Self Love | Parul Gulati | TEDxGLIMChennai

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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025

Комментарии • 202

  • @kalzj6176
    @kalzj6176 5 лет назад +36

    The way she was speaking about the "other girl" could be clearly seen in her eyes that she was talking about herself...and it really takes a lot of courage to come up like this...to talk about your own story specially when you have struggled a lot in life...hatsofff girl more power and love to you...god bless...

    • @viking21
      @viking21 5 месяцев назад

      I noticed too

  • @akankshasinghvlogs7405
    @akankshasinghvlogs7405 5 лет назад +311

    She was mah senior in my school😍
    She is so kind...! And beautiful soul!😘

    • @neetushrivastava9133
      @neetushrivastava9133 5 лет назад +1

      in which school u were in ?

    • @ishitasingh6492
      @ishitasingh6492 5 лет назад

      seriously amazing ♥♥♥♥♥

    • @akankshasinghvlogs7405
      @akankshasinghvlogs7405 5 лет назад +5

      @@neetushrivastava9133 shiksha bharti in haryana😊

    • @akankshasinghvlogs7405
      @akankshasinghvlogs7405 5 лет назад +2

      @@ishitasingh6492 😍😘

    • @VRDproject
      @VRDproject 5 лет назад +5

      Haryana!!?? OMG!! I took her to be a Mumbai girl. Now I truly wish we see her playing a typical Haryanvi Girl with that savage accent🤩

  • @aryangupta1971
    @aryangupta1971 5 лет назад +152

    She was in an extremely underrated show on Star Plus called "Bandi Yudh ke" (prisoners of war). Loved her performance

    • @ash8253
      @ash8253 5 лет назад +4

      It was a great serial first saw her there love her nose...

    • @dollyshukla5646
      @dollyshukla5646 5 лет назад +4

      she was also d part of web series haq se..

  • @artlove203
    @artlove203 5 лет назад +42

    Why an audience is so quit? She is delivering a elegant speech. ❤

  • @Iam_namangupta
    @Iam_namangupta Год назад +4

    Watching it after shark tak. She is at par at everything she does. Superb.

  • @mugdhakanungo
    @mugdhakanungo 5 лет назад +5

    Can't believe you are portraying me in front of me....I loved you from haq se where you are such a strong girl... never knowing a soft hearted girl like me laying underneath...tears are rolling down from my eyes...I am getting goosebumps

  • @minni_bisht_0408
    @minni_bisht_0408 5 лет назад +59

    What i actually loved about her is she's so confident 💫

  • @naptune6279
    @naptune6279 3 года назад +2

    When she said "anyway" it was the perfect style I have ever seen. Such a beautiful girl. I like her.

  • @OjashShrestha95
    @OjashShrestha95 5 лет назад +4

    That abrupt ending. This lady is amazing. From Acting to TEDX Talk. Everything blows the audience way in so subtle ways. More power and achievements in her life!

  • @RubiscoTalks
    @RubiscoTalks 5 лет назад +40

    I met her during Lil Flea Market, Delhi this Feb (I even have a vlog on my channel)
    I remember her and became a fan of her since POW series which was underrated!
    I still remember how her face lit up when I mentioned her work in Prisoners of War! She is a sweetheart...and absolute gem 😍😍 she has her own brand Nish Hair and was promoting it..I really like this talk!
    Very relatable..

  • @kuhukapoor9215
    @kuhukapoor9215 5 лет назад +1

    She seems so real and true when she's speaking..all that stammering and pauses make it seem like she's really recalling her past..ohh brother.

  • @paridhisinha4833
    @paridhisinha4833 5 лет назад +245

    Parul Gulati reminds me of " Girls Hostel" by girlyapa
    I wish they have more episodes
    😁😂my comment is so out of tangent

    • @adityakumar3943
      @adityakumar3943 5 лет назад +1

      Watch BTS. They released it yesterday ;)

    • @sanvi3740
      @sanvi3740 5 лет назад +1

      Same here😁

    • @i_bit2
      @i_bit2 5 лет назад

      Right......❣️

    • @restorezone1145
      @restorezone1145 5 лет назад

      @@adityakumar3943 i didn't find girl's hostel season 2....did they released it?

    • @akanksha0421
      @akanksha0421 3 года назад

      @@restorezone1145 yes I hope you've watched already :)

  • @TheNilabh
    @TheNilabh 3 года назад +5

    I'm not sure if I am going to say that I've become a fan of Parul but I can relate to her so much that it just makes me feel sad. Sad, because the way she speaks, I can see myself in her place. Like this is how I feel and this is what am and I've been seeking answers and validation from others and I've lived with this constant need for approval of others solely because I've never known myself. I still don't know what I want from myself and how I want to be. It's scary when you realise that fact because then you come to the actual understanding that there is no safe place for you to go and that you've been hiding and running from the real version of you. I dont know if people can relate to my comment here but I'm taking this time out to write so much here for two reasons, 1) I really really wish that someone should read this and help me. 2) i know there are many of you who feel just like me and it's not a good feeling and it makes us feel like we're not living like we're holding ourselves back. Like there is potential in all of us but we are not able to do anything because we don't know ourselves.

  • @ajaykumartripathi85
    @ajaykumartripathi85 5 лет назад +102

    Brilliant content delivered almost Perfectly . You did a great job but I guess the audience were dead or abnormal !

  • @payalk2898
    @payalk2898 3 года назад +1

    7:06- Accept yourself and your journey
    Ask yourself why are you feeling what you are feeling ??

  • @stha03
    @stha03 5 лет назад +12

    "How can you expect others to love you when you don't love yourself"
    💖

  • @nuke2625
    @nuke2625 5 лет назад +56

    I thought she's kind of a diva girl. But she seems like a nice girl.

  • @nidhiupadhyay4607
    @nidhiupadhyay4607 2 года назад +1

    U have a charismatic personality . Keep growing 💗
    Conclusion: love yourself , always feel privileged for the things that you have stop dying for fake attension start living for true love .
    Always respect your A category person . ✨

  • @surekhamallareddi9781
    @surekhamallareddi9781 5 лет назад +2

    I actually never liked her in videos because she seemed like somebody with an attitude and now I have become a huge fan of who she is! I love this video and I relate to this.. Great work!!

  • @ankitashelke1218
    @ankitashelke1218 5 лет назад +18

    This is exactly what i needed .
    Thank you so much parul .

  • @tiaradsouza2072
    @tiaradsouza2072 5 лет назад +2

    She is pretty relatable. Self-love is important! truly empowering.

  • @riyabhatt1710
    @riyabhatt1710 5 лет назад +3

    I have gone through same situation but now after going to a doctor or a therapist I found myself and if you and I can do it everyone must do it ... Because mental sickness is a real thing

  • @bvartikaa
    @bvartikaa 5 лет назад +2

    I love how genuine this was.

  • @garimasinghbhati6419
    @garimasinghbhati6419 3 года назад

    The way she has explained her story was totally relatable. So many things has cleared for me abouts me.
    Thank you!!

  • @humming_words_on_the_tree9934
    @humming_words_on_the_tree9934 5 лет назад +1

    Parul ♥ all hearts out to u... Love ur voice and more than that, ur confidence... Whether u are or not. U are doing great. Love ur jacket and u accepting urself ♥

  • @dikshasharma4518
    @dikshasharma4518 5 лет назад +5

    I still remember her character of Bittan in the show ye pyar na hoga kam which starred yami Gautam :') loved this video

    • @VipulJain40
      @VipulJain40 5 лет назад

      Correct she was sister of yami gautam in the show

  • @richabhardwaj1196
    @richabhardwaj1196 5 лет назад +21

    Parullll... u r a power packed girl. Keep it up. Love you 😊God bless you

  • @coolshailly04
    @coolshailly04 5 лет назад +4

    Hey Parul!
    Hope you read this.. I first saw you in 'Yeh pyaar na hoga kam' as Bittan and I just loved your character. In most of the shows I watch I like the supporting characters more than the main 2 actors! I just remember your face from that show. Then I saw you in P.O.W. and I followed that show religiously. I loved that show! In 'Haq se' you were also there. I really appreciate your choice of projects. Good luck for your future.
    Here you said stop collecting and start connecting. Well I was born and brought up in a big city and I face people's prejudice all the time. Oh she's a Delhite must be high headed or just way too modern (which is now the defintion for not knowing household basic chores or being non adjusting). Well I am not one of them and yes someone said oh you don't go out often and are always studying or spending time with your family. So I have friends who are well connected and not collected. Self love is soo important and with time and the success/failures we face I think we start undervaluing ourselves. So it's super important to love yourself and to accept yourself. Other things will fall into place eventually. And yes Parul di (as I am younger to you by 2 yrs as per wikipedia :P) keep smiling! Keep shining! 😊

  • @vandanasingh3973
    @vandanasingh3973 5 лет назад

    I lv the reality...........i can feel what she said......just amazing 💓💓

  • @achyutsinha8242
    @achyutsinha8242 5 лет назад +6

    Hii Parul, my story is almost similar like you and I also get my therapy and after this therapy I got all my questions why is to be happen with me and only me. But it needs guts to say everything about yourself and I want to say great job 👍😎✌

  • @aditigupta5649
    @aditigupta5649 5 лет назад +3

    Her voice ❤❤

  • @kanchankashyap9033
    @kanchankashyap9033 5 лет назад +2

    She's so beautiful from heart and soul

  • @SeemaSharma-cb9gd
    @SeemaSharma-cb9gd 5 лет назад +4

    I can relate to her😔

  • @dubb3292
    @dubb3292 5 лет назад +1

    I remember her from Kitni mohabbat hai❤❤

  • @UnlockingBrilliance
    @UnlockingBrilliance 5 лет назад +8

    Every failure is coming to make us brave and successful so it's all about our choice what we want to choose.. thank you for sharing worth of self love :)

  • @kitotekishika
    @kitotekishika 5 лет назад +8

    Don't collect... Just connect 😘

  • @darshitaagrawal8258
    @darshitaagrawal8258 5 лет назад +23

    It was like... Someone is telling my tell to the world... I m 18 right now... And hoping that, will be as much confident as she is, in my future

  • @nilottomasultana2412
    @nilottomasultana2412 5 лет назад +1

    I really feel the same.. Thanks for sharing.. Lots of love for you.

  • @karshanbhaigohil198
    @karshanbhaigohil198 5 лет назад +3

    Ur story just helped me change my story...Thankyou for making me feel that this was an emptiness that I "ws" feeling in my stomach... But now no more... ik what I hv to do... Tysm parul 😇😇💕💕 - Shivangi

  • @sirishjain7003
    @sirishjain7003 5 лет назад +3

    More power to you girl. Keep going strongly .. stay blessed. You are a champion .

  • @ankitasingh728
    @ankitasingh728 5 лет назад +1

    luv u parul,you are so connecting.Ilove your every performance.

  • @khanajaana
    @khanajaana 5 лет назад +13

    I totally relate to you ...I feel the same.

  • @ravijoshi6022
    @ravijoshi6022 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you for being you 👊👊

  • @suruchi2867
    @suruchi2867 5 лет назад +1

    Aag h bndi ...best speech

  • @prashanttiwari1225
    @prashanttiwari1225 5 лет назад +18

    Feels like you just portrayed my story.

  • @angitd3766
    @angitd3766 5 лет назад +1

    Such a great speech

  • @shrutitayal01
    @shrutitayal01 4 года назад

    🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡ilove your voice and the style of ur speaking,🧡🧡🧡🧡⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @ayushkapoor2119
    @ayushkapoor2119 4 года назад +1

    This is literally my life story.

  • @pallavid8231
    @pallavid8231 5 лет назад +1

    What you went threw I understand it very much
    But I am glad you have realized and trying to be a better everyday, ☺

  • @revathisusi6609
    @revathisusi6609 5 лет назад +6

    I m related to u...!!!ur words r giving confidence sis!!!👍

  • @nk8368
    @nk8368 5 лет назад +1

    Superbbb....one of the best video i hv ever seen

  • @akanksha0421
    @akanksha0421 3 года назад

    Oh my god! It is great (no other words) Kudos to uh Parul!
    Really awesome!

  • @himanshikashyap4640
    @himanshikashyap4640 4 года назад

    I love her since girls hostel ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @RuchiYevle
    @RuchiYevle 5 лет назад +7

    How beautifully conveyed!
    The "Collector" and "Connector". That's the generation of we millennials. We first compare ourselves rather than self appreciation. But this betters with self talk and more importantly self love.
    One of the rare videos with such relatable "connect"!

    • @neetushrivastava9133
      @neetushrivastava9133 5 лет назад

      correct but what if somebody has no 'A' category friends, and she wants to make friends but no one wants to be her friend.

    • @RuchiYevle
      @RuchiYevle 5 лет назад

      @@neetushrivastava9133 Firstly, one can list their some friends as 'A' category friends only if he/she knows them, understands them and they do the same. This friendship comes over a lot of time and understanding. And why nobody wants to be her friend?
      Ask yourself first. Only you can get your answer

    • @neetushrivastava9133
      @neetushrivastava9133 5 лет назад

      @@RuchiYevle thanks for the suggestion .

    • @RuchiYevle
      @RuchiYevle 5 лет назад

      @@neetushrivastava9133 also take time to differentiate between your friends and acquaintances. Life would be better!♡

  • @jetbllackwings
    @jetbllackwings 3 месяца назад

    10:20 such a great depiction that’s exactly what it feels like

  • @sane2863
    @sane2863 5 лет назад +6

    Somehow somewhere when this video started and you started speaking after 2-3 minutes I knew you were talking about yourself

  • @meghawa
    @meghawa 5 лет назад +1

    Wow, this is so relatable😪

  • @gauravgupta9477
    @gauravgupta9477 5 лет назад +84

    3:09.....I was like "boom!!!!!!!!"..... Collector??....IAS??

  • @sabrinmehtab9293
    @sabrinmehtab9293 5 лет назад +1

    i love her episode in girliyapaa..

  • @saurabhniley5441
    @saurabhniley5441 5 лет назад

    You are very brave to talk about your past to help others, also I can relate so much. Great talk!

  • @pankhfoundation1750
    @pankhfoundation1750 5 лет назад +9

    Loved your work in "Haq se" on altbalaji webseries

  • @ajaykumartripathi85
    @ajaykumartripathi85 5 лет назад +10

    One of the most connecting videos on TedX .Parul you are doing a great job dear .Lots of wishes !!
    👏👏👏👏

  • @riyaz2041
    @riyaz2041 5 лет назад +1

    Confidence level 🔥💯

  • @knowledgepin3390
    @knowledgepin3390 4 года назад

    So relatable ❤❤

  • @dikshamalhotra3372
    @dikshamalhotra3372 5 лет назад +1

    Appreciate your courage.. 💞 ぱる は きれい です👍

  • @pragatisingh2396
    @pragatisingh2396 5 лет назад

    Love every word of you..♥️♥️♥️

  • @cami__s5068
    @cami__s5068 5 лет назад +5

    I can so relate to this....lovely speech👍

  • @belzebub1533
    @belzebub1533 5 лет назад +21

    What if one has no "A" category friend?
    The thing is we might feel others superior than ourselves... 😩
    Yes its wrong..... Yeah Nothing wrong in taking time.... We are good persons and being better... Somehow
    ....... Life........

  • @durgeshnandinpanda2999
    @durgeshnandinpanda2999 5 лет назад

    I can connect this to myself,,,,and loved this talk,,&diva,,,,

  • @Zahra-bi4bw
    @Zahra-bi4bw 5 лет назад +1

    She's so pretty 💕

  • @zainabmohammad3834
    @zainabmohammad3834 5 лет назад +10

    Ditto my Story
    Therapy is yet to happen

  • @ritambharasingh5373
    @ritambharasingh5373 5 лет назад +7

    I relate so much...but gud t c u n learn frm u Parul to how navigate thru dis situation of ours...my loved ppl tell me luv myself frst..only den can i luv others !

  • @HollyyBollyy
    @HollyyBollyy 5 лет назад +4

    People often confuse self love with selfishness, narcissism...the real form of self love is self love and compassion, empathy

  • @aryangupta3498
    @aryangupta3498 5 лет назад

    mam u r so adorable. Very well presented.

  • @kashikarathor941
    @kashikarathor941 5 лет назад +3

    This is very beautiful, thankyou for sending so much power, more power to you💯💖

  • @mollysharma3373
    @mollysharma3373 5 лет назад +1

    It was worth listening ..... Really...

  • @AnamikaSingh-gb3pr
    @AnamikaSingh-gb3pr 5 лет назад +1

    Totally related to me.. But in my case i know where did i come from ...thnx for this ,to me worked like a therapy. Still I'm struggling with self love 😪 .

  • @parulpurwar7716
    @parulpurwar7716 5 лет назад +2

    Loved it !❤️ I feel the same be you self love is something which can give u peace 😍

  • @harmianaaa
    @harmianaaa 5 лет назад +1

    I'm so proud of you!

  • @shiwanikannaujiya1896
    @shiwanikannaujiya1896 5 лет назад

    Lovely personality....😘😘😘

  • @namita7387
    @namita7387 5 лет назад +5

    I relate to this...but thanks to tell us first like ur self❤😍😍😍

  • @Abhishek-vy9kj
    @Abhishek-vy9kj 5 лет назад +2

    same feeling as i have , a category people are difficult to find

  • @Machaoooo1
    @Machaoooo1 5 лет назад +9

    Nice start parul... Best luck... It's very difficult to keep people engage

  • @alidack9750
    @alidack9750 5 лет назад +3

    Superb..one of the best videos I have watched on this topic👏👏👏

  • @geetikashaaran4256
    @geetikashaaran4256 5 лет назад

    So helpful, thanks❤

  • @sachusabu1
    @sachusabu1 5 лет назад

    This is what I was searching for....thank you❤️

  • @billyperez9422
    @billyperez9422 4 года назад

    Thats nice vedio i am gonna kerp this going

  • @ritikakhurana2821
    @ritikakhurana2821 5 лет назад

    Amazing 👍👍👍

  • @FreshFlower1010
    @FreshFlower1010 5 лет назад

    Ur amazing Parul.. 😘❤️

  • @cuteorganism6524
    @cuteorganism6524 5 лет назад +1

    U r Awesome

  • @poojasalunkhe5745
    @poojasalunkhe5745 5 лет назад +1

    Keep going girl❤❤❤

  • @sofiaabidi7607
    @sofiaabidi7607 5 лет назад +3

    Very nice speech Zahira

  • @monishkakaushal6040
    @monishkakaushal6040 5 лет назад +4

    Every of my fav person is on ted ex now i love uh guyss❤❤💙💙

    • @akhilkumar4032
      @akhilkumar4032 5 лет назад

      I too want to talk any chance.. sister

  • @TheVishalvindoorty
    @TheVishalvindoorty 3 года назад

    Very nice

  • @i_bit2
    @i_bit2 5 лет назад

    You speak so good👌🏻

  • @Kirti9999
    @Kirti9999 5 лет назад

    You solved my problem thank u dear☺️

  • @anitamajhi7635
    @anitamajhi7635 4 года назад

    Pura vdo dijiya... Pls..

  • @kiruthika___attheglobalcit4134
    @kiruthika___attheglobalcit4134 5 лет назад +2

    Amazing. ..

  • @Am-js1ue
    @Am-js1ue 5 лет назад

    I feel the same way as she did and it's so depressing

  • @crazycutiie6694
    @crazycutiie6694 5 лет назад +1

    This helping a lot to overcome the fact that "why people don't like me" Very good 👍