How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others ? - Sadhguru | Be the best YOU! | Sadhguru Here
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Kudos to the girl out there,She spoke what i panic to speak,it is so relatable..
Ikr . i have the same issues
She just read someone's issue.
yes.. especially in study.
Yeahhh-,.
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*That hit me , "Life is to Experience and not to win"*
ty for that ❤️
Comparison is a worst thing one feels frusted and mentally depressed when u r compared to the other in every little way .....comparison is not a must thing but cultivated as if it is fundamental..
I needed this. I’ve been suffering from depression and anxiety comparing myself to others and worrying about my place in society
So true same with my case. Its difficult to live like this
Sa.e
Same here ♥️
brothersss.. I am also same as you all.. that's means we are not alone.. lets be happy and sliming that's I am not alone and rare
Have you find a simple way to stop comparing yourself with others ?
Gist of the video -
" never look up on anything and never look down on anything, see things as they are without any discrimination."
Thank you Sadhguru
This man always talk something that blows my mind and I feel "why I haven't think like this before?"
Yeah same
Truely agreed
All taken from 60 years of teachings by Jiddu Krishnamurti
*I just realised "this cosmos is human-centric is a stupid idea"- to tell this kind of line infront of billions of people takes a lot lot of courage and bravery.we all listen to all kinds of spiritual ideas but to accept them and tell it infront of people is really really a hard task we may not understand.Being a Mystic where the whole world is believing something else takes a lot of bravery.Major shout out to sadhguru and all the mystic minds..*
Perfect.. I hated the ranking system back in school.. it created a lot of negative emotions between students
He has a few good points but the girl's main concern obviously isn't about wanting to be "better" than anyone else. She wants advice on how to stop thinking everyone else is better than HER. He assumes the desire to stop feeling beneath others is driven by the need to feel above others, and that is incorrect. The girl could have studied medicine or law to ensure she appears "better" than others but chose to study humanities (despite knowing it is looked down upon). That already shows her character is not one concerned about seeming better than anyone. Her dilemma is actually that she finds it difficult to fully believe in herself and her capabilities with what she has. It is a matter of self-esteem which doesn't have to include "one upping" anyone. Most people with low self-esteem simply want to feel EQUAL to others, not above others, as they genuinely believe they lack a myriad of things (even if it isn't true, their low image of self makes them believe this).
he did answer the question. Sadhguru mentioned that self esteem is more like comparing with others and dominating them , its an illusion that gives you satisfaction but in reality everybody is different and unique .
N ana C, u r absolutely right.
I we have all inclusive experience then there would be no such thing as self esteem or comparing with others.
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I too feel that the question has not been answered completely.
@@avantikatewari1052 It is because sadhguru cannot address personal issues anymore like he used to do in Ashram long back. It is not possible for him to address issues like that because it is daunting task considering he has millions of following now.
See his answers are universal and mathematical which are true for everyone but it won't help at personal level directly. It is because we have that need and desire to have that feeling of personalized touch and customised solution which would make sense to our own context and experiences. And yes it would have worked like heavens if each of us had individual Sadhguru in our lives. But unfortunately it is not possible.
He can give you the basics. Now you will have to apply the basic knowledge by yourself.
My eyes wept..Lucky to live in this sadguru era..
You people do not know history, so gullible.
Corporates have mastered this with jargon like operational excellence, business excellence etc basically what they do is show a group a people in a team in a dashboard as to who is best and the worst and squeeze them till they bleed from their back to raise the benchmark and later shown the door or not appraised due to them being comparatively less efficient in a bell curve and rehire. The biggest irony is they have values like integrity, equality, being open, courageous etc .
Omg this has changed my mindset so much. Do you have a book or something i can read? Ive learnt so much from u!
If you want to know about various yogic practices and if you are looking for a spiritual guide book, I think “Inner Engineering: A Yogi’s Guide to Joy” is the best.
If you want to have some deeper insights into spirituality, I would recommend “Mystic’s Musings”.
If you want to know about Adiyogi Shiva, I would recommend “Adiyogi: The Source of Yoga”.
If you want to read about Sadhguru, I would recommend “Sadhguru: More Than a Life”. But this book is not written by Sadhguru
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God damn... Just been thinking about why the hell I compare myself to others again -- I just got back to school 2 weeks ago and HE SAID IT-- I realized that I do it only when I am in that stupid environment.... I really hope something is going to change after corona and improve in this school system 🙏 to boost happiness and productivity of the human kind at least 5%
it's so important never to compare yourself to anyone else. you can use them idolize them in a way to help further push you to become better yourself but we are all individually different. you also never know what the person you are comparing yourself to is going through. They might seem like they have the life you want but in reality, they can be miserable or not as happy. Furthermore, you haven't experienced the life they currently live, you only see a photo or few second videos that are generally marketed that way to make it look great. But it could also be that maybe they are enjoying their life and they are happy. And if that's the case you still don't know if what they do for a living is for you and the amount of work they did to get to that point. Everyone always wants the bright light and stars but nobody wants to sacrifice their eyes to get there. You would be very surprised to know another person's situation is extremely different than how you play it out in your mind of how they are actually living. Just focus on yourself, find a passion or that gift that you enjoy, and when you do just keep working at it. if it makes you happy that's all that matters. Keep working at it over the years and eventually, you can cultivate it in all areas of your life such as health, money, relationships, and happiness will follow.
Thank you for this comment. It really helped me.
@@jenniedonehue7121 my pleasure
Thank you for your comment
Moral of story is we are all created to be unique. We do good and not so good at different times. Other's experience the same too. Embrace what makes you unique and know each of us has a purpose. Know you are loved and you are enough just as you are. Be yourself, you have a built in inner guide. ❤❤❤
I think no person in this world can convince or change my mind about comparing myself to others but me ,it’s very frustrating to make yourself understand something.
In corona times this proved to be so true..humans in lockdown natural cleaning n flourishing
We all need a father like sadguru
Sadhguru is soo sweet over here, he is right .
We can never stop comparing us from others because comparison is not at only mental level but biological level too.
We compete with others for food, shelter, reproduction etc..
Competition is not comparisson. Its a big big big difference
@4:29 "Suppose all the insect die today in something like two and
a half to four years time all life will cease. But if all the
human beings die the planet will flourish."
Well, that was true wisdom!!
she is very courageous and self reflecting, if all of us can do it there will be no envious or narcissistic people on earth.
I always thought this way , why we treat people different when all are same .
He has completely changed my beliefs✨ the way he talks is magic✨dis world needs more ppl lyk him..💕thanks for the video🌈
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You still have beliefs after listening to him??? That just mean you have not understood him.
The best advice for humanity ! Thank you so much sadguru
Well, i am not comparing my self to the others but unfortunately my parents comparing me to the others who are richer than me or more like over smarter than me... hahaha lol but seriously sometimes it feels too much hurt.. I really don't know what should I do, 😔😔
Just forget them and follow ur inner voice
@@muhammadusama4497 unfortunately i can't forget them or if i can than society gonna blame me, because they always curse me to compete with others..😢
@@R73949 well I think you can, you have to do those things you like to do whenever you want. In this way ur mind will divert from the negativity, activities like workout, gaming, talking with people you care about these things will surely help you to stop focusing on negativity and soon you'll get rid of them. Thier words will not longer affect you. BOL!
@@muhammadusama4497 but hey, thank you for your kindly response and your support, sometimes the things are not going the way i want to be, so i just can't handle my emotions about of all this things.. That's it, well sorry for my bad english if you don't mind because english is not my first language..
@@R73949 np bro, just keep on moving, don't let anyone manipulate you. Btw ur English is not that bad unless someone don't understand what ur talking about.
and now i feel always happy positive that gives me a smile on my face
Thank you for this video, I have just been in these situations ; I love the lines'life is a tremendous previlege not a race' I am blessed by him with his words. Add more videos like this ☺️.
What a great topic and what wise words as well. It is so easy to compare ourselves to not only others, but who we think we SHOULD be. Love where you are at, love who you are in this moment and everything else will fall into place.
I have been struggling wtih some problem of envy for several years. but i think this talk is the most convincing one for solving the problem. and yes. i do haven't lived my life well enough.
Same here
I compare myself to everyone in my class
This was a great question. And a great answer.
Love you sadhguru.. you vleared lot of doubts❤️
I needed to hear this. ❤️
Touched!
The same question was in my mind...
First 2 minutes and he already blew up my mind ❤️
So much wisdom in eastern philosophies/religions
Even though slow and steady may win the race. Nevertheless, it will never return those things you lost during the chase. Leave the race to embrace the grace, and enjoy life at its own pace.
I agree with this, I've lost the race already
Super Sir.... You are real Guru for Humans in the planet....
Love this
What a powerful message!! These words from Sadhguru should be the one that's sold across the whole population, not the ones that ARE nonsense.
Super Sir.... You are the real Saint....
I always compare myself with others I do no why but one thing people has always put u down. My emotions cannot be controlled. I screm out with my parents but whom u love the most are the person u are comfortable with in and the arguments they share. I always feel I want always to be alone. I always want people don't want to pay lot of attention. Pls god pls make me strong confident I am lossing pls give strength god right way to lead life I am lonely person out of loneliness I shout most of the things are given to my brothers but not me yarr pls... God give me courage happiness wisdom emotionally intelligent. What is the right and wrong.
I love this😊😊
Great teaching of yoga is identity... Yoga teaches there is no person ... No competition... No comparisons... No divisions... Wisdom is there is about shiva and paravti ..
Love the way he says😂😂😂.hes the best.cant function without his videos.❤
Excellent message thank you.
Valid point @ 1:30✔
Thanku for u r advice
1:15 that is what ego Means.
Much needed
This seriously affected me alotttttttt ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Very interesting. Greetings from England
I like this.
I feel the same way
Powerful
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That was really enlightening. Thank you Sadhguru. _/\_
I wanted to hear this video
Are you dear ?
Nice
Omg I love u sm
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I do not feel superior to anyone though, I feel completely inferior to everyone. 😣💔
5:20 chapter evolution class 12 page 1st😮
In this planet everything is divided to rule and everything compared to to feel superior to others. Those unreal things are happening here!
So the answer is simply: be humble
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Bcz only if others are less we are treated like more or else we will be I'll treated and humiliated...so the only way to protect ourselves from that is to be number one so others shud be weak ..isn't it?
I hate the ranking system in schools, truly
Such Ideas of always trying to be Number One and Self-Esteem come from two things:
The WEST and GLOBALIZATION.
Plain and Simple.
Thanks sadguru..u r doing grt job...and inspiring the mindset of youth
in the playstation 4 game, God of War, the main character Kratos, tells his son Atreus something that is a big lesson to live a good life: "expect nothing, and you'll never be disappointed."
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He should clear his concepts instead of comparing
i am showing my talent to all members
but still i don't know my comparing to other members
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Hallo ?! 🙏❤️
My sister always compare me with her and my brother in every field it's annoying I don't want to hear it and because of that my mom also with her , I know everyone face hardship she faced to and I will also in future, I have to battle my own obstacles but always been compared is not helping in any way but making me feel bitter with negative thoughts and the results is I always a war going on my mind that if I am doing it why she is not , why no one saying anything to her why it's was always me . I try to make them understand my feelings and it always me on the receiving end saying my behaviour is getting worst day by day and you are not going stand anywhere with this attitude, and it's so suffocating feel I am caged in my own home 😔.
Then wat to answer for relatives
can somebody translate in simple roman urdu or hindi the exaplr of solar system for self esteem...Thanks in advance
She is so beautiful... Why the hell she is thinking so much..
Sir???
@@jamien.5528 😂
It's due to pear pressure
In hindi
My parents don't compare but I do and the only reason why my mental peace is disturbed.
Yes. In fact, they tell me not to compare myself and are helping me cope up with this but sadly they can't as this bug has now made its home in my brain. However, I am determined to fix this problem as it is eventually making my life miserable.
Good to see someone relatable here :)
I don't know, why some people hesitate to clap
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👉Inner Engineering: A Yogi’s Guide to Joy : amzn.to/2Xs67Sf
👉Adiyogi: The Source of Yoga : amzn.to/3kgZ9tl
👉Death; An Inside Story: A book for all those who shall die : amzn.to/3fvSKqd
Then dear sadhguru
Plz tel government not to give seats for students on neet by comparing their ranks
The ranks itself means comparison
How can the seat system and student be without comparisons?
It's highly impractical
Sadguru you have answer the biggest question jesus has created everything to support human life on here on earth and beyond we have been created to manage the earth and the universe by using the same energy which created the whole universe which is called WORD there was one word which is it is never been define properly but since Jesus Christ came here to us he defined it properly not by dying for the good people but for those who has the most bad words like those who sin and that word is love LOVE LOVELOVELOVELOVE
you sure sadhguru meant we're created to manage the earth? he said not to think too much of ourselves.
I we have all inclusive experience then there would be no such thing as self esteem or comparing with others.
🙂😀😃
I just realised worms are more important than me
Hello! Sadhguru 😂😂
I wish a had a cold mango 🥭
Even parents compare me to other children and start scolding and say "if you really have respect on me get highest marks and show
It happens only if others get less marks than me
Wats the use if I even get 8/10 and my friend gets 9/10
Even I'f 8 is a gud mark I won't be respected bcz she got 9/10
And everyone compare me to tat girl
And say "How much ever the difference is first rank is first rank only and second rank is second rank only "
Then how the hell will I deal?
Itll stop only after I get 9.5 /10
Do u know any other better way tan tat?
Ur preachings are so impractical only if u are read to stop contacts with all ppl
why is this guy in my algorithm 😩
His humor 😂
The answer is:: if you have the habit of comparing others...try to get rid of that habit like cigarette, alcohol...etc.
What he said is extraordinary..but not applicable for the question she asked.
He said mango tree vs coconut tree
Ant and grasshopper but they won't study in a same school they won't write same exam but we humans do so comparison is in evitable.
If we human has to follow you we must be jobless like you...monk like you.parents like sadguru preaches but parents don't like their children to become another sadguru.
You said life is not race ...yes when you are a monk be coz you don't need money people offer you.
Finally a healthy camparision is good don't bother about that. Focus on your work ...do that extraordinary...they you will not get time to compare others...problem solved.
True
@1:04 Sadhguru: "Unfortunately our education systems were made like this right from Kindergarten: "who's first, who's second, who's third?". You want to be first."
@ 1:14 "So your SENSE of happines is ONLY WHEN everybody IS doing WORSE than you. What kind of life is that?!"
India people treat him like god
Says the guy on stage looking down on everyone. Pff
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