Painful Emotions and Complex Trauma - Part 7/8 - Emotions - Part 1/2
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What’s so bad is that we live in a world where there is no room for people to be able to take time out for self care. Most of all if you are low income. If I miss work I can’t pay the bills. The system needs to change too not just people. When your forced to choose between taking sometime for self care or being able to pay the bills there’s something wrong there. Not to mention the fact that there aren’t many Affordable options for Therapy. Also I just want to say thank you Tim. Your videos are a big help and I also really appreciate that you don’t force people to believe the same way you do when it comes to Religion. I’ve read books by other Psychologist and therapist who have great work and the Science behind their tactics is sound but they take away from that by forcing there Religious beliefs on to others. Thank you for not doing that.
Tim, you are a great teacher, a life saver!
If it wasn't for me having a relationship with GOD, I would of gone down the wrong path a long time ago, although I suffer greatly alone with CTPTSD, it's the grace of God that i can "seemingly" appear to have a great no problematic life.
🤔 I guess this lesson includes the desire to be married, which has been difficult for me since I don’t care to meet anyone online. I do pray about it, but I’m exhausted with trying to figure out what actions to take.
Lord have mercy!!! This man is speaking my whole life. It’s amazing to see how much he knows and understands and we’ve never met! How did you come to this knowledge sir?! You are helping me understand the things I’ve been trying to figure out which is slowly freeing me from these shackles! Thank you soooo much! You are an awesome Pastor!
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Thanks for sharing the knowledge with people. I'm learning so much from my journey in the search of my true reality. After over a half century there is reason to that reality or life itself is just a lie from jump. Unwilling to accept the waste of my life I seek out the positive side of the road to give my pain purpose. Thanks again.
This one hits different 🎯
HE always shows up! He's the Only One that will never leave me or forsake me. Thank You Lord for your never-ending love for us.
If you have cpstd, then God did abandon you.
My faith died the death of a thousand qualifications.
Lori C lol yes... How did this video go from psychology and then digress to the super natural.
Guess what? The Only One that will never leave or forsake you, is YOU. You show up for yourself. You never abandon or forsake yourself!
This God you speak of….must be on a VERY longggggggg vacation 😂
Hi don’t think I ever felt happiness, or real joy, until I was in my 20s and had started working on myself.. I had it all shut down, couldn’t even play
I started laughing hysterically (literally!!) upon hearing the words "I'm in this happy mode an I should sabotage." Do I have a sign on my head? Next do limerence!! 😂😢
OMG! "...and then you burn out and then you cry." 🤯
My problem is being isolated and neglected from birth and having to take care of myself for 50 years. I've just wished somebody cared enough to take care of me once in a while...
Thank you, Tim.
I’m so scared of my feelings. I am learning. But holy hell this path is absurdly intense and challenging.
Yes very intense especially when you didn't know you were so damaged. I'm 53 and just learned everything about cptsd . It is overwhelming for sure. Learn growth heal is the process. Good Luck on your journey. I will never be healed from all triggers it's about learning to deal with the trigger. You will get alot out of a lady called Ann here on utube it's called Crappy Childhood Fairy. ❤
Mum dad can to be sad, mad but u had to be glad
Powerful
Chronic Fatigue syndrome cause fear?
How can we see the diagrams? That would be nice. GREAT VIDEOS!
If you go to the website, www.findingfreedom.ca , and go to the Menu Tab "Tim's Talks", you can download the PDF of the notes
@@TimFletcher THANK YOU!
@@TimFletcher for anyone wondering this link no longer works.
4:30 negative emotions, messages
How do I get in contact with "react",,?
It's interesting that when you open the Bible and read Genesis chapter 3 where the serpent accuses God of being a liar, in the discussion with Eve , Eve already knew what was right from wrong from God's standpoint. We can eat from all the trees but one. Correct she knows good from bad right from wrong according to God. Satan was offering her the choice to write her own good and bad right from wrong world. God allowed it, how do you like it now? Man's rulerships are to blame, along with all the twisted religion and philosophy, we die just like God truthfully said we would, He didn't have to make the way out, but he did by sending his son Jesus to teach mankind and die at the hands of thankless individuals. We still live in a world where Satan has power and influence, along with godless wicked people who could care less about cptsd, unless they can make some money from it. Two sides God's and the Devil's, the devil is more than happy to blame God for our woes. God's given mankind and the Devil their chance to rule, the proof is in the pudding, soon He's going to bring man's rulerships to an end . Jesus began His ministery by saying," Repent for the Kingdom of the heavens has drawn near." Matthew 4:17 That kingdom is something worth recovering for, as well as coming to know God and His son.
Can someone tell me who this guy is? He has some other great videos related to trauma. Why is he talking about god here?
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Because when all is boiled down, it is a spiritual battle.
Plus WE ARE ALL WONDERFULLY MADE.
BEAUTIFULLY Designed!!! Something to GIVE ALMIGHTY GOD JEHOVAH the MOST HIGH POWER & giver of our Lives. Says THANK YOU. JESUS Christ Thank you!!😃
Because he helps people in recovery and the info is so helpful and I believe he is a pastor as well. I really respect that he spends the first 3/4 of his talks addressing his topic with a secular perspective and then he incorporates his faith teachings later for those that wish to continue in that portion.
My faith died the death of a thousand qualifications.
So god keeps Paul weak so god can come in and give paul strength and so god can be celebrated. That sounds very selfish of god.
You are missing the point! No god is good!
Massage all the Bible verses to fit into your current paradigm.
Lori C
What are you personally doing to help folks learn, grow, and find peace?
Honest question-
You are here listening for a reason....
If there was a god ... then I wouldn't have cptsd
I agree. If Jesus is the answer, why would we need all this teaching? I spent 16yrs in Christianity and my issues only worsened.
Give God all the credit for the good, but He's off the hook for allowing your cptsd?
@@formerfundienowfree4235 Because when you get saved, it's your spirit that is made new. Your mind/will/emotions are not. That is a process. That takes soul healing.
@@rudymax08 my faith died the death of a thousand qualifications just like the one you just gave. Can you not see that it is all just a mind game you are playing? You can make the Bible say anything you want.
luke short
Who tought you to blame God?
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I'm terrified of positive emotions. Good things only happen so that it will hurt more later
Who told you that? :c Did someone in the past criticize you when you showed a positive emotion? I feel like unhappy people project their unhappiness onto others so that they feel better about themselves and their situation (perhaps out of envy)... It's not the fault of someone who is happy that another is unhappy.
I had the same fears until I started learning to experience and enjoy Christ. The Lord bless you to come to the same realization. May you come to know the true meaning of eternal enjoyment
Yikes! 😢
no
When things go wrong and you are traumatized throughout your entire childhood, that is not God's fault! Anytime anything good happens to you you must give God all the glory. What a double standard!
God doesn't send everything, but he uses it for good, if we can see that.
@@rudymax08 and you know that how?
I agree. Bad things happen, your fault. Good things happen, thank God. But that is screwed up people using religion as a weapon. I've tried to talk to these spiritual retards but they will never except or see the flaw.
@@formerfundienowfree4235 @ if you have pain, it is your sin. If you have good, it is only because of God's love. Might not be true, but I have met the "godly " who preach it. Now how do these retards know that?
This is the flie in the ointment in Christianity and America it's self. Blaming the victim.
I'm learning so much about c-ptsd I didn't know I had this,,I'm so intrigued,,,I'm having a very difficult Time rediscovering myself,52 years later,,,,
Tim really is great speaker on this. I've learned so much from him.
Anna, same here! I'm 58 & just now seeing why i still feel so much embarrassment, inadequacy & fear of other kinfolk people's bad moods. These teachings literally a lifeline thrown to the exhausted ocean swimmer, indeed, underwater trying to help a CPTSD anger prone pitiable dad afloat over my head till he can get to the next life's shore. Tim's massively generous hilarious informed talks give me AIR, HOPE, LIGHT, JOY, GRATITUDE, REEEE-LIEF! Bless you on your pilgrim's path, others are with you!
Well guys ..I'm 75!! Still suffer🙏🙏🙏
Limbic function childish FEARS..... connection to our SENSES. & or intuition?? Warning. Alarming danger lurking near. Put up barrier WALL. IS this true???
so so good and such a blessing to have everything defined...there is hope if we work on ourselves and recognize the dynamics..thank you for giving me hope
Sarcasm talk. & Rude language. Disrespectful WORDS. EXAGGERATING LIFE..
Could you please make a video about, CPTSD born false shame & false guilt which is coped by rumination/ocd and self-minimisation/gaslighting/invalidation of one’s needs/emotions/preferences vis-a-vis other people’s needs/preferences.
Taylor Susan Hernandez Mary Davis Barbara
I am listening to this lecture but the slides are not showing at all.
If these videos were titled subject first and name second you would get more hits! ie.Pain and Emotions- Tim Fletchers
First : Be happy with yourself
I wish I could believe In God
Believe in God! I had no faith in childhood as such. Gradually I did because I had no other way than to hold onto Him.
Thank you so much!! 🧡
Thank you
I shared this video mainly because of the explanation of the Bible and how to not feel guilty about being sad or nervous.