One of One (Part One): The Truth about Being Single - DeVon Franklin

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  • @besthillsongworshipsongs48
    @besthillsongworshipsongs48 Год назад +1984

    I was paralyzed in bed last year and I heard Jesus say out loud to me - If you believe in me get up and walk💜🕊💜 I got up and not only walked but went for a walk outside. Praise God!!!!! GOD IS ALWAYS WORKING!!!! ✌💜🕊🙏

  • @patricemarquette7742
    @patricemarquette7742 Год назад +1106

    Been single for 7yrs and it’s been such a blessing. I am closer with God and enjoying my life.

    • @teriamanning7341
      @teriamanning7341 Год назад +37

      Yes..same for me just a little longer than you about 10yrs in and I promise I have gotten closer to God more than ever before

    • @patricemarquette7742
      @patricemarquette7742 Год назад +10

      @@teriamanning7341 Amen!

    • @rosemaryvirella304
      @rosemaryvirella304 Год назад +10

      🙏✝️💫🙏Amen Amen same here

    • @tanisha_tlc
      @tanisha_tlc Год назад +12

      You and me both sis in Christ. GOD knows best and I TRUST him! 🙏🏾❤️💕😇

    • @patricemarquette7742
      @patricemarquette7742 Год назад +2

      @@tanisha_tlc Absolutely !!!!

  • @brandyorta9503
    @brandyorta9503 Год назад +442

    “STOP PLAYING WITH THE HEARTS OF GOD’S DAUGHTERS” literally made me cry. Beautifully said! Amen

    • @raciamurry2354
      @raciamurry2354 10 месяцев назад +4

      Absolutely the truth ❤

    • @christiebaker9063
      @christiebaker9063 10 месяцев назад +2

      It was sister wasn't it. This is the first time I seen him or even heard of this pastor. Let's just say with great teachers like him, with humor to go with the sermon this makes him real. Real talk I wish more pastors would be like this

    • @sierraschoenheit9372
      @sierraschoenheit9372 9 месяцев назад

      100% for me too!! What an awesome statement and so perfectly and powerfully delivered…!

    • @sashi6736
      @sashi6736 8 месяцев назад

      Sending you love sis❤❤❤

  • @AlegnaAjai
    @AlegnaAjai Год назад +563

    I have been single since I was 18 years old and I am now 50. No kids. No spouse. But I'm still here...beat cancer and just grateful to be here with OPTIONS instead of 6 ft under with none.

    • @angieang26
      @angieang26 Год назад +27

      Amen. Thank God you are still here. When it's your time marriage and children will happen whether they become naturally or adoption.

    • @tracycooper9026
      @tracycooper9026 Год назад +44

      I want you to know you are not alone. I am 52, single and have not been married nor have children. I still desire to be married. Its all in his timing. In Ecclesiastes it's says that God makes all things beautiful in its TIME. Keep believing and continue to become a better you in the process.❤

    • @FeliciaSolomon-lo2it
      @FeliciaSolomon-lo2it Год назад +25

      I am 50 and never married nor do I have children. I feel the best I’ve ever felt.

    • @Connie10000
      @Connie10000 11 месяцев назад +11

      ​@@FeliciaSolomon-lo2ityeah it makes a huge difference if you have healthy family & friends & decent career.

    • @lindaejimadu3996
      @lindaejimadu3996 10 месяцев назад +5

      God thank you for bringing me to this message.

  • @tiongemulingo6181
    @tiongemulingo6181 5 месяцев назад +12

    "If they ask why you are single say I'm single because I'm whole"
    We are complete in Christ Jesus❤

  • @DreimLove
    @DreimLove Год назад +197

    “Stop playing with the hearts of Gods daughters” 🌹

  • @anitapatterson5813
    @anitapatterson5813 Год назад +1009

    This was the best divine and encouraging message I have ever hear. I am 62 and faithfully serving God and never been married. Married people in the church make me feel so bad like I have a fatal disease. I continue to trust God. I am and we all are fearfully and wonderfully made. I am proud and happy to be a brilliant, bold and beautiful single woman for God. ❤🙌🏾🙏🏾 God loves me Well. ♥️

    • @sthembilethanjekwayo_za
      @sthembilethanjekwayo_za Год назад +8

      🤗

    • @godisgreatolufunmi1915
      @godisgreatolufunmi1915 Год назад +6

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @dennismclaurin1487
      @dennismclaurin1487 Год назад +27

      Being single-- you must know you're a chosen one.

    • @anneshilimela3214
      @anneshilimela3214 Год назад +12

      Sending you lots of love ❤

    • @realestatecoach8626
      @realestatecoach8626 Год назад +32

      Everyone wasn’t made to be married. Singleness is a gift. There was a group of people in bible that had no sexual drive and they were to remain single. If you have no desire that’s a gift and singleness is your station in life. If you’re burning in lust then marriage is the ideal. If you remain single then you have more time for God and His kingdom and a singleminded desire with no distraction to please The Lord.

  • @kemancoachkjackson6140
    @kemancoachkjackson6140 Год назад +435

    I'm 43 years old and this is the first time I ever told myself.. I love you. Thank-you

    • @resianemaculate.
      @resianemaculate. Год назад +6

      Self love first.Been single mum for 9years.

    • @YeshuaLovesYou365
      @YeshuaLovesYou365 Год назад +1

      The Most High God and Yeshua Hamashiach loves you too ✝️‼️

    • @maribelmejia2693
      @maribelmejia2693 Год назад +1

      Likewise& I'm 44 so you are not alone.

    • @natasha007
      @natasha007 Год назад

      Prayerfully, brother, this won’t be the last time. 💙🫂

    • @AnaRo_sales
      @AnaRo_sales Год назад +2

      I'm 49 and single, I got emotional after hearing myself telling myself I love you. I felt it was God telling me.

  • @rutendotanyanyiwa6180
    @rutendotanyanyiwa6180 Год назад +68

    This is profound. I have been single for 10years, and I have suffered the stigma attached to singleness. I have written a book, to be launched in September, titled Single And Standing. Its an encouragement and testament of what i went through the temptations challenges etc but i overcame them all. Just because you are single does not mean you wont make it, you can be Single And Standing

  • @donnadavidson5027
    @donnadavidson5027 10 месяцев назад +65

    I HAVE WAITING FOR A SERMON LIKE THIS FOR YEARS. I have felt less valued in the church bc I was singled. I allowed the church community to make me feel lonely and miserable. I am a woman, I do not do the "asking" to marry so I felt helpless to change my status. Truthfully, I never trusted these "damaged" men to mess up my life journey. I am single, no children and doing just fine.

  • @emmamugambi1333
    @emmamugambi1333 Год назад +327

    You are not alone. Be encouraged. I am 44 no kids single, no sign of anything happening but God is full of surprises! His ways are not our ways neither his thoughts. He makes the impossible possible. Your time is coming sis. Praying with you

  • @MrDeelmore1
    @MrDeelmore1 Год назад +366

    I am 75 years old, single and this blessed my whole soul....Thank GOD HE Is also a Redeemer of Time!!!

  • @marykanono409
    @marykanono409 Год назад +506

    great message. singleness isn't a disease, its a beautiful stage of life we gotta enjoy.

    • @shes_ah_truckher7716
      @shes_ah_truckher7716 Год назад

      ❤❤

    • @20cutzz
      @20cutzz Год назад +7

      It's a curse been praying for a husband since I was a literal teen I'm almost 40 now with barely any options, it hurts and id rather be dead and on heaven than another decade of loneliness

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 Год назад +2

      ❤❤❤❤Amen😊😊😊Singleness is a gift

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 Год назад +18

      @@20cutzz As someone who understands the feeling 1,000% - Honey it is an idol and god for you. "An idol is whatever you look at and say, in your heart of hearts, ‘If I have that, then I’ll feel my life has meaning, then I’ll know I have value, then I’ll feel significant and secure." Tim Keller.. AND Im in the same boat - But that's where we are wrong - Jesus is better if we would just realize that only he can carry the weight of our souls. No man can do that and to expect him to make us feel secure will crush him and drive him away- As painful as it is, we need to pursue Jesus and serve him to find peace. I pray God sends us both a husband - but if we aren't ready, aren't free from the disease and junk in our hearts - than God knows marriage would ruin us.

    • @20cutzz
      @20cutzz Год назад +1

      @@janellamurphy5665 I know he can save my soul. I know it's better to be saved than married. But being a single mom and not having a companion for over a decade and little hope for the future is too much to take. I know it's an idol for me but like the old song says I can't stand this living all alone

  • @4SALEBYERIKA
    @4SALEBYERIKA Год назад +134

    What a powerful message as a single woman this is confirmation I’m waiting for my godly man! Amen God is good! ✝️🙏🏽♥️

  • @AndreaKorney
    @AndreaKorney 2 месяца назад +5

    Stop playing with the hearts of God’s daughters! Beautifully said.

  • @alexisalford735
    @alexisalford735 Год назад +70

    If you are in a dating situation and you don't care about that person, I challenge you to end it today😮
    Devon said it!

  • @MsCocoa75
    @MsCocoa75 Год назад +167

    This is the best sermon I have ever heard. Seriously. This sermon can rid the world of pain of thinking singleness is something to cure rather than really getting to know oneself. Thanks from a single 48 year-old woman. 🙏🏾

    • @monkiaray9093
      @monkiaray9093 Год назад +6

      Thats right sis

    • @sherritaylor8534
      @sherritaylor8534 Год назад +5

      I am 65 and waiting. Disappointed, frustrated, Lonely, Lonesome, Alone..

    • @julieshultz3550
      @julieshultz3550 Год назад +6

      I agree! I needed this! I always felt like something was wrong because I preferred to be alone but maybe it’s because I am not ready and God understands this!

    • @cherrydeleon9646
      @cherrydeleon9646 Год назад +5

      Yes, 65 yrs old I can relate quite well. Single for 11yrs & has no regret.

    • @melaninmoxiellc963
      @melaninmoxiellc963 Год назад +1

      ​@@sherritaylor8534we're praying for you! During your single season, it's important that we ask God to show us the broken places within so we can begin the work on ourselves, and during our season of isolation, he is refining us to prepare those who desire marriage for marriage. That said, if you desire marriage, it will come when you're truly ready for a person you won't exalt above God. Keep the faith. 🙏🏾

  • @ericajones2537
    @ericajones2537 Год назад +121

    REAL!!!! TRUTH!!! No sugar coated crap, just pure & natural word of GOD. I'm single now eight years, happy, calm, peaceful and if marriage/ relationship is for me, GOD will bless me.

  • @mightymouse1005
    @mightymouse1005 Год назад +34

    People accept you better being in a bad marriage than being alone. Im 59 and single. I have friends my age who are single by choice and we play dominoes and spend time together. We really don't mind being single

  • @lele.danaee
    @lele.danaee 8 месяцев назад +10

    “When the time is right, I the Lord will make it happen.” Isaiah 60:22 Gods timing is perfect, so enjoy your season of singleness, fall in love with your individuality and when God says it’s time, it will happen.

  • @Yannii220
    @Yannii220 Год назад +219

    This hits different coming from some one who is actually single 🎉

    • @SK-le4lj
      @SK-le4lj Год назад +13

      And divorced !

    • @robertburkett479
      @robertburkett479 Год назад +3

      Ya. I was in tears in the video

    • @starlightrocks7
      @starlightrocks7 Год назад

      @@SK-le4lj What does that mean?

    • @tasheinacanty-white8407
      @tasheinacanty-white8407 Год назад +7

      @@starlightrocks7, it’s a great testimony for him to preach this sermon because he is recently divorced.

  • @annamakoto1201
    @annamakoto1201 Год назад +77

    I AM READY TO RECEIVE THE RIGHT PERSON! Hallelujah 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Monique_Diedericks
    @Monique_Diedericks Год назад +74

    God brings your spouse, very important. God presents it. No need to be hungry. Walk by faith not by sight. You already have so don't need to go looking, you need to receive. Stand in a position of receiving.

  • @lorinunery2353
    @lorinunery2353 Год назад +169

    Amen!! I have made a choice. But I am not going to be with just any body. I'm on my 14 yrs of being single after 21 yrs of marriage. I won't sacrifice my peace.❤️❤️

    • @mayowaoyedokun9828
      @mayowaoyedokun9828 Год назад +8

      Yes, I won't sacrifice my peace

    • @barbaraandrews434
      @barbaraandrews434 Год назад +5

      Totally agreed! 53 and single.not that i intend to remain that way but i rather wait on God cause not just anyone will do

    • @thislittlelightofmine14
      @thislittlelightofmine14 11 месяцев назад +1

      Amen! That's exactly where I am too.

  • @ceciliagarza9345
    @ceciliagarza9345 9 месяцев назад +16

    I have done the most to try to find my validation from men, when all I’ve ever needed is to try to see myself the way that God sees me 🥺 Thank you Jesus ❤️

  • @lynnefetsko3562
    @lynnefetsko3562 Год назад +55

    This is revelation after 2 marriages. I'm 62, saved 22 yrs. I've been very single over 3 years, this is on time and appreciated.
    Yes Divorce is even more painful then a worse day in marriage.

  • @robertahosey9765
    @robertahosey9765 Год назад +56

    “I’m not looking… I’m ready to receive them” 🙌🏾

    • @BRlGADE_KINGPIN
      @BRlGADE_KINGPIN Год назад +2

      You only get what you look for. Faiths without works is dead.

  • @KellieAlston
    @KellieAlston Год назад +82

    In church, we rush people to become couples when they have not developed as singles. Yes, I have said this for years. I grew up in a church that focused so much on fornication that college students were leaping into marriage so that they would not sin. I often wonder how many of those couples are still married today but not only that, how many of them married because God joined them together and not bc they felt compelled to meet the needs of the flesh.

    • @favored6007
      @favored6007 Год назад +7

      This happens so much in the body of Christ! I agree

    • @KellieAlston
      @KellieAlston Год назад +4

      @@favored6007 Yes, way too often.😔

    • @NanaEkua593
      @NanaEkua593 Год назад

      My thoughts for years!!!!

    • @ebso2842
      @ebso2842 Год назад

      That’s a valid need for marriage . Scripture says marry if you are burning

    • @kerenesmith5522
      @kerenesmith5522 Год назад

      You are speaking truth! I grew up in a church that does that.

  • @cordynava3606
    @cordynava3606 Год назад +45

    Thank you, this was an amazing message. I’m 56 years old.. divorced .. just most recently I have decided to work on myself.. knowing my value and worth. Praise God.. all glory is yours.. Amen

  • @elkeheyer-yv5oo
    @elkeheyer-yv5oo Месяц назад +2

    OMG - this is the BEST sermon I've ever heard about this topic, and I'm 62 (and divorced)!!!! SO MUCH ENCOURAGEMENT!!! ❤❤❤ I envy the church who has this guy as pastor!!! WELL DONE!!!!

  • @brie5414
    @brie5414 Год назад +20

    As a people we have become comfortable with toxicity, friends, family, spouses heck even tv shows. We think its normal for our spirit to be constanly troubled or settle for long term unhappiness.

  • @doyinO
    @doyinO Год назад +91

    Adam wasn’t looking for the helper
    But instead God brought him the helper
    👏 👏👏👏👏

  • @tiaparkerbecomingherwomens7234
    @tiaparkerbecomingherwomens7234 Год назад +47

    I don't have to "wait for love" because I am LOVE and I as created in LOVE!

    • @BRlGADE_KINGPIN
      @BRlGADE_KINGPIN Год назад

      Yeah but God didn’t call us to be absent of a significant other. No matter how much “love” we are we need love from someone else.

    • @LisaLisaCJ
      @LisaLisaCJ 5 месяцев назад

      @@BRlGADE_KINGPIN no we don’t

  • @ChristoleneRass
    @ChristoleneRass 8 месяцев назад +9

    I just watched this sermon spoke directly to my spirit. I'm 35 and single. God is taking me on a journey. For the past 2 years this word right here has became alive in my life a working progress. I'm super excited about my future. When the time is right I WILL be the helper he created me to be.

  • @patriciajohnson964
    @patriciajohnson964 Год назад +31

    Thank You Father for allowing me to get a divorce 🙏 from someone who didn't love me 💔 I'm very grateful and happy 😊😊 Glory Hallelujah 🙌🙏

  • @hazelscarlett7299
    @hazelscarlett7299 Год назад +299

    It’s about time more messages we’re preached about singleness to be honest. Would also really like to hear talks about people who have chosen/been called to celibacy and the value of this 🙏

    • @kathywherry9810
      @kathywherry9810 Год назад +2

      Indeed..

    • @michellabarnesmb
      @michellabarnesmb Год назад +1

      You preaching ❤😊

    • @deeron1554
      @deeron1554 Год назад +8

      Ditto, I have chosen to be celibate - 56 years young and loving life.

    • @trinap.8904
      @trinap.8904 Год назад

      Too many married folk think they are better just cause you're married

    • @jeromejohnson5412
      @jeromejohnson5412 Год назад +3

      God doesn't call people to be celibate. However, you can choose to be celibate.

  • @akferren1
    @akferren1 Год назад +45

    I am much happier and content being single then I ever was married.. marriage made me feel lonely and miserable

    • @borderlinebackfromhellsara961
      @borderlinebackfromhellsara961 Год назад

      True 🎉

    • @kaylinnicole76
      @kaylinnicole76 Год назад +2

      Maybe marriage wasn’t for you at that time or even at all.

    • @LisaLisaCJ
      @LisaLisaCJ 5 месяцев назад +1

      Me too. Married to a man that refused to leave and cleave. His parents, friends job church all came before means our kids. Then he left saying you are good woman but not the woman for me. Said he wanted someone with no standards. And left and cut ties with me and our kids. Oh we met in church too. I could marry again but I ask myself why would I want to. Wives have to submit even to foolishness and I’m free.

  • @teebookwriter
    @teebookwriter Год назад +42

    I became single in 2021 after losing my husband of 46 years. It has been a struggle because I am not use to being alone but I know I'm never alone with God. This message is an inspiration to me and even though I am not looking for anyone I believe in having a relationship with someone that God sends in his own time.. Thank you for giving me the encouragement to be me and not changing for any future relationship because life goes on..

    • @brittanyb5942
      @brittanyb5942 Год назад +3

      So sorry for your loss! 🙏🏾

    • @marlenebethmann4425
      @marlenebethmann4425 Год назад +4

      A widow for 12 yrs...miss my dear husband so but trust my husband, Jesus when I'm lonely!!

    • @lydiaweir4259
      @lydiaweir4259 Год назад +3

      God will Comforter you my friend!!!!

    • @thelmagreer5746
      @thelmagreer5746 Год назад +1

      Im in the same boat 73yrs tried a relationship that didn't work so I will wait until God sends the right one if not I am good with it i will enjoy my life and be blessed

  • @barbarastewart8066
    @barbarastewart8066 Год назад +8

    66 years old and have not dated for over 22 years. I'm learning that I no longer smoke nor do drugs and praising God I'm in a better mindset. Yes God is not my husband but God is definitely my provider, because I seek, ask and knock. Yes, there are times I yearn for companionship, but I must trust God in my mature years. Wisdom is greater so I ask daily for wisdom. But I am a real, transparent person and love to love. Blessings to all the singles. Do not Sell your Soul. Thank you for this inspiring message. Right brotha right on Pastor...🎉

  • @jamiejackson1780
    @jamiejackson1780 Год назад +7

    “I know enough about myself, to know that I haven’t found the right fit”!!! EXPLORE YOURSELF, KNOW YOURSELF

  • @Kingdom4Life
    @Kingdom4Life Год назад +113

    I’m 52 yrs old . I have single 27 yrs. I am WHOLE all because of the GRACE of God!! Great message sir!!😍

    • @jillmariaplatteaux6083
      @jillmariaplatteaux6083 Год назад +2

      27?? Without sex? Me 15 y single. I am ready to meet someone. I keep attracting men who cznnot commit or who are already engaged. I am not on dating sites but will change that soon.

    • @Kingdom4Life
      @Kingdom4Life Год назад +1

      Praying for you ma’am!!🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @jillmariaplatteaux6083
      @jillmariaplatteaux6083 Год назад

      @@Kingdom4Life so tell me 27 y single no sex???

    • @Kingdom4Life
      @Kingdom4Life Год назад +4

      Yes ma’am, not at all!!😀

    • @lorinunery2353
      @lorinunery2353 Год назад +8

      Sex is not the reason to started dating. We all know there is someone we can always get sex from. But can you get a loving and committed relationship 🤔.

  • @Jcperformancehorsenforge
    @Jcperformancehorsenforge Год назад +6

    Well this is refreshing. The Church acts like singles do not exist.

  • @darlaatumonye8880
    @darlaatumonye8880 Год назад +67

    This is my first time listening to Devon Franklin and it’s as if he’s in my head and knows my emotions this is truly a word from God❤

  • @GingerConner-i6u
    @GingerConner-i6u 9 месяцев назад +7

    I love being single and independent. God has something better for me. There is nothing better than PEACE. It's a blessing. God's grace mercy and protection.

  • @mrscrazedchick
    @mrscrazedchick Год назад +19

    As someone who just came out a relationship that I settled for. I can defo being single for the past 9 months has defo bought me peace and clarity that I didn’t have when I was in a relationship. Waiting on God whilst your single and enjoying your single season is soo underrated. There’s peace and joy in singleness!

  • @amandaapril2611
    @amandaapril2611 Год назад +22

    10 minutes in and this is the best word on singleness that I've ever heard! "One of One"!

  • @bestkksser
    @bestkksser Год назад +154

    If you are reading this there’s a reason……No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs ❤️🇧🇸

  • @deekmuninga
    @deekmuninga Год назад +52

    Amen. Thank you. I needed this. I am recently separated and I was feeling low, lonely and bothered that I was single. Now I feel empowered and enough. I am one of one. Thank you.🙏🏾 Love from Uganda 🇺🇬 East Africa.

    • @lorrainchanda6803
      @lorrainchanda6803 Год назад

      If you are a man let’s hook up been a single mom

    • @anniedeborahchinungo4434
      @anniedeborahchinungo4434 Год назад +1

      On separation too been feeling very lonely and rejected. It’s been hard. Haven’t lost hope of finding true love. Someone who understands me

    • @deekmuninga
      @deekmuninga Год назад +3

      I am a woman Chanda.😊 A straight woman with a 1 year old son.
      Yes Annie, same. I love love and still believe in love. I also still strongly believe I will find the perfect one for me. God help us all.🫶🏽

  • @MarilynMichellex4
    @MarilynMichellex4 Год назад +25

    I receive this message. I’m walking in my singleness, growing closer to God with each day. This message came at the right time, He wanted me to hear this tonight!

  • @annienarwo
    @annienarwo Год назад +8

    I am single for three years, after being in a marriage,I have a 7 year old son ,l keep on remind myself that God is with me and our motto with my son Is God is good all the time and he love us and thank you for the word Amen and Amen

  • @iyamom4
    @iyamom4 Год назад +29

    Thank you Pastor. Please stop being manipulators. We are tired of getting hurt.

  • @judithkasavadyo7006
    @judithkasavadyo7006 Год назад +17

    It’s about time we get to understand and being taught that singlesness isn’t a disease but it’s a season.

  • @ShirelleTheWriter
    @ShirelleTheWriter Год назад +13

    People wonder why I'm so happy being single, it's because I recognize this season is a blessing and as Pastor DeVon said, I'm not squandering it. I love me some me. 🙂Love, live, laugh and MAKE your day great people!

  • @Ms.DeeJones
    @Ms.DeeJones 10 месяцев назад +5

    When He said, I know my worth and I can choose better, I felt that in my soul‼️ We get sidetracked with the stresses of life and settle for help and NOT LOVE‼️ Whatever problems you have as a single you will have as a couple, come onnnn PASTOR, PREACCHHHHH💃🏾🙌🏾

  • @asoniataitt3203
    @asoniataitt3203 Год назад +7

    I am 60 years old and have been single for many years, at times I crave for companionship. Your message comes to show me I can accept and appreciate my singleness. Thank you.

  • @connievelez5478
    @connievelez5478 Год назад +15

    The lies of the enemy has been revealed, Hallelujah 👏👏👏
    Yes, I am loved

  • @GodsSoldierGirl
    @GodsSoldierGirl Год назад +53

    Yes Lord teach me 🙏 I have been single 4 years now and embrace it ....God shows me continually the areas I've fallen short, pain I have caused, pain I've allowed to be done to me and all the glorious ways He is working in me to make me a joyful servant, steward and suitable couple ....I usually don't catch the word in the evening but this was first on my feed and pulled me all the way in....so grateful as I've been longing for companionship even though I know the importance if this time of singleness and all the trauma I need to heal from to be ready to love the Lord first as I love another

  • @verajones9158
    @verajones9158 Год назад +5

    Preach Me........
    Single, Saved, Satisfied,Complete and Celibate In JESUS NAME!!

  • @crystalfoster987
    @crystalfoster987 Год назад +12

    Such a great word! I have been happily single and thriving in my household and career. Focusing on God and being “whole”. And because of my faith and focus, a great man or two that’s “worthy” has come into my life. Healthy dating and still focusing on the word and me being whole, in time, God will show me who my husband should be!

  • @karenmason7422
    @karenmason7422 Год назад +20

    This message was is so powerful, truly edifying for any single woman, walk in your purpose you are one of one, the Lord will send you that man when the time is right❤

  • @clarisnyambura3162
    @clarisnyambura3162 Год назад +299

    Don't let impatient, Don't let pressure take you out of your waiting season

    • @cherylthompkins6501
      @cherylthompkins6501 Год назад +3

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @chantallandries7008
      @chantallandries7008 11 месяцев назад +5

      It's hard though.

    • @Tishainy1
      @Tishainy1 10 месяцев назад

      @@chantallandries7008 it’s hard I know but you got this 🫶🏽‼️

    • @annwanjiku56
      @annwanjiku56 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@chantallandries7008it shall be well

    • @HamiltonRowan-r6z
      @HamiltonRowan-r6z Месяц назад +1

      I will remain unmarried for the rest of my life.

  • @bellebeauty67
    @bellebeauty67 Год назад +19

    “Let’s all do the pain wave” I can identify with that. This morning I asked God to lift the veil of doubt in me. After listening to DeVon’s message, I’m going to thank God, and ask Him if it’s His will, I’m ready to receive the man He has for me. “Thy will not mine be done.”

  • @missblackbeautyTV
    @missblackbeautyTV Год назад +27

    I just got out of something & yea it’s sad but this right here hit just what I needed to help me through my healing journey.

  • @filoshiabarrow8751
    @filoshiabarrow8751 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for this beautiful message. God didn't design my period of singleness as a fault. I'm on my journey of healing and needed this today. I'm learning that being "one of one is indeed valuable."

  • @moreofus3734
    @moreofus3734 Год назад +2

    I’m just here to support Devon he is so right!! You will learn this when you’ve been through it. Everybody don’t match up to who your called and created to be! And that’s fine we are all different. Learn yourself and find your equally yoked. Your goofiness won’t be to much for them and etc. and I know this because when god shows you the one, it all begins to make sense. the heart the values, and the demeanor, matches up. but you must take time for yourself and allow god … don’t settle

  • @thepeacearchitect7298
    @thepeacearchitect7298 Год назад +20

    This message touched my soul. I'm a life coach and therapist coming out of divorce number 3 that nearly took me out. I just didn't want to feel the enormous pain I endured. After 1 year and a half of therapy and coaching, I'm finally feeling whole. I'm aware of the value of my singleness and am ready to receive whatever God has for me. I truly love myself and I'm glad I'm alive to appreciate life and the love that awaits me. 🧡

    • @andreacole4763
      @andreacole4763 Год назад +2

      Oh my God, this is such a powerful message! Preach pastor. Blessings to you.

    • @tonial9151
      @tonial9151 Год назад +2

      Being grateful for just being alive and healthy, when so many would love to be where I am, inspires me to take massive action to live this life to the fullest no matter what.

  • @mathildap.7705
    @mathildap.7705 Год назад +33

    The best sermon ever. Thanks for allowing God to use you. Many were set free. Hallelujah!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @k-mac5511
    @k-mac5511 11 дней назад +1

    I'm walking God's favor as a healthy Christian who happens to be single. I am active and attractive. I don't feel lonely or think much about being single. It is what it is. I'm just trying to live my best life. If a man comes along in step and compliments me, we can walk hand in hand. Either way, my eyes are up and focused on Jesus.

  • @stacyfox6055
    @stacyfox6055 Год назад +10

    You’ve no idea how much this sermon spoke to me. Thank you!

  • @candacelightfoot8387
    @candacelightfoot8387 Год назад +13

    AMEN! Single by choice because I'm whole. I LOVE IT!

  • @angelacook8267
    @angelacook8267 Год назад +18

    I needed this message 25 years ago. 😥

    • @karene3493
      @karene3493 Год назад

      Right!? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 Год назад +10

    Preach the word brother . I know that singleness is not a curse but a blessing . Singleness is not the time to wait around doing nothing with your life because you waiting on Mr . Charming . People are so afraid to be alone , instead of celebrating and spending time with themselves and finding their identity , they get miserable about themselves . Only a mad man runs away from him or her self . You need to love , respect and date yourself as a single person instead of chasing someone else to love you . Find your own source of happiness instead of giving someone that responsibility . You cannot blame no one for your happiness . Thank you for this word that change the perceptive of single people who do not want to be single and afraid of singleness status . ❤🎉😢😮😮😮

    • @madelinedurand5632
      @madelinedurand5632 Год назад +4

      You are 💯 correct
      And worst of all, some of these women are so desperate that they settle for anything.

  • @barbarabuford5795
    @barbarabuford5795 11 месяцев назад +9

    I am right where God wants me to be. I love God, I love Jesus, I love the Holy Spirit, And 'I LOVE ME'! Thank God, Amen. ♥️🙏

  • @afoxx750
    @afoxx750 Год назад +19

    This sermon hit me hard. I have been single for a few years after a failed marriage. I know I have more work to do on myself. Coming across this video today was a true blessing ❤

  • @vcwilliamsbodyboost
    @vcwilliamsbodyboost Год назад +11

    I pray this message goes viral. Everyone needs to hear this. You're a God speaking truth helping the masses with getting it right.

  • @luckystarsashanti
    @luckystarsashanti Год назад +20

    🎯 YOU BETTER PREACH, PASTOR DEVON!!! 🔥🔥🔥👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @daisyjones5254
    @daisyjones5254 Год назад +3

    One thing is for sure, you need to be in sync with yourself no matter who you meet. When you're not desperate and thirsty you'll make better choices. Your Life Decisions create your life being good for you or bad...

  • @jdiggs3639
    @jdiggs3639 Год назад +8

    The Lord literally was speaking through you. Amen. Thank you Jesus.

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Год назад +24

    Divine design: I also love that his own marriage is a testimony. Devon’s testimony within a message is teaching from a position of preacher. I appreciate knowing that he not only has intimate knowledge of what he is telling us but that the divine experience is still teaching him the love of God in his singlehood! He is paying great attention this time around. This is SO good!! AWARENESS!!!!!

  • @marilynbain8150
    @marilynbain8150 Год назад +4

    Been hurt and single from a divorce for over 10 years. God is my only hope and healing. I Gotten closer to God and learnt sooo much about Him.

  • @stellamarisnassuna8952
    @stellamarisnassuna8952 7 месяцев назад +2

    Words can't explain how I feel with this message. But am touched and uplifted and enlightened. You are blessed Devon Franklin, thank you for these annointed words of wisdom.

  • @LeonaBundy
    @LeonaBundy 6 месяцев назад +1

    I’m 38 and have been longing for marriage and kids without making it an idol. This is the first message that has actually lifted me up and it came from a divorced person! I’m telling you! They make the best testifiers to singles about marriage!!!! I’ll always say it!

    • @LisaLisaCJ
      @LisaLisaCJ 5 месяцев назад

      As a divorced person trust me take your time.

  • @trinjuwan4422
    @trinjuwan4422 Год назад +34

    MIN Devon Franklin Always speaks with such Godly wisdom. His word is always spot on. I'm empowered & encouraged everytime he speaks💯🎁🙏🏽

  • @shirlgbme
    @shirlgbme Год назад +10

    This message reached inside of me, I've walked away from some hard situations knowing deep within there was something not right. Thank you Lord for the strength to walk away from those beast, Amen for real

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 Год назад +30

    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for focusing on us single people. People think being single is awful or wrong. I love being single, working on me ❤🙏🏾

    • @lmil9604
      @lmil9604 Год назад +1

      Working on me. I like that

  • @LoriBennett-lb7nb
    @LoriBennett-lb7nb 2 месяца назад +2

    If you don't know what's good for you, you'll always keep what's bad.

  • @conniebunnyy
    @conniebunnyy Год назад +2

    Wow...I just out of a relationship that I knew God was not pleased with. The guy I was with actually broke it off with me TODAY and I received this message TODAY! Thank you for your message Pastor Devon Franklin. I admit that I wasn't the source of my love and I didn't know my worth, I didn't know I was one of one, so I dated a beast. I will listen to this message whenever I feel impatient of waiting for someone that brings me closer to God. Thank you so much.

  • @kimberlyjefferson882
    @kimberlyjefferson882 Год назад +10

    Celebrating 5 years of being single! I am one of one at this time. God has someone nothing less than amazing to change that🎉

    • @isaacmcfadden918
      @isaacmcfadden918 Год назад +1

      I'm celebrating 5 years of being single also my sister!!! I'm unbothered about being unmarried!! I'm so much closer to our heavenly Father now!! I most definitely am ONE OF ONE!! AMEN!!!

  • @desireecisneroz9971
    @desireecisneroz9971 Год назад +4

    Wow! When u said put ur hand on ur heart and say my name and say I love you I broke 😢 .. I realized I need to love me more .. thank you! I've shared ur message it's 🔥

  • @coraroaable
    @coraroaable Месяц назад

    I needed to hear this message. “I am not leaving looking, but open to receiving” in God’s timing.

  • @Jesuschristislordofallforever
    @Jesuschristislordofallforever Год назад +3

    Let go and let God. I have grown to know who I AM from my single years. Forced relationships or relationships formed from loneliness are dread. God knows your heart. Trust in his timing. Know your worth, QUEEN. ❤ 🙌 BLESS.

  • @bernicebaafi5056
    @bernicebaafi5056 Год назад +6

    Don’t let anyone take your power of Choice✍🏻

  • @cxcartgallerybycourtneylee8138
    @cxcartgallerybycourtneylee8138 Год назад +34

    What a beautiful, encouraging message 🙏🏽💕 Thank you Lord.

  • @kenyafromcali
    @kenyafromcali Год назад +6

    Was just talking with my sister about breaking the bonds of singleness and this message popped on my timeline. God is amazing.

  • @gwendolynbroome3073
    @gwendolynbroome3073 Год назад +4

    God is Good ALL The Time,I will never stop praying for the healing of the Lord.

  • @teevee5884
    @teevee5884 Год назад +2

    This is refreshing to hear after all the manosphere/misogynistic advice on dating and how women should desire marriage and is destined to an unhappy life because she chooses to stay single.

  • @whymindsetmatters
    @whymindsetmatters Год назад +4

    Myles Munroe taught on this. The purpose and priority of being single, and the advantage of being single is the title of both the videos.

  • @apiffanyfulcher6628
    @apiffanyfulcher6628 Год назад +5

    I’ve been happily single for 6 years and love God way more and see clearly more than ever before!!! Praise Jesus Christ!!

  • @sarahdelisca9435
    @sarahdelisca9435 Год назад +11

    This is TOO good. Thank you Jesus for this message 🙏🏼❤

  • @Tampatsmi
    @Tampatsmi Год назад +4

    I'm not single....I'm whole....all by myself ❤