The reaosn why he won't is because psychology and treatments are supposed to be secular and neutral. This take is lifted form the 10 step program which has Christianity at it's core. Psychology has come a long way since the ten step.
@@RhetoricalMuse Christianity does actually provide some great lessons for all, the stories are about being human. Spirituality of a kind is actually the component that saves most people from addiction.
He is fantastic in the way he simplifys very complex truths of life . This really deserves to be seen by more so life can change for better towards pyschological wellbeing . With gratitude to his brilliant mind and compassionate soul
Realizing how much I dissociate has been wild. It can be subtle and it can be like walking through a wall of water, and Boom, disconnected. It’s so hard to fight against it as it makes the panic worse. That’s where I’m at.
Some mind wandering can't be avoided, so please don't punish yourself too much... What a therapist said to me about my dissociation was saying "no" to it meant saying "yes" to what I needed to do. I don't know if this helps, but it stuck with me
You've described all about this phase. Im in healing like for 3 years as PTSD started. And this looks like severe depression. And no way out. Nothing makes scence anymore. And everything that I try to do doesnt work. Like you live but not alive
I have always heard that the Bible story was about Gods people and their relationship with God, but now i understand that tbeir story is my story too analogous to my struggles and exactly like Isreal I have been wondering in my life's desert for 40 years, but i hope and pray that i can lead my children to the "promised land" so they dont have to suffer like i do.
Excellent presentation, this process destroyed my life. I am healing but its caused major disorientation in my life choices. All completely avoidable if I was not exposed to life changing violence from the age of 7.
What we all need to realize specially us the ones who live in a major city, big families, public schools, etc etc. all these things are highly stimulating things that easily force us to subconsciously disconnect. The system knows this, it’s designed this way to rob us of our consciousness. This is the war that has been placed on us. My we all prosper, heal and rise up to one day conquer these negative spiritual warfares. God bless you all.
wow, spot on. my family, friends, society had turned away from obedience and I went with them on their highway to hell... to heal, I have to repent, turn around....easy to say, so hard to break away from the super glue holding me back..little by little, inch by inch, day by day breaking their grip on my choice to follow Jesus.
Complex trauma is very hard to heal and the pain is excruciating. It definitely steals lives. I don't believe anyone is ever the same with cptsd. It creates mental illness addictions and physical illness
This is true: we can never go back to who we were before an experience. But I find no benefit in longing for what might have been. We are who we are right now. All we can do is try to steer the course of our development towards who we would like to be in the future.
I am now so disconnected from my emotions that i cannot cry, even if feel like i want to. If i do manage to start (always when i have lost a pet) it will last less than a minute before the switch in my brain turns it off. It has a huge impact in that when talking about how awful i feel and my suicidal thoughts and addictions with doctors, they dont take me seriously and dismiss me, which re triggers my abandonment issues, or thoughts that I am in some way an imposter. I just dont know how to get help before i end up making the decision to just not be here anymore.
What makes me suffer the most is realising that I will never be the person I could have been without this shitty family. I couldn't develop my talents and I will forever be a useless being
His website details that he works with people who are in addiction as his main focus if I remember right, so it makes sense if his terminology reflects that
The painful consequences are certainly out there because this world is fallen. If God was punishing anybody he'd have to apologize to Jesus because Jesus was the propitiation
I haven’t hear one contradiction. You may be over criticizing here with your ego and ignorance due to not having the skills to put the teachings into practice. God bless you.
100 days clean and sober. Someone in Narcotics Anonymous told me about him and I am addicted to Tim Fletcher videos.
This guy needs more visibility. He's too good to stay hidden in the depths of youtube.
Agree they need better SEO.
I agree 👍🥰
The reaosn why he won't is because psychology and treatments are supposed to be secular and neutral. This take is lifted form the 10 step program which has Christianity at it's core.
Psychology has come a long way since the ten step.
@@RhetoricalMuse Christianity does actually provide some great lessons for all, the stories are about being human. Spirituality of a kind is actually the component that saves most people from addiction.
One can simply do is just spread the word about Tim and his videos!
I have gotten so much help from this-- You have no idea-- HUGE !! Like the giant sink hole is being filled with real Coping Skills!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!
He is fantastic in the way he simplifys very complex truths of life . This really deserves to be seen by more so life can change for better towards pyschological wellbeing .
With gratitude to his brilliant mind and compassionate soul
Realizing how much I dissociate has been wild. It can be subtle and it can be like walking through a wall of water, and Boom, disconnected. It’s so hard to fight against it as it makes the panic worse. That’s where I’m at.
Some mind wandering can't be avoided, so please don't punish yourself too much... What a therapist said to me about my dissociation was saying "no" to it meant saying "yes" to what I needed to do. I don't know if this helps, but it stuck with me
Wish I would’ve watched these videos last year instead of the news 😆🤦🏼♀️💯
Thank you. It’s getting easier to be me, because of you.
Thank you for helping me
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You've described all about this phase. Im in healing like for 3 years as PTSD started. And this looks like severe depression. And no way out. Nothing makes scence anymore. And everything that I try to do doesnt work. Like you live but not alive
Thank you for being a pillar in the world!
I have always heard that the Bible story was about Gods people and their relationship with God, but now i understand that tbeir story is my story too analogous to my struggles and exactly like Isreal I have been wondering in my life's desert for 40 years, but i hope and pray that i can lead my children to the "promised land" so they dont have to suffer like i do.
Excellent presentation, this process destroyed my life. I am healing but its caused major disorientation in my life choices. All completely avoidable if I was not exposed to life changing violence from the age of 7.
So helpful. This is me 100% thank you!🙏
As Fall has begun, I find myself crying often.
What we all need to realize specially us the ones who live in a major city, big families, public schools, etc etc. all these things are highly stimulating things that easily force us to subconsciously disconnect.
The system knows this, it’s designed this way to rob us of our consciousness. This is the war that has been placed on us.
My we all prosper, heal and rise up to one day conquer these negative spiritual warfares. God bless you all.
wow, spot on. my family, friends, society had turned away from obedience and I went with them on their highway to hell... to heal, I have to repent, turn around....easy to say, so hard to break away from the super glue holding me back..little by little, inch by inch, day by day breaking their grip on my choice to follow Jesus.
❤ Thanks
Learn Plenty From You.
Complex trauma is very hard to heal and the pain is excruciating. It definitely steals lives. I don't believe anyone is ever the same with cptsd. It creates mental illness addictions and physical illness
This is true: we can never go back to who we were before an experience.
But I find no benefit in longing for what might have been. We are who we are right now. All we can do is try to steer the course of our development towards who we would like to be in the future.
This topic is what I'm dealing with at the moment,,,, wow,,I didn't think anyone understood
Thank you so much for all the information! God bless you!
These videos are spot on and very insightful thank you
Son thankful for sharing your work ❤️❤️❤️
I’ve watched a bunch of your videos and have benefited from each one-but this lecture is my favorite ! Thank you, Tim.
You are helping me so much. Thank you.
Thank you very, very much!!
There should be a Tim Fletcher subreddit.
Thanks
I’ve had some form of this since I was 12, it’s really just my normal so idk how to even begin
I am now so disconnected from my emotions that i cannot cry, even if feel like i want to. If i do manage to start (always when i have lost a pet) it will last less than a minute before the switch in my brain turns it off. It has a huge impact in that when talking about how awful i feel and my suicidal thoughts and addictions with doctors, they dont take me seriously and dismiss me, which re triggers my abandonment issues, or thoughts that I am in some way an imposter. I just dont know how to get help before i end up making the decision to just not be here anymore.
How are you now, Alyson? Praying you are doing better. 🙏
Hope u doing well
I have been there. Let me know if you wanted to know more about my yourney ❤😊
I wish I'd discovered this channel four years ago
Great lecture
A lot.of.people.dont want to remember their trauma aswell
What makes me suffer the most is realising that I will never be the person I could have been without this shitty family. I couldn't develop my talents and I will forever be a useless being
Keep coming!
We can resolve all the cptsd
It takes time, but you can do it!
Is it really recovery if it only takes a day or two to "relapse"?
Man I want the tidying up kind of mental illness, not the content addiction 😂 can I learn to swap?
What do you do when you never knew Self?
You make the unconscious processes conscious. Watch yourself in situations where usually tuned out.
Hope you doing well
I wonder why this guy uses alcoholics terminology like "in recovery", and if he has a background in NLP. 🤔 Possibly suspicious.
Because that’s his background. He’s authentic so he speaks from his own frame of reference. It’s where we all land once we heal enough. 😊
His website details that he works with people who are in addiction as his main focus if I remember right, so it makes sense if his terminology reflects that
Was gods grace and humility why he let is son Jesus die?
So that you & I could be saved. Believe on the Lord Jesus and you will be saved. Acts 16:31
The painful consequences are certainly out there because this world is fallen. If God was punishing anybody he'd have to apologize to Jesus because Jesus was the propitiation
He's starting to contradict himself.
Jim is a great teacher. I follow all I get learn. No only learn it but also you have to practisch it 😊❤.
I haven’t hear one contradiction. You may be over criticizing here with your ego and ignorance due to not having the skills to put the teachings into practice. God bless you.