Who Are the ENTJs (The Marshal)? | ENTJ Cognitive Functions | CS Joseph
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- Опубликовано: 1 апр 2018
- CS Joseph discusses who are the ENTJs (The Marshal) and what are the ENTJ cognitive functions?
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This is making me miss my ENTJ teacher. Everyone was afraid of her and I didn't understand why. She was always generous and thoughtful. She even gave us printed copies of her notes and told us that there is no need to write. I remember that time when I lost my textbook. She literally brought new one for me...
@@keithgraham9547 THIS.
My Fi when reading this
Thanks for able to see nice side of ENTJ that everyone couldnt
Aw that's so sweet
ugh this would be me if I was a teacher
"I know ENTJ's that constantly give and give and give and they're so generous and yet everyone accuses them of being greedy" that one really hits
Also that part: 18:18
Well they can be very greedy, their vice is avarice. That’s not to say it can’t be unwarranted, but that’s probably the main reason they are called greedy. Also the fact the Te hero cares a whole lot about money.
This is so painfully true and applicable to my current situation. I'm learning to stop giving help when it isn't asked for
@@heiro9611 i didnt really care about money
@@jackyp1893 Please don't. Although I get why you say that because people take advantage but I don't think you realise how much you inspire people around you. I'm an INFP and I love you guys so much! ENTJs inspire me to stop being so self-absorbed, my ENTJ friends are the reason I've never been passive and noncommittal like INFPs usually are because ENTJs will criticise me for that and hold me accountable. I also keep ENTJ from being corrupted from constantly reminding them how much value they give to everyone around them and how generous they are.
I think that you should just cut out people who are ungrateful and are bad people. Your generosity and love for other people and always trying to give others a good experience are so rare and really give people like hope for humanity knowing that people like you exist!
I'm gonna make sure to hug every ENTJ I ever meet. You are amazing people!
That always hits hard because I give and give and give people a lot of help. Then people go around saying I don't do anything and that I dont do enough. At that point I stop giving because how can people say I do nothing for them when I'm out here trying so hard to make their life easier. That's why I cut those people off. I'm very picky with who I hang out with now and if someone shows signs of being ungrateful then I end the friendship or association.
OMG! “they voluntarily push ppl away just to see how loyal they are” “criticizing the intentions of other ppl & walk around paranoid” . wow👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Bella Rose 🤣🙋🏻♀️
Damn, I thought that was a secret.
You are right, we need more hugs and confirmation.
It's insane. When he speaks about how we constantly show others our work and what we've accomplished for confirmation from others that we have worth, I almost started crying. That has been one of my biggest struggles for most of my life especially considering my father has always told me I won't be successful, even though I work day in and day out to become something big. When I was watching this, I pulled a fat ENTJ move and tried sending videos to my friends to help THEM understand why I do certain things, which I realized is just me looking for approval. When they skipped my videos and didn't seem to care it just made it even worse. And that's the problem, most people just don't really care about a lot of things, it's not us as ENTJs being bad or boring, it's them not caring. Something I need to remember in the future.
*hug* from an infj
Hug from an infp
I can’t agree more. I’m leading a very difficult project and every time my VP sees me he gives me a hug.
Yeah!!
You have ninja focus. That baby kept crying in the background and it didn't trip you up at all. What a champ. C.S. Joseph everybody
Rob Anderson
Se-Demon of the ENTP at work
HAH
ENTPs are cool
There was a baby crying???
@@catinthepeng2686 same. There was a baby crying?? I didn't hear it
@@catinthepeng2686 Baby crying at around 6'39"....sounds like a new-born.
I'm a female ENTJ and I'll be honest I was skeptical of you at first but holy hell, you summed up literally everything so well I'm impressed. That takes skill, well done. Most people don't take the time to try to understand us, lol they just say we're arrogant heartless machines and nothing else. What bullshit. Also, you made me laugh so much, thank you for that, I needed a few laughs today!
In my ENTJ encounters I actually feel they have bigger hearts and loyalty then my ESTP self.. I always liked socializing with the ENTJ... i can rely on them and count on them not to be a wuss!
I also am currently at War with one I think haha
I'm a female ENTJ too
Edit: I'm wrong. I have no idea what I am. 10/16 personalities down.
I think ENFJ is somewhat close.
Who knows...who cares....
I have an entj friend. They are good at regulating their emotions although may act bitchy at times and judgmental at least on a superficial level, they are the only types i can open up to and share inappropriate ideas.
He did make me laugh also lol when he’s all critical and belittling
Female ENTJ. This is the best summary I have seen!
Although I disagree with the meaningless sex part. I found that it makes more sense to have a loyal sexual partner, even if it's only for health reasons.
Still the best summary of ENTJ on RUclips!
Don’t mind me, just an INTP studying the procedure on how to interact properly with ENTJs when that one in a million chance happens.
*cough* *cough* you got one here
I too am here for the same reason. Apparently ENTJ’s are our most efficient partners so I here to understand that dynamic.
ok me too... we all really do think the same
wutdafook....why you gibbs up mah secrets?! Especially on the top comment.
i wish i can meet an ENTJ daddy. but i never left my room lol
No one has understood me better . I cried while watching this video. - ENTJ girl
ENTJ guy - Also cried 😋😭😭😭😭🧐
Same here. The part of “My dad thinks I’m not good enough.” truly hurts
I can relate
No crying allowed, back to work! P.s. I mightve teared up on a few occasions
Literally?? I don't think we do feel that much intense emotion so easily. I mean I sometimes feel like crying but I never allow myself to cry.
When you talked about the parenting and talked about an ENTJ daughter being pushed away making the girl feel unappreciated and not good enough THAT WAS MY LIFE. I’m a grown ass woman and still get haunted by the want and need of my parents affection.
Me too :)
I have an entj daughter who gets more love and affection than most people and she still feels that way.
Brooke Ava Sage issue for me 👋🏽
That's facts.
Same. My mother always compares me with my friends who seems better than me in some aspect. My mother also tell me about the family money issues... Just saying.
the fact that he SPITS in the middle of the video... im dead
that was a PHAT loogie too. boisterous.
I was thinking the EXACT same thing!!! 😇
That spit was really unexpected too. I cant say I was ready for that.
“SORRY” ahaha
i am bursting in laughter when he did that!! Damn.. LOL
This is scary, you know me better than I know my self. So as an ENTJ, I feel like I can read people and situations almost perfectly, so when I keep someone at arms length I ALWAYS feel like it is justified!
It is not!!!! I suffered a injustice like that for awfull 4 years...! It was very unjust and a very violent experience.
Rosana Martins Afonso sucks to be you I guess. Rachel you gots a man? INTP here 😁
Rosana Martins Afonso a violent experience of being kept at arms length...that’s literally not possible
@@coreycarries6325 It is when it's your own child. Happening to me the last four years and believe me, it's violent. It's ripping out my soul.
hey madam rachel .. is that an entj thing to say ? to admit being scared that someone knows better than ur self ? i dont think so .. try as u might .. u just cant hide
Luckily my dad knew about the 16 personalities and he knew that I was an ENTJ so he treated me right and his parenting was perfect. My mom didn't care about personalities so much, but at least I had my dad :)
Can relate to the Si trickster. I have over 7000 photos on my phone accumulated over 3-4 years that I don’t delete Bc deleting them would mean losing the memories connected with them. Even if it’s just a photo of a random fire hydrant...that one photo captures the emotions I was experiencing at that moment as well as where I was in life (career, city, worries, hopes, etc)
When clearing photos to gain more phone storage, I immediately delete the photos that don’t evoke a flashback or emotion and really struggle with cleaning up the rest. It becomes a decision of “is this memory important enough for me that I’ll appreciate remembering it in the future?”
very well said sir
Get an external hard drive dude
Get a dropbox, thats what i did. 😊 Never have to delete a thing. 😉
Ohhh! That explains why I have run out of storage on my phone as well!
amazing discovery I identify completely with this!
I think I'm between an entj and an entp. More tilted to the j
I have tens of thousands of photo as well but i just store them OFFLINE (using public cloud or even private dns? That's stupidity) but never go back reviewing them
God knows when I'll look back at my photos and memories, i haven't have the urge in the past 5 years. Knowing they're stored safely is good enough
As an INFJ, I love how ambitious and generous ENTJs are. They tell you the best ways to become successful in your life.
BloomingFireHeart yes that is so true!!!
I started a self development coaching business to help people live out their ideal lives not realizing I was literally built for the job
As another INFJ woman, I freaking love ENTJs.
OMG... Im literally about to cry for how accurate this is😢 😢😢😢
Im an ENTJ GIRL and You talked about parent who they don't make their little girl feel good enough...
- That was my issue my entire life and i didnt know what the heck is wrong with me.. Turned out nothing is wrong WITH ME..
I was trying my whole life to be the best at LITERALLY EVERYTHING AND EVERY FREAKING SUBJECT and i was actually ...
but my parents? All they ever did was just keep getting higher in their expectations!!!!!!!! Like.. For real!
And i didnt have any option to fail! Like it was just my NORMAL case to be the best at EVERYTHING... And you cant do ANY mistake anymore...
Guess you can imagine how much argue i had in my life with them to convince them i AM A FREAKING HUMAN BEING TOO.. I can fail sometimes😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
im so tired of this situation... And i think no one ever could understand this like you... and this video was great you told the exact pain of my heart... Thank you!
Bless you! I'm an INFP and my best friend is an ENTJ and it was the same for her growing up. Man I wish I could give all ENTJs a hug! You people are so amazing!
As an ENTJ female, you put words to my exact feelings and thoughts throughout my daily life. I feel so different than other females around me. Like I’m not feminine enough, or “too much”. After watching this I feel understood and not so strange after all. That I need to use my personality to my advantage.Thank you🙌🏻
hang in there, you are worth it.
There is a masculine component to our female ENTJ personality. It is easier for men to relate to us than women. I have as many men friends as female ones. Only certain strong types of females can "get" me and see the soft, caring woman underneath the tough, self assured, self contained outer shell.
Same. Im entj too. I always though i was a tomboy becuase of my brothers ( i got 4 and a lot of guy cousins). I connect with guys easily but struggle with ladys. Its only until i learned about my personality that thibgs started making sense.
Yes, way more guy friends because they don't dish out all that F bs that drives me crazy!
Just because you are a go getter, it doesnt mean you are less feminine. My mother is an ENTJ and she uses her charm to get what she wants. It's all about perception management.
I always tell my sister that my INTP dad may seem to be the one in control because he's highly autocratic and may appear to be someone who has to be always right, but my siblings and I know that my mom can make him agree with her without him even realizing it.
ENTJ woman here. Thank you so much for this video! You totally GET us. :)
I am so thankful :)
I am ENTJ-A and I deny none of this. I fucken love freedom and money. So I'm the financial independent kind of guy. And it's my primary focus right now.
Me too. My main motivation isn't exactly the materialistic kind of wealth that most people think of. I want to be free to buy those things if I want, but I also want to be free to go out for drinks, to go to the theatre, or to go on vacations as I please. I'm more experience- and people-oriented than object-oriented.
@@roisinnigcrainn7722 YEAS!
As an INTP watching I'm just thinking I can't wait to meet an ENTJ.
You wanna know what I think and have knowledge? I love informing!
You've got crazy strong willpower? That's amazing, I wanna help you reach your goals!
You like to give good experiences impulsively? Great, my weakness is wanting good experiences but not taking action.
You don't care how I feel? Me neither!
So damn true
Mood. Lol
Yo i need some intp homies cause everyone else are lazy and unmotivated. Intps are too, yet they're not slow
Loollllll
My cousin is an ENTJ, he's honestly gonna be mega-rich someday, excellent business acumen. Currently a HIGHLY skilled architect, that ISFP subconscious was always into drawing design, now it's thriving giving people that beautiful Se experience through gorgeous interior design and buildings!
Story time: i found an ENTJ friend and in the beginning it was such a rocky road. I felt constantly triggered around him (infj here lmfaooo what else is new) yet he treated me so very well too. In all this confusion we kinda fought and didn't talk for 3 months because i tried to loyalty check him and... I guess he tried me as well? Or he was used to friends letting go of him, which gave me a feel like i couldn't connect as deeply/in a real way. But i couldn't really let it go. I had a feel like this wasn't a real door slam, i didn't have the cold righteous certainty that i was in the right. And i couldn't forget you video about how sick our loyalty checks can be lmfao. So i texted him for his birthday. He was immediately kind, didn't give a fuck about our mean ass messages from three months ago just looming in the chat lmfao. i was reluctant to enter a real friendship again. But he was just so enthusiastic and innocent about of course we'd meet over the semester break. Mentioning all the places we should go to some time. So one thing led to another and with a little bit of both of us letting our guard down, we're now best friends. I feel like i have a friend for life. Within the frist month he did more for me emotionally and literally thru services, than some people I've known for over a decade. He's the best. The most supporting, helpful and most considerate guy i know. The funniest and most protective person I've had the luck of getting to know. He gives me so much confidence and he's so direct in his advice. Usually when i talk about people who have drained me, i apologize a lot of their behavior, and i induce sympathy for them in my friends which makes then say shit like "yeah i understand, must be hard for them" he doesn't give a fuck about redeeming qualities, if anybody wrongs me, he's always like "cut em off, tf" lmaaooooooooo
Galileo Galileila
awwwh that's cute
its so true about not giving a fuck if we had mean nasty arguments i dont remember them lol youre a fresh person in like 2 weeks if not daily!
ENTJ woman here.. The part where you talked about entjs going out of their ways to help others is spot on. And how people don’t understand or think it’s insincere. We just have a pushy approach to the problems, and we are straightforward about them. So as we go through these experiences, we start to detach more and focus on ourselves more, which eventually makes us look greedy and selfish.
Lol oh god.... I'm laughing so hard cos it's true.
"An entj is just trying to teach you because they want you to be less stupid"
Maybe not exactly how it was phrased but I feel like this is basically my life as an ENTJ woman explaining just about anything to most people I've worked with.
Thanks for the love for us ENTJ females. You are totes adorable.
I love all of you. I will wipe the tears from your faces.
@@arturkvieira yeah... not very specific. Go to the bottom of the class.
👍🏻
Let all ENTJs unite, and teach the world to not be stupid, but first we need to elect someone to remind us. 😆
It's a sin that we are humans too! Maybe tan people will stop looking at us as though we are robots.
I'll show myself out.
Wow!!! Scary accurate. Must say you made me cry just out of shock of hearing someone actually understand "ME" especially with the typical emotional/self struggles and misconceptions that others have. Felt nice to be defended when no one else sees the giant insecurities we carry at all times while trying to be a "Hero". THANK YOU!
try how to social engineer ENTJs in season 21 next
As an infj, I feel great interacting with entjs. They are very intelliget and concrete and you can have interesting conversations with them and they tend to listen to what you have to say instead of just vomiting their opinions and ignoring yours. The contrast between their "bossyness" and their need for love and validation is also delightful and even funny once you learn how to interact with them
xRevTheoryx
yeaaaah right ? !
Im a 17 yr old ENTJ girl and yes! This video is described me very well! I cried in some parts of this vid 😂
This is so spot on!! Abt the paranoid thing,give others a good time, push people to see how loyal they are, forgetful thing,, even my friends called me grandma 😂 because i dont know i just cant remember the past well, so that's why i keep videos/photos, and write a notes too...turns out that this is indeed an entj thing 😯😯
Sometimes people compliment me by saying that im smart/beautiful but that doesn't satisfy me(??) Strangely i feel the happiest when people just say that im a GOOD person. Thats it,then i'll be smiling all day long 😂 and thinking what other methods i can use to make people say that again 🤣🤣
Thank you for making this video!! In the middle of this pandemic i learned to understand myself better 😊
And to others that meet an Entj, give them a hug then say tht they're a good person...im sure they'll melt bcs of that 🤣
Stay safe & healthy!
Right now you have a 100% subscription rate, and I'm not surprised (although now I've watched it twice). This was easily the most astute and insightful ENTJ video I've seen so far, thank you. Looking forward to more videos.
Saph Saphsaph thank you for the support. I have a very soft spot for ENTJ women and it is important everyone knows the truth about them. Sure, they may be emasculating in the eyes of men but to me, I find that necessary and attractive as a way to challenge men to stay the course in their manhood. Sadly, that is a rare thing in our 1st world society.
C.S. Joseph what a great comment
As an ENTJ artist, this video almost brought me to tears at the last part. I used to draw a lot and nothing can describe the amount of passion I felt when making a piece. I have transitioned into music now because Its gotten harder for me to sit still and focus recently, but every now and then I will feel the pangs of my artistic past and see glimpses of works I know I lack the patience to create. It hurts but hopefully I can ease those pains by channeling that potential into songs.
Overall I loved this video and if anyone wants to get a glimpse into the ENTJ mind, I have some videos on my channel from when I used to draw, feel free to check them out. I am not pursuing RUclips anymore so don't take it as a plug.
cheers!
-Miles O'Brien
Anyone with the name of a famous character on Star Trek definitely gets a high 5 from me. Colm Meaney eat your heart out. Also, thanks for your comment, its a much appreciated.
I viewed your channel. 🙂
I love you
"As an ENTJ artist, this video almost brought me to tears at the last part." Just in the last part? I wanted to cry in every part he was talking about feelings and to feel apreciated...
Awesome Vid. The way I would describe ENTJ (i am one) is that we are benevolent, autocratic leaders.
First of all: We need to be the one in charge, because if we can't control the situation then we can'T guarantee an optimal outcome.
Second: We are benevolent towards you. We don't try to take advantage of you, we want the best for you. (if we consider you to be on our team)
Third: We need all the necessary Information presented to us in a thought out, efficient form. That's why we can seem impatient. If you are wasting our time by not giving us the important stuff in a timely fashion, then the positive outcome is in danger.
Fourth: Despite being benevolent towards you we strongly believe that we are better at managing the situation than you are. So after you have given us the info, made your suggestions, you will be given orders and you need to follow these orders to the letter. We want you to excel at this because then we don't have to micromanage you. Nothing makes us more furious than when 'subordinates' are too incompetent (or too full of themselves/or too distrustful towards us) to follow our orders and then we need step in and micromanage them so the whole project doesn't go downhill, which leads to them believing that we don't value them (which we don't, because they are incompetent) and then the whole relationship becomes antagonistic and we can't have that, especially if you then go ahead and label us as control freaks when it is, in fact, all your fault for making us having to control you, because you can't be trusted with simple tasks.
Fifth: That's why it is important to us that people/teammates/subordinates think highly of us. We need them to trust us and be loyal to us, so that they perform their duties without question, the battle is won, the tasks accomplished and we all get the outcome we hope for. If they don't respect us and don't trust us and won't be loyal to us then the whole team is doomed.
You mean altruistic? Benevolent is attached to ENFJs. But fair enough.
Well, what i mean is: I want the best for the people that are on my team, even if i want to have control/power over them. I don't want power over them to gain money/whatever at their expense. I don't know if altruistic fits because I also want the best possible outcome for myself. But english is not my first language, so maybe i am interpreting that wrong. BTW: Do you have some link to this "Simple Goal System" ?
I do not, but I probably should
Johannes Dolch perfect!
You just peeked into my brain and formulated my entire essence of existence. I am in shock. Danke ;)
13:28 You telling me as an ENTJ woman to just trust people. My initial reaction: can I trust this guy?
Basically, you nailed the ENTJ, though. Great work.
Very interesting!
I'm an ENTJ and so many things are so spot on!!
Justin Miller So, would you say you are like Trump (clearly an ESTP), or like Michael Avenatti? I know there are a lot of wannabe INTJs (whom clearly are not) and I am curious to know if the same is true with ENTJs.
Do entjs talk a lot and have a super positive vibe? A bit socially clumsy and lack filter?
17:00
It hits right through my chest. You're right, I put an arm-length to everyone I meet until I know their character is constantly well-proven to be good, and so I could share some softie things like that.
Female ENTJ here. Always success driven, straight A student, law school graduate ready to make it in the world. :D
Ex citing congrats 😁😀😄😃
Same here. I am an ENTJ female as well and I am a straight A student, always strive for success and wanna help other people become less dumb.
@@lenavonpreuen4869 we need more ppl like you.
Iam a young female entj as well , do u think becoming a lawyer fits our personality since ur graduated ? I'm rlly into law but I'm scared it might not fit my personality even tho I like it
I love how much he gets into this. I'm currently taking notes on the 16 personality types and this is so helpful.
😭 I am an ENTJ man, man you have just saved my perspective with most of my friend.
Entj Artist here all of this is so true. Its like staring at a mirror in 1080p hd quality. Thank you I learned much about myself.
Thank you, helps me understand my ENTJ female boss much better. I’ve been trying to figure her out. No one likes her, and she does get on my nerves sometimes, but I see good sides to her at times. I don’t want to get on her bad side.
So I’m an INFJ, but I can understand why I tested previously as an ENTJ.
ENTJs are brilliant people, but who still really want to be loved and to give of themselves. They’re not feely in how they deal with the world, but they are still people who care about doing the right thing.
There’s a lot of common ground between those two types, which is why I’m often drawn toward ENTJs.
Same here. I am an ENTJ in Keirsey Temp Test II and an INFJ in 16personalities. For me, it is because I leave my personal life private as an INFJ and battle my career as an ENTJ. All should insanely perfect, authentic, structured.
@@polestarc OMG same here, I tested MBTI four times ; 2 infj and 2 entp (my thinking/feeling is very close 45/55)
@@optimus8740 Hi. Yeah, I agree that thinking-feeling are balanced. Actually, in 16 personalities, there were only 3 item questions that I answered emotionally/humane at that time. I took the same test the next day & answered as I am truthfully & came out as an INTJ, the real me. I can shift from entj, intj or infj depending on my mood & is very much aware of the deviations. I remember which part of the test items I answered differently since the questions were highly situational.
Thanks for this. As an ENTJ I often struggle with whether it's worth winning at a particular "thing" not because of the cost or sacrifice but, how it may change me as a person and whether I will ever be able to get back to a rational view point. The ruthlessness of competition does put a bad taste in my mouth, I enjoy being a good sport, but the need for so many to play dirty really brings out the worst in my character. I'm thankful for this explanation, It's a good release to have have it described for you. This is absurdly accurate especially with the writing down things, i'm a note factory. Also, I'm working on accepting the loyal people in my life they are here, and I need to nurture those relationships, and be thankful.
In my life I've always projected my self to lead or been projected by others and, while I know I'm capable; I truly appreciate loyalty in a way words cannot describe.
Anyway, my sincerest thanks to you.
My Exgirlfriend always told me Im uncaring and do not have a heart. It hurt me because I Did love her to death!
That's her loss then
Wow! That was outstanding to watch! As an ENTJ myself, you really understand the underlying motivations. I, especially, loved the description about our evil superegos. It was so spot on!
Michael Haas glad you enjoyed it.
I had to stop this video so many times to deal with the harsh truths... Damn!
Thanks though :)
-ENTJ female
When he said the part about children showing their parents for self worth I literally cried.
Your tears are far more valuable than you realize.
It's crazy how accurate every single point is !
I'm an INTP and my best friend is an ENTJ and we raise hell .
i feel like as if an entj dude would put my life into the organised success i need lol
intp here
Interesting interaction.
I'am an INTP and my friend is an ENTJ. It's excactly how your describe. He tells me things like : "why didn't we found this out before ?" I remind him : "I knew it and told you before. But it's ok, it's my rôle". And he allways want to push me, for the good reasons. We make a good bro-mance.
Thank C.S. Joseph. You make my life much more easier :-)
I always used to make art as a kid for other people to get their validation. I still do the same thing now that I think about it
My dad is an ENTJ, and this explains so much.
Because of him, we have order in the house. He CAN be controlling, but he is doing it for the best of everyone(Fe).
He taught me a lot of good things in life. (Driving, Staying dedicated, working hard, ext.) Im an ENFP, so when I use my Te child, his Te hero really appreciates and recognizes my work and tells me I can do anything.
The ENTJ childhood part of the video was so true. He was very misunderstood as a child and we just wants the best for his kids. His artistic ISFP side also comes out and he loved bob ross. So we’re both really artsy, creative, and imaginative. Also like in the video he’s very forgetful haha.
Anyways, ENTJ can be really good parents. And I’m thankful to have that :)
ENFP here, i think my dad is an ENTJ too
do you mean Te, instead of Fe?
@@crazydragon7865 yes, my bad! :)
I am an ENTJ this guys is amazing, legit made me almost cry, im going through a divorce right now and it sounds like we just had major differences in communication and understanding of each others personality types and all the things she made me feel terrible about just makes sense now like that's all I want. ugh this dude is great!!!
This is like an intervention for me omg. You made me come to so many realizations why I do things I do. Everything was so spot on wow
I have watched countless videos and read books with sections describing ENTJs and this is by far the most spot on description I have found. Great job!
I’ve done the MB personality inex quiz on multiple times on atleast 3 different sites.
So I know I’m 100% ENTJ.
I don’t deal well with *stagnation.* I’m 23 y/o,
hate my town,
hate the fact that I’m not working in the field I long to work in,
hate that I can’t afford a Dog.
I’m so close to getting a drivers license. If I give up now I know It’s going to lead me down a really dark path.
*Stagnation*
(especially to us ENTJs with mental baggage)
is a vicious drain of hope and purpose that only us ENTJs are disconcerted by. It can be lonely.
Focus on getting the drivers license then focus on what you are going to do next. Block out all negative stimuli.
100% agree. I'm an 25 years old ENTJ and I've already done 3 studies and 4 jobs yet I still haven't found my place in the world.
It's both a source of motivation aswell as a curse.
I legit cried watching this, I was like FINALLY SOMEONE GETS IT! Thank you so much!
I'm here to understand my ENTJ boyfriend better...always giving him hugs even when he doesn't want them :P
-INFJ
My wife and best friend of 16 years is an INFJ without her I am nothing she is my foundation and brings the perfect balance that keeps me in check.
I loved my ENTJ boyfriend dearly. I'm an INFP.
He acts as if he doesn't want them.
A control tactic
I'm one
I think he loves that you hug him even if he pushes you away. Deep down he probably wants you to fight to hug him ❤
I am an entj. It made so much sense to me to finally understand why I behave the way I do.
A lot easier said than done to just “leave an ENTJ alone” because of their Fe demon. I did this to TWO ENTJ friends because although I love them, they always talk over you or completely ignore you when it’s your turn to speak during a conversation. Obviously that’s an Fi users biggest pet peeve. But once you stop talking to them they make it about what’s wrong with them with Fi inferior and question your loyalty with Se child, and confront you about it and now everybodies crying
Then tell them what you just wrote, we're not that hard and accept it
Im an ENTJ female and you are pretty accurate. Im the most loving and caring deep down inside but its true im jaded and barely trust anyone but its also because i excused dumb people in my life and they had clear actions of betrayal. Loyality is LITERALLY the most important thing to me, id die for my loyalty and im extremely harsh on others that dont live up to that standard. Im definitely pretty alone lol not many people to relate to, besides my cat haha
try S21E4 - How To Social Engineer (manipulate) ENTJs
Same here, 9 times out of 10 im right. Its good to keep people at a distance in certain situations anyway.. they either wouldnt get what youre trying to achieve or waste your time.
As the meme says... aint nobody got time for that! (Especially ENTJs!)
INTP. Don't value loyalty like, at all. I'll take authentic and disloyal any day
I get it. Once you have been vulernable to someone and been kicked in the teeth by them, we as ENTJ's are slow to let people in to our inner world. Skeptical by nature, they have to earn their way into our trust, as we slowly reveal the underlying guts of our inner thoughts, fears, and insecurities.
I'm a writer, and I like put my character through personality analysis to see if they have a coherent personality throughout the whole story, and also to help me figure out how they'd react in any given situation or interact with other characters.
The main character of the book I'm writing now is an ENTJ young woman. I think she's a not so mature version of the ENTJ. Many of her internal conflicts rise from her inability or the impossibility of using some of her main cognitive functions to her best capacity. She grew up very confident in her mental and physical abilities, but at the same time her childhood was very frustrating from the social point of view, where her impulse to lead and control was constantly suppressed, or she had to limit herself to use these abilities in ultimately irrelevant situations. So she kept everybody at arms length either by necessity or spite, and she doesn't take on any stable or meaningful leadership role... She just tags along the other MCs (the real heroes and leaders in the story) and pushes people around very forcefully and unexpectedly when she sees an opportunity to further her personal goals.
Oh, yeah, she's closest to an anti-hero, although she's perceived as a possible-villain-in-the-making by others. The way I see her manifest her demon side is more on the lines of "Oh, you're scared of me in my most effective and driven self? You don't think it's a good thing? Fine, I'll keep being driven as f***, but don't expect me to be helpful to YOU anymore". Rinse, repeat.
And I pair her with an ISFJ. They end up being good for each other at first, but at the same time both of them are so jaded by the world that their negative characteristics amplify each other's.
I hope my portrait of these personalities are consistent and logical... It would be fun for MBTI fans to analyze them and type them correctly (assuming I've typed them correctly too... I'm not trying to make them fit a mold, just seeing what mold fits them better).
Where can I read your story?
I would read the shit out of this story! What's interesting is Ive had a consistent pattern of becoming friends with the one person in a group labelled as a potential "problem".
I’m an ENTJ female and this is amazing. You said and elaborated everything I was feeling. Amazing work!!! Like you’ve been looking at a spreadsheet of my life and behavior. Fosho subscribing rn.
You pretty much nailed it on the head. Thanks for making us ENTJ ladies feel seen! It’s easy to feel misunderstood as this personality type, and we have more heart than most people realize.
Whoa...how dare this be so accurate- I didn't know this was me until people have told me about this personality thing. Family, close friends, everyone- super accurate and yet I still knew I was like this. Strengths and weaknesses are scary accurate.
You're so passionate about this! I'm impressed!
I was not expecting to be told off when I clicked onto this video. Thank you for holding up a mirror in front of me.
This was a reflection peace that has added value to how I interpret my past and will help me build a better future. Thank you.
Organized knowledge is power.
I'm an ENTJ, and my wife is a disorganized, chaotic mess. I am super hard on her because I give her beautiful things and she treats them like crap. I have always taken her clutter and disregard for my gifts as disloyalty, and over the last year, I've been pushing her away. I keep wishing she's tell me I'm adequate and appreciated. It would mean the world to me. She says I have a personality that slams her at every turn, but I am a very emotionally charged and extremely loyal person. I hope she will watch this video and understand it in terms of who I am and what I need.
Food for thought, what if instead of hoping she’ll watch the video and try and understand you maybe take a minute & try to understand her. Maybe her not caring for the things you give her isn’t her being disloyal or disrespectful to you but more of a reflection of how HER mind is organized and what she values. If you are pushing her away and you give her things (valuable or not) what are you really telling her?
Blew my mind how accurate every point is. When you started talking about inferior Fi it moved me to tears. Thank you for this!
Absolutely amazing man.
You know us better than anybody. Congratulations for an amazing job !
I don't often comment, but seriously, this was sooo accurate and a pleasure to watch. Sincerely, thank you:)
Super intriguing... never knew all the comparing elements: ego, subconscious, unconscious and superego.. thanks!
Wow, this really got me. It’s scary how accurate this is. It’s eery that someone can know me this well.
I've never felt so understood before in my life even though none of what was said in this video was new to me. I've experienced almost everything you have said before but it's so relieving to have it displayed like this. I can start to make sense of myself more now.
I cried. I cried of relief and excitement that somehow I make sense, and with this new (to me) knowledge I will be able to only evolve and grow into a better person.
No person can beat an INTP who has unlocked his ENTJ shadow.
Full disclosure: I'm an intp
I have to at least admit this is a strong INTP. Especially since many of us are stuck in the ego state.
But the mature form of the superego would be the strongest INTP, obviously, unless this entire theory is false.
How you unlock that?
@@Bahador_R how do I do that?
I can't advice it but it's by forcing yourself into stressful situations (generally ESFJ environments, ). Until they create a proper technology i can't think of something else.
No wonder my ENTJ wife has transformed into ESFJ once our daughter was born!
That is an amazing video Joseph! I can relate to everything you said. The critic function haunts me daily and you explained so well. Thanks!!
I just can’t believe how accurate his video is. I also appreciate the love and respect in this video so much. I always feel so misunderstood.
these types can do a lot of damage.....thanks for helping me understand a difficult person
Well, watching this video and listening to you made me feel so many things.. At times I felt like I had to make immediate changes, and I did, then I felt compelled to remind myself of many, many, too many hard emotions I underwent as an ENTJ child .. and the way it's influenced many of my relations to some people, such as my own father..
Then you went to the most surprising part about our subsconscious as artists and yes, I felt like I was about to cry. I've been writing poems since I was a child and, well, people did love them, a lot. At the same time, I used to draw and was very talented. I don't have the time to keep drawing now so I don't even though I still have the ability ..and I'm always creating new ways to express the artist living in me..
Thank you for using such words to speak of us, of me.
May the Universe keep teaching you so you can teach life to us again.
Hi, 20 year old ENTJ male here!😊 I have to say, coming from very unpleasant relationships I finally found out why I felt so sad when my partner didn't verbally appreciate my surprises and value I was giving. And also why I only trust people once... Also friends that after a point they never get a second chance when accusing me of how I am.
This guy knows my brain inside out and backwards.
I'd wish my partner to know me this well before accusing me of being controlling and rushing and not worthy of them when I'm planning and trying to provide positive value to them😢 Well, maybe just bad luck so far...
Dood you are a champion. Recently we a family of 4 did the 16 personalities test and my daughter researching found you. Your passion, knowledge and desire to share this knowledge has made a profound impact on my very gifted daughter. She having analysed what would be the best strategic move but not fun as she has moved to a country where she hates the climate, finished university very well under an unbelievably poor education system. Facing lonelyness especially being locked away due to covid has left her with well sad. You helped her understand and embrace her gifts and not be afraid any more and its the first time ive seen her smile on the inside in years.
Thank you
Next we are looking forward to checking out your videos for the rest of the family.
I will find you. I was searching and still searching for you. -intp
Oh, and if this not bother you all, may I ask where you guys usually likes to hang out? .-.
Chandra Niansari
if they are surounded by a lot of feelers, it's usually places where they can let loose and enpower their Fi-Te (at least for mom) like library. god knows how much she went there
also she likes feeding her Se with experiences... camping, swiming, shopping, wedding, you name it and she'll call the gang and we'll do it
but now you gotta know, there's no specefic place a type goes to. there may happen to be a pattern but it won't always be the case because of cultural diffrences and all that
but by gathering enough info you can follow the pattern and have more chance meeting that type than going around streets typing everyone
I was with an INFP and now I'm with a ENTJ. I messed his system and broke his dating rules and I love it. I have direct conversations with him and I cherish him. -ENFJ
isn't it bad to break dating rules?
Interesting indeed. You have touched on many different aspects of my personality type. I dig that you did not hold back with the negatives, it hit a soft spot but nothing I can't improve on.
Thanks Man, as an ENTJ this is very revealing and it means alot! Cheers to you and more success!
ENTJ here... this video gave me chills lol.
I’d like to think that I’ve developed in N and have begun the process of not cutting people off based off of my assumptions. I’m new to MBTI but glad I’ve come to a lot of these understandings through self-reflection and meditation. Ironically enough I’m heavily involved in the entrepreneurial community and their heightened awareness of social dynamics has helped me greatly. I loved the emphasis on introverted sensing - trickster. I’m organized because I know when I’m not I become a lazy and impulsive shit lol. Great content can’t wait to learn all of this and be able to maneuver and understand people even deeper.
Prescribed me a hug, said stagnation will kill me, this video is spot on and whats wierd is i dont hate that
My mind is blown right now. THANK YOU for bringing this video in to my life. I feel so understood and I just realized why I behave the way I do - it's as if I have just had a private one on one half hour therapist session. And ooooh them good feels towards the end - thank you for petting our ENTJ souls :)
Congratulations! This is an Amazing video!💯👏❤️
This is the best and most educational, comprehensive and informational video for ENTJ out there. You really master on this topic. Keep up the good work!👏👏👏
OMG 17:00 is SO accurate!
My dad specifically has never really appreciated me or seen me for who I am. Honestly that was a big motivation for my success. This is really very accurate overall. Love your vidoes
Great video. before i saw this video i never wanted to learn the cognitive function because i don't like details oriented stuff. but you put it so simply. Thanks PS you have an endearing voice.
OH MY GOSH. It’s like you just peeked into my mind. THANK YOU FOR THIS
Was absolutely an honest review!! Being one I could very vividly relate to most of the points being made. Thank you for this video!!
ENTJ female here, thank you! Felt good to finally feel understood for once. I do have an excellent long term memory tho lol I subscribed! 👍🏼 Oh and shoutout to all the Amazing ENTJ people out there! Keep being your Awesome self, this world need us!!! 🤩✌🏼💜 They also need more like you C. S. Joseph 😘
I feel like my ENTJ dad doesn’t realize how much he has pushed me away, but I definitely have gotten to the point where I don’t give a damn. I don’t go to him for things much anymore unless I have to.
thats sad, but understandable
I was crying with joy while watching this video. There wasn't one thing that didn't resonate with me. From my parents, my long term memory, people getting triggered around me even though I love them and want to help them. Valued loyalty, freedom, moral, values! Feeling dumb, scared of my future/career/life etc. right down to my imaginative brain where I could literally create awesome visuals in my mind!
Thank God for you man! Subbed ! No words!
Thanks for this video. A lot of it really resonated with me, and yes, I need a hug.
You have described my relationship with my father (ENTJ) in seconds.
Nicely done lad. Cheers 07:58
- ESTP
I found out today I'm an ENTJ and hearing this guy speak made me tear up he was so accurate at times. Like the most loyal lone wolf you've ever seen haha
This is an excellent exploration of the ENTJ's mindset, you've helped me verbalize my sense of self, thank you Joseph.
Thank you for this extra detailed video. It really helped me to understand myself, makes a lot of sense sense about my way of thinking.