How MARRIAGE Turns MEN Into BETA MALES
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- In this video man shares his expierience on how his wife cheated on him while they were married and his awakening after divorce.
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#Marriage #AlphaMale #BetaMale
I'm 53, been divorced and living alone since I was 42. Never marrying again, my ex put me through enough. It's nice to come home to an empty house everyday that is mine, silence is golden, enjoying my own company is bliss.
As a 36 yr old man who has never been married, your comment gives me reassurance that I am on the right path!
Thank you for sharing.
I've been divorced twice, so you're not missing a thing. Stay single, my friend.
Travel to other counties enjoy young ladies. So much better things to do then be married especially in the U.S.
33 here, never married. Live alone in my own place. What are your tips for finding the right woman. Is there such a thing?
@@Eserr7856 Tips? I couldn't tell you, I never have found her.
I liked that guy, seemed like a real down to earth chill dude.
No cappin from this man. He’s wise.
@Phil King he learned from his mistakes thats what matters
@Phil King he ain't taking no bs from women no more, he's the one in charge now.
He spoke THE TRUTH. I'm sure he needs VJJ repellent when he goes out. I enjoyed their conversation.
He can come with me to the gun range any time 👌
Why do men avoid marriage nowadays? For the same reason people in jail avoid picking up the soap.
🎯...........🚫🧢
That F bomb
Again!!! Dude do u have to comment in all the videos??? How much $$ do u get???
Well said.
Lol
Gave my ex wife a great life. Retired her 5 yrs into marriage, big house, fancy car, her and my boy needed for nothing, even moved her elderly parents in. Thought I was being good man/husband. Was just a soft beta and she ran over me like a snow plow.
I hate that our family split but I couldn’t take anymore. Now, I spend my time getting jacked and juicy and make money. I have more money than ever and 3-4 chicks a month. My house is my castle and I am lord of all I survey. Like this gentleman, I now take zero BS
Marriage is lethal for men in these times...
The more high value and wealthy you are as a man ...The more dangerous marriage be for you.
True, but marriage doesn't turn men in to Betas.
Majority of men who earn more than 250k a year stay alone.or marry another very wealthy woman who also is very rich.
Nah if you're truly high value its basically obligatory. You won't find many executive or CEO level bachelors and the reason isn't because these men at that level are chumps.
I'm an M.D. radiologist, multi-millionaire in my 30s. Is marriage lethal for me?
@@Re3iRtH why not just be life partners and keep the state out of your relationship.
If she can control you, she’ll never respect you. You have to beat them at their own game and never give them what they want
Kratos of the manosphere 😂 that’s awesome
id honestly danas more kratos. just cuz of that voice. lol.
@@invadernik Agree. If he would only say "boy" 😂
I like that. He does look like Kratos
Nah that's me 😛
"Women weaken legs!"
-Mickey, Rocky's trainer
💯
Now hit that bag til it hoits!!
Women weaken your soul
Goldmill (last name )
Mickey loves ya
I will start this list by stating that NO ONE is entitled to the fruits of YOUR labor.
If you’re considering marriage, please read this first.
1. She will pressure you into marriage, when ironically, she is also more likely to divorce you.
2. If you leave her, you are viewed as a scumbag. If she leaves you, you are viewed as “not good enough.”
3. There is a 50% chance that you will get divorced. If you get divorced, there is a 70% chance that she will initiate the divorce. That means there is a total 35% chance of her leaving you.
4. American courts are biased against men. You will not get to see your kids and will have to pay child support/alimony.
5. During a divorce, she will take half or more of your total assets.
6. You are expected to spend 20% of your total income on an engagement ring.
7. During a divorce, she is not required to return the engagement ring
8. She can accuse you of rape and you will suffer, regardless of whether or not you actually did it.
9. If she rapes you, then no one will take it seriously. If it is vice versa, then all hell breaks loose.
10. She can hit you, and if you hit her back, you will get arrested for domestic violence.
11. She has total monopoly on sex. She chooses when to give you sex.
12. She can use sex as a tool to manipulate you. She will only give you sex if you do things for her.
13. You are expected to satisfy her sexual needs. She is not expected to satisfy your sexual needs.
14. After your first child, your sex life will die.
15. After you split up, the children will be conditioned to almost always blame you.
16. She can badmouth you to your children, causing them to resent you.
17. You are not allowed to tell her what to do because of feminism. But she is still allowed to tell you what to do.
18. If you upset her, she will punish you by emotional manipulation.
19. If you even mess up slightly, you are labeled as a “deadbeat dad/husband.”
20. But if she messes up, you are expected to “accept her flaws.”
21. She will try to change you and get angry if you don’t comply.
22. Women are more likely to get bored of the relationship.
23. Women are more likely to fall out of love.
24. Women marry up. That means you marry down.
25. Woman are taught that marriage is stability. Men are taught that marriage is responsibility.
26. If you get fired and end up unemployed, she will leave you so fast.
27. If you are going through a rough financial period, you will also go through a rough relationship period.
28. Money = sex. No money = no sex. Marriage is legalized prostitution. (Just buy a hooker).
29. If she divorces you and you are worse off financially than her, she still won’t have to pay alimony.
30. You will lose quite a bit of money through marriage: the wedding ceremony, buying her gifts, raising kids, divorce, etc.
31. During marriage, you will have no time for your hobbies. You will be expected to work and “support” your wife all the time.
32. If she doesn’t want to work, you are expected to support her in her decision.
33. If you don’t want to work, you are labeled as lazy and a leech.
34. Chances are, she won’t like your close high-school/college friends.
35. She will expect you to put her above your friends, even close friends that are more like brothers.
36. She will expect you to put her above your parents. She is your highest priority now.
37. If your parents end in poverty/homeless/terminally ill, then she will expect you to put them in a nursing home.
38. If you bring your parents home to live with you, she will leave so fast.
39. If you ever get mildly angry, then you are instantly labeled as “abusive.”
40. If she ever gets angry, then she is just “releasing her emotions.”
41. She will not let you go out with the boys.
42. If you do go out with your friends without her “permission,” expect constant phone calls and resentment when you get home.
43. So. Much. Drama. Expect to hear about how Jimmy broke up with Jenny for hours after work.
44. If you have a flaw, then she can divorce you and make a profit from it.
45. If she has a flaw, then she will still make a profit if you divorce her. It’s basically passive blackmail.
46. If you’re an athletic man, expect to lose all your muscle after getting married. Also expect to gain a lot of fat.
47. If you’re an athletic man, she will secretly resent you for your toned body, which she doesn’t have.
48. If you ever end up terminally ill, she can leave you as you’re considered a burden that will “weigh her down.”
49. If she ever ends up terminally ill, if you leave her, then you are considered a scumbag and selfish.
50. She has a whole posse of girl friends that will support her no matter what shitty actions she takes. They will enable her bad behaviors and vilify you.
There ya go.
There are so many innocent men that are blindly led into marriage like a sheep to slaughter. They do not realize that the whole system is against them.
It is better to die on your feet than live on your knees. It is even better to live on your feet than die on your knees.
You’re a man with free will and independence. Defend that fiercely and let no one command you.
Better lessons than a 4 year college degree 👍
Your comment is absolutely gold.Thank you for the time put in writing it...I only realized about half of your points until now.
Great info and thanx for sharing .....I will be subscribing to your channel 💯✌🏽
@@natedogg1299 salute bro! 🤜🤛
Get out of here!!!! How many times r u gonna comment?
“She did what she wanted to do”
That’s exactly what I said to the counselor when my wife tried to avoid accountability.
That’s one of my biggest complaints: women NEVER take accountability.
they were raised by single moms who need to avoid accountability themselves
Marriage/relationships prevent men from achieving their full potential.
I’m 49, recently divorced, tg no kids and I bought myself a BMW motorcycle, I’m never getting married unless like your guest I find a woman that beats to my BPM ✌🏻🏍✌🏻
R18?
I'm 46 and divorced from my second marriage (sold my r1 to pay for marriage number 2 ) like a total fool .
Saving up myself for a new bike and I agree it's on my terms now and all I see with woman now is big red flags above there heads ...
Big money waister
What kind of bmw motorcycle
@@blakelip3 F 800 GT
I’ve been divorced a little over one year and find myself empty and feel like I lost a purpose. It was a 16 year marriage two kids had the first child way to young, I was 20 she was 18. We were together half of ours lives and grew up struggling to make ends meet for years. Throughout the years of building the stress took a huge toll on me and my family and we grew apart. I feel frequently lost........thanks for reading
Check out "Coach Greg Adams" live the "Free Agent Lifestyle" for a while my friend. Things will become clearer... your around 36 years of age so your just reaching your peak in potential. This divorce was a blessing in disguise for you. You will find this out in the near future... Good Luck 🍻
Dam my man I think I just divorced today.. I feel lost
same here. However, I so happy now. I work out, work on myself, support the growth of my children. Good luck
@@jetpark3743 how do are ur kids bro
Lift weights. It gets better with time. Give it another year and you’ll feel better.
My father said never take advice from my mother how to get women. He said ask your dad.
It's so important to talk to your kids about this stuff and let them know how serious it is that choosing the wrong girl WILL ruin your life. My son gets it, he doesn't date at all
Boredom is the death nail for a woman in a relationship. No matter what he does, if she is bored, it will end badly.
HOLY MEATBALLS NO WONDER WHY GIRLS LIKE ME I NEVER MAKE THEM BORED BECAUSE I ACT LIKE A CONSTANT ASS IM FAILING UPWARDS TO SUCCESS. Yo it all good not to get married girls are complicated so your telling my constant jokes and talking like a machoman when deep down in my soul I just like being a quiet nice guy holy crap baskets no wonder why girls like me Yall allah.
"You can't ask for better if I don't look better."
That's power words.
He hit the nail on the head there about if a woman really likes you, you shouldn't have to be the one that always reaches out and she never does. If she doesn't, she just isn't that into you, to be honest... I'm currently entangled a little bit with a girl just like that. She never reaches out, so it's prob time to let it go.
Just don't message her. If she reaches out with "hey"... That's the most she's willing to do. Cut that off
Run man
girls actually like to do a bit of the chasing.. that's why you gotta back off sometimes.. if she has burning desire for you, she'll reach out.... if she doesn't reach well you doged an early bullet
@Edwoods Philosophy Bro I haven't been able to smash yet, that's the sad part. She's always interested whenever I see her and want to cuddle and stuff lol but there's never a chance to smash since there are always other people around. Never met here alone lel
Hard to let go but probably better off, time to move on meet new people, life’s a journey
Notice how the man said, I can't ask for better if I don't do / act better. That logic and reason does not exist in the female thinking and that's a major problem that us men have to deal with.
Stay free. Stay alive. Stay single.
Need more of Dana on your show, dude is a good example of what our endgoal should be.
It's not just marriage, LTR's can beta-ize men too. My friend has been with the same girl for almost 14 years and shows clear signs of being broken down. He calls her darling way too often and she has him doing stuff that he should be saying no to. He's admitted to being unhappy but sticks around because of their kids.
Dam this hits me on a personal level no lie
Wake that guy up.
Honestly bro like u said he sticks around for his kids maybe because the kids are young if I'm assuming correctly.. So his heart is to them and figuring that if he were to leave his kids will be sad and the little things he would see at home and the spending time with them would be gone in a sense.. Kids don't know what adults are going through. Depending on age most kids it's all sunshine and rainbows and the thought of their parents being seperated or unhappy doesn't cross their mind.. To me it seems like your friend is gonna ride it out until his kids are of a grown age they would actually understand better.. I'm just assuming here.. I can guarantee u that if there was no kids their marriage he would of jumped out of the relationship in an instant.. He seems like a great father to his kids. Wouldn't be surprised if down the road he pulls the divorce plug... It's cheaper too knowing that at a certain age no child support would be involved if wifey goes after that..
If you're in an LTR and have already moved in, you're pretty much married.
@@abadgianluca Yeah, well it also depends on where you live. But obviously inviting the state into your house via marriage contract on top of that makes it even worse..
A great example of what MEN should look like, sound like, act, communicate & engage. Brilliant gentlemen.
Having principles isolates you. Never apologise or feel sorry for having high morals!
I can’t even imagine a marriage working in today’s world. Women literally have all the power, and most know that. How can any relationship work when one side can do whatever they want?
In fairness woman have been screaming that for years. Marriage is an institution that should go away. However government won’t let that happen I believe because they need soldiers (your children) to fight their wars. Marriage will increase the chances of procreation
@@gmrrnracr Oh good.
@@gmrrnracr that’s part of it, but it’s also just the amount of money Marriage brings to the government and private businesses
marriage is slavery for one party
It's good to see men of all ages talking about these topics and sharing there situations in a positive way.
Rich Cooper and other men like him are helping a lot of men. Keep up the good work.
A friend of mine the other day asked me why I strive so much in my business, especially as I'm a mature man with no family. I responded that I work to serve my clients and from some of the profits to chase marlin around the world, windsurf in some exotic beach, and play golf in tranquil courses. He works to take home the bacon so that she can sit on the couch and stack on the bacon as she commands him to her every whim.
“I was a beta when I was married
Now I changed that story “ !! that rhymes too
Seems that Dana A Williams is a really chill dude. I’d love to drink a beer with him and I wish him the best! Oh and definitely try to get a side hustle doing voice over work! 👍🏼😀
This was really good. You two guys should talk longer. Really cool dynamic between you two that comes across as very authentic. Excellent work gentlemen.
Seems like a chill dude
I feel bad for this guy. You can just see the pain in his eyes and hear it from his voice. He seems like a genuinely good person and I wish him the best of luck.
Its not pain, its wisdom.
I like how when he mentioned Kevin , you didn't flinch. You know why?
Your content is fire.
You let IT SPEAK for itself.
I RESPECT THE FACT YOU DIDNT SAY A WORD.
I know Kevin would of warned the guess.
You have a different cool relaxed confidence brother.
Brother!
I respect it.
I'm learning.
I APPRECIATE THE CONTENT
you get blackpilled and infact happy about that...i just enjoy woman when they are around when they leave also good..when you get to that level..your the king in your own castle.
Great interview. It's so valuable to hear other dudes stories.
Thanks for sharing Dana.
What a wholesome, chill dude. I've really enjoyed listening to his perspective.
At almost 70 , never married , no kids, active in biking, hiking, sailing, kayaking etc. I love my freedom and solitude, I could not accept having someone to be living with me, too set in my ways for that. I understand if someone had a family then lost it, that it could be a difficult change to be living alone.
If you had a bad expierence it doesn’t mean that all women are like that
@@danieltadros3262 LOL
very inspirational to hear that
You must be lonely
This Dana seems like a very masculine man, if this is happening to him its not a good look on the opposite sex
Not really. He seems like a passive, beta male. His wife was wrong for cheating on him, but he seems like a nice "house dad" type, unattractive to most women.
This guy is probably 6"2 still gets cheated on...whamen
Beta behaviours doesn't discriminate
Even rich men get cheated on too
A pure example of a simple man
wow. that's genuine pain.
don't be an adulterer, but keep a head on your shoulder
Marriage is a woman's game.
@Master B ill only bow to God
Its not a womans game, its a 2 person dance and we tend to think of marriage as an endgame. But its kinda like getting a really good job. You may have to go through all sorts of rigmarole to get employed but once you have the job you don't just chill out do you. You work even HARDER than before to really kill that and let it grow into something better and more profitable. Marriage is like that.
It may be a womans game but its mans work, which is why so few are willing and able it seems.
@Master B beta male mangina simp. wow.
@Master B I imagine if we were to meet I would have absolutely nothing to learn from you about women or relationships. Theres no value in anything you're saying here, its only victimhood, weakness and fear. Thats where the women come from son, not the men, not even the boys who are quitting out.
Need a daily Dana podcast. Amazing guest
I started a channel and it got deleted so now I'm under this new channel. It would be good to stop back thru and chat with everyone again.
Dana,
Admire you mentioning that you got help. We as mature men, or any man need to know that we have the appropriate help by professionals.
Dana A Williams thank you so much for opening up and sharing the personal details of your marriage just to help us young guys.
Totally on point, there's nothing women hate more that a guy who knows his self worth. They like moldable puppets.
The fact that you didn't flinch at Mr.Samuels name IS WHY I followed you.
I respect YOUR STONE COLD.
IT didn't bother you one bit and it shouldn't.
Your the truth Rich.
Only tough part is I will have to navigate my daughter swiftly.
I'm teaching her to cook and be domesticated firstly.
While I have her learning to calmly express herself Always.
Content is truth and I'm GRATEFUL.
EFF A TELEVISION SHOW.
ILL TURN THIS ON AND PRACTICE, WORKOUT , ETC...
Good luck Dana. We're here for you 💪
For a split second, I thought that was Lamarcus Aldridge lol
LaMarcus’s uncle or something at least haha
My grandfather was the typical military man. He served in the jungle in the 50’s. He came out, married my grandmother and that’s all I heard throughout my childhood was ‘shut up, Brian’. Never slept in the same bed either. My grandfather taught me a lesson…
Good to hear a man doing well! I'm 53, so I know where you are Dana, my passions are motorbikes (2 Triumphs), Mountains, and Scuba Diving, so life is good, and yes the women are interested, but now I just don't give them any validation or provide an emotional tampon for them. Mentally i am stronger as a result.
Listening to Dana speak was like looking through a mirror..I went through the same thing..God bless and I hope everything works out for him
I really am grateful that I come from a much more conservative muslim background. Sexual activity outside of marriage is extremely shameful. Women would never engage in it in our society since it risks her entire future from every perspective. There is nothing to be gained from it. Marrying a woman that has never engaged in any premarital sexual activity is the norm, allowing women to pair bond extremely well with their husbands. Divorce is highly frowned upon and is seen as a last resort in the most dire circumstances. Even in the event it happens divorce laws follow the islamic laws in which women only take what is fair. And we're talking in amounts, not percentages of a man's wealth, oftentimes it doesn't even each 5-10% of a man's wealth. If a man is wealthy he wouldn't even feel the amount, infact he might even give more than what is asked out of his own volition.
What's going on in the west and in countries that have adopted western norms is a true tragedy.
Rich I've been watching your content for a number of years. Thank you for all the knowledge you've shared.
Respect to my muslim brothers, you guys know how to manage your women.
It's not religious it's where you are living at the moment. i've been with several muslim women and known many who cheats. you are just lucky right now to be in a country where you still can be a Man.
@@justinc2625 Many muslim countries nowadays have adopted western norms while also retaining a considerable percentage of actually conservative muslims that follow the religion. Turkey, lebanon and egypt are some example of countries that have many people who are muslim yet don't really follow it's teachings.
The sad part,my muslin freund...is that that used to be the norm everywhere...You are not imune to it unfortunately
@@vladdrimboreanu7465 Yes it used to be the norm everywhere. Overtime the corruption of western society through media, scientific methods and psychology overtook and distorted these norms. This corruption has extended to the arab world and even to the most conservative of nations. I am not immune to it however the possibility of having to deal with someone that has been corrupted by modern culture is much lower. Especially when one is aware of the signs that they have to look out for.
Im 28 and have gone through exactly the Same as him...thank god it didnt take me Sontheim 20 Years to realize all that...and to find this Channel 💪
46 years old here never been married never had kids own properties no mortgages
Smart men don't get married. Period.
I have seen this personally with my friends once they got married there wives put a leash on them they couldn't do anything or go anywhere and got worse when there wives popped out kids and I could see how unhappy they were I had 5 close friends that got married and all 5 are divorced and the one thing about there now ex's is all of them were trying to hook me up with there friends because misery loves company and when I declined there offers my invitation to there homes became less and less now here is the curious thing was 2 of my friends ex's tried to hook up with me I just told them not happening I told them I didnt want my friends leftovers.....click
Maybe thats why im single i cant keep anyone on the leash.i am so concentrated on my own life.that people just leave me.ugh
@@dm-jf5uuyou deserve better don’t do that to yourself keep focus on your purpose and goals
Congratulations Dana, all the best man.
Rich videos helps me tremmendously finding my own north star. Thanks Rich!
I think this guy's got it figured out. Thanks for the knowledge passing down to younger guys, doing good for more than you realize.
After my divorce (numerous LTR) I told myself never again....way b4 I ever even seen this stuff on YT.....I figured it out back than it just doesn't exist.....good to finally see others as well....its not rocket science after you been on the planet awhile.....the older I get the less I feel a "need" to be with someone....or tolerate a bunch BS.....it is what it is and that's it, lol
Everything they teach us from everywhere is a program by design and it works pretty pretty well once you open YOUR eyes...
The guy on Dana's T-shirt looks like Rich Cooper!
Love how straight to the point this dude is
Been through this and took me three years to get over my ex cheating on me and dragging me through hell at 47 i wouldn't change a thing about it, you 100% come out a better man and soooo much wiser, it changes you for the better
He said this is my divorced life & it’s a blessing 💯
I just found you and honestly, listening to you, other men, wish I would've found you a long time ago..I was married 15 years, wife bailed 3+ years ago on me and our two daughters, haven't seen her since. If you would've told me that morning she was gonna leave, I would've laughed.. I thought we were the perfect couple. As did everyone that knew us. I'm 49 now, an Officer of the law, single parent with zero trust in women. No idea where I go from here?? Buy a dog, idk..A plant? Can't fuck a plant tho..this sucks man
Damn that was a good video, keep up the good work. Dana should make his own channel if he wants to, he's a chill dude with some great views on life. I wouldn't mind watching him again :)
it does not have to happen, but it does quite often..that is why channels like this are important to men.
outstanding Dana. going to get help with anger management is a good move before you do something stupid to damage yourself even more than what they do
Chapter 11 of practical female psychology is a must read for any LTR. Ideas such as knowing they will test, what they are really looking for when they ask you to open up, what to do when they try to put you to work (hint, say no sometimes).
He told my story.
May I make a suggestion? If and when cruise ships open up, you'll find a good place for singles, provided they're not all Demolition Man out there regarding contact
Go enjoy a week or two or less, and go back and chill wherever you are. You can even park the motorhome somewhere safe till you return. I miss that lifestyle
Very true!
Absolutely true. Follow the rules or leave. 👌🏾
If you want a lover , yes. You need rules, but if you want some to birth your childs and form a family with, then You people got it all wrong.
Healthy life lasting relationships don't work that way.
it's not about making them follow the rules, it's more about setting boundaries and coming to an understanding.
You don't want to govern your woman, you want her to be your partner, your confidant, your best friend.
Trying to impose rules and conditions in a relationship might've worked back in the old days; but now adays it's a recipe for failure.
@@M.Kabane The way that women operate today is completely off the rails. I have a program I have a purpose. I’m not deviating from it for anybody. So if a woman wants to stay home and raise children then she’ll need to be on my program. I’m just not deviating from it.
Whether you call it boundaries or rules is up for discussion. But what’s not up for discussion is whether or not I stay on my plan and purpose.
@@seangarvey3875 Interesting.. what is it that makes you feel that way?, What makes you think any decent woman out there would want you to deviate from you purpose?
I'm yet to meet a decent woman that would not want me to pursue my goals or work on one of my projects.
Yes, there are some women that might not be a good fit and if you let them they will drag you to their level; But this is when you make a rational decision.
They either get it or you leave them behind, it's that simple.
But the problem is, most men now adays are too damn sensitive. They take everything women do to them so personal it ruins their lives.
They get so hurt, so traumatized, they can't even stand women anymore to the point they come to despise them, Which I find ridiculous.
@George Duffy I’m happy for you. I won’t be failing because I won’t be married. I am in a relationship and I do control the frame. If people choose to enter into marriage then it can be a slaughterhouse. I’ve seen enough of it so please spare me your faux outrage. I’ll handle my life the way I choose to thank you very much.
And however alpha you are, you can’t control the legal system if she decides to leave. And given you have been married so long you’ll have a lifetime of alimony if that significant legal event happens.
Just saying 🤷🏾♂️
@@M.Kabane I don’t know if you’re keeping track but there are a lot of women who enter into marriage and then for whatever reason decide that they want to leave with cash and prizes. It happens so often that it’s actually more than 50% now. And 80% of the time women file for divorce. I don’t know how you don’t know this. There are no upsides unless you’re married to have children. So please spare me.
Do you not understand how the divorce industry works?
I’ve seen this among my clients and some have even committed suicide unfortunately.
I’ve seen several have to live in their cars or live with their parents.
You can’t tell me this doesn’t happen.
So I’m not being sensitive. I’m being practical. Learning from others mistakes.
After watching all of these videos, I've gathered that women don't know what they want. That's why we all get screwed over. Because it's always changing.
Wished I knew this stuff when I was 22
Definitely Kratos ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
Good for this guy! Props to you sir!
I want to be on rich coopers show when I get divorced from abusive wife
This guy pretty much sums up my confusion. I'm 62 and formerly old skool. Today I see it like this, my momma was old skool. Today, these women ain't like that. As a matter of fact, if my momma was alive, she would be absolutely pissed. She taught me the basics as to how a woman behaved 40 years ago. But that stuff is no longer relevant. Today its more about, love em and leave em.
"Soulmate" is my favorite myth.
Staying away from Marriage with how the divorce laws and process. Not just that women initiate 80% pf the divorce proceedings. I'm just happy staying single and chasing excellence.
Great video 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼 he's got his life back 👍🏻
Golden... Thank you for the perspective
I've never heard a woman say
"Happy husband, happy life".
Dana was great on this live stream.
Got it in one
God this rings home , thank
Fuck for this channel , accepting anything will get you in a very very dark place , man up don’t accept shit. Your the catch , your the alpha , you got it all don’t let the women treat you like a door mat
In today’s post modern world we’re trying to live in marriage without recognizing what principles from the past made that institution work. Without getting too preachy, religious boundaries are what gave the ground rules for marriage and family to be successful. The rolls were defined, and everyone understood their place. There was no tolerance for stepping out side of that, because for the health of the community that was the order of things. Nowadays people are trying to make marriage a contract, trying to earn their spouses love and commitment, and all while there is no defined principles. There is no rule book anymore… try playing any sport without rules!
How long will it take for men to wake-up?
Marriage will last only as long as it suits both parties. Marriage is not the key to happiness. Happiness comes from within.
I can attest to this! Been married for 11years and all together for 16yrs. Started out pretty with the simple you don’t need to be all macho to impress me anymore, then it turned into why do you always have to be like that, now we are at the I hate the macho attitude you have. Been secretly looking for another place and getting ready to serve her. My personality doesn’t change just because you don’t like it. Sure I may adjust some quirks like which side the toilet paper faces, leaving my razor on the counter, ya know respectful things like that but I am who I am, you don’t like it that’s too bad.
How come you got together well for 5 years before getting married?
I say this all the time and a lot of guys just don't seem to get it. Her respect for your masculine and paternal authority, is in direct competition with innate narcissism it's actually solipsism, but in most cases it expresses itself as narcissism, when her entitlements, and her consideration for them, become more a priority concern to her, than her innate respect for masculine authority. At the start, it matters little, because her biological attraction is motivated by her respect for your masculinity, but the longer she's with you, the more she resents it, as her own entitlements become her priority and focus.
Eventually, you get to a point where no matter how masculine and respectable/alpha you are, she won't respect your boundaries or authority. This leaves the man with only two options, and they both tie down to the only thing these wmn do unconditionally 'respect'; their own fear (narc compelled - Fear of shame, invalidation, and disgrace).
1) Leave (fear of invalidation, because you prove her inferior, and she is practically a narc)
2) Fear of you banging other wmn en masse. (Same again, but with added disgrace, and she will feel disgraced and ashamed but in more than one way)
3) Fear of being beaten black and blue.
Some wmn force you into the pigeonhole sooner than others. Most men choose to leave, because it it the only option that is 'reasonably acceptable'. The fact is, unless she was raised in a household from birth to maturity where the biodaddy was present and had clearly respected authority over mother and daughter, she's going to have this entitlement problem, because though her biology has a say, her conditioning is in complete reinforced contradiction.
The only thing a man can do, is scrutinously vet, and leave as soon as the scent coming off her knees hits your nose.
She wants an alpha when it suits her, and a codependent doormat when it suits her. Better to smash 'n' dash.
@@charlie64x2 we dated for 5yrs before we signed out lives away
@@jrddoubleu514 married life sucks but it also has its incredibly rewarding perks. However smash n dash is looking pretty good.
I hear ya brother. In same situation. Hard to afford a place to live in you own with 3 kids these days
I still don't know what it will take to get married. All my friends are married and I'm traveling the world meeting different women. Maybe in a few years I'll change my mind but I just don't see the point.
No you won't change your mind
Great great guy, I'm learning a lot
Speaks the truth! 💪🏼
Much respect DANA, thank you for sharing your experience..
My god i am so sorry to you guys that this stuff happens so sad
Coach Rich 🤑! I am 41 years old never been married and no kids. I listen 👂 to what you have to say.
Boston rules!
Excellent discussion. Thank you Rich and Dana. Appreciate the insights.
I like Dana, he's awesome!