I don’t think you two understand how much you mean to some of us. I’m 21 and have been watching everything gmm since I was 12 going into 8th grade. I officially graduated college today and want to say thank you for everything.
I like how Rhett tried to play up how "shocking" it is that 3's are sensitive. Rhett is so sensitive, so much more than Link honestly and to me at least it's not at ALL shocking, it's not a bad thing, but I thought it was obvious. Rhett wouldn't feel so defensive about things if he wasn't sensitive, Link on the other hand cares so much less about defending himself or what he does, he's significantly more confident. Sensitivity isn't about emotional expression, but even then Rhett talks about crying more than Link actually cries (at least on camera) and when Rhett DOES cry, it's always about something that hits him really deeply (like Ben's passing, or their deconstruction stories and how 2020 affected him). Ok so Link just cuts right through "this was a revelation to yourself" god I love them so much.
I'm a 3 too and I definitely resonate with all that Rhett said. I also like to think of myself as less sensitive than others, but over time I just realized that I'm just good at hiding what I really feel.
But rhett as a 3 is more sensitive to how he comes across to other ppl whereas link is more aware of his inner critic. Great podcast ep! Love these sorts of ones
I listened to this yesterday on a walk with my dog. When I heard “it’s not just the feeling that you can’t make mistakes. It’s the fear of being evil or defective..” I literally felt my jaw unclench from having a revelation hearing it described that way.
An episode like this is why I love Ear Biscuits. You guys having an honest chat where you are not afraid to be open and vulnerable. I was inspired and found out I am a 9 The Peacemaker.
@Zoom Boom look we're all here to be entertained. Whatever is happening in your personal life to make you this hostile does not give you the right to start trashing people and their interests
I have some big respect for Rhett and Link, they are some of the most introspective people I know. They really try to make them selfs better everyday and show so much growth. I aspire to be like that every day
i think it's really commendable for rhett to acknowledge a time in which he was unhealthy, how it affected him, how it affected others, and apologise -- then actually make the changes required to become healthier again & come back to apologise when he was ready and able to.
@@IamAAnimator Being rich and introverted allows Rhett to do as Harper B. states. A main reason for example for marriages failing is economic problems, being wealthy (and introvert, aka being introspective) allows for a very calm mind and allows your mind to potentially do and be more than it otherwise would be. No doubt that Rhett would act very differently otherwise despite being a very truthful person.
@@jwardbass4452 LOL no, Rhett is INTP and Link is ENFJ. If you think Link is INFP you are very silly because I am INFP and he is nothing like any INFP I have ever met or relate to myself. He is a charismatic extraverted feeler as shown by his very extraverted manner of speaking and behaving. I'm not going too in-depth but you are just entirely wrong, sorry. And Rhett above else always values logic and facts - which are the hallmarks of a INTP, whilst retaining the constant curiousity - which is even one of their slogans, Semper Fi. If you want to see a really good ENTP look at Markiplier, and look up the videos with him in GMM and how they relate to each other (Rhett and Mark) and you'll clearly see how Rhett is introverted.
Link is explaining my childhood. I hid all of my imperfections so I would not be a problem for my grown ups. To this day I dwell on my mistakes as failures rather than perceiving them as being part of the human experience. No one taught me these things.
@@christenawashburn8193 I'm in the midst of one, I'm a PK, I went to Grad School for an M.Div got nothing but frustration, tried the ministry route got screwed the very last interview, got screwed over on a last credit in '18 when trying to finish, fall '19 got unfairly and wrongfully fired from a "Christian" company...The church i attended hasn't even asked how i am very a long time now. A lot of things has had me question and desconstruct for a while now.
Learning about Link's number helped click some things into place about my father. This concept isn't just for understanding yourself, it can do so much healing by helping you understand others!
So I got an equal split between 2, 4 and 9. Finding that out made me excited cos I thought it must be pretty rare to be 3 types all at once which ultimately lead me to realise I'm a 4.
I had almost the same results!! I got equal scoring for 9 and 4, while a couple points lower for 2. I am also very much a 4! I figured out that I was a 4 because I didn't like what I was seeing when I read about the "bad qualities" of a 4, lol!
I would really like to say thank you to the people who level the sound on this show. This is the only podcast that the adds don't blare out and hurt my ears each time. You're very appreciated.
Just got done listening to part 2 of this and I just wanna confirm something for you guys: we 100% love when you are being your most genuine authentic selfs. As someone who’s only been apart of the mythical crew for a few short months, it is painstakingly obvious how much you guys have grown as individuals and creators. The comments speak for them selves! There are so many on every recent episode saying things like “wow they seem so much happier now” “this is the best stuff you guys have ever created” AND ITS TRUE! We love you guys for being you and that’s all that matters 💕 keep up the good work boys!
The honesty during this podcast is incredible. Thank you for being so vulnerable and open about your struggles. It is not easy to face them, let alone showing them to the world.
I’m glad Rhett mentioned that it’s not scientific because it’s for fun and entertainment only. The Barnum effect that happens in large groups is the best part of the enneagram fad going on right now.
For something not scientific they seem to be endorsing it pretty heavy. Guess thats America for you. "Truth" to them is subjective based on perspective rather than physical reality.
@@tron-8140 it is phycology which is technically science. The issue is it is impossible to reduce humans to personality types but you can make observations that get close. That's what this is.
Side note I liked how real and raw your reaction was about the new gmm you guys did. It just shows you really are comfortable with us as an audience to be mad or to show us how you’re processing things. I wasn’t offended by it and knew it was just hard on you both stress wise that it wasn’t working out and being accepted as you would have wanted especially because of all the work it took to produce. I wouldn’t regret making the episode of ear biscuits because even though you don’t like how you reacted it’s just how stressed you were at the time.
The last few years listening to this podcast, I’ve become a little frustrated with the enneagram talk. Listening to this episode I finally nailed down what has been bothering me. Sometimes it seems that people use the enneagram to circumvent further exploring the inner workings of their mental state and feelings. They find a palatable answer to explain a bit about why they are the way they are and then can’t move past it to do more uncomfortable work of self reflection. For that reason, I really enjoy hearing Link’s insights and honesty on how his upbringing has or hasn’t impacted his inner world and behaviors and how it’s not all reliant on the enneagram. I’m curious to see in a few years what Rhett and Link think about the enneagram.
Thanks for your comment. I was reading the comments before watching because I wasn't so sure I wanted to watch. Personality tests annoy me for the reason you said, and I think people are complicated and can't be put into one category like that. But sounds like the guys don't treat this test like their bible.
@@katie-7972 all people are unique and show exceptions, but the opposite of assuming strict personality types exist is assuming people are depthless in their transformative powers. There's a reason some people are passive while some are agressive, some are nervous while some are calm, etc, etc. It isn't overall a matter of choice in the moment
I get where you're coming from here and the broad criticism of personality tests in general, but I also think we've seen that both Rhett and Link are committed to doing that "hard work" and have shared that with people as well. I also appreciated that they do make parallels to the actual work they are doing in therapy and how sometimes, it's a nice shorthand.
I’ve been into the enneagram for about 4 years now. For anyone just getting started, I highly recommend taking a test (I took enneagram institute) but you should read in depth about your highest scoring results. My top numbers were, in this order: 9, 5, 2 & 6. At first I related to the 9, but upon reading about the 6 I am DEFINITELY a 6. The tests can be inaccurate because the way you perceive yourself to be can be very different than who you actually are-this all depends on your own personal self-discovery & awareness
This episode has been very insightful. As an Enneagram 3 who is recovering from PRK surgery (an elective surgery because I care about my image), I haven’t been able to work for about 10 days. Lying in bed and “relaxing” has been stressful because I feel under accomplished. I also realize that it’s only been less than two weeks, and I’m trying to find a healthy balance between using this time to brainstorm ideas for future projects with allowing myself to take a mental and physical break. During this short yet challenging time, I’ve been binge listening to ear biscuits and I resonate with this particular episode so much. It’s encouraged me to do some more healthy self reflection during my recovery. Thank you Rhett and Link!
they talk so much about how that particular season was a failure. i must be weird. i liked it. i didn't watch it the same way the other stuff, but I liked it. I knew they were trying new things, which didn't hurt me. I never understood the backlash. there was a lot of that stuff I liked. i understand why ultimately it didn't stay, but for a one time wild try? I thought it was cool.
@@mex55 I haven't gotten to that part in the podcast but I'm pretty sure that it's when they did those 3 part episodes that most fans didn't like. I personally didn't like it because it's less genuine and more of an attempt to pump out more content. They basically focused on quantity over quality.
I knew it was just a temporary situation, so I rolled with it. Although I liked it less overall, I continued to support them. Some people were so harsh, but I think there was still some great moments and good content which resulted from that time. More than anything, it was a huge learning experience for Mythical. I could tell they weren't as happy and spreading themselves too thin. It was not sustainable.
Woah- this episode of Ear Biscuits is extra special and inspiring to me. I appreciate and admire the vulnerability. Thank you for bringing us along on your guys’ journey of self-discovery. Your conversations continue to help me navigate my own path. 💙 Much appreciated!!
Thanks for saying "It's not science." It offers a framework similar to astrology and Myers-Briggs--something to talk about, but can create self-fulfilling limitations on growth.
This might be my favorite ear biscuits of all time. I’m a 3 but teetering on a 1 so I really felt both sides. Honestly hearing them explain it helped me better understand myself in ways I’ve never thought of!
Industrial Engineer here! I loved the way Link described Industrial Engineering. It made me realize that I may also be a 1 since I love assessing the details and constantly improving processes. I'll have to look more into it, I'm so intrigued! 😊
This episode was particularly interesting for me, as an architecture student myself and in the midst of college and figuring out who im going to be, I felt closely related to what Rhett explained, every time a face a design process the frustration of needing (or the idea of needing) to deliver a flawless, excellent product, and to be better that other ends up almost taking away the joy of creating.. i think its something i have to work on
9w1 here! I'm a huge fan of the enneagram. I learned about it through my therapist. She used it as a way of quickly getting to know new clients. I was never a fan of personality theories before because i felt like they just described what i already knew about myself but enneagram goes so much deeper into why you behave/think the way you do based on core fears/motivations. it has truely helped me understand myself better and helped me understand others i'm close to once i learn their types (mainly with my marriage). The Wisdom of the Enneagram and The Complete Enneagram are both great books, i'll definitely need to check out the millenneagram!
Finally got around to listening to this podcast, and I’m so happy I did. I am VERY into the Enneagram, and as a type 3, I was excited to hear what Rhett had to say. Lately, I’ve been questioning if I am a 3, even though I’ve been studying and learning about my type for years, because I often feel that I’m “not achieving ENOUGH” or I’m “faking” my productivity, etc. Rhett explaining how he approaches every situation wondering how he can be the best (even asking which type was the “best” when he first learned about the Enneagram), which really resonated with me. I realized my doubts and insecurities are part of being a 3. Also, my Tritype is 316, so I relate a LOT to Link, as well. Thank you for sharing :)
I’m a type-9 wing 1and I am 100% in agreement. 3 is my integration line, so Rhett snd I share the same lack of self-identity, but the difference is 9s are more slothful and more willing to let things go. I am less worried about not having worth, and more worried about not being present or losing connection, and upsetting people. I sometimes get so caught up in other perspectives that I am somewhat apprehensive about sharing my own perspective as I don’t feel like it matters. I hate the feeling of anger and never felt like my anger could be of any benefit to people. I’ve learned to be more outspoken on what I believe, but it is always with the disclaimer of “I could be wrong but I feel like.” I sometimes fear that I will lose contact with people I love, not by some drastic life shift, but by my own inability to express my desire to see them.
I’m a type 1 and when link was talking about the dishwasher scenario I literally had flashbacks to when my roommate would try to load the dishwasher and I’d have to redo the whole thing
Me too. I’m such a three and I feel so bad and worthless if I’m not doing something. I’m constantly occupying myself because I believe if I’m not being useful I’m useless.
Love to hear you guys talk about enneagram numbers. My old pastor (very liberal, now retired, studies eastern religion to expand her faith) loves to get peoples numbers. She reluctantly did the test with me when I was about 17 and came up as a 7, she didn't think it'd stick because it's apparently not recommended if you're not mature. So I redid it at 23 and got a 9. Thats sit the best with me out of all of them.
Link's experiences are so similar to mine, I'm also a 1. What drives me is justice, a need to make things right or perfect. Interestingly, I'm also married to a 6. Loved this episode. A great take on what the enneagram can do for you when you study and apply its insights.
Well, you guys are the reason why I looked into the enneagram. I’m an 8 and an enfj in myers briggs. Reading the wisdom of the enneagram book has helped me a ton in understanding myself and others. I know some people think it is like a horoscope, but I have found the importance lies with your own reasoning about what you do the things you do. Their discussion about 1 vs 3 is such a good explanation- I have a good friend who I recently asked to take the test and they are a 1 and I guessed they would have been a 3. Same with 2s vs 9s. They often seem similar, but have such different reasons for why they do what they do. Anyhow the enneagram has helped me a ton! Thanks for talking about this!
I just did mine and got a 9. This is very very relevant because I keep telling my psychologist "I just want everyone to leave me alone" lol. This is closely followed by a 2 and 3. I did the because Rhett said his greatest fear is being incapacitated which is also mine. I used to be a nurse in brain injury rehab which I think changed me fundamentally, so I left nursing which incidentally combines the 9, 2 and 3 personalities.
7w8! Had a therapist use the enneagram with me almost 10 years ago. Now, I'm a therapist myself and I believe use of any personality based tool isn't a concrete thing, it's more of a tool to promote self-insight and growth. Personality is fluid, which is why I like the enneagram because it doesn't use a predetermination of who you are. Such a cool episode! So neat to see this discussion and such good information and explanation provided!
I'm a super indecisive person and whenever I take tests like the enneagram or the myers briggs one, I get completely different results each time because I coincidentally pick different answers for each question
A lot of times with enneagram that points to a 9 : there’s a podcast called “sleeping at last “ that was written by a 9 where he explains it and wrote a song about it and has the expert on to explain itn
Same for me. I think there is another personality type that I like to call "the Chameleon". People might have some traits from all other personality types, that can change depending on the situation. Perfectionist in some cases, but then also a peacemaker In others. Maybe the situation calls for an achiever type...so you become that for the moment. It makes personality tests very stressful because I never know what to answer. I can see all answers being viable depending on the context.
@@danielplatts9446 not in the enneagram there’s not, each type has a number that they grow to, another they stress to, there’s subtypes and wings as well so there’s 90+ combos you can be in the enneagram, it’s about WHY you do things: someone may be a perfectionist and not be a 1 because the WHY is that they don’t want to cause any friction by being imperfect (type 9) or they think being perfect makes them desirable and lovable (type 2) or they like the security and safety of knowing they did things perfectly (6) your type doesn’t change
Like any personality test, the more vague it is, the more susceptible to the Forer effect it is. The enneagram is not generally considered to be of any value by mainstream psychologists.
Even though I’m not a type 1 like Link (I’m a 2), I can relate so deeply to his feeling of “if I do something wrong, I’m a bad person” and how much it’s pounded into your head in certain religions. I was raised in the south as a southern Baptist. I grew up, like Link, as a CHILD, being told “you are dirty and guilty until you earn forgiveness.” I remember being 10 years old and telling my Mom that I didn’t know if I wanted to continue going to church if religion is just a ball and chain around your ankle that you have to be fearful of every day of your life. This was the best episode of EB 💓
Min 50:00-ish... 100%. Was thinking earlier this morning how I want to vacuum my room, but remembered that someone in the house did not dump canister out after they used it. So now I have to do that, and because I'm me, I must first thoroughly wipe (including using Clorox wipes) the darn thing down inside and out, top to bottom, including the stupid cord! I'm such a Link. LOL
I'm a 4 wing of 3!! Listening to Rhett talk made me understand why I'm so drawn to him. I relate to a lot of different things he mentioned about being a 3, even though I technically only have a "wing" of 3. This podcast was very interesting to watch and learn from! It encouraged me to dive deeper into learning about what it's like to be a 4, and that really helped me solidify what enneagram number I truly am.
I loved this episode so much. My highest percentages by far on the Enneagram tests are a 1 and a 3. It's so intriguing because I can relate to both of the guys when they're talking about their internal monologue, thoughts, and motivations.
I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS! I've been into the enneagram for a couple of years now, I also acknowledge that it's not scientific or anything but it's been helpful in my self-discovery and in understanding how much different people's fears and motivations and approaches to things vary from mine! A five over here, 5w6 to be more specific ✌️
I feel weirdly connected to Rhett's story growing up and also how he dealt with his religion deeply--not in a parasocial way but rather a refreshing manner. I took the Enneagram before this video and got 3 as well and I find it so validating that there's a correlation within me dealing with my religious issues the same way, hesitating to express it from fear of being unaccepted or dismissed, and then also my need to be expressed as perfect--but knowing deep down I am not.
Rhett, i see you and i feel you. You are sensitive person and that is awesome 💗 I often hide my feelings behind a mask that i have created. And i often handle difficult feelings and stuff with humor and laughter.
If 3 and 1 are the pair that gets the most done than 4 and 9 must be the pair that gets nothing done lol. I’m a 4 and my sister is a 9 and we’re both so busy avoiding potential conflict that we just procrastinate all tasks.
I wouldn’t have guessed Link for a 1 but it goes to show you you can never tell just based on someone demeanor or their actions: because the enneagram is about WHY you do certain things not the actions themselves
fs, im a 5 too and relate to 1s in a lotta ways. i think it's because our basic desire is to be competent. i bet 5w6 specifically (I'm a 5w4, myself) tend to crave security and order in the way they do things. id imagine they're more prone to thinking in terms of a right and wrong way to complete a task. on the enneagram institute, the 5w6 is nicknamed "the problem solver" lol
Wow. Rhetts story about his experience being a 3 is identical to me. That blows my mind, today was my day off and I kind of just napped around and didn’t do anything and I felt horrible, and I was talking to my girlfriend about it and I was like why does this happen? Makes so much more sense. Thank you for sharing your experiences
As someone who studied psychology, I wish they would’ve taken the Big Five Factor Analysis which is the closest to a “personality” test that’s supported by empirical data.
Hello! Someone else who studied and loves psychology here. I really like the Big Five but I also like the Enneagram! I know Rhett and Link have found a lot of meaning and significance in the Enneagram and so have a lot of people in their lives (and people who listen to Ear Biscuits!), so this was a super highly anticipated episode. Even if it's not empirically backed, it's a tool that has significantly affected language and understanding for people to introspect and navigate their relationships.
@@PotatoKing16 I don’t disagree with that, I just prefer the Big Five because it doesn’t assign “roles.” I have no problem with people using the Enneagram, I just wish they also used psychologically backed tests too. With Rhett and Link’s broad audience they could really highlight an important tool that is backed by data and could help people as well. ESPECIALLY, since the full Enneagram costs money! The Big Five is totally free.
@@Megz-nt3di true, but you know people love types and roles! 😆 Maybe they can do it in a future episode. There's a lot of free Enneagram literature out there!!
When I was young, I thought I was a 4, but I was just an "unbalanced" 1. Thank you for sharing Link, as a fellow 1. Nice to hear you guys talk about the enneagram. It has helped me a lot to learn about it over the years, and it can be a really helpful tool.
love this theory! my mom actually met russ hudson on a retreat in big sur.. she studied this for a while after experiencing his class and now after this ep i’m especially intrigued. always such a good conversation, boys
I've been waiting for this all week! I can't wait for the next episode(s?) It's tough to get deep on enneagram in just an hour and a half. When you guys were talking about your inner dialogues - that's some brave, honest stuff; and so strikingly different from my own (as a 4). One of my best friends is a 3, and my older sister is a 1, so I deeply appreciate you both sharing and expanding my understanding.
I WISH this was a part of high school curriculum. I had a really hard time existing as a functioning, independent person in middle/high school and it carried into college for me as well because I didn't understand myself or the personalities of the kids around me. I haven't taken the test yet, but I highly suspect I am like Link and a "1"; I think it would be so beneficial to kids coming into adulthood and independence to be able to understand themselves and their peers a little better with this Enneagram exercise.
@@cslinsky3596 Interesting! I think for a long time, I would've labeled myself as a 4w5, but looking back, I think I've always been a 5w4 trying to convince myself I was the opposite. To oversimplify, I wanted to be a performer and thought I was a natural but mediocre actor, but I turned out to have a strong natural talent and love being a stage manager, running the show from behind the scenes. My 4 wing is definitely on the strong side though!
I really really really really really gd fkin needed this podcast today. Rhett n Link are by far some of my favorite minds to dip into when I need perspective on my life
What an amazing thing to hear. To understand oneself is the hardest painful thing to do but when you show that little bit of weakness or surrendering oneself to see what is. You can make something that what was. Relations become so easy after as well as the annoyance too 👽
This is so interesting and mind opening. I love your podcasts and is the only thing I lean towards when having a down moment/day. Thank you very very much, keep them coming.
Enneagram personalities seems more broadly defining, and you can have two, three labels which apply to you. Myers Briggs personality types seems to create even more distinction. There are people who do both personality tests, first using Myers Briggs, then further defining with Enneagram testing -- though even if you discover your MBTI and Enneagram match on Reddit, you may still find your worldview may differ in plenty of places. It's comforting to see that we are not as different from others as we may think, but also interesting to know that there is no person that is 100% like us either. Just my opinion.
I’ve never taken this but I resonate so much with being a 1 lmao. Even now I’m all about structure because it makes me feel safe in a world you can’t control
And it's very bizarre when they talk about the three/one combo. Me having the mindset of a one and my lifelong friend having what I would assume to be a three mindset. We were able to do absolutely insane things together, things that if I listed here would seem farfetched or unbelievable. Wow, I'm so curious about this whole thing now.
People will choose to fit themselves into whichever catagory they want to be in and ignore anything that doesnt relate to them. There's so much overlap between the catagories, most people can be in most catagories depending on the situation. People just like labels, its like how everyone apparently has self diagnosed OCD.
@@Carpettimepod Oh yes, because not having a lot of wealth means conflict. There are SO MANY friendships and relationships that have ended because of the troubles and depression that having not a lot of money brings forth. You have a lot of money? You can do what you want and thus keep in contact with the one close to you.
I identified SO much with everything Rhett says in this podcast - I'm technically a 7 (the enthusiast) but I scored super high on 3 as well. I so relate to the need to be valuable, I've felt this my entire life with a hunger for success and growth but have definitely noticed I have an unhealthy relationship with workaholism! Unlike Rhett, I feel like mine comes from a weird inner standard I have set for myself but I do relate to even the smallest tasks feeling like a performance 😂 this was so enlightening, thank you for making me feel more normal Rhett
I've been waiting for this!!! I'm an SX enneagram four with a five wing! I totally guessed both of their types before watching. I love hearing about it all from their perspective!!
I've never known anyone who tested as a 3 on the Enneagram so hearing Rhett talk about his experiences as a 3 is fascinating. I don't know what I am even after taking six different free Enneagram tests so seeing everyone in the comments and hearing about Rhett and Link talk about their results and experiences is rough, but also interesting. All I know is that I'm 100% NOT a 6.
Rhett is making me realize that 3 is on my tritype. Each zone 8/9/1, 2/3/4, 5/6/7 are related to a center, body/anger, image/sadness, head/fear respectively, the idea of the Tritype is that you can operate out of 1 from each depending depending on your emotional state and the base fears for each. You still have a base that you operate out of more, but each can have a certain level of influence depending on the person. I'm a 9/5/3, but not sure about the order. Before you ask 9 is anger, for nines it's suppressed and or internalized, self oppression rather than externalized anger 8s, other oppression, or environmental anger 1's anger over controling the environment through perfection in rules and outcomes. Each area is similar. Sadness or image 2's helping others, 3's internalized sadness /image , 4's environmental, show image through being unique thus they are artist. Etc
I don’t think you two understand how much you mean to some of us. I’m 21 and have been watching everything gmm since I was 12 going into 8th grade. I officially graduated college today and want to say thank you for everything.
Good job!!
Me too! Only im 23 now. I love gmm so much
Congratulations! Im in the same boat
@@Altorac Congratulations!!
@@aubreyditto4398 Congratulations!!
I like how Rhett tried to play up how "shocking" it is that 3's are sensitive. Rhett is so sensitive, so much more than Link honestly and to me at least it's not at ALL shocking, it's not a bad thing, but I thought it was obvious. Rhett wouldn't feel so defensive about things if he wasn't sensitive, Link on the other hand cares so much less about defending himself or what he does, he's significantly more confident. Sensitivity isn't about emotional expression, but even then Rhett talks about crying more than Link actually cries (at least on camera) and when Rhett DOES cry, it's always about something that hits him really deeply (like Ben's passing, or their deconstruction stories and how 2020 affected him).
Ok so Link just cuts right through "this was a revelation to yourself" god I love them so much.
I'm a 3 too and I definitely resonate with all that Rhett said. I also like to think of myself as less sensitive than others, but over time I just realized that I'm just good at hiding what I really feel.
@@re_i_gn if you're like rhett, you might think you're hiding it while it's obvious to others around you... just a thought for you
But rhett as a 3 is more sensitive to how he comes across to other ppl whereas link is more aware of his inner critic. Great podcast ep! Love these sorts of ones
I listened to this yesterday on a walk with my dog. When I heard “it’s not just the feeling that you can’t make mistakes. It’s the fear of being evil or defective..” I literally felt my jaw unclench from having a revelation hearing it described that way.
Evil is still entirely subjective, even morals are. After all, if you do not get "punished" for being evil, in essence - why shouldn't you.
An episode like this is why I love Ear Biscuits. You guys having an honest chat where you are not afraid to be open and vulnerable. I was inspired and found out I am a 9 The Peacemaker.
Me too!
Yup, fellow 9 here!!
@Zoom Boom Wtf?
9 babyyy
@Zoom Boom look we're all here to be entertained. Whatever is happening in your personal life to make you this hostile does not give you the right to start trashing people and their interests
“Our personalities are just people we’ve created to protect our inner selves”
That leaves the question, what is inner self?
wait who said this??
Oh its finally here. THEEEE Enneagram podcast everyone has been waiting for
I have some big respect for Rhett and Link, they are some of the most introspective people I know. They really try to make them selfs better everyday and show so much growth. I aspire to be like that every day
i think it's really commendable for rhett to acknowledge a time in which he was unhealthy, how it affected him, how it affected others, and apologise -- then actually make the changes required to become healthier again & come back to apologise when he was ready and able to.
Classical rich introvert.
@@DutchGuyMike what
@@IamAAnimator Being rich and introverted allows Rhett to do as Harper B. states. A main reason for example for marriages failing is economic problems, being wealthy (and introvert, aka being introspective) allows for a very calm mind and allows your mind to potentially do and be more than it otherwise would be. No doubt that Rhett would act very differently otherwise despite being a very truthful person.
I think I understand how they became successful - a perfectionist and an acheiver, that's the dream team
INTPs & ENFJs (Rhett and Link) have a mystical connection, that is why they do so well together as well (opposite function stack).
@@DutchGuyMike i didn’t know link was enfj! no wonder i relate to him on a whole new level
@@DutchGuyMike Rhett - ENTP
Link - INFP
@@jwardbass4452 LOL no, Rhett is INTP and Link is ENFJ. If you think Link is INFP you are very silly because I am INFP and he is nothing like any INFP I have ever met or relate to myself. He is a charismatic extraverted feeler as shown by his very extraverted manner of speaking and behaving. I'm not going too in-depth but you are just entirely wrong, sorry. And Rhett above else always values logic and facts - which are the hallmarks of a INTP, whilst retaining the constant curiousity - which is even one of their slogans, Semper Fi. If you want to see a really good ENTP look at Markiplier, and look up the videos with him in GMM and how they relate to each other (Rhett and Mark) and you'll clearly see how Rhett is introverted.
@@DutchGuyMike Rhett seems like and ENTP. Honestly, anything but an INTP
Link is explaining my childhood. I hid all of my imperfections so I would not be a problem for my grown ups. To this day I dwell on my mistakes as failures rather than perceiving them as being part of the human experience. No one taught me these things.
Also, do other ones have spiritual deconstruction experiences?
@@christenawashburn8193 I'm in the midst of one, I'm a PK, I went to Grad School for an M.Div got nothing but frustration, tried the ministry route got screwed the very last interview, got screwed over on a last credit in '18 when trying to finish, fall '19 got unfairly and wrongfully fired from a "Christian" company...The church i attended hasn't even asked how i am very a long time now. A lot of things has had me question and desconstruct for a while now.
@1:19:16 “a sense of achievement…or that you didn’t quit” awe Link 🥺 making the effort to verbally accommodate to each ones goals. So wholesome.
"The Rhett and Link Sing Song Tour"
"That's not what we called it."
Lol.
Learning about Link's number helped click some things into place about my father. This concept isn't just for understanding yourself, it can do so much healing by helping you understand others!
So I got an equal split between 2, 4 and 9. Finding that out made me excited cos I thought it must be pretty rare to be 3 types all at once which ultimately lead me to realise I'm a 4.
thats such a 4 thing to say lolol
I had almost the same results!! I got equal scoring for 9 and 4, while a couple points lower for 2. I am also very much a 4! I figured out that I was a 4 because I didn't like what I was seeing when I read about the "bad qualities" of a 4, lol!
Haha that's funny :') also accurate
I would really like to say thank you to the people who level the sound on this show.
This is the only podcast that the adds don't blare out and hurt my ears each time.
You're very appreciated.
Your personalities compliment each other so well and that is why your goals are met and you're such a successful team! :) you work great together!
Just got done listening to part 2 of this and I just wanna confirm something for you guys: we 100% love when you are being your most genuine authentic selfs. As someone who’s only been apart of the mythical crew for a few short months, it is painstakingly obvious how much you guys have grown as individuals and creators. The comments speak for them selves! There are so many on every recent episode saying things like “wow they seem so much happier now” “this is the best stuff you guys have ever created” AND ITS TRUE! We love you guys for being you and that’s all that matters 💕 keep up the good work boys!
The honesty during this podcast is incredible. Thank you for being so vulnerable and open about your struggles. It is not easy to face them, let alone showing them to the world.
I’m glad Rhett mentioned that it’s not scientific because it’s for fun and entertainment only. The Barnum effect that happens in large groups is the best part of the enneagram fad going on right now.
@Zoom Boom you are a sad, strange little man
For something not scientific they seem to be endorsing it pretty heavy. Guess thats America for you.
"Truth" to them is subjective based on perspective rather than physical reality.
@Zoom Boom why are you here?
@Zoom Boom did you even listen to the podcast? They said multiple times it wasn't scientific lol
@@tron-8140 it is phycology which is technically science. The issue is it is impossible to reduce humans to personality types but you can make observations that get close. That's what this is.
Side note I liked how real and raw your reaction was about the new gmm you guys did. It just shows you really are comfortable with us as an audience to be mad or to show us how you’re processing things. I wasn’t offended by it and knew it was just hard on you both stress wise that it wasn’t working out and being accepted as you would have wanted especially because of all the work it took to produce. I wouldn’t regret making the episode of ear biscuits because even though you don’t like how you reacted it’s just how stressed you were at the time.
The last few years listening to this podcast, I’ve become a little frustrated with the enneagram talk. Listening to this episode I finally nailed down what has been bothering me. Sometimes it seems that people use the enneagram to circumvent further exploring the inner workings of their mental state and feelings. They find a palatable answer to explain a bit about why they are the way they are and then can’t move past it to do more uncomfortable work of self reflection. For that reason, I really enjoy hearing Link’s insights and honesty on how his upbringing has or hasn’t impacted his inner world and behaviors and how it’s not all reliant on the enneagram. I’m curious to see in a few years what Rhett and Link think about the enneagram.
Thanks for your comment. I was reading the comments before watching because I wasn't so sure I wanted to watch. Personality tests annoy me for the reason you said, and I think people are complicated and can't be put into one category like that. But sounds like the guys don't treat this test like their bible.
@@katie-7972 all people are unique and show exceptions, but the opposite of assuming strict personality types exist is assuming people are depthless in their transformative powers. There's a reason some people are passive while some are agressive, some are nervous while some are calm, etc, etc. It isn't overall a matter of choice in the moment
Seems like a real Gemini thing to say....
I get where you're coming from here and the broad criticism of personality tests in general, but I also think we've seen that both Rhett and Link are committed to doing that "hard work" and have shared that with people as well. I also appreciated that they do make parallels to the actual work they are doing in therapy and how sometimes, it's a nice shorthand.
A person isn't limited to a number. People are much more complex than an enneagram suggests.
I’ve been into the enneagram for about 4 years now. For anyone just getting started, I highly recommend taking a test (I took enneagram institute) but you should read in depth about your highest scoring results. My top numbers were, in this order: 9, 5, 2 & 6. At first I related to the 9, but upon reading about the 6 I am DEFINITELY a 6. The tests can be inaccurate because the way you perceive yourself to be can be very different than who you actually are-this all depends on your own personal self-discovery & awareness
This episode has been very insightful. As an Enneagram 3 who is recovering from PRK surgery (an elective surgery because I care about my image), I haven’t been able to work for about 10 days. Lying in bed and “relaxing” has been stressful because I feel under accomplished. I also realize that it’s only been less than two weeks, and I’m trying to find a healthy balance between using this time to brainstorm ideas for future projects with allowing myself to take a mental and physical break. During this short yet challenging time, I’ve been binge listening to ear biscuits and I resonate with this particular episode so much. It’s encouraged me to do some more healthy self reflection during my recovery. Thank you Rhett and Link!
In the beginning of the video and Link said he just has to make things right, all I could picture was their OCD music video.
Well Link is an ENFJ, J's are very very organized and do not like to "leave things hanging".
they talk so much about how that particular season was a failure. i must be weird. i liked it. i didn't watch it the same way the other stuff, but I liked it. I knew they were trying new things, which didn't hurt me. I never understood the backlash. there was a lot of that stuff I liked. i understand why ultimately it didn't stay, but for a one time wild try? I thought it was cool.
what season was it
@@mex55 I haven't gotten to that part in the podcast but I'm pretty sure that it's when they did those 3 part episodes that most fans didn't like. I personally didn't like it because it's less genuine and more of an attempt to pump out more content. They basically focused on quantity over quality.
I knew it was just a temporary situation, so I rolled with it. Although I liked it less overall, I continued to support them. Some people were so harsh, but I think there was still some great moments and good content which resulted from that time. More than anything, it was a huge learning experience for Mythical.
I could tell they weren't as happy and spreading themselves too thin. It was not sustainable.
These two are so close to inner child work & shadow work, & I'm on the edge of my seat for it.
Woah- this episode of Ear Biscuits is extra special and inspiring to me. I appreciate and admire the vulnerability. Thank you for bringing us along on your guys’ journey of self-discovery. Your conversations continue to help me navigate my own path. 💙 Much appreciated!!
@Zoom Boom LOL Whatever you say pal :) thank you for your unsolicited opinion about MY comment 👍🏽
Thanks for saying "It's not science." It offers a framework similar to astrology and Myers-Briggs--something to talk about, but can create self-fulfilling limitations on growth.
Really cool how no matter how different we are, we still enjoy Rhett and Link together ❤️
Facts
I’m a 3.
When Rhett said “I’m lying to myself”, I felt sucker punched and wanted to cry.
It’s true. Ugh.
This might be my favorite ear biscuits of all time. I’m a 3 but teetering on a 1 so I really felt both sides. Honestly hearing them explain it helped me better understand myself in ways I’ve never thought of!
Industrial Engineer here! I loved the way Link described Industrial Engineering. It made me realize that I may also be a 1 since I love assessing the details and constantly improving processes. I'll have to look more into it, I'm so intrigued! 😊
This episode was particularly interesting for me, as an architecture student myself and in the midst of college and figuring out who im going to be, I felt closely related to what Rhett explained, every time a face a design process the frustration of needing (or the idea of needing) to deliver a flawless, excellent product, and to be better that other ends up almost taking away the joy of creating.. i think its something i have to work on
44:22 well, this surely puts the whole "my mom is in this camera, she's watching us" thing into perspective, doesn't it?
9w1 here! I'm a huge fan of the enneagram. I learned about it through my therapist. She used it as a way of quickly getting to know new clients. I was never a fan of personality theories before because i felt like they just described what i already knew about myself but enneagram goes so much deeper into why you behave/think the way you do based on core fears/motivations. it has truely helped me understand myself better and helped me understand others i'm close to once i learn their types (mainly with my marriage). The Wisdom of the Enneagram and The Complete Enneagram are both great books, i'll definitely need to check out the millenneagram!
Finally got around to listening to this podcast, and I’m so happy I did. I am VERY into the Enneagram, and as a type 3, I was excited to hear what Rhett had to say. Lately, I’ve been questioning if I am a 3, even though I’ve been studying and learning about my type for years, because I often feel that I’m “not achieving ENOUGH” or I’m “faking” my productivity, etc. Rhett explaining how he approaches every situation wondering how he can be the best (even asking which type was the “best” when he first learned about the Enneagram), which really resonated with me. I realized my doubts and insecurities are part of being a 3. Also, my Tritype is 316, so I relate a LOT to Link, as well. Thank you for sharing :)
I’m a type-9 wing 1and I am 100% in agreement. 3 is my integration line, so Rhett snd I share the same lack of self-identity, but the difference is 9s are more slothful and more willing to let things go. I am less worried about not having worth, and more worried about not being present or losing connection, and upsetting people. I sometimes get so caught up in other perspectives that I am somewhat apprehensive about sharing my own perspective as I don’t feel like it matters. I hate the feeling of anger and never felt like my anger could be of any benefit to people. I’ve learned to be more outspoken on what I believe, but it is always with the disclaimer of “I could be wrong but I feel like.” I sometimes fear that I will lose contact with people I love, not by some drastic life shift, but by my own inability to express my desire to see them.
I’m a type 1 and when link was talking about the dishwasher scenario I literally had flashbacks to when my roommate would try to load the dishwasher and I’d have to redo the whole thing
Oh my god. Rhett talking about Type 3 hit me SO HARD 😭 I'm absolutely a type 3 myself, and I love to hear other people's similar experience. ❤️
Same!!
Me too. I’m such a three and I feel so bad and worthless if I’m not doing something. I’m constantly occupying myself because I believe if I’m not being useful I’m useless.
Love to hear you guys talk about enneagram numbers. My old pastor (very liberal, now retired, studies eastern religion to expand her faith) loves to get peoples numbers. She reluctantly did the test with me when I was about 17 and came up as a 7, she didn't think it'd stick because it's apparently not recommended if you're not mature. So I redid it at 23 and got a 9. Thats sit the best with me out of all of them.
Link's experiences are so similar to mine, I'm also a 1. What drives me is justice, a need to make things right or perfect. Interestingly, I'm also married to a 6. Loved this episode. A great take on what the enneagram can do for you when you study and apply its insights.
Well, you guys are the reason why I looked into the enneagram. I’m an 8 and an enfj in myers briggs. Reading the wisdom of the enneagram book has helped me a ton in understanding myself and others. I know some people think it is like a horoscope, but I have found the importance lies with your own reasoning about what you do the things you do. Their discussion about 1 vs 3 is such a good explanation- I have a good friend who I recently asked to take the test and they are a 1 and I guessed they would have been a 3. Same with 2s vs 9s. They often seem similar, but have such different reasons for why they do what they do. Anyhow the enneagram has helped me a ton! Thanks for talking about this!
I should be sleeping but Ear Biscuits is more important ✌🏻
been there many times lol
Every Sunday.
Agreeed just get some sleep after lol
I would love how Christy and Jesse think about theirs... I am a 2 and would love to hear from another 2 what they go through
Me too! I like being a 2.
I just did mine and got a 9. This is very very relevant because I keep telling my psychologist "I just want everyone to leave me alone" lol. This is closely followed by a 2 and 3. I did the because Rhett said his greatest fear is being incapacitated which is also mine. I used to be a nurse in brain injury rehab which I think changed me fundamentally, so I left nursing which incidentally combines the 9, 2 and 3 personalities.
been literally waiting for this episode for the last 5 years and it was SO worth the wait! lol
phew!! when rhett said "our basic fear is of being worthless"!! 33:06
did any of the 3s here get whiplashed or was it just me?
7w8! Had a therapist use the enneagram with me almost 10 years ago. Now, I'm a therapist myself and I believe use of any personality based tool isn't a concrete thing, it's more of a tool to promote self-insight and growth. Personality is fluid, which is why I like the enneagram because it doesn't use a predetermination of who you are.
Such a cool episode! So neat to see this discussion and such good information and explanation provided!
I'm a super indecisive person and whenever I take tests like the enneagram or the myers briggs one, I get completely different results each time because I coincidentally pick different answers for each question
A lot of times with enneagram that points to a 9 : there’s a podcast called “sleeping at last “ that was written by a 9 where he explains it and wrote a song about it and has the expert on to explain itn
Same for me. I think there is another personality type that I like to call "the Chameleon". People might have some traits from all other personality types, that can change depending on the situation. Perfectionist in some cases, but then also a peacemaker In others. Maybe the situation calls for an achiever type...so you become that for the moment. It makes personality tests very stressful because I never know what to answer. I can see all answers being viable depending on the context.
@@danielplatts9446 not in the enneagram there’s not, each type has a number that they grow to, another they stress to, there’s subtypes and wings as well so there’s 90+ combos you can be in the enneagram, it’s about WHY you do things: someone may be a perfectionist and not be a 1 because the WHY is that they don’t want to cause any friction by being imperfect (type 9) or they think being perfect makes them desirable and lovable (type 2) or they like the security and safety of knowing they did things perfectly (6) your type doesn’t change
@@danielplatts9446 usually that indicates in the enneagram that you’re a 9: 9s are indecisive and often see things from multiple perspectives .
Like any personality test, the more vague it is, the more susceptible to the Forer effect it is. The enneagram is not generally considered to be of any value by mainstream psychologists.
Even though I’m not a type 1 like Link (I’m a 2), I can relate so deeply to his feeling of “if I do something wrong, I’m a bad person” and how much it’s pounded into your head in certain religions. I was raised in the south as a southern Baptist. I grew up, like Link, as a CHILD, being told “you are dirty and guilty until you earn forgiveness.” I remember being 10 years old and telling my Mom that I didn’t know if I wanted to continue going to church if religion is just a ball and chain around your ankle that you have to be fearful of every day of your life. This was the best episode of EB 💓
Min 50:00-ish... 100%. Was thinking earlier this morning how I want to vacuum my room, but remembered that someone in the house did not dump canister out after they used it. So now I have to do that, and because I'm me, I must first thoroughly wipe (including using Clorox wipes) the darn thing down inside and out, top to bottom, including the stupid cord! I'm such a Link. LOL
Fellas, this episode is exceptional. Thank you for sharing!
I'm a 4 wing of 3!! Listening to Rhett talk made me understand why I'm so drawn to him. I relate to a lot of different things he mentioned about being a 3, even though I technically only have a "wing" of 3. This podcast was very interesting to watch and learn from! It encouraged me to dive deeper into learning about what it's like to be a 4, and that really helped me solidify what enneagram number I truly am.
I loved this episode so much. My highest percentages by far on the Enneagram tests are a 1 and a 3. It's so intriguing because I can relate to both of the guys when they're talking about their internal monologue, thoughts, and motivations.
This was amazing to hear and watch, seeing how open you guys were and real. Very refreshing
I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS! I've been into the enneagram for a couple of years now, I also acknowledge that it's not scientific or anything but it's been helpful in my self-discovery and in understanding how much different people's fears and motivations and approaches to things vary from mine! A five over here, 5w6 to be more specific ✌️
I feel weirdly connected to Rhett's story growing up and also how he dealt with his religion deeply--not in a parasocial way but rather a refreshing manner. I took the Enneagram before this video and got 3 as well and I find it so validating that there's a correlation within me dealing with my religious issues the same way, hesitating to express it from fear of being unaccepted or dismissed, and then also my need to be expressed as perfect--but knowing deep down I am not.
I am so scared of being seen as incapable that I let myself become more incapable. We all need help
Rhett, i see you and i feel you. You are sensitive person and that is awesome 💗 I often hide my feelings behind a mask that i have created. And i often handle difficult feelings and stuff with humor and laughter.
Cant wait for next week. Love how open these boys can be.
If 3 and 1 are the pair that gets the most done than 4 and 9 must be the pair that gets nothing done lol. I’m a 4 and my sister is a 9 and we’re both so busy avoiding potential conflict that we just procrastinate all tasks.
I wouldn’t have guessed Link for a 1 but it goes to show you you can never tell just based on someone demeanor or their actions: because the enneagram is about WHY you do certain things not the actions themselves
Even though I'm a 5, I feel like I can relate to Link in terms of feeling like I'm not doing things the right way.
fs, im a 5 too and relate to 1s in a lotta ways. i think it's because our basic desire is to be competent. i bet 5w6 specifically (I'm a 5w4, myself) tend to crave security and order in the way they do things. id imagine they're more prone to thinking in terms of a right and wrong way to complete a task. on the enneagram institute, the 5w6 is nicknamed "the problem solver" lol
Wow. Rhetts story about his experience being a 3 is identical to me. That blows my mind, today was my day off and I kind of just napped around and didn’t do anything and I felt horrible, and I was talking to my girlfriend about it and I was like why does this happen? Makes so much more sense. Thank you for sharing your experiences
As someone who studied psychology, I wish they would’ve taken the Big Five Factor Analysis which is the closest to a “personality” test that’s supported by empirical data.
Hello! Someone else who studied and loves psychology here. I really like the Big Five but I also like the Enneagram! I know Rhett and Link have found a lot of meaning and significance in the Enneagram and so have a lot of people in their lives (and people who listen to Ear Biscuits!), so this was a super highly anticipated episode. Even if it's not empirically backed, it's a tool that has significantly affected language and understanding for people to introspect and navigate their relationships.
@@PotatoKing16 I don’t disagree with that, I just prefer the Big Five because it doesn’t assign “roles.” I have no problem with people using the Enneagram, I just wish they also used psychologically backed tests too. With Rhett and Link’s broad audience they could really highlight an important tool that is backed by data and could help people as well.
ESPECIALLY, since the full Enneagram costs money! The Big Five is totally free.
@@Megz-nt3di true, but you know people love types and roles! 😆 Maybe they can do it in a future episode.
There's a lot of free Enneagram literature out there!!
@@figglewiggle381 there are Big Five and Enneagram resources and quizzes online for free.
@@figglewiggle381 yes!
When I was young, I thought I was a 4, but I was just an "unbalanced" 1. Thank you for sharing Link, as a fellow 1. Nice to hear you guys talk about the enneagram. It has helped me a lot to learn about it over the years, and it can be a really helpful tool.
love this theory! my mom actually met russ hudson on a retreat in big sur.. she studied this for a while after experiencing his class and now after this ep i’m especially intrigued. always such a good conversation, boys
IVE BEEN WAITING YEARS FOR THIS EPISODE
I've been waiting for this all week! I can't wait for the next episode(s?) It's tough to get deep on enneagram in just an hour and a half. When you guys were talking about your inner dialogues - that's some brave, honest stuff; and so strikingly different from my own (as a 4). One of my best friends is a 3, and my older sister is a 1, so I deeply appreciate you both sharing and expanding my understanding.
I WISH this was a part of high school curriculum. I had a really hard time existing as a functioning, independent person in middle/high school and it carried into college for me as well because I didn't understand myself or the personalities of the kids around me. I haven't taken the test yet, but I highly suspect I am like Link and a "1"; I think it would be so beneficial to kids coming into adulthood and independence to be able to understand themselves and their peers a little better with this Enneagram exercise.
Also I’m a 1w2 and the way link talks about how he was trying to figure out what love is, is sooooo spot on.
I just took the test and I’m a type 5, interesting.
Same :)
I got a tie of 8 & 3
same
@Steavis Butthead LMAO , spot on 💀
@Steavis Butthead Let's find out
@tomato tornado, what are your political beliefs and what's your favorite sports team?
5 with a 4 wing, and it's pretty spot on for me.
I always thought I was a 5w4, but retook the test and found out I'm the opposite!
@@cslinsky3596 Interesting! I think for a long time, I would've labeled myself as a 4w5, but looking back, I think I've always been a 5w4 trying to convince myself I was the opposite. To oversimplify, I wanted to be a performer and thought I was a natural but mediocre actor, but I turned out to have a strong natural talent and love being a stage manager, running the show from behind the scenes. My 4 wing is definitely on the strong side though!
That’s like me exactly. 5w4 wing is 13. The Investigator.
You might also find spiral dynamics interesting. Once you learn about it so many things you have noticed about people make so much more sense.
I really really really really really gd fkin needed this podcast today. Rhett n Link are by far some of my favorite minds to dip into when I need perspective on my life
I'm a one, which makes sense of why I've always resonated with Link more, and cheered for him in games. 😊
I am looking forward to watching this having listened to part 2. Which was an awesome listen, but will also need to be watched for the body language!
What an amazing thing to hear. To understand oneself is the hardest painful thing to do but when you show that little bit of weakness or surrendering oneself to see what is. You can make something that what was. Relations become so easy after as well as the annoyance too 👽
Yaaaay finally!!! Been waiting for this episode for years 😁
I always really love these type of Ear Biscuits, where Rhett and/or Link talk about things they’re passionate about.
I'm an INFJ/Enneagram 2 - Jessie is 100% correct, when I got both of my results, it felt like a trick & that someone had set me up 😆
This is so interesting and mind opening. I love your podcasts and is the only thing I lean towards when having a down moment/day. Thank you very very much, keep them coming.
If I didn't know that was Link playing 'Knee Slapper' in Ronstadt, I wouldn't have believed it. He was fantastic with that character!
It reminded me of when he was the clown shark. XD
@@InvdrDana Or when he played the character of 'Bevin'. ruclips.net/video/K0x3sMx1A-g/видео.html
@@annab6726 I often forget about Bevin, but that's another great example of his range! So good!
I'm a 3 and my partner is a 1. We look at rhett and link for tips on how to navigate the 1-3 relationship all the time
Enneagram personalities seems more broadly defining, and you can have two, three labels which apply to you. Myers Briggs personality types seems to create even more distinction. There are people who do both personality tests, first using Myers Briggs, then further defining with Enneagram testing -- though even if you discover your MBTI and Enneagram match on Reddit, you may still find your worldview may differ in plenty of places. It's comforting to see that we are not as different from others as we may think, but also interesting to know that there is no person that is 100% like us either. Just my opinion.
I am an INFP, 9w1.. probably the most peaceful combination, lol
I’ve never taken this but I resonate so much with being a 1 lmao. Even now I’m all about structure because it makes me feel safe in a world you can’t control
I would have NEVER considered myself a one, and I don't know that I am, but I relate SOOOOO much to what Link is saying. It's unreal.
And it's very bizarre when they talk about the three/one combo. Me having the mindset of a one and my lifelong friend having what I would assume to be a three mindset. We were able to do absolutely insane things together, things that if I listed here would seem farfetched or unbelievable. Wow, I'm so curious about this whole thing now.
People will choose to fit themselves into whichever catagory they want to be in and ignore anything that doesnt relate to them. There's so much overlap between the catagories, most people can be in most catagories depending on the situation. People just like labels, its like how everyone apparently has self diagnosed OCD.
This just convinced me I’m dating a 3…. And I’m a 2! So I’m glad Rhett and Jessie seem to work!
Well don't forget, they are incredibly rich. If you're rich: it makes any relationship SO much easier.
@@DutchGuyMike they have been friends since childhood I don’t think their wealth is relevant in regard to their relationship
@@Carpettimepod Oh yes, because not having a lot of wealth means conflict. There are SO MANY friendships and relationships that have ended because of the troubles and depression that having not a lot of money brings forth. You have a lot of money? You can do what you want and thus keep in contact with the one close to you.
I am a 2 and it’s me to a T. I could identify with 99% of it, how freaking crazy is that x
49:39 missed opportunity to make a "human vacuum cleaner" joke.
i’m the biggest type four so i’m excited to hear about your guys’ results
Ive listened to this one so many times of the podcast app. I discovered im a 9 thanks to you guys and it just explains so so much. Thank tou
I am a 6 - waiting to hear about Links wife next week!
TYPE 9 with 1 mixed. Almost scary how true it is. But gonna only look at it as fun 🥰
Well it *is* true, but also fun!
I identified SO much with everything Rhett says in this podcast - I'm technically a 7 (the enthusiast) but I scored super high on 3 as well. I so relate to the need to be valuable, I've felt this my entire life with a hunger for success and growth but have definitely noticed I have an unhealthy relationship with workaholism! Unlike Rhett, I feel like mine comes from a weird inner standard I have set for myself but I do relate to even the smallest tasks feeling like a performance 😂 this was so enlightening, thank you for making me feel more normal Rhett
I've been waiting for this!!! I'm an SX enneagram four with a five wing! I totally guessed both of their types before watching. I love hearing about it all from their perspective!!
I’m a 3 and I resonated SO MUCH with everything Rhett said.
I've never known anyone who tested as a 3 on the Enneagram so hearing Rhett talk about his experiences as a 3 is fascinating.
I don't know what I am even after taking six different free Enneagram tests so seeing everyone in the comments and hearing about Rhett and Link talk about their results and experiences is rough, but also interesting. All I know is that I'm 100% NOT a 6.
I just did the RHETI test again and scored 24 for type 3 and 23 got type 1. This episode will be so useful to me.
Rhett is making me realize that 3 is on my tritype. Each zone 8/9/1, 2/3/4, 5/6/7 are related to a center, body/anger, image/sadness, head/fear respectively, the idea of the Tritype is that you can operate out of 1 from each depending depending on your emotional state and the base fears for each. You still have a base that you operate out of more, but each can have a certain level of influence depending on the person. I'm a 9/5/3, but not sure about the order. Before you ask 9 is anger, for nines it's suppressed and or internalized, self oppression rather than externalized anger 8s, other oppression, or environmental anger 1's anger over controling the environment through perfection in rules and outcomes. Each area is similar. Sadness or image 2's helping others, 3's internalized sadness /image , 4's environmental, show image through being unique thus they are artist. Etc