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Комментарии • 25 тыс.

  • @foxyandlucy6392
    @foxyandlucy6392 3 года назад +7597

    Rambo 8:12

  • @phaztheaussiebastard
    @phaztheaussiebastard 2 года назад +7971

    Him giving away his possessions is a MASSIVE red flag.

    • @whosdaysie
      @whosdaysie 2 года назад +850

      that’s like THE suicide sign

    • @TheLilbigBlack
      @TheLilbigBlack 2 года назад +353

      Did a law enforcement training course where we had to go over suicide and that is LITERALLY the number one sign and where you need to start asking hard questions and preparing to get proper authorities involved.

    • @brentfarvors192
      @brentfarvors192 2 года назад +69

      Of WHAT though...? What could a 19 year old college kid get himself into that was THAT depressing? Only thing I can think of would be sexual abuse...

    • @1Scital1
      @1Scital1 2 года назад +247

      See alot of comments, nobody focused on this glaring red flag. The kid was planning to off himself from the beginning.

    • @brentfarvors192
      @brentfarvors192 2 года назад +25

      @@1Scital1 What would we all do without you, captain obvious...? No one mentioned it because it was obvious...When you can explain WHY he was suicidal, get back to us...?

  • @danvitty5442
    @danvitty5442 3 года назад +21353

    PSA to parents: if your kids friends call and say they're concerned about them absolutely DO NOT brush it off because it takes a lot for someone's buddies to do that.

    • @ledpinkdefsabbathwhokinksd9733
      @ledpinkdefsabbathwhokinksd9733 3 года назад +803

      "my kid wouldnt do that" "my kid isnt suicidal your wrong" like how fucking ignorant these people are

    • @razorman9178
      @razorman9178 3 года назад +849

      So true Dan so true I aint calling a buddies parents unless i think there life could be on the line

    • @Hydrated.And.Caffeinated
      @Hydrated.And.Caffeinated 3 года назад +213

      @@ledpinkdefsabbathwhokinksd9733 it’s pretty easy to say that from the outside looking in. They’re probably incredibly confused and hurt. No need to lash out my dude

    • @onlyalisaawilliams
      @onlyalisaawilliams 3 года назад +361

      Exactly, when I was that age, the only way I’d call my friend’s parent’s it has to be extremely bad, or I’m terrified of what might happen.

    • @sherrimiller5258
      @sherrimiller5258 3 года назад +695

      I would give anything if my son’s friends had called beforehand. Our only son hung himself in August of 2019. Friends came out of the woodwork afterward telling us they thought about calling, that they were worried about him. Please, if you ever suspect a friend is in trouble, give the family an opportunity to intervene. His six sisters and his father and I are devastated. I never get to hug my baby boy again. We couldn’t even see him because he wasn’t found for a day and a half in the Arizona heat. If anyone is considering taking their life, I beg you to get help. You don’t realize what it will do to those you love. I feel like I’m the walking dead.

  • @brodywood6274
    @brodywood6274 8 месяцев назад +942

    The beginning of this story, and how he was giving his stuff to his friends/breaking up with his girlfriend are all massive signs of suicide. My heart goes out to him.

    • @Foxlink87
      @Foxlink87 6 месяцев назад +28

      As someone's who's been on the verge before... Can confirm. I highly doubt it's anything but, unfortunately.

    • @juliusseizure5705
      @juliusseizure5705 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@Foxlink87 I think everyone has been on the verge at some point in their life.

    • @onedaynoreason2572
      @onedaynoreason2572 5 месяцев назад +10

      ​@@juliusseizure5705 not true lol

    • @Taylor-fe5vf
      @Taylor-fe5vf 5 месяцев назад +12

      as soon as he was giving away his things i knew it.

    • @colletteprops8708
      @colletteprops8708 4 месяца назад +1

      Yeah but the hesitation and signs that he survived the crash make me think he ran tf away from his crazy a§ Karen B mom.
      He could even get away from her by being nowhere. I think he crashed iff willing to die but ran when he survived.
      Hope I meet him. That guy deserves a feel blunt and a free hug.❤

  • @Wizzz2288
    @Wizzz2288 Год назад +1185

    The Mechanic deserves an Award for being such an empathic, caring, upstanding citizen. He didn't know Bryce or his family & he went above & beyond to help the family

    • @NickolasLannes
      @NickolasLannes 8 месяцев назад +19

      I think he looked in the eyes of Bryce and realized something was wrong... Too bad a lot of people are facing some issues with mental health problems and we can't realize it until it is too late...

    • @Wizzz2288
      @Wizzz2288 8 месяцев назад

      @@NickolasLannes 🎯

    • @atlasfeynman1039
      @atlasfeynman1039 8 месяцев назад +6

      I think the mechanic did it... for that sweet Toyota Highlander.

    • @Wizzz2288
      @Wizzz2288 8 месяцев назад

      @@atlasfeynman1039 Maybe!

    • @seekeroftruth69
      @seekeroftruth69 3 месяца назад +2

      He cared more about Bryce than his parents did.

  • @everydaychris5597
    @everydaychris5597 2 года назад +24113

    Holy crap, can we give props to this selfless mechanic, Christian, who really went out of his way for a complete stranger. You’re a good man.

    • @utkarshrana9122
      @utkarshrana9122 2 года назад +168

      True

    • @LAUZERTV
      @LAUZERTV 2 года назад +211

      Yeah sounds like a good dude

    • @commentbot9510
      @commentbot9510 2 года назад +356

      Not saying that he didn’t do enough, he did way more than expected, but if he followed him the whole way then he may have made it home.

    • @doctorfeelfunny584
      @doctorfeelfunny584 2 года назад +40

      Unless he caused the death by unsafely and unsolicited following a depressed stranger who clearly wanted to be left alone. In which case, fuck that guy.

    • @lordvader5058
      @lordvader5058 2 года назад +19

      Yes

  • @Emily-px9pg
    @Emily-px9pg Год назад +3655

    I’m just astonished that their kid was only three hours away and they didn’t just go pick him up. If they’re told that he’s just been sitting there, it’s obvious that he is not doing well (as his friends said). It’s frustrating to hear that he sat there for a whole day and they didn’t just go to him.

    • @parsabutt6540
      @parsabutt6540 Год назад +197

      Exactly

    • @souravde2029
      @souravde2029 Год назад +352

      exactly what I was thinking.
      Even when Christian was trailing him why didn't they just come the rest of the way?

    • @whatsyoursign3910
      @whatsyoursign3910 Год назад +282

      It's really sad. I get the sense that they were very much in denial about whatever was going on with their son.

    • @Channel.967
      @Channel.967 Год назад +42

      I was thinking the same

    • @PaganSkye
      @PaganSkye Год назад +117

      I was thinking the same thing I would have drove as long as it took to find my child

  • @lesliebblack
    @lesliebblack Год назад +303

    As a mother of two young men, I can say without a doubt that once I got the call from the girlfriend, I would’ve hopped in my car & taken off & not mentioned it. There were so many red flags. They had so many opportunities to change their minds & just get in their car. How tragic. Not saying this is the parent’s fault. Just saying I think they made some bad choices when they must’ve realized something was really wrong.

    • @CaptainRockoBD
      @CaptainRockoBD 8 месяцев назад +21

      Literally he was there for over 10 hours smh. By the time they got there he would’ve still been chilling there, it’s dissapointing as fck

    • @juliemanarin4127
      @juliemanarin4127 8 месяцев назад +3

      I would have too!

    • @user-cg7th2ix7g
      @user-cg7th2ix7g 6 месяцев назад

      ❤nice

  • @Bojack727
    @Bojack727 Год назад +320

    I can't believe the INSANE levels denial by his parents! This was SOOO preventable. I mean, just how many one-in-a-million chances did they get to intervene?! It's like the UNIVERSE was trying to prevent this, and they just shrugged and rationalized every time!

    • @Mint-kj9kw
      @Mint-kj9kw 6 месяцев назад +7

      Don't be. I have parents like this.

    • @lithiumpines6547
      @lithiumpines6547 5 месяцев назад +20

      My parents are also like this. I was in an abusive marriage and begged them to come get me after she started breaking my bones. They never came. I tried ending my life to escape the situation.I was also only 3 hours away. Some parents really don't care. I escaped the situation myself and I'm no contact with my family now.

    • @kalynhunter5933
      @kalynhunter5933 4 месяца назад +11

      exactly what i was saying,, his parents seemed to care but they really didn’t care which is so strange cus why call and call?? like truly if the mom care after that second time she hear he was jus sitting, she should’ve got up and went to him herself, and she would’ve reached him in like an hour an a half and picked up her son so he’s IN HER EYE SIGHT, and find out what’s wrong and get him the help he needed. She’d probably be with her son today.❤️

    • @fairyprincess911
      @fairyprincess911 3 месяца назад +2

      Preventable that time, possibly.

    • @RainbowKaraokeJunk-vt9pu
      @RainbowKaraokeJunk-vt9pu Месяц назад +4

      I see where you’re coming from, but please don’t blame the parents. We have no idea why Bryce did what he did or why he had the psychotic break he did. The parents in the moment, thought their son would return home, everything would be fine and he would explain all what was happening to him. In the moment they thought that and I think we shouldn’t judge them. Bryce wasn’t in the right mind. When somebody is thinking rational thoughts they don’t think straight who knows maybe nothing would have happened if they went to pick him up or maybe he would’ve went back home, left and went missing that way. I think we have to have empathy and understand that Bryce’s parents tried as hard as they could to get their son home.

  • @bethanyhunt2704
    @bethanyhunt2704 2 года назад +2141

    The third time he's lied to them about coming home, you'd think they'd go and fetch him, no?

    • @mrs.takiya5652
      @mrs.takiya5652 2 года назад +87

      Right...what were they waiting for ...damnnnn🤬

    • @bravenewworld5824
      @bravenewworld5824 2 года назад +56

      They don't even look like his bio parents. I have so many questions

    • @Tyler-ts2ld
      @Tyler-ts2ld 2 года назад +13

      They could try, but can’t do a whole lot. He’s over 18.

    • @omfug8593
      @omfug8593 2 года назад +18

      @@bravenewworld5824
      He was a red headed step child 😀

    • @williambutler5091
      @williambutler5091 2 года назад +2

      @@omfug8593 Ahhh. That answers everything to me. Thanx.

  • @PatrickPierceBateman
    @PatrickPierceBateman 3 года назад +7147

    His parents should have gone and picked him up. When somebody is acting strangely, you shouldn't trust them to drive themselves anywhere. Especially not on a 3-hour trip.

    • @SilenceBeat1
      @SilenceBeat1 3 года назад +380

      At least started trying to meet him half way knowing that something was wrong!!!!

    • @SilenceBeat1
      @SilenceBeat1 3 года назад +178

      But sometime we don’t think about these things when the situation right in front of us!

    • @austinmasson2370
      @austinmasson2370 3 года назад +60

      Bateman, you would know all about people acting strangely, wouldn't you?

    • @cheryleneseckold8638
      @cheryleneseckold8638 3 года назад +210

      I agree, there is no way my parents would have sat at home and slept. They're in their 80's & no way would they ignore a stress call. They would have been on the road at any of these calls, the fact his parents didn't even attempt to drive out and meet him is strange. I wonder what was the reason he gave to the girlfriend for breaking up with her. I think something happened while he was on holiday with his parents, not when he can back to his dorm. I think maybe he was one of those people that just decided, "you know what I want a different life", it happens

    • @Scottiejae
      @Scottiejae 3 года назад +14

      Right!!!!!!

  • @generichuman2044
    @generichuman2044 11 месяцев назад +138

    As soon as I heard about him giving away valuables, my heart sank. A lot of people do that before attempting. Some write wills, some blow their money and others gift their most valuable items to friends and family. It's a sign that should not be ignored. Especially if the person doesn't seem their usual self

    • @alyssam1394
      @alyssam1394 9 месяцев назад +1

      That’s what I was thinking that was the first sign of suicide to me

    • @willischwabe1324
      @willischwabe1324 8 месяцев назад +3

      Plus his high ability to fake normalcy so nobody would interfere or try to talk him out of it. That shows some massive determination to the attempt and to follow through with it, when someone tries to prevent even the possibility of getting saved.

    • @avalon4693
      @avalon4693 8 месяцев назад +1

      That was my first thought to. If he didn’t commit suicide he was almost certainly considering it before he left his place to head to his parents.

  • @marcusbrown7817
    @marcusbrown7817 Год назад +7

    That mechanic is a real good dude.. wish he was my neighbor

  • @nanda105
    @nanda105 2 года назад +2105

    when he gave his earrings and xbox to his friend, him being suicidal was the first thing I thought. If someone starts giving you their precious things out of nowhere, pay attention to them. Usually this behavior is an apology, a parting gift.

    • @kittyscreativecorner
      @kittyscreativecorner Год назад +96

      Exactly what I thought as well. It takes the place of a will and acts as a sort of goodbye and giving your loved ones something to remember you by. Suicidal people usually realize their death will have a negative emotional impact on their loved ones, and giving away things that are precious to them is also a way of giving them some form of comfort of their love even after they’re gone.

    • @talktalk2412
      @talktalk2412 Год назад +24

      i thought he was going to kill everyone and then himself

    • @Chewbecca101
      @Chewbecca101 Год назад +14

      Or he is about to get caught for something.

    • @chloewright1
      @chloewright1 Год назад +49

      I'd be surprised if anyone DIDN'T think that! It's not normal behaviour to start giving away your most precious possessions, is it?

    • @izzyquagmire1119
      @izzyquagmire1119 Год назад +11

      that’s what i thought.

  • @juliuspronk7532
    @juliuspronk7532 3 года назад +3998

    Christian is a really wonderful person. I hope he doesn’t blame himself for not following him all the way home. He did so much to make sure he was safe

    • @BabeBee.
      @BabeBee. 3 года назад +168

      I was just going to write the same thing. What a stand up guy for doing that for the family. I hope he's found safe.

    • @juliuspronk7532
      @juliuspronk7532 3 года назад +96

      @@BabeBee. I found myself saying “oh my god what a sweet dude” every time John talked about him. Yeah I hope so too, sounds like he was going through a lot.

    • @twizz420
      @twizz420 3 года назад +95

      He did more than the fuckin useless parents

    • @misha5670
      @misha5670 3 года назад +88

      Definitely, and notice how the police did their job in a professional & caring way here too (how it should be all the time). Everyone tried, even his roomate & x-gf. Just sometimes you can't help those who won't help themselves. Obviously the kid was loved and respected too.

    • @christymarie6291
      @christymarie6291 3 года назад +42

      Thank you Christian for all you did to help this man who for some reason just didn't want to go home. God bless you and your kindness.

  • @alexofalexyel
    @alexofalexyel Год назад +15

    Excitement and momentary happiness is NOT the same thing as not being suicidal...

    • @JeremiahEcks777
      @JeremiahEcks777 20 дней назад

      It can be if you're cyclothamically bipolar. This story, the guy sounds very much like that, especially with the switching mood, not realising anything is wrong, and even gifting things, followed by a suicide attempt. Even being spaced fits the picture.
      The parents were negligent as soon as the stuff with the mechanic happened. I can understand them giving the kid the benefit of the doubt, even with the friends' story, but as soon as he was found by the mechanic, that's the end of the story. They should have had the mechanic stay with him and drove to get him.

  • @mikewalker161
    @mikewalker161 Год назад +73

    It drives me nuts knowing that Bryce's parents didn't jump in their car right away to go to him. They knew where he was. Even after all the forewarning from his girlfriend and room mate. As a parent I would be on my way as soon as they knew he was fine the first time from Christian's report... and they still didn't do anything when they knew he was only a few hours away from reports from the police. His parents really dropped the ball on this one.

    • @LilyZerep
      @LilyZerep 8 месяцев назад +6

      😧 Me too! I kept thinking they were going to say, "We'll come to you, stay there."
      They had so many chances. Even at night, just hop in or if not, when Christian was following Bryce, the parents could have said, "We'll meet you half way."

    • @jonelle2911
      @jonelle2911 8 месяцев назад +5

      I would rather be upset having driven unnecessarily after establishing that nothing is wrong, than sit hours away waiting for my son to come home or for someone to keep me posted. I mean... It just does not make sense to me

    • @Mint-kj9kw
      @Mint-kj9kw 6 месяцев назад +2

      Some parents are "out of it"?? I grew up in a Christian household (no fighting, adultery, drugs, alcohol, etc). I had two stay at home parents. But lemme tell you....most incompetent parents you will ever meet. My parents are insecure, emotionally stunted people.

    • @tinac.7493
      @tinac.7493 27 дней назад

      @Mint-kj9kw .. ​​​​wth? why, bcs your parents kept the goodness in, (which is called having healthy, respectful boundaries in their relationship) - and the bad out? .. I guess some prefer having a lifelong taste of Regret!
      Like my father used to say, " Can't Listen - then I guess you're gonna hafta FEEL .. " (the repercussions of your actions).

  • @guardmommad5084
    @guardmommad5084 3 года назад +4902

    I'd like to thank Christian for being such a wonderful human. He went above and beyond to look out for Bryce. We need more people like that.

    • @tfdidusayho
      @tfdidusayho 3 года назад +16

      Hey my name's Christian

    • @jordanmercier3616
      @jordanmercier3616 3 года назад +65

      What a good guy, honestly, such a rarity nowadays.

    • @nekokittycat4004
      @nekokittycat4004 3 года назад +37

      @@tfdidusayho so behave like a Christian now and be nice to people:-)

    • @tfdidusayho
      @tfdidusayho 3 года назад +17

      @@nekokittycat4004 I am a Christian nd I show kindness until someone doesnt

    • @americanoligarchy8825
      @americanoligarchy8825 3 года назад +20

      Yeah I know if he was my kid I wouldn't bother going myself to help my son. I would just count on a random person to do that for me.

  • @astararrialt2017
    @astararrialt2017 2 года назад +2655

    Him breaking up with his girlfriend, giving away his things, substance abuse, and very erratic behavior are HUGE red flags for suicide

    • @2Bad4YOUuu
      @2Bad4YOUuu 2 года назад +156

      Also, what's up with his parents? Do they not know how to drive? Why didn't they just go get him? When those closest to you don't seem to care, then what do you do? ... Check out -- Alone.

    • @TheProtagonistDies
      @TheProtagonistDies 2 года назад +34

      I agree. Horrible parenting.

    • @dannymonteago9189
      @dannymonteago9189 2 года назад +3

      Really? You learn something new everyday.

    • @danny.55
      @danny.55 2 года назад +9

      @@2Bad4YOUuu I have the same thought. I feel bad if i was his dad.

    • @sneersh9107
      @sneersh9107 2 года назад +68

      @@2Bad4YOUuu Not to mention his dad was the one who convinced his ex girlfriend to give him his keys back, this could've been avoided had he listened to them saying he was acting really odd and drove up to see what was going on with Bryce the next day. Terrible idea to let him drive in such a state and his ex knew it. And then after that instead of just going to pick him up they kept expecting him to drive home when obviously that wasn't going to happen. The parents really messed up here

  • @Jack22024
    @Jack22024 Год назад +79

    The conversation with a friend's parent about something serious is never a good time. Good on Shawn for taking that initiative

  • @mattgehringer8554
    @mattgehringer8554 11 месяцев назад +12

    I would drive 3 hours for an acquaintance I was worried about. Can’t believe the parents couldn’t do it for their son

  • @ChaosDragon-pw7xd
    @ChaosDragon-pw7xd 2 года назад +4769

    Why was Christian willing to drive nearly two hours to make sure he got home and the parents didn't even meet him half way 😭😭

    • @nr6916
      @nr6916 2 года назад +651

      Exactly! That total stranger was more invested in this boy’s life and safety than his parents were

    • @JLeach8782
      @JLeach8782 2 года назад +82

      That part!

    • @heroofhyrule9778
      @heroofhyrule9778 2 года назад +91

      you dont know shit about them or bryce so stfu, maybe they were trying to respect his space - sometimes thats what people need, its impossible to know

    • @bjjjb3056
      @bjjjb3056 2 года назад +76

      I've binged as many of these Bryce videos and I can and the parents are off, I hope I'm wrong.

    • @a-a-ron6822
      @a-a-ron6822 2 года назад +76

      Hindsight is 20/20.. I can guarantee this though, you trying to blame his parents in part for this is a disgusting and ugly thing to do.. You should be ashamed of yourself

  • @Luke24160
    @Luke24160 2 года назад +1875

    That Christian guy is a living legend. Truly a genuine guy that went out of his way to help a complete stranger.

    • @taraharvey8123
      @taraharvey8123 2 года назад +18

      AMEN!!
      I thought for sure, for a minute, he WAS going to follow him all the way home!

    • @thedoctorroth
      @thedoctorroth 2 года назад +9

      Or did he?!?

    • @hamedhosseini4938
      @hamedhosseini4938 2 года назад +9

      @@thedoctorroth lol calm down Sherlock

    • @jparody2025
      @jparody2025 2 года назад +45

      He did more to make sure he got home than his own parents!! So frustrating. Only 3 hours? I'd have drove out there to drag his ass back home myself.

    • @wolfpecker5710
      @wolfpecker5710 2 года назад +11

      @@jparody2025 yeah that was what I was thinking too. I would have told the police to take him to the station and that I’d be right out to get him!

  • @ericcoleson3867
    @ericcoleson3867 11 месяцев назад +33

    Major love for the stranger who show more love to him than his own parents ❤️

  • @MothraMissWorld
    @MothraMissWorld Год назад +13

    The mechanic though oh my GOD, the effort he put in to helping this family, whAt a kind hearted soul!!!!! Bless him!!!!

  • @crimsonbinome3710
    @crimsonbinome3710 2 года назад +1859

    So strange. That guy Christian is a gem, the world could do with more like him.

    • @esposexy2210
      @esposexy2210 2 года назад +20

      Bryce was gay and couldn't tell his parents and gf.

    • @KuroUsagi1010
      @KuroUsagi1010 2 года назад +16

      @Sports Enthusiast really? stupid

    • @divyaa4459
      @divyaa4459 2 года назад +23

      @Sports Enthusiast Nah, he was acting strange before he even met Cristian

    • @eucliduschaumeau8813
      @eucliduschaumeau8813 2 года назад +2

      @@esposexy2210 Thought the same thing.

    • @eucliduschaumeau8813
      @eucliduschaumeau8813 2 года назад +9

      He became emotionally invested at that point and his curiosity took over. I might have done the same.

  • @ImGazu
    @ImGazu 2 года назад +1781

    As soon as Bryce started giving his prized possessions away to his friend and severed ties with his girlfriend it was obvious this dude was planning on offing himself

    • @thegreenmanofnorwich
      @thegreenmanofnorwich 2 года назад +37

      I think my response if someone tried that would be to ask if they were dying. It mightn't occur to me that they might be offing themselves, but I'd certainly be worried for their welfare.

    • @Dalroc
      @Dalroc 2 года назад +86

      Police has conclcuded that he's alive and voluntarily missing. Apparently his parents were grade A douchebags. Who could've guessed that parents who can't be arsed to drive a couple hours to help their distressed son would turn out to be shitty parents.

    • @fr33fall06
      @fr33fall06 2 года назад +93

      @@Dalroc I was gunna say after Christian called and told them he was at the hotel parking lot, if it were my son I’d ask Christian to stay with my boy I’ll be there in an hour and a half.

    • @annalucy89
      @annalucy89 2 года назад +19

      @@Dalroc And where did you hear that? do you have a link to that story?

    • @85Studios
      @85Studios 2 года назад +7

      Yeah that's one of the warning signs.

  • @charleneblack2792
    @charleneblack2792 9 месяцев назад +12

    I always thought it a bad thing that my mother was so pushy, but feel it's a godsend after hearing this. If she told me she's flying out, and I told her not to, she'd say, "I don't care if you want me there or not. Something isn't right. You stay right there until I get there."
    Don't be upset with your overly pushy parents. It could potentially save you someday.

  • @margaretadami6358
    @margaretadami6358 10 месяцев назад +18

    I lost my son to drug addiction 2 yrs ago 😢, but at least I knew what happened. I cannot imagine losing a child this way, with no closure. I hope his parents have found some kind of peace thru this 🙏🙏

  • @PlayThemes
    @PlayThemes 3 года назад +1528

    Hats of to Christian. He sounds like such a caring individual that I be he'll carry a burden of guilt with him, probably for the rest of his life.

    • @pluto-brawlstars3435
      @pluto-brawlstars3435 3 года назад +18

      Yes

    • @troydorr3453
      @troydorr3453 3 года назад +30

      I agree bro, he's a stand up guy!

    • @primesspct2
      @primesspct2 3 года назад +52

      A genuine caring person, sort of unbelievable how hard he tried. His parents raised a good son.

    • @mattthambirajahpt286
      @mattthambirajahpt286 3 года назад +20

      He is a champ

    • @jen9214
      @jen9214 3 года назад +47

      I’m not sure why the parents didn’t meet Chris and Brice half way...so sad

  • @jr388
    @jr388 3 года назад +1742

    As soon as my child starts giving away his loved possessions, I'm on my way.

    • @smoga_wolfjamrl9882
      @smoga_wolfjamrl9882 3 года назад +3

      He’s a monk Iv see a video on a video on RUclips

    • @SisuGirl
      @SisuGirl 3 года назад +54

      Most definitely. It’s one of the 1st things people who plan on committing suicide do. Very tragic story & I can’t imagine the pain of not knowing. It does seem as though he hitched a ride with a Trucker to “escape” from something...his demons or some bad people. How terribly sad for the parents & friends who obviously loved him so much. 💔

    • @melanielanphier
      @melanielanphier 3 года назад +13

      Immediately

    • @smoga_wolfjamrl9882
      @smoga_wolfjamrl9882 3 года назад +18

      @@SisuGirl I swear on my kids life’s Iv seen him on a video on RUclips 6 months ago... he’s a monk in Tibet .. I’m trying to find the video now.. I never forget his face coz he was telling his story.. Iv been searching for the video for the last hour... I can’t F?)king find it. Some one needs to tell his parents he’s still alive

    • @ejune0381
      @ejune0381 3 года назад

      1000% same

  • @aKrazyGuyUKno
    @aKrazyGuyUKno 11 месяцев назад +57

    Not my words, but I saw this on an unresolved mysteries subreddit:
    "Something of an insider here...
    I can say with certainty that there were issues between Bryce and his family. While Bryce's mother, Karen, is an unrepentant psycho, I am told that Bryce had a tight, borderline codependent relationship with her in the years leading up to his disappearance, but not much is known about their relationship in the final year or so. His relationship with his father, Mike, was at times very tumultuous as Mike would lose his temper, yell, and scream at Bryce over things as trivial as not understanding how to complete his math homework. I don't know if the relationship was ever physically violent, but there was most definitely a lot of verbal/emotional abuse going on in that household, and not just with Bryce.
    The latter part of Bryce's teen years were marred by a few incidents, such as getting busted with MDMA, as well as a lot of underage drinking issues that have gone largely unreported, all of which served to soil his familial ties. As I understand, Bryce was well on his way to becoming a teen-aged alcoholic. He was apparently known for taking booze to high school and spending some school days maintaining a desired level of intoxication. It's very safe to assume that this behavior continued to spiral out (evidenced by his taste for Adderall and other scripts), and he suffered a psychotic break from it (evidenced by his friends calling his mother with their concerns). It must have been some pretty disturbing behavior in order for kids, who all used drugs recreationally, to contact their friend's parents with concerns about his mental state.
    When Bryce left home to attend community college, he did not do so by his own motivation. Karen and Mike shopped around for what school he would attend, gave him no decision in the matter, and shipped him out when the school year began. The decision was in part based on the availability of dormitories as they wanted Bryce out of the home as soon as possible, which seems in keeping of what I know to be true of their style of parenting. They sent him to Sierra College, in Rocklin, CA, which is a 460 mile drive from his parents' home in Laguna Niguel.
    Mike and Karen were both very controlling parents, the type that foster harsh, rebellious behavior from their kids. They sought to control every aspect of his life and used their money to do so. Bryce owned literally nothing of his own and was frequently reminded of it when he stepped out of line. To me, his actions were a great big, 'Fuck you,' to his manipulative, controlling, abusive parents. What better way to let them know you're done than by intentionally wrecking their car and leaving behind all the accoutrements they paid for with their money, and leveraged as a means of control? The time he spent in that small rural town was most likely waiting on someone to give him a ride. I believe the big story he wanted to tell his family was that he would be dropping out of school and moving elsewhere. I believe he wanted to say it to their faces but chickened out and decided that he was just going to move on. I believe his family knows this and have used the media, his friends, and so on, to wage a pressure campaign against him. I believe the police have encountered him at some point and have respected a request for silence, thus leading them to their conclusion that he is voluntarily missing.
    Karen is a duplicitous snake and has pushed several falsehoods throughout this ordeal, most especially the, 'Bryce was a good boy, this was totally unexpected,' narrative, when it was clear he was starting to spiral out. They never once mention that he was basically driven from the home due to his behavior. Mike isn't duplicitous, so to speak, just thick as a brick, emotionally stunted, authoritarian, and a bit spineless when it came to being an advocate for his kids.
    Bryce's parents regularly looked through his phone records, to see who he was associating with via calls and texts. They also somehow have control of his Facebook and email accounts, though we all know how easy it is to set up alternates. No doubt he needed a burner phone to communicate with whomever came to retrieve him. They have been trying so hard to keep the heat up on him that it's no wonder we've not seen hide nor hair of him since his disappearance.
    I believe that when the Laspisas moved from Chicago to Southern California, they were mainly just looking for warmer weather and a place to retire. No doubt Bryce had a lot of bad influences he left behind, but he was a social kid and well liked by most who knew him, so he didn't have trouble making friends at Sierra. I believe the person who was to meet him wasn't late, per se, but was traveling a long distance and due to changes in Bryce's plan, he had time to kill in Buttonwillow. I believe his plan was to drive to Laguna Niguel, drop off the car and everything his parents were paying for, have 'the talk' with them, then meet with his friend to depart. I suspect they were driving from multiple states away. My guess is that he went to the Pacific Northwest as he has been possibly spotted a few times in Oregon. The drive from Portland to Buttonwillow is about 13 hours, and 15-16 if coming from Seattle. The majority of Oregon sightings place him somewhere around Eugene, which is a big college town.
    I absolutely believe that Karen knows more than she has admitted. She is the type of person who would manufacture a massive lie to protect herself from the smallest embarrassment. Knowing what I know about that woman, I find it quite likely she said something that led Bryce to say, 'Fuck it,' and deviate from his plan. I also think she is the type of person (i.e. a malignant narcissist) who would lie to her own family about what was said as so to shield herself from the embarrassment of her complete failure as a parent and wife. If you watch her various media appearances, there is nothing genuine about her attitude or emotional state. It's all fake and rehearsed. Every photograph of her shows her making an exaggerated, forced grimace indicating emotional pain, but there is nothing genuine about it. She is a vile narcissist whose emotional expressions are sophisticated systems of manipulation, and the main reason for my posting on this matter is to expose her for the fraud that she is. Even some of her closest friends have finally noticed this and some have actively sought to keep her at arm's length, while others have walked away entirely. To my knowledge, everything Mike knows about this situation he heard from Karen, as I don't believe Mike spoke to him much during the entire ordeal.
    It's also very possible Bryce moved back to Chicago. That's a huge city, one which would be easy to disappear in to. His parents occasionally travel to Chicago to meet with friends and family, and they also had a pow-wow with media types there a while back, but they still live in California to this day."

    • @PaulFurn89
      @PaulFurn89 6 месяцев назад +3

      How did this guy know all this?

    • @hockeyboy228
      @hockeyboy228 6 месяцев назад +3

      This sounds very intresting. But why would he drive of a cliff then

    • @obiegbumichael1076
      @obiegbumichael1076 5 месяцев назад +3

      Sounds more made up than true

    • @maxxard7992
      @maxxard7992 5 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@obiegbumichael1076nah. It's true.

    • @kellenhalfsighted3500
      @kellenhalfsighted3500 5 месяцев назад +6

      I had a mother like Karen and a spineless jellyfish of a father like Mike. I'm not ENTIRELY missing. But I also don't want to be found. My birth family has no idea what state I live in and when I moved I assumed a new name. Not legally, so it wouldn't technically be that hard to find me, but I don't want anyone getting nosy and connecting me to my parents. Coworkers, etc, all believe my name is what I say it is, they have no reason not to, obviously.
      I've basically disappeared into thin air. What people need to understand that some families really ARE that bad to do this.
      And my egg donor is a "victim" too. I was always such a HORRIBLE child but "deep down" I have a good heart and she'll always love me. PUH LEASE.
      For my part, if I walked right into Bryce and he introduced himself I'd say hello and keep walking. If he's alive he doesn't want to be found. I hope he's out there living his best life free from abuse.

  • @schleimblut
    @schleimblut 8 месяцев назад +5

    the story started with him giving away his stuff and my heart just absolutely sank.

  • @ashleytucker8508
    @ashleytucker8508 2 года назад +2661

    This is the case I can’t let go. One time, I had an emotional breakdown and tried to drive 4.5 hours to my parents. I got maybe halfway and I couldn’t go on. Called my parents and said I was at a rest stop. Fell asleep in the car and woke up to my daddy knocking on my car window. Yep, middle of the night and he drove all that way go get me. Ever since I heard about this case, I have been so grateful my dad did that. Now that he’s gone, I realize more and more how lucky I was to have him. I could have been like Bryce. It just really gets to me.

    • @nohomoedgelordallenioso5005
      @nohomoedgelordallenioso5005 2 года назад +219

      Yeah i don't understand why his parents didn't do the same. They should have went to him.

    • @robinjandhi6661
      @robinjandhi6661 2 года назад +86

      @@nohomoedgelordallenioso5005 I was literally yelling the same thing at my screen during the parts where his parents urged him to go home. I guess it’s easier to see in hindsight, or from the perspective of someone who has experienced similar psychological trauma, but I kept thinking to myself, for Bryce’s parents to repeatedly urge him to continue driving home, after a multitude of huge red flags, that it was akin to asking an intoxicated Alzheimer’s patient to do the same. It’s a tragedy that no one, including the police officers, were able to pick up on that.

    • @robinjandhi6661
      @robinjandhi6661 2 года назад +53

      Sorry for the loss of your father. He sounds like a genuine man. I’m sure he’s still with you, as he was when you were going through it. Positive vibes for you and your tribe 🙏

    • @ashleytucker8508
      @ashleytucker8508 2 года назад +16

      @@robinjandhi6661 that’s so kind. Thank you!

    • @r2dxhate
      @r2dxhate 2 года назад +17

      @@robinjandhi6661 I was thinking the opposite, that the parents were being extremely annoying and pestering him too much. They were treating him like a child, instead of an adult. Although when I was 18, my parents didn't buy me a car and put me in college and give me a credit card, so he wasn't that independent. I just kept thinking I would have been yelling at my mom to leave me alone, and I would have gotten really creeped out and upset if my parents looked up the gas station I went to had the guy come visit me. It just felt really intrusive to me personally.

  • @wilsonsamuel2469
    @wilsonsamuel2469 2 года назад +3880

    I cannot believe that, despite so many missed opportunities, Brice's parents did not drive 3 hours up to Brice in Buttonwillow from their home!! If I were them, I would have dropped everything and drove to him!

    • @Nan-1017
      @Nan-1017 2 года назад +276

      Exactly! I wondered why they didn’t too, I would have gotten on that highway and driven to him in a NY minute!!

    • @victorveraruiz9216
      @victorveraruiz9216 2 года назад +144

      Yeah! I actually just wrote a comment pointing out the same thing. I am glad to see that someone else noticed that!

    • @kristensmith614
      @kristensmith614 2 года назад +39

      This is what I'm saying!

    • @mommabearkmdm5600
      @mommabearkmdm5600 2 года назад +249

      Mom could've stayed home just in case he was actually driving home and the dad should've driven up. IDK maybe one or both of the parents had a medical issue, night blindness, took heavy medication. I just don't get why neither of them drove up to find him. Thank God for Christian, he tried really hard to bring the boy home to his mama.

    • @juanitom6523
      @juanitom6523 2 года назад +44

      Exactly parents fault

  • @durangoeightytwo6744
    @durangoeightytwo6744 7 месяцев назад +8

    20 years later someone think they spotted Bryce 10 miles away from his home.
    The parent: let's stay home and wait. if it's him we're sure he'll come home soon.

    • @jdl9623
      @jdl9623 7 месяцев назад

      Best comment ever. And the sad thing is I do believe that's EXACTLY what their parents would've done. I'm actaully surprised they even drove to the crash scene

  • @missmarie8079
    @missmarie8079 4 месяца назад +3

    I am beginning to wonder if I just watch you not so much because of the stories but because of your talent to tell a story in all its details and keep your audience captivated.

  • @bossyspaghetti
    @bossyspaghetti 3 года назад +894

    NO ill intent toward the parents, but after several hours of trying to coax my kid to come home from a strange town with no success, I would have just driven up to find him myself.

    • @shawny4220
      @shawny4220 3 года назад +16

      Exactly what I'm saying

    • @theglassmaster3140
      @theglassmaster3140 3 года назад +61

      My daughter just went to the beach for graduation and had a flat 3 hrs away. She was with one other girl her age and I knew the road they were on was a long 2 lane stretch with nothing around for about 10 miles and it was getting dark. I don't trust anyone else when it comes to my daughter so I didn't even think about really. Just told her to sit in the car and if anyone stopped besides police tell them that police were in there way from a cracked window, keep the doors looked and I Got in my truck within 10 minutes and went down to fix it. It just blows my mind that these parents didn't take it upon themselves to go get their son. I don't care how old my daughter gets. I'm her father and protector and if I think she's in trouble I don't depend on other people. Such a shame

    • @ErinJeanette
      @ErinJeanette 3 года назад +6

      That's exactly what i thought. I know they were trying but instead of waiting so many hours I would have just driven there. Actually Bryce is a friend of a friend of a friend and they're actually from or lived in Naperville Illinois, I dunno if that's why or where the confusion is, I know they had a California home. But they may have been here in Illinois.

    • @ErinJeanette
      @ErinJeanette 3 года назад +1

      Oh wait never mind the police were at their door.

    • @khristinvanbramer4370
      @khristinvanbramer4370 3 года назад +2

      EXACTLY! That's what I was saying. I would have already driven the 2hrs to him. And brought him home.

  • @dania125
    @dania125 2 года назад +1511

    "He's not like that, he's not suicidal"....that's how suicide succeeds

    • @sierotkamarysia4199
      @sierotkamarysia4199 2 года назад +58

      Yeah, that is what people always get wrong. "He was happy" ,"He would never do that". Even if it's someone you think you know, you can't pretend it's not an option.

    • @lady4191
      @lady4191 2 года назад +4

      Not always but yes

    • @Floridaman1780_
      @Floridaman1780_ 2 года назад +4

      There is no such thing as a successful suicide.

    • @bodzarnpertrvick2869
      @bodzarnpertrvick2869 2 года назад

      Oh yeah baby mission passed, suicide succesful

    • @wakeinfright5498
      @wakeinfright5498 2 года назад +5

      He sounds manic, or bipolar. The everything is perfect comment followed by problems is a red flag, drug and alcohol abuse is a red flag for that, giving away possessions, or things of value is another.

  • @nickpolvinale8335
    @nickpolvinale8335 9 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you Mr ballen for sitting on the side of the highway to tell this story! ❤️

  • @Offu-cz9wl
    @Offu-cz9wl Год назад +14

    Chris is the type of person that restores my hope in humanity in this appalling world we live in these days 🙏🏼💙 hats off to him

    • @portwills
      @portwills 7 месяцев назад

      Agreed but I'd just like to add, if positive news were as shocking and memorable as the negative ones, we'd literally hear about them all the time. There are many more good people out there than there are rotten ones.

  • @einsp227
    @einsp227 3 года назад +1624

    Why his parents just didn’t drive to get him in all that time is beyond me, he was there for hours and hours and they had enough time.

    • @kianhetherington8544
      @kianhetherington8544 3 года назад +88

      fair point to be honest

    • @phoenixtwo87
      @phoenixtwo87 3 года назад +78

      was wondering the same myself

    • @melanieweber4522
      @melanieweber4522 3 года назад +112

      I'm sure they ask themselves that every day 😢

    • @JEvans-wy9ln
      @JEvans-wy9ln 3 года назад +121

      why tf did they keep telling him to drive home himself when it was more than obvious he was suicidal.

    • @filthycasual4164
      @filthycasual4164 3 года назад +74

      Exactly what I was wondering. As his parent,, the moment he gave away his diamond earrings and his Xbox, I would have had him placed under 24 hr watch until I got there.

  • @dknight25
    @dknight25 2 года назад +1826

    Christian displaying amazing empathy as a human being for others.

    • @joannajamerson35
      @joannajamerson35 2 года назад +4

      I'm the same way

    • @monicazeng7262
      @monicazeng7262 2 года назад +3

      @@joannajamerson35 Me too, not the best at it, but I’m pretty good at it which makes me sad sometimes because I can feel a lot of pain of others. :(
      Also, that helps me share out kindness into the world which I love doing. :)

    • @beetlejuice4357
      @beetlejuice4357 2 года назад +3

      I am not trying to be funny or say anything bad about this kid and this is just a theory based on the information gathered. Maybe he was gay and in love with his friend he gave the gifts to. I don't know a lot of guys who wear diamond earrings and he gave his earrings and x box to him then right before he broke up with his girlfriend and wanted to tell his mother something. He may have been just sitting in the car wondering what everyone would think.

    • @epec20
      @epec20 2 года назад +2

      Once you find a missing person, you don't then move them on without a final destination. Best thing for the kid would have been to leave him where he was.

    • @C0smicTrash
      @C0smicTrash 2 года назад

      The man is a saint

  • @mandeepsheera6272
    @mandeepsheera6272 5 месяцев назад +5

    His parents never did see this coming. So sad. I applaud the mechanic Christian for being such a good guy in Bryce's time of need. No one does that these days. I hope he's found one day. 😢🙏

  • @gustavomeza884
    @gustavomeza884 8 месяцев назад +3

    It's stories like these that really amplify the chaotic, unpredictable, deadly world we live in! Just passing through, just like you. Please remain in the light.

  • @lindablile5083
    @lindablile5083 3 года назад +1180

    When people start giving away important, valuable things; it is a red flag for suicide. Breaking up for no reason is another one. This broke my heart as a mother.

    • @cinderellie9583
      @cinderellie9583 3 года назад +30

      They cheer up drastically as well. A weight is lifted so to speak once they commit in their heart to do it. They believe relief is coming. This goes hand in hand with gifting posession. And making amends as well.

    • @lothegreat1788
      @lothegreat1788 3 года назад +10

      I thought everyone knew that .

    • @hawk535
      @hawk535 3 года назад +7

      It was because of the amphetamines, which is vyvanse. Its stronger than meth

    • @maxinemiller416
      @maxinemiller416 3 года назад +2

      Your so right, huge red flag.

    • @vph7
      @vph7 3 года назад +4

      @@hawk535 well it depends on how much you take lol

  • @nancymontgomery8897
    @nancymontgomery8897 3 года назад +558

    Christian is an exemplary person for going above an beyond to help a stranger.

    • @HumblyBlessed10
      @HumblyBlessed10 3 года назад +8

      Yes, I agree, Christian is good people. I hope he's not feeling any kinda way about not following Bryce all the way home. I suppose the parents could have met him half way on the journey since they knew Bryce's behaviour was out of character. But I don't blame them for what happened, Bryce was fully grown and undiagnosed with any mental health issues. At the end of the day, no one has the gift of reading minds. We can only aim to trust our family members and hope for the best.

    • @jennyjoyce9465
      @jennyjoyce9465 3 года назад +10

      Yes, he also did more than Bryce’s parents did for him…:(

    • @mrflawless1165
      @mrflawless1165 3 года назад +1

      Completely.

    • @benwil1715
      @benwil1715 3 года назад +2

      @@HumblyBlessed10 "at the end of the day,...no one has the gift of reading minds"!.......... I like that

    • @whatintheworld9182
      @whatintheworld9182 3 года назад +5

      @@jennyjoyce9465 yeah seriously, how did his parents not go drive there and get him. instead they just wait around for hours calling people when they could have been there before he even left the rest stop.

  • @treywashington9768
    @treywashington9768 6 месяцев назад +4

    Love you mr ballen thank you for all these endless stories that you narrated so perfectly to where we understand them and always so entertaining i work in a nursing home 10pm til 6:30pm i spend all my shifts listening while im working helps keep me entertained

  • @user-mu9pi2jj5u
    @user-mu9pi2jj5u 4 месяца назад +3

    What a nice guy the mechanic is and the police officer 2 decent people ❤

  • @miss_anthropy
    @miss_anthropy 3 года назад +727

    For him to give belongings away and the other actions, it does sound like he was suicidal.

    • @rcaddict7638
      @rcaddict7638 3 года назад +13

      That’s what I thought when he said he was giving stuff away

    • @nicolemontalvo4560
      @nicolemontalvo4560 3 года назад +4

      That was my first thought

    • @rivershine2501
      @rivershine2501 3 года назад +2

      That was exactly my thought process

    • @the_legend_2763
      @the_legend_2763 3 года назад +20

      Either that or he had a death threat from someone

    • @abebuckingham8198
      @abebuckingham8198 3 года назад +33

      @@DankNG47 Suicidal ideation is common but faking your death is incredibly rare and typically only happens when they have something to run from like former gang members or people trying to avoid criminal charges. It was probably just depression.

  • @justkittensbeingkittens5892
    @justkittensbeingkittens5892 3 года назад +1391

    The mechanic was so caring, he went out of his way for a complete stranger several times. The thing about suicidal people is that you can put on a happy face so no one suspects it, I’m guessing the family just can’t accept it

    • @dennisscott2516
      @dennisscott2516 3 года назад +18

      Plot twist. The mechanic Christian followed him and foul play was involved. He seemed a little too interested in helping. No blood at the scene of the crash? I bet a mechanic would know how to jam the accelerator to send the car off the cliff. The car accelerated just before going over. His duffel bag open near the crash and rummaged through? Plus who better to perform nefarious acts on, than someone who is legit suicidal. Hmmm

    • @hahehahe4215
      @hahehahe4215 3 года назад +70

      @@dennisscott2516 nope because the camera showed him driving off the cliff purposely 20:50

    • @nekad2000
      @nekad2000 3 года назад +56

      Truth. Truly suicidal people do not cry for help or threaten suicide. They almost never confide in others about it, and just end up doing it.

    • @itrashpanda
      @itrashpanda 3 года назад +29

      @@nekad2000 yup thats the truth when your feeling that bad you get good at hiding it and truthfully no one will know unless you say something yourself. I know this because when I was 21 I myself tried to comment suicide and failed but no one ever knew what I did for nearly 15yrs when I finally told my family what I tried to do when I was 22. Everyone was dumbfounded and completely caught of guard when I told the full story in detail and they couldn't believe that they couldn't tell what was going on they all said I seemed so happy at the time but thats just how good you get at hiding your true self and putting on a facade for everyone else.

    • @Snizake2012
      @Snizake2012 3 года назад

      I know right awesome dude

  • @simonsodini5072
    @simonsodini5072 Месяц назад

    As a father of two children, that story really hit home with me, you are an amazing story teller, I was truly invested in it and actually cried non-stop for an hour after it, I hugged my kids so hard for a while after watching this(they thought I was a weirdo) I can't even process what was happening in the end.....hats off mr ballen. I haven't subscribed to anyone on you tube ever, considered it, then thought it was in poor taste to do so sorry

  • @lets.get.crafty84
    @lets.get.crafty84 Год назад +26

    I feel sorry for Brice. I think he was stalling. There was so much opportunities to save Brice, but the parents were negligent. Literally they cant drive 3 hrs to get him? Brice sat there for additional 9 hrs!

  • @lizperrella666
    @lizperrella666 Год назад +2281

    Every time I hear this sad story I'm at a total loss to understand how his parents didn't drive back to him right away. They had so many opportunities. The guilt they must feel is unimaginable.

    • @HarrietMwanza
      @HarrietMwanza Год назад +71

      True they could have driven to where it was 🥲

    • @bithiahamariah9139
      @bithiahamariah9139 Год назад +111

      Hind sight is always easy. Foresight is not.

    • @c.a.a.n7874
      @c.a.a.n7874 Год назад +63

      For reals they made alot of very poor decisions

    • @angiekruger
      @angiekruger Год назад +45

      That's true but I have a lot of experience with suicidal people and often, when they've made up their mind , if they're *saved* they just go off and do it another day. It's very sad.

    • @alrey3967
      @alrey3967 Год назад +5

      True helicopter parents are the best

  • @kenpope5701
    @kenpope5701 3 года назад +1454

    Parents should have been driving his way the whole time after she learned Christian was having to follow him

    • @jordanmercier3616
      @jordanmercier3616 3 года назад +130

      Yah really, I woulda been on my way after the first time I heard he was sitting in a parking lot staring out of his windshield for hours.

    • @ryanstevens8387
      @ryanstevens8387 3 года назад +20

      Exactly what I was thinking

    • @T.T.LovesAmbience
      @T.T.LovesAmbience 3 года назад +52

      If it was my child, I would have been driving that way for sure.

    • @wendywarrior2264
      @wendywarrior2264 3 года назад +45

      I’m sure they feel horrible already. The parents may be reading these, so please be considerate.

    • @joesmith7185
      @joesmith7185 3 года назад +40

      @@wendywarrior2264 that's like saying let's feel bad for a dude who killed another person. The parents didn't really care or they would have acted

  • @rossw73
    @rossw73 6 месяцев назад +2

    A mechanic was more invested than his own parents. Poor guy

  • @stacyowl1658
    @stacyowl1658 11 месяцев назад +1

    dang I wish I had family and friends this caring and patient

  • @salima_sule
    @salima_sule 2 года назад +1450

    The moment he said he was tired of driving and wanted to take a nap after acting the way he did earlier I would have drove out with my husband to go pick my son up.. I can’t understand how they slept that night.

    • @rscjawesom
      @rscjawesom 2 года назад +35

      They didn't know where he was, he was refusing to tell them
      Thats the only flaw with that plan

    • @mrk7201
      @mrk7201 2 года назад +2

      Yes ma'am absolutely

    • @demandedcargo3919
      @demandedcargo3919 2 года назад +97

      Or the half dozen other times they could have made the trip out to him.

    • @beast11135
      @beast11135 2 года назад +74

      I would have driven out there as soon as I heard he stopped at a rest stop and was just staring at nothing. I'd be hauling ass to try and help my kid.

    • @williamgoins6859
      @williamgoins6859 2 года назад +13

      @@rscjawesom I mean he was on the highway. Go drive out there and look for your son along the same highway even if its all the way from Buttonwillow to whatever the other town was called

  • @aleksandra348
    @aleksandra348 2 года назад +542

    I'm half way through this video, and all I can think of is: why, the hell, the parents DIDN'T just drive to get their son? One of them could stay home, the other could drive, instead of waiting for him to come up by himself. Especially after numerous times Bryce failed to actually drive home. Come on, parents.

    • @T-1001
      @T-1001 2 года назад +57

      Yeah my thoughts exactly. That place was only 3 hours away and after all his erratic behaviour you'd think goin to get him would be by far the best option.

    • @delayeddeloy7761
      @delayeddeloy7761 2 года назад +22

      embarrasing parents

    • @Aquascape_Dreaming
      @Aquascape_Dreaming 2 года назад +29

      We're watching a Mr Ballen video. We know what to expect. We know that tragedy is almost certainly around the corner. Put yourself in his parent's shoes. They saw him barely 2 weeks earlier and saw how happy and enthusiastic he was about school and life. They'd most likely talked at length with him over the course of months about everything. We watched a video less than 30 minutes with the benefit of easily guessing what's in store. From their point of view it was just a bunch of odd setbacks and delays. Should they have just gone and got him? Absolutely. But I do understand their thought process having believed that everything was fine.

    • @queline213
      @queline213 2 года назад +11

      How is it that they didn't suspect some kind of mental health issue going on? I always can indicate if someone I'm close to isn't acting himself or herself. It's as if they were clueless. I'm not trying to insult them, but they really had no clue to tell police that their son was acting erratic and perhaps needed psychiatric intervention. I'm with you though, I would have driven up there if that were my son.

    • @davidb9150
      @davidb9150 2 года назад

      How many times did someone call them ? I know just one more chance. Or two or three or ......

  • @LostinBellsCanyon
    @LostinBellsCanyon 9 месяцев назад +3

    How heartwarming that Christian went to such lengths to help this family that were total strangers. I know from experience that many good people live in California’s San Joaquin Valley. It’s sad that, in the end, this tragedy wasn’t able to be averted.

  • @UndeadSaffron
    @UndeadSaffron 6 месяцев назад +5

    It's crazy to me that his parents didn't go get him. I once missed my flight home from Vegas; I was safe and would have to stay another week with my boyfriend before I could fly back, but my mom still asked both myself and my boyfriend separately if she needed to drive the 8 hours in one direction to come get me. I was calm, just a little upset. If I had been acting like this there would be nothing I could say to prevent her from getting to me

  • @CAMELOT331
    @CAMELOT331 2 года назад +6970

    I am 31 and I didn't answer my phone for a couple days at one point and my dad showed up at my house 3 hours away. These parents REALLY didn't want to get out huh?

    • @brittanythompson9086
      @brittanythompson9086 2 года назад +477

      @Eteuati S if he's acting so strangely that his ex-girlfriend is taking his keys from him so he can't leave and right before that you've gotten a phone call that also says how strangely he's acting you KNOW it's because he's acting strange and not because "it's a bad break up" and you should come assist in your sons weird behavior but not these parents and then there was the multiple times after that they should have intervened and decided not to. They now have to live with their choice to not help him when he needed them the most. Talk about shitty parents.

    • @ismailb87
      @ismailb87 2 года назад +83

      For me and my mom not talking for a few weeks normal. Actually it would bother me if she was checking in all the time. Although we return each others missed calls quickly

    • @SerumsBTD69
      @SerumsBTD69 2 года назад +7

      Add a public reply…

    • @SerumsBTD69
      @SerumsBTD69 2 года назад +3

      @@ismailb87 hi

    • @jamesjames6792
      @jamesjames6792 2 года назад +189

      Good for you. All parents parent differently. He wasn’t just not answering the phone. I’m sure the parents are kicking their asses enough. They don’t need spoiled little brats like y’all kicking them while they’re down. They obviously loved him

  • @prime302
    @prime302 3 года назад +865

    Christian needs a “life raise”, good human right there

    • @theducklinghomesteadandgar6639
      @theducklinghomesteadandgar6639 3 года назад +5

      Christian and Kim!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @zeekthegeek4538
      @zeekthegeek4538 3 года назад +11

      Yeah the man literally checked on the well being of a stranger twice while his parents just sat on their asses putting their trust in an obviously disturbed person smh

    • @MelissaNicoleYT
      @MelissaNicoleYT 3 года назад +11

      He went wayyyyy above and beyond. I bet he still beats himself up thinking he should've went just a little further. I hope he knows he did EVERYTHING he didn't have to do. OUTSTANDING PERSON🏆

    • @MelissaNicoleYT
      @MelissaNicoleYT 3 года назад +1

      @Sports Enthusiast *plot twist*

    • @chuaailing99
      @chuaailing99 3 года назад +1

      @@MelissaNicoleYT i agree.. he is such a great person that i believed he will feel guilty he didnt sent the guy home.. he shouldnt have to so it saddens me to know he probably will have to live with this regret

  • @HavocGamingChannel
    @HavocGamingChannel 6 месяцев назад +4

    Sounds like Bryce might have been through something traumatic or had a dark secret of some sort. Maybe he accidentally killed someone for example. That might help explain his strange behavior

  • @heatherpettigrew1615
    @heatherpettigrew1615 Год назад +4

    These missing person cases hit me hard. Had a 19 year old kid go missing where I live, I remember putting up his missing posters at work and talking to his mom, they found his body last month (he was missing for 2 years), they found his body 5 miles from where I work and I was devastated as was my coworker.

  • @Koko24250
    @Koko24250 Год назад +788

    I can't believe his parents never went out to get him, a mechanic with no real relationship to Bryce did more than them.

    • @agebaann
      @agebaann 7 месяцев назад +24

      I agree with this.

    • @jan-um7nh
      @jan-um7nh 4 месяца назад +2

      Why would you pick someone up who has a car? What is the logic? to pick him up and get the car towed when he could just drive it him self? U lot just say all this now in hindsight but most normal people wouldn't assume the worst straight away.

    • @ElizabethMotoe
      @ElizabethMotoe 4 месяца назад +6

      @@jan-um7nh Both of the parents could have driven out there and then one of them could have driven Bryce's car back home. Or while on the phone with the mechanic they could have arranged to get the vehicle and their son back home. (it'd probably be a few hundred bucks but 🤷)
      I do have to say I thought about how strange it was that the parents didn't go get him but that was because the other videos I've seen about this case just stated that Bryce was "on the side of the highway."
      But if he was actually stopped at a motel, that's a bit more reasonable why he would be in the same town hours after getting gas. Like he stopped to sleep before driving again. However, when the mechanic called the parents an HOUR AFTER the police left and told them that their son was STILL at the motel THEN I would have definitely grabbed my shoes and start driving to get him if I was his parent.

    • @CaliJose209
      @CaliJose209 4 месяца назад +7

      ​@@jan-um7nhyou can't be that slow. It's not about picking them up. It's about seeing if he looks off and making sure he's good. Can also have him as passenger instead of driver

    • @crewrangergaming9582
      @crewrangergaming9582 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@jan-um7nh the logic is there in what happened in those 24 hours.
      3 times for hours when tols that come home he sat there. Even had to call the police to get to him, even after that he didn't move, he gave his stuff away, he was behaving strange, he was calm but his actions were definitely strange. That's reason enough to go get your son, and not rely on him to drive all the way home. Did he give a reason why he didn't drive for hours but just sat in the parking lot?

  • @SW-fk3rb
    @SW-fk3rb 2 года назад +2678

    The car repairman was more willing to physically go take care of Bryce than his parents.

    • @kaychapparo5347
      @kaychapparo5347 2 года назад +28

      Even if they would have gone down there's nothing they could have done. Once someone has that plan nothing will stop them.

    • @WildMtnHoneyCO
      @WildMtnHoneyCO 2 года назад +184

      Absolutely not true, and a dangerous thing to believe - you can't stop everyone, but you can always try

    • @1111orion
      @1111orion 2 года назад +13

      The parents seemed obsessed with him. Maybe that was the problem. The parents were trying to control his life.

    • @jamie-leighgibson2338
      @jamie-leighgibson2338 2 года назад +52

      @@1111orion r u stupid? That's not obsessed they cared about him and wanted him home safe for acting strange !

    • @asant90
      @asant90 2 года назад +60

      @@1111orion they were literally just being parents

  • @michelleniles4880
    @michelleniles4880 3 месяца назад +1

    I watch alot of you tube. I think your subscribership out ranks many of the channels I watch. Kudos, and don't stop. I love your storytelling, even the stories I've already heard.

  • @amberkleman4817
    @amberkleman4817 Год назад +3

    I can't imagine the feeling his parents feel not knowing... To just not know ANYTHING! Ugh I am so sorry for them. Mrballen, waaay awesome commentary of the odd but entirely addictive! ..in story form, of course! Very cool. Thanks for the stories.

  • @as7river
    @as7river 2 года назад +272

    Tragedy and mystery aside, that is some world class car repair service right there. 10/10

  • @retard_activated
    @retard_activated 2 года назад +2663

    WTH. If that were my kid, after 3 attempts, I would have driven down there myself. Hell, I would have driven down there after the gf and bf called. And did the annoying parent thing by staying on the line the entire time.
    Christian is an angel. Not a lot of people would go that far. We need more neighbors, friends and human beings like him. 💖

    • @seitekiakumu195
      @seitekiakumu195 2 года назад +29

      Amen and Amen I'd move heaven and earth for my babies.

    • @edrxpark
      @edrxpark 2 года назад +78

      I was about to post the exact same thing. Don’t go anywhere, I’m coming to get you. Christian, can you stay with him until I can get there? Thanks bud!

    • @retard_activated
      @retard_activated 2 года назад +51

      @@edrxpark Exactly. I wish they had done that. He was only two hours away, it's not like a two day drive. I'd do ANYTHING for my daughter... I just can't imagine parents receiving this many red flags and just sitting on their asses. Something was clearly wrong and they pretty much did nothing. 😭

    • @mannylugz5872
      @mannylugz5872 2 года назад +32

      Christian displayed more caring than the parents. He's a complete stranger and yet he did beyond what is expected of him. I agree, the parents should have have sensed that something is really terribly wrong with Bryce and drove to that Buttonwillow hotel to fetch him.

    • @geniajirak4303
      @geniajirak4303 2 года назад +14

      I know family of his and he was a good kid and his history would had been considered in their decision. You don't really know what you would do till it happens to you, leave the blame off the parents-they have a missing child.

  • @user-ec2ml7wu1y
    @user-ec2ml7wu1y 6 месяцев назад +2

    this story always blows my mind

  • @cyka666
    @cyka666 3 месяца назад +2

    I feel bad for families who find it so difficult to accept the reality of a child’s death or disappearance that they believe it must have been foul play. Foul play is such a worse scenario but yet that is still easier to believe than that their child was depressed/suicidal.

  • @jcat379
    @jcat379 3 года назад +804

    The second he started giving away his important things, my heart dropped and I realized where this was going. I feel so bad for his friends and family, being suddenly confronted with that severe warning signs.

    • @boogiewoogie455
      @boogiewoogie455 3 года назад +30

      Same here i was like oh no. This is not going to end well for this kid.

    • @scrapdragon7887
      @scrapdragon7887 3 года назад +4

      I had the same feeling. I've seen it too many times in music videos of songs about this kind, most notably "Coming Down" by Five Finger Death Punch. The exact same scenario from this story played out in the song's music video.

    • @Jane_Dow
      @Jane_Dow 3 года назад +18

      I agree, giving away things that are important to someone to a good friend or family is a strong sign. Or other little things that are odd to ones character. At least his friend & girlfriend noticed & tryed to let his parents know their friend was in trouble. Usually things like this are only noticed in hind sight.

    • @DankDaHerbalist
      @DankDaHerbalist 3 года назад +12

      A kid at my highschool, my he rest in peaceace, started to give all his nice stuff away got into a drunk driving accident not long after and ended his life that night before cops showed up. Im 27 this was 10 years ago, none of us even knew real life yet. Its tragic when people think there is no option hope or salvation.

    • @abbysspace1149
      @abbysspace1149 3 года назад +2

      I was about to comment the same thing, I had an attempt like two years ago and it was the first thing I wanted to do… I hope he’s doing better now and he’s having a good life :(❤️

  • @jackdurden466
    @jackdurden466 2 года назад +614

    Christian the car repair man is definitely an amazing man. He went further than above and beyond anything he ever needed to do.

    • @kristabomhoff6137
      @kristabomhoff6137 2 года назад +12

      As a parent, I would have drove to him and took him home...
      Soooo sad

    • @jackdurden466
      @jackdurden466 2 года назад +3

      @@kristabomhoff6137 I know right? So much danger.

    • @anthonyhunt26
      @anthonyhunt26 2 года назад +15

      He did more than the parents

    • @laynehenriksen7077
      @laynehenriksen7077 2 года назад +7

      @@kristabomhoff6137 i bet they’ve been regretting that everyday since :( …

    • @kurzackd
      @kurzackd 2 года назад +1

      and yet, he didn't finish the job in the most needed moments and parts of it... -_-

  • @user-fj1bi7bs5b
    @user-fj1bi7bs5b 5 месяцев назад +4

    A stranger tries to accompany him home while his own parents stay at home and avoid facing him with his as-yet-unspoken-about issue. This suggests to me that his parents knew what he wanted to talk about and were terrified of speaking about it. Otherwise they would have gone straight out and got him. They are hiding something.

  • @hackjobgarage9289
    @hackjobgarage9289 Год назад +21

    Those poor parents are blaming themselves for not coming to his aid. It's a lot easier in hindsight to say "I would have done something" but we were never in their position. Thoughts and prayers to Bryce and his parents.

    • @oGrasshoppero
      @oGrasshoppero 6 месяцев назад +1

      No, most people (myself included) were literally yelling at their monitors "Go and pick him up at Button Willow!" countless times before even knowing how things panned out in the end. It is not hindsight, it was obvious.

  • @sarahwaller7560
    @sarahwaller7560 3 года назад +7179

    Who else was saying “Nooooooo” when Christian decided it was safe to stop following Bryce??

    • @renatawarec
      @renatawarec 3 года назад +842

      He went way out of his way.who can drive behind someone for 3 hours,then 3 more hours back& probably have to work in the morning he went beyond out of his way for being a total stranger.

    • @perinthia6829
      @perinthia6829 3 года назад +566

      Yeah he did ALOT more than what the average person would do by just going back to check on him

    • @theabc2270
      @theabc2270 3 года назад +32

      me

    • @FurTheCasa
      @FurTheCasa 3 года назад +363

      Same here. He was already going so far out of his way and now probably lives with the regret of not going the last leg. Poor guy but he is awesome in my book 🤜🤛

    • @cheekymarmoset
      @cheekymarmoset 3 года назад +359

      @@perinthia6829 he technically did more than the parents did as well and took action

  • @kx8044
    @kx8044 2 года назад +459

    Who ever Cristian the repair man is he is a great human being, caring, out going, and honest. I’m glad to see that good people exist in this world. This man followed a kid who he had nothing to do with for an hour after already helping him and checking on him once before. I hope he is healthy and living a long and happy life.

  • @BridgettePuckett
    @BridgettePuckett 7 месяцев назад

    I found you on RUclips shorts. I'm hooked! You are a rockstar!!! Keep doing you

  • @blakk6lass
    @blakk6lass 2 года назад +978

    “suicide? this is NOT my son.” It’s almost like a lot of depressed ppl put on a mask so that people don’t know that they’re depressed

    • @higgaroc
      @higgaroc 2 года назад +12

      Yup, absolutely.

    • @kemeee5407
      @kemeee5407 2 года назад +5

      Yep, that's me.

    • @straya4837
      @straya4837 2 года назад +7

      @@kemeee5407 hugs ; )

    • @wannabesmoker420
      @wannabesmoker420 2 года назад +10

      it explains him giving everything of value away

    • @blakk6lass
      @blakk6lass 2 года назад +3

      @@kemeee5407 I hope that you’re actively getting help you need

  • @ShandraBombay
    @ShandraBombay 3 года назад +708

    cops, Christian, everybody else checking on him... parents waiting at home like "he'll be here any minute." smh 🙄

    • @candikretz9544
      @candikretz9544 3 года назад +69

      Christian did more than the parents did, not once, but twice, and followed him for an hr. He didn't even know the kid. What a stand up guy.👍

    • @m4a1_delta66
      @m4a1_delta66 3 года назад +8

      @@candikretz9544 that is in rare supply nowadays

    • @EdwardXbot3
      @EdwardXbot3 3 года назад +4

      @Sports Enthusiast I love your sense of humor.👍👍.

    • @m4a1_delta66
      @m4a1_delta66 3 года назад +2

      @Sports Enthusiast a good theory but it needs more to back it up

    • @SJT81
      @SJT81 3 года назад +9

      The parents were there in that same parking lot. They had him they could have brought him home in their own car! What the fuck??? As a parent, they had it in their hands and they let him just sit there. I can't imagine how they feel if this is the real story. As a dad there's just so much that the story that doesn't sit well with me!! They could have should have would have done.

  • @beeforb5677
    @beeforb5677 8 месяцев назад +2

    Give that repair man a raise or an award or something holy shit what a great dude lol

  • @sarinaht
    @sarinaht 10 месяцев назад +3

    I just discovered you. You are a terrific narrator. I enjoy your stories, thank you.

  • @AlipticAce
    @AlipticAce 3 года назад +416

    Christian's amazing for doing all that out of his own will when he didnt have too.

    • @aslunku
      @aslunku 3 года назад +20

      He’s a real one 👍

    • @chrisquiett1776
      @chrisquiett1776 3 года назад +7

      The real mvp for sure

    • @brianshissler3263
      @brianshissler3263 3 года назад +6

      For sure. He acted out of his heart.

    • @zakaziam5467
      @zakaziam5467 3 года назад +2

      Godzilla had a stroke trying to read this and fucking died.

    • @joereplier
      @joereplier 3 года назад +3

      @@zakaziam5467 zak, im pretty sure it's just you having your chronic strokes

  • @TASHABATNURSEHANER
    @TASHABATNURSEHANER Год назад +6

    So heartbreaking! I have only one son and I just can’t imagine the pain and grief Brice’s parents are going through. I wish they would have just gone to where he was when he just sat in his car at the rest area and then the parking lot of whatever establishment and just drove him home. I hope he’s found soon or they find out what happened to him.

  • @codywright4900
    @codywright4900 5 месяцев назад +2

    I just found out about MRBALLEN 2 days ago. I'm a truck driver and I've been beng listening to all these stories every since while I drive. Imagine driving down the road in the middle of the night listening to some of these scary stories with the dome light on because I feel theirs someone or something behind me in the cab in my bunk starring at me. 😅😅😅😅😅

  • @lpn8585
    @lpn8585 3 года назад +432

    One of his parents should’ve drove to that small town where he was sitting. The other stay back in laguna and waited. That Christian did more than both of his parents.

    • @GrammarSplaining
      @GrammarSplaining 3 года назад +23

      Exactly what I was thinking. One stays home, the other goes to Buttonwillow. Bases covered.

    • @rosscarlson4823
      @rosscarlson4823 3 года назад +7

      My thoughts exactly

    • @brianawhittaker8152
      @brianawhittaker8152 3 года назад +20

      Their behavior is really weird I didn't understand why they didn't just go get him if you google it he was actually showing some warning signs of wanting to end his life. This wasn't one of those situations where you tell your kid what to do and expect them to listen this is one where it's best to step in because something is definitely off and it needs attention.

    • @vich8810
      @vich8810 3 года назад +3

      That's why I don't think he wanted to kill himself. The pressure from school, his girlfriend and his parents got to him and he just wanted to fake his own death and disappear and start over. Start a new life.

    • @chapingaryjr
      @chapingaryjr 3 года назад

      Lee is absolutely correct

  • @coffeehi
    @coffeehi 2 года назад +370

    Wow his parents are thick in the head if they think "he would nEveR" when he gave all the signs 🤦‍♀️

    • @360.Tapestry
      @360.Tapestry 2 года назад +5

      i can only guess that because they had a good relationship previously and he didn't have a history of this - and they hadn't observed how different he actually was now on a daily basis - they still think he's more or less the same, just going through a difficult time. also, the details make them seem pretty rich, so they're probably used to things being taken care of for them

    • @williamgoins6859
      @williamgoins6859 2 года назад +2

      For real, people have dark thoughts that don't tell others, sometimes even if its the closest person they have in their life.

  • @calebpoynter1077
    @calebpoynter1077 10 месяцев назад +2

    I suffer from mental illness and was going through a tone of stress. I remember walking to my car to head to work and the next thing I know I'm waking up in a different parking lot several hours later with no memory of how I got there. For some reason, this video reminded me of it.

  • @HeatherL7290
    @HeatherL7290 5 месяцев назад

    What do I do while I wrap christmas presents? I listen to Mr.Ballen. ❤💯

  • @Alan-jo6pw
    @Alan-jo6pw 3 года назад +306

    People always say “we need more people like them in the word” rather than saying “we need to act more like him in this world”

  • @afout07
    @afout07 3 года назад +1098

    Why didn't the parents just drive up and get him when he was sitting around parking lots in that little town? Seems very weird that they'd just not think of that.

    • @sublime7617
      @sublime7617 3 года назад +90

      That’s what I was thinking

    • @kennedy3737
      @kennedy3737 3 года назад +107

      Same, if it was my parents they would come get me but out of frustration, probably, but still

    • @elysiiumv
      @elysiiumv 3 года назад +34

      I asked myself that too

    • @pollypockets508
      @pollypockets508 3 года назад +85

      Exactly what I was thinking. They could have asked the police to "arrest" him or he could have stayed at Christian's house. Or the girlfriend could have kept the keys and the parents come there. I have no idea why they kept encouraging him to drive. All that time he was staring into space, they could have been there.

    • @XXccvm
      @XXccvm 3 года назад +36

      Alex you are right. The whole story is weird

  • @graydenday3760
    @graydenday3760 Год назад +2

    You tell a lot of stories that are local to me (Sacramento, California) ....that gives me the creeps.

  • @moonzzzzzz
    @moonzzzzzz 6 месяцев назад

    this story speaks to me since i'm a suicidal person. those are all typical signs of a suicidal person: giving away important stuff, cutting ties with people, getting reclusive, speaking in an unclear and mysterious way... i'm absolutely sure that was a suicide attempt, but the window broken from the inside out means he either got some clarity and wanted to live, or that he saw it didn't work and went to try again. either way this is tragic, i'm so sorry for the family and hope they have healed at least a bit, and god bless Christian for trying to help, hope he's alright wherever he is

  • @martyreking5487
    @martyreking5487 2 года назад +2085

    Hey Christian ( mechanic ) I hope you're reading this and know that you're one hell of a good man .

    • @-Jame-
      @-Jame- 2 года назад +53

      I couldn’t agree more... people like that are few and far in between

    • @cfc1946
      @cfc1946 2 года назад +13

      Agreed

    • @trooper0268
      @trooper0268 2 года назад +6

      True

    • @Brock_3256
      @Brock_3256 2 года назад +12

      He has everyone fooled...How do we know he didn't kill him?

    • @doctorfeelfunny584
      @doctorfeelfunny584 2 года назад +11

      I wish he hadn't repeatedly confronted then followed a guy who clearly wanted to be left alone. I'm guessing that's what sent Bryce over the edge.

  • @dominiquemassey2742
    @dominiquemassey2742 3 года назад +463

    “He was happy he was not suicidal “ the biggest mistake you can make is assume someone isn’t suicidal because they’re “happy”

    • @phoenixmerridian9119
      @phoenixmerridian9119 3 года назад +27

      Quite often people will have an uptick in happiness right before that commit suicide because they finally have come to a decision and are ready. Between that, the drug use, and giving his stuff away...definitely he had decided to do it. I just wonder if something happened or a sudden mental break, or if he was fighting depression and hid it.

    • @vincentkennedymcmahon50
      @vincentkennedymcmahon50 3 года назад +2

      Actually the best way to know whether is guy is suicidal or not is by talking to him

    • @robertfrench2807
      @robertfrench2807 3 года назад +7

      @@vincentkennedymcmahon50 not at all, I fucking hate it when people want to talk. I have shut everyone out because they all want to “help”

    • @crabcrab2024
      @crabcrab2024 3 года назад +4

      Right! Fcking “helpers” are not welcomed.

    • @reagandow850
      @reagandow850 3 года назад

      Never trust a ginger!

  • @simsins123
    @simsins123 Месяц назад +2

    As a fellow Bryce, I hope he’s found and has found himself doing better

  • @pestlince13
    @pestlince13 5 месяцев назад

    Haven't even heard it all, and know this man needs a hug

  • @annieapple8974
    @annieapple8974 2 года назад +1453

    I’m sorry but his parents infuriate me. If that was my son I would drive out there myself and pick him up instead of sending everyone to go check on him.

    • @JonathanLit
      @JonathanLit 2 года назад +55

      Honestly those parents don't deserve a kid. Who can't be bothered to drive three measley hours, or even one hour after that saint of a tow truck driver made sure he left and followed him for over an hour!

    • @redmarioproductions
      @redmarioproductions 2 года назад +28

      WTF is wrong with you people

    • @nadheerahyasmin1267
      @nadheerahyasmin1267 2 года назад +4

      @@JonathanLit to be honest we dont even know why the parents didnt druve out. obviously the obvious choice was for them to drive out and get him. but what if they didnt have a car or wouldve drove past him on the highway, maybe one of the parents were ill. idk?

    • @JonathanLit
      @JonathanLit 2 года назад +36

      @@nadheerahyasmin1267 If it's your kid, you find a way.

    • @krdiaz8026
      @krdiaz8026 2 года назад +15

      It's called being in denial. I know someone who couldn't accept that her son has autism. He only recently received help at 18, and they only gave in since he became suicidal since he couldn't understand why he was different from other people.
      And yes, it's infuriating.