The Hidden PSYCHOLOGY of why They YELL

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024

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  • @Jodywithawhy
    @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +8

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  • @bobobob5108
    @bobobob5108 Год назад +103

    I was told by a veteran that they yell because if you can’t handle a little yelling then there’s no way you can handle war

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +21

      He’s not lying.

    • @GreatOldOne9866
      @GreatOldOne9866 Год назад +7

      Training and being in the army is one thing, I would take yelling. I won’t tolerate it where it isn’t called for.

    • @majikslim82
      @majikslim82 11 месяцев назад +1

      War?? Hell, you couldn't even handle a night out

    • @lokki874
      @lokki874 7 месяцев назад +5

      I dont take that. My grandpa was ww2 veteran. He told that officer is first on attack and last who left position and cover his unit safe retreat. There is no need of yelling. Personal bravery and medals for that tell other soldiers that they will be ok on battlefield and officer know what he is teaching. Officers also did put them medals on when there was major battle coming. 1941-43 their battalion took 90% WIA rate for men and Officer 50% Kia rate. Also officers eat last what is left.

    • @GreatOldOne9866
      @GreatOldOne9866 6 месяцев назад

      @Mindtrix2 you’re more tolerant than I am lol

  • @jorgitozor
    @jorgitozor Год назад +36

    My mother was a drill instructor without knowing it

  • @mojo_joju
    @mojo_joju 29 дней назад +1

    Yeah, that makes a lot of sense.
    I used to work as a chef for 10 years, and it completely desensitized me to screaming and shouting.
    It really helped when I worked security, and it’s a very useful (but extremely hard to learn) skill to have

  • @martykhan2816
    @martykhan2816 Год назад +12

    After 40 years, I still remember my Training Instructor (TIs) names ... incredible mentors. I understood their roles and that me to get the most from my TIs. MK, Ret. Col.

  • @Fordring1776
    @Fordring1776 11 месяцев назад +14

    Hi, I recently graduated BMT!
    The yelling was on-and-off throughout the weeks of training. One of our MTIs stopped because she straight up lost her voice at the beginning, and they gradually stopped yelling as our skills improved and idiotry decreased. Pretty much if you did what you were supposed to do, you werent yelled at as an individual.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  11 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks for the insight. That’s gonna help people. 🤙🏽

  • @mjisurdad
    @mjisurdad Год назад +11

    Got used to yelling after like day 3. By the end of week 1 no one even looked up when someone was be ripped apart.

    • @timothyfloyd3269
      @timothyfloyd3269 23 дня назад

      hmm that sounds like brain washing threw yelling. technically there no need to yell they punish you with things like drop and give me fifty latrine duty ECT. yelling is just to brain wash you. its proven effective. humans are instinctively alert to loud noises like all living things.

  • @wadner8119
    @wadner8119 Год назад +10

    If you were my drill sergeant, I would be super scared cause they say the quiet ones be the worst. You dnt give tht tough drill sergeant vibe thts why.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +3

      I’ll tell you right now, drill sergeant would be a nightmare job for me. To yell all day would really go against my peace. Lol.

  • @olesaarellano1183
    @olesaarellano1183 Год назад +12

    Love the shirt! Love your videos. I’m waiting to ship out to air force bootcamp at the end of May. Your videos give me great motivation for a positive experience. Thank you Jody 👊🏼

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +4

      I’m so glad I could help you along the way and thank you for supporting me. I’m wishing you good luck in basic. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @GreatOldOne9866
    @GreatOldOne9866 Год назад +1

    That thumbnail has to be the greatest thing I’ve ever seen in my life 🤣🤣🤣

  • @tayninh69
    @tayninh69 2 месяца назад +1

    I was drafted into the army back in January 1969. I don't think I ever heard a drill sergeant talk in a normal voice. They yelled at us from the time we got out of bed until the time we crawled back into bed. If you fell asleep during a lecture you would wake up to getting a slap on the back of your head and screaming into your ear.

  • @TheKoryoMusa
    @TheKoryoMusa Год назад +16

    My drill Sgt at BMT yelled in my ear for 15-20 straight seconds because I jumped when he yelled at another trainee behind me in the lunch line.
    I haven’t had complete silence in that ear since. My doctor told me I have tinnitus on that ear.
    Thanks I guess. Guess I get 10% disability once I leave the service

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +6

      That’s terrible. I hope you get your disability. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @bblplss
    @bblplss Год назад +4

    keep goin Jody!

  • @raikenly9134
    @raikenly9134 Год назад +5

    @Jodywithawhy,
    I would like to thank you for all the helps that you have provided me throughout your videos. Last week I pass successfully PICAT test and yesterday I passed the verification test. Now I'm waiting MEPS date for a physical exam. You has being my inspiration and my information source. One last thing, I got 4 years of college but I need to get those transcripts. Could you please post a link for some suggestions? Thanks!!!

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад

      Congrats on passing the ASVAB. I’m glad I could help you through the process so far. I don’t what your mean by share link for some suggestions. Suggestions about how to get your transcripts or about which jobs you can do?

    • @raikenly9134
      @raikenly9134 Год назад

      @@Jodywithawhy Suggestions about how to get my transcripts. I think there is a video where you explain about commissioned officers.

  • @Jake-be9ji
    @Jake-be9ji 11 месяцев назад +2

    Use our diaphragm to protect the throat 😂 girl your voice is hoarse for life now 😂

  • @davidmyers989
    @davidmyers989 Год назад +3

    I can't remember one of my T.I.'s names but as a 40+ year old man, if they threatened me today like they did back then, they wouldn't threaten anyone anymore. I'm still angry. I was a good kid, but sure learned I was not on the good guys team fast

    • @Frezri69
      @Frezri69 8 месяцев назад

      The US army is a joke. They think they help the world. With what?

  • @normal_human24
    @normal_human24 Год назад +4

    Love your content, I’ll be heading to training in august and your videos have helped me a lot in the process. Only thing I’m really nervous about is the peanut butter shot due to my fear of needles lmao

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад

      I recommend just turning away and not looking. That’s my biggest tip to people with needle fears. If you watch, that’ll just make it worse. I hope that helps. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse
      @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse 3 месяца назад

      What is a peanut butter shot?

    • @normal_human24
      @normal_human24 3 месяца назад

      @@ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse it's a penicillin shot that everyone gets in BMT, big ass needle filled with a thick ass medicine

    • @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse
      @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse 3 месяца назад

      @@normal_human24 oooooooooh, gotcha!! Thank you for answering me!! I appreciate it!! 🥰🥰

  • @DarkTaylick
    @DarkTaylick Год назад +4

    I wanna hear the story of how do you manage to bake a cake while on an AC-130 being winchestered (is that a word?) twice I’m curious now unless it’s classified than it’s all good

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +14

      I’m still trying to figure it out myself. 😂 She would bake all the time too. The AC130U has like a small oven in it, mostly used for warming up canned food or frozen meals. But she would somehow manage to use it for baking cakes. Every time she would come back from a big mission, she’d come out the plane and say “I made cake boys”. 😂😂 I wish I were lying to you.

  • @c_ourier6
    @c_ourier6 Год назад +2

    Love your vids Jody! Think you can do a video on the LEAD program or the path from enlisted to a cadet in the Air Force Academy?

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад

      I can try. I’d have to do some deep research first.

  • @TaintedSt187
    @TaintedSt187 4 месяца назад +2

    See… Marines still yell like that to other Marines… just because he/she is a lance corporal holding the billet of a Corporal and needs to remind that boot camp P.F.C. that he/she is NOT AT ALL CLOSE to their rank and authority. Don’t hate the truth. And yes, I agree, that’s a very toxic work environment.

  • @sasaha8389
    @sasaha8389 Месяц назад

    i will run out crying lol

  • @jamesalvarez890
    @jamesalvarez890 Год назад +6

    Sadly , the yelling, similar to the shark attack, is a thing of the past. It confused me at first, but then I figured out it was all part of the process. Good times.

  • @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse
    @ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse 3 месяца назад

    I’m thinking about joining the navy, going to my initial interview tomorrow. I’m not going to lie, the boot camp and yelling make me nervous… 🥺🥺

  • @mariar9201
    @mariar9201 Год назад +5

    Hi, Jody! I’m such a fan of yours, i’m aspiring to enlist in the air force, but I am scared that I will get permanently rejected for a simple surgical procedure that I had long time ago. Will I get rejected? Thank you and have a wonderful day.

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +2

      Hey Maria,
      I honestly couldn’t tell you. I can say it would all depend on the medical records and what they say. They’d have to prove whatever surgery occurred, you have recovered 100% since the procedure, with no additional issues. If your records show this, most likely you’ll have a good shot of getting approved. I hope that helps, and gives you the motivation needed to try this process. Good luck. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @heidirobinson3352
    @heidirobinson3352 Год назад +2

    They don't yell so much anymore. (2023)

  • @ryanheaton8742
    @ryanheaton8742 Год назад +1

    I always do.

  • @jamesc8198
    @jamesc8198 Год назад +1

    Maybe i wouldn't have been a fired spark if i learned how to do this prior to class

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад

      Lol. You weren’t fired. 😂😂😂😂😂. Just replaced.

  • @kayiagaulden7710
    @kayiagaulden7710 Год назад +1

    I’m still confused about the cake…WHERE DID SHE GET THE CAKE

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +3

      😂😂😂. The AC130U has like a small oven in it, mostly used for warming up canned food or frozen meals. But she would somehow manage to use it for baking cakes. Every time she would come back from a big mission, she’d come out the plane and say “I made cake boys”. 😂😂 I wish I were lying to you.

    • @kayiagaulden7710
      @kayiagaulden7710 Год назад +1

      @@Jodywithawhy that’s awesome 🤣

  • @SilverDaysFail
    @SilverDaysFail Год назад +1

    Ty

  • @angel_trixie2311
    @angel_trixie2311 Год назад +2

    What do you think about the space force?
    Don't know if you could share your contact with me, would like to discuss some of my recruiting process with you, if you absolutely don't mind 😊

  • @jameskuhnsr3913
    @jameskuhnsr3913 10 месяцев назад

    your a great! you'll Dreat on QUV

  • @noodles6517
    @noodles6517 Год назад +1

    How do they yell so much without losing their voice?

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад

      I yell for two minutes and lose mine. Lol

  • @RZN_23
    @RZN_23 9 месяцев назад

    Yelling or insulting?

  • @Autismlife1975
    @Autismlife1975 Год назад +2

    I think they love losing their voice

  • @moealtarazi7642
    @moealtarazi7642 Год назад +1

    Hey Jody, if I got a LASIK before enlisting, is that a disqualifier?

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +1

      Not necessarily. It would just depend on the records and what they say. Plenty of people have gotten in with LASIK procedures.

    • @9876543216587
      @9876543216587 Год назад +2

      No, I got in with lasik. There is a waiver

  • @DigitalAndInnovation
    @DigitalAndInnovation 4 месяца назад

    2:25 what does he mean by cake?

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  4 месяца назад

      The pilot literally baked a cake while in the air. There’s no secret military language here, just the weirdness of a cake being baked after blowing stuff up. Lol

  • @WaldoRod
    @WaldoRod Месяц назад

    hollywood

  • @agonzalez8924
    @agonzalez8924 Год назад

    If you value your life, dont ever call a marine corps drill instructor a drill sergeant! There is a tremendous difference between an army drill sergeant and a marine corps drill instructor; and most of the clips shown here were of marine corps drill instructors.
    Calling a DI a drill sergeant are like fighting words

  • @alanwylie7207
    @alanwylie7207 Год назад

    Do drill sergeant still yell in 2023? Like right now?

    • @Jodywithawhy
      @Jodywithawhy  Год назад +1

      They still do. Just not like it was back in the day

  • @jaywoods2821
    @jaywoods2821 Год назад +4

    I totally disagree. You do not need to yell at people to get them to do what you want them to do. You can be firm without yelling. This needs to be changed.

    • @hectorzeroni7860
      @hectorzeroni7860 4 месяца назад

      Disagree about what? The facts? Goodluck.

  • @candyboy144
    @candyboy144 Месяц назад

    Thumbs down. Doesn't deliver promise of title.

  • @heidirobinson3352
    @heidirobinson3352 Год назад +1

    I hope our USA Military won't ever draft women. 😢

  • @Frezri69
    @Frezri69 8 месяцев назад

    Its so cringe.😅😅😅

  • @Zombeh
    @Zombeh Год назад +2

    just know if u have the same name of someone from the cycle before youre ass is grass lol . my DS was all over my ass but it was funny. loved my time at BCT