds within us to try and accomplish his goal. TOTALLY RELY UPON GOD. Confront your husband, honestly, not with wrath, but with love, about what you are feeling and experiencing. You have every right to do so, after all, it is your marriage you are trying to protect.
I call them Narcissists. This one I work with. They'll covertly groom you to be their side piece his love bombing stage was very sneaky saying...Oh I like your demeanour and how you carry yourself. He did everything this guy talked about. It was that quick. I FINALLY got sick of his lack of responsibility always bad mouthing his wife by comparing me to her. There was nothing I could say without him showing displeasure... wish she would do this and that like you and such and such. I tighten up my boundaries and told him in so many words to go kick rocks!
Congrats sis! Yes. Healthy people erect boundaries and narcissists hate boundaries.
yeah he's awesome! im using him as my pre-marriage counselor in a way!
This is a painful road. My partner thought he was not in an emotional affair. I was just crazy insecure, jealous, potty, small minded, & unsophisticated! I still feel the sting on his betrayal. It was with all the wimen he dealt with even his best friends girlfriend. I am recovering from the abuseive neglect I dealt with. I even changed his focus durning sex so he would want me. Thank God I went to Marriage on the Rock classes at my church and learn the differences. I am not crazy, insecure, etc
sowmuchlove. Some men jst want attention from every and anything except their own... smh nothing is ever enough.good luck
I'm sorry that you were unequally yoked with a narcissist. A person who truly cared and had empathy would have picked up on your turmoil and understood your anguish and would have made changes to support you rather than to turn away.
If he can't love you like Jesus and meet you with love and compassion and give him your all, then he's giving to the world because he is of the world, swayed by the lust of his eyes and blinded by the prince of this world also.
God can change all that, but sometimes you just have to hand them over and let them go like the prodigal son left and hope the pigs don't devour him.
Mine was called up before he could add more sin onto his report card and sometimes God will also do that.
None are beyond reproach. I had warned my husband and he laughed and scoffed.
Now he's gone. Just left a bitter taste in my mouth.
This video describes perfectly what I was just going thru. Watch his video on when your spouse hurts you. It saved my marriage
It really matters when couple settle every little conflict they encounter ASAP before it gets complicated. If things get worse, no matter how you try to form the broken pieces from the painful emotional affair, time will come that both of you will give up which could lead to divorce. Don't let this happen because a happy family is the best gift that everyone could ever ask for.
I agree but sometimes the other party is not ready or chooses not to tackle the problem quickly. That is a very difficult challenge. That happened with my spouse and I. Then I would become scared and anxious and keep trying to push the subject which would lead to frustration for both of us. Talking through is ideal. But if you hit a wall then pray. God can softened both hearts and the right time.
FOR MARRIED PEOPLE: The feeling that you get in an affair can NEVER be love. Love comes from God, the same God who designed marriage and commanded us to honor it. I truly believe that God will not contradict Himself and put love in your heart for someone else other than your spouse. The feeling you have for the other person can be LUST, ATTRACTION, ADMIRATION, or any other feeling that satan will USE to destroy your marriage (and push you to commit a SIN by breaking the VOW that you made before God). The devil will make you believe that what you feel for this other person is love when in fact it really ISN'T. That's what satan does. That's the reason he's called a LIAR and a DESTROYER.
I absolutely love your comment!
Sounds judgey. All the CAPS makes it seem VERY condescending.
Thank you I needed to read this today!
I love his ministry.
So true. All of these things happened between my husband and his married coworker, Maureen.
It is hard when your husband disrespects you over and over again. When he is Captain Save a hoe for others but can’t even be there to save you when you needed him most. When he had an emotional affair with his childhood crush. Giving her compliments that he never gave you.
Yup- he was helping her and her daughter and ditched me and the kids at their concert while i saved a seat and had to make up excuses to my parents why he wasnt there. It wasnt until a week later i found out where he was because he was drinking with a friend and talking about it. Later i found his text long conversations - yet he can’t text me- and they ended - i love you - i love you too.
my fiance had an emotional affair with a girl who knew full well what she was doing to our 5 year relationship and he broke up with me in such an awful way and after 2 months he realised what he had done and how he treated me and i eventually forgave him and we're working through it but it is EXTREMELY hard but not impossible!
Never jst a emotional affair especially when they leave u for the other one.... thats a affair. My husband is a dirty snake also .funny how we as woman are expected to close our eyes to this and accept it from men. Smh
When he quotes the wedding vows 2:31, didn't he skip "forsaking all others"?
Yep.
I doubt it was intentional,
I think he was just doing a quick run through.
He's talking about forsaking all others, throughout the whole message.
Also, remember this is a part of the message this video shows, not the entirety.
two years into my marriage we went through this trial and tribulation, she turned her heart away and could not bring herself to admit it. She argued and defended herself until the day we divorced.
I believe even if I dont have partner yet that if someone say something against me to my husband, and he turn his heart away from me without consulting me first, believing those false words without any second thought, that is destructive, like what you said, emotional affair.
I always wonder after i come across this teachings why we first marry and THEN only come to be teach about marriage.we hit trouble in our marriages because of lack of this type of teachings to the point that christian divorce is so high.some even marry for wrong reasons thus believe marry a wrong person.if we could had this teaching before we had a need for a spouse marriage would be way different than it is today.may GOD restore our marriages.
My wife and father in law have been having this emotional affair from the beginning and no matter how many people say it’s wrong; they don’t care. He’s flat out told me “she’s MY daughter and MY best friend”. It’s such an enmeshment that I’ve had numerous people ask if I think they could be having sex.
Yeah. It's common but something that is not talked about a lot. I'm guessing that he began to confide in her instead of her mother when she was very young. This pattern is well established and they're not going to stop. The only thing you can do about it is pray. Good luck.
The first thing that started a spiral of events in the end lead to my divorce . I found a old phone and it hurt more than I could ever imagined . I became depressed . It changed him and changed me .I wish I had been stronger to have fought harder . I truly loved him and it hurt so much
Old phone like when you were still with him as married couple and he was flirting through phone ?
@@kyipasbeautyminati4172 yes while we were married and after the divorce I found another phone ..
@@waterbaby6786 ok....sorry to hear that,i found disturbing things on my husbands phone too but it was before i met him...
@@waterbaby6786 i hate it when married people do dirty shit,it just kills the purity of marriage
@@kyipasbeautyminati4172 it hurt so much ! He was always accusing me of cheating , I never did ! The old saying if you are constantly accusing, your the cheater . That being said , I have a lot of regrets about how I handled it . Because I loved him . I don’t believe he ever physically cheated , but I believe emotional affairs are just as damaging.
Do think like that turmoil. Time will help heal things. This to shall pass and in time you'll realize doing something stupid would never have solved anything.
Wow good stuff here. Some people dont realize those windows they open.
I have found out that my wife is having an emotional affair. She even admitted to me that she already love the guy. I love my wife so much. Please pray for us.
Mac Gelz Dang! Hang in there man, my wife of 15 yrs wasnfull blown cheatin on me for 8 months and filed for divorce on me twice in the last 4 months since her double life collapsed. I chose to keep fighting for her and got her back. Its a terrible feeling. I couldnt function the first 2 months and i've probably only slept a total of 2 weeks in the last 3 1/2 months. Hope i survive.
wizard sak thanks man. Right now she is so "addicted" with the affair that it doesn't matter if I suffer. But i feel better now and more equipped with knowledge and understanding on how to cope with and tackle the problem after reading and watching any available materials I could find. I am fighting for our marriage!
Hope everything will be alright with you too man. Keep the faith!
@@ayosakmet6570 how are you doing now? It's just been 3 months since I found out she was falling for another guy.. I'm still feeling the hurt and fighting to keep the marriage together. she is staying with me but she doesn't know what she wants at this point. Please pray for me.
@@mikefigueroa4075 I had let her go. I did everything I could to save our 15yrs of marriage and for the sake of our 2 kids, but she made her choice. I realized that I was just prolonging my sufferings, the longer I held onto her. It was hard, but I have to accept it, for myself and for my dignity. I trust God that He's in control of my life right now.
I am hoping and praying that you can still save your marriage. You will be included in my prayers brother! God loves you!
@@ayosakmet6570 right back at you man Thanks!!
Me and my wife are going through a separation right now we went through a rough patch had an argument and 3 months ago she asked for a separation I can’t help but discovering that she is having emotions affairs it hurts me I forgive her I want my wife back I pray unceasingly for that no matter what I will never forsake her Jesus please bring my wife back to me
Very powerful and true teaching
It is all about vulnerability... watch out for that... stay true to yourself...and your marriage..
God, I have to be you in everything I do. Holy Spirit guide us back together, heal our hurts. no man can separate us because God join us together from to as 1. close those windows, doors. Turn his heart back to me. teach us to talk and know how to be one again. healing and guide us to be servant's deeply in love. God I'm with you and I'm weak from all the hurt's, I've forgiven and blessings, because it keeps my heart right with you. but go before me and show him what is right and bring back his love for me. I will forever love him. Hold me for I miss all those little things. and bring the 2 to Jesus and see your love for them, save them so they will go to heaven. I'm asking the blessings over the 2, and blessings over him to be restored to come come. Amen
What about when my husband was in an affair with alcohol? He died at age 50 due to alcoholism leaving me with a business and 3 teens. I'm not sure I completely can agree "for better or worse, in sickness and health" anymore. I did stick it out, only for my kids as I didn't feel they could handle the trauma of divorce as well as their fathers death within a few short years. I will admit I did have an emotional affair towards the end as someone completely stepped in and cared about me and my kids.
So sorry you went thru that
The Emotional Relationship from a distance is as bad !!! Because they are now having BIG Ideas of the two of them being together , I have seen this with my own eyes... Talk about Dangerous ground... This can be very dangerous for everyone in volved.
Talking behind your partner things that should be shared to them instead of to other people is an open door to building wall against them. I really dont like the idea that, he/she share things about me to other when it is intimate, or the friend say things about me to him- which shouldnt be shared at all.
You are God gifted to help to marriage put back in into one piece, after crushing into pieces.
Wow. Every man needs to listen to this and really listen to it. Satan is just looking for a subtle in road and thinking that this would never happen to me is the pride he's hoping we have that will prevent us from strengthening our armour against this type of sin.
Marshall Stephanie Gudgel women are guilty of this too j.s.
Both parties need to hear it. Just bc you got hurt every man isn’t like that , women too
Woman are guilty of this too!
My wife has "forsaken me". I don't know what to do about it all now. It's not that she didn't have any stress, what with my losing my job, becoming disabled and sinking into despair for awhile. But, quite literally, after God turned my life around, she dropped me like a hot potato. I continue to pray. She continues to hate me. Accuse me of the most horrible interpretation or motivation for any action I take. Any question I ask. I simply want peace between us. But she won't let me in to try to help heal her pain. To quell her anger. To show my love. She is in denial of the present, and living in the past. Not the WHOLE past, even. Just the bad parts. I honestly wish she would get it out, and hit me some more. Then, maybe, she might be willing to open her ears and eyes.
Ok
+Veronica Cruz ???
Same here but I'm religious anymore but the guy hit everything 100% about emotional affairs. My wife of 15 years was hiding one from me for well over 3 months before I found out. Telling one another they love each other and plans to leave me so they can be together. Both of them married at the time and still married now and having the affair. The whole excuse from my wife that she is cheating cause she been unhappy for years yet just last valentines she posted all over her wall how in love and HAPPY she is with me and how Im a great dad and she hopes for another 15 years. But all a sudden she went from this happy and love me for life stance to saying she hasn't been happy years once she flirted on facebook with him as she flirts with guys in general and hugs up on them in public at stores even when I'm standing there but she never did that to me in public and has so many guy friends all the time. She knew and has known I have not liked how she hangs on guy friends and only prefers more guy friends. She says its her being outgoing and I need to get over it. I'm outgoing and way more outgoing before I met her over 16 years ago and yet I didn't have to have girls hang all over me or I never hanged all over my friends that were female. I didn't have friends that were female coming up to me slapping me on the butt and picking me up all flirty like. No, that is how she was when I first met her and outgoing works for her. I don't like that sort of nasty outgoing and told her that. She always says I will never change and I guess she means by not liking how she is none stop looking for dozens of guy friends and so many on her facebook that she has removed me her husband from and blocked me while keeping the affair guy a OLD FRIEND from me seeing what she is doing and talking about on facebook. I guess how I became disabled mentally for major anxiety, social phobia dosorder, panic disorder and depression with a little bipolar in the mix. Now I seem to replaceable to her since I won't just get a job like her family has said to me many times and her family has tried to chase me off ever since I was forced here to her home state to be with her and her controlling step dad the cop family. Its like a Meet the parents movie the first 5 years being up here. Then always trying to chase me off and being mean constantly to me cause I had to get on disability and they hated it. So tention built and I was told by therapist to stay away from them and I did. So now I'm the one that won't change for her to be on a puppet ideal man to put up with her mean family. So I guess this other guy will satisfy daddy for her cause he has a J O B working at a fast place flipping burgers at near 40 years old. Romeo burger flipper. Well she won't change and its apparent those two cheaters deserve each other. Im just feeling bad for my kids to go through their moms mid life crisis seeking a twilight love story with a stranger she hasn't know in over 15 years. But what ever I'm tired of the mental struggle with her ways and her judgemental family and her flirty with guys every 2 seconds and even leaves the house for hours on end to visit then old man next door for coffee. The guy I have chewed out several times cussing at my kids to were they come in crying cause he's screaming at them. Now the wife is all buddy buddy with him and just loves sitting over there belittling me. Its a small town so word gets around what she says to him and he says to the neighborhood and it comes back to me. As they say nice guys come in last and get treated and walked all over in a relationship. Man is that true. That step dad of hers after her and I got married went to Arizona to pack her stuff up cause he wanted her back where he was. We had child then just a few months old and I just got us a nice place was working and his controlling self comes down and takes off with them. I had quit my job and sell almost all my stuff and drive to where she was cause she calling me begging me to come here that she needed me and sorry she left like that and wanted to be by her family . Its been hell and I've been here since for 15 years. Every time over the years if I mentioned I wanted to move out of the state she would start up how its not working out and bla bla bla. Now with this so called romeo he lives several states away and she is willing to go there but never leave here years ago when I mentioned it. Just tired of being used and walked all over. Its making me so moody and snappy and just not myself. Used for 16 years. Love makes you stupid and blind I swear. All those warning signs how she is before we married and I never took the advice and warning signs to heart. Ignored it cause I loved her and though she would change. She should never marry she never listens to those vows and seems to think life is one big college party for her. She stays gone from home now like she has no kids at home. I'm just mentally tired of it all. I need to move on!
+BLUExEYEDxSLICKT Meant to say I'm not religious anymore in the beginning of my super run on book post before. Android keyboards are so annoying.
sorry for all those typo's and different wording like I'm some Chinese dude learning english for the first time. These auto correct stupid keyboards on android phones is really starting to piss me off by always changing around my words and not being accurate. I need a iPhone bad lol.
after suspecting my wife of having an affair, I went through her phone and discovered she and a male coworker had been privately meeting during and outside of work hours for lunch or dinner. She would text him first thing every morning and would show great concern about him eating and getting enough rest. She would always express to him that she wanted to hang out with him and drink wine...she doesn't even drink.
3rteenthdisciple are you guys still together? How did you overcome the affair? I'm currently having the same issue
u I went through the same thing six years ago. Caught my wife cheating and we reconciled. Now its six years later and i wish i would have left then. I feel depressed the majority of the time. Ive been miserable for 4 out of last 6 years hoping it would get better well it hasnt just worst. Long story short should have left when she cheated.
Get rid of her now and save yourself the heartache. Been through it and she just got worse and lied more
3rteenthdisciple sorry 😐 man
Amen!!! This is very true!!! God bless you!!
I’m finding a huge difference ( even after 50 years), in agreement about appropriate boundaries for behaviors. In other words he thinks that since he is a very attentive husband and we have always been open and honest, that flirting should not bother me, that texting other women saying they look stunning is ok.... that hanging out in bars telling sexual jokes is ok, and sending or receiving provocative photos as a joke is ok. He doesn’t understand that for me the issue is not about trust but about boundaries. If I mention the word boundaries he gets angry and shuts down. Family and friends say that is because he doesn’t want to change his behavior but wants to throw blame on me for not trusting him which is not the case. Of course he denies many things are wrong, including the current severity of COVID. I sometimes ask myself “ who is he?” I THINK 30 years in bars changed him. And I thought he was just having lunch at a table, but he became a bar fly. He says I and my family and friends take life too seriously. Hmmmmm who is he? Lord here my prayers.
Hear... not here.
The thing is, he says he's not flirting, he's just being outgoing and friendly. what about that?
+cathie romero They do deny that they are flirting.
This has happened to me. Too often. When I pointed it out as an offense to me,I was told to " just get over it". Not sure what God is doing in his heart now, but we are not together. My pastor told me ,if it offends his wife. He stops.
I never knew he was talking to this person until I found the text.
This is why I tell God to just make me a billionaire so I didnt have to marry my husband because of his wealth. I dont love him but I chose to be with him because I had no way out. It was my only exit at that time
Very good point
When will my husband wake up and really lead our life like you have? How long does it take?
Never...
@@cryptojihadi265 AMEN!🙏
Find another husband and that's when it will happen. No really , But maybe you both need to lead.
@@thomasgallegos2832 horrible advice
@@RepentAndBelieve1437 Why ?? It takes two people to have a good relationship. If it's all compliance its a runaway train.
I lost the love of my life because she could never enter into a covenant of loyalty to me. I was always being accused of the very thing she was doing herself. I was always faithful and loyal to her and from day one but at the end of our relationship all the accusations bled on me and I absorbed her energy and had an emotional affair myself. Projecting on someone is admission of their own guilt. I hope she learns from her mistakes and grows in Christ for her future husband
great teaching
Waynes should come with a WARNING SIGN!!!
All I can say is only I know the truth
Deeep! Great watch!!
But what if your spouse is verbally and physically abusive? Does God really want me to work it out? I don’t think so.
No Gods plan it’s not for abuse 🙏🏽
i am going through this right now my husband me this women playing xbox it has gone from playing games to now talking on cell phone , texting, sending emails. sometimes they send alot of emails.. thank God the lady leaves out town. he wont own up to it i have caught him he just says that his friend . Real friends respect your marriage . with that i am Divoricing him!!!!
Maybe he is bisexual and wants to test the waters with her.
Love!!💖
How can I walk in victory and not be bothered when my husband takes extra very purposeful glances at women. He used to be very addicted to porn so I also struggle when we watch movies or shows that show provocative women and in sexually explicit clothing. I desire to walk my heart and mind stayed on Abba Father God and not be distracted by this stuff. Thank you for this ministry. You and Karen have helped me become a better wife and best friend to my husband.
This sounds a lot like my life. But according to my husband I need help for my jealousy. I thought I was the only woman that had this fear. He has changed a lot since Jimmy Evan's has been part of our lives. But his eyes are always wondering. He says it's ok for him to look just don't stare. But in the beginning when we foun Jimmy Evans teaching he agreed about everything including lusting was not OK. And now we're back to the beginning again.
My husband doesn't think it's an affair if it's not physical. He is a picky eater but he went out with his female coworkers (a group or alone, I don't know) for lunch. He didn't eat but just sat there with her/them, don't know (no wonder he got laid off because he spent too much lunch time as he ate his lunch at the desk already AND then accompanied female coworker(s) for lunch). They also exchanged text messages or emails with each other (they didn't work together as a team).
One time, when he left work early, she called him. Since he was driving, I answered his phone. She was in awkward silence, which was odd because we know each other too. She could say hi to me. That's how I began to think he has/had an emotional affair with her but he denies.
After other episodes of catching him with porn in the middle of the night over the years, my trust for him is long gone! When there's no trust, there's no marriage.
I fully relate to this from personal experience, it's very important that people know that emotional affaires are just as dangerous as physical affairs. Immoral is immoral and it is shocking how people try to justify their wrongs, temptation is real however I feel like people who have a desire to cheat shouldn't get married in the first place. I found this website called Ashley Madison which created for cheaters, so many unhappy people looking to cheat rather deal with their issues head on.
@@devonthomas6737 I don't think he sees himself as cheating (no physical involved) and I doubt that he has desire to cheat like going on Ashley Madison but again I didn't think he would do porn either.
When I met him, he seemed like a good Christian quiet guy because his mom is very religious and he was involved with all kinds of church activity growing up.
Even now, he is very lazy with our sons. Therefore, I signed my sons up for scouting so they can learn more guy stuff. Of course, with 3 sons in scouting, at least one parent should volunteer. Since my husband doesn't , I have to take over. I work with many dads all these years and have to keep a friendly distance, even I admire many of them so much.
@@lifeseries7944 I fully understand, I think porn shouldn't be done behind the spouse back and my views is it should only be done together only during (making love) if both husband/wife are comfortable with it. I just feel like us married couples need to be completely honest with each other, as a father with 2 sons I agree it's very important to be involved in the those things they have interests in plus it builds a loving connection with them as a father. I've been married for 13 years and I'll admit it takes hard work and communication to make it last, having unresolved issues in a marriage can lead to problems. How long have you been married?
@@devonthomas6737 We have been married for 17 years, known for 21 years. My husband is quiet and doesn't communicate. I always have to drag him out. He's very passive, lacks of initiative and social skills, is non-driven at work and unmotivated in life. He doesn't discipline, parent or teach our 3 sons. He has good relationship with them because he doesn't expect anything from them and tries to do things for them and please them.
I am this crazy mom who tries to push the kids to do better so they can reach their potential, figure out what to do like a dad.
For the first 10+ years, I kept finding excuses for him....oh, maybe this is a guy thing; oh..maybe this is an American thing; oh...maybe this a small town boy thing (he grew up in small town)...I finally realized that he really can't lead our family because he failed our oldest son in Boy Scouts miserably, as he always takes a backseat.
I also find that as the boys get older, it's more effective for the dad to encourage/push them to go beyond their comfort zone and learn "man" skills. When I do that, they fight and argue with me all the time.
@@lifeseries7944 Yes communication is very important in a marriage and it can make or break it, many times most men keep things inside and shut down when they are challenged to communicate on issues that require urgent attention. There's this perception that the wife is nagging when she wants to communicate which I totally disagree with, communication is a issue for many people. I grew up in a home with 2 older sisters and that in itself gave me the skills to understand the emotions of women so communication comes natural to me however it is a fact that majority men fail in that area. From reading your words I can tell your frustrated as a wife and you have every reason to be, we as husbands are suppose to be the leader of the home within reason by working together as a team with our wife. I totally understand the parenting side of things too, boys need their father to be involved emotionally by teaching them from a young age how to develop into respectful hard working goal oriented men. It's obvious your a loving mother who wants what's best for her 3 boys and I respect that fully, I'm going through challenges in my marriage and these videos on marriage etc. has been like therapy for me lol. I like honest respectful conversations like this to where both married people are able to identify with each other without being judged, you ever envy single people who never got married lol.
What if the emotional affair is my wife and her father? They have an enmeshed relationship. Her dad had several divorces and at some point gave up on women and enmeshed with his daughter. We've been married almost 14 years and the transition from him to me hasn't happened still. You'd think they were the married couple. I must admit, however, with the way this is eroding me, I don't blame her for not wanting to make that switch now. We've been to counselors, seminars like this, heard sermons, read the Bible, listened to podcasts. You name it and we've done it with marriage. After every single one of those say the same things to have a good marriage and be good parents, she still refuses to change. Any talk about it and she cries what a horrible wife and mother she is or threatens divorce. I've had her stop going to marriage counseling so I could work with the counselor on how to love her properly through this painful time and so she doesn't have to hear people tell her what she's not ready to do. She doesn't want me to talk with her dad at all or more divorce threats. I've become more of a silent cheerleader for her because of how the dynamics are between us and because of that, she can't see that I am cheering for her. I love my wife dearly and I know all of this is from having bad role models for marriage her entire life and still getting it (why would you consider marriage advice from someone who's single after three divorces?). She deserves to see the results of a properly working marriage and so do our children.
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He heard this and it set him off in anger
Your latest videos are 4 years back. Plz share the current ones
Can I engage you for some advice
Please pray for my husband..our marriage. I feel that I losing him..my relationship with GOD is getting closer but my husband first priority is his job..everything I say..I can’t get true to him..
Try a different approach to get through to him, I have a few possible advice if you're willing to hear me out. I posted a comment, read it might help with what you are facing.
Where can I read it?
@@shereennoever927 One of the most disrespectful thing in life is when your husband isn't loyal to you. I always had a feeling my husband was cheating but I never caught him red handed so I searched for a way to be certain, until I met a hacker in the dark web “Jamiehacking99@ Gmail . Com”
he helped me hack his phone without him knowing, I found all his chats with his lover.
Amen!
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships.
Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot.
And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends.
Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone.
Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse.
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Can you have a emotional affair with another person like your friend who is a female bc your talking about your emotions and relationship issues so much
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my husband is doing the same thing on the game.she is my friends all nigth
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He won’t listen...
My husband had “relationships” with countless women.
He told me I was a stupid housewife that didn’t understand “business” and to stay out of his career. To not “muck” up his life.
Cheated ALL the time in EVERY WAY!
Please, please, PLEASE do not make up definitions to emotionally connect the listener to your sermon. Forsaken DOES NOT mean what you just said. It means ABANDON; BREAKUP, LEAVE, TURN YOUR BACK.
I struggled with this particular word in marriage vows. Leaving your spouse for another is considered forsaken. Putting the mistress' needs in front of that of your spouse is forsaken. Under these terms many people do not forsake their spouse when having an affair. Are they selfish, heck yeah! Men love their ego to be stroked and women loved to feel heard and understood.
There has to be a different way to speak on this topic.
My wife's emotional affair is with her father. They're more of a married couple than we are.
That's sad. And that can happen wife with father. Wow, don't know. Pray, pray, pray. Ask another guy who's a strong Christian to pray with you about this.
Pitty not potty
Just FEAR GOD and honor marriage bed! It's not that difficult!!