Jennie, you not spent a coin so why you and Lauren have stolen my credit cards money also I spent a lot of money now I'm broke. You have money but shallow minds. But remember, God is one whatever you have done with me I will never forget it .
Most stores don’t train employees in any social skills or customer service. Returns and exchanges are a regular part of business. Sales associates sometimes treat a merchandise return like a personal rejection. It’s okay to check them and report it to management if they’re overly rude.
I just feel like when it’s over people are going to be like “I didn’t need to do this, it wasn’t even on sale let me go get my money back.” And I’m just going to laugh and say no.
@@MasonPerry7 I say its better to have more than less but 10 bottles of rubbing alcohol or 15 bottles of hand sanitizer (Come on ppl give me a break)🤦♀️❗Your only winning if your resaling your item.
I got a segment idea: why dont all tge host bring clothes that they haven’t return yet, put on a lil runway show, make an auction, let the audience or other host buy it, and the money goes to charity???
I was Asian on my last life, because I ain’t got no shame at all. I hate going to stores, I buy everything online and return it like nothing happened. I work hard for my money and I won’t waste it 😂
having worked in retail for 5 years this is a real thing because sometimes there are CHRONIC returners and then it's just shameful, like girl I KNOW you wore that and now you're over here tryna get your money back. Bye bih
Yes, but unless YOU own the company or have stock in it ...why should you care? You just another employee....I cant stand when employees try to scrutinize or shame a return. At the end of the day, if she got her receipt, she's within the time limit and you cant tell it was worn, it shouldn't matter.
Tui Ohana true, however there are a lot of people who don’t have the receipt, try and return things over 90 days (some even years), and people who wanna return things with obvious worn on them or tags cut off and they do this regularly and make a scene if you don’t return it. They’re the ones who cause the shame associated with returning.
@@PolynesianPrincessa I've worked retail before. Sometimes you don't SEE signs of wear (no food stains,etc.), but you SMELL it. I had a customer return an item with a STRONG cigarette smell & there was a gray haze on the fabric with white deodorant stains. She swore she only tried it on. I rejected the return, but the manager approved it. It was nasty. I refused to touch the garment.
Tui Ohana no one is shaming a standard return. But when an item has been worn and can even now smell or have stains, then as a HUMAN being it’s very annoying that they’re getting their wear out of MULTIPLE items without having to pay for them. What about all the other customers who are spending their money on these clothes, while this bih is getting away with wearing everything and not paying for sh*t. Unfair, disrespectful, and shameful.
Oh Adrienne is rich rich for her to be lazy to return items . I’m first in line in the queue to return something if I don’t like it , I want my money back 😂🤣🤣
there are billions of people in this world and you’re invalidating their struggles just because u don’t experience it, grow up and learn to accept others around u. “just get over a mental illness” which people don’t chose is very ignorant thing to comment and usually is impossible without drugs or therapy. lastly people don’t have anxiety over everything it’s just an overuse of the word in contexts that is needed or either way round back to the first point of everyone has different struggles. have a nice day :)(
niki :0 you get over yourself! Anxiety over what? Going out? Having a period ? Going on a date?? Working ? Please there are billions of people living under worse conditions than people who have “ bad anxiety “. They don’t give up and keep going. And also they don’t feel bad about themselves. Mental illness does exist but this generation and society doesn’t know how to deal with life and sadly abuse it. Take time to build up yourself and get stronger
Daniela G hey don’t think u read what I said if u did u would have know firstly I told u to grow up to u telling me to get over myself when u are just a random person on the internet with a vendetta obviously annoyed by a light hearted comment which is embarrassing and I stand by u having a lot of growing up to do. Obviously I also commented there are billions of people in the world with different struggles and was not trying to compare them but telling u to stop invalidating others just because u haven’t experienced it.
luxaholic anonymous it’s not about sister sister. Her parents were never the “struggling family” they were in the military and was well taken care of. She nvr had those struggles the rest of the hostesses be talking about.
i used to be ashamed when I was younger, but then I realized it's my hard-earned money being wasted on something I'm not going to use (Some of us can't afford to give away every time) so I found myself back at that store. But Jeanie for real killed me when she said she'll take it back for you. ROFL
I wouldn't have even known that "return shame" existed had I not met someone this past summer who had it. After we sat down at Target, they realized that they had just purchased the wrong phone charger. I tried to convince them to return it, but they really did not want to. I GLADLY returned the charger for them. I seriously could not believe that they would have preferred to leave the store with a product that they couldn't use!!!
Yep 3 years ago, I returned a 2017 jeep renegade after a month because it didn’t have built in bluetooth! I traded the vehicle in for a 2017 Mazda which has built in bluetooth! Now I’m HAPPY!
Well Adrienne rich she doesn’t make hourly wage so of course she wouldn’t care about getting her money back rich people can’t relate but the rest of us hell yea we will return it because we need that money back
I almost never return. Extremely rare. Mostly laziness but I also feel bad for the business. They thought they made a sale, and now they are having to refund me. If they are a small business, I took that product off their shelf for weeks preventing someone else from buying it.
@@TheLongdarktunnel i own a business too and i agree with you.. id rather exchange than return.. im still gonna be happy with a new item that fits and they wont lose money..
They were shaming Adrienne for not returning items. At least she’s giving. My sister used to do that all of the time. She’d buy and give it away to others instead of returning it. I’m too lazy to return items too. I hate it especially in the winter. That’s why I don’t like shopping online. The last time I returned something was for a toy for my kids that didn’t work properly.
So interesting. A lot of tall women say that. I'm the same height as you and I almost never have trouble finding clothes that fit! except for rompers lol.
I work in retail, I just hate when people buy something for special occasions or just wear it until it's all gross and nasty and then come to return it.
I definitely have return shame. That's why now I make sure I love it, can afford it, it fits, and it's not damaged before I purchase!! Less ashamed if it is damaged or doesn't fit and I'm exchanging
My mom and I used to be embarrassed. Until we went to Costco and saw someone return a half eaten rotisserie chicken and they got all their money back 😂💀 now we return whatever lol
I HATE trying on clothes in the store. But I wear so few brands I can generally guess my size in most clothes. If it doesn’t fit, I’m always going to try to return things but you can’t always do that. Sometimes clothes don’t work for me but I know my sister or mom might want it so I try to give it to them first.
That's crazy that Adrienne wouldn't just go and get her money back. Like how does she know the people who she is giving these clothes to are actually using them? It's basically a money donation to the clothing stores. SMH.
LMFAO I will return something I don't like with a quickness. I'm not keeping something I don't like it not using if I can return it and get my money back TF
I was about to say not trying on stuff at the shop and then not returning if it doesn't fit is some rich people stuff. And then Adrienne said she did it pre-wealth and I was like "oh... " ,, idk I have no shame when it comes to returning (as long as the stuff is still in its original purchasing condition).
Haya V : I shop mainly online. I avoid purchasing clothes that is “Final Sales/No return”. It’s usually a red flag that the clothing is poorly constructed or sized. The items are often very tempting markdowns but it’s a gamble not in your favor.
Sooo true. My 1st hubby would buy more than we could afford to look like a "big spender" and then make me return it so we could get food or essentials. I still a whole new life later struggle to return anything.
Yes I feel bad, like burdening the shop staff & it's sometimes too much effort. But I will go return stuff if I need to coz my money is so precious, my blood, sweat & tears!
The store I worked at in high school had daily goals for each person set by corporate. Returns were deducted from whatever amount we were each supposed to sell, so anyone really trying to meet their goal (the full-time people mostly) hated getting 'stuck' with returns. I still make returns shame-free though! 🤷🏻♀️
I never try on clothes, I prefer to try it on at home! If it doesn’t fit I have sisters my sizes or I take it to goodwill if I don’t have time to return it.
I usually know what I want before I purchase something. I almost never return because of that alone. But I can understand the return situation for online shoppers - like Tamera’s example. I get it.
I used to have it but I had to get over it when I bought a big ass tv and it was cracked when I opened it 😭 also, I used to be bigger and I NEVER wanted to return clothes that ended up being too small for me bc I gained more weight. Now, shirts will be too big for me so I’m happy to go exchange for a smaller size it makes me feel confident.
Thats an AMAZING business idea! If someone came to my house, picked up the stuff I don’t want and returned it for me, I would absolutely let them keep 25%. They could etransfer me the remaining 75%
Omggg this is so bad but my family when we were broke used to take costumes from party city trash cans and return them for cash. In our defense, they throw out those cheap ass 5$ made costumes if they have the tiniest unnoticeable tear, so we’d just get them and be like “there’s a hole” and they’d give us the cash.
social anxiety makes it challenging to return things for me. I worry about how I am going to ask for what I need and what the person will say when I ask for a return. I love emails for this purpose. The face to face interaction kills me.
I'm 5'11, top heavy, with a high butt and long legs. Nothing EVER fits me and I hate trying on clothes 🤬🤬🤬 it takes too damn long!!!! I envy ppl that can buy something and just know that it will fit. My pants size doesn't vary but there's always the question of whether or not they're long enough. So I buy a bunch of clothing, try it on when I get home and return it if I don't like it. There have been times when I unknowingly bought something that was final sale, usually Anthropologie, and I'm stuck with it. I usually donate it because I don't really have anybody that's my size
Omg, I'm the same way! I absolutely hate trying clothes on, if it doesn't fit then I'll either give it to someone else or it will be chilling in my wardrobe for yeaaars! 😂😩
I’m very good about returning things because that lets me buy more (stuff I’m not 100% sold on initially but it may grow on me). I’ve gotten good finds that way.
I hate trying on clothes too. It's such a hassle to take off your clothes and have to do it twice. Not to mention, someone else probably tried it on too 😷 shopping for clothes is just a weird experience lol
I return things PROUDLY!! Nothing to be ashamed of. If you don't like it, return it. Or exchange it. If it wasn't expensive, I'll give away. But if it's expensive, I'm in line with receipt ready
A sounds crazy but tbh thats me too! But another reason for me as to why I don’t return is bc I’m waiting for it to fit me 😂 and then I give up and give it away. With tags and everything. Sometimes weather or not the 30 are over 🤷🏽♀️
For a girl who came from humble beginnings, doesn’t seem like Adrienne values money too much. If you want your money back, you won’t let laziness/forgetfulness stop you. But I’m Amanda 100%! When I return something, I check my account to make sure the refund went through 😁.
I'm like Jeannie!! I must return for that money back! Even if it's a few dollars... any amount counts lol. I would then check the bank online to make sure it was properly returned. If I missed the return window or if the return is a hassle then I would donate.
It depends if I really need it, and if I have shoppers remorse. But I don't feel ashamed to return something that I bought. If it does not work out, it's just does not work out. But I don't like it's when it's holiday season like Thanksgiving and Christmas time, and you see that long line at the customers services desk. Or even after the holidays are over it's worst!
As someone who works in retail, we don’t like returns cause a lot of the time it brings down our total we’ve made for the day and we expected by higher ups to make “budget” however we never hate on the customer it’s more worker to worker “nooo we had a $200 return we’re going to have to work a bit harder to catch up” and then we move on with our liv es cause they deserve their damn refund 👏🏻
Y'all need to restructure and progress your strategy perhaps. Instead of using "sales" tactics to sell items people don't really need (hence why they return them), don't leave it up to your staff to make a target. It puts unnecessary pressure on these workers and makes them feel like it is a reflection of them. Be smart about what you're selling and the community you sell it in, as well as pricing and even the atmosphere of your store and friendliness (not salesy-ness) of staff.
Cynthia Clemons haha I completely agree however you have to realise I’m the staff who works part time and it’s my boss and her boss that put the pressure on me not the other way round and to put things in perspective, I work for a multi million dollar franchise (therefore I have absolutely no say) that is also a fast fashion brand, they are money hungry and could care less about consumerism, prettt sad but at the end of the day I need a job too
I feel Adrienne. Returning is a hassle imo but like I got this electric toothbrush from sams club, and it literally just didn’t work. Wouldn’t turn on after “charging” so in that case even tho I so don’t want to cuz I’m lazy, I have to or else I would just be wasting money. Always try on clothes so I don’t have to go back when it doesn’t fit !
I feel ashamed sometimes BUT I am the return queen 🤣 I'm not keeping it if I'm not using it. I don't try on clothes either and I will return it the next day.
I work in retail, returns are the most frustrating thing. I won’t return unless it’s faulty, I always try on clothes, because I know the person in the store doesn’t want to deal with my returns.
Yae I’m definitely one of these people . I don’t know why, I just feel uncomfortable in social situations so returning, I don’t know , I just feel uncomfortable doing that
The only thing I’ll never return is a mildly incorrect food order , for example a caramel frappe instead of a mocha frappe because I hate confrontation so bad lmao. I let my siblings return it for me or my mom.
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Amanda and Jeanie tell them the Asian & Caribbean ways. I'm standing in line every damn time.
Kae-Toya Lee 😂😂 yessss
I love when the camera showed Adrienne smiling when Jeannie said bless you aww 😊😭
Jennie, you not spent a coin so why you and Lauren have stolen my credit cards money also I spent a lot of money now I'm broke. You have money but shallow minds. But remember, God is one whatever you have done with me I will never forget it .
She looked so cute and slightly embarrassed
I’m Amanda in this scenario. I am watching my account for my return money 😂
K Lo - I save my receipts when it comes to returns and at the end of the month I reconcile my bank account to make sure the return was successful 🤪
Yeah! Target I’m waiting for my damn refund. It’s been three weeks now .
“Adrienne Jobless”!?? LMAOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOO JEANNIEEEEE
@beyone queen jeannie's the least shadiest person pls stop reaching
@beyone queen That isn't true. She is the least shady. She didn't meant anything.
lmaooooooo
😂😂💀
THAT GIRL IS A FOOL LMAOOOOO
I just hate how the store workers look annoyed when you try to return, like its a crime. The discomfort I'll pass if its something small
Cause some stores if you return an item depending on it they lose money cause they have to damage it out as not reselable
I've never gotten that. I always imagine that, but it never happens. They are usually happy to reimburse me.
Most stores don’t train employees in any social skills or customer service. Returns and exchanges are a regular part of business. Sales associates sometimes treat a merchandise return like a personal rejection. It’s okay to check them and report it to management if they’re overly rude.
@@amasion2882 yess thats true, they make it seems like return/exchange isnt normal.
Nette : It’s part of their job to manage returns. Part of customer service. Their personal opinions about you and the return are unimportant.
Lol new business: "Let Jeannie Mai return for you~"
I laughed so hard when jennie said that lol
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my friend *sends* me to return stuff
im like
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.. at times idont mind cause im at home n bored
but still
😂😂😂
"Hi this is really ugly do you want it" SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING HER CHARACTER ALANA WOULD SAY 😂😂😂😂
DangerDynamic - Alana was an icon 😂
When she say that
@@alexzandriamartin5664 alana is adriennes character from thats so raven
Ricky Spanish I know that I’m talking were did she say that in the video
The fake “no no no” in the beginning is funny Lmaooooo
“no what is that?” 🤣🤣
So fake
LMAO!!!! KAMAL!! Why did you point this out 😂😂😂😂 I can't stop rewinding. And did you see Amanda face. She was trying to hold it together
LOOOOL I thought it was just me hahah
They're so corny sometimes lmbo
“Girl I’ll stand in line for you and take 10%”😂😂😂 Jeannie too funny
To everyone who bought toilet paper and sanitizer consider your return denied.
Mason Perry Can I get one? damn all i need is two for house of four damn
😂😂😂😂🤣😂❗Exactly as if they aint going to need toilet paper the following month🤦♀️❗why return it⁉️
I just feel like when it’s over people are going to be like “I didn’t need to do this, it wasn’t even on sale let me go get my money back.” And I’m just going to laugh and say no.
@@MasonPerry7 I say its better to have more than less but 10 bottles of rubbing alcohol or 15 bottles of hand sanitizer (Come on ppl give me a break)🤦♀️❗Your only winning if your resaling your item.
You can always use toilet paper and sanitizer so its not a loss. Its better to have and not need than not have and need
I got a segment idea: why dont all tge host bring clothes that they haven’t return yet, put on a lil runway show, make an auction, let the audience or other host buy it, and the money goes to charity???
I like that idea
Yaaa That sounds so cute!
Great Idea!
Such beautiful and intelligent women. I love the personalities on this show.
I was Asian on my last life, because I ain’t got no shame at all.
I hate going to stores, I buy everything online and return it like nothing happened. I work hard for my money and I won’t waste it 😂
“When is this Zara coming back?”😂😂😂thats me
having worked in retail for 5 years this is a real thing because sometimes there are CHRONIC returners and then it's just shameful, like girl I KNOW you wore that and now you're over here tryna get your money back. Bye bih
Arzo Popal girl yes! smh
Yes, but unless YOU own the company or have stock in it ...why should you care? You just another employee....I cant stand when employees try to scrutinize or shame a return. At the end of the day, if she got her receipt, she's within the time limit and you cant tell it was worn, it shouldn't matter.
Tui Ohana true, however there are a lot of people who don’t have the receipt, try and return things over 90 days (some even years), and people who wanna return things with obvious worn on them or tags cut off and they do this regularly and make a scene if you don’t return it. They’re the ones who cause the shame associated with returning.
@@PolynesianPrincessa I've worked retail before. Sometimes you don't SEE signs of wear (no food stains,etc.), but you SMELL it. I had a customer return an item with a STRONG cigarette smell & there was a gray haze on the fabric with white deodorant stains. She swore she only tried it on. I rejected the return, but the manager approved it. It was nasty. I refused to touch the garment.
Tui Ohana no one is shaming a standard return. But when an item has been worn and can even now smell or have stains, then as a HUMAN being it’s very annoying that they’re getting their wear out of MULTIPLE items without having to pay for them. What about all the other customers who are spending their money on these clothes, while this bih is getting away with wearing everything and not paying for sh*t. Unfair, disrespectful, and shameful.
Try shopping in KENYA.... The receipt clearly states "GOODS ONCE SOLD CANNOT BE RE-ACCEPTED."
Yes. I am here wondering what return is.. lol
GLORIA AMBUCHE everything?!!
I know right. Zambia too. You can only exchange
@@zinziswamzwakali you can only exchange. Money refunds are close to nonexistent
That sucks
I hate trying on clothes in any store 😭😩 I’d rather just return it later if it doesn’t fit 😂
Same!
Oh Adrienne is rich rich for her to be lazy to return items . I’m first in line in the queue to return something if I don’t like it , I want my money back 😂🤣🤣
Hans Jae Nah Tamera rich rich to be buying multiple lol
They needed me on here! I ABSOLUTELY have return shame. Most times the cashiers are judging you when you returning something.
they don’t have anxiety and it shows
Some people have anxiety over errerything. Get over your self 🙄
there are billions of people in this world and you’re invalidating their struggles just because u don’t experience it, grow up and learn to accept others around u. “just get over a mental illness” which people don’t chose is very ignorant thing to comment and usually is impossible without drugs or therapy. lastly people don’t have anxiety over everything it’s just an overuse of the word in contexts that is needed or either way round back to the first point of everyone has different struggles. have a nice day :)(
niki :0 you get over yourself! Anxiety over what? Going out? Having a period ? Going on a date?? Working ? Please there are billions of people living under worse conditions than people who have “ bad anxiety “. They don’t give up and keep going. And also they don’t feel bad about themselves. Mental illness does exist but this generation and society doesn’t know how to deal with life and sadly abuse it. Take time to build up yourself and get stronger
Daniela G hey don’t think u read what I said if u did u would have know firstly I told u to grow up to u telling me to get over myself when u are just a random person on the internet with a vendetta obviously annoyed by a light hearted comment which is embarrassing and I stand by u having a lot of growing up to do. Obviously I also commented there are billions of people in the world with different struggles and was not trying to compare them but telling u to stop invalidating others just because u haven’t experienced it.
niki :0 oh so sorry that my comment hurt you. Don’t listen to me, live on with your anxiety.
Love how Tamera can’t relate when they talk about being broke 😂
Kim Possible - can you blame her? She has that Sister Sister money!!!!!!! 😜🤓
I wouldn't be able to relate either lol that's a blessing... I could only pray for
luxaholic anonymous it’s not about sister sister. Her parents were never the “struggling family” they were in the military and was well taken care of. She nvr had those struggles the rest of the hostesses be talking about.
That is a good business idea. I'll do returns for you with 10% interest on return price and standard fee.
“Girl ill stand in a line in for you and take 10%” 😂😂😂 i love jeanie
John 10:9, NIV: "I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. They will come in and go out, and find pasture."
i used to be ashamed when I was younger, but then I realized it's my hard-earned money being wasted on something I'm not going to use (Some of us can't afford to give away every time) so I found myself back at that store. But Jeanie for real killed me when she said she'll take it back for you. ROFL
I wouldn't have even known that "return shame" existed had I not met someone this past summer who had it. After we sat down at Target, they realized that they had just purchased the wrong phone charger. I tried to convince them to return it, but they really did not want to. I GLADLY returned the charger for them. I seriously could not believe that they would have preferred to leave the store with a product that they couldn't use!!!
Adrienne "Jobless"😂 That comment took me out! Jeannie bold AF
Elisa she’s so deep and smart yo 😂😍
Yep 3 years ago, I returned a 2017 jeep renegade after a month because it didn’t have built in bluetooth!
I traded the vehicle in for a 2017 Mazda which has built in bluetooth! Now I’m HAPPY!
That's an exchange so its not so baf
Adrienne got so excited when Jennie said blessed you Adrienne 😭
“girl I’ll Stand in line for you and take 10%” 😂😂
Adrienne JOBLESS 🤣🤣🤣 oh I love Jeannie 🤣
Adrienne kills me 🤣 she is so lively, I love it!
I have "return lazyness"😅 got like 4 items in my closet that i ordered online didnt fit but i didnt return😋
ill never return something if i bought it online.. the hassle!! cant imagine.
Can't relate, if I order something and I don't like it, it's gonna get returned to the post office real fast 🏃🏾lol
Whoever is reading do not give into shame. Refuse to give it attention. It happened. Move on. Focus on what's ahead of you. Peace
Grace Morgan speaks RUclips Channel damn I needed this rn. Peace to you.
Well Adrienne rich she doesn’t make hourly wage so of course she wouldn’t care about getting her money back rich people can’t relate but the rest of us hell yea we will return it because we need that money back
My BFF is just like Adrienne... But i enjoy receiving whatever she wouldn't return 😂🤣
You see I don’t have shame I’m just lazy... if it’s on my way I’ll go and return it...
It takes a certain level of privilege to know that a clothing item does not fit and to choose not to return it.
I almost never return. Extremely rare. Mostly laziness but I also feel bad for the business. They thought they made a sale, and now they are having to refund me. If they are a small business, I took that product off their shelf for weeks preventing someone else from buying it.
If you return it someone else will get the chance to buy it!
@@TheLongdarktunnel But by the time it is back on the shelf it could be out of season or missing prime shopping time like Christmas.
@@emmamoreaubrownlee you've clearly thought about this lol
@@TheLongdarktunnel I own a business haha
@@TheLongdarktunnel i own a business too and i agree with you.. id rather exchange than return.. im still gonna be happy with a new item that fits and they wont lose money..
Bless you Adrienne!! lol 😂 😂😂Jeannie is so on point
They were shaming Adrienne for not returning items. At least she’s giving. My sister used to do that all of the time. She’d buy and give it away to others instead of returning it. I’m too lazy to return items too. I hate it especially in the winter. That’s why I don’t like shopping online. The last time I returned something was for a toy for my kids that didn’t work properly.
O so NOW y’all like Amanda?!?😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 I cannot with y’all!!! I’ve liked her for a min now, glad y’all finally catching up!
When ppl are on commission (Nordstrom salesmen) and ppl do it for the gram and return! Then you’re messing with their money on purpose.
YAAASSSSSS Adrienne!! Mystique is my faveee 😂😂 been shopping there since high school.
I’m so tall (5’10) that I have to try everything on. A lot of clothes just don’t fit me right.
So interesting. A lot of tall women say that. I'm the same height as you and I almost never have trouble finding clothes that fit! except for rompers lol.
J Woods same
J Woods not a lot of stores around me sell long pants for tall women. I have a short torso and long legs and some stuff looks awkward on me 😂
@@valerieutley7901 I buy pants that aren't made in long sizes and they aren't too short. Every body is different though. 🤷🏾♀️🙂
I work in retail, I just hate when people buy something for special occasions or just wear it until it's all gross and nasty and then come to return it.
it shouldn't be allowed after its worn thats ridiculous.
Lol did Jeannie Mai just come up with a brilliant new business idea? 😂
I’m sorry y’all know addrieane is all of us😂😂
AMadi B. I kindly disagree! I rather have the money sit in my account, than sit somewhere in my house, collecting dust. 😛
Eva Laurent ur Rightt I’m just lazy 💯that’s mature thing to do
AMadi B. Take care and be safe!
I definitely have return shame. That's why now I make sure I love it, can afford it, it fits, and it's not damaged before I purchase!! Less ashamed if it is damaged or doesn't fit and I'm exchanging
Yes!! I am with you Adrienne! I don’t return anything usually because I forgot to.
I hate trying on clothes too 😭😭 but thank God my size is really consistent so MOST times I can just choose/order clothes and it fits.
Can we talk about the people that OVER RETURN! Lmao #ME .... I LIVE for returning things!
Maggie R big facts
what does that mean and why would u go through the hassle of buying if ull waste ur time being back in the store returning.
My mom and I used to be embarrassed. Until we went to Costco and saw someone return a half eaten rotisserie chicken and they got all their money back 😂💀 now we return whatever lol
how the hell !!
How the f*** do you return a half eaten rotisserie chicken
I am absolutely Adrienne in this. I’d sell it or give it away. I have so many outfits with tags right now!
I HATE trying on clothes in the store. But I wear so few brands I can generally guess my size in most clothes. If it doesn’t fit, I’m always going to try to return things but you can’t always do that. Sometimes clothes don’t work for me but I know my sister or mom might want it so I try to give it to them first.
That's crazy that Adrienne wouldn't just go and get her money back. Like how does she know the people who she is giving these clothes to are actually using them? It's basically a money donation to the clothing stores. SMH.
Tamera is so kind!!! I love her attitude I want her attitude ooh Lord forgive me for the envy
If you’re not kind already, try working on that! You can admire a trait a person has and not envy it!
LMFAO I will return something I don't like with a quickness. I'm not keeping something I don't like it not using if I can return it and get my money back TF
I was about to say not trying on stuff at the shop and then not returning if it doesn't fit is some rich people stuff. And then Adrienne said she did it pre-wealth and I was like "oh... " ,, idk I have no shame when it comes to returning (as long as the stuff is still in its original purchasing condition).
Haya V : I shop mainly online. I avoid purchasing clothes that is “Final Sales/No return”. It’s usually a red flag that the clothing is poorly constructed or sized. The items are often very tempting markdowns but it’s a gamble not in your favor.
@@amasion2882 totally agree!
I did have that return shame when i was younger , then when i started off working retail i didnt have shame anymore
All the grocery stores around me have temporarily suspended their return policies due to COVID-19. My return shameless heart is broken.
Sooo true. My 1st hubby would buy more than we could afford to look like a "big spender" and then make me return it so we could get food or essentials. I still a whole new life later struggle to return anything.
Yes I feel bad, like burdening the shop staff & it's sometimes too much effort. But I will go return stuff if I need to coz my money is so precious, my blood, sweat & tears!
The store I worked at in high school had daily goals for each person set by corporate. Returns were deducted from whatever amount we were each supposed to sell, so anyone really trying to meet their goal (the full-time people mostly) hated getting 'stuck' with returns. I still make returns shame-free though! 🤷🏻♀️
cyn7 that’s 💯💯
I’m with Amanda. I be checking to see when I get my refund on my card.
I never try on clothes, I prefer to try it on at home! If it doesn’t fit I have sisters my sizes or I take it to goodwill if I don’t have time to return it.
I usually know what I want before I purchase something. I almost never return because of that alone. But I can understand the return situation for online shoppers - like Tamera’s example. I get it.
I used to have it but I had to get over it when I bought a big ass tv and it was cracked when I opened it 😭 also, I used to be bigger and I NEVER wanted to return clothes that ended up being too small for me bc I gained more weight. Now, shirts will be too big for me so I’m happy to go exchange for a smaller size it makes me feel confident.
I'm Adrienne 😂☺🤭 I get you girl. I've got return laziness. You are not alone!
Thats an AMAZING business idea! If someone came to my house, picked up the stuff I don’t want and returned it for me, I would absolutely let them keep 25%. They could etransfer me the remaining 75%
Omggg this is so bad but my family when we were broke used to take costumes from party city trash cans and return them for cash. In our defense, they throw out those cheap ass 5$ made costumes if they have the tiniest unnoticeable tear, so we’d just get them and be like “there’s a hole” and they’d give us the cash.
I worked part time retail for the first time ever this past holiday season... had ppl return things for .79 CENTS. I was like HUH. 😑
daaaaaannnnng!
social anxiety makes it challenging to return things for me. I worry about how I am going to ask for what I need and what the person will say when I ask for a return. I love emails for this purpose. The face to face interaction kills me.
Adrienne I feel ya I hate trying on clothes 🤪🤪 and get mad when they don't fit
I rarely return stuff and the one time I did bc it was incomplete, I was mommy shamed and class shamed by a kid's store. Literally made me cry.
No shame , give me my money.... I hate trying on clothes if I have on boots and if I just got my hair did...😂😂
I'm 5'11, top heavy, with a high butt and long legs. Nothing EVER fits me and I hate trying on clothes 🤬🤬🤬 it takes too damn long!!!! I envy ppl that can buy something and just know that it will fit. My pants size doesn't vary but there's always the question of whether or not they're long enough. So I buy a bunch of clothing, try it on when I get home and return it if I don't like it. There have been times when I unknowingly bought something that was final sale, usually Anthropologie, and I'm stuck with it. I usually donate it because I don't really have anybody that's my size
Omg, I'm the same way! I absolutely hate trying clothes on, if it doesn't fit then I'll either give it to someone else or it will be chilling in my wardrobe for yeaaars! 😂😩
I'm Adrienne in this scenario I will either forget to return or don't do it out of sheer laziness until I need the money
I'm with Jeannie. Bein broke aint no joke. I gotta try it on BEFORE I buy it...NO TIME to waist money
I’m very good about returning things because that lets me buy more (stuff I’m not 100% sold on initially but it may grow on me). I’ve gotten good finds that way.
I hate trying on clothes too. It's such a hassle to take off your clothes and have to do it twice. Not to mention, someone else probably tried it on too 😷 shopping for clothes is just a weird experience lol
I return things PROUDLY!! Nothing to be ashamed of. If you don't like it, return it. Or exchange it. If it wasn't expensive, I'll give away. But if it's expensive, I'm in line with receipt ready
A sounds crazy but tbh thats me too! But another reason for me as to why I don’t return is bc I’m waiting for it to fit me 😂 and then I give up and give it away. With tags and everything. Sometimes weather or not the 30 are over 🤷🏽♀️
For a girl who came from humble beginnings, doesn’t seem like Adrienne values money too much. If you want your money back, you won’t let laziness/forgetfulness stop you. But I’m Amanda 100%! When I return something, I check my account to make sure the refund went through 😁.
I'm like Adrienne, I barely return living on pay check to pay check. lol
I'm like Jeannie!! I must return for that money back! Even if it's a few dollars... any amount counts lol. I would then check the bank online to make sure it was properly returned. If I missed the return window or if the return is a hassle then I would donate.
New job idea! Thanks Jeannie
It depends if I really need it, and if I have shoppers remorse. But I don't feel ashamed to return something that I bought. If it does not work out, it's just does not work out. But I don't like it's when it's holiday season like Thanksgiving and Christmas time, and you see that long line at the customers services desk. Or even after the holidays are over it's worst!
Want to return a TV or some clothes but don’t want to stand in line. I got you, I just want a 40% split of the return price 😂
As someone who works in retail, we don’t like returns cause a lot of the time it brings down our total we’ve made for the day and we expected by higher ups to make “budget” however we never hate on the customer it’s more worker to worker “nooo we had a $200 return we’re going to have to work a bit harder to catch up” and then we move on with our liv es cause they deserve their damn refund 👏🏻
Y'all need to restructure and progress your strategy perhaps. Instead of using "sales" tactics to sell items people don't really need (hence why they return them), don't leave it up to your staff to make a target. It puts unnecessary pressure on these workers and makes them feel like it is a reflection of them. Be smart about what you're selling and the community you sell it in, as well as pricing and even the atmosphere of your store and friendliness (not salesy-ness) of staff.
Cynthia Clemons haha I completely agree however you have to realise I’m the staff who works part time and it’s my boss and her boss that put the pressure on me not the other way round and to put things in perspective, I work for a multi million dollar franchise (therefore I have absolutely no say) that is also a fast fashion brand, they are money hungry and could care less about consumerism, prettt sad but at the end of the day I need a job too
I would love to shop in Adrienne's closet!!!
I feel Adrienne. Returning is a hassle imo but like I got this electric toothbrush from sams club, and it literally just didn’t work. Wouldn’t turn on after “charging” so in that case even tho I so don’t want to cuz I’m lazy, I have to or else I would just be wasting money. Always try on clothes so I don’t have to go back when it doesn’t fit !
I feel ashamed sometimes BUT I am the return queen 🤣 I'm not keeping it if I'm not using it. I don't try on clothes either and I will return it the next day.
If I am not happy with a product or service that I purchased, I DESERVE my hard-earned money back.
I work in retail, returns are the most frustrating thing. I won’t return unless it’s faulty, I always try on clothes, because I know the person in the store doesn’t want to deal with my returns.
Yae I’m definitely one of these people . I don’t know why, I just feel uncomfortable in social situations so returning, I don’t know , I just feel uncomfortable doing that
I'm the same as Adrienne. If something doesn't fit me, I have my sisters to give it to
The only thing I’ll never return is a mildly incorrect food order , for example a caramel frappe instead of a mocha frappe because I hate confrontation so bad lmao. I let my siblings return it for me or my mom.