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@@luciaantongarcia894 I absolutely agree ♥️ you are a good soul Gerald there will happier days with lots of sunshine! Maybe you should move to Italy, more family, more support , more respect and your children would miss you and value your presence and teachings more!
Well done for calling them out Gerald, it's too easy for others to focus on other people's lives who are being open and honest. They will judge them instead of looking at their own stuff which no doubt they have if they were being as open and honest about their lives as you are.
I love how you love ❤ your ma and pa ❤ You have so much appreciation for the love 💕 they gave you . Kids today are so entitled. You wanted to have me , well then you owe me ...keep paying for me . I hear that from alot of parents 😢😢😢😢😢 You are a good son 👍
Life is very unfair Gerald! I enjoy your videos!!! My daughter has Mental illness& I understand what your going through!!! I have Lupus& Psoriatic arthritis,so I get annoyed with Family. Look after yourself !! The struggles you talk about are real!!! Much love to you from Ontario Canada. Stress is a Killer!!!😽🐶🐶Enjoy your Dogs!!!
By the way you are so lovely and gentle with your son, even respecting his mother.. however as much as that little boy is independent of thought… he doesn’t follow his dad’s simple instructions and it’s a sign of disrespect. It’s not serious but why do children not follow instructions these days?
Try to understand that most of the children that were part of a divorce, sometimes have this problem, specially when they see the mother or the father at least once a month!. Let me tell you when they spend with one of then only vacation, my God!. It could be worst, because they only think in having fun and then good bye!. Gerald is an amazing gentleman!. The ex - wife is part of this. Near or far " being respectfull " is the best way ever!.❤🫡🤔. Thank you for sharing here!. Buy to him a cup of Coffee!☕️
@@YvonnePatiñoOrdaz I can just about buy myself a cup of coffee thank you, you buy him a coffee .. practice what you preach ( I hope) I think it’s very condescending that you say 'try to understand' I do understand you have no idea of my life story thank you, what I’ve been through and what I’m going through and what’s in my wallet.
@cece2518 understanding and my apologizes if i hurt to you !. But, you know " Who knows about others ". I Just gave an answer!. As i said to Gerald life is up and down!. Everyone has different ploblems others no. But you know Just go ahead with your life as well as you can. Thank you!🤗😉
Gero nobody knows anything if they haven't walked in your shoes for a day.... hope you got your pressies delivered okay ... and you ARE a lovely person and you looked after your mummy and daddy nobody could ask for more , never justify to anyone why you were a loving son... Live n hugs xx ( sue from Devon) can you show us a video on your beautiful dogs , l loved seeing them from newborn pups 😊 xx
Hello Sue, I will do a video of them soon, they are big especially Dave is Huge and Bob, Timmy and Betty are always close to me and Sally is like a hare running around everywhere with ears pulled back, pressies? I will look, not sure what pressies tho.
@@gerofiore9695 be lovely to see video on dogs they're lovely , it says on my amazon email the gifts off your amazon wish list were delivered already 😀 if not let me know and l will chase them up 7th November is my confirmation date xx
Comments like that are based on Pure Ignorance! Nobody has a right to Judge anyone and as I said the love and care you showed you’re Parents is admirable 💗
Compared to the West, some eastern cultures like India are more functional and Natural regarding family. Your experience was similar to Indian families, and it healthier than the western culture where children leave and often rare see their parents/grandparents (or emigrate looking for those 'green' faraway hills).
Wow this Patricia really got you upset, and that’s sad you let her get to you. There will always be nasty troll people. You have to learn to just ignore these people, because it will make your blood pressure go up and trolls are not worth you getting sick over what nasty things they say. Gerald never be ashamed of who you are. And you don’t have to explain to these people because no matter what trolls won’t listen. Take care, keep a smile on your face, ❤
Gerald I appreciated your impassioned plea in defence of the clearly loving and mutually respectful relationship you had with your parents. Your points about what they choose to do with their money and how you manage finances were cogent. The moaning troll is commented on areas that are none of their business. I would request you remove the women hating comments I have seen here and encourage you to block nonconstructive criticism. Good luck with your future endeavours.
You are obviously a very intelligent person, I know, I have slipped on the leaves and and dropped into the big muddy puddle hole, I hope I can understand
Great analogy with the forest with beautiful trees and some very bad ones. Some people are so cruel and why - they haven’t empathy. They should thank their lucky stars and not be cruel to those who experience what they haven’t experienced. You have the courage of a lion while those naysayers can’t appreciate you are helping others who feel this way too. You make me laugh too, thanks.
This video is very sad to listen to 😢 How dare people decide it’s their responsibility to slag you off on a social media platform. We all have problems, mental health is cruel, I know because I’m a sufferer too. Nobody knows what it’s like because we’re all different. You put your dogs and your children first, middle and last. Trolls are vicious. Who knows that those comments could push you over the edge. If it keeps on, name and shame them completely, you’ve got so many genuine followers they will really go to town on them. Please look after yourself you’re not looking too well. xxx
This is depressing me just listening ,we can never do right in this life sometimes people are so envious that it sickens me. I've had my share. People wanna see you struggle put the shoe on the other foot and then oh it's okay. I can't take those type of teacher , judgmental, women out there be the first to split up families. Tell her to go where the sun don't shine.
Again thank you for your content! Always enjoy the authentic quality of it! By the way, just an idea. You can do an experiment. What happens if you do feed one of your dogs some very cheap caviar? It would be funny and produce a laugh back at the trolls ! :) As an African American shared with me years ago, 'keep fighting the good fight' !
thing is this is RUclips you put it out there ppl will comment their opinions and you may not like them but its not a therapy session. I'm sure ppl like to say "don't say bad things" they are not bad things everyone is different its just words that person believes no one is the same
Social media is full of people who judge and who think they know it all! They're right and everybody else is wrong. Arrogant and immature. Don't give them air time Gero. Simply ignore them.
Ah people who have those comments about inheritance are likely only jealous. Its impossible for anyone to avoid these people, but just turn your attention elsewhere as there are far more positive people around then negative :)
Your jumpers and beard and skin tone always look fresh and clean. Nobody would know how deep in the dark you may be. I am a fruit by the way .. all fruits have benefits. Might not always taste good.. some bitter and some too sweet.😉
I'm sorry but social anxiety sufferers are usually not well enough to fly half way round the world by themselves in order to find a relationship. Something does not add up here.
@@davidmatthews9088 Fly, rail, sail, whatever. People with crippling social anxiety don't travel alone to unfamiliar places and cultures looking for s.., sorry, love. They usually struggle to walk to the pub at the end of the street.
@ has it occurred to you that the severity of a condition like social anxiety may vary over time and manifest itself in different ways. Come on man. Open up the box a bit. Show some intelligence
That person used the tool very well-known to her/ him. Otherwise the tool called SHAME wouldn't be thrown at you Gerald. You are very generous person, thank you for your channel. That person probably should go through THERAPY 😊 MONIKA
@@jillmartin5734 There is a difference between a person saying they disagree and think he not on the right track and others saying he is a loser or Shame on you, one is a opinion the other is hate and abuse, Im sure you know the difference, right? There are actual laws against this abuse. Karen is right!
@@TravelPlaces-yo2sq everyone has an opinion, I keep my business to myself for that exact reason, as everyone has their own opinion, don’t air your dirty laundry to the public. Remember that saying , back in the day now every Tom, dick and Harry is all over the internet spewing their opinions and talking about their life , I choose not to , but don’t expect people to always agree with you or not to be judgmental, it’s a mean harsh world now and I still value my privacy even if others do not ..
@@jillmartin5734 This is why laws against abuse exist, you are allowed to talk about your mental health issues online without being abused if he also wants to talk about his life in so doing 'airing his dirty laundry' as you so eloquently put it, then its his or her right, being thick-skinned isn't the same as having to accept verbal abuse, if you or anybody have a right to hurl abuse or tell him the 'truth' then he has the right to not engage surely or does he have to engage as well and be 'thick-skinned' what if his depression doesn't allow him to be thick-skinned? Oh I see now, he should shut the F up if he can't take the flack, lets remember that when a woman wants to air her concerns or 'laundry' about her husband abusing her or being bullied at work, or lets remember your words when a black person feels discriminated against, tell them they should be thick skinned, one rule for me but not for thee.
Except he puts all his PRIVATE stuff online constantly, including invading his family's privacy in the process. If he chooses to do this,he as an adult has to face the consequences of his choices. He's not a kid, he's almost 60yo. Nobody is forcing him to put all his most private bits online. So he has to be prepared for other people's input, or don't post online. It's simple. We can't control other people's responses to what we choose to put out into the world. I've been in his situation a few times, have walked that walk. I didn't put my.most private bits online.
I have tried but with my problems with histamine intolerance, gluten and dairy intolerance, I only eat a few fresh foods to lentils normal bread peanut butter etc
,You have nothing to apologize for, Gerald. You don't even need to offer a defense. You were fortunate to have good parents. That's what family is supposed to do. Those who are critical hate the idea of a traditional family. They'd rather us all be orphans of the state.
Gerald, I'm so sorry you're dealing with all the hatred online. It's THE reason I haven't posted any videos about what I really want to talk about - what's really on my heart. I don't want to get emotionally stabbed. I'm vulnerable right now. I'm glad you've protected yourself by having someone else read your comments. It's definitely what I would have to do if I talked about what I'm really going through. People who have never had depression just don't understand. They won't until they've gone through it themselves. Honestly, I think a lot of people criticizing others with depression would be blindsided by it if it happened to them. You could have the perfect parents and still have depression, but that seems like an impossible thing for some people to understand. I'm going to add you to my prayer list. I hope you feel the good feels coming your way every morning. 🫂🌻
Let me understand one thing: if you inherit money from your parents than you have to split them with your divorced wife? Is it really like that? I thought that money made outside the marriage (like an inheritance) would not be considered in the divorce settlement.
@@giovannig4369 Gerald file for divorce first and make sure you it the court/ judge know it’s been a sexless marriage after the children, it may work in your favour.
Lol, no one is getting out of this alive. Lol.relax.ypu don't check ure comment section? Yet you commented on a commenter. Wish I d best, but enough already. There's only so much anyway of us can listen to whoa me.
Your brain saying do more , but your body saying slow down , mutch thinking is , is wast of time just enjoy, liffe , go to balls for older man ,just party', party
Right! Get a moderator so you don't have to see the truth. If something is actually wrong, get help otherwise you're wallowing in self pity. The people here agreeing with you aren't helping you. I only feel for your wife and kids. They're the ones who really need help.
What truth is that? Your truth? How do you know his kids need help? The ppl agreeing with him are helping him, you obviously have no idea what trolls can do to a person's mental health, 'I only feel for his wife and kids' is abusive and a troll comment, there is a fine line here and you know that fine line unless English is your 2nd or 3rd language
I feel my comment will seem like a troll comment but it is not. I am so frustrated with the fact that nobody not one soul! ( unless their comment has been removed) is not identifying that the cause of this man’s depression is lack of intimacy. Wetness on the tip, deep or gentle kisses are amiss, lips tangled and entwined and body reaching ecstasy….. this man’s wife has neglected her husband and in the eyes of the law that can make the marriage null and void. It’s wrong. Yu are a man Gerald and you are not old! You deserve love and tangles and kisses
@ how can you be lost? A healthy, strong, attractive straight man has not had sxx or intimacy for 17 years and he’s depressed ???.. he doesn’t need artificial serotonin or antidepressants he needs the bosom, loins, lips and affection of a good decent WOMAN. IF you are Gerarld’s wife you have neglected your husband and taken away his prime years. It’s wrong on every level.
@@cece2518 Because you don't really know what you're talking about. Your just spewing out sub-par Babara Cartland nonsense. How do you know that Gero isn't impossible to live with, and that his wife has done everything in her power to make the relationship work? You don't know the marriage dynamic, only Gero does!
@@adamhughes4442 yes exactly. You don’t know either. If you watch his videos he has shared that he has not had ANY intimacy in 17 years and has not had sxx with his wife in 17 years. He hasn’t been touched by another woman so how am I spewing out nonsense? I tell you something. You better listen up. If he was impossible to live with why didn’t she divorce him years ago??? If he is that horrible why doesn’t she file legal separation and move on?? Because she is a control freak controlling Gero’s or Gerald’s money knowing his vulnerabilities and she knows she can’t get a man because she’s a hoarder doesn’t clean or cook and has three kids and past it.. that’s facts. What kind of woman stays with a non abusive man for nearly two decades and doesn’t make love to him? How can he be impossible to live with when she controls the money make it make sense! Every man deserves a wife that makes his manhood matter. Don’t be a simp!
The singer is Nicky youre!. And there is another song that we love " eyes on you". Why?. Because we love to watch your videos!. We are learning a lot about mental health troubles!. Thank you!. You are not the only one with depression!. We are with you Sir!.👀🤩
Shame on you!. Why?. Let me tell you something life is always up and down!. The human beings are not perfect . We have to accept ourselves as we are and try to do things better as possible!. Trolls!🧟♂️🧟♀️🧟🧌🤢?. As i told you before " haters shouldn't exist because no one is forced to watch your videos!. So?. Try to go ahead, that's all. Thank you Sir!🫡🫡🫡🫡😉😁💚💯👌
Many trolls trying to get mad at you!. 🤣🤣🤣🤣😁😄!. . It's not fun because we are talking about a very serious topic!. But you know sometimes we have to laugh about !.thank you Sir!. Yessss , your videos are good!.
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@@gerofiore9695 thank you for all your videos Sir!🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡💚💯👌
@gerofiore9695 hope you got your gifts gero love sue ( devon) 😊 x
You are a beautiful soul. That's something everybody can see. Don't give in. We love your videos
Grazie
@@luciaantongarcia894 I absolutely agree ♥️ you are a good soul Gerald there will happier days with lots of sunshine! Maybe you should move to
Italy, more family, more support , more respect and your children would miss you and value your presence and teachings more!
I agree 🙏🏻
Absolutely. No one is forced to watch a video!. Why heaters?. We are here because the videos of Gerald are good!. Sorry Patricia 🤔!
@@cece2518 Unfortunately I don't family now in Italy, my parents passed away, thankyou for your kind words
Well done for calling them out Gerald, it's too easy for others to focus on other people's lives who are being open and honest. They will judge them instead of looking at their own stuff which no doubt they have if they were being as open and honest about their lives as you are.
ur blessed u had a good relationship w ur parents. so many people dont.
I love how you love ❤ your ma and pa ❤
You have so much appreciation for the love 💕 they gave you .
Kids today are so entitled. You wanted to have me , well then you owe me ...keep paying for me .
I hear that from alot of parents 😢😢😢😢😢
You are a good son 👍
You’re looking good for 57, I can tell you’re healthier than in your previous videos. Keep up the good work.
Life is very unfair Gerald! I enjoy your videos!!! My daughter has Mental illness& I understand what your going through!!! I have Lupus& Psoriatic arthritis,so I get annoyed with Family. Look after yourself !! The struggles you talk about are real!!! Much love to you from Ontario Canada. Stress is a Killer!!!😽🐶🐶Enjoy your Dogs!!!
This is a great video I haven’t watched to the end but I really admire this guy and he has many valid points very bright.
By the way you are so lovely and gentle with your son, even respecting his mother.. however as much as that little boy is independent of thought… he doesn’t follow his dad’s simple instructions and it’s a sign of disrespect. It’s not serious but why do children not follow instructions these days?
Try to understand that most of the children that were part of a divorce, sometimes have this problem, specially when they see the mother or the father at least once a month!. Let me tell you when they spend with one of then only vacation, my God!. It could be worst, because they only think in having fun and then good bye!. Gerald is an amazing gentleman!. The ex - wife is part of this. Near or far " being respectfull " is the best way ever!.❤🫡🤔. Thank you for sharing here!. Buy to him a cup of Coffee!☕️
@@YvonnePatiñoOrdaz I can just about buy myself a cup of coffee thank you, you buy him a coffee .. practice what you preach ( I hope) I think it’s very condescending that you say 'try to understand' I do understand you have no idea of my life story thank you, what I’ve been through and what I’m going through and what’s in my wallet.
@cece2518 understanding and my apologizes if i hurt to you !. But, you know " Who knows about others ". I Just gave an answer!. As i said to Gerald life is up and down!. Everyone has different ploblems others no. But you know Just go ahead with your life as well as you can. Thank you!🤗😉
Your a sound bloke and speak with a lot of sense, I share a lot of what you feel and say
@@stephensmith1402 perfect comment 💯 true
Excellent explanations Gerald.
Brilliant.
Gero nobody knows anything if they haven't walked in your shoes for a day.... hope you got your pressies delivered okay ... and you ARE a lovely person and you looked after your mummy and daddy nobody could ask for more , never justify to anyone why you were a loving son... Live n hugs xx ( sue from Devon) can you show us a video on your beautiful dogs , l loved seeing them from newborn pups 😊 xx
Hello Sue, I will do a video of them soon, they are big especially Dave is Huge and Bob, Timmy and Betty are always close to me and Sally is like a hare running around everywhere with ears pulled back, pressies? I will look, not sure what pressies tho.
@@gerofiore9695 be lovely to see video on dogs they're lovely , it says on my amazon email the gifts off your amazon wish list were delivered already 😀 if not let me know and l will chase them up 7th November is my confirmation date xx
you are spot on with the lady. She is likely unhappy with her own parents.
Try not to care what other people think it's hard but it's their issue some don't understand you are a lovely man sending hugs ✨🕊️☘️
Comments like that are based on Pure Ignorance! Nobody has a right to Judge anyone and as I said the love and care you showed you’re Parents is admirable 💗
Compared to the West, some eastern cultures like India are more functional and Natural regarding family. Your experience was similar to Indian families, and it healthier than the western culture where children leave and often rare see their parents/grandparents (or emigrate looking for those 'green' faraway hills).
Wow this Patricia really got you upset, and that’s sad you let her get to you. There will always be nasty troll people. You have to learn to just ignore these people, because it will make your blood pressure go up and trolls are not worth you getting sick over what nasty things they say. Gerald never be ashamed of who you are. And you don’t have to explain to these people because no matter what trolls won’t listen. Take care, keep a smile on your face, ❤
Wow that lady ,no one has the right to judge
Take care 🍀☘️
Gerald I appreciated your impassioned plea in defence of the clearly loving and mutually respectful relationship you had with your parents. Your points about what they choose to do with their money and how you manage finances were cogent. The moaning troll is commented on areas that are none of their business. I would request you remove the women hating comments I have seen here and encourage you to block nonconstructive criticism. Good luck with your future endeavours.
You are obviously a very intelligent person, I know, I have slipped on the leaves and and dropped into the big muddy puddle hole, I hope I can understand
I identify with Gerald. I love that man, Gerald. (Only platonic love of course) Gerald is the coolest RUclipsr on the block.
Great analogy with the forest with beautiful trees and some very bad ones. Some people are so cruel and why - they haven’t empathy. They should thank their lucky stars and not be cruel to those who experience what they haven’t experienced. You have the courage of a lion while those naysayers can’t appreciate you are helping others who feel this way too. You make me laugh too, thanks.
This video is very sad to listen to 😢
How dare people decide it’s their responsibility to slag you off on a social media platform.
We all have problems, mental health is cruel, I know because I’m a sufferer too.
Nobody knows what it’s like because we’re all different. You put your dogs and your children first, middle and last. Trolls are vicious. Who knows that those comments could push you over the edge. If it keeps on, name and shame them completely, you’ve got so many genuine followers they will really go to town on them.
Please look after yourself you’re not looking too well. xxx
This is depressing me just listening ,we can never do right in this life sometimes people are so envious that it sickens me. I've had my share. People wanna see you struggle put the shoe on the other foot and then oh it's okay. I can't take those type of teacher , judgmental, women out there be the first to split up families. Tell her to go where the sun don't shine.
Again thank you for your content! Always enjoy the authentic quality of it! By the way, just an idea. You can do an experiment. What happens if you do feed one of your dogs some very cheap caviar? It would be funny and produce a laugh back at the trolls ! :) As an African American shared with me years ago, 'keep fighting the good fight' !
thing is this is RUclips you put it out there ppl will comment their opinions and you may not like them but its not a therapy session. I'm sure ppl like to say "don't say bad things" they are not bad things everyone is different its just words that person believes no one is the same
Social media is full of people who judge and who think they know it all! They're right and everybody else is wrong. Arrogant and immature. Don't give them air time Gero. Simply ignore them.
Wouldn't worry what anyone thinks 😊
Let the comments pass by like clouds
Life sucks no matter what #antinatalism
Ah people who have those comments about inheritance are likely only jealous. Its impossible for anyone to avoid these people, but just turn your attention elsewhere as there are far more positive people around then negative :)
Beard makes you way way better looking bro
You don’t need to explain yourself. No one’s opinion matters but your own.
Your jumpers and beard and skin tone always look fresh and clean. Nobody would know how deep in the dark you may be. I am a fruit by the way .. all fruits have benefits. Might not always taste good.. some bitter and some too sweet.😉
❤ you are so nice ❤
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I'm sorry but social anxiety sufferers are usually not well enough to fly half way round the world by themselves in order to find a relationship. Something does not add up here.
He didn’t fly. He took the train.
@@davidmatthews9088 The force is strong with this one!
@@davidmatthews9088 Fly, rail, sail, whatever. People with crippling social anxiety don't travel alone to unfamiliar places and cultures looking for s.., sorry, love. They usually struggle to walk to the pub at the end of the street.
@@paulmiller9384do you have social anxiety? If your lucky and don’t you have no idea what you’re talking about.
@ has it occurred to you that the severity of a condition like social anxiety may vary over time and manifest itself in different ways. Come on man. Open up the box a bit. Show some intelligence
That person used the tool very well-known to her/ him. Otherwise the tool called SHAME wouldn't be thrown at you Gerald. You are very generous person, thank you for your channel. That person probably should go through THERAPY 😊
MONIKA
Thanks Monika
I get were your coming from ive suffered with social anxiety .it affectss your work no end we shouldn't be judged by having a bullshit a job
I think you can turn comments off
No-one watches videos they can't comment on . No comments = end of channel
@@bobmathews9072 Thats not true, some channels do well without comments
Dear Gerald, your business is your business and no-one else's. God bless you and take NO notice of these so-called trolls.🙏❤️🏴
What? He is on you tube talking about his business, so you have to have a thick skin as everyone has an opinion..
@@jillmartin5734 There is a difference between a person saying they disagree and think he not on the right track and others saying he is a loser or Shame on you, one is a opinion the other is hate and abuse, Im sure you know the difference, right? There are actual laws against this abuse. Karen is right!
@@TravelPlaces-yo2sq everyone has an opinion, I keep my business to myself for that exact reason, as everyone has their own opinion, don’t air your dirty laundry to the public. Remember that saying , back in the day now every Tom, dick and Harry is all over the internet spewing their opinions and talking about their life , I choose not to , but don’t expect people to always agree with you or not to be judgmental, it’s a mean harsh world now and I still value my privacy even if others do not ..
@@jillmartin5734 This is why laws against abuse exist, you are allowed to talk about your mental health issues online without being abused if he also wants to talk about his life in so doing 'airing his dirty laundry' as you so eloquently put it, then its his or her right, being thick-skinned isn't the same as having to accept verbal abuse, if you or anybody have a right to hurl abuse or tell him the 'truth' then he has the right to not engage surely or does he have to engage as well and be 'thick-skinned' what if his depression doesn't allow him to be thick-skinned? Oh I see now, he should shut the F up if he can't take the flack, lets remember that when a woman wants to air her concerns or 'laundry' about her husband abusing her or being bullied at work, or lets remember your words when a black person feels discriminated against, tell them they should be thick skinned, one rule for me but not for thee.
Except he puts all his PRIVATE stuff online constantly, including invading his family's privacy in the process. If he chooses to do this,he as an adult has to face the consequences of his choices.
He's not a kid, he's almost 60yo. Nobody is forcing him to put all his most private bits online. So he has to be prepared for other people's input, or don't post online. It's simple.
We can't control other people's responses to what we choose to put out into the world.
I've been in his situation a few times, have walked that walk. I didn't put my.most private bits online.
I really like you
Thanks
I feel sad you’ve had to vlog this. Block them Bin them and don’t waste a seconds more energy in them. Take care 😞
Hey you look great Gerald
Gerald, you are giving the trolls what they want by getting upset and angry, dont give them any time.
You might need to use local food bank charity and eat very cheap for 3 weeks. Rice and lentils, pasta and a little sauce, toast and peanut butter
I have tried but with my problems with histamine intolerance, gluten and dairy intolerance, I only eat a few fresh foods to lentils normal bread peanut butter etc
You are getting in shape. Dont keep being so negative, at least with the titles of your vids!!
,You have nothing to apologize for, Gerald. You don't even need to offer a defense. You were fortunate to have good parents. That's what family is supposed to do. Those who are critical hate the idea of a traditional family. They'd rather us all be orphans of the state.
Gerald, I'm so sorry you're dealing with all the hatred online. It's THE reason I haven't posted any videos about what I really want to talk about - what's really on my heart. I don't want to get emotionally stabbed. I'm vulnerable right now.
I'm glad you've protected yourself by having someone else read your comments. It's definitely what I would have to do if I talked about what I'm really going through. People who have never had depression just don't understand. They won't until they've gone through it themselves. Honestly, I think a lot of people criticizing others with depression would be blindsided by it if it happened to them.
You could have the perfect parents and still have depression, but that seems like an impossible thing for some people to understand. I'm going to add you to my prayer list. I hope you feel the good feels coming your way every morning. 🫂🌻
Let me understand one thing: if you inherit money from your parents than you have to split them with your divorced wife? Is it really like that? I thought that money made outside the marriage (like an inheritance) would not be considered in the divorce settlement.
No. It has to be split equally - or rather down the middle.
@@giovannig4369 Gerald file for divorce first and make sure you it the court/ judge know it’s been a sexless marriage after the children, it may work in your favour.
Once you marry it's 50/50!
Lol, no one is getting out of this alive. Lol.relax.ypu don't check ure comment section? Yet you commented on a commenter. Wish I d best, but enough already. There's only so much anyway of us can listen to whoa me.
You
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Your brain saying do more , but your body saying slow down , mutch thinking is , is wast of time just enjoy, liffe , go to balls for older man ,just party', party
Geezer .yore looking well mate👍😃👍😃👍😃👍
I have a pool..my wife doesn't swim.
we love you
Right! Get a moderator so you don't have to see the truth. If something is actually wrong, get help otherwise you're wallowing in self pity. The people here agreeing with you aren't helping you. I only feel for your wife and kids. They're the ones who really need help.
The truth is you’ve almost entirely missed the point.
What truth is that? Your truth? How do you know his kids need help? The ppl agreeing with him are helping him, you obviously have no idea what trolls can do to a person's mental health, 'I only feel for his wife and kids' is abusive and a troll comment, there is a fine line here and you know that fine line unless English is your 2nd or 3rd language
@TravelPlaces-yo2sq Are you really this stupid or are you an actor playing a stupid role. You're an enabler.
I feel my comment will seem like a troll comment but it is not. I am so frustrated with the fact that nobody not one soul! ( unless their comment has been removed) is not identifying that the cause of this man’s depression is lack of intimacy. Wetness on the tip, deep or gentle kisses are amiss, lips tangled and entwined and body reaching ecstasy….. this man’s wife has neglected her husband and in the eyes of the law that can make the marriage null and void. It’s wrong. Yu are a man Gerald and you are not old! You deserve love and tangles and kisses
I'm lost!!!!
@ how can you be lost? A healthy, strong, attractive straight man has not had sxx or intimacy for 17 years and he’s depressed ???.. he doesn’t need artificial serotonin or antidepressants he needs the bosom, loins, lips and affection of a good decent WOMAN. IF you are Gerarld’s wife you have neglected your husband and taken away his prime years. It’s wrong on every level.
@@cece2518 Because you don't really know what you're talking about. Your just spewing out sub-par Babara Cartland nonsense. How do you know that Gero isn't impossible to live with, and that his wife has done everything in her power to make the relationship work? You don't know the marriage dynamic, only Gero does!
nahhh!
@@adamhughes4442 yes exactly. You don’t know either. If you watch his videos he has shared that he has not had ANY intimacy in 17 years and has not had sxx with his wife in 17 years. He hasn’t been touched by another woman so how am I spewing out nonsense?
I tell you something. You better listen up. If he was impossible to live with why didn’t she divorce him years ago??? If he is that horrible why doesn’t she file legal separation and move on?? Because she is a control freak controlling Gero’s or Gerald’s money knowing his vulnerabilities and she knows she can’t get a man because she’s a hoarder doesn’t clean or cook and has three kids and past it.. that’s facts. What kind of woman stays with a non abusive man for nearly two decades and doesn’t make love to him? How can he be impossible to live with when she controls the money make it make sense! Every man deserves a wife that makes his manhood matter. Don’t be a simp!
My parents find virtue in hard work. I think that’s pure idiocy. Fuck work. If you can get by without having to work bloody do it.
Focus on positive things . We have a song for you " Sunroof by the singer * youre*. May you listen to this song!. Try to be positive Gerald!🎉❤🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡💯💚👌
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The singer is Nicky youre!. And there is another song that we love " eyes on you". Why?. Because we love to watch your videos!. We are learning a lot about mental health troubles!. Thank you!. You are not the only one with depression!. We are with you Sir!.👀🤩
Shame on you!. Why?. Let me tell you something life is always up and down!. The human beings are not perfect . We have to accept ourselves as we are and try to do things better as possible!. Trolls!🧟♂️🧟♀️🧟🧌🤢?. As i told you before " haters shouldn't exist because no one is forced to watch your videos!. So?. Try to go ahead, that's all. Thank you Sir!🫡🫡🫡🫡😉😁💚💯👌
By the way you looked like that green cartoon on the video " sheck ". 🤢. It's not fun Sir!🤭
I meant "Sreck ".
Oh my God " Shreck "
Fiona is the troll!🤭!
Many trolls trying to get mad at you!. 🤣🤣🤣🤣😁😄!. . It's not fun because we are talking about a very serious topic!. But you know sometimes we have to laugh about !.thank you Sir!. Yessss , your videos are good!.