So true. I got tired of being by myself and not being around anyone and that was what I wanted and I wanted to go out but then wants I had people over my house, I realized I rather be by myself because I got used to my privacy. I got used to being alone. And I am now ok with that.
@@liquid_ark1381 - Why do you think this is, MrFox? (This isn't coming from a place of meanness or sarcasm... I genuinely want to know...) I've never fit in, either...especially with my family. I do have a few close friends and a whole host of acquaintances, but sometimes I wonder *why* I feel socially awkward - even with those friends who are close to me and have been for several decades.... Strange.
Things you name is truly someone who can have a happy solitude life. For example, home is where you do any activities alone because it is your time to take care of nobody else but yourself especially if you live by yourself. Work is where you don't even need partners all the time. You might even have jobs where you work alone. Gym is where you go at your own time with no partners. Word of God could be more like anyone can go to church alone and not make friends. 6 years of your life is where you found solitude life useful. Once you see how peaceful solitude life is, you are used to it to a point where you are happy in solitude life. Once you are used to solitude life, you see value in solitude life.
As a follower of Christ myself I would say make some Christian friends. Matthew 18:20 says “ For where two or three gather together as my followers, I am there among them." Fellowship with other is important as when we gather together the Holy Spirit is there
I sometimes feel just so lonely and it's horrible but whenever I have a alone time I'll actually enjoy myself but my mind just likes to think about other people's life and just think about me as lame...
I watched this years ago when it was posted but here I am watching it again and I needed to hear it now more than ever. I went from having so many friends to none at all. I was starting to feel alone and really missed having friends but this was a reminder that I’m on the right path. Thank you for this message. Glory to God.
I try to act cool at school but when I was in second grade I always got bullied and couldn't fit I'm 12 going to 6th grade I feel like I truly could love myself i love to play basketball I love outside and sports i love playing basketball the only 2 people that love me is jesus and god I love being myself and not being like this bad people I think everytime my heart beats I think I just need to love myself god bless to anyone reading this 🙏🙌👑
Those fake friends are hating on you in plain sight I promise, they gonna be nice to your face but have hidden intentions it’s like they got demons inside them and those people from your past will hate you and talk bad because they see you’re doing fine without them. You can’t even flex on your haters because that evil eye shit is real man anyway I just made a vid going deep on all this stay blessed 🙏❤
to someone like me it makes no sense almost, it seems someone always wants my time and wants to be my friend. Its exhausting and people will message me expressing how they wish people always wanted to be around them but im sitting here just waiting for a moment to breath alone.
You know of the longest part of my life I wondered to myself how true that statement is versus moments where you actually have to improve yourself as a person like how people say that one must always improve oneself
Christian Gil I agree with you 100 percent one should always be working on ourself at all times because you want to be your best self, but there are many people that come into your life to bring you down and slow down your progress. It’s your job to see who isn’t helping you or in other words slowing you down.
@@RikelmyNicole you real for that one I do photography work you can follow me on my Instagram page and let me know if you like my photos Greos_Photography
I kept getting left on seen, no one reaching out, not invited, and getting ignored. I really felt down about it but your video helped me see this is a GIFT! Thank you so much!!
“Once you learn how to have fun by yourself. How to love yourself. The dependency on other people will naturally go away.” Man that’s some beautiful shit right there.
I feel so alone sometimes. I feel like I don't fit in nowhere in this world. This new social media world is all about being fake. Fake hair, nails, eyes, wigs, make up.. everybody just want to shake their butts.. it's just tiring. We are overloaded with it constantly. I have no friends and no one to talk to. The person I loved stole my energy n back to treating me like shit. I'm just really hurting right now.
I feel like this too,. 32 now n I thought after the 90s 2000s I had a chance but this New world is even worst.... I feel like I was born at the wrong time
You do realize that not everyone uses social media right? In fact MOST people that have REAL lives do not give two craps about it and those are the people you want to surround yourself with. You sound like the type of person to stay in the house all day and watch other people… no wonder you feel alone. Get out the house and just live life and the opportunity to make friends will reveal itself. Besides you don’t need friends anyway, especially if you have goals.
me I was alone when I watched this video by myself im good though a lot of the times I like being alone having that peace of mind too my self amen I love peace, amen, amen, amen,
I have never fit in and was always different. I was always smart, had common sense, very perceptive. Why IN THE HELL did it take me so long to see that as a gift? You are wise beyond your years....keep spreading the word. ❤️
Watched this first day of high school, now I’m watching this day before graduation. Now watching this again it makes me realize how much influence this video had on my time at high school. Thanks for giving me a positive mindset during high school.
@Melanie Blanks It's fine..we can start a friendship. I don't have any real people in my life to consider a friend neither. Let me know if you want to talk sometimes??
drained the damn life outta me, all for nothing, don't even speak to the clown no more WHILE I'm giving out marriage advice and draining myself with these different people
@@jeffreyrodriguez1913 you dont need friends you need aquintances there's a difference, with aquintances they dont need to know nothing about your life you guys can talk and have a few drinks once in a blue moon but thats it you keep them close incase you need help trying to file your taxes or where a specific place is located(restuarant etc) Thats it!!
People think they have a lot of friends but they have a lot of acquaintances. It’s lonely at the top and extra crowded at the bottom. “Friends” will get you nowhere
I left social media (except RUclips) about 4 months ago & it’s been the BEST experience ever. I feel so much more at peace mentally. And I too only have ONE friend, for 15 years! ❤
I am really happy for you,I am planning to quite social media too because see all my friends having fun really get me depressed all the time,I feel like I am left behind,Whenever I am happy over something they always find a way to make me depressed,I pray god give me the power to over come this🙏
Big Marv I disagree with that but it’s perception. That’s if you WANT to have friends. Once you understand your purpose you don’t need to surround yourself with them. You don’t need them you can strive without them. Some of us aren’t blessed enough with great friendships. I can speak for myself and I know that I’m not the problem. I see through the fakes and there’s few who are real, at least in my world.
Big Marv On that note, I give my best effort to appreciate life everyday and find joy in the world around me. I also try to spread optimism and positivity as much as I can. Changing the world around you. When judgement day comes, the majority who are lost in this matrix won’t have a chance.
OMG. The loneliness you feel around others is sickening. That motivated me to spend more time with myself. I use friends now for entertainment purposes only. The most deep relationship I have is the one with myself. And when I do hang with other people it feels so good. Because I learning to love myself. I'm not trying to feel a void by hanging with them.
So true. The loneliness you feel when with other people is something else. It's really draining. Can't explain that feeling, but I hate it. I won't ever want to have to experience it again. Some people are so damn toxic they become friends with you just so they can use you to feel better about themselves. Just so they can control you and distract you from achieving, growing and loving yourself.
Who cares? Do you see animals running around looking for friends? "Friends" are a man-made concept. Yes some animals have communities, but they need that to survive. We live in a time that civilization has allowed us to not worry about predators attacking us at every minute of the day. We don't need to be around folks all day to validate us. Most people are stuck in that school era of being popular translates to having friends. Life is too short to be worrying about who likes you and if you get accepted by your so-called peers. Remember, only the weak need people to validate because they don't have a connection with self to know that life is about experiences. Save up, work on yourself and travel the world so you gain enough knowledge and experience that people will naturally gravitate to you. Learn to play the piano or guitar. Learn to meditate.
All Nipsey was, was a thug, a crip. That's it. Not something to aspire to be like. Opened up a pop up shop and now he's a savior figure like give me fuckin break. Gang culture is one of the main conundrums.
Diego Villegas he does do that & another channel that helps and teaches me a lot is Money Motivated Starz. He taught me how to mediate correctly and everything. His link is below too if you wanna check him out. ruclips.net/channel/UCHmLtrD4T1qoxkkGxXRIZ4w
y’all missing the fact that the Bible talks about all of this stuff plus more that explains the reasons behind your situations like this. APTTMH 🤝🏼❤️🔥 stay blessed
"Everybody isn't your friend. Just because they hang around you and laugh with you doesn't mean they are your friend. People pretend well. At the end of the day, real situations expose fake people, so pay attention." - Trent Shelton
@@mahangaberryman6763 I feel you fam. I ended up supporting my old "friend" of 10 years with a home, food, transportation, and weed. I lost more than I gained from that friendship.
Humble 9300 it’s because we’re being watched at all times. When downloading apps usually people skip through the agreements such as gaining access to microphones photo galleries and phone call app etc
I am 15 years old and have Autism, ADHD and Dyspraxia. All my life I have stood out like a sore thumb and it was like I finally knew what was wrong with me when I was 8 and got diagnosed with all 3. I've always been bullied and have been a loner and haven't had friends. I would get home from school and just play on my ipad. I am doing online school as High School really would not have been good for me and my mom and I both knew that. I just spend my days online, scrolling tiktok, watching videos, listening to music or watching tv/movies. The only person who is really my friend is my mom and i'm an only child and she's a single mom so it's tough for her and I feel bad. I don't do well in school and I usually need her to help me with my work. It's just so sad I even envy my mom as she was very popular when she was in high school and very beautiful and went to parties all the time and got very good grades. I especially feel intimidated by people my age, i'm very socially awkward and people pick up on that right away and bully me it sucks even when I talk to people online it still feels like they're judging me. It's gotten worse as i've gotten older as I stand out from people my age more now than I did when I was young. I've just realized that we truly do live in an awful world and a lot of people just really aren't that nice. I'd say the key is to just find something that keeps you going. Something I do is I sometimes make really dark and inappropriate jokes to cope. Something that keeps me going is my mom and I travel quite often. I love traveling and seeing different parts of the world. I don't really know what else to say it's that we kind of just learn to live with whatever. I myself have stopped caring what others think and I feel better
@Marley Collins I agree☑️ w/ you & i've been in the same shoes as you *sometimes* (in the past) But now in college what is you said is almost relatable
@@Brainrot811 I have seen your other comments on here. I have a feeling that you likely have Autism. Especially since you said you can't be around large groups of people (which I relate to as someone with Autism) I would maybe recommend seeing professional to see if maybe you do have Autism, just to figure out what is wrong with you. But I understand too. I was always the weird and awkward kid that everyone kinda forgets about
Join ultimate man project bro Learn social dynamics Study books on how to learn and how the brain works This is what I did I’m 24 and I learnt this at a later age but I refuse to be a loser and I completely changed myself and people treat me with respect look into this stuff My learning style is Repitition Do something 5 times and apply it 5 and you will, get ahead of smarter people.
I'm an aspie too among other things. Then again I stopped going to shrinks because they all say something different. But I'm on the spectrum. But so what. Turn off the tv, put down the cellphone and get off the internet. That's revelation that came to me. Get in a loving real church, not church people or religious people but real people. One of my pastors said when you say "why don't they like me, why are they so mean, why don't they like me", remember...if they didn't like Jesus Christ, what makes you think they're gonna like you. That was deep. One of the brothers said look at what you do have, not what you don't. Also don't overthink it. But if you think about it, there is a lot of good. You gotta pray, trust God, seek God, be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ and filled with the Holy Ghost. I'm an aspie. We overthink. We think others have it together but that we don't. You'd be surprised how many have it worse. Plus times we are in. A fallen world. Read the Bible, get away from social media. My other pastor said we're all a hot mess. I'm 56. Decent people will pray for you. Please God, not man. Enjoy little things. It's just the way we think, highly intelligent, overthinking, feel different. It's just most people don't have self- awareness. Some of us do. Most just react. Love God, love each other. Listen to the birds chirping. Practice mindfulness. Look at God's creation. If you have the right intent and you're sincere, God will reveal Himself to you. My Pastor says people these days are selfish and self absorbed. Thank God when you feel good, when you feel bad, even for your pain. They always tell us, anytime you wake up this side of the ground, you can handle anything else.
I like this dude, he’s real, he doesn’t have an agenda he’s just being honest and speaking facts. This is the type of people to keep around you, real people you can talk to and not “friends” who only do what’s cool or “in”
@SS but the flat earth theory has already been debunked. Yes i do believe that the earth is a globe but i dont go and start telling people. Anyways ull probs start calling me a bot so im out
Rachelle Walters Prov.3 Verses 5 to 6 [5] Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. [6] In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.🌸 God bless
Rachelle Walters: You have to start asking yourself why are you attracting those situations in your life! Have you ever heard about the 7 essene mirrors. It’s very powerful. Definitely breakthrough material. It shows us how our life is a mirror of our inner being. Greg Braden explains it extremely well. The fact of the matter is if you constantly experience these negative experiences it’s bc you’re either that in which you experience or that in which you judge in the moment. This is coming from a non judgmental point of view. I hope this helps you close that door. Love and light to you and everyone in this universe.🙏🏻💚🌎💫☝🏼😇🌈⭐️💯
This was a very profound video. And very helpful. I feel like I don’t want friends but at the same time I feel like there is something wrong with me because I don’t have friends. After watching this I’ve decided to accept the freedom and luxury and total peace of being friendless; it truly is a beautiful serene state.
Been doing it for years now and I recently was able to get my family out the hood. I'm going to continue on with my plans and hopefully go even farther.
My family make me feel lame because i have no friends. I don't even like to be around them anymore. I feel bad about that though. they make me feel like something is wrong with me.
I feel the same, my family takes away my peace, they always talk bad about people, always screaming complaining, being rude, have no manners, i am soft spoken and dont like to raise my voice just to be heard so i just stick by myself and develop myself in a positive way, negative energy gives off frequencies that can affect you mentaly physicaly and spiritually. Love to all and forgive all.
"I wish I could hit the reset button on some of the people that came into my life and stole my energy" Damn... Blew my mind. So true your words. Thank you.
I first found this video years ago, it's just been recommended again. The last few years have really proved this video to be true, it resonates now more than ever. I felt restricted around my old friends who tended to be quite snobby, judgemental and disdainful of a lot of people. It made it harder to be myself. I tried out new groups and met quite a few more toxic people and observed drama. I'm back to being alone a lot of the time and it's definitely more peaceful. And it really does give you the space to reflect on how you want your life to be, and the time to take action to redirect and change your life. I don't want to be alone forever but I'm much more discerning about who I would like to be in my life now.
I stopped caring when I realized that most of these kids have no personality and are faking everything to fit in. I would rather be myself then be friends with people I can't do that around.
same here, when i was 12 i was just following the popular kids around and try to fit in, and it wasn't that great. next year i realised being myself and not caring about other ppl is way better, i got true friends and it was cool
& this what they dont understand, when you cut off that energy, they feel weak. If you see they feel sick to the stomach when they come back around, clearly their energy vampires
I don't know about anyone else, but me not having any friends, I can't stress this enough... once you get past the loneliness, you have NO IDEA how peaceful and amazing life is. You're in control.
i understand what you just said but its easier to say that you dont need friends if you have friends. im 42, never had a friend my whole life. have always been isolated even with my own family. i dont even have spalding to talk to. Even now no one will ever see this post or respond or care. im tired of this life.
@@JaJaJeCr Crystal, that is not true. Listen, I’m about to turn 30, and I LITERALLY have no friends, just a few acquaintances. If anything matters, I responded, not to just respond, because I want to make sure that you know to not give up. If you don’t mind me asking, do you just work, and do you have any hobbies? What do you normally do on your free time? I understand what you mean though. If you have no one to talk to, TALK TO ME! 😊
@@JaJaJeCr you seem interesting, I feel like people who’ve experienced hardships in life and stick out from typical groups are the best quality friends. What are your interests?
At this point i dont give a fuck if i end up alone anymore people are always fake and never true to themselves so you never know who can trust. You think someone has your back but theyre actually out to exploit you. The only reason why people are even nice to me is because theyre pretending. They dont give two shits about me or what i have to offer
there ain't no comment i relate to more than this shit bro before high school felt like everyone fw'd me and the world was in my hands but nowadays just cuz of this rona shit and even way before that i just felt off n antisocial as shit n lonely as hell just smokin and shit to keep myself company
Eating alone at lunch is ok bro, eat and use that time to reflect on important things in your life. Use that time to better yourself. Your never alone. School is only a short period in one's life anyway. Take care stay ☝
I know what that’s like but I graduated this year and now I don’t have to worry about it. That will be you before you know it. Just try to make the best of the time you spend with yourself, because no ones ever gonna have your back the way you do.
Being a part of a group is being lost in the matrix - that is spot on! I hope a lot of people hear this message. Don’t let other people drowned out your higher voice’s messages.
If you only got a few friends and don't really fit in all it means is that you was born to LEAD. Be a leader and ppl gon have to accommodate to yo terms and settings.
True! We are not sheep that let others boss us around! You have to separate yourself from the sheep and find those who are strong minded like yourself.
Some of the most rewarding experiences in life are going out into the world, and learning from others. Even person I find and talk to know we'll probably never meet again, we still talk and have a good time. Being alone is ok, but talking to other people really brings some other things to life.
I’m having such a difficult time with this right now. I wasted years with bullshit I have better friends now but I’m super cold towards people for the most part
I’m glad I came around to finding this video. I got really shy around middle school, after being known as a “social butterfly” for so long. I noticed myself weighing in on my surroundings and taking on more introverted characteristics. Since then I’ve gained more knowledge about myself and was able to listen to my inner voice more closely. I don’t fit in any group at work, social events, etc. I know I’m gifted bc being around big crowds is super draining. My discernment be having me so distant, so the extra people don’t even matter to me honestly. I could have friends but every time I would think I had one they would switch up, cause confusion, and end up misunderstanding me. I’ve come to the conclusion that they weren’t meant to understand me. This video was just confirmation that I should continue to embrace myself in the path I’m on for healing. Blessings✌🏽❤️
Same homie...Remember kids do as they see not as they are told. Set the example on change you want too see. Idk if you believe in God but that spirit got you!
Single father of two as well... going on 11 years. Saw how fast my "friends" disappeared when I chose to take care of my little ones. Best choice i have ever made
Jay you have 2 so just love them and love yourself! I am totally alone and don’t socialize much but I manage to survive this thing called life. I already did the depression thing after 9/11/2001. Everything been a little better since then.
My so called “friends” been talking shit behind my back and even to my face for no reason. I recently cut them off and now I’m on my grind. I hope now I can finally accomplish something in this life
When "friends" talk about you. It's because you are moving faster and higher. Than they could possibly imagine. They stay where they're at. While you soar to the stratosphere. They hate themselves and their decisions, not you.
Kuba same I moved into a new school last year and ever since I just been feeling lonely as shit with no one to talk to and it suck even more that I have social anxiety and don’t even know how to start or continue a fkn convo 😥
for me I was getting over a breakup with a toxic person that turned out was a hoe and I dropped EVERYONE for her, she meant a lot to me, so I used to have no friends after the relationship n on top of that i lost my bestfriend too. But I got out of that cycle of being so miserable, def worth it.
I remember high school, I used to hate feeling alone. I would follow people around, tried to fit in and wanting to have a lot of friends including wanting to go to parties. I ended up learning the hard way after senior year. I dealt with a lot fakes and ppl who turn out to hate me. I was done dirty and met so many pieces of shits. Now I’m 23 I don’t give a damn shit about being alone and I rather let people come to me instead of going to them. I wish I knew everything now in high school and wasn’t that stupid back then. So fuck having friends tbh and I ain’t the same dumbass from high school 🙌🏻
The late Robin Williams once said that he always thought that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing is to end up surrounded by people who make you feel alone.
You are an empathic Soul. Unfortunately, the people we come in contact with are vampires, in the demonic sense because they want to take our purity and taste it then waste it. Always protect yourself. Love. Joy. We are more than.
Hey man. I needed this. I just went through a divorce at 36 and I have been lonely since. I understand what you are saying because intuitively I have been thinking that. I haven’t had a cheat meal in months. I haven’t drank alcohol in months. It’s time to build the best possible mind, body, and soul. Much love my brotha from anotha
@@kaassaus4230 why ask about race and ignore gender?lmao, I'm just kidding, it's nice to have anyone lift others up and he's a beautiful, black man too.
I literally have been getting invited out since Friday and just want to be alone. I went on IG and saw everyone having a good time etc. deleted the app then came on RUclips and this popped up. It’s exactlt what I needed
I dont gaf what anyoen else is doing as long as they aren't holding me back or trying to. 2 types of people in this world those who want to be left alone and those who wont leave others alone.
That right amen and I'm so glad I was raised that way and I continue to be that way it really pissed me off it's what my sons got into the street not too bad but just enough to have me concern but I pray for the most of their time here on Earth he kept them are you still keeping them I pray for guidance from our Lord our God our savior I'm such a in-house person I feel so complete I am a Pisces I am a lady back kind of girl Crayola Wisteria lot find out so much and pray for so much wisdom and knowledge that God has given me and I pray that you all do the same the girl that's got it even worse since I was a young woman I will just say let God lead and guide you all of us Amen 🙏🙏🙏😘
If you really think about it, when your with your friends, groups, whatever, your constantly comparing yourself to one another, everybody doing the same thing. Your not cool if your not following such and such.. Makes sense.. This why people find it hard to love themselves or can't figure themselves out because of there friends. What ever there friends are doing there following and doing the same shit. 💯💯
It’s crazy how relatable this is time to time I know a lot of people watching this think about “how far is to far” when it comes to personal development, being afraid of not even fitting in anymore, then to see videos like this and be reminded that’s it’s okay have this godlike energy that feels so empowering to walk this earth with a mission.
"God will put you through the bad times so you can appreciate the success that's waiting for you so much more than if you had a smooth ride the whole of your life"
More like they’re trying to help you it helped me i started making lots of money from what he told me. I don’t ever encourage any RUclipsrs ever but you should really listen to him.
Sandra Parsons it is if you choose for it to be. Here’s the situation: you’re alone, don’t have anyone to talk to don’t have any friends and don’t have anyone in your life. You can choose to feel depressed about it or sad or mad or you can choose to do the best you can with the position you’re in and learn to enjoy being alone. The situation pure given is being alone. You can see that as bad, good, it just depends on how you respond :) learn to love yourself and then you won’t need to depend on anyone!
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I appreciate this video bro, I've dealt with social anxiety and awkwardness since middle school and still trying to get better. I appreciate it
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Haha 🤣
Love u man
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This felt like a facetime call
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I feel like im in a face time call everytime i watch this channels videos
I felt like he was talking directly to me man it felt crazy but gave me hope fr
If u realize it, he walking in circles
I need facetime calls like this.
“Being alone for a while is dangerous. It’s addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people anymore.” - Tom hardy
Sheesh 👌
I used to love being alone now i get depressed on random shit everyday if i'm alone too much
I saw this quote and clicked off the video case closed lmao
So true. I got tired of being by myself and not being around anyone and that was what I wanted and I wanted to go out but then wants I had people over my house, I realized I rather be by myself because I got used to my privacy. I got used to being alone. And I am now ok with that.
Facts! Scary facts
“Your higher self don’t want you hangin’ with these people”
I felt this.
I really wish I had at least one friend
It makes me so sad
@@liquid_ark1381 Focus on yourself bro, evolve.
This is so mean..
@@liquid_ark1381 - Why do you think this is, MrFox? (This isn't coming from a place of meanness or sarcasm... I genuinely want to know...) I've never fit in, either...especially with my family. I do have a few close friends and a whole host of acquaintances, but sometimes I wonder *why* I feel socially awkward - even with those friends who are close to me and have been for several decades.... Strange.
6 year’s strong. 0 friends , Home , Work , Gym , & The Word Of God.
ESOTERIC 🧠 👈🏾
Things you name is truly someone who can have a happy solitude life. For example, home is where you do any activities alone because it is your time to take care of nobody else but yourself especially if you live by yourself. Work is where you don't even need partners all the time. You might even have jobs where you work alone. Gym is where you go at your own time with no partners. Word of God could be more like anyone can go to church alone and not make friends. 6 years of your life is where you found solitude life useful. Once you see how peaceful solitude life is, you are used to it to a point where you are happy in solitude life. Once you are used to solitude life, you see value in solitude life.
@@hp2546 Wow I thankyou brother for your kind words of wisdom 🤝
As a follower of Christ myself I would say make some Christian friends.
Matthew 18:20 says “ For where two or three gather together as my followers, I am there among them."
Fellowship with other is important as when we gather together the Holy Spirit is there
How about when you are in need of help?
Being alone is either "freedom" or "loneliness" it's all about perspective
You know how far too go it's about staying away from certain people deal with alot of people that's the meaning
James it’s both for me 😭😭
Lupe Ortiz it’s both
Don’t give a damn about people who don’t like.u
I sometimes feel just so lonely and it's horrible but whenever I have a alone time I'll actually enjoy myself but my mind just likes to think about other people's life and just think about me as lame...
The worst thing is not being alone, It's being surrounded by people who make you feel alone.
Weebs 🤓
probably because ur a weeb
these normies in the chat wtf
@Ink Cup much love to you g , being a Weeb really ain’t as bad as people exaggerate it
ayyyyyy co sama I listen to your music , didn’t expect to see you here 😭 ai ore! Fire as fuck
"If you love yourself just know you'll never be alone" - Big Sean
What song lmao
Yacoob Ahmed one man can change the world
@@trollidk4059 thank you G
yes
But he also made a song about how he doesn’t fuck with his ex so idk anymore
I watched this years ago when it was posted but here I am watching it again and I needed to hear it now more than ever. I went from having so many friends to none at all. I was starting to feel alone and really missed having friends but this was a reminder that I’m on the right path. Thank you for this message. Glory to God.
I feel you 🫂
All Praise 🙏🏾
@RiriLove88 😮 me too. Back in 2021, yes... Good luck to your dreams!✨️ 💖
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Fr me too🙏🏽
Came here expecting to be roasted, but left with a new sense of hope.
i thought the same 💀
Tino change your icon nigga 😂
💀 still tho
fuck fake friends
Ikr
I try to act cool at school but when I was in second grade I always got bullied and couldn't fit I'm 12 going to 6th grade I feel like I truly could love myself i love to play basketball I love outside and sports i love playing basketball the only 2 people that love me is jesus and god I love being myself and not being like this bad people I think everytime my heart beats I think I just need to love myself god bless to anyone reading this 🙏🙌👑
This isn't motivation, this is knowledge.
FACTS
@Normani is better than Camila true
Fr
Motivational Knowledge
Those fake friends are hating on you in plain sight I promise, they gonna be nice to your face but have hidden intentions it’s like they got demons inside them and those people from your past will hate you and talk bad because they see you’re doing fine without them. You can’t even flex on your haters because that evil eye shit is real man anyway I just made a vid going deep on all this stay blessed 🙏❤
Better to be alone than to be stuck with fake friends
Queenly Queenly Big facts
Amen girl! 🙏
Got that right sis
Queenly Queenly yep
Hella facts man.
My Opinion : When you’re alone, you really see the fakeness from a mile away.
💯
Facts
for real
I don’t have friends I just know ppl if that makes sense
makes sense. U have aquantances
Victxr same tbh
to someone like me it makes no sense almost, it seems someone always wants my time and wants to be my friend. Its exhausting and people will message me expressing how they wish people always wanted to be around them but im sitting here just waiting for a moment to breath alone.
never have i related more to a comment. i hear u man. loud an clear here.
Victxr loser
“Why you have 0 friends and don’t fit in”
*Recommended for you*
Sphinx Gaming that’s tuff
I got no friends,i get bullied
i came to a new school,no one wants me to be friends with them
so my best friend is my minecraft dog
Daniel Fulga I can be your friend :))
Omg🤣
Sphinx Gaming for me for sure.
“you’re higher self doesn’t want you hanging with these people” i felt that!
You know of the longest part of my life I wondered to myself how true that statement is versus moments where you actually have to improve yourself as a person like how people say that one must always improve oneself
Right?
Christian Gil I agree with you 100 percent one should always be working on ourself at all times because you want to be your best self, but there are many people that come into your life to bring you down and slow down your progress. It’s your job to see who isn’t helping you or in other words slowing you down.
@@RikelmyNicole 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@@RikelmyNicole you real for that one I do photography work you can follow me on my Instagram page and let me know if you like my photos
Greos_Photography
I kept getting left on seen, no one reaching out, not invited, and getting ignored. I really felt down about it but your video helped me see this is a GIFT! Thank you so much!!
Screw them peeps live in your joy and embrace your gifts
This is me G
I feel you bro
You should know that these people aren't for you. Find somebody else like you that you can relate to. But you will find your soulmate 😌
This guys is probably going to be a great uncle
on god😂
or even dad i can imagine telling his children everything he’s saying in the video
Wtf
Kids won’t listen tho that’s how it be
@@JP-sh9gi then they come back to complain
I don't have friends, I just know many people.
Same :(
(Damn that beetle juice:)
Same bro
same 🙏🏽💔
same
daniel I think I’ve seen u before on a comment section-
“Once you learn how to have fun by yourself. How to love yourself. The dependency on other people will naturally go away.” Man that’s some beautiful shit right there.
4 realz bro, truth 👍
bruh I depend on my brother, bruh. But I know he a NPC. He ain't real, bruh. But I still live in his house 'cause I got to.
PROVEN FACT VIDEOS npc nigga lol
What's npc..
@@sethwatson6569 A Non-Player Character, bruh. Like when you play GTA V all those people walking down the street. They NPCs.
I feel so alone sometimes. I feel like I don't fit in nowhere in this world. This new social media world is all about being fake. Fake hair, nails, eyes, wigs, make up.. everybody just want to shake their butts.. it's just tiring. We are overloaded with it constantly. I have no friends and no one to talk to. The person I loved stole my energy n back to treating me like shit. I'm just really hurting right now.
❤️❤️
I feel like this too,. 32 now n I thought after the 90s 2000s I had a chance but this New world is even worst.... I feel like I was born at the wrong time
You do realize that not everyone uses social media right? In fact MOST people that have REAL lives do not give two craps about it and those are the people you want to surround yourself with. You sound like the type of person to stay in the house all day and watch other people… no wonder you feel alone. Get out the house and just live life and the opportunity to make friends will reveal itself. Besides you don’t need friends anyway, especially if you have goals.
Checking in, hope you're feeling better.
I feel the same. Sending you love ❤️
"A friend that betrays you hated since day one"-Tupac
"you need to use commas"-Me
@@daviiidruiz "I already used commas"-Me
Period
@@marctoonz813 I think it was in a documentary
That’s the realest shit I’ve ever heard in my life
How many people were alone when they watched this video 🤦🏾♂️
Me
me
me I was alone when I watched this video by myself im good though a lot of the times I like being alone having that peace of mind too my self amen I love peace, amen, amen, amen,
Me
Campaign World100 boy i been alone damn long enough 🤦🏻♀️ not just cuz i’m “alone” 1 inna while.🥱👋🏼
Until you’re comfortable with being alone you won’t know wether you’re choosing people out of Love or Loneliness
z Shamail thats so true man . Rip to xxx
Absolutley the truth!
damn! truth...
That hit hard then a bitch
Daamn thank u..!! Fr , I will think bout this man💎
I have never fit in and was always different. I was always smart, had common sense, very perceptive. Why IN THE HELL did it take me so long to see that as a gift?
You are wise beyond your years....keep spreading the word. ❤️
True
Some of the realist people don’t have friends- Tupac
The realest people don't have a lot of friends*
When did Pac say that?
I told them long ago
@@AGTLDN his murderers friend
Andrew Tshiala That was the dumbest comment I’ve seen in a while.
"Trust gets you killed, love gets you hurt, and being real gets you hated."
True
👍
absolutely
Why did I resonate with this.
Period
The fact that this was on my recommendation is deep 😳
true
Ye same bruh wtf
It was random, yet it wasn't random 🧐
RIGHT.
i searched why its hard to make friends in my 20s, or why women can't make friends. now its in my recommendations.
Watched this first day of high school, now I’m watching this day before graduation. Now watching this again it makes me realize how much influence this video had on my time at high school. Thanks for giving me a positive mindset during high school.
I literally DO NOT HAVE FRIENDS. 😑 the friends I DID have drained my energy
@Melanie Blanks
It's fine..we can start a friendship. I don't have any real people in my life to consider a friend neither. Let me know if you want to talk sometimes??
Yes i had to cut those friends off like i had to for my sanity.I got hit by a car an saw who my real friends are. It was me myself an I.
narcissist will just drain u...God will send u real friends
drained the damn life outta me, all for nothing, don't even speak to the clown no more WHILE I'm giving out marriage advice and draining myself with these different people
Same with me. When i try and have friends, it dosent work..i feel so weird and out of place because i literally cannot connect to anyone lol
No friends = no disappointment, treachery, and evil.
Not true, something traumatic could happen to you or your family
@@straightwhitemale6609 That's why you have family. "Friend" is a subjective term.
Yup
But no friends leads to poor social skills like me😞
@@jeffreyrodriguez1913 you dont need friends you need aquintances there's a difference, with aquintances they dont need to know nothing about your life you guys can talk and have a few drinks once in a blue moon but thats it you keep them close incase you need help trying to file your taxes or where a specific place is located(restuarant etc) Thats it!!
People think they have a lot of friends but they have a lot of acquaintances. It’s lonely at the top and extra crowded at the bottom. “Friends” will get you nowhere
Well said 💬
Love it
Amen
That's deep
That’s what my dad always told me
I left social media (except RUclips) about 4 months ago & it’s been the BEST experience ever. I feel so much more at peace mentally. And I too only have ONE friend, for 15 years! ❤
I am really happy for you,I am planning to quite social media too because see all my friends having fun really get me depressed all the time,I feel like I am left behind,Whenever I am happy over something they always find a way to make me depressed,I pray god give me the power to over come this🙏
i wanna do the same bro
I left Facebook
Did the same 7 years ago!!!
I did the same but now i spend too much time on you tube😂
Love him or hate him he is spitting straight facts.
Yep!
All memes aside hes actually telling truth
I disagree. Having friends shouldnt stop you from doing what you want to do. If it does then YOU’RE the problem
Big Marv I disagree with that but it’s perception. That’s if you WANT to have friends. Once you understand your purpose you don’t need to surround yourself with them. You don’t need them you can strive without them. Some of us aren’t blessed enough with great friendships. I can speak for myself and I know that I’m not the problem. I see through the fakes and there’s few who are real, at least in my world.
Big Marv On that note, I give my best effort to appreciate life everyday and find joy in the world around me. I also try to spread optimism and positivity as much as I can. Changing the world around you. When judgement day comes, the majority who are lost in this matrix won’t have a chance.
They laugh at you because you’re different you laugh at them because they’re all the same
Mazen99 ~Kurt Cobain
I’m 14 and this is deep
😧
El wason bb
Kurt contain quote
the loneliness you get from people is way worse than the one you get from being alone
Yesss I feel this✨
OMG. The loneliness you feel around others is sickening. That motivated me to spend more time with myself. I use friends now for entertainment purposes only. The most deep relationship I have is the one with myself. And when I do hang with other people it feels so good. Because I learning to love myself. I'm not trying to feel a void by hanging with them.
So true. The loneliness you feel when with other people is something else. It's really draining. Can't explain that feeling, but I hate it. I won't ever want to have to experience it again. Some people are so damn toxic they become friends with you just so they can use you to feel better about themselves. Just so they can control you and distract you from achieving, growing and loving yourself.
Deep
Trueeeee
I have ZERO real friends. I’m used to it at this point, it is what it is
Real
👏
Who cares? Do you see animals running around looking for friends? "Friends" are a man-made concept. Yes some animals have communities, but they need that to survive. We live in a time that civilization has allowed us to not worry about predators attacking us at every minute of the day. We don't need to be around folks all day to validate us. Most people are stuck in that school era of being popular translates to having friends. Life is too short to be worrying about who likes you and if you get accepted by your so-called peers. Remember, only the weak need people to validate because they don't have a connection with self to know that life is about experiences. Save up, work on yourself and travel the world so you gain enough knowledge and experience that people will naturally gravitate to you. Learn to play the piano or guitar. Learn to meditate.
Do you want friends? Or you don’t?
Yeah I don't really stress that or a girl no more I pursue but don't chase
Nipsey Hussle: If you have a circle of friends that's does not inspire you then it's a cage. Rest in peace 🙏🏼
Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration.
🔥🔥🔥
@Mariana Ferreira lol I thought this is a joke, I have friends.
@Mariana Ferreira Yup because i dont fit in with nobody and that make me feel like im not good at anything and that bring me down
All Nipsey was, was a thug, a crip. That's it. Not something to aspire to be like. Opened up a pop up shop and now he's a savior figure like give me fuckin break. Gang culture is one of the main conundrums.
this dude made my self esteem go from 0-100
Diego Villegas same
Diego Villegas he does do that & another channel that helps and teaches me a lot is Money Motivated Starz. He taught me how to mediate correctly and everything. His link is below too if you wanna check him out.
ruclips.net/channel/UCHmLtrD4T1qoxkkGxXRIZ4w
Real quick
Seriously tho
Same
I used to wonder what was wrong with me and now I know that God was protecting me. Thank you!
Me 2
This guy seems like an awesome person to have around I'd appreciate that presence.
"Your higher self don't want you hanging with these people."
Good point. Thanks for the insight. 👍
*”You’re the only person who will truly be in your life forever, so take care of yourself”*
You forgot to say in the end "Simple"
💯💯💯💯💯💯
"I wish I could hit the reset button on some of them people who came into my life and stole my energy" I felt that.
Same
Yeh they be stealing energy from source players, bruh. NPCs are fake people that steal the energy of the real. 99% of people are fake as shit.
🤔
Their are psychic vampires everywhere...they drain our energy and their negativity also drains us and they feed off of us...
@@TheOriginalSerpent77 Well Said !!! 💯% TRUTH !!!
I have no friends anymore, I’ve out grew everyone! And people always left me out, sadly. I have found my peace and I’m happy here ❤❤
Better to be alone than have fake people around you syphoning my energy . You make good points my brother
So true!!
mr zed AMEN!
Spiritual So in the RUclips comments
Facts
I felt this and I'm sure all the introverts out there can relate to this 😔
Yes Maam
Chea
Why that emoji? He just told you all benefits of being alone. I‘m also an introvert and I can totally relate to So
jacobthesatanist you’re a broke freak
You're gorgeous if that's u on ur profile pic
When someone calls out your whole life in one minute
I felt attacked lol
10 min****
Lmfaoooo
It’s cause you watch JoJo
@@Dexbly yare yare daze
y’all missing the fact that the Bible talks about all of this stuff plus more that explains the reasons behind your situations like this. APTTMH 🤝🏼❤️🔥 stay blessed
I swear i was just scrolling and clicked on this video and bro i swear this was a message i needed to hear i felt like he was talking to me
Same
@@tbl5138 it was needed in my opinion
@@mochakhalessi1973 at me too
Tiffany Price SAME!!
Very same
"Everybody isn't your friend. Just because they hang around you and laugh with you doesn't mean they are your friend. People pretend well. At the end of the day, real situations expose fake people, so pay attention."
- Trent Shelton
AngelDarkness I agree
Come through with that TRUE gospel.
Lol fuck you
Agreed bro, I got used by my "Friend" so he can see his girlfriend. :/ So yeah life is good.
@@mahangaberryman6763 I feel you fam. I ended up supporting my old "friend" of 10 years with a home, food, transportation, and weed. I lost more than I gained from that friendship.
I just wanna know why RUclips recommended me this and KNEW I needed to hear it.
Facts
God is the answer
God owns youtube
Humble 9300 it’s because we’re being watched at all times. When downloading apps usually people skip through the agreements such as gaining access to microphones photo galleries and phone call app etc
Omg this is crazy, I am a loner.
I am 15 years old and have Autism, ADHD and Dyspraxia. All my life I have stood out like a sore thumb and it was like I finally knew what was wrong with me when I was 8 and got diagnosed with all 3. I've always been bullied and have been a loner and haven't had friends. I would get home from school and just play on my ipad. I am doing online school as High School really would not have been good for me and my mom and I both knew that. I just spend my days online, scrolling tiktok, watching videos, listening to music or watching tv/movies. The only person who is really my friend is my mom and i'm an only child and she's a single mom so it's tough for her and I feel bad. I don't do well in school and I usually need her to help me with my work. It's just so sad I even envy my mom as she was very popular when she was in high school and very beautiful and went to parties all the time and got very good grades.
I especially feel intimidated by people my age, i'm very socially awkward and people pick up on that right away and bully me it sucks even when I talk to people online it still feels like they're judging me. It's gotten worse as i've gotten older as I stand out from people my age more now than I did when I was young.
I've just realized that we truly do live in an awful world and a lot of people just really aren't that nice. I'd say the key is to just find something that keeps you going. Something I do is I sometimes make really dark and inappropriate jokes to cope. Something that keeps me going is my mom and I travel quite often. I love traveling and seeing different parts of the world. I don't really know what else to say it's that we kind of just learn to live with whatever. I myself have stopped caring what others think and I feel better
@Marley Collins
I agree☑️ w/ you & i've been in the same shoes as you *sometimes* (in the past)
But now in college what is you said is almost relatable
I am 15 too and that one weird kid in class so i can understand you,I just wish that i could meet people similar to me one day..
@@Brainrot811 I have seen your other comments on here. I have a feeling that you likely have Autism. Especially since you said you can't be around large groups of people (which I relate to as someone with Autism) I would maybe recommend seeing professional to see if maybe you do have Autism, just to figure out what is wrong with you. But I understand too. I was always the weird and awkward kid that everyone kinda forgets about
Join ultimate man project bro
Learn social dynamics
Study books on how to learn and how the brain works
This is what I did I’m 24 and I learnt this at a later age but I refuse to be a loser and I completely changed myself and people treat me with respect look into this stuff
My learning style is Repitition
Do something 5 times and apply it 5 and you will, get ahead of smarter people.
I'm an aspie too among other things. Then again I stopped going to shrinks because they all say something different. But I'm on the spectrum. But so what. Turn off the tv, put down the cellphone and get off the internet. That's revelation that came to me. Get in a loving real church, not church people or religious people but real people. One of my pastors said when you say "why don't they like me, why are they so mean, why don't they like me", remember...if they didn't like Jesus Christ, what makes you think they're gonna like you. That was deep. One of the brothers said look at what you do have, not what you don't. Also don't overthink it. But if you think about it, there is a lot of good. You gotta pray, trust God, seek God, be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ and filled with the Holy Ghost. I'm an aspie. We overthink. We think others have it together but that we don't. You'd be surprised how many have it worse. Plus times we are in. A fallen world. Read the Bible, get away from social media. My other pastor said we're all a hot mess. I'm 56. Decent people will pray for you. Please God, not man. Enjoy little things. It's just the way we think, highly intelligent, overthinking, feel different. It's just most people don't have self- awareness. Some of us do. Most just react. Love God, love each other. Listen to the birds chirping. Practice mindfulness. Look at God's creation. If you have the right intent and you're sincere, God will reveal Himself to you. My Pastor says people these days are selfish and self absorbed. Thank God when you feel good, when you feel bad, even for your pain. They always tell us, anytime you wake up this side of the ground, you can handle anything else.
“I wish I can hit the reset button on people who came into my life and stoled my energy
Me too
Preach
My soul 🗣 when he said that. Feel it.💯💜🌟🦋
I felt that
”
I like this dude, he’s real, he doesn’t have an agenda he’s just being honest and speaking facts. This is the type of people to keep around you, real people you can talk to and not “friends” who only do what’s cool or “in”
@Pedofile why did you pick that name
He does have an agenda he says that the earth is flat.
@@unknownbear9811 Yeah but if that were to be true, in this whole video he isn't pushing that agenda on me. So I can respect that.
@SS but the flat earth theory has already been debunked. Yes i do believe that the earth is a globe but i dont go and start telling people. Anyways ull probs start calling me a bot so im out
When you get screwed over by people continously, it's really hard to trust people anymore!
Yes
Rachelle Walters Prov.3 Verses 5 to 6
[5] Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. [6] In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.🌸
God bless
Rachelle Walters: You have to start asking yourself why are you attracting those situations in your life! Have you ever heard about the 7 essene mirrors. It’s very powerful. Definitely breakthrough material. It shows us how our life is a mirror of our inner being. Greg Braden explains it extremely well. The fact of the matter is if you constantly experience these negative experiences it’s bc you’re either that in which you experience or that in which you judge in the moment. This is coming from a non judgmental point of view. I hope this helps you close that door. Love and light to you and everyone in this universe.🙏🏻💚🌎💫☝🏼😇🌈⭐️💯
Rachelle Walters What did your friend(s) do?
I was about to say this. The trust is gone..... Shannon
This was a very profound video. And very helpful. I feel like I don’t want friends but at the same time I feel like there is something wrong with me because I don’t have friends. After watching this I’ve decided to accept the freedom and luxury and total peace of being friendless; it truly is a beautiful serene state.
This was a WHOLE WORD! My grandma always told me, “ He who travels alone travels fastest”
Now that's a word ...I like that
Yes..... travels but where to......
Perspectives... If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.
Words from a wise woman
I dont care about popularity. But definitely feel like an outsider. This world is strange.
Same here
Hi
Jesus said we are not from this world-the devils dominion, we are of Jesus’ eternal kingdom. Repent for He is soon to return!
This “dunya” is not your home heaven is your home come to almighty allah before it’s to late you are his creation. So is everything else.
Bad Wolf Ameen
Being a "lone wolf" doesn't seem like a bad thing these days.
P.S. Grewal it sure doesn’t
Been doing it for years now and I recently was able to get my family out the hood. I'm going to continue on with my plans and hopefully go even farther.
Always been a loner
@@givegodthanks I'm the same way
I’ve been like that ever since 2016
58 years old and needed to hear this. Left the “group” in my 30s, got tired of drinking and other unhealthy activities. Thank you, sir.
This man is so real, he spoke directly to my soul.
Hence the name Spiritual So
Yo I deadass connected to my higher self watching this video
So is a false prophet
I love being alone. Even being around family drains my energy sometimes, I thought I was weird but maybe not.
My family make me feel lame because i have no friends. I don't even like to be around them anymore. I feel bad about that though. they make me feel like something is wrong with me.
My family brings out the worst in me sometimes
I feel the same, my family takes away my peace, they always talk bad about people, always screaming complaining, being rude, have no manners, i am soft spoken and dont like to raise my voice just to be heard so i just stick by myself and develop myself in a positive way, negative energy gives off frequencies that can affect you mentaly physicaly and spiritually. Love to all and forgive all.
candid0111 Cause there is... Go play some sports and get a life
candid0111 same
"I wish I could hit the reset button on some of the people that came into my life and stole my energy"
Damn... Blew my mind. So true your words. Thank you.
Exactly
real shit
I first found this video years ago, it's just been recommended again. The last few years have really proved this video to be true, it resonates now more than ever. I felt restricted around my old friends who tended to be quite snobby, judgemental and disdainful of a lot of people. It made it harder to be myself. I tried out new groups and met quite a few more toxic people and observed drama. I'm back to being alone a lot of the time and it's definitely more peaceful. And it really does give you the space to reflect on how you want your life to be, and the time to take action to redirect and change your life. I don't want to be alone forever but I'm much more discerning about who I would like to be in my life now.
I stopped caring when I realized that most of these kids have no personality and are faking everything to fit in. I would rather be myself then be friends with people I can't do that around.
same here, when i was 12 i was just following the popular kids around and try to fit in, and it wasn't that great. next year i realised being myself and not caring about other ppl is way better, i got true friends and it was cool
Fax fam
Just gotta find the right people you comfortable with
@@ibeatyourmeat1440 back in high school, I thought the smart and nerdy kids were the cool ones.
Yea, i feel the same way, I have "friends" bit they're all mean, fake, and Im really shy, soo it's hard to make friends that I can relate with
"Why you have 0 friends and Don't fit in"
RUclips... how did you know???😂😂🤣
Did you recently talk about it online with somebody?
Hey chill. We're here
IKR I didn't seek this video, it just appeared ..... *smiles contently*
Fax
Bruhh, I was legit thinking this fucking site spying on me lowkey :')
Not having friends and getting cut off was the best thing that happened to me. Focusing on myself
BIG BILL facts
BIG BILL same:) let’s get this money and change our lives
Big fax
Relating 100%
& this what they dont understand, when you cut off that energy, they feel weak. If you see they feel sick to the stomach when they come back around, clearly their energy vampires
I don't know about anyone else, but me not having any friends, I can't stress this enough... once you get past the loneliness, you have NO IDEA how peaceful and amazing life is. You're in control.
AMEN!!!
i understand what you just said but its easier to say that you dont need friends if you have friends. im 42, never had a friend my whole life. have always been isolated even with my own family. i dont even have spalding to talk to. Even now no one will ever see this post or respond or care. im tired of this life.
@@JaJaJeCr Crystal, that is not true. Listen, I’m about to turn 30, and I LITERALLY have no friends, just a few acquaintances. If anything matters, I responded, not to just respond, because I want to make sure that you know to not give up. If you don’t mind me asking, do you just work, and do you have any hobbies? What do you normally do on your free time? I understand what you mean though. If you have no one to talk to, TALK TO ME! 😊
@@JaJaJeCr you seem interesting, I feel like people who’ve experienced hardships in life and stick out from typical groups are the best quality friends. What are your interests?
At this point i dont give a fuck if i end up alone anymore people are always fake and never true to themselves so you never know who can trust. You think someone has your back but theyre actually out to exploit you. The only reason why people are even nice to me is because theyre pretending. They dont give two shits about me or what i have to offer
When I hit high school my life drastically changed I went from having lots of friends to a loner
same bro
Dude same wtf I was popular then nah ;/
there ain't no comment i relate to more than this shit bro before high school felt like everyone fw'd me and the world was in my hands but nowadays just cuz of this rona shit and even way before that i just felt off n antisocial as shit n lonely as hell just smokin and shit to keep myself company
peeps I can relate like hell
Same :)
The only thing that sucks about having no friends is lunch and group projects
No U FACTS that’s the problem for me
Eating alone at lunch is ok bro, eat and use that time to reflect on important things in your life. Use that time to better yourself. Your never alone. School is only a short period in one's life anyway. Take care stay ☝
I know what that’s like but I graduated this year and now I don’t have to worry about it. That will be you before you know it. Just try to make the best of the time you spend with yourself, because no ones ever gonna have your back the way you do.
Watch vids and eat lol
True
Being a part of a group is being lost in the matrix - that is spot on! I hope a lot of people hear this message. Don’t let other people drowned out your higher voice’s messages.
If you only got a few friends and don't really fit in all it means is that you was born to LEAD. Be a leader and ppl gon have to accommodate to yo terms and settings.
100% true lol don’t try to change yourself just so you can fit in with other people lol if you don’t fw most people then that’s cool
EIGHTYONESHOTS facts
EIGHTYONESHOTS Right and this is why I’m self employed.Im too much of a non conformist.
True! We are not sheep that let others boss us around! You have to separate yourself from the sheep and find those who are strong minded like yourself.
I really don’t feel good/comfortable around any of my “friends”, I have tried but I’m so happy with my own company.
Same here!
Wish I was happy in my own company.
Robyn it comes with age
I feel that I'm better off alone, I don't want to deal with fake people. The only person you can really count on is yourself
True fact that's what I learned stay to my self and mind my business stay away from toxic so called friends and certain family members
1000
Some of the most rewarding experiences in life are going out into the world, and learning from others. Even person I find and talk to know we'll probably never meet again, we still talk and have a good time. Being alone is ok, but talking to other people really brings some other things to life.
Word Up ..Now that's a dumbs up Right there a High Five and a Touch!!. Thanks, I So needed to hear this... REAL TALK Brother 💯
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I’m having such a difficult time with this right now. I wasted years with bullshit I have better friends now but I’m super cold towards people for the most part
I’m glad I came around to finding this video. I got really shy around middle school, after being known as a “social butterfly” for so long. I noticed myself weighing in on my surroundings and taking on more introverted characteristics. Since then I’ve gained more knowledge about myself and was able to listen to my inner voice more closely. I don’t fit in any group at work, social events, etc. I know I’m gifted bc being around big crowds is super draining. My discernment be having me so distant, so the extra people don’t even matter to me honestly. I could have friends but every time I would think I had one they would switch up, cause confusion, and end up misunderstanding me. I’ve come to the conclusion that they weren’t meant to understand me. This video was just confirmation that I should continue to embrace myself in the path I’m on for healing. Blessings✌🏽❤️
From a man with two kids single and very alone felt like dying this video lifted me so much , I owe u
Same homie...Remember kids do as they see not as they are told. Set the example on change you want too see. Idk if you believe in God but that spirit got you!
Single father of two as well... going on 11 years. Saw how fast my "friends" disappeared when I chose to take care of my little ones. Best choice i have ever made
Jay you have 2 so just love them and love yourself! I am totally alone and don’t socialize much but I manage to survive this thing called life. I already did the depression thing after 9/11/2001. Everything been a little better since then.
Be Blessed ♥️
U on the Right Track Brother.
My so called “friends” been talking shit behind my back and even to my face for no reason. I recently cut them off and now I’m on my grind. I hope now I can finally accomplish something in this life
wowwwww people so fucked up for real you better off alone fr
@@staymortified yep blocked them all and now im focused on youtube
Dealing with the same shit. Idk you but I'm proud. I'm focusing on my craft and life as well. Keep pushing and enjoy the journey my guy.
When "friends" talk about you. It's because you are moving faster and higher. Than they could possibly imagine. They stay where they're at. While you soar to the stratosphere. They hate themselves and their decisions, not you.
Sometimes you need to think about what they say....... we can be blind to our weaknesses but don't put up with pure simple bullshit
I needed this so bad... I've been miserable, depressed, pissed for so long..
It’s ok bruh , just do what makes you happy without anybody’s consent .
Same💯.
Kuba same I moved into a new school last year and ever since I just been feeling lonely as shit with no one to talk to and it suck even more that I have social anxiety and don’t even know how to start or continue a fkn convo 😥
for me I was getting over a breakup with a toxic person that turned out was a hoe and I dropped EVERYONE for her, she meant a lot to me, so I used to have no friends after the relationship n on top of that i lost my bestfriend too. But I got out of that cycle of being so miserable, def worth it.
acu.na_03 glad you got over it bud 😸
I remember high school, I used to hate feeling alone. I would follow people around, tried to fit in and wanting to have a lot of friends including wanting to go to parties. I ended up learning the hard way after senior year. I dealt with a lot fakes and ppl who turn out to hate me. I was done dirty and met so many pieces of shits. Now I’m 23 I don’t give a damn shit about being alone and I rather let people come to me instead of going to them. I wish I knew everything now in high school and wasn’t that stupid back then. So fuck having friends tbh and I ain’t the same dumbass from high school 🙌🏻
I am very similar to you, especially the high school part.
@@Patrick-qe3ci about time 🙏 I sometimes be feeling I was the only one
@@Patrick-qe3ci did you also wanted everyone to like you in high school?
@@williswayne1876 Yes. I just wanted a group of friends and a social circle, and I just wanted to get invited to parties but I never did.
@@Patrick-qe3ci same here with all that, and I wanted people to like me
I didn’t understand this until I left school and started doing things worth my time. Any teenagers seeing this, trust what this man says.
THIS
thanks
Thnx @Carlos Lainez
@@LeFisheDeChocolat I like your username.
The late Robin Williams once said that he always thought that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing is to end up surrounded by people who make you feel alone.
Lars: Sadie, do you ever feel lonely... even when you're around people?
This is exactly how I feel... ALONE. But most individuals energy drains my spirit. I got me and I am good‼️♥️
Cherina Lee fax on me
Real talk
Same here. I always wish to go out and have a fun time but when i am actually out with people i feel so drained and down :(
You are an empathic Soul. Unfortunately, the people we come in contact with are vampires, in the demonic sense because they want to take our purity and taste it then waste it. Always protect yourself. Love. Joy. We are more than.
тања Иче thank you baby for those words. I appreciate them so much and you are absolutely right!!!! ♥️🙏🏾
Hey man. I needed this. I just went through a divorce at 36 and I have been lonely since. I understand what you are saying because intuitively I have been thinking that. I haven’t had a cheat meal in months. I haven’t drank alcohol in months. It’s time to build the best possible mind, body, and soul. Much love my brotha from anotha
These youtube recommendations know me spiritually now
Lol
On ma
Fact lol
Raimond Põld That’s Why November is important.
Yaiii
It’s so good to hear a black man talking like this 🙏🏾❤️
Wht does his race matter?
It is nice.
@@kaassaus4230 why ask about race and ignore gender?lmao, I'm just kidding, it's nice to have anyone lift others up and he's a beautiful, black man too.
kaas saus Because he’s defying stereotypes of blacks being ignorant and illiterate.
@@kaassaus4230 what about gender? does that matter?
You ever heard of the saying "we hear things when we are meant to" this is definitely one of those moments
exactly...
Lapiz uni and that’s that on that
It truly is!
I literally have been getting invited out since Friday and just want to be alone. I went on IG and saw everyone having a good time etc. deleted the app then came on RUclips and this popped up. It’s exactlt what I needed
Insanely crazy how true this is
I dont gaf what anyoen else is doing as long as they aren't holding me back or trying to.
2 types of people in this world those who want to be left alone and those who wont leave others alone.
Escaping a toxic circle is priceless.. no drama is a beautiful way to live.. isolation is a gift ..
Neon Blackstorm facts
it's hard at first but eventually you feel better.
Neon Blackstorm yessss!!!
@@ThisIsNotADramaChannelFR - absolutely 100% agree with you
That right amen and I'm so glad I was raised that way and I continue to be that way it really pissed me off it's what my sons got into the street not too bad but just enough to have me concern but I pray for the most of their time here on Earth he kept them are you still keeping them I pray for guidance from our Lord our God our savior I'm such a in-house person I feel so complete I am a Pisces I am a lady back kind of girl Crayola Wisteria lot find out so much and pray for so much wisdom and knowledge that God has given me and I pray that you all do the same the girl that's got it even worse since I was a young woman I will just say let God lead and guide you all of us Amen 🙏🙏🙏😘
To all those people who say the youtube algorithm don’t work... how did it kno I had no friends
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Haha mte
😂😂
I know right.👀😨😱😆😆😂
Scary 🤔
"Friends are a distraction from you loving yourself"
I had to pause the video and think about that for a few minutes.
Same I paused at that moment too it really made me realize some things
Very true after I gave it a thought myself
Yes
If you really think about it, when your with your friends, groups, whatever, your constantly comparing yourself to one another, everybody doing the same thing. Your not cool if your not following such and such.. Makes sense.. This why people find it hard to love themselves or can't figure themselves out because of there friends. What ever there friends are doing there following and doing the same shit. 💯💯
Lol okk
It’s crazy how relatable this is time to time I know a lot of people watching this think about “how far is to far” when it comes to personal development, being afraid of not even fitting in anymore, then to see videos like this and be reminded that’s it’s okay have this godlike energy that feels so empowering to walk this earth with a mission.
"God will put you through the bad times so you can appreciate the success that's waiting for you so much more than if you had a smooth ride the whole of your life"
Tell that to the majority of Jewish people in Germany during World War 2...
Ryan Reyes their life’s were so much better afterwards wasn’t it?
Well said
Yep
RUclips suggestions attacking me personally this time damn...
Viktoria Grande same sis👀
Viktoria Grande ;(💀😂
Because your phone listens to you.
Same here
More like they’re trying to help you it helped me i started making lots of money from what he told me. I don’t ever encourage any RUclipsrs ever but you should really listen to him.
Been a loner my whole life always been real... great message and video.
Sandra Parsons are u a loner??
Sandra Parsons it is if you choose for it to be. Here’s the situation: you’re alone, don’t have anyone to talk to don’t have any friends and don’t have anyone in your life. You can choose to feel depressed about it or sad or mad or you can choose to do the best you can with the position you’re in and learn to enjoy being alone. The situation pure given is being alone. You can see that as bad, good, it just depends on how you respond :) learn to love yourself and then you won’t need to depend on anyone!
I've been alone all my life I'm sitting home right now on my couch alone listening to this message
Its easier said than done
To this day, I still listen to this. I am a veteran. 10yrs. You saved me by making this.
Here I was judging myself thinking somthing was wrong with me.
People ask why I have so little friends. I say “Quality over quantity.”
That's so true
Deep
@@chicagogalaxy670 that was about as deep as my anal cavity.
@@jcast1749 that's pretty fucking deep
Facts tho. Stronger relationships better than tons of people you can’t trust.
I totally agree! I’d rather be a “hermit” than socialize with hypocrites and fake people! This is experience talking here!! Thanks!!🦋
me too
Becky Lipps factss
Facts. ♈️
Amen to that 🙏
right
Probably his best spiritual video💯he saved life’s with this!