Ernst, you are the GOAT and i would love to see more active content from you. I wouldnt even consider you a relationship guru, but the stuff you speak on isnt even mentioned when others speak of relationships
I feel like mindfully sipping a precious nourishing cup of tea when watching your videos. I watch a bit, take it in, let it sink and then watch more. Step by step. If people knew this their entire life would change. You explain so well why it is so important to really get to know the person before delving into each other's psyche and uniting souls together.
People say because i want to be in a committed relationship before sex is the reason y i dont have someone. But when i have sex without engagement n friendship i get heartbroken n pain....i say no sex unless energy is aligned n sex is not a factor but u genuinely like and accept each other as is.....nowadays some men just want sex with no engagement n friendship.....they just want sex which i frown upon...thanks ernst u gave me confirmation y i shouldnt waste time with ppl who wont engage/commit etc.....but want embracement only....u are great ernst, im not picky i was right with my principles when it comes to dating men, dont give sex unless theres genuine like n engagement......no more karmic waste of time relationships....
It's crazy that when I was a kid I related to people exactly like this and now that I'm an adult I need to watch a video lesson to relearn how to relate the way I did when I was 5 years old
The synchronicity is amazing. Too often have I reached the embracement stage without developing a friendship, which I have come to realize over the past 2 years of celibacy, have caused a lot of pain within me. Thank you for this Ernst! Much love xxx
This is going a bit deep, but I like the way Ernst explained about people who are hurt and how are they still able to be nurturing in their lives. I think it can help with the self-healing part when we are aware because our original wounds come from our parents and the acceptance of that can help with a lot of self-blame and letting go/forgiveness with them to make way to learn to be more nurturing to ourselves and others. All levels are sort of working together in a lot of different degrees and different ways from the get-go.
Wow! 1st person to ever touch my heart and to open my heart to healing. I want to say more but I am in a state of shock! This has opened the door for my own healing now! God bless you 🙏
What I love about your videos, is that they are always soulful, and at the same time very practical. I love when astrology and esoterism are practical, they go along well with my real life, and I can continue to love them throughout the years.
Oh wow!!! CRITICAL!! You are a emotional Genius! You are going to help so many shift for a higher life. God bless you to the ultimate. You have my highest gratitude! 🙏🏽
So far I have watched two videos of yours, and both times your presentation of deep topics was mind blowing and brand new in the way I’ve considered things. Thank you for your work!
Thank You Ernst Wilhelm! You have been one of my deepest, most profound teachers! I wish I had the good fortune of coming across your teachings sooner. But thank you so much, you have deepened my understanding of relationships irreversibly! Allegra x
Energies: Frienship, engagement and embracement create attraction or repulsion.....impact energetically and emotionally...all three dynamic happenings. Develop each phase.
I wasn't expecting this. This was amazing. transformative for myself. I was extremely hurt from a past relationship and just recently I found a newfound acceptance and love for myself. I married myself so to speak. I now love the women more than I ever did when I was with her. I wish I learned these lessons younger. They should teach these principles in school before sex ed.
Such precious stuff! In the right cadence and tone of voice. Ernst, you could be a successfull relationship coach too ✌ P.S.: and I still remember the joke you cracked with KRS, many years ago, about what women seek when they're hurt, as opposed to what men seek. insightful stuff!
Great coverage and I couldn’t agree more with the steps. One thing I can add is that we stand to suffer even in a long term happy marriage/partnership/friendship as life is not easy. But in the long end the friendship that was built will go on and on even if the marriage does not. 2nd Saturn return is designed to rock your boat so build it strong.
This is so perfect! First i want to say i can relate to your story about empathy with others and astrology. I had a similar experience when i did a few charts years ago and still do when i study a person's chart today. Second, the last situation i was in, i really struggled to stay at the friendship level as long as possible. We slowly went into engagement but then i realized what i THOUGHT i could overlook, i couldnt. I just kept getting agitated. I felt bad bc this seemed to a kind person...too good to be real. (His venus/Jup conj my NN in 7th H). I soon realized that what i disliked in him i was battling within myself. Furthermore, although ive realized through the years --because we as adults are emotionally immature--i hvnt been spending enough time in the 1st and wnd stages and was getting damaged repeatedly. After experiencing this pattern with a narc, i will say it did take 2 years for me to recover...i wasnt sure i'd come back from the dead, but i know i will never be the same again! As a recovering codepen addict i had to learn the hard way. No more puppy love...sticking to those stages. Im also currently reading another book you recommended, "Heal Your Wounds&Find Your True Self". Thank you for helping me to level-up in my healing!🙌🙌 Just as Chiron passes my Venus in Aries opp Pluto. Transiting Pluto conj my moon in 7th H.
I love the first stage, it’s my first time not having an immature relationship but I’m so happy to enjoy someone’s personality rather than just have sex.. I think it’s so much more gratifying than having sex... I gotta thank Elohim for allowing me to experience a friendship with a boy before all else
Fab! I sense those hard learned lessons. Having a similar chart, I know where you come from. I guess you could agree on how much we would have loved to have someone tell us this when we were 17, 20, 25! Oh, yes! Chiron is the greatest teacher of all ! Chapeau, Ernst! Amazing how many people you’re able to help heal! Virgo is often put down because of the humility and the keen ability to find what the problem (fault) is, right? But that six house in Aqua gives the genious to solve all the problems! I admire your use of that skill. Thank you.
Why isnt this info taught in schools???!!! I have been doing relationships wrong all this time, and causing myself untold grief wondering why they just didnt work out! Now I know! Plus it doesnt help that i have Jupiter in Libra Rx. I watched your video entitled Jupiter is your man. You explained what I have been doing wrong. Now its going to be an 'inside' job from now on when it comes to relationships.
Well said... trauma can be triggered by relationship.... and we don't understand this... When this happens, step outside of the pain, as an adult, and offer love to your partner.... My ex-spouse had been badly damaged, and wounded in early childhood. How I wish you had been our couple counselor... Without meaning to be flippant, ours was useless.
Today Capricorn Venus is in Jupiter terminus. (Egyptian )Terminus is very important to see for ourselves or explain to someone why we fail in love. Your advise is awesome universal and great for anyone who is able to take a honest approach towards themselves. ♠️🍀❤️♣️🍀♦️🙏🏼👑
I got Jhearts connection with my husband. We like to be together. Been together married for almost 10 years and he wanted to get married on day 1. I did a lot of work and before I had terrible relationships cos of my past mother and father cards 7 so there was no love for me. Also, I got Pluto on my Venus cart of relationships. I am ASpades birth card and I have learned to be with myself and not to be codependent and a good girl. A good girl can only attract the bad person haha I am a bit more evil now ;)
I know that you have trained astrologers who are great, but is there any way that I may ever be able to please have *YOU* yourself do my reading ever, Mr. Wilhelm?
Best thing is if you take the courses that I use for my readings as those will change your life more than a reading that i can do. It takes 6 hours of reading for me to even approach what you get out of a course and I just don't have that much time and I just can't do it half way.
Thank you for affirming my perspective in finding a partner. Very insightful video. Do you have advice for those of us utilizing the friends first strategy in a culture that puts pressure on women to have a sexual relationship before the relationship is on firm footing? BTW, I'm a 65 year old woman. I don't know if it's because I'm of the "free love" generation and men my age came of age during the "sexual revolution" of the 60s so the sexual part of relationships seems to be what they focus on. Most men I meet are looking for a booty call, not a deep loving relationship. Are younger men more willing to explore relationships as friends first and foremost?
Hello Ernst. I had a dream about you last week. I was in a saloon when you entered along with Justin Bieber (you were his preceptor). Then Bieber left and you sitted by my side and told me that the guy singing on stage was your twin brother. His name was also Ernst Wilhelm and I looked at him and the singer was Matthew Morrison! You started to tell me that you and him had some relationship issues, then told me about some problems with your parents too, and also gave me a bottle of water to drink. At some point I mentally remembered part of your chart, trying to apply it to your personality, but realized I was confusing the tropical and sidereal positions (I usually consider both, but this math sometimes sabotages me, especially on cases of many planets in the same sign and others in the sign right next or before, like pisces and aries all over the chart). Then I asked if you could find some time to read my chart someday cuz that would make me really happy... But I cant remember what you answered before the dream was over :( hahaha thank you so much for your insightful work!
Its ok, of course, Its better for us students if you keep focusing your time time in more massive operations like what you do now. thats my mind telling me I should be less inconvenient, I think. It was a nice meeting tho.
Interesting video and interpretation.... And good advice about not having sex til you know the person better. The only caveat is that this is about ‘perfect’ love or relationship... I don’t think there’s anything perfect in this world. In fact the world/ relationships/ love/ jobs etc are perfectly imperfect. There’s always going to be a level of compromise but as you said the important thing is that the compromise will be less than the good things that flow🙂
Very helpful, thanks to you. Question, what if the things you don't like and can't accept about a person are only there because of the person's wounds, it isn't who they really are? For example. Disliking and being unaccepting of addictive behaviors yet knowing those are stemming from wounds. If the person heals their wound, addiction vanishes, now I like the person and we can engage and possibly embrace. How often do you feel this scenario plays out? Thanks again
Then you have to examine if they are they working on their wounds or not. And by working, I MEAN WORKING, not just talking about working them, but is there improvement? If not, and you get involved with them, its just a matter of time that you become the target of their wounds.
In today's fast-paced dating world, with expectations to leap ahead, any tips on how to slow down that first stage of just developing friendship and determining if you like each other? ... :/
They all have mommi issue n it dont help when im an orphan. But i noticed this because ice been aware of my own trauma so I tried healing everything but it was futile... Ive already forgiven my mom and everyone...i also was fortunate to had been raised by my grandma so i experienced unconditional love at the same i experienced the worse rejection. Moon ketu in cancer 💙 i told myself when i was little i wont let pain change me bcus something told me thre would b more. Im still loving and have healed some but my heart is more sensitive. U see we kinda jumped straight to embracement....even tho i knew what i needed was a friend first... It was brutal...everytime. I developed high blood pressure from crying. My heart literally cant handle... it pushed it to the limit. I can go on crying forever n tried to take another healing risk but this machine in my chest told me to stop n wait for the perfect man who can understand me cus im tired of this healing sht and more pain is just gonna leave me paralized or w a stroke and im not spilling more blood for someone who isnt worth it.
I didnt feel like myself...i had to go through the process on my own. I had to become my own best friend, engage myself , and embrace myself. I did it master. I feel like myself after i left them and stopped dating. It felt like i was being dumped by my birthmom everytime. But i was reborn into my own world again and this time aware of my true divine nature and prepare to be my own main supply of love. The universe has always been my true mother.
Ernst, I can see you taking your innocent, young-man-looking Ernst-suit off every night at bedtime, and out comes Gandalf.... I can see he´s hiding there within.
@@ErnstWilhelm thank you for your service wisdom and practice 🙏 the 3 levels are "simple" to understand and the 2nd and 3rd powerful reflections especially energetic karmic connections once physical intimacy bond created...ill check out the book reference ☉
Thank you Ernst, I have a Q: Is Mars Ta in the 8th, Rahu Cp in the 4th , Sun libra with Venus in the 1st is too big of a wound to thrive in relationships? comment: I heard and accept what you shared from different sources however I find especially something about your energy and presentation which is soothing and helps me to accept this on a much deeper level, thank you.
Can someone give examples of engagement? I thought it means being involved in hobbies but my impression is also that these pretty social hobbies. What if someone likes research and writing? This is a pretty gratifying engagement to me, but also quite isolating. So I do not quite get how it can fit into a relationship. Both people will sit in a room and read and write?
you never know, maybe another likes reading, or is editing, or just supports you writing. doesnt have to like it. you can find something else with is common for you. Just like Ernst says if one likes fishing and one dancing then find something 3rd solution - he gave examples go to opera if both like it...
Engagement is simply that, ENGAGING with the person. we want to engage with a person when they are strong in our consciousness, just like when we want to do anything it has to be strong in our consciousness, so when people get into each other's consciousnesses then they WANT to do something together and then how well they do will depend on how they go about doing things together.
Ernst Wilhelm Thanks, Ernst! I meant that for some people most of the things that are engaging for them are solitary activities (e.g. reading or writing at home on arcane topics). So in those cases, I do not see how a person can go out in the world and engage with someone else unless they choose interests that are social.
@@oganotluibov some people do engage less than others, and that is fine, they just need to engage where they engage with people as a natural result of who they are.
Ersnt would you be able to comment on how this information might apply to those who walk the path of renunciation and have no intention of getting married? I have been working on my healing journey for many years now and I intend to continue farther into the future with the use of chart placements, among other things
Nowdays women are engaging more than ever . Getting more male attention than ever. More better lifestyles than ever. Please advise on the plight of single , men and what they can do to a become man again.
At 54:37 you claim that if a person's been hurt hurt hurt hurt, then their ability to nurture is less. As a Trauma Recovery Expert, I can validly and factually state this is incorrect what you state. The abused individual is more likely the empath or codependant. Most neglectful people do grow up abused, but some grow up greatly entitled. The narcissist cannot form the synopsis in their frontal lobe to empathy or nurturing. Everything else you talk about is lovely and so informative. But please know you are giving false information. Science and psychology have proven the opposite of what you say is true. Also hurt does not attract hurt dear brother. Again a false misconception. Predators are predators. Narcs are magnets to empaths and empaths are magnets to narcs. Both are unhealthy. But both aren't necessarily avused or negligected.
What is a trauma recovery expert? Because this whole thing floating around the spiritual community about empaths and narcissists is misleading and as a therapist, it bugs me that the language and labels are grossly misused in the public. People can recover from trauma and make changes but if there is no recovery and they remain on autopilot then they will just run their programming over and over and therefore, it would be like he said. But if a person heals, then they can be more loving and healing to others. Also the term codependent is antiquated and more of a recovery term. Bonding is a human need but when we are hurt or unhealthy, we bond with people who hurt us. Hurt does attract hurt, a healthy person wouldn’t be drawn to an abuser. There is something hurting in both that needs healing. And most children were hurt in some way. No parent is able to meet all their child’s emotional needs and so we all have healing to do.
@@Jeselena_8 of course, I agree with the issues of both being injured as children. That most certainly we can all become kinder. But chastising me using labels? Come on now. We've got to learn to feel safe with expression. Even if this includes using these words you call outdated or even incorrect. Weve got to stop picking apart people attempting to simply speak their information on the topic. I'm not insulting this wonderful man's video or him. I'm merely attempting to educate just as you are. Ok? Your views are important Jeselena. I accept your views. I accept you for how you want to speak and voice your voice. Can you offer the same acceptance for me using my voice? Having my own experience? Using my own space I'm attempting to feel safe as myself in expression? The same as you are?
I don’t see it as “chastising” you, I’m saying those labels are reductionistic and not helpful. I also know that Ernst knows what he is talking about. He may not use psychology terms, but he knows nature and how growth happens and his message is trustworthy.
@@Jeselena_8 My goodness! I never said he wasn't trustworthy whatsoever! Why say something like that? Perhaps re read my initial comment that I said I agreed with the entire presentation except for one minor thing. And you did instead choose to chastise my vocabulary and then take defense to create something I didn't even say or do. Can YOU accept self accountability with this and be humble? Or are you here to be upset if someone disagrees with something? It is ok to agree to disagree with honor. Honor you seem to be void of as I attempted to make peaceful conversation. I think this video is absolutely wonderful and FYI I even shared it amongst my many social media platforms. Listen, I apologize if I said something to get you so defensive. I humble myself amd ask you to see that conversing through typed words may be difficult to hear intonation of emotions expressed in peace and no attack type energy. I'm going to again say I accept you. I respect your voice and opinion and knowledge you as you and your right to express yourself. Also... I very much respect this wonderful man and his education and video. Can you accept others who may disagree w you and hold the same value for the human being I am as I hold the same beautiful value for you?
Ernst, you are the GOAT and i would love to see more active content from you. I wouldnt even consider you a relationship guru, but the stuff you speak on isnt even mentioned when others speak of relationships
Love that the information is so useful!!
I feel like mindfully sipping a precious nourishing cup of tea when watching your videos. I watch a bit, take it in, let it sink and then watch more. Step by step.
If people knew this their entire life would change. You explain so well why it is so important to really get to know the person before delving into each other's psyche and uniting souls together.
People say because i want to be in a committed relationship before sex is the reason y i dont have someone. But when i have sex without engagement n friendship i get heartbroken n pain....i say no sex unless energy is aligned n sex is not a factor but u genuinely like and accept each other as is.....nowadays some men just want sex with no engagement n friendship.....they just want sex which i frown upon...thanks ernst u gave me confirmation y i shouldnt waste time with ppl who wont engage/commit etc.....but want embracement only....u are great ernst, im not picky i was right with my principles when it comes to dating men, dont give sex unless theres genuine like n engagement......no more karmic waste of time relationships....
It's crazy that when I was a kid I related to people exactly like this and now that I'm an adult I need to watch a video lesson to relearn how to relate the way I did when I was 5 years old
The synchronicity is amazing. Too often have I reached the embracement stage without developing a friendship, which I have come to realize over the past 2 years of celibacy, have caused a lot of pain within me. Thank you for this Ernst! Much love xxx
@PJ, OMG, I've been celibate for 3 years and I'm scared to go back the other way. I'm content being single.
@@charchar7897 I'm scared too, but I eventually want to give birth so I have to get over it sometime haha.
@@PBJJJ I get it. My baby days are over so I could stay this way.😂😂😂.
This is going a bit deep, but I like the way Ernst explained about people who are hurt and how are they still able to be nurturing in their lives. I think it can help with the self-healing part when we are aware because our original wounds come from our parents and the acceptance of that can help with a lot of self-blame and letting go/forgiveness with them to make way to learn to be more nurturing to ourselves and others. All levels are sort of working together in a lot of different degrees and different ways from the get-go.
Wow! 1st person to ever touch my heart and to open my heart to healing. I want to say more but I am in a state of shock! This has opened the door for my own healing now! God bless you 🙏
What I love about your videos, is that they are always soulful, and at the same time very practical. I love when astrology and esoterism are practical, they go along well with my real life, and I can continue to love them throughout the years.
Another perfect lecture. YOu have a beautiful mind.
Wow that was amazing, I feel like you are a first person that ever told me how relationships work. Thank you so much!
Oh wow!!! CRITICAL!! You are a emotional Genius! You are going to help so many shift for a higher life. God bless you to the ultimate. You have my highest gratitude! 🙏🏽
So far I have watched two videos of yours, and both times your presentation of deep topics was mind blowing and brand new in the way I’ve considered things. Thank you for your work!
Thank You Ernst Wilhelm! You have been one of my deepest, most profound teachers! I wish I had the good fortune of coming across your teachings sooner. But thank you so much, you have deepened my understanding of relationships irreversibly!
Allegra
x
Wow! This is tremendously valuable information! Second to none! Thank you so much Ernst! Blessings to the teacher 🥳🕊
This is incredibly profound, thank you!!!
Energies: Frienship, engagement and embracement create attraction or repulsion.....impact energetically and emotionally...all three dynamic happenings. Develop each phase.
Great great stuff! Makes so much sense!
Not me listening to Jake Bugg lightning bolt on repeat now 😆
Thankyou and wow. Absolutely pure gold, I now believe that this should be taught to secondary school children.
❤ GodBless You ❤
I wasn't expecting this. This was amazing. transformative for myself. I was extremely hurt from a past relationship and just recently I found a newfound acceptance and love for myself. I married myself so to speak. I now love the women more than I ever did when I was with her. I wish I learned these lessons younger. They should teach these principles in school before sex ed.
Just Brilliant!!! Thank you sooo much!!!!
All this WISDOM about consciously entering Embracement for union and healing...🙏
And not skipping steps...
Where was this all my life
Such precious stuff! In the right cadence and tone of voice. Ernst, you could be a successfull relationship coach too ✌
P.S.: and I still remember the joke you cracked with KRS, many years ago, about what women seek when they're hurt, as opposed to what men seek. insightful stuff!
Wow what a blessing.
Great coverage and I couldn’t agree more with the steps. One thing I can add is that we stand to suffer even in a long term happy marriage/partnership/friendship as life is not easy. But in the long end the friendship that was built will go on and on even if the marriage does not. 2nd Saturn return is designed to rock your boat so build it strong.
This is gold - everyone should know this 💎
This is so perfect! First i want to say i can relate to your story about empathy with others and astrology. I had a similar experience when i did a few charts years ago and still do when i study a person's chart today. Second, the last situation i was in, i really struggled to stay at the friendship level as long as possible. We slowly went into engagement but then i realized what i THOUGHT i could overlook, i couldnt. I just kept getting agitated. I felt bad bc this seemed to a kind person...too good to be real. (His venus/Jup conj my NN in 7th H). I soon realized that what i disliked in him i was battling within myself. Furthermore, although ive realized through the years --because we as adults are emotionally immature--i hvnt been spending enough time in the 1st and wnd stages and was getting damaged repeatedly. After experiencing this pattern with a narc, i will say it did take 2 years for me to recover...i wasnt sure i'd come back from the dead, but i know i will never be the same again! As a recovering codepen addict i had to learn the hard way. No more puppy love...sticking to those stages. Im also currently reading another book you recommended, "Heal Your Wounds&Find Your True Self". Thank you for helping me to level-up in my healing!🙌🙌 Just as Chiron passes my Venus in Aries opp Pluto. Transiting Pluto conj my moon in 7th H.
thank you for the amazing video Ernst!
I love the first stage, it’s my first time not having an immature relationship but I’m so happy to enjoy someone’s personality rather than just have sex.. I think it’s so much more gratifying than having sex... I gotta thank Elohim for allowing me to experience a friendship with a boy before all else
Such clarity and wisdom. Have you written a book? If not, you should!
Agreed
Fab! I sense those hard learned lessons. Having a similar chart, I know where you come from. I guess you could agree on how much we would have loved to have someone tell us this when we were 17, 20, 25! Oh, yes! Chiron is the greatest teacher of all ! Chapeau, Ernst! Amazing how many people you’re able to help heal! Virgo is often put down because of the humility and the keen ability to find what the problem (fault) is, right? But that six house in Aqua gives the genious to solve all the problems! I admire your use of that skill. Thank you.
Why isnt this info taught in schools???!!! I have been doing relationships wrong all this time, and causing myself untold grief wondering why they just didnt work out! Now I know! Plus it doesnt help that i have Jupiter in Libra Rx. I watched your video entitled Jupiter is your man. You explained what I have been doing wrong. Now its going to be an 'inside' job from now on when it comes to relationships.
I just found your channel Ernst, Thank you so much for your insights.
I understand the empathy you feel when you see a chart. I think that is what makes a great astrologer and healer🙏🏼
This video was so meaningful to me in a way I never expected. Thank you so much.
4:28 Friendship
Thank you sir 🙏
Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏🎩🎩🎩
Thank you for sharing your knowledge Mr. Wilhelm 🙏. Best wishes 😊.
incredible video. it seems that we do things backwards now a days lol, you have a lovely energy btw.
Well said... trauma can be triggered by relationship.... and we don't understand this... When this happens, step outside of the pain, as an adult, and offer love to your partner.... My ex-spouse had been badly damaged, and wounded in early childhood. How I wish you had been our couple counselor... Without meaning to be flippant, ours was useless.
What happens when you give them space to heal but they just take that an opportunity to not heal but ignore it
that happens a lot, if it gets to a point where nothign useful is happening, its time for Love em and Leave em Saturn love.
I went to their FB profile and stalked them for 1/2 a day..... Calling me out right there!
Thank you :-) That' it, i'm in resonance. God bless you.
Brilliant thank you!!
Today Capricorn Venus is in Jupiter terminus. (Egyptian )Terminus is very important to see for ourselves or explain to someone why we fail in love. Your advise is awesome universal and great for anyone who is able to take a honest approach towards themselves. ♠️🍀❤️♣️🍀♦️🙏🏼👑
Thank you Ernst, this is the right time for me to hear this too
The Mind Body Connection book is sooooo good!!! 🤩
What is the name of its autor, please. Can t find it .
Thank you!
How lucky am i to have come across those jewels of information 🙏🙏🙏💎💎💎
IAM SO LUCKY 🍀🍀🍀
Friendship seems to be The Moon.
Engagement seems to be Venus and Sun
Embracement seems to be Mars/Pluto.
I got Jhearts connection with my husband. We like to be together. Been together married for almost 10 years and he wanted to get married on day 1. I did a lot of work and before I had terrible relationships cos of my past mother and father cards 7 so there was no love for me. Also, I got Pluto on my Venus cart of relationships. I am ASpades birth card and I have learned to be with myself and not to be codependent and a good girl. A good girl can only attract the bad person haha I am a bit more evil now ;)
Thank you for sharing your miracle :)
I know that you have trained astrologers who are great, but is there any way that I may ever be able to please have *YOU* yourself do my reading ever, Mr. Wilhelm?
(Same exact question here. With exactly the same wording.)
Best thing is if you take the courses that I use for my readings as those will change your life more than a reading that i can do. It takes 6 hours of reading for me to even approach what you get out of a course and I just don't have that much time and I just can't do it half way.
@@ErnstWilhelm Thank you for reading & for replying 🙏💙
Ernst, you make many a great video and I consider this one of the best. Thank you.
Beautiful.. Gracias for all... ❤️💜💙🤔🤔🤔🤗💜
I thought this was extremely intuitive
Thank you for affirming my perspective in finding a partner. Very insightful video. Do you have advice for those of us utilizing the friends first strategy in a culture that puts pressure on women to have a sexual relationship before the relationship is on firm footing? BTW, I'm a 65 year old woman. I don't know if it's because I'm of the "free love" generation and men my age came of age during the "sexual revolution" of the 60s so the sexual part of relationships seems to be what they focus on. Most men I meet are looking for a booty call, not a deep loving relationship. Are younger men more willing to explore relationships as friends first and foremost?
Hello Ernst. I had a dream about you last week. I was in a saloon when you entered along with Justin Bieber (you were his preceptor). Then Bieber left and you sitted by my side and told me that the guy singing on stage was your twin brother. His name was also Ernst Wilhelm and I looked at him and the singer was Matthew Morrison! You started to tell me that you and him had some relationship issues, then told me about some problems with your parents too, and also gave me a bottle of water to drink. At some point I mentally remembered part of your chart, trying to apply it to your personality, but realized I was confusing the tropical and sidereal positions (I usually consider both, but this math sometimes sabotages me, especially on cases of many planets in the same sign and others in the sign right next or before, like pisces and aries all over the chart). Then I asked if you could find some time to read my chart someday cuz that would make me really happy... But I cant remember what you answered before the dream was over :( hahaha
thank you so much for your insightful work!
Haha, thats funny, wish i had time to read charts for more people.
Its ok, of course, Its better for us students if you keep focusing your time time in more massive operations like what you do now. thats my mind telling me I should be less inconvenient, I think. It was a nice meeting tho.
Interesting video and interpretation.... And good advice about not having sex til you know the person better. The only caveat is that this is about ‘perfect’ love or relationship... I don’t think there’s anything perfect in this world. In fact the world/ relationships/ love/ jobs etc are perfectly imperfect. There’s always going to be a level of compromise but as you said the important thing is that the compromise will be less than the good things that flow🙂
Great teaching!!!!!!
Very nice vid, thanks.
Right on time ❤️
Thank you so much, Ernst. Insightful, deep and very helpful ❤
this is so accurate... that karmic bond it awful and so hard to get out of ... facts!
Why didn’t I listen to this earlier 😭
good teaching
You're like the Jesus of Astrology!!! Brilliant.
Thanks for this Ernst
Very helpful, thanks to you. Question, what if the things you don't like and can't accept about a person are only there because of the person's wounds, it isn't who they really are? For example. Disliking and being unaccepting of addictive behaviors yet knowing those are stemming from wounds. If the person heals their wound, addiction vanishes, now I like the person and we can engage and possibly embrace. How often do you feel this scenario plays out? Thanks again
Then you have to examine if they are they working on their wounds or not. And by working, I MEAN WORKING, not just talking about working them, but is there improvement? If not, and you get involved with them, its just a matter of time that you become the target of their wounds.
@@ErnstWilhelm Thank you for the advise 👍❤
In today's fast-paced dating world, with expectations to leap ahead, any tips on how to slow down that first stage of just developing friendship and determining if you like each other? ... :/
I guess just do it? It helps when one if not both people request this in their relationship with another person
This is awesome stuff
They all have mommi issue n it dont help when im an orphan. But i noticed this because ice been aware of my own trauma so I tried healing everything but it was futile... Ive already forgiven my mom and everyone...i also was fortunate to had been raised by my grandma so i experienced unconditional love at the same i experienced the worse rejection. Moon ketu in cancer 💙 i told myself when i was little i wont let pain change me bcus something told me thre would b more. Im still loving and have healed some but my heart is more sensitive. U see we kinda jumped straight to embracement....even tho i knew what i needed was a friend first... It was brutal...everytime. I developed high blood pressure from crying. My heart literally cant handle... it pushed it to the limit. I can go on crying forever n tried to take another healing risk but this machine in my chest told me to stop n wait for the perfect man who can understand me cus im tired of this healing sht and more pain is just gonna leave me paralized or w a stroke and im not spilling more blood for someone who isnt worth it.
I want to heal , puppy love but i also want to connect with the divine within me .
I didnt feel like myself...i had to go through the process on my own. I had to become my own best friend, engage myself , and embrace myself. I did it master. I feel like myself after i left them and stopped dating. It felt like i was being dumped by my birthmom everytime. But i was reborn into my own world again and this time aware of my true divine nature and prepare to be my own main supply of love. The universe has always been my true mother.
Ill try my best to follow these steps. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🐾
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ERNST POST THE KETU-JUPITER VIDEO AGAIN FROM 2020.
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Ernst, I can see you taking your innocent, young-man-looking Ernst-suit off every night at bedtime, and out comes Gandalf.... I can see he´s hiding there within.
How do we heal ourselves?
Hello thank you for this teaching...is there a text or source from where you're sharing this wisdom?
This is from soaking up info, experiences and watching people for years and years, but the book I put in the subject to the video is a good one.
@@ErnstWilhelm thank you for your service wisdom and practice 🙏 the 3 levels are "simple" to understand and the 2nd and 3rd powerful reflections especially energetic karmic connections once physical intimacy bond created...ill check out the book reference ☉
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Thank you Ernst, I have a Q: Is Mars Ta in the 8th, Rahu Cp in the 4th , Sun libra with Venus in the 1st is too big of a wound to thrive in relationships?
comment: I heard and accept what you shared from different sources however I find especially something about your energy and presentation which is soothing and helps me to accept this on a much deeper level, thank you.
Can you do a video about soul ties and how to break it. or how to heal from a soul tie?
Maybe be their friend?
Can someone give examples of engagement? I thought it means being involved in hobbies but my impression is also that these pretty social hobbies. What if someone likes research and writing? This is a pretty gratifying engagement to me, but also quite isolating. So I do not quite get how it can fit into a relationship. Both people will sit in a room and read and write?
you never know, maybe another likes reading, or is editing, or just supports you writing. doesnt have to like it. you can find something else with is common for you. Just like Ernst says if one likes fishing and one dancing then find something 3rd solution - he gave examples go to opera if both like it...
Engagement is simply that, ENGAGING with the person. we want to engage with a person when they are strong in our consciousness, just like when we want to do anything it has to be strong in our consciousness, so when people get into each other's consciousnesses then they WANT to do something together and then how well they do will depend on how they go about doing things together.
Ernst Wilhelm Thanks, Ernst!
I meant that for some people most of the things that are engaging for them are solitary activities (e.g. reading or writing at home on arcane topics). So in those cases, I do not see how a person can go out in the world and engage with someone else unless they choose interests that are social.
@@oganotluibov some people do engage less than others, and that is fine, they just need to engage where they engage with people as a natural result of who they are.
Ernst Wilhelm That makes sense. Thank you!
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Ersnt would you be able to comment on how this information might apply to those who walk the path of renunciation and have no intention of getting married? I have been working on my healing journey for many years now and I intend to continue farther into the future with the use of chart placements, among other things
Such an insightful topic. How do we get in contact with you??
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My triggering memory usually are from my ex that comes up
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I like your videos but i follow sidereal .. there is confusion around signs..
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women are engaging more than ever . Getting more male attention than ever. More better lifestyles than ever. Please advise on the plight of single , men and what they can do to a become man again.
Good video. Good infor. Also, this iis just my opinion, but I think you should grow a beard if you are going to have long scalp hair..
How to have perfect love? Money, money, & lower your standards.
At 54:37 you claim that if a person's been hurt hurt hurt hurt, then their ability to nurture is less.
As a Trauma Recovery Expert, I can validly and factually state this is incorrect what you state.
The abused individual is more likely the empath or codependant.
Most neglectful people do grow up abused, but some grow up greatly entitled. The narcissist cannot form the synopsis in their frontal lobe to empathy or nurturing.
Everything else you talk about is lovely and so informative.
But please know you are giving false information.
Science and psychology have proven the opposite of what you say is true.
Also hurt does not attract hurt dear brother.
Again a false misconception.
Predators are predators.
Narcs are magnets to empaths and empaths are magnets to narcs.
Both are unhealthy.
But both aren't necessarily avused or negligected.
What is a trauma recovery expert? Because this whole thing floating around the spiritual community about empaths and narcissists is misleading and as a therapist, it bugs me that the language and labels are grossly misused in the public. People can recover from trauma and make changes but if there is no recovery and they remain on autopilot then they will just run their programming over and over and therefore, it would be like he said. But if a person heals, then they can be more loving and healing to others. Also the term codependent is antiquated and more of a recovery term. Bonding is a human need but when we are hurt or unhealthy, we bond with people who hurt us. Hurt does attract hurt, a healthy person wouldn’t be drawn to an abuser. There is something hurting in both that needs healing. And most children were hurt in some way. No parent is able to meet all their child’s emotional needs and so we all have healing to do.
@@Jeselena_8 of course, I agree with the issues of both being injured as children. That most certainly we can all become kinder.
But chastising me using labels? Come on now.
We've got to learn to feel safe with expression. Even if this includes using these words you call outdated or even incorrect.
Weve got to stop picking apart people attempting to simply speak their information on the topic.
I'm not insulting this wonderful man's video or him.
I'm merely attempting to educate just as you are. Ok?
Your views are important Jeselena. I accept your views. I accept you for how you want to speak and voice your voice.
Can you offer the same acceptance for me using my voice? Having my own experience? Using my own space I'm attempting to feel safe as myself in expression? The same as you are?
I don’t see it as “chastising” you, I’m saying those labels are reductionistic and not helpful. I also know that Ernst knows what he is talking about. He may not use psychology terms, but he knows nature and how growth happens and his message is trustworthy.
@@Jeselena_8 My goodness! I never said he wasn't trustworthy whatsoever!
Why say something like that?
Perhaps re read my initial comment that I said I agreed with the entire presentation except for one minor thing.
And you did instead choose to chastise my vocabulary and then take defense to create something I didn't even say or do.
Can YOU accept self accountability with this and be humble?
Or are you here to be upset if someone disagrees with something?
It is ok to agree to disagree with honor.
Honor you seem to be void of as I attempted to make peaceful conversation.
I think this video is absolutely wonderful and FYI I even shared it amongst my many social media platforms.
Listen, I apologize if I said something to get you so defensive. I humble myself amd ask you to see that conversing through typed words may be difficult to hear intonation of emotions expressed in peace and no attack type energy.
I'm going to again say
I accept you.
I respect your voice and opinion and knowledge you as you and your right to express yourself.
Also...
I very much respect this wonderful man and his education and video.
Can you accept others who may disagree w you and hold the same value for the human being I am as I hold the same beautiful value for you?
Having significant trauma does affect how much space you have around reciprocation and nurture.
this is hard to watch
Stop