Comparison is toxic and from a Christian perspective is one way of not trusting God's ways and what he wants of us. What an awesome advice from this Gentleman.
Amen! Yes!!! I was looking for a good video on comparison, and I wanted to test out this video, and now I'm replying to a brother-in Christ Jesus!! God bless, in Jesus’ name, name
"And of course your life will be so miserable if you just compare yourself to differente people at their perfect side. That's way that everytime when I believe that my life is miserable I tried to see things from more angles, and honestly everytime when I do this I realise that there is something I can be greatful for"
In our life what matters the most is not how we are better or worse than other people but our learnings, our progress and our growth in our own journey.
This insight and advice was profoundly helpful. I have been so exhausted of comparing myself with others and what others value. I feel like I could be aware of anything else and it has become a profound issue. But I have to learn to be more aware of my own values, "wins", growth. i think if you practice asking yourself those 2 questions everyday (what did you learn? What did you improve?) your life will profoundly improve as you are more aware of your own successes and positive qualities instead of others'.
Comparison has been imbibed in our core when parents say, "After 10 years you will see Mr Neighbour's son in BMW and owning a big house. How will you feel then...."
I loved this video! As someone in their late 20's, at the absoloute peak of comparison to everyone around them in their lives, this really spoke so true to me. Anyone know does this guy have social media/ links to other talks he did? i cant find anything online about him!
@@yennimaryaim 20 now and as smeone younger than you, believe me when i say your 20 years old self would be so proud of wht u’ve learnt. Even if u had downs you probably had smething great achieved, even if u didnt realised it. I’ve heard ppl say 25 is the age where ppl usually alrdy got their things tgether, but everyone hve their own time ! No one could steal what you have from you, so no amount of comparison from other ppl would affect what ure capable of. Be patient with urself 💌💗
Comparing peoples here in Indonesia are common, even in the family parent could compare their childrens which kids are the best in everything and parent would treat this kid better than others kids who are in their opninion just average, this could create envy and traumatic experience, but seems no one care about this problem, maybe human enjoy watching someone feel bad about themselves, it makes them feel better.
I always get compared to otgers by my family,by my boyfriend , my friends. its really hurtful to hear those i feel alone and lost in life when they do that i can hear my heart shattering into pieces i wish that they can know how hurtful it is to compare someone to the others
I think it's sensitive because it's Referring to something like insecurity or body shaming our own self if we compare our hair to others that have a better hair than us. Also if we compare our hair and feel better than others, probably the person you compared with would feel down and insecure or maybe offended.
Comparison is a major way we learn. We are born learners. We learn significantly by observation. What is someone doing, what’s the result, can I learn this. It’s a huge part of our development. A lifelong skill. Why do you think U tube is probably the number 1 place for learning new stuff. The joy of watching an expert perform! Mentoring. Coaching. Of course it’s a double edged sword. Growing up in dysfunctional homes( all are on a sliding scale) we start using our fantastic skill in a negative way usually to conform. The education system, social media, advertising all programme us in “a negative comparison culture. This stifles our creativity. But let’s not throw out the baby with the bathwater. Use our “comparison” skills wisely with awareness to benefit ourselves and others.
Michael Jordan, Michael Jackson, and Michael Schumacher are 3 different Michaels with different paths. Sometimes people compare themselves with other people who are not on the same path. It becomes toxic. "Stay in your own lane" is a common saying to tell people: "Hey, you are unique too! Don't shortchange yourself by comparing yourself to other people. You have your own uniqueness. Stay true to yourself."
Comparison is exhausting. It sinks your joy. There will always be someone that has something better than you.
But it's like you were never meant to compare yourself but your environment or people made you do it.. 😞.. It sucks so bad..
same
Comparison is toxic and from a Christian perspective is one way of not trusting God's ways and what he wants of us.
What an awesome advice from this Gentleman.
Amen! Yes!!!
I was looking for a good video on comparison, and I wanted to test out this video, and now I'm replying to a brother-in Christ Jesus!!
God bless, in Jesus’ name, name
"And of course your life will be so miserable if you just compare yourself to differente people at their perfect side. That's way that everytime when I believe that my life is miserable I tried to see things from more angles, and honestly everytime when I do this I realise that there is something I can be greatful for"
In our life what matters the most is not how we are better or worse than other people but our learnings, our progress and our growth in our own journey.
This insight and advice was profoundly helpful. I have been so exhausted of comparing myself with others and what others value. I feel like I could be aware of anything else and it has become a profound issue. But I have to learn to be more aware of my own values, "wins", growth. i think if you practice asking yourself those 2 questions everyday (what did you learn? What did you improve?) your life will profoundly improve as you are more aware of your own successes and positive qualities instead of others'.
This presentation has really changed my life. Thank you so much, Manto. ❤
Too much comparison can end up blocking your authentic self.
He’s amazing at public speaking !!
I felt so Good after hearing this tedxtalk❤😊
One of the best ted talks I have watched. Thank you for your talk
I am a college student and Was very depressed by seeing the Luxury life of other😢 but know have same batter feelings❤❤❤❤
This guy is amazing i like his way he's still student but he teaches me alot about one of the important issue of life challenges, keep going👏
Just amazing, go Man To!
Comparison has been imbibed in our core when parents say, "After 10 years you will see Mr Neighbour's son in BMW and owning a big house. How will you feel then...."
Thank you really gave me a new perspective.....❤
You just saved my life. I needed this.
Inspiring and calming at the same time
Very inspiring !
Great talk! I never thought about how we compare ourselves to the .01 percent. It's true. It's a type of madness.
Thank you for a blessing 🎉
Different perspective! Nice❤
I loved this video! As someone in their late 20's, at the absoloute peak of comparison to everyone around them in their lives, this really spoke so true to me. Anyone know does this guy have social media/ links to other talks he did? i cant find anything online about him!
Me will turn 25 in a week, and my parents keep comparing me, that makes me feel i cant make it, im not good enough
@@yennimaryaim 20 now and as smeone younger than you, believe me when i say your 20 years old self would be so proud of wht u’ve learnt. Even if u had downs you probably had smething great achieved, even if u didnt realised it. I’ve heard ppl say 25 is the age where ppl usually alrdy got their things tgether, but everyone hve their own time ! No one could steal what you have from you, so no amount of comparison from other ppl would affect what ure capable of. Be patient with urself 💌💗
Thankyou. Needed it
Very insightful ❤
Comparing peoples here in Indonesia are common, even in the family parent could compare their childrens which kids are the best in everything and parent would treat this kid better than others kids who are in their opninion just average, this could create envy and traumatic experience, but seems no one care about this problem, maybe human enjoy watching someone feel bad about themselves, it makes them feel better.
Inspiring🔥🔥🔥🔥
enjoyed the talk thanks (from usa)
At no point in your life , should you ever measure yourself against other people .
Amazing pitch! Congrats!!!
Thank you very much.
"I am from Asia"- that pretty much summed up everything 😂
I always get compared to otgers by my family,by my boyfriend , my friends. its really hurtful to hear those i feel alone and lost in life when they do that i can hear my heart shattering into pieces i wish that they can know how hurtful it is to compare someone to the others
Me encantó. Muy educativo
thanks!
Great speach 😂😊🥰
Great insights! But why did the speaker emphasize that the hair is sensitive to comparison. 9:47
I think it's sensitive because it's Referring to something like insecurity or body shaming our own self if we compare our hair to others that have a better hair than us.
Also if we compare our hair and feel better than others, probably the person you compared with would feel down and insecure or maybe offended.
Love from pakistan❤❤❤❤❤
Comparison is a major way we learn. We are born learners. We learn significantly by observation. What is someone doing, what’s the result, can I learn this. It’s a huge part of our development. A lifelong skill. Why do you think U tube is probably the number 1 place for learning new stuff. The joy of watching an expert perform! Mentoring. Coaching.
Of course it’s a double edged sword. Growing up in dysfunctional homes( all are on a sliding scale) we start using our fantastic skill in a negative way usually to conform. The education system, social media, advertising all programme us in “a negative comparison culture. This stifles our creativity.
But let’s not throw out the baby with the bathwater.
Use our “comparison” skills wisely with awareness to benefit ourselves and others.
Michael Jordan, Michael Jackson, and Michael Schumacher are 3 different Michaels with different paths.
Sometimes people compare themselves with other people who are not on the same path.
It becomes toxic. "Stay in your own lane" is a common saying to tell people: "Hey, you are unique too! Don't shortchange yourself by comparing yourself to other people. You have your own uniqueness. Stay true to yourself."
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there's nothing I'm proud of 🙂
omg he pressed the applaud button too early!! phahahaha
Brilliant. Compare yourself to … yourself
clapping button ?
Bro’s jokes are great
I am the first here💓
Same pitch
好嘢👏🏼
Pessimistic, because here's another load of important refund information
Justin Bieber having beautiful hair is wild 😂
Thanks!
You just saved my life. I needed this.