Girl, I understand what you’re talking about. It happened at school, church, work etc… I don’t fit in. Rn, I’m at church and no one comes to greet me or try to get to know me. But God knows my name, He loves me and He’ll guide me.
I'm 56, and everything you describe in your introduction. No family left who talks to me. No close friends. Not even associates. I don't use social media. It's garbage. I've been alone all my life. Now I'm too _exhausted_ to care.
I felt like this all my life. Even with some believers. I have come to enjoy my alonesness because I refuse to fit in. I'M ACCEPTED BY THE ONE WHO MATTERS MOST, JESUS CHRIST!
@@roosaas just because you say it with words does not mean you understand which GOD is source as the very Bible you like to quote is very clear of the many God's and why you shall know them by their works. Seems you found religion and not at all GOD
If you are depressed then you are living in the past, if you are anxious then you are living in the future. And if you are at peace then you are living in the moment. And that is were God acts upon your life. Knowing this and constantly monitoring my emotional state and seeing were I am at in my mind (in the future or the past) then bringing myself back to the current moment has changed my life and brought me so much closer to the most high creator of All.
2:07pm I am so happy with who I am and coverable.I sometimes have to hold the joy enword so.I do.I don't mind going fishing alone. I just have alot of peace. So ✌ everyone and love.
I'm an introvert and I certainly don't fit in. From I was growing up I didn't fit in. I use to think that I was the problem. But that's not the case. Over the past year and half it drawn on me that I'm different. I was made to not fit in or do whatever the crowd deems popular, whether in person or on social media.
I’m naturally a friendly person but I notice that once I start talking about Jesus some of my friends would get so upset. I realized I can be friendly but I don’t have to compromise my faith for my friendships.
Maybe some of your friends are narcissistic ? I'm pretty sure a narcissistic person would hate to talk about religion, so he will hate to talk about Jesus too. Talking from my experience. You should check with whom you spend your time with and test them.
I will be your friend!! I also have ptsd, I am the outcast in my family because I no longer decided to go along with the lies and deceit! There is hope love! I talk to the lord because I know he is a trusted friend and companion and comforter!
I’m definitely this person. I never fit in in school and I’m beginning to think I don’t fit in with my own family but it’s cool I rather be set apart and be ready for God.
Everyone thinks this is them but its not. Only 1% of the world is chosen. Remember when GOD HIMSELF interacted with this world (old testament) Abraham could not even find 1. Dont slumber believing a lie.
@@silencedones4421It’s said directly in the Bible “John 15:19 If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.” There’s so many of us chosen from this world by God. That percentage you’re throwing is made up by you, and doesn’t align with reality. There’s way more than us than you can even imagine. We’re not alone in this. God is with us all the way trough, and there’s other people who have been chosen as well.
I am going to be who GOD created ME to be. I have dealt with so many negative people, trying to make me think and act like them. I Thank GOD for opening my EYES to the TRUTH. NOW I CAN BE TO MYSELF AND BE CONTENT, JUST ME AND JESUS. THE 😈 FAMILY WAS THE WORST, I AM THANKFUL HE SET ME APART, 🙏 TO LEARN WHO I AM AND WHO I AM SUPPOSE TO ME. ❤😂😊 ❤ I THANK GOD FOR THE ISOLATION, NO MORE TRYING TO FIT IN WITH THE WORLD. THANK YOU FOR THIS WORD OF TRUTH❤❤🎉😊 KEEP SPEAKING TRUTH. GOD BLESS YOU!!!
I recently lost a job because of this. My boss was lying to me to control and intimate me and i was not doing anything wrong. She had green eyed envy all over her but i was kind to her. She's had been with the company 20 years and i had no recourse. I graciously took the slap but at least she is not calling me up on Monday morning and yelling at me anymore.
Being chosen is not an easy task, but we thank God who gives us strength day by day. And I'm so glad that there are amazing souls like you out there. May the Lord Jesus bless you with more wisdom and courage to continue doing His work.
I was bullied at school. I had Frenemies. At times I played with them, at times I sat alone. They always picked fights with Me everyday. I end up getting sent to the Office and get a paddling. I told them My Mother wanted Me to hit those kids back if they hit me. I was very emotional and got angry easily so they enjoyed picking on Me. I had one special best friend who they bullied also and I always defended her. I was mentally, emotionally, and physically abused at home half of the time also as a Child. As an adult, I dealt with family issues, Me Vs Family. I battled with Church Hurt. Being Controlled by Church leaders. Today at 46. I still stand alone, having nobody hardly to talk to. When I try to connect with people, they still connect with who they want to connect with. Family, the same way. Church the same. I am waiting for God to send Me My Tribe. My Divine Connections, My Destiny Helpers. If He wants Me to overcome Rejection by continuing to stand alone, then I will.
All my life. The evil one has even whispered in my ear and told me I was "marked" or "cursed" that is why the cruel rejection keeps finding me, because I had experiences of abuse In childhood.
In America church culture, it’s now “okay” to drink. I have literally been rejected by fellow believers for not engaging in drinking alcohol. What’s super strange to me is that I’m 51! Rejection happens at all ages.
❤❤❤ You sound a lot like me...when I was much closer to your age. Never doubt your discernment, even when you feel so alone & question why...or what good am I if I'm alienated from everyone... You will encounter those times in your life but never compromise. Listening to your video has reminded me of some things I guess I needed to remember. You're exactly right & you are an example of what being a True servant of God looks like...for those who are serious about serving. ❤
That was me, that little lady...up until this very day. Thank you Lord for gifting me with the grace of peace, discernment & protection (not rejection & false affection) HALLELUJAH, a gift of God through Christ Jesus of Nazareth🙌🏽
I love this message! It really hit home for me. I was the bullied kid reading the book you described of and I still like reading books. Till this day, I still don’t feel like I fit in anywhere, no matter how kind I am to people. It’s a really lonely feeling but, I know God is with me wherever I go.
I have gone through all you are speaking of sis. I never cared about being popular in school. I got called names in High school bc I would not be immoral. Even after being born again most I met in church do not have the close relationship with Yeshua that I do and they think I am odd. I go to a small home church where most of the people are like me, in love with Christ. I started going in January. Praise God Almighty.
Amen. It feels wonderful to know that God chose me. I am soo grateful to God. I love him so much. I strive every day to be closer to him. Jesus is the only way. Thank you God for your love grace and mercy. I never feel lonely because I know he is always with me.
If the world doesn't want to accept a child of God I see it has a protection against you engaging and entrapped which to re engage in the affairs of this world ,and polluted which is a an abaminition unto God. Nothing of this world would not lead you straight forward into heaven but if you do the will of God it would rather lead you much closer to God and it is freedom to not be yoke again by the weight of sin instead we are called out to be in heaven with God therefore we are ahead for the future coming of our lord saviour Jesus Christ to be there for fit in or accepted into heaven .let continue to keep our garments clean for the bride groom cometh
CONFIRMATION!!! THIS IS HOW I FEEL, ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN. NOW I UNDERSTAND. GOD HAS CHOSEN ME TO BE DIFFERENT. NOW I KNOW TO WALK ALONE AND TRUST, A BE WHO GOD CREATED 🙏 ME TO BE.❤❤❤😊😊
❤️❤️❤️ I will give you the recommendation and the respect that you deserve for the statement you made you are a very intelligent lady!!!! Probably more so then the lady giving the message!!!!
exactly a misfit everywhere and among everyone. i m a forever misfit. I embrased it and accepted it. but people won't ever accept me being different. they have so much darkness inside.
So true. I felt like I had to learn Amapiano (South African music) dances so that when someone of the world comes to me I know it so that I can appear like ‘’I’m not like other Christian’s’’ “I’m fun”, I felt like I had to prove and go to someone to show them I am worthy to be their friend. But in that flexibility I would be dividing my love between God and the world. Thank you for your message.
Amen,what it is to be holy, I have bane bullied,even by my own family,I always stood out and bane stepped on and looked down up on,they enjoy me being down,they have joy and pride within that,I used to cry untill I got headaches because it was like a routine or a cycle,and I still go through this
Amen ❤ God always had me stand out since I was little I didn't know what it was and as I got into the word found out why peole have turned on me trashed my name for no reason it hurts but God knows why I don't like to do what everyone else does and waste my life ❤😢
I definitely feel different and because I choose to focus on the Kingdom Of Heaven I get blaspheme and not taken serious. It’s hurts my feelings and It’s lonely right now but With God I’m grateful He never left of Forsaken me. thank you Val this Video was a God sent 😊
I'm tell you I became homeless because I choose to become me not whatever one else including my family wanted me to be. Know I love me, I love that I'm different, I love the light that radiates out of me🙏🏽💓🕊🌅
I've always been a person who everybody knew, hanging out with them an drinking an just having fun..but after my Baptism they started calling me sister Helen an alm sorts of names but it really didn't affect me because I know my purpose an I was being set apart for a reason..so thank you for your words of wisdom..God bless you my sister
I say this all the time. I miss when social media was actually fun, funny, uplifting, anybody would like or comment on posts etc now it’s just so fake it doesn’t make sense. You can post something meaningful & others who do nothing but follow trends will get more recognition, brand ambassador opportunities etc then you. People even use religion for it when they KNOW they are using it for the wrong reasons💯🧸it’s crazy✍🏾
I always feel like this every day when I go to work, sometimes at my fitness camp and in my social life in general. This message helped me to embrace who I really am. All a long I thought that it was me who had the problems when really it’s people in her general. I’m starting to accept the fact that I’m different from others and it’s ok to be different and to be your true self.
Thank you Virtuous Val. I appreciate your help with this. I find myself still getting aggravated by how much I am treated so differently from everyone else. It's disturbing sometimes. Like today for instance. I'm at a reggae festival wearing my usual dress and head wrap (something other females were wearing as well) yet I see three people actually video taping me while I am just standing there or walking around. I wasn't doing anything out of the ordinary and I definitely wasn't half naked like some others were but I get stared at and talked about. Other females were wearing similar to what I was wearing but no one else was saying anything strange about them or acting like they were weird at all. Everywhere I go, people act strange when I am around. They get extremely loud, have forced laughter bouts, standing or walking near me for no reason, or plain old looking at me for prolonged periods of time. I don't know why they video tape me , that's so cringe. One girl was video taping me , then I put my phone up like I was video taping her back, then she suddenly puts her own phone down. LOL 😹...So weird. SMH. It's annoying sometimes
THIS BEAUTIFUL LADY IS SPEAKING THE TRUTH AND IT BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES IM NOW LEARNING GOD HAS A PLAN FOR MY LIFE I CAN NO LONGER FIT IN AMEN and AMEN
I feel so seen by this thank you sm! Been bullied, outcasted and isolated my whole life by my family and at school. I grew up in hell being surrounded by so much hate its honestly a miracle I’m still here and have refused to have hate in my heart like them. I’ve learned the hard way to ALWAYS be your authentic self unapologetically. By doing so you attract the right people and golden opportunities into your life ✨
Thank you, this video/message is confirmation for me of my life situations. I was that child sitting alone , I am that co-worker that eats alone, and I often find myself in a crowd totally alone. I used to question was it my clothes, my appearance, was I unapproachable, was I rude. But since I no longer live as the world I find it as a constant attack on attempting to provoke me to get out of line with my beliefs. So thank you for sharing, now I have add strength to focus on my salvation not who's feathers are ruffled. Be blessed..
I rewatch this video whenever I’m new to a job/place/environment and I feel like super anxious because I don’t fit in with people who look like me. Sometimes I feel this pressure to conform to my environment even tho it doesn’t feel natural. Thanks for the reminder ❤ we were called to be set apart
RIGHT ON VAL !!!!!!!! I’m both quirky and an extroverted introvert. And there’s a person who I can’t believe I felt so desperate to have a relationship with then I sat and listened to then tell to change in all the thinks that me and that I needed counseling ect. What an idiot and I think he’s a covert narc. And I’ve detached from them. They keep texting ect. I’m no longer responding and if I ever run into him and he asks why I’m going to tell him. God reminded me that my church friends tease me well and ect.
Definitely Always. I have learned to accept it now. Sometimes I forget that and just allow myself for people to learn things about me.. thus leading to the enevitable. Confronting the person and makes the person know that the line was/is crossed. I never repeat that same mistake twice towards the same individual.🙃
Hello Val you have definitely described my life. It seems like no matter where I go job, social events, and even family events it seems as though people have something against me without me doing anything to them. I have noticed it more in my adult life. Usually it’s from females. I seem to feel like I’m a target of anyone’s discussion and discard. It first started with my Narcissistic mother and then everything seemed to tumble down like dominoes.
A friend sent me one of your videos recently, so I just started watching. This was amazing and I sent it right back to her. Thank you so much for your spirit and guidance.
I am extremely proud of you because you are aware of who you are spiritually in physical form. You are progressing your soul's growth rapidly. Keep up the good work my sister!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
For me was a battle being part of the church, the pastor got upset, people got upset for seeing things they cannot see, I am the blacksheep and outcast, I do not fit in and they think I don't see them, I see them, they don't see me, I decided to leave because they get to offended for me telling them the truth.
You are speaking the truth I am one of those people I’ve been struggling with cancer for years often on don’t nobody care less friends! I always want it to surround myself with people like you God bless you baby girl keep speaking the truth love you🙏❤️🙏
Blessings Queen. You totally speaking truth! Been listening to some of your videos and you are spot on. Keep letting God use you for his glory and his praise. Blessings 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯❤️❤️
Grace and peace be unto you Sis. Val. You have a true inspiration and blessing to me. I feel that I don't fit in. I pray that God bless you with a double increase. Please pray that this spirit that has been harassing me all of my life leave me permanently. Amen.
It’s not REJECTION
it’s PROTECTION!!! ❤❤❤
So true ! Blessed sis❤
Yes it is total protection! Praise his holy name!
Hearing this alot
Amen!
Yes I’ve come to realize that I don’t fit in because I was meant to stand out!!
Girl, I understand what you’re talking about. It happened at school, church, work etc… I don’t fit in. Rn, I’m at church and no one comes to greet me or try to get to know me. But God knows my name, He loves me and He’ll guide me.
You're not the problem, you are different. It's God's blessing
Amen! Because I been different from others for years and I been booted out because of being a child of God
Amen 🙏🏾
Thank you. I'm autistic.
I feel rejection by the whole world.
John 15:18
I'm always alone, single and no friends and I love it. I'm a spiritual gangsta with 22 years in this earth since my first breath. Thank you my sister
Beautiful! Keep that mind set! ❤
Me too!
the only gangster is God.
@@deathrager2404 He can call himself one. The word gangsta is not affiliated with God. You people make up the most silly things.
I'm 56, and everything you describe in your introduction. No family left who talks to me. No close friends. Not even associates. I don't use social media. It's garbage. I've been alone all my life. Now I'm too _exhausted_ to care.
Yes. I feel like I don’t fit in anywhere. It hurts so badly sometimes.
Yes it does. I'm like what's wrong with me
I felt like this all my life. Even with some believers. I have come to enjoy my alonesness because I refuse to fit in. I'M ACCEPTED BY THE ONE WHO MATTERS MOST, JESUS CHRIST!
I refuse to fit in ...im living the life God has destined me to be .❤
Which God?
@@silencedones4421One true God. The source.
@@roosaas just because you say it with words does not mean you understand which GOD is source as the very Bible you like to quote is very clear of the many God's and why you shall know them by their works.
Seems you found religion and not at all GOD
If you are depressed then you are living in the past, if you are anxious then you are living in the future. And if you are at peace then you are living in the moment. And that is were God acts upon your life. Knowing this and constantly monitoring my emotional state and seeing were I am at in my mind (in the future or the past) then bringing myself back to the current moment has changed my life and brought me so much closer to the most high creator of All.
❤️🌹💯
Wow! Thank u for that comment, I really needed that. God bless u!
2:07pm I am so happy with who I am and coverable.I sometimes have to hold the joy enword so.I do.I don't mind going fishing alone. I just have alot of peace. So ✌ everyone and love.
I'm an introvert and I certainly don't fit in. From I was growing up I didn't fit in. I use to think that I was the problem. But that's not the case. Over the past year and half it drawn on me that I'm different. I was made to not fit in or do whatever the crowd deems popular, whether in person or on social media.
IM ALWAYS THE BLACK SHEEP!!!! NEVER FIT IN ANYWHERE!!!!!
VERY VERY LONELY
I find myself feeling alone also but I fill my time with prayer and learning more about Christ. Although I don't feel "chosen" it provides comfort.
I feel the same way. It reminds me of high school with clicks and then they outcast others that are not "part" of the group.
Never truly alone tho.
"If you're lonely when you're alone, then you're in bad company."
Yes, I'm the same. It's tough. But I'd rather be alone here and spend eternity in heaven than be accepted on earth and spend eternity in hell.
I’m naturally a friendly person but I notice that once I start talking about Jesus some of my friends would get so upset. I realized I can be friendly but I don’t have to compromise my faith for my friendships.
AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
Maybe some of your friends are narcissistic ? I'm pretty sure a narcissistic person would hate to talk about religion, so he will hate to talk about Jesus too. Talking from my experience. You should check with whom you spend your time with and test them.
Autistic, adhd, ptsd, rejected by family, no friends. My entire 49 years alone, bullied, ostracized, failing. No hope. No hope.
I will be your friend!! I also have ptsd, I am the outcast in my family because I no longer decided to go along with the lies and deceit! There is hope love! I talk to the lord because I know he is a trusted friend and companion and comforter!
@@thg348good for you
God is your friend
Thank God for brothers and sisters in Christ! I'm more than your friend I'm your Sister ❤ Hugs to you.
@thg348 Amen Sister ❤
this made me cry
Thank you, thank you, Thank you 😊
I’m definitely this person. I never fit in in school and I’m beginning to think I don’t fit in with my own family but it’s cool I rather be set apart and be ready for God.
Everyone thinks this is them but its not. Only 1% of the world is chosen.
Remember when GOD HIMSELF interacted with this world (old testament) Abraham could not even find 1.
Dont slumber believing a lie.
@@silencedones4421It’s said directly in the Bible “John 15:19
If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.” There’s so many of us chosen from this world by God. That percentage you’re throwing is made up by you, and doesn’t align with reality. There’s way more than us than you can even imagine. We’re not alone in this. God is with us all the way trough, and there’s other people who have been chosen as well.
@@roosaas you seem to like to bow up like you know GOD.
you know nothing of GOD and my statement still remains TRUE. Your understanding is a miss
I don’t need anyone’s acceptance but my own, thank you for this message
I am going to be who GOD created ME to be. I have dealt with so many negative people, trying to make me think and act like them. I Thank GOD for opening my EYES to the TRUTH. NOW I CAN BE TO MYSELF AND BE CONTENT, JUST ME AND JESUS. THE 😈 FAMILY WAS THE WORST, I AM THANKFUL HE SET ME APART, 🙏 TO LEARN WHO I AM AND WHO I AM SUPPOSE TO ME. ❤😂😊 ❤ I THANK GOD FOR THE ISOLATION, NO MORE TRYING TO FIT IN WITH THE WORLD. THANK YOU FOR THIS WORD OF TRUTH❤❤🎉😊 KEEP SPEAKING TRUTH. GOD BLESS YOU!!!
I feel the same way it so sad how people is today they don't appreciate you for you so sad but Jesus he love you no matter what
I recently lost a job because of this. My boss was lying to me to control and intimate me and i was not doing anything wrong. She had green eyed envy all over her but i was kind to her. She's had been with the company 20 years and i had no recourse. I graciously took the slap but at least she is not calling me up on Monday morning and yelling at me anymore.
Being chosen is not an easy task, but we thank God who gives us strength day by day. And I'm so glad that there are amazing souls like you out there. May the Lord Jesus bless you with more wisdom and courage to continue doing His work.
Amen
Who is Jesus? This violates the 1st COMMANDMENT
I have always felt like I don't fit in. I feel like this world is not my home. I am lonely most of the time. I hate it.
I was bullied at school. I had Frenemies. At times I played with them, at times I sat alone. They always picked fights with Me everyday. I end up getting sent to the Office and get a paddling. I told them My Mother wanted Me to hit those kids back if they hit me. I was very emotional and got angry easily so they enjoyed picking on Me. I had one special best friend who they bullied also and I always defended her. I was mentally, emotionally, and physically abused at home half of the time also as a Child. As an adult, I dealt with family issues, Me Vs Family. I battled with Church Hurt. Being Controlled by Church leaders. Today at 46. I still stand alone, having nobody hardly to talk to. When I try to connect with people, they still connect with who they want to connect with. Family, the same way. Church the same. I am waiting for God to send Me My Tribe. My Divine Connections, My Destiny Helpers. If He wants Me to overcome Rejection by continuing to stand alone, then I will.
I can relate. I'm autistic. I regret masking for years because I never fit in.
All my life. The evil one has even whispered in my ear and told me I was "marked" or "cursed" that is why the cruel rejection keeps finding me, because I had experiences of abuse In childhood.
Take that to pray to God to evil marked is be cursed by evil isn’t God
In America church culture, it’s now “okay” to drink. I have literally been rejected by fellow believers for not engaging in drinking alcohol. What’s super strange to me is that I’m 51! Rejection happens at all ages.
I told my family the same that we shouldnt be drinking at all n they quick to say we can just dont get drunk
Wow smh stay on the straight and narrow sis.
They even like to justify it saying drinking is not the sin drunkenness is.
Pray the Lord leads you to a sound doctrine based Church my friend. God bless.
Stop being self righteous it’s absolutely nothing wrong if u choose to not drink an others indulge
The world love their own
I been like this all my life, i never fit in even when i was in a relationship
❤❤❤ You sound a lot like me...when I was much closer to your age. Never doubt your discernment, even when you feel so alone & question why...or what good am I if I'm alienated from everyone... You will encounter those times in your life but never compromise. Listening to your video has reminded me of some things I guess I needed to remember. You're exactly right & you are an example of what being a True servant of God looks like...for those who are serious about serving. ❤
We’re not supposed to fit in. We’re meant for more
Different is beautiful. I love it. ❤
but some things are harder☹️
Amen
@@ghhkka8984 Yeah that's true.
That was me, that little lady...up until this very day. Thank you Lord for gifting me with the grace of peace, discernment & protection (not rejection & false affection) HALLELUJAH, a gift of God through Christ Jesus of Nazareth🙌🏽
It only took me 10 minutes to see that social networking was just a sham....
People should lead, follow or just get out of the way...
Story of my life 🙏🏼 after 37 years I’ve found out why and it changed everything. Blessing in disguise ✨
I’ve experienced not fitting and now I embrace it. I welcome it. Early on I would be teased for all sorts of random things but now I know who I am.
I love this message! It really hit home for me. I was the bullied kid reading the book you described of and I still like reading books. Till this day, I still don’t feel like I fit in anywhere, no matter how kind I am to people. It’s a really lonely feeling but, I know God is with me wherever I go.
Same
Only time I ever felt like I "fit in" was with others who also didn't feel like they fit in anywhere.
What a great soul you are. Sending love to all that read this.
“We are not called to look like the world and act like the world” 💯💯
I have gone through all you are speaking of sis. I never cared about being popular in school. I got called names in High school bc I would not be immoral. Even after being born again most I met in church do not have the close relationship with Yeshua that I do and they think I am odd. I go to a small home church where most of the people are like me, in love with Christ. I started going in January. Praise God Almighty.
Amen. It feels wonderful to know that God chose me. I am soo grateful to God. I love him so much. I strive every day to be closer to him. Jesus is the only way. Thank you God for your love grace and mercy. I never feel lonely because I know he is always with me.
If the world doesn't want to accept a child of God I see it has a protection against you engaging and entrapped which to re engage in the affairs of this world ,and polluted which is a an abaminition unto God. Nothing of this world would not lead you straight forward into heaven but if you do the will of God it would rather lead you much closer to God and it is freedom to not be yoke again by the weight of sin instead we are called out to be in heaven with God therefore we are ahead for the future coming of our lord saviour Jesus Christ to be there for fit in or accepted into heaven .let continue to keep our garments clean for the bride groom cometh
Being a tool vs being chosen requires discernment.
Just because you are different doesn't make you CHOSEN different. Don't steal HIS GLORY.
I don't conform to this world.. people feel left behind when they can't understand your purpose on this 🌏
CONFIRMATION!!! THIS IS HOW I FEEL, ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN. NOW I UNDERSTAND. GOD HAS CHOSEN ME TO BE DIFFERENT. NOW I KNOW TO WALK ALONE AND TRUST, A BE WHO GOD CREATED 🙏 ME TO BE.❤❤❤😊😊
Love your message sis, very well explained ❤❤❤
I’d Rather be HATED for who I AM……..
Than to be LOVED for who I’m Not
❤️❤️❤️ I will give you the recommendation and the respect that you deserve for the statement you made you are a very intelligent lady!!!! Probably more so then the lady giving the message!!!!
Remember... Don't be arrogant we absolutely must overcome who we are born into.
exactly a misfit everywhere and among everyone. i m a forever misfit. I embrased it and accepted it. but people won't ever accept me being different. they have so much darkness inside.
So true. I felt like I had to learn Amapiano (South African music) dances so that when someone of the world comes to me I know it so that I can appear like ‘’I’m not like other Christian’s’’ “I’m fun”, I felt like I had to prove and go to someone to show them I am worthy to be their friend. But in that flexibility I would be dividing my love between God and the world. Thank you for your message.
Stay real to your self I'm from south africa
Thank you!!
Amen,what it is to be holy, I have bane bullied,even by my own family,I always stood out and bane stepped on and looked down up on,they enjoy me being down,they have joy and pride within that,I used to cry untill I got headaches because it was like a routine or a cycle,and I still go through this
Amen ❤ God always had me stand out since I was little I didn't know what it was and as I got into the word found out why peole have turned on me trashed my name for no reason it hurts but God knows why I don't like to do what everyone else does and waste my life ❤😢
Yup 100% that's exactly how I feel... from the day I was born.
People dont like my light co workers hate me slander my name on Point !! I still going shine shine in my lightt for tge Lord❤😂🙏🏽
Yes everywhere! Especially Church
I definitely feel different and because I choose to focus on the Kingdom Of Heaven I get blaspheme and not taken serious. It’s hurts my feelings and It’s lonely right now but With God I’m grateful He never left of Forsaken me. thank you Val this Video was a God sent 😊
I'm tell you I became homeless because I choose to become me not whatever one else including my family wanted me to be.
Know I love me, I love that I'm different, I love the light that radiates out of me🙏🏽💓🕊🌅
Can relate to this video a lot I felt like this my whole life appreciate you 🙏🏾🙏🏾.
I've been this way all my life.... My name is Jasper for a reason
Needed to hear this thanks again sis for this message
I've always been a person who everybody knew, hanging out with them an drinking an just having fun..but after my Baptism they started calling me sister Helen an alm sorts of names but it really didn't affect me because I know my purpose an I was being set apart for a reason..so thank you for your words of wisdom..God bless you my sister
I say this all the time. I miss when social media was actually fun, funny, uplifting, anybody would like or comment on posts etc now it’s just so fake it doesn’t make sense. You can post something meaningful & others who do nothing but follow trends will get more recognition, brand ambassador opportunities etc then you. People even use religion for it when they KNOW they are using it for the wrong reasons💯🧸it’s crazy✍🏾
Thanks Di for realising me our worth and I am that kind of child who do not used to play in recess time during school days.
I always feel like this every day when I go to work, sometimes at my fitness camp and in my social life in general. This message helped me to embrace who I really am. All a long I thought that it was me who had the problems when really it’s people in her general. I’m starting to accept the fact that I’m different from others and it’s ok to be different and to be your true self.
Been feeling this way for years
To God be the Glory! It was not by chance that I came across your channel. Please, continue to be used as a conduit of the Most High.
Many are called but few are Chosen.They are cut from a different cloth.
Thank you Virtuous Val. I appreciate your help with this. I find myself still getting aggravated by how much I am treated so differently from everyone else. It's disturbing sometimes. Like today for instance. I'm at a reggae festival wearing my usual dress and head wrap (something other females were wearing as well) yet I see three people actually video taping me while I am just standing there or walking around. I wasn't doing anything out of the ordinary and I definitely wasn't half naked like some others were but I get stared at and talked about. Other females were wearing similar to what I was wearing but no one else was saying anything strange about them or acting like they were weird at all. Everywhere I go, people act strange when I am around. They get extremely loud, have forced laughter bouts, standing or walking near me for no reason, or plain old looking at me for prolonged periods of time. I don't know why they video tape me , that's so cringe. One girl was video taping me , then I put my phone up like I was video taping her back, then she suddenly puts her own phone down. LOL 😹...So weird. SMH. It's annoying sometimes
THIS BEAUTIFUL LADY IS SPEAKING THE TRUTH AND IT BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES IM NOW LEARNING GOD HAS A PLAN FOR MY LIFE I CAN NO LONGER FIT IN AMEN and AMEN
Whew! Your speaking truth.
I feel so seen by this thank you sm! Been bullied, outcasted and isolated my whole life by my family and at school. I grew up in hell being surrounded by so much hate its honestly a miracle I’m still here and have refused to have hate in my heart like them.
I’ve learned the hard way to ALWAYS be your authentic self unapologetically. By doing so you attract the right people and golden opportunities into your life ✨
You ARE a Beautiful GIFT to those of us who listen to You teaching the WORD...!!!
Thank You fior the Spirit that You are...!!!!!
Thank you, this video/message is confirmation for me of my life situations. I was that child sitting alone , I am that co-worker that eats alone, and I often find myself in a crowd totally alone. I used to question was it my clothes, my appearance, was I unapproachable, was I rude. But since I no longer live as the world I find it as a constant attack on attempting to provoke me to get out of line with my beliefs. So thank you for sharing, now I have add strength to focus on my salvation not who's feathers are ruffled.
Be blessed..
Amen 🙏
I rewatch this video whenever I’m new to a job/place/environment and I feel like super anxious because I don’t fit in with people who look like me. Sometimes I feel this pressure to conform to my environment even tho it doesn’t feel natural. Thanks for the reminder ❤ we were called to be set apart
RIGHT ON VAL !!!!!!!! I’m both quirky and an extroverted introvert. And there’s a person who I can’t believe I felt so desperate to have a relationship with then I sat and listened to then tell to change in all the thinks that me and that I needed counseling ect. What an idiot and I think he’s a covert narc. And I’ve detached from them. They keep texting ect. I’m no longer responding and if I ever run into him and he asks why I’m going to tell him. God reminded me that my church friends tease me well and ect.
Definitely
Always. I have learned to accept it now. Sometimes I forget that and just allow myself for people to learn things about me.. thus leading to the enevitable. Confronting the person and makes the person know that the line was/is crossed. I never repeat that same mistake twice towards the same individual.🙃
Hello Val you have definitely described my life. It seems like no matter where I go job, social events, and even family events it seems as though people have something against me without me doing anything to them. I have noticed it more in my adult life. Usually it’s from females. I seem to feel like I’m a target of anyone’s discussion and discard. It first started with my Narcissistic mother and then everything seemed to tumble down like dominoes.
Powerful words
Your words touch my soul ❤
A friend sent me one of your videos recently, so I just started watching. This was amazing and I sent it right back to her. Thank you so much for your spirit and guidance.
I've never had anybody describing my own past that accurate 😂🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✝️🌹💓 God bless you Sister 🌹 you touch my heart in Jesus name 🙏🏻✝️💓
I always feel like this, not fit in and I feel my heart is very nice and kind like Jesus
I am extremely proud of you because you are aware of who you are spiritually in physical form. You are progressing your soul's growth rapidly. Keep up the good work my sister!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
That what happens to me always but am not worried for I know God is with me, thanks for that powerful message and God bless you 🙏 🙏
Wonderful Message Sister 🙏🏾
What a beautiful soul you are. Sending unconditional love 🤍🤍🤍
Yes absolutely. Ive always felt that im set apart from everyone.
Exactly how I always felt, am very talented , but have been sabotaged by circumstances my whole life.
I like this message. Basically, be who God has called you to be in him. Not in the world.
I am so happy i finally can walk in my way with certainty because i relate to the chosen one thing and God brought me to her channel tysm Lord
For me was a battle being part of the church, the pastor got upset, people got upset for seeing things they cannot see, I am the blacksheep and outcast, I do not fit in and they think I don't see them, I see them, they don't see me, I decided to leave because they get to offended for me telling them the truth.
You are talking about everything that I have or either experiencing now God is good Keep becoming system
You are speaking the truth I am one of those people I’ve been struggling with cancer for years often on don’t nobody care less friends! I always want it to surround myself with people like you God bless you baby girl keep speaking the truth love you🙏❤️🙏
I hope your well,thinking of you
Being around chosen people is no different than standing in the middle of a fire.
Many call upon HIS NAME but few are answered.
To V. V. Thank you! See you soon! Amen
Looking forward to it!
Blessings Queen. You totally speaking truth! Been listening to some of your videos and you are spot on. Keep letting God use you for his glory and his praise. Blessings 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯❤️❤️
Amen hallelujah praise lord Jesus Christ amen this is me set apart for the lord amen ❤
It is okay to be not ok,thank you for sharing...you sparked a fire!!!
Grace and peace be unto you Sis. Val. You have a true inspiration and blessing to me. I feel that I don't fit in. I pray that God bless you with a double increase. Please pray that this spirit that has been harassing me all of my life leave me permanently. Amen.
This word was such an encouragement to me. Young lady, your wisdom is from God and beyond your years. Praise Him❤
Out of the mouth of Beautiful babes...God ordained strength....I've lived a long time and this could not be MORE true!!!!!!! Amen Lovely!!!
I'm currently dealing with this at work. Thank you.
Always…but we are in this World 🌍 but NOT of it 🙏🏼