GIRL CHAT VAULT: How To Give Advice to Love Ones who Won’t Take It

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @kirkxavier777
    @kirkxavier777 4 года назад +169

    Great point that Jeannie made. I’ve struggled with drug use and my family pushed me to get help but I still ended up in the same positions until I decided MYSELF that I wanted a different life. Sometimes you have to fall hard in order to look at things in an objective perspective.

    • @licks3962
      @licks3962 4 года назад +4

      I Pray for your recovery and just Now god loves you and every1 else who is struggling w drug abuse.you will see the light at the end of the tunel.keep trying you get there your love ones don't love you less.they Just care for you that's why they keep praying for you!!🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @chelsea5595
      @chelsea5595 3 года назад

      That’s awesome. I have a family member dealing with addiction. I can’t just act like it’s fine, so my only options are to keep trying to get them to get help and have them get angry at me and feel like I am pushing them, or just ignore them and have them mad at me for that. Do you have an opinion on which is better?

  • @Zumzizeroo17
    @Zumzizeroo17 4 года назад +109

    I agree with Adrienne. Unless it’s a choice that I feel I need to intervene because someone’s safety is in jeopardy, I’ll let them see the decisions they are making are not good ones.

  • @longlivekingjames806
    @longlivekingjames806 4 года назад +180

    So sad tam is leaving the show but SISTER SISTER WILL BE ON NETFLIX SEPTEMBER 1ST 😊

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 4 года назад +19

      I want the real to be on netflix so Ican watch full episodes

    • @indigobeauty1
      @indigobeauty1 4 года назад +5

      Omg!! Im so happy!

    • @lovebuglenise904
      @lovebuglenise904 4 года назад +4

      Heyyyy I didn’t know

    • @malumbesyatwinda8094
      @malumbesyatwinda8094 4 года назад +4

      I’m so made at UK Netflix 😭😭😭. We won’t be getting any of the great old school shows

    • @Kimbrly_xo
      @Kimbrly_xo 4 года назад +1

      Malumbe Syatwinda ikr😢

  • @mor9820
    @mor9820 4 года назад +29

    that was sooo cute when adrienne whispered and then loni told Jeannie and they were giggling

  • @itsjacquelynambeau
    @itsjacquelynambeau 4 года назад +134

    They are all looking so good on here!

    • @richardvargus7443
      @richardvargus7443 4 года назад +1

      I admire the goodyear blimp as well

    • @SoshiStars
      @SoshiStars 4 года назад +1

      Yeah this was the season where they were styled the best

  • @veronicalopez6187
    @veronicalopez6187 4 года назад +38

    I agree with Loni ! Even if it’s going to hurt my feelings or if I’m wrong TELL ME. If you love me help me grow.

    • @mube8885
      @mube8885 3 года назад

      😂😂😂😂😂👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @crem2121
    @crem2121 4 года назад +15

    I live for the girl chats! So much more relaxed and they seem more relatable and it really feels like girlfriends all chatting in the room together lol

  • @kamissadiarra5074
    @kamissadiarra5074 4 года назад +77

    I'm gonna miss tamera :(

  • @jennamartin5913
    @jennamartin5913 4 года назад +25

    I agree with Adrienne.... if I don’t actually ask, don’t give me advice. Go talk to the wall if you must talk.

  • @jennifercamille16
    @jennifercamille16 4 года назад +42

    Aww, loved this conversation! I'm gonna miss Tam on here SO much!

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 года назад +59

    It feels so good to not have Instagram, Twitter, etc. RUclips is all I use.

    • @MaleahsDiary
      @MaleahsDiary 3 года назад +4

      Same here

    • @wonderwoman1199
      @wonderwoman1199 3 года назад +1

      Yup true

    • @nyahjohnson7126
      @nyahjohnson7126 3 года назад +2

      Same but I was RUclips so much now that it takes up the same time as all the other applications I had.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 года назад

      @@nyahjohnson7126 I understand what you mean.

  • @angellll357
    @angellll357 4 года назад +22

    Tamera talking about how her kids won't leave her alone when she goes to the bathroom 😂😂❤️. Ugh I'm gonna miss her sm 😣😭

    • @richardvargus7443
      @richardvargus7443 4 года назад

      Yea like she ever spends time with her kids anyway. Those strong independent women raising weak fatherless children. Go society!

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 года назад +2

      Richard Vargus You just wrote endless bitter comments on the channel. Find something better to do.

    • @angellll357
      @angellll357 4 года назад

      @@richardvargus7443 how would you know she barely spends time with her kids. She actually even mentions that she does spend every moment she can with them so take your hate elsewhere

    • @Justbu45
      @Justbu45 4 года назад

      She better enjoy it. They grow up quickly.

  • @thisiskayleemarie9042
    @thisiskayleemarie9042 4 года назад +31

    Can we get a video on the topic of toxic parents even when their children are adults.

  • @bakangmlangeni
    @bakangmlangeni 4 года назад +6

    Jeanie looks beautiful and Tamera looks like a bridesmaid 😍

  • @ColieJr
    @ColieJr 4 года назад +23

    I found out an ex was cheating via going in the bathroom texting.

  • @rorosung1026
    @rorosung1026 4 года назад +2

    Giving advice or solutions doesn't do much for a person until they feel like they're willing to change, and sometimes you don't have to try to fix it but just a good listener

  • @ericamlca
    @ericamlca 4 года назад +9

    Lonis Winnie the Pooh laughs are so funny 😭

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 4 года назад +16

    It's only best to give advice to loved ones when *THEY ASK YOU FOR ADVICE* think about it this way. You wouldn't take advice from someone when you never asked. Especially in the areas of dating and relationships and life in general. Especially if you think the ones giving you advice ain't doing better than you...True or correct?

  • @gabrielaferraz7401
    @gabrielaferraz7401 4 года назад +6

    I love your words Jeannie. I wish you would tell us the books you’re reading! That was so true

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 4 года назад +6

    Obsessed with this cinnamon lewk from Jeannie!!! That lip and hair combo 🤤

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 года назад +3

    I hated it so much when people would insist on posting photos with me that I didn’t like. If someone doesn’t like a photo, don’t post it. It’s that simple.

  • @xlilchowchowx
    @xlilchowchowx 4 года назад +4

    lol adrienne at 8:45 YESSSS

  • @Whereisnicolenow
    @Whereisnicolenow 4 года назад +11

    going to miss tamera so much 😭

  • @abcdefghijimin3248
    @abcdefghijimin3248 4 года назад

    i agree ! i will help of course but there’s a certain point where if you’re not willing to make improvements then i’m letting you decide when you DO want to make a decision

  • @Saffire1990
    @Saffire1990 4 года назад

    Fast forward to Tam being absolutely snatched now. What an inspiration 👏👏👏

  • @jessc99
    @jessc99 4 года назад +4

    2:53 This is life lesson!

  • @ClipzILike1
    @ClipzILike1 3 года назад

    My grandma lives with us but during the day she goes to a senior independence center, they pick them up, do activities, help them make and take them to their doctors appointment. It’s the best thing evvvvver.

  • @greciamedero2808
    @greciamedero2808 4 года назад +3

    Agree with Adrienne 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @MJ-vb7un
    @MJ-vb7un 4 года назад +60

    Adrienne wants to come off as if she’s always minding her business but actually these girls chats have shown she’s the most judgmental and nosy. She spent this entire segment judging everything..

    • @ramonaflowers7613
      @ramonaflowers7613 4 года назад +12

      I agree that A seems more nosey than a lot of the other girls but i never got the impression that she seems imposing or controlling like I used to get from Tamar

    • @MJ-vb7un
      @MJ-vb7un 4 года назад +5

      Ramona Real no me too.. but whatever type of ‘girl’ she says she is.. when she talks she’s actually the opposite.

    • @BigbossBonita
      @BigbossBonita 4 года назад +2

      Now that's is keeping it real.

  • @rosebudd7170
    @rosebudd7170 4 года назад +1

    My mother lives in adult community; community bus transport shopping, doctors apartments. Each buildings has informal dinning area, kitchen, gym, movie threater and Ballard. Form friends have the same interests; bingo, board games. Family can have small parties. Loni, smart move for your mom. They meet new people.

  • @mariad4183
    @mariad4183 27 дней назад

    Photo etiquette is everything

  • @ManiB_4
    @ManiB_4 4 года назад +9

    You guys are so amazing and hilarious

  • @Brooklyn_baddiex3
    @Brooklyn_baddiex3 4 года назад +11

    I just mind my business honestly

  • @michelleblosser6701
    @michelleblosser6701 4 года назад +2

    I try to hide in the bathroom alot but yeah my kids bust in there anyway.🤣 Now i call my bathroom breaks a potty party bc both of my kids, both cats and my dog come in there so its always a party!!

  • @jessicanarcisse673
    @jessicanarcisse673 4 года назад +2

    Opposite with my husband, I give him his space in the bathroom but baby when I’m in there he wanna come in brush his teeth, talk, brush his hair, change his clothes my gosh

  • @ScatheMinx
    @ScatheMinx 4 года назад +9

    I want to be their bestfriend :( Thank you for this. Your wisdom, humor, intelligence and confidence is empowering. I'm happy to be a subscriber. You're all beautiful and sexy as well. Stay safe.

  • @kelseystramel5349
    @kelseystramel5349 3 года назад

    I'm actually refurnishing and painting my bathroom for this. Thats my escape room.

  • @elisabetholiveira1772
    @elisabetholiveira1772 2 года назад +1

    I love you Lonnie Love y'all looks and expressions on your face are priceless you always have me in stitches

  • @rositacortez-guzman6608
    @rositacortez-guzman6608 4 года назад +1

    Omg when they made those faces 😂

  • @kartert.jefferson6759
    @kartert.jefferson6759 4 года назад +6

    I’m with with Adrianne all the way.

  • @ranitagad7071
    @ranitagad7071 2 года назад

    If I were ever in that situation I'd wait for them to ask me for my advice about the situation and then politely tell them to ask someone else because their situation is none of my business.

  • @pal8542
    @pal8542 4 года назад +2

    Only seven hours a year? In this quarantine, I knock that off in 2 days.

  • @bobbiholmes2274
    @bobbiholmes2274 3 года назад

    I won’t get involved with someone even a family member if I know they are involved with drugs. I can be invested with that. I don’t want the stress, it sounds harsh but unless you have someone in your life that’s struggling with drugs you will never know the stress of worrying about them

  • @hannahwootton6491
    @hannahwootton6491 4 года назад

    Unless someone has that rock bottom where they know and want and are tired of going round in circles a lot of times you can't do alot

  • @titibams
    @titibams 4 года назад +1

    Mum, mum, mum, ma, ma, ma.. Tamera😂😂

  • @faridahnakayemba1496
    @faridahnakayemba1496 4 года назад +6

    I go with Adrienne coz u give advice and still do the same things gal

  • @moimeself1088
    @moimeself1088 4 года назад +2

    My family is religious. I disagree with their life choices. All of them don't speak to each other, but they speak to me, the athiest! I 😅

  • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
    @ZuluGirlInNewYork Год назад

    Adrienne is so gorgeous here❤

  • @krisstinalewis6347
    @krisstinalewis6347 4 года назад +5

    i love Adrienne lml

  • @millielouise2010
    @millielouise2010 4 года назад

    I’m like this with my sister she always picks the wrong guys and the one she is with fires off first thing in the morning and comes home late at night I’ve tried to tell her he isnt good for her but it just causes us to argue

  • @LadiiLike5
    @LadiiLike5 4 года назад +2

    7 hours a year??!?!?!?
    More like 7 hours a week. Its a constant hour in the bathroom DAILY for my man lol

  • @anciboi
    @anciboi 4 года назад

    I'll smooth out a forehead...lol....that took me out!!!

  • @kd-xp6eg
    @kd-xp6eg 4 года назад +9

    Adrienne baby uon gotta speak on everything

  • @MsAmir-xw1us
    @MsAmir-xw1us 4 года назад +2

    9:13 i felt that

  • @Shannonlynn_98
    @Shannonlynn_98 3 года назад

    Praying!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @xxgizelrixx5480
    @xxgizelrixx5480 2 года назад

    loni be blowing me sometimes she can be such a hypocrite cuz she be the first one tryna get the tea n be nosy but as soon as the girls do it she gets all defensive n secretive like girl if u going do that then don’t be asking them personal questions either

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 года назад +5

    Adrienne sounds like a shady friend sometimes. I know she’s nonconfrontational, but your job as a friend to keep it real.

  • @licks3962
    @licks3962 4 года назад

    L.O.L i ALSO DO THAT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i go to the bathroom.when i want to be ALONE NO WAY I THOUGH I WAS THE ONLY 1 GREAT TO NOW I AM NOT ALONE ON THIS!!!! I was beginning to think i was Weird..

  • @SSBMA1994
    @SSBMA1994 4 года назад

    I do it at work sometimes...🤫🤫

  • @TruePathLiving
    @TruePathLiving 4 года назад +1

    How about don't ? Don't give advice unless someone asks unless their life or the life of someone else is at risk. Other people's lives are nor our buisness. Less judgement more listening please.

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 3 года назад

    I do way more then my husband. Spend time in the my bathroom.

  • @lisaharris1469
    @lisaharris1469 4 года назад

    Don't that's the best advice

  • @quailbanks4483
    @quailbanks4483 4 года назад +1

    Hilarious😂 but is this the episode today?

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 года назад +1

      No, this is an old video. The new season starts next month.

  • @moadekunle2458
    @moadekunle2458 4 года назад +2

    Second comment 🤸‍♀️

  • @Mike-ri3ub
    @Mike-ri3ub 4 года назад

    @11:10 she asked Tamera, not the audience

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 года назад +3

    I can’t believe Jeannie had never heard of diastasis recti.

  • @setarehmotazedi2804
    @setarehmotazedi2804 3 года назад

    I think Jeannie and Adrienne were talking about tamar... :0

    • @jazziesworld103
      @jazziesworld103 3 года назад +2

      They haven’t hung up with her in years

  • @ChellesShell
    @ChellesShell 2 года назад

    Men have man caves so they go there..the bathroom is the hiding place for men with no man cave..my husband doesn't hide but I do. I escape my responsibilities by hiding in the bathroom.

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 3 года назад

    But he got his man cave.

  • @bantandiaye5020
    @bantandiaye5020 4 года назад

    I like dhis girle

  • @CocoAde
    @CocoAde 4 года назад

    Loni and James aren't together anymore? Sorry if I'm late I can't keep up with all the relationships lol

    • @overjoyced
      @overjoyced 4 года назад

      This is an old girl chat, don't worry

    • @CocoAde
      @CocoAde 4 года назад

      @@overjoyced phew

  • @ariahblack6043
    @ariahblack6043 4 года назад +3

    First comment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! First view

  • @natalieraeann
    @natalieraeann 3 года назад +1

    Only 7 hours??????

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 Год назад +1

    Gm edagdwg Miss. A . is soooooo extra out of love I would tell you not to make you feel bad because I really care some people do it because they enjoy hurting your feelings sad not a friend pay attention Linda j peace

  • @heroncabo3756
    @heroncabo3756 4 года назад

    Good 😷🙏🙏🕊️🙏 abençoado por Deus 🙏🕊️🙏 e paz amor saúde amar o próximo ok 🇺🇸 respeito educação e beruti...Deus abençoe todos com muito amor...ok

  • @Victoria-gv3qh
    @Victoria-gv3qh 4 года назад +2

    Loni is the shadiest person smh. I don't know how they can handle her

    • @laragirly3522
      @laragirly3522 4 года назад +2

      Wtf?? Shes not shady. There All friends. U just don't like her. Loni is very good for this show. Stop hating. Tf?!

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh 4 года назад +3

      @@laragirly3522 she is a frenemy. always making fun of the others, rolling her eyes, attitude, she has negative vibes allll the time period.

    • @laragirly3522
      @laragirly3522 4 года назад +1

      @@Victoria-gv3qh No tf she doesn't. She's good friends with All of them. She's not a frenemy. Loni is a great co host along with those women. U are taking it so wrong. Shes good friends with All the co host. Ur looking too deep into it honey. Its really not like that. No she Doesn't has negative vibes all the time, thats just how u take it but she doesn't. Bye hunny.

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh 4 года назад +1

      @@laragirly3522 you have your opinion, i have mine. Every episode I've seen she's making fun of one of the girls or being a HATER for no reason or giving attitude or rolling her eyes if other people's opinions are different than hers - especially to Tamera. It gets OLD real fast.

  • @55556666ish
    @55556666ish 4 года назад +1

    Just a guess but mutual friend... Malika Haqq?

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 года назад

      What makes you think they were talking about her?

    • @55556666ish
      @55556666ish 4 года назад +1

      @@gaila.9852 she is a socialite and may be concerned with her image, they are also both friends with her

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 года назад

      poodle fan Gotcha!

    • @MsMak03
      @MsMak03 4 года назад +3

      You were right sis, she said it was her in another episode

  • @jeromebaxter2987
    @jeromebaxter2987 Год назад

    5:28 8:36