I threw away a life changing opportunity because of a girl, I was with for 3.5 years only for her to break up with me and break my heart. Biggest regret of my twenties... Anyone who reads this, don't give up life changing opportunities because of a girl....
Hollow Shell smh. Most of his fans aren’t Incels and are guys that want to either sharpen their game, or guys that don’t have a lot of game and want to learn.
One of the good things about the internet is you can gain so much knowledge at a much younger age than you did back in the day. Saves you from making bad decisions
@@colnohman5255 So what!? To a post-wall woman which dominates him and he only got one single (1) child out of. Is that _" evolutionarily successful"_ according to himself!?
41 minutes in. This guest is incredibly interesting, clearly highly intelligent, open minded and considerate of multiple perspectives and ideas. He seems very fair and unbiased which I think is fantastic and sets a great example that I think a lot of people could learn from.
Come on Rollo, even you, your wife could leave you. JHONNY Depp, Brad Pitt, etc. It happens to the best... Red pill will not save you. women are just unpredictable..
I just wan't to warn you: people like Rollo and ''Red Pill'' people exploit low self-esteem men into believing women all behave the same way, and more often than not portrays them in 'slightly' misogynistic ways. I used to believe Red Pill ideology, but I actually started hanging out with girls and realized that most women want somebody who is interesting and caring. Just. Like. Guys. There are also a million reasons why you should put somebody else before yourself. Rollo has a kid and still says things like ''I put my life before anybody else's''.
Guys should not be using pop culture figures as role models. Period. It’s not real and you’ll be let down when your life doesn’t turn out like a movie. Should’ve rejected that question.
It makes me happy to hear someone bringing awareness to the way men can make themselves too vulnerable to their relationships. I've known a good handful of men who decided that pursuing a certain woman in their lives was all that matters. And those stories don't end so well. I think if men supported each other better emotionally, they might not feel the need to place so much reliance on their romantic relationships. But maybe that's just my point of view.
Someone gets it, the best thing a man can do is form strong bortherly bonds with other men. That way we don't end up too needy with our wives or girlfriends.
@@maestro7058 He has three books in the Rational Male series. But you can basically read most of the books as single blog posts on his website, the books are a compilation of the blog posts.
@@fuzzylogiceire Okay bro thanks but like what you mean by you can't unsee that? Some stories of female behavior which are like WTF or something along those lines? I wanted to buy the Rational Male book, I saw on goodreads I think it was only one, so I dunno should I buy it then, but I'd think I want to, I can support the author himself like that too...
@@maestro7058 I didn't make the original comment so I won't speak for what meaning he personally took from the book. Maybe Brandon will reply later. I will say that Hypergamy is one of the things Rollo talks about most. I would watch the presentation he gave 'The Rational Male - Hypergamy: Micro to Macro'. It's on RUclips. There's too much in the books to mention in one single comment but Rollos basic idea behind hypergamy is women perceiving men differently, she'll make rules for the beta and break them for the alpha. A girl who won't have sex with someone she views as long term relationship material for several dates, but then has sex with a guy within 10 minutes because that guy triggers raw desire in her. It's all about womens short term and long term mating strategies. But that video will explain it a lot better. I really like when he talks about not being able to negotiate desire. It's pretty liberating because it reinforces that if a girl is really into you, she won't start being flakey and giving mixed messages. She'll want to make plans with you, no bullshit. The idea that you can't talk someone into having chemistry, it's either there or its not. Of course there are ways to change it by lifting weights, improving status/finances etc. You can improve your odds. Yeah, I'd imagine the book on goodreads was the red covered one? It's just called the Rational Male, that's the one to get first.
Male empowerment..... you mean simple male leadership, that males should've been taught by their fathers. I don't completely blame fathers, because some either don't have one, or their fathers grew up in a different time where these conversations weren't required. Nevertheless, this is simple coming of age stuff that's not taught in western culture, as other narratives have taken primary importance. I get your point by calling it male empowerment, but to me it's a weird way of putting it.
I love how inquisitive Rollo is. Many things that he is talking about many people feel, just can't or don't put words to it. But when someone like Rollo details it out you just feel how powerful this is and applicable to your experience. Also I've read many many books, which were written artfully, but then you listen to the author and it's almost like a different person in a conversation. But Rollo has both, analytical part on paper and an ability to articulate his ideas as part of the conversation. Keep up the great work Rollo.
Avozij Basically I was operating under a lot of assumptions and myths about women and relationships that simply aren’t true. Those bad assumptions were resulting in mutual unhappiness and failed relarionships.
@Clarence W It really has. I've had no less than 6 guys over the years tell me I've saved their lives. It's humbling to say the least and really does make it all worth it.
I knew a guy who killed himself at 23, yes 23, because his “high school sweetheart” who he married ended up divorcing him after having twins with him. She went to drop off the kids to his apartment and when she opened the door he was hanging from the living room ceiling fan. It’s obvious he made her his life, and when she left he felt like his life was over. It was really sad hearing about it. If he read Rollo’s book I guarantee he would still be here today.
Rollo is slowly changing the way men think about themselves and the dynamics of their female relationship. Fellas, put yourself first. You'll never lose.
@Kill Slug I'd rather not get married then. I don't want to grovel to women. They're not 'special'. They're the same as every other person. Do I need woman to stay alive? No. What did they give apart from sex? That's the question. So, no. If you thought that relationship and life should revolves around woman, better change that mindset.
Overall great interview Andrew. watched the whole thing, couldn't take my eyes away because it was interesting. loved how you let him talk, and didn't intrude on his viewpoints. you're a wonderful interviewer. thank you
This is a great video. Rollo's experience with the "crazy" chick and his awakening is very similar to my own. The woman who twisted my soul was BPD and highly narcissistic. In the course of a few years, I abandoned everything that I wanted for and in my life in order to appease this insatiable woman. While it was the worst personal "storm" I ever endured, it was also the most liberating. Rollo's work has been revolutionary for men in this current system of things.
Making sacrifices is something that is usually required from both male and female if they intend on a long term committed relationship. But the man should never un-become his true self simply for the sake of the relationship. Even if it all works out, subconsciously she will resent him for not becoming or chasing his true purpose. Money and looks aren't everything. Character and vibration are what creates the draw. KNOW WHO YOU ARE, AND BE IT.
I like his quote, "Stop using woman as the metric by which you measure yourself" This is something I struggle with alot from the age of 21-27. I am 27 now and I still measure my value by the girls that I hook up with. I think it's very difficult for men in that age range to not measure themselves in that way. I think there comes a point where wealth and health become more important, but I think that comes later in life.
Focus on it now, man. Start thinking what your wealth and health will be like when you're 40+. It took me until I was 34 to start seriously stategizing for my future. Three years later it's beginning to take shape fairly well. However, I wish more than anything that I started in my mid 20s at the very latest. Take action my man and good luck!
It's your hormones. The sooner you put yourself first the better. I'm 34 - after 30 everything changed. Wierdly I find that more 20-18 year old woemn are attracted to me now than ever - I genuinely don't really care that much now.
This is stuff that we all kind of just know on some level, just from living in the world for awhile, but before the advent of the general concept of redpill awareness, most of us had to figure it out from experience and introspection and observation. Having it presented to us in a basic, matter-of-fact fashion is something a lot of us (and more in the future with the growing worship and incentivization of single motherhood) don't get at home or through traditional family connections. We (men) don't get much "this is how things are, and you can figure out how to deal with it" at home.
@@Mijn24 People claim to be Christian when they’re really not. That’s the problem. I guess that’s bound to happen when it’s the biggest belief system on the planet. But still it sucks. Things like the crusades happen and people are like “look at what the Christians did !” Except in the Bible it says to love your enemies. And Jesus said those who truly love him will keep the commandments. So by definition, those people aren’t Christian. Claiming to be one doesn’t mean anything.
@@Mijn24 Majority of westerners follow the culture and not religion. Christianity is taught (although less and less as time goes on) but actually followed by few. I think arranged marriages solve some problems but each person should choose for themselves. Love is a choice after all. Following the Bible produces the best foundation for marriage
Some stranger from reddit gifted me the rational male after a girl i loved then dumped me for another guy. i was heartbroken but this book gave me immense strength and great understanding of the real state of affairs. im married to a wonderful woman now. i dont know how bad of a slump i would have seen without this book coming into my life right when i needed it.
Rollo is amazing. I would love to read his books. Really pushed some perception changes in me with all the insight he has sculpted together to reveal many mind blowing truths. Thanks for this great interview!
@@KD400_ My take on the whole is that narcissists are flooding the land and everyone is surprised. Narcissists tend to objectify people. Mental illness grows on insecurity. Some people find objectifying people a way of coping with this inferiority complex. This objectifying mentality makes people easy to handle mentally, basically like a crutch. However, we need to be more humble but most don't even know what that means anymore. Accepting and loving yourself despite imperfections/flaws/mistakes etc is the right path.
“Stop making women the metric by which you measure yourself” Someone pin, frame, build a statue, anything of this. It is quite powerful, but my brain is so short circuited against it that it’s incredibly hard to remember the phrase minutes later. Have to go back to the video section.
Rollo deserves more publicity,this guy has written the Rational Male ,and its absolutely one of the best books out there for men.Some might sees his theories as a negative view on life and women,at least that what I thought.But honestly its very realistic book,also he is good dude.
Very important information that is crucial part of being a strong man that has self awareness and can fully protect himself from some of women's suttle, but very destructive manipulation techniques typically used against men.
I got red pilled hard towards the end of the year because of a break up following a LTR. This couldn’t come at a better time. Keep these up Andrew ! Long time supporter here
Amazing interview! Very enlightening to learn precisely what the red pill is and isn't from the legend himself. Every young man should listen to this interview for their well-being and future success. Unfortunately, blue-pill conditioning is still so pervasive in our culture.
Wow, this intervju was awsome. Just want to say that Rollos work has saved manny people’s life’s, specially men who has problems in romantic relationship and problems after divorce. All men out there, you have to read his books, they will save you for lot of pain in life.
@@handsome_man69 you need to read it so that you stop hating yourself. feminism corrupted your mind, this book might help you get clean of that corruption. truth hurts! YOU'RE WELCOME
51:00 honestly I was so triggered when I found out that they want James Bond to be a girl. I heard they were going to have a black dude as James Bond... okay, no problem. Completely fine. But now they want to put a black GIRL as James Bond? C'mon bros what in the fuck. It's a male character. Cast a male as Wonder Woman if you're going to do this. What's the point of taking a character who's a guy and making him a girl? Makes no fucking sensee. Is she going to be crushing girls like James Bond?
This dude the biggest hypocrite in the game. How TF are you going to be against marriage, one-itus, soul mates when you yourself have been married to the same women, who isn't even a dime, for 25 years? Dude is the Cam of American History X of the manosphere. Rollo is not even his real name. He literally has an old twitter account with his real name.
@@Black-Circle i found the book enlightening as to the nature of male female sexual market value, and the drivers behind women's sexual choices. I'm not telling anyone to worship rollo and I never even mentioned donovan. But rollo's books are good intro to understanding male/female dynamics. I agree things are different with social media, however the fundamentals still apply.
@@Black-Circle lol Rollos book never tells anyone to lie to a woman or put on a mask. Maybe you need to read the book again. If things are as helpless as you say, why are you even here talking about it? 😂
I like his red pill ideas. But disagree with his dismissal of Carl Jung. We can't explain everything away with Darwinism and ignore the power of Archetypes and Storytelling in the human psyche.
@@TrustInTheUniverse Would recommend you check out a channel called Einzelganger. He has a lot of videos explaining Jung archetypes and how it fits into various modern situations. One video on how the Joker is a Jung archetype, real cool stuff
This was a great episode. The kind of conversation that we need to be having more and more with the way things are currently headed. Everything in society seems to evolve so fast in this day and age, without us all stopping to talk enough about whether we're headed in the right or wrong direction and what the consequences may be. Too much focus on the narrative instead of the girtty details.
Incorrect - Rsd came before this guy - the book The Game came out in 2005ish and RSD was just starting then as mentioned in that book. Blueprint Decoded, one of rsdtylers first big products, came out in 2008 and rational male dropped in 2013.
@@calmsimon What the above guys said, Rollo was a big presence on the SoSuave and other online forums long before RSD was even a thing, there's a reason why he's considered The Godfather of the "manosphere" and credited with pioneering red pill philosophy.
DystopiaX they all came from the same place... Rollo was inspired by and contributed to the forums same as everyone else from that Era. It's more that they were spawned from the same cloth than it is that the RSD / modern pickup was inspired by this one guy.
Got unplugged from his book the rational male. Definitely a trip but over time I start to accept the truth more and more and stop resisting it. Life changing information for sure!
'It's time we move past Carl Jung'. - Mr. Tomassi. Would love to see a conversation between Mr. Tomassi and Mr. Peterson. I reckon that will be an interesting conversation.
Great talk! I knew about Rollo Tomassi through MGTOW videos but I agree with Rollo´s view. I enjoy talking with certain women and I want to build my own family. Its not gonna be easy to find the right woman but I have to go for it. I am not MGTOW although I understand and respect their choices. Rollo´s books and blog and the "red pill knowledge" help me make better choices. The one thing that MGTOW helped me was to stop feeling like a loser for not having sex regularly. I am fine by myself and rarely feel lonely now and MGTOW helped in that regard. Now I am in a mental space that I am ready to be in a relationship but it took me some time, and going through the "red pill rage" wich wasnt fun, but I feel a lot better now.
I disagree with most of the stuff he says but hes respectful in putting his points across, so good for him. My only critic...he said nothing to support his opposion to a female president. No argument there, for a big ass opinion
@@nathandavies9861 lack of representation doenst equal inabbility. Margaret Thatcher is an example. When you generalize in an argument as to why the majority of the world population are not fit to rule just based on one criteria you lose your ground. There are really few black leaders, especially in the us for example. Are black people also unfit on leadership roles? Your "argument" is unvalid
I saw your reply to Nathan Davies. I was about to say Thatcher as well. Although people disagreed with her, as a politician she was enormously successful here in the UK and a legendary figurehead still for her political party. Angela Merkel is another very good current example, as Chancellor of Germany. There are alpha females, something which I am not sure Rollo’s theories account for or explain.
So you have Margaret Thatcher as literally the only example over thousands of year's, and that's your trump card to win the argument. Exceptions do not prove the rule. If wowen were wired to be incredible leaders of nations, we'd have thousands of examples to look at. Angela Merkel, do me a favour.
Is he really woke though? I guess he is on the woman question but what about the true being WOKE. Namely the Jewish Question. Noone is truely WOKE until they discover the truth behind WW2 and the Jews. As Adolf himself said after being elected and I quote: "DEUTDCHLAND IST NUN ERWACHT!" = "GERMANY IS NOW WOKE!"
no kidding lol looks pretty bleak. One thing i took away is if you don't have the attributes that he described as being attractive to women, you shouldn't work on them to be attractive to women, because that won't get you anything. You gotta work on yourself and that might at times conflict with those things that are attractive.
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Rollo over here looking like the red pill witcher
More like the red pilled crypt keeper
More like a red pill water hag
hahahahahah
@@Gross_Malone I was just about to say, that mug of his ain't pretty
😂😂😃😃
Moral of the story : Don’t be a simp.
Simp simp
Don't eat shrimps if you have a shrimp allergy.
What’s a simp?
da fuk a guy who does things to please a girl even if he sacrifices his own integrity, example changing schools to be were the girl is
@T. de Goeij True.
I threw away a life changing opportunity because of a girl, I was with for 3.5 years only for her to break up with me and break my heart. Biggest regret of my twenties... Anyone who reads this, don't give up life changing opportunities because of a girl....
Thanks Chris! Always a good reminder.
Thank you
Unless the girl is a life changing opportunity
G_ very bad mindset dude...
@@hanagreg lmao
Tomassi: when guys ask me what makes a guy alpha, I tell them this and said
HEY I'M ANDREW HALES
“Hey”
“yeah...”
That was on purpose
sprocaster No one said it wasn’t
Fraiser Chains true
@@sprocastersprocaster No that's actually the answer.. Andrew Hales the ultimate alpha male :D
"Shakespeare was beta."
Great art comes from a place of insecurity
Where's he say this?
@@7yep4336dfgvvh Same thing.
So was Van Gogh
FoereaperGaming Gay =/= Beta. Bad stereotype.
he looks like a redditor that has 100k karma with 100 gold medals
Omg dead ass
ShakenMike millionaires don’t use Reddit?
he literally is a redditor with 100k karma lol
Reddit, where hermits and mentally unstable people gas each other up.
Like the song lyrics...Good advice that you just can’t take
Hollow Shell smh. Most of his fans aren’t Incels and are guys that want to either sharpen their game, or guys that don’t have a lot of game and want to learn.
One of the good things about the internet is you can gain so much knowledge at a much younger age than you did back in the day. Saves you from making bad decisions
BorgesProduction bro! We are so blessed for being part of this crazy generation! :)
duh
BorgesProduction only nowadays. Not when I was young
Best of luck - Tomassi is the father many men never had.
I’m only 22 and I love this stuff
Damn, I can’t believe you got Rollo on here, that’s awesome!
lnceIIomassi
@@colnohman5255 So what!? To a post-wall woman which dominates him and he only got one single (1) child out of.
Is that _" evolutionarily successful"_ according to himself!?
@@colnohman5255 As close as one can be to an incel while married with -kids- kid at least.
@@colnohman5255 Of course one can be cel AFTER having a kid.
Ognash aka Swires yes because that’s all he wanted. Plus he’s said numerous times he’s been with lots of women.
41 minutes in. This guest is incredibly interesting, clearly highly intelligent, open minded and considerate of multiple perspectives and ideas. He seems very fair and unbiased which I think is fantastic and sets a great example that I think a lot of people could learn from.
He's great.
Look up up his interviews with Andrew and Tristan Tate.
Come on Rollo, even you, your wife could leave you. JHONNY Depp, Brad Pitt, etc. It happens to the best... Red pill will not save you. women are just unpredictable..
@@markkuuss those two guys are only beaultiful and rich but shit as persons
I just wan't to warn you: people like Rollo and ''Red Pill'' people exploit low self-esteem men into believing women all behave the same way, and more often than not portrays them in 'slightly' misogynistic ways.
I used to believe Red Pill ideology, but I actually started hanging out with girls and realized that most women want somebody who is interesting and caring. Just. Like. Guys.
There are also a million reasons why you should put somebody else before yourself. Rollo has a kid and still says things like ''I put my life before anybody else's''.
@@themattissue Enjoy chewing your blue pills for now. Remember that guy in the Matrix that wanted back in?
Guys should not be using pop culture figures as role models. Period. It’s not real and you’ll be let down when your life doesn’t turn out like a movie. Should’ve rejected that question.
8chicagotypewriter8 period
No one should be using pop culture figures as role models. Female or male.
8chicagotypewriter8 good point, pop culture is really the equivalent of a character cult in a communist country. Whoops 😬
It makes me happy to hear someone bringing awareness to the way men can make themselves too vulnerable to their relationships. I've known a good handful of men who decided that pursuing a certain woman in their lives was all that matters. And those stories don't end so well. I think if men supported each other better emotionally, they might not feel the need to place so much reliance on their romantic relationships. But maybe that's just my point of view.
Someone gets it, the best thing a man can do is form strong bortherly bonds with other men. That way we don't end up too needy with our wives or girlfriends.
Men are different to women, they don't necessarily require other people to bounce their emotions off of. Does that make sense?
Dante yeah you’re right why do you think brotherhoods existed
Your point of view is valid
N A I L E D I T !
Red Pill: you accept life for what it really is, not what you want it to be.
@@Rafael40484 I guess you accepted the reality
it took me a long time to realize this but im finally here
So true dude.
thats blackpill
Read Rollo’s book. You cannot unsee this stuff.
Can you elaborate a bit on your statement? I am interested in purchasing this book man....
@@maestro7058 He has three books in the Rational Male series. But you can basically read most of the books as single blog posts on his website, the books are a compilation of the blog posts.
@@fuzzylogiceire Okay bro thanks but like what you mean by you can't unsee that? Some stories of female behavior which are like WTF or something along those lines? I wanted to buy the Rational Male book, I saw on goodreads I think it was only one, so I dunno should I buy it then, but I'd think I want to, I can support the author himself like that too...
@@maestro7058 I didn't make the original comment so I won't speak for what meaning he personally took from the book. Maybe Brandon will reply later. I will say that Hypergamy is one of the things Rollo talks about most. I would watch the presentation he gave
'The Rational Male - Hypergamy: Micro to Macro'. It's on RUclips. There's too much in the books to mention in one single comment but Rollos basic idea behind hypergamy is women perceiving men differently, she'll make rules for the beta and break them for the alpha. A girl who won't have sex with someone she views as long term relationship material for several dates, but then has sex with a guy within 10 minutes because that guy triggers raw desire in her. It's all about womens short term and long term mating strategies. But that video will explain it a lot better. I really like when he talks about not being able to negotiate desire. It's pretty liberating because it reinforces that if a girl is really into you, she won't start being flakey and giving mixed messages. She'll want to make plans with you, no bullshit. The idea that you can't talk someone into having chemistry, it's either there or its not. Of course there are ways to change it by lifting weights, improving status/finances etc. You can improve your odds.
Yeah, I'd imagine the book on goodreads was the red covered one? It's just called the Rational Male, that's the one to get first.
@@maestro7058 once you take the red pill, you never go back. and why would you want to? Watch the first matrix movie its a excellent display of it
Lets go boys!!
Haha, of course your here.
lmao of course
MGTOW? If so, I am definitively going.
Jack Denmo clap them hands baby 👏🙏🙏
Makes sense. This man fawks
One of the most underrated man when it comes to male empowerment. Love you Rollo.
Dimitrije Marković 100 percent 🙌🏻🙌🏻
Male empowerment..... you mean simple male leadership, that males should've been taught by their fathers. I don't completely blame fathers, because some either don't have one, or their fathers grew up in a different time where these conversations weren't required. Nevertheless, this is simple coming of age stuff that's not taught in western culture, as other narratives have taken primary importance. I get your point by calling it male empowerment, but to me it's a weird way of putting it.
lnceIIomassi
@@swires1 ,
Nice troll. Back to 21con with you
Kolega knjiga mora da se prevede na Srpski!!! Promenio mi je zivot i kako komuniciram sa zenom.
I love how inquisitive Rollo is. Many things that he is talking about many people feel, just can't or don't put words to it. But when someone like Rollo details it out you just feel how powerful this is and applicable to your experience. Also I've read many many books, which were written artfully, but then you listen to the author and it's almost like a different person in a conversation. But Rollo has both, analytical part on paper and an ability to articulate his ideas as part of the conversation. Keep up the great work Rollo.
Do a chatting with a very old person (100+)
UP
UP again
and again
Yes!
yes
Discovering Rollo’s blog was the single biggest turned point in my 20s.
What in particular did you find enlightening?
Avozij Basically I was operating under a lot of assumptions and myths about women and relationships that simply aren’t true. Those bad assumptions were resulting in mutual unhappiness and failed relarionships.
@Clarence W It really has. I've had no less than 6 guys over the years tell me I've saved their lives. It's humbling to say the least and really does make it all worth it.
I knew a guy who killed himself at 23, yes 23, because his “high school sweetheart” who he married ended up divorcing him after having twins with him. She went to drop off the kids to his apartment and when she opened the door he was hanging from the living room ceiling fan. It’s obvious he made her his life, and when she left he felt like his life was over. It was really sad hearing about it. If he read Rollo’s book I guarantee he would still be here today.
That's shocking. Rollo has innumerable testimonials from guys who say his book saved their lives.
The foam Farmer sturdy ceiling fan and he wasn’t a very big guy
The soul mate myth is really believable when your around 20. Because the emotions.
guys beware of dream killers who prey on the male sense of honor and nobility.
"Honor means nothing to a corpse"
This. Dudes need to she her endgame for what it is.
BRUH😭
Rollo is slowly changing the way men think about themselves and the dynamics of their female relationship. Fellas, put yourself first. You'll never lose.
@Kill Slug I'd rather not get married then. I don't want to grovel to women. They're not 'special'. They're the same as every other person.
Do I need woman to stay alive? No. What did they give apart from sex? That's the question.
So, no. If you thought that relationship and life should revolves around woman, better change that mindset.
Great chat!
I lived everything Rollo was talking about before I was 23 years old.
There you are Andrew this is the calibre of interview you should be aiming. Kudos. Keep up the good work.
Overall great interview Andrew. watched the whole thing, couldn't take my eyes away because it was interesting. loved how you let him talk, and didn't intrude on his viewpoints. you're a wonderful interviewer. thank you
byRoyalty youre welcome incel😚
Benji Did that make you feel better, or were you just being deliberately obtuse?
@@MrSkate4money Nice projection incel LMAO
Benji huh?
@@MrSkate4money You must have creamed yourself really good after that.
Heard of this guy before, first time listening. I agree with him on pretty much everything.
That roll into the "Hi Im Andrew Hill" was genius. A true alpha move right there. Lol
This is great. Maybe the most informative one from a practical standpoint. these chatting withs seriously just keep getting better.
Please, God, a long life to Rollo Tomassi.
Or not
Is Rollo a world of warcraft character now?
Damn you sounded like red pilled one.
He played WoW for a short time frame... Highly doubt hes in the game though. XD
Or a long time member of the Night's Watch
Love the longer chatting withs
Deven Kohler because people don’t want to let each other talk anymore?
@@rustyhands8179 what
trueee.... we need to understand each others nature, work with it, not against it. would help to go back to a more traditional mindset
This is a great video. Rollo's experience with the "crazy" chick and his awakening is very similar to my own. The woman who twisted my soul was BPD and highly narcissistic. In the course of a few years, I abandoned everything that I wanted for and in my life in order to appease this insatiable woman. While it was the worst personal "storm" I ever endured, it was also the most liberating.
Rollo's work has been revolutionary for men in this current system of things.
Making sacrifices is something that is usually required from both male and female if they intend on a long term committed relationship. But the man should never un-become his true self simply for the sake of the relationship. Even if it all works out, subconsciously she will resent him for not becoming or chasing his true purpose. Money and looks aren't everything. Character and vibration are what creates the draw. KNOW WHO YOU ARE, AND BE IT.
first time seeing Rollo's forehead
I like his quote, "Stop using woman as the metric by which you measure yourself" This is something I struggle with alot from the age of 21-27. I am 27 now and I still measure my value by the girls that I hook up with. I think it's very difficult for men in that age range to not measure themselves in that way. I think there comes a point where wealth and health become more important, but I think that comes later in life.
Focus on it now, man. Start thinking what your wealth and health will be like when you're 40+. It took me until I was 34 to start seriously stategizing for my future. Three years later it's beginning to take shape fairly well. However, I wish more than anything that I started in my mid 20s at the very latest. Take action my man and good luck!
It's your hormones. The sooner you put yourself first the better. I'm 34 - after 30 everything changed. Wierdly I find that more 20-18 year old woemn are attracted to me now than ever - I genuinely don't really care that much now.
What a stupid mindset. You’re intentionally gimping yourself long term that leads you to easier access to girls down the road.
I sort of wonder is that's a 'male' issue though. Do you think women aren't prone to valuing themselves based on the male attention they receive?
Stop hooking up. Be virtuous. Be great.
Can't believe it. The Gospel goes mainstream.
He is a Christian, his gospel is The Gospel
@@IIIXTREME He's not a Christian, at least not that I know of.
This came at the perfect time for me. Thank you.
This is stuff that we all kind of just know on some level, just from living in the world for awhile, but before the advent of the general concept of redpill awareness, most of us had to figure it out from experience and introspection and observation. Having it presented to us in a basic, matter-of-fact fashion is something a lot of us (and more in the future with the growing worship and incentivization of single motherhood) don't get at home or through traditional family connections. We (men) don't get much "this is how things are, and you can figure out how to deal with it" at home.
We swallow the real red pill when we accept our Creator. Accept Jesus
@@Mijn24 People claim to be Christian when they’re really not. That’s the problem. I guess that’s bound to happen when it’s the biggest belief system on the planet. But still it sucks. Things like the crusades happen and people are like “look at what the Christians did !” Except in the Bible it says to love your enemies. And Jesus said those who truly love him will keep the commandments. So by definition, those people aren’t Christian. Claiming to be one doesn’t mean anything.
@@Mijn24 Majority of westerners follow the culture and not religion. Christianity is taught (although less and less as time goes on) but actually followed by few. I think arranged marriages solve some problems but each person should choose for themselves. Love is a choice after all. Following the Bible produces the best foundation for marriage
dude, your a good interviewer Andrew. Thanks for letting the man speak and listening. Top interview.
damn geralt looking ill these days
Same first impression I had hahaha
Hmmm fuck
Who?
Toss a coin to your Witcher....
lmao
Some stranger from reddit gifted me the rational male after a girl i loved then dumped me for another guy. i was heartbroken but this book gave me immense strength and great understanding of the real state of affairs. im married to a wonderful woman now. i dont know how bad of a slump i would have seen without this book coming into my life right when i needed it.
Unplugged at 18. 23 now. Thank you rollo.
Fucking awesome, I never thought I'd see Rollo on here. Instant thumbs up!
Rollo is amazing. I would love to read his books. Really pushed some perception changes in me with all the insight he has sculpted together to reveal many mind blowing truths. Thanks for this great interview!
Your son seems like a pussy, Ghea. Raise him to be an alpha male before it’s too late.
How do u feel 3 years later then lol hes famous now. And he knows Andrew tate too lol
@@KD400_ My take on the whole is that narcissists are flooding the land and everyone is surprised. Narcissists tend to objectify people. Mental illness grows on insecurity. Some people find objectifying people a way of coping with this inferiority complex. This objectifying mentality makes people easy to handle mentally, basically like a crutch. However, we need to be more humble but most don't even know what that means anymore. Accepting and loving yourself despite imperfections/flaws/mistakes etc is the right path.
“Stop making women the metric by which you measure yourself”
Someone pin, frame, build a statue, anything of this.
It is quite powerful, but my brain is so short circuited against it that it’s incredibly hard to remember the phrase minutes later. Have to go back to the video section.
Rollo deserves more publicity,this guy has written the Rational Male ,and its absolutely one of the best books out there for men.Some might sees his theories as a negative view on life and women,at least that what I thought.But honestly its very realistic book,also he is good dude.
He should get on Joe Rogan
Very important information that is crucial part of being a strong man that has self awareness and can fully protect himself from some of women's suttle, but very destructive manipulation techniques typically used against men.
Godfather of the manosphere. Like without even watching the video
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Yup
Lol he just parrots stuff from much wiser Mgtows & lnceIs, that betabuxxed withering weakling.
@@swires1 , you're like a bad penny😆
Changed my life bro
I believe Rolla was speaking truth, thank you for having on a groundbreaking guest and being open-minded to his philosophies.
This was interesting as hell. Glad I clicked.
Sub to him
I got red pilled hard towards the end of the year because of a break up following a LTR. This couldn’t come at a better time. Keep these up Andrew ! Long time supporter here
Pathetic
@@Rensoku611 lol someone's triggered. Are you actually going through comments? Pathetic
@@xxm0abxx5 triggered for writing one word? lmaoo. pathetic is to "red pill" yourself. Learn to deal with your emotions u incel freak.
Ben Brenizer what is LTR
@@everydaybodybuilding2282 incel created terminologies
00:37:50 "Stop making women the metric by which you measure yourself ..". GOLD
💯
Ryan Gosling's character in Drive was pretty cool. Old school masculine, quiet but competent.
Woah Fiji water this is insane
Does this guy know how to party or what?
I've had a BPD girl experience too. Never again bro, never again.
It's absolutely a once in a lifetime thing, I'm happy to be alive. That shit really woke me up.
I had a kid with one fml 🤣🤣
@@AndreasNilsson96 I had that at one point too. Took me about a year after the break-up to recuperate fully.
@@siegfriedo Same here. I thought I never be the same again, but after about a year I recovered.
Rob B RIP
Are you just going to slowly turn into a better version of Joe Rogan? I’m actually in favor.
TheFeralcatz Joe Rogan did Fear Factor.
He should get F Roger Devlin on next, his book Sexual Utopia In Power a decade before Tomassi shows up
Rogan married a single mother & is childless himself. That places him in beta-bux catagory. Not good.
Now I know why Rollo wears a hat all the time
Amazing interview! Very enlightening to learn precisely what the red pill is and isn't from the legend himself. Every young man should listen to this interview for their well-being and future success. Unfortunately, blue-pill conditioning is still so pervasive in our culture.
Rollo the grandfather of masculinity
Wow, this intervju was awsome. Just want to say that Rollos work has saved manny people’s life’s, specially men who has problems in romantic relationship and problems after divorce. All men out there, you have to read his books, they will save you for lot of pain in life.
Was surprised he mentioned Tom Leykis, literally just came from 101 class.
Great advice, thanks Andrew for inviting such a pleasantly intelligent guest.
Yoo rollo tommasi followers here and redpill crew
The MRAs always had valid points but easily get lumped in with the extremists. This guy is very rational and calm
He's really approachable too, had a few calls with him before completely free just cause he wanted to help. Massive respect right there.
Sebastian Kristiansen extremists? Sounds like you need to unfuck your mind. Ask me how
TheYekke TheYekke no
Dante sounds like a really solid person. Good to have found out about him, will definitely give his books a read.
Sebastian Kristiansen As long as you keep using the language of the enemies of Men, you are f-d
Would’ve been so dope if it wasnt cutting out when he was about to get into detail on certain parts ..great talk Rollo is the real deal
? Could be your internet, the video didn’t cut out for me... isn’t rollo we’ll spoken? Love this stuff
Read the rational male if you haven’t
I'm waiting for it to drop in my mailbox.
why? I read his twitter feed, and it was just deranged woman hating BS. What makes me think that book is gonna be anything different?
@@handsome_man69 you need to read it so that you stop hating yourself.
feminism corrupted your mind, this book might help you get clean of that corruption.
truth hurts!
YOU'RE WELCOME
@@handsome_man69 You definitely need to read his book. Twitter is not representative of the content in the book.
How come the audiobook is 14 hours!! Wtf?
300 pages book is more than half a day of reading?
Righ on Andrew great interview my son and I love your content!👌🏼👏🏼
51:00 honestly I was so triggered when I found out that they want James Bond to be a girl. I heard they were going to have a black dude as James Bond... okay, no problem. Completely fine. But now they want to put a black GIRL as James Bond? C'mon bros what in the fuck. It's a male character. Cast a male as Wonder Woman if you're going to do this. What's the point of taking a character who's a guy and making him a girl? Makes no fucking sensee. Is she going to be crushing girls like James Bond?
It's what liberal Hollyweird wants to push.
Next they'll have a transgender Cambodian chick play James Bond, with a lesbian love interest.
Just trying to brain wash more men bro , it’s a fucking joke.
still have a problem with black bond too, why cant blacks have their own characters not hijake white characters.
Wonder Willy
Waaaaat this is crazy. Finally seeing Rollo with his hat off!
ikr!? I was taken back when I saw no hat haha
This dude the biggest hypocrite in the game. How TF are you going to be against marriage, one-itus, soul mates when you yourself have been married to the same women, who isn't even a dime, for 25 years? Dude is the Cam of American History X of the manosphere. Rollo is not even his real name. He literally has an old twitter account with his real name.
@@Mijn24
It's all fact
"Cam of American History X" is such a perfect descriptor of Rollo. Selling something you don't even believe in,
Read his first book. Just do it.
@@Black-Circle have you read the book?
@@Black-Circle i found the book enlightening as to the nature of male female sexual market value, and the drivers behind women's sexual choices. I'm not telling anyone to worship rollo and I never even mentioned donovan. But rollo's books are good intro to understanding male/female dynamics. I agree things are different with social media, however the fundamentals still apply.
@@Black-Circle lol Rollos book never tells anyone to lie to a woman or put on a mask. Maybe you need to read the book again. If things are as helpless as you say, why are you even here talking about it? 😂
@@Black-Circle oh really? Missed that. What book, what page?
@@Black-Circle *WEAK*
I like his red pill ideas. But disagree with his dismissal of Carl Jung. We can't explain everything away with Darwinism and ignore the power of Archetypes and Storytelling in the human psyche.
Tell me more about Jung my friend, im honestly curious
@@TrustInTheUniverse Would recommend you check out a channel called Einzelganger. He has a lot of videos explaining Jung archetypes and how it fits into various modern situations. One video on how the Joker is a Jung archetype, real cool stuff
@@JeffreyMarr awesome ty
Jung was basically the leader of what can be best described as a cult. Archetypes, what a crock.
@@rullangaar haters gone hate
This was a great episode. The kind of conversation that we need to be having more and more with the way things are currently headed. Everything in society seems to evolve so fast in this day and age, without us all stopping to talk enough about whether we're headed in the right or wrong direction and what the consequences may be. Too much focus on the narrative instead of the girtty details.
Is this before the gym arc?😮
Damn, he mentioned Tom Leykis within the first minute. Tom Leykis was my first introduction to the Red Pill! Big fan!
The same here, but i believe Leykes' focus is too much on getting his peepee wet.
Wow Amazing Rollo! Took 4 pages of notes.. Some really enlightening concepts. Thank you for your contributions man!
Hands down this is rollos best interview
This was extremely entertaining
You only got entertainment out of this whole video?
Never let a woman change your path
Never realized how much this guy inspired RSD
Incorrect - Rsd came before this guy - the book The Game came out in 2005ish and RSD was just starting then as mentioned in that book. Blueprint Decoded, one of rsdtylers first big products, came out in 2008 and rational male dropped in 2013.
Le Chi Rollo was incredibly active on forums in 2002 and the years around that.
@@calmsimon What the above guys said, Rollo was a big presence on the SoSuave and other online forums long before RSD was even a thing, there's a reason why he's considered The Godfather of the "manosphere" and credited with pioneering red pill philosophy.
DystopiaX they all came from the same place... Rollo was inspired by and contributed to the forums same as everyone else from that Era. It's more that they were spawned from the same cloth than it is that the RSD / modern pickup was inspired by this one guy.
HideYaKids HideYaWife why definitely? The head coaches of RSD were on the forums too at that time - maybe they inspired Rollo?
Upvoted this before I started watching. You MUST read The Rational Male.
same lol
I can't help anyone until I can help myself, definitely agree with that.
Got unplugged from his book the rational male. Definitely a trip but over time I start to accept the truth more and more and stop resisting it. Life changing information for sure!
He doesn’t look like a Scottish police chief from the 50s
It's true he doesn't!
Crazy he started with Tom leykis... I did too lol
The godfather! 🤜🤛👏🙏🙌 Savior of men's lives!
hes a f......ng mysognist.
@@handsome_man69 he actually isn't and you should know if you listened carefully to the interview or you read his books
@@pckroezen i just had a quick scan of his twitter page. And he just seems to be raging against powerful women the whole time.
lnceIIomassi
the guy gives incels the excuse to hate women more than they hate them themselves.
Damn, when did you swallow the red pill. Good to know
Don’t chase women, boys. Chase greatness. 😉
Great interview, Rollo is the man.
rollo is a goddamn king. glad the hair's back. rock on, bro.
'It's time we move past Carl Jung'. - Mr. Tomassi.
Would love to see a conversation between Mr. Tomassi and Mr. Peterson. I reckon that will be an interesting conversation.
Still Waiting
Great talk! I knew about Rollo Tomassi through MGTOW videos but I agree with Rollo´s view. I enjoy talking with certain women and I want to build my own family. Its not gonna be easy to find the right woman but I have to go for it. I am not MGTOW although I understand and respect their choices. Rollo´s books and blog and the "red pill knowledge" help me make better choices. The one thing that MGTOW helped me was to stop feeling like a loser for not having sex regularly. I am fine by myself and rarely feel lonely now and MGTOW helped in that regard. Now I am in a mental space that I am ready to be in a relationship but it took me some time, and going through the "red pill rage" wich wasnt fun, but I feel a lot better now.
His books cut right to the bone, recommended
He speaks wisdom. We cant built our identity around woman you end up losing SELF!
Shit, did you needed a youtube freak to find that out?
@@Rensoku611 yeah some people need it because of culture propaganda dumb biatch
That’s anyone. If anything women build their identity around men more often.
I disagree with most of the stuff he says but hes respectful in putting his points across, so good for him. My only critic...he said nothing to support his opposion to a female president. No argument there, for a big ass opinion
Actually I agree with you. I was waiting for his justification as to why women make poor political leaders but never heard it.
Yes because there are numerous successful female leaders in history for you to base you dumbfoundment on.
@@nathandavies9861 lack of representation doenst equal inabbility. Margaret Thatcher is an example. When you generalize in an argument as to why the majority of the world population are not fit to rule just based on one criteria you lose your ground. There are really few black leaders, especially in the us for example. Are black people also unfit on leadership roles? Your "argument" is unvalid
I saw your reply to Nathan Davies. I was about to say Thatcher as well. Although people disagreed with her, as a politician she was enormously successful here in the UK and a legendary figurehead still for her political party. Angela Merkel is another very good current example, as Chancellor of Germany. There are alpha females, something which I am not sure Rollo’s theories account for or explain.
So you have Margaret Thatcher as literally the only example over thousands of year's, and that's your trump card to win the argument. Exceptions do not prove the rule. If wowen were wired to be incredible leaders of nations, we'd have thousands of examples to look at.
Angela Merkel, do me a favour.
YOOOOOOOO THE WOKE KING HIMSELF
Is he really woke though? I guess he is on the woman question but what about the true being WOKE. Namely the Jewish Question.
Noone is truely WOKE until they discover the truth behind WW2 and the Jews.
As Adolf himself said after being elected and I quote:
"DEUTDCHLAND IST NUN ERWACHT!"
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"GERMANY IS NOW WOKE!"
@@siegpasta whTs the matter with u weirdo
@@fresh_vertices Whats the matter with you?!????
@@siegpasta no whats the matter wht you
@@fresh_vertices I am the matter
He should always keep his hair out, looks like a wise samurai prophet...
Good to see Rollo spreading the knowledge
Made me depressed at knowing my odds
no kidding lol looks pretty bleak. One thing i took away is if you don't have the attributes that he described as being attractive to women, you shouldn't work on them to be attractive to women, because that won't get you anything. You gotta work on yourself and that might at times conflict with those things that are attractive.
Insane Zombieman Truth 👍🏻
One word:Geomaxxing
Men are made. Women are born. Your greatest power is you can improve yourself, body, looks, style. Etc
James Eric that’s right bruh