Heartbreak & God's Timing | Timing | Part 4 | Jerry Flowers

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

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  • @sarahkyobutungi
    @sarahkyobutungi 11 месяцев назад +1697

    I am listening to this, while I am in this exact cycle over and over… and yet I don’t have the strength or courage to end this cycle…
    Kindly use this comment as a like button to remind me that I can do this!

    • @jasmindrace
      @jasmindrace 11 месяцев назад +62

      When you are weak, He is strong! This is the perfect situation for Him to step in and display His Glory. You said “I can’t”. BUT HE CAN. Speak to Him, seek Him and He will transform you and you will be victorious. In fact you already are! I thank Him for breaking your unhealthy cycles. In Jesus Name. Amen. God has glorious plans and promises for you. Walk with Him. He has you.

    • @naomiowesme6447
      @naomiowesme6447 11 месяцев назад +14

      You can do this!!!

    • @Starsunshine777
      @Starsunshine777 11 месяцев назад +5

      What cycle

    • @NieshaDenise
      @NieshaDenise 11 месяцев назад +39

      Praying for you. I was in a 12 years relationship with someone who mentally abused me not always physically but it was at times. He would cheat and leave and I stayed because he told me if I left he wouldn’t be here for my daughters anymore. I knew how much my girls loved their dad so I dealt with whatever. God knew that I should have left years ago. I didn’t listen it got worse and worse. I feel like I taught him how to treat a woman. Because 6 days after cursing me out and being with me he had a side chick he went and married. I told god why me. I’m still lost for words it’s only been 2 months and I’m still hurting. But I believe god was like “you wouldn’t leave so I showed you why you should” god knew I wasn’t going to get anywhere with this man. But now I have to heal and I’ve been getting closer and closer to god.

    • @sarahkyobutungi
      @sarahkyobutungi 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@NieshaDeniseoh dear😔😔… how are you holding on now😔

  • @majortaylor1374
    @majortaylor1374 11 месяцев назад +791

    I'm tired of the same cycle. Same mistakes. Teach me lord to move forward and not to look back. Heal my heart from pain from my past. I hold myself accountable for my decisions and those who I have hurt in the process of looking for remedies to take the pain away. I pray God heals me and in his timing that I receive what is his desires are for me. Amen.Amen

  • @RizalWany
    @RizalWany Год назад +853

    Whoever is reading this comment, I wish you success, health, love and happiness

  • @MLG.SAFARII03
    @MLG.SAFARII03 26 дней назад +34

    Crazy that a message from 2023 has found me in 2024 in a time that i need it

  • @servantofthelord8147
    @servantofthelord8147 Год назад +458

    If you’re reading this - stop thinking whatever is on your mind right more and remember this : God’s already figured it out - just show up and do what he says

    • @1dawg243
      @1dawg243 6 месяцев назад +4

      💯💯💯

    • @BWREMYPISTOL
      @BWREMYPISTOL 4 месяца назад +4

      Out of all the comments THIS hit my spirit 🙌🏾💯❤️🙏🏾

    • @SydMS
      @SydMS 2 месяца назад +1

      Needed ❤️

    • @tymoneey
      @tymoneey 2 месяца назад +1

      this broke me to tears man…

    • @crownedhisglory
      @crownedhisglory 2 месяца назад +1

      ❤❤

  • @jon2o9
    @jon2o9 Месяц назад +65

    12 yr relationship over. I immediately got sober and turned to god even though i didnt want to i knew i had to. Best choice ever.

    • @halstomstarks2922
      @halstomstarks2922 Месяц назад +2

      Best decision I made was turned to God. I had to switch up to see the path God was taking me. Praying for you my g 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @markbeen5
      @markbeen5 Месяц назад +1

      2and half years found out she moved on her and the dude went atl I flew down to win her back but she never came to me now she trying to put me out I try to be cordial and she just starts going berserk I paid all the bills for this months and paid for her real estate license and board but she took the money to go with o boy now she driving his car and still lying

    • @eyerun2k622
      @eyerun2k622 26 дней назад +1

      @@markbeen5i know that feeling of betrayal going through it now man. even though it’s hard to believe rightnow, God loves you and us and he will never forsake us. it gonna be alr love you brother

    • @msbeautiful01
      @msbeautiful01 19 дней назад

      I’m glad you did because boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is not biblical nor of GOD.-(creating a ungodly soul tie) Therefore GOD only honors marriage.-(KJV)Hebrews 13:4💯📖✝️🙏🏽💯

    • @Diyanibeats
      @Diyanibeats 18 дней назад

      Congrats on change and sobriety. Why didn’t you want to turn to god? What was the breaking point that force you to change ?

  • @erica8657
    @erica8657 Год назад +718

    You have arrived to spiritual
    maturity when you view disappointment as God ordering your steps ❤️💯

    • @tiff2831
      @tiff2831 Год назад +7

      That! I felt like I was in a spiritual chokehold when I heard that! 😂😮

    • @karrisma05
      @karrisma05 6 месяцев назад

      🙌🏾🤍🙏🏾

    • @dailyn4334
      @dailyn4334 4 месяца назад +1

      Mmmmm. Was just told to look into spiritual maturity

  • @Telisha1987
    @Telisha1987 7 месяцев назад +574

    I found this video during my current breakup. I never thought we would get to the level of anger that we reached. This video really helped me and gave me some answers. Please pray that I can hear God and make him the head of my life.

    • @thebikehub7421
      @thebikehub7421 7 месяцев назад +13

      He is the only answer you need in life ❤️ God is the long game to salvation in the moment and in the end - I’m in the same struggle

    • @mariahnicole5332
      @mariahnicole5332 7 месяцев назад +17

      Going through a breakup as well, or ghosting which is worse. Spending as much time with God and in his word as I can❤ stay focus on him and he will heal your heart and help you through it

    • @melulopes
      @melulopes 7 месяцев назад +6

      You are not alone, same here 😢

    • @G.spicey
      @G.spicey 7 месяцев назад +22

      I was in unimaginable pain after my breakup with my ex 6months ago! The stages of grief were incredibly raw! The anger was heightened because of the betrayal I felt! But I prayed, & trusted God for healing! My heart was in physical pain & I never thought the pain would go away, now… 6months down the line, God healed most of the pain! He continues teaching me to trust Him! Endings/ Rejection are a form of redirection. Trust Him! God is good all the time!

    • @shannondalcour8447
      @shannondalcour8447 7 месяцев назад +1

      Amen

  • @Leedy06
    @Leedy06 Год назад +622

    I needed this message! This year has been a rocky year for me. I lost my grandfather, I lost my relationship with my ex, I lost friends, and I lost my dad on Dec 1st. It’s tough and I’m a bit puzzled with everything at the moment with my walk with God and Jesus. But through it all, I didn’t lose God and Jesus! Whoever come across this message. Pray for me. Thank you 🤲🏾💙

    • @yolandarichardson2766
      @yolandarichardson2766 Год назад +4

      Praying with and for you.

    • @malikhoward1971
      @malikhoward1971 Год назад +1

      Sending you love and light 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @meelahmanifestslove
      @meelahmanifestslove Год назад +4

      Very sorry for your loss of your loved ones 🙏🏾 that is a rough year indeed. Thanking God for his presence throughout it all is a testament of true faith

    • @Leedy06
      @Leedy06 Год назад

      @@yolandarichardson2766 Thank you
      🤲🏾💙

    • @Leedy06
      @Leedy06 Год назад

      @@malikhoward1971 Thank you bro
      🤲🏾💙

  • @Melindabuildin
    @Melindabuildin 7 дней назад +2

    THANK YOU, GOD, FOR THIS MESSAGE. YOUR TIMING. DEC 17, 2024 🙏🏾❤️🙌🏾

  • @Carmennnw
    @Carmennnw Год назад +280

    “Father, I trust you even when it hurts; help me to view disappointments as you ordering my steps”

  • @k33y93
    @k33y93 5 дней назад +2

    When you have to rewind it 5 minutes in - because he’s dropping gem after gem.

  • @letho6924
    @letho6924 5 месяцев назад +97

    “Everything that’s built on a weak foundation will collapse in a storm” 🔥

  • @JesusismyKingNL
    @JesusismyKingNL 10 месяцев назад +210

    The heartbreak was so bad, I thought I was going to die, but it was a blessing in disguise. God also blessed me with an infected stone in my jaw, that lead me to a nurse who prayed for me in Jesus name(yes she said in Jesus name!!) it's been 4 years and I've been practicing celibacy (no more fornication) and serving the LORD daily❤🙏

    • @jasmin2052
      @jasmin2052 5 месяцев назад

      God also blessed me with an infected stone in my jaw? God did this to you

    • @nicolegreene2208
      @nicolegreene2208 2 месяца назад +1

      🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉I'm so proud of you, Fam!

  • @chells_tells3894
    @chells_tells3894 11 месяцев назад +343

    God is faithful and amazing! One year ago I was soooo heartbroken over someone who I thought was my soulmate but God reveal to me it was a soul tie. I prayed for that bondage to be broken and now fast forward today- I’m in a healthy relationship. THANK YOU LORD PUBLICLY AND PRIVATELY ❤

    • @VanessaNyatsapfu
      @VanessaNyatsapfu 10 месяцев назад +12

      can't wait to reach this stage🥺

    • @chells_tells3894
      @chells_tells3894 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@VanessaNyatsapfu you will very soon in Jesus mighty name!

    • @maryrosecericos154
      @maryrosecericos154 7 месяцев назад +1

      Can relate😢 I really knelt down in prayer. May I ask your WhatsApp and how did u cope

    • @naysx12
      @naysx12 6 месяцев назад

      Amen !!

    • @Healhealthywithdrea
      @Healhealthywithdrea 6 месяцев назад

      I’m praying to get through this … I’m in the beginning stages

  • @shelbybrice42
    @shelbybrice42 Год назад +209

    I am going through the worst heartbreak and KNOW it's only God that lead me to this sermon. Thank you God for a perspective shift. 🙏

  • @robertjaredwilliams7788
    @robertjaredwilliams7788 Год назад +327

    “Until the pain of change outweighs the irritation of being stuck, you’ll never move.”
    WOW. 💪🏾🙏🏾

  • @Johnwill-t7d
    @Johnwill-t7d 18 дней назад +20

    Praise to God Almighty!!!!'m favoured, $140k every 3weeks! | can now give back to the locals in my community and also support God's work and the church. God bless America🇺🇸❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @CharlotteSilver-p7b
      @CharlotteSilver-p7b 17 дней назад +1

      I believe when God blessess it exceeds beyond my expectation. I know my Father in heaven is a generous father who provides the needs of his children感

    • @MarkSarah-qn2oc
      @MarkSarah-qn2oc 17 дней назад

      I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

    • @Johnwill-t7d
      @Johnwill-t7d 17 дней назад

      Sure, the investment-advisor that guides me is …………….Mrs Cynthia Bereniz Galvan!
      After enduring many struggles, I am now filled with gratitude for owning a new home. My family is happy, and everything is finally falling into place.

    • @philkelvin4588
      @philkelvin4588 17 дней назад

      Hallelujah!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good f twas owning a loan of $47,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (David), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $12,000 and got my payout of m $270,500 every months, God bless Mrs Cynthia Bereniz Galvan.

    • @YoungEmmanuel-
      @YoungEmmanuel- 17 дней назад

      Praise God! Hallelujah! ** It's truly amazing to hear how God's blessings have touched your life and helped you through such a significant journey. The transformation you've experienced through the daily devotionals is a powerful testimony of His grace and provision. What a blessing to hear that your financial burden has been lifted and your son's health is being cared for. May God continue to guide and bless you and your family abundantly. All glory to Him!

      Blessings to Mrs. Cynthia Bereniz Galvan as well for her role in your breakthrough

  • @Starsunshine777
    @Starsunshine777 Месяц назад +17

    This is the type of preachers we need relevant to our culture but with sweet truth!

  • @_humblekay7075
    @_humblekay7075 Год назад +71

    Heart break is when our emotions have to readjust unwillingly

  • @PrettyMango
    @PrettyMango Год назад +200

    I've been ready to give up .. I got on my knees today and cried out to God, questioning if he even hears me. I feel bad for single mothers, struggling & feeling alone. Especially single moms who aren't single moms by choice. We deal with so much alone ... the load gets heavy & tiring. I hope anyone going through can find the strength to pull it together.

    • @lockedintogod4404
      @lockedintogod4404 Год назад +6

      Sending you some love sis ❤

    • @user-es1qt2ib2p
      @user-es1qt2ib2p 11 месяцев назад +2

      God will provide that. Seek Him. He will give you all you need. Strength, peace and more my love. ❤ sending you light.

    • @velmahairston8106
      @velmahairston8106 8 месяцев назад +4

      I can totally relate to this. Trying my best to stay positive and patient in God’s plan and not my own.

    • @samottientertainment281
      @samottientertainment281 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much sis❤

    • @Eiiorab111
      @Eiiorab111 8 месяцев назад +2

      I’m feeling the same way, that is why I found this video 😢

  • @toyaspears6376
    @toyaspears6376 9 месяцев назад +56

    I need this type of sermon... I don't need the gospel sugar coated 😢. I need deliverance. Please pray for me.

  • @rayonnaandrews7424
    @rayonnaandrews7424 5 месяцев назад +42

    "Can I trust you with disappointment?" Bars from heaven.

  • @Wealthybaby
    @Wealthybaby 7 месяцев назад +76

    Heartbreak is when your emotions have to readjust unwillingly. You won’t turn the page because you don’t know who will be in the next chapter

  • @alexisbrown9371
    @alexisbrown9371 8 месяцев назад +26

    I feel like I've been living in pain for over 30 years, I'm only 35. This was so good

    • @meiapearson3661
      @meiapearson3661 8 месяцев назад

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @veronicaprado4136
      @veronicaprado4136 5 месяцев назад

      ❣️🗣

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh 28 дней назад

      Wow me too. My pain started from childhood and my whole life been a cycle of using things and people for my pain

  • @leannethomas9797
    @leannethomas9797 Год назад +108

    "Some of you won't turn to the next page because you know that person (that we shouldn't be with, it's not God will) won't be in the next chapter." Thank you for that!
    I did leave, but I keep wondering if I made the right decision out of loneliness. That statement spoke to me that I am right where God wants me and to keep moving forward with the Lord.

    • @meiapearson3661
      @meiapearson3661 8 месяцев назад +1

      Same… 🙏🏽Amen

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh 28 дней назад

      Same with me .

    • @jodenembova4230
      @jodenembova4230 17 дней назад

      very soon very soon ill leave a toxic relationship and I know he will fight me as he was not heaven send, but I trust God that He has this in his control. Please pray for me and my sons

  • @roseblack6057
    @roseblack6057 5 месяцев назад +81

    I’m going through a break up. 😢 And this message is what I need right now.

    • @reynalyne5680
      @reynalyne5680 5 месяцев назад +5

      same , im in pain because of break up 😭

    • @roseblack6057
      @roseblack6057 5 месяцев назад +4

      @@reynalyne5680 Pray for strength, peace and understanding. Get closer to God during this time. 🙏🏽

    • @seanscott3642
      @seanscott3642 5 месяцев назад +3

      Prayers to yall and you guys healing 🙏🏾

    • @maria_grasya777
      @maria_grasya777 4 месяца назад +1

      Sending hugs.. let's heal together 😢❤

    • @roseblack6057
      @roseblack6057 4 месяца назад +1

      @@maria_grasya777 we can 🙏🏽 I’m feeling so much better this month. Praying you heal expeditiously 🙏🏾

  • @leslieanntheodore5015
    @leslieanntheodore5015 10 месяцев назад +81

    I needed this. After being in a relationship with a man who showed me who he was throughout the relationship, I kept holding on. Now I actually see the blessing in the breakup. It definitely had to happen to draw me closer to God and be tired of toxicity . I now have a growth mindset. Still growing. Thank God ❤

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Месяц назад

      You only get involved with a man who A. Serves & loves Christ & B. Is intentional to court & marry you.

  • @mdrenewed
    @mdrenewed 10 месяцев назад +40

    I've decided to heal, surrender and keep my legs closed before marriage. 🙌🏾🙏🏿

    • @thea7418
      @thea7418 10 месяцев назад

      🤝🙏❤

  • @PraiseGodall
    @PraiseGodall Год назад +36

    Was in depression I lost all hope off living but my parents and my sisters continued to pray and cry out to God for a merical thank you Jesus

    • @LaDonnaTaylor-Details
      @LaDonnaTaylor-Details Год назад +2

      Amen!

    • @SyvilleJosephine
      @SyvilleJosephine 10 месяцев назад +1

      Praying that your faith hasn't failed and that you know how very mu h you are loved. Remain encouraged. 😇

    • @PraiseGodall
      @PraiseGodall 10 месяцев назад

      Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉
      @@SyvilleJosephine

    • @PraiseGodall
      @PraiseGodall 10 месяцев назад

      Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉
      @@LaDonnaTaylor-Details

    • @najiHER
      @najiHER 7 месяцев назад

      Give your parents and sisters a hug for me. They knew your worth even when you didn't believe.

  • @Millie-q6x
    @Millie-q6x 11 месяцев назад +67

    Prayer time saves time.
    Jesus took time.
    Be patient.
    Heal well.Take time to grow.
    Regulate your emotions.
    No time to waste

    • @meiapearson3661
      @meiapearson3661 8 месяцев назад

      Amen

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 7 месяцев назад

      So true. We don't like to wait in our society. In the previous sermon in this series by Jerry Flowers , he mentioned how we like to do secondary things First. That was convicting.
      Prayer time saves time indeed. Many skip this step, blame God and wonder why portions of their lives are at a stand still .... God gives us free will, but he'll step back because his love for us is so strong. Yet, he steps back and let's people do what they want, but knows that people can be digging themselves into turmoil on their own.

  • @nonya7099
    @nonya7099 11 месяцев назад +24

    Choosing obedience in 2023 was hardest decision of my life. But I know the break up was necessary for me and him. Out of love I did it wanting his best. So hard to love someone but not be able to be with them. I dont know Gods plan but I know He loves me and will lead me. Faith over fear.

    • @SkegeeAce
      @SkegeeAce 27 дней назад

      How are you doing now? Praying you're happy and at peace.

  • @priscilladelucas7663
    @priscilladelucas7663 16 дней назад +5

    Going through a heartbreak and my bf who broke up with me 3 days ago .. been so heavy and feeling devastated. Took my butt to church today. and this message was amazing. thank you. it’s been so hard.

  • @alishathomas2972
    @alishathomas2972 Год назад +73

    When Jerry said “I seen her at a funeral”….. my Spirit was like “yeah, death had to happen (death to self) for resurrection to occur”….. ohhhh weee - right person, wrong time! Jesus- ya’ll give me hope for that future husband

  • @kaleighaalejaga7470
    @kaleighaalejaga7470 10 месяцев назад +10

    Lord.. just got out of a 5 year relationship yesterday. Children included.. needed this.

    • @zaniayanae
      @zaniayanae 10 месяцев назад +1

      Congratulations! You needed that message then! God has you and those kids!❤❤

  • @mslily209
    @mslily209 Год назад +92

    Pastor Jerry, I can’t even begin to thank you enough for allowing God to use you to reach our hearts.

  • @hopel2419
    @hopel2419 3 месяца назад +40

    Married 20 years and he left me for another then blamed me for why he had to cheat. It’s been one of the most painful experiences in my life and I had battled. Cancer 2x. Letting go is the hardest😢

    • @EstrelaPray
      @EstrelaPray 3 месяца назад +2

      💔🙏🏼❤️‍🩹🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

    • @Alabasterbox
      @Alabasterbox 3 месяца назад +2

      Praying for you. God will heal you and give you Justice. Even if the Justice is a Godly loving husband and not revenge. Let him be God and do what he does best ❤️

    • @Alabasterbox
      @Alabasterbox 3 месяца назад

      Praying for you ❤️

    • @shonshon7661
      @shonshon7661 2 месяца назад

      Praying for you

    • @IAM_JadeEmerald
      @IAM_JadeEmerald Месяц назад

      I’m sorry sister

  • @melaninpoppies5709
    @melaninpoppies5709 11 месяцев назад +51

    Thank you for this. To those who see this Please help me pray to steward my pain well. It’s hard guys. 🙁

  • @MeshaBNation1
    @MeshaBNation1 26 дней назад +3

    Father, I Trust You Even When It Hurts Help Me To View disappointment as you ordering my Steps 🥺

  • @Ambers_Walking_In_Freedom
    @Ambers_Walking_In_Freedom Год назад +86

    Things will remain the same until the pain of remaining the same is greater than the pain of change.

  • @theway6493
    @theway6493 11 месяцев назад +71

    Mrs. Flowers, I’m in that same situation right now. I just got out of a relationship and now I’m focusing on God. Thank you ALL for this AMAZING, Word!!!!

    • @user-es1qt2ib2p
      @user-es1qt2ib2p 11 месяцев назад +9

      Me too, sis. So hard. But I find peace in God and His will for me. This was something He tried to show me about and removed from my life once before. I fell back and am paying. He once again shows me He has better in store for me.

    • @ItsShaniForReal
      @ItsShaniForReal 10 месяцев назад +2

      Same here sisters but God ❤

  • @alexarenee29
    @alexarenee29 Год назад +61

    Just when my edges grew back, Pastor and the Mrs came and snatched them off again! Praise God!!!

    • @zaniayanae
      @zaniayanae 10 месяцев назад +2

      WONT HE DO IT🙌🏽🩷

  • @DarianaRosales
    @DarianaRosales 10 месяцев назад +45

    Wow .. I’ve been depressed for weeks now dealing with heartbreak/disappointment -& I came across this sermon after coming home late at night from work . I was tired but I stayed -& watched the whole time . Thank you for sharing this word . I needed it 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹

    • @shirleysmith8565
      @shirleysmith8565 10 месяцев назад

      ❤️🙏🏼❤️

    • @SyvilleJosephine
      @SyvilleJosephine 10 месяцев назад

      I pray that your strength is increasing and that you're beginning to feel better.

    • @missrd395
      @missrd395 8 месяцев назад

    • @tamikomann2
      @tamikomann2 2 месяца назад

      ❤🙏🏿

  • @AliyahMonay
    @AliyahMonay 4 месяца назад +48

    I’m currently going through this. I was in a relationship for 4 years the worst and since I’ve been in cycles and my 29th birthday I prayed and surrendered to God letting him know I give up and if it’s no longer his will i don’t want it. I prayed God take my lustful desires away and when my ex tried to come back I didn’t even feel anything. I’m so thankful i surrendered and finally allowed the lord to do his work in and through me. 👏🏾🙌🏾

    • @bethelchioma8695
      @bethelchioma8695 2 месяца назад

      I pray I come to this final understanding and let God to heal me ! It’s usually very difficult

  • @yazitful
    @yazitful 3 месяца назад +14

    Day 1 of letting a narcissist go… permanently. This video has helped me sleep tonight. Thank you

    • @jayjemful
      @jayjemful 2 месяца назад

      From your lips to the Lords ears. I hope you're on the same path of letting go. I to have recently broken up with my narcissist boyfriend it's not easy, but I'm trusting in the Lord to pull me through thus

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 4 месяца назад +33

    God help me. I’m struggling to take care of my children. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. I struggle providing the necessities for them, especially now that school starting up. Lord Jesus I’m overwhelmed as a single mother. Please hear my prayers. I’m constantly struggling Lord give me strength I can’t do it without you.💕

    • @dollsfordays3894
      @dollsfordays3894 3 месяца назад +1

      I lost my husband of 19 years to my special needs son's 72 year old jezebel weirdo bus driver I have special needs twins and their big sister it crushed my daughter as he up and left our house to live in a trailer park with that "human" worst of all...he does anything and everything to derail the divorce process including calling police and tying my name up in court so I can't use my masters degree to provide for these innocent souls

    • @fikiledhlame9550
      @fikiledhlame9550 2 месяца назад +1

      I pray for you, sis 🙏🏾 May God cover and carry you and your children through. He’s with you, even when it hurts. Sending you my love. ❤

    • @aishadavis5541
      @aishadavis5541 2 месяца назад

      Father were coming to u today to ask u to lift the weight off this woman allowing her to feel ur strength and endurance, feel ur love for her father. Show her that u will not put more on her than she can bear. Show her Sometimes a feeling is just that a feeling father and that's it. That it may have no truth to it, it's just how it feels. Show her that she's has a support system even if it's not family. Show her that u can maintain or remove anything that in her path. Father opener eyes to who's there for her. Put those I her life u know she needs and that the help they give is from u. One last thing Father Show her thru her children that they will be strong and they will make it, they will live normal lives according to ur will for their lives and hers. Also that this experience will make her stronger. In Jesus Christ name I pray Amen. I love u sis. I kno that single motherhood can be challenging. I'm out here with u. I love u....keep going baby, our jobs don't stop as a mother and that can be overwhelming but u will shine as u already are. I love u. Have a great day everyday with love

    • @aishadavis5541
      @aishadavis5541 2 месяца назад

      ​@dollsfordays3894 May God lay hands on ur situation. Father I kno u see everything, yet swaddle her heart and allow her to do and say the right things to get her life and situation where u see fit. Give her children peace thru it all and to not feel strained between them both. Train their hearts to be righteous, to have the view u see fit for them to make it thru. In Jesus Christ name I pray Amen.

    • @leonajackson6093
      @leonajackson6093 2 месяца назад

      ❤ sending you love!

  • @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate
    @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate Год назад +48

    Heartbreak is MARRIED to God's Timing - mind blown 💥💥

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 Год назад +32

    If we mismanage pain, we will mismanage time. ❤

  • @cheesyttv6830
    @cheesyttv6830 16 дней назад +1

    FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS! Amen

  • @youngpacman1222
    @youngpacman1222 11 месяцев назад +17

    For someone that's willing to have a significant other in their life, I feel like I been done the shadow work, completed personal goals of mine, and elevated and still feel depressed and lonely cause of the things I do doesn't honestly fulfill me when I don't have anyone to share those moments with

    • @yvonnehutson6676
      @yvonnehutson6676 10 месяцев назад +4

      I understand. This entire world has to practice self love! It begins with ourselves🙏Its extra Lonely if you get with other people and your Not on the same page! We have to trust Gos Timing! I truly understand how you feel. But we have to do the work the self Love, So we can being balance to another whole and healthy person

  • @Wealthybaby
    @Wealthybaby 7 месяцев назад +37

    “Heart break is married to Gods timing”

  • @Itsonly_Michelle
    @Itsonly_Michelle 10 месяцев назад +14

    I’m starting to think Joy coming in the morning means it comes when you finally morn the promises you made for yourself.
    God help me to finishing morning so I can have Joy Amen

  • @tiunaredick4718
    @tiunaredick4718 14 дней назад +3

    Whewwwww why am I going thru this my heart is aching I need to keep listening to this daily as a reminder that I am stronger than self sabotage ❤

  • @Gorgeous_Royalty
    @Gorgeous_Royalty 11 месяцев назад +23

    FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @Missteachable
    @Missteachable 11 месяцев назад +23

    This message is for ME🙌🏾 Just experienced a horrible heartbreak after a 3yr relationship. I’m tired of mismanaging my pain. I just want Jesus and his timing! That’s it🥹🙌🏾

  • @Yemaya1982
    @Yemaya1982 Год назад +46

    Father, I trust you even when it HURTS! Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps! AMEN AND AMEN!🙏

  • @wendyxiomara6294
    @wendyxiomara6294 5 месяцев назад +8

    Going through a heartbreak, but listening to this has healed a part of me so much. Thank you for spreading his word 🩷

    • @teeshhh2951
      @teeshhh2951 4 месяца назад +1

      You're not alone ❤️🫂 God's got us, he'll heal our hearts . Let's not linger longer in what he closed ❤️

  • @darlaxo
    @darlaxo Месяц назад +3

    Please lord break the cycle. I know I have wandered away thinking I knew best thinking I could heal myself which only caused more pain. Please forgive me for my sins. I come to you father. Heal my heart, heal my mind and soul father. I know you have much greater plans for my life than this constant pain, anxiety and heart break father. Amen 🙏🏻

  • @MarquisBell-j2t
    @MarquisBell-j2t 7 месяцев назад +31

    “You can’t birth anything without pain” beautiful

  • @Life.OfLexi
    @Life.OfLexi 11 месяцев назад +29

    Father , I trust you. Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps💕✨🧘🏽‍♀️

  • @sunnyyvinson
    @sunnyyvinson 3 месяца назад +3

    I kept looking for safety & security in my past relationships just to end up disappointed.The last relationship was my LAST relationship, I was tired of the choices I was making. I had to face the truth of myself and the unhealed wounds I was carrying. I decided to fully TRUST GOD. I came to realize he’s been providing and protecting me all along. Jesus was the one I looked for in others. 🥰😇

  • @dinaledimpho
    @dinaledimpho Год назад +16

    I went through this and prayed. Someone i met came back into my life and I prayed for clarity and I got it. Though what happened was I placed him before God once I felt i had him. Then he left. Blocked me, no explanation nothing. This last Saturday, 8 months after we broke up, i bumped into him with his brand new extremely beautiful bride, and she is gorgeous, at their wedding reception. I was there to pick up a parcel and I was late for my appointment. I have definitely not stewarded my pain right. I have been on antidepressants and all sorts since we broke up. I was broken all over again. I needed this and I will listen to this on repeat and keep praying. I know I am where she was. I dont want anymore pain. I am even tempted to say i dont want anyone else. I am 43 and childless and it just doesnt seem to be coming.

    • @Carohuynh97
      @Carohuynh97 Год назад +7

      Aww this must’ve been so hard. I’m sending you so much love and strength!

    • @yvonnehutson6676
      @yvonnehutson6676 10 месяцев назад +7

      God Bless you Sis! 😢❤Phil 4:13 You are a testimony. God will restore and give you better. Trust the Process you are coming out as pure Gold! Gods turning your pain and to your greatest testimony!

    • @SkegeeAce
      @SkegeeAce 27 дней назад +1

      Oh, honey. Biggest hugs. You dodge a BULLET. Trust me. God was looking out for you and you bumping into them was Him showing you that! Anybody who would do that to you and then be married 8 months later is not well and I feel sorry for his bride.

  • @EdnaDavid-cf1ur
    @EdnaDavid-cf1ur 9 месяцев назад +6

    This has been such a tough year. But I am hoping and praying that God heals my heart and soul through this rough phase of my heartbreak.

  • @craigford33
    @craigford33 10 месяцев назад +28

    My Mother died September 12, 2022. I lost my faith. I became worldly and fell away. Then I had a dream about my Mom. She shook her head and knew it was her saying “this ain’t how I raised you” the coming weeks I turned back to God. I’m looking and praying for grace. I had to realize that God knew my Mother first. & he loved her more. She was his. Not mine. And everything I felt was because I wanted my Mom back and God did not see fit to grant that. However two years later I’m seeing that he needed to break me so I could finally learn to really seek him. & even though I miss my Mother. There are blessings born from the pain and loss. I praise God I’m seeing this now. I love you. May God be with us all.

  • @jillh440
    @jillh440 11 месяцев назад +10

    💯🎯If the enemy can get us to mismanage pain it will lead us to mismanaged time. Because pain causes us to pursue false remedies.💥

  • @ariawilliams6499
    @ariawilliams6499 11 месяцев назад +10

    “we were meant to be just not at that time”

  • @Courie11e
    @Courie11e Год назад +6

    "My purpose is watching me as I'm praying....wooo"

    • @ajordan1847
      @ajordan1847 Год назад

      This.❤🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @GodsChosenMekAmoR
    @GodsChosenMekAmoR Год назад +16

    J Flowwwwwwwwwwwww, ahahahahahahhaaa. Awww this is beautiful "My purpose was watching me as I was asking for clarity". God stepped in. His timing is beautiful. Thanks for sharing. I am at this point. It's just I want God to get the glory and have no idols or attachments to distract me. If it ain't His will I don't want it. Thank you for all you do for Kingdom.

  • @dawnmitchell8637
    @dawnmitchell8637 4 месяца назад +26

    I know this was 8 months ago but it was His perfect timing for me to hear this today!!! Thank you God and Thank you Pastor Jerry!!!!

    • @mycrewletsgo4601
      @mycrewletsgo4601 4 месяца назад +1

      Same ! I was just crying out To God wondering if he hears my prayers and sees my tears and was just saying no one cared about me , I feel alone , and worthless and what’s my purpose .. Cried and cried and asked God to pleaseeee show me you are here with me …Time passes , I open youtube , and find this video ..WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED ..literally .. GOD IS GOOD , GOD IS GREAT !

    • @adidouglas2571
      @adidouglas2571 4 месяца назад +1

      Same here. Needed to hear this message today.

    • @fikilemabuza6023
      @fikilemabuza6023 3 месяца назад

      Same here 😢​@@adidouglas2571

  • @buck_maize111
    @buck_maize111 6 месяцев назад +19

    While in the world I met, fell inlove with, married with 2 kids the woman of my dreams. Everything was amazing.. till I found God in 2019.. she gave me a choice "it's either her or God" I chose her.. 2022 she left me and I attempted suicide twice.. lost everything and she became a meth addict.. and has spent the last 7 months in and out of drug rehabs and mental hospitals..
    I've made desperate choices to fill that void ever since.. drugs, alcohol, women.. all the worldly answers.
    I have my 2 girls full time while working full time. Goto church on Sundays with my girls.
    Read my bible and I'm getting back on my feet. But this sermon just gave me hope.
    Thank you! ❤

    • @nikkigiles1581
      @nikkigiles1581 6 месяцев назад +2

      I'm going through a similar situation, except I have two boys! I thought that the man I was with was who I was going to marry. I already knew God but I compromised my faith, just to satisfy him and we lived together unmarried twice. Over the course of 6 years I lived in the turmoil of not being aligned to God's Will. Until I finally left that situation in January 2023, that followed by a year and a half long breakup that was messy because I became active in ministry again and surrendered myself to God, but I loved this man so much so I couldn't let go. And I wondered why I had so much spiritual warfare, I was literally worshiping God and playing with the devil at the same time. He finally found someone else and ended it which was the biggest heartbreak, put the biggest blessing because I am now focused on completely walking in my calling feeling the pain of it for a purpose that is greater than me. To whom much is given, much is required, it's time to get to work! Keeping you lifted in prayer! ❤

    • @prettylove1407
      @prettylove1407 3 месяца назад

      Hope you’re better now ❤❤❤

  • @JeauxHoward
    @JeauxHoward Год назад +14

    Arms that hold me, hold me from my peace, purpose and prosperity. Help me release him in Jesus name!

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Год назад +14

    Never let your guard down always be watchful.

  • @Wealthybaby
    @Wealthybaby 7 месяцев назад +17

    It’s not until the pain of change, outweighs the irritation of being stuck you’ll never move

  • @DrChalicecom
    @DrChalicecom Год назад +11

    Tanisha thank you so very much for your vulnerability and transparency. As a single Christian woman, your story inspired and confirmed my stance. I thank you and Pastor Jerry for sharing your testimony, which encourages me. I am a Christian counselor and would love to join you all for your Therapy Thursdays! It is such a blessing when Pastors recognize the value of therapy! 🙏🏾🙌🏾😇😇😇

  • @ChristianMig1980
    @ChristianMig1980 3 месяца назад +9

    I broke up with my best friend of 30 years. I thank her for the pain, the good times, and for serving her purpose in my life. My emotions have now been recalibrated and I know my future will be filled with the fruits of this season. This sermon did not come to me as a coincidence, but as an affirmation in my life. Thank you Lord for revealing your truth in your perfect timing. Not one second was wasted. Lessons have been learned and you will redeem my time. Amen.

  • @NieshaDenise
    @NieshaDenise 11 месяцев назад +6

    I was in a 12 years relationship with someone who mentally abused me not always physically but it was at times. He would cheat and leave and I stayed because he told me if I left he wouldn’t be here for my daughters anymore. I knew how much my girls loved their dad so I dealt with whatever. God knew that I should have left years ago. I didn’t listen it got worse and worse. I feel like I taught him how to treat a woman. Because 6 days after cursing me out and being with me he had a side chick he went and married. I asked god why me? I’m still lost for words it’s only been 2 months and I’m still hurting. But I believe god was like “you wouldn’t leave so I showed you why you should” god knew I wasn’t going to get anywhere with this man. But now I have to heal and I’ve been getting closer and closer to god.

  • @urmama000
    @urmama000 7 месяцев назад +16

    Tired of learning thru pain😢, i feel that

  • @brianabattle6247
    @brianabattle6247 Год назад +30

    Tanisha’s testimony touched my heart! Heartbreak is hard but God always uses our pain & experiences to show us we can get through it with Him. In the end , he gets the glory from it all! And we get to experience His love on a deeper level… even through heartbreak. Thank you for sharing this testimony Mrs. Flowers!💙

  • @jonathanolivo2137
    @jonathanolivo2137 11 месяцев назад +18

    Man I needed this spiritual food today!! Been dealing with an major disappointment and heartbreak .....4 1/2 year relationship to my fiançè ended....I found out she was having an affair with the guy she called just a "friend". It hurts!!!!, But this pain will not be in vain

    • @Ma-Wanga
      @Ma-Wanga 11 месяцев назад +1

      Going through the same pain and disappointment

    • @yvonnehutson6676
      @yvonnehutson6676 10 месяцев назад +1

      🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @samanthamuybonita
    @samanthamuybonita Год назад +19

    I love your wife testimony. I was in the same boat. But God has me in my listening season right now. I now want what God wants for me.

  • @ikeyangel
    @ikeyangel 3 месяца назад +5

    Walking around with a broken heart is not fun🙏🏾 the eves and flows of joy and pain🙏🏾 after a month and a half the tears are less often but when he said “I did not want this to be a lesson!!…I wanted this to be love!” That’s exactly where I’ve been!🙏🏾 Open to God’s healing ❤️‍🩹

  • @porchewilliams1422
    @porchewilliams1422 10 месяцев назад +9

    Omg. His wife spoke to me. Like what! Praise God 🙏🏾 just tears flowing ! Thank you God.

  • @Countrygirl8019
    @Countrygirl8019 10 часов назад

    😢pray for me and my broken hurt

  • @Chula-LunaDelMar
    @Chula-LunaDelMar Год назад +11

    No more recovery seasons...it's time for re-grounding , reflection and regrouping. Needed this today.. absolutely 🔥

  • @mitchellperez3600
    @mitchellperez3600 7 месяцев назад +27

    Thank you Jerry. This breakup is hard, especially when the person who was there to assist my healing is now doing the hurting. Seeing and hearing how my own choices and actions are affecting others too much has really sat with me, I want the pain of change to outweigh the irritation of staying the same.

  • @CL-do5eq
    @CL-do5eq Год назад +14

    My heart is so tender listening to this because it’s true. I believe it hurts more because you realize how you treat yourself. God needs us to do better. It hurts but I’m listening.

  • @laviniatarver7139
    @laviniatarver7139 3 месяца назад +5

    I lost my dad 10 days ago after my youngest son pray for me

  • @carlissable
    @carlissable Год назад +6

    I find that when I follow GOD and all his instructions...there is far less heartbreak 💔. He gives us instructions and guidance to help us avoid a lot of things and situations that put us in the position to be hurt and broken. Thank you Father God for your love, compassion, mercy, forgiveness and giving us the opportunity to turn back to you. Praise your Holy name. Thank you Father God. Thank you King Jesus. You are more than worthy to be Praised. 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Amen, Amen and Amen. 💕💕💕

  • @mikalyonsoneal9890
    @mikalyonsoneal9890 11 месяцев назад +3

    I would rather have the peace of God than to be warmed by the devil.....

  • @newenglandtoffee9190
    @newenglandtoffee9190 Год назад +30

    FATHER I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @M_Shay_
    @M_Shay_ Месяц назад +1

    Jesus Jesus Jesus Lord help me.. He’s preaching to me!! Yes Lord. Time wasted, mismanaged time all the above. I’m at work fighting back tears.. This is for me I’m so thankful I’m came across Pastor Flowers and their ministry.

  • @TaylorSprag
    @TaylorSprag Год назад +210

    God is truly using this man. My sister and I made it to service yesterday and the congregation was nothing but millennials. It was so beautiful seeing so many young people hungry. The Word was RIGHT ON TIME. The church has a separate parking lot and four overflow rooms that were all filled to capacity yesterday! God is going to bless them with a larger building soon!!! Thank you, Jesus!!!!

    • @meelahmanifestslove
      @meelahmanifestslove Год назад +4

      Yes God 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @MsVoiceOfReason
      @MsVoiceOfReason Год назад +2

      BUT GOD!!! ❤🎉

    • @mikalyonsoneal9890
      @mikalyonsoneal9890 11 месяцев назад +1

      I pray that the Lord blesses this ministry 100 fold because it's fruitful and impactful for change.
      Our generation has become weary by the complacency of tradition and church as usual. We've grown weary with leaving church the same way you arrived. Weary of not addressing the elephant in the room and hiding our face to the very things that are wounding us.
      God bless the anointing over Pastor Jerry's ministry and life.

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 7 месяцев назад

      Oh I can see God moving in that aspect! The move of God is extremely unstoppable. One Bretheren and Sisteren are a part of the Kingdom of God, he uses people to make the plow manifest. This ministry is impactful for change. And it's clearly just the beginning of what God is doing and will continue to do.

    • @brittanythequeen
      @brittanythequeen 6 месяцев назад

      Amen!

  • @aliceandappetizers
    @aliceandappetizers 11 месяцев назад +5

    I choose faith over fear. I try to look for ways to seek peace even when I feel like it escapes me. I would like to ask for prayer that I learn how to control my anger when I feel it and remember that vengeance is the Lords, not mine.

  • @karahadu8234
    @karahadu8234 9 месяцев назад +3

    FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS. HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS 🙏🏽

  • @alexiskrymis5918
    @alexiskrymis5918 11 месяцев назад +6

    Pain is inevitable. Misery is optional. 🔥

  • @g.elizabethlunday9384
    @g.elizabethlunday9384 5 месяцев назад +10

    I have come to the end of settling for less! I am set apart, surrendered to the Lord for his service in Jesus name. God bless you Pastor Flowers as you are a vessel for the kingdom of heaven. Glory be to God

  • @BelieverFirstwithSharonJoy
    @BelieverFirstwithSharonJoy 10 месяцев назад +4

    You can’t birth anything without pain. Sometimes the heartbreak is for recalibration. It had to happen. The fireplace is the meeting place.

  • @nadirahdanielle29
    @nadirahdanielle29 Месяц назад +3

    FATHER I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN UT HURTS HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Год назад +4

    The fireplace is the meeting place. Where God is introducing HIMSELF in another dimension.

  • @AndreBundles30
    @AndreBundles30 6 месяцев назад +10

    Lord I’m praying you save my marriage and my family please bring my wife n kids home lord this time we will put you first in everything we do need a miracle lord please 🙏🏼

    • @kabeya1438
      @kabeya1438 6 месяцев назад +1

      May God answer your prayer

    • @AndreBundles30
      @AndreBundles30 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@kabeya1438 I hope so sweetheart cause it’s not looking good but that’s when I gotta keep my faith in God 🙏🏼

    • @sharllotemazoe5323
      @sharllotemazoe5323 4 месяца назад

      I pray your family comes back together.

    • @AndreBundles30
      @AndreBundles30 4 месяца назад

      @@sharllotemazoe5323 I’m praying for it it’s looking not good but I gotta keep the faith 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @AndreM37
      @AndreM37 2 месяца назад +1

      I pray for you. I recently lost my little family after a brief reconciliation. She left me to be with a man she only knew 10 weeks over 7 years n 2 daughters. I just want my family.