She looks half baked that’s what’s wrong with her makeup ! And if they can’t hire a makeup team that knows how do deal with the diverse shades of skin , as well hair type, they don’t need to be on the air.
I used to wait but when i met my husband the chemistry was so great that we had sex on our 2nd date. 3 months later he proposed n a few days ago we celebrated our 16th wedding Anniversary.
Yeah Loni's make up is often bad. But Adrienne sometimes looks bad as well. Adrienne's make-up sometimes makes her look like a white ghost. I was watching an old Vault episode and Adrienne looked terrible. These make-up artists need to do camera tests. Check out this clip to see what I mean about Adrienne. ruclips.net/video/juKEjqlkhS0/видео.html
Xavi i totally agree with you! None of these boys are worth breaking my vow to celibacy and I meannn noneeee! Idc how fine he is, where he works or what he drives I ain’t stepping out of my promise that I made with God!
@@ashLen868Except for these reasons, there is no justification given in the Bible for divorce. No grounds exist for divorce on the basis of incompatibility, lack of love, or differing career goals. Frankly, it seems impossible that two born-again Christians who are dedicated to serving Jesus Christ can find any grounds for divorce. Obviously, when a person who does not have biblical grounds for divorce remarries, he or she is technically committing adultery.
@@ashLen868 Haven't you read that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' and said, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh?" So they are no longer two but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate" (Matthew 19:4-6).
It depends on both and what you want. If you have nothing to offer except sex, don't expect anything more. It only takes a minute to discuss what you're looking for.
Believe me - it’s less likely. Unless he discovered something else about you that made you incompatible with him. However, if a guy waits that long (like actively waits and two people are actively talking and getting to know each other), it begs the question: Why did the girl not demand marriage first? If you wait 4 years, you might as well.
I value waiting for marriage. So...YES... waiting at least 90 days. And yes...guys can still dump you. But it helps filter out many jerks to save you from diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and broken hearts. I think relationships can be sacred and sex is sacred as well. It has meaning for me.
I tried waiting till marriage. Didn't but my first was someone I trusted and loved deeply. I was blessed enough to marry him and I don't regret it 1 bit. And if he can hold out on cheating when you aren't giving it up, he may be able to be disciplined enough to not cheat once married. I think it shows great discipline. Im with you!!!!! Nothing wrong with waiting til marriage. 😁😁😁
@Christian One I am going to wait until marriage. I hope I can meet the right person this year. Honestly I'm looking forward to the relationship part the rest can come later. It makes it more special to wait :)
@@amethystwolf24572 They aren't fully effective. I have many friends and relatives who had "surprise" babies even when using protection. Luckily they had chosen their mate carefully and were able to give their children two healthy loving parents by their wise life choices. Celibacy saves you from getting hormonally wrapped up in another person. Oxytocin, and other hormones are powerful and released in high doses during and after sex and for women those bonding chemicals really change a relationship much more quickly once sex is introduced. A guy could still leave but if it's before sex, it will hurt MUCH less. A friend of mine was sleeping with a guy she adored but she hadn't taken time and precautions to get checked for diseases and make sure he was clean too. She was fine with the idea of having his baby so they had unprotected sex. Instead of a baby she got hpv and genital warts. The virus led to cervical cancer. Certainly these things don't happen to everyone but it's silly to pretend they don't happen at all. In my view, keeping the commandments is a way to not only honor my creator's will but it helps me to more fully love others as myself by treating us all with respect. Sexual bonding is a SYMBOL of uniting lives in service to a greater cause than yourselves. It's a type of false promise when you have the symbol with no commitment to care for and protect the other person's soul. (Not to mention, if you believe demons or dark energy exists...having sex creates soul ties that unites you with WHATEVER junk they have hidden, and however many people they have slept with. That can bring a lot of darkness into your life. For example, chinese soldiers who were murdering innocent Tibetans insisted on bringing in prostitutes to the battle front. I believe they used the women as "stress and demon dumping grounds" to cope with all the evil they were doing daily. Many don't believe in soul ties or demons so we can keep the topic limited to disease and pregnancy protection.)
I agree with you. Self discipline. I'm for the 90 days rule, better yet marriage. Sex is spiritual and more than animalistic which this society has boiled it down to.
Awillii naafr give that artist tips! She always looks half baked, I’m tired of shows with a diverse group of people and make up artist or hair people who can’t deal with all type of hair and all shades of skin
In my opinion, I think Amara would have made such a lovely addition to the ladies of The Real. Not to keep bagging on Amanda or anything - but there is such a difference between the chemistry and the over all pleasantries that Amara brings to the table as opposed to Amanda... Amara just has this charming and refreshing approach to these topics - every little thing doesn't have to get automatically morphed into issues of race, discrimination or sexism... Not to mention she is just so GORGEOUS to watch!
I soooooo agree!!!! Amanda just doesn't fit with the vibe. I have been watching since day 1 and I don't care what anybody else thinks,.. she just rubs me the wrong way. Amara has such an approachable vibe to her. Not confrontational at all. Don't get me wrong. Amanda is very very smart and intelligent. But I am just not a fan of her in this mix. I still had no idea who she was.
I love Amara, but fans NEED to let. It. Go! Im tired of reading repetitive comment "Oh! This guest should've been the new addition, oh no, this guest, then that guest." Its like be grateful The Real is uploading more frequently already, so shut up, watch and enjoy the show.
I'm almost willing to bet regardless of who get chosen as the fourth co-host, there is always bound to be backlash no matter what. Its just a matter of time and different excuses to hate someone. We should be celebrating woman having a voice, and when they do give voice, they not gonna be perfect and always say the right things. No, they gonna be human and sometimes fall short. Who cares? I'm not perfect neither and Ill be doomed if someone try to silence me over that.
+ oxytocin which makes us feel bonded and takes a while to flush out of our system. Men's testosterone neutralizes the oxytocin they would normally get from sex. Read Patty Stangers "Become your own Matchmaker"
To moat men, having sex is like taking a pizz. Just a means to bust a nut...Any man telling you otherwise, is in the process of doing the same to you. That's fact...
Her: A real man will date for 90 days before having sex. Him: A real woman will not let a man pay a dime on her on all dates for 90 days. Her: What? Wait.... It don't work that way...
It does for me. A dude tried to take me on a date and I refused knowing he had no money. I only agreed to ride in his car to enjoy the night and him, i swear. we got to the window and he forced me to order something. i said felt guilt and weird, and i ordered small fries. an hour later he told me i did something wrong and shouldve atleast ordered a burger. i really like this guy . - i wish money didnt exist and i wish he didnt have to worry about it, but it does, and thats not his fault or mine, its just the shitty world we live in. i didnt even want him to spend money on the small fries if we are being honest. but he FORCED me after i said no TWICE. i want u 2 know real women still exist. @@jimmyfirecracker1831
@Star Spiritual Advisor Ikr..and it's so sad because Loni is a beautiful woman and she deserves a talented makeup artist that knows how to highlight and bring out her features. Girl do you see her concealer? Just tragic. And..one of the other cast members needs to pull her to the side and let her know she looks like a walking talking corpse ..if they were her real friends they wouldn't hesitate to do it.
I don't understand why her makeup is like this.... Of all the sets I've worked on TV or Movie, they have a couple of MAKEUP ARTISTS and also someone who does hair. Why would a makeup artist let her go on camera like this. Looks like my 8 year old grandson did her makeup. AWFUL.
chy, i was looking at the same thing..lol. It looks like they used a yellow setting powder when they let her bake r somethin...she looks washed out. they need to do better. she needs a new artist unless she's doing her makeup herself then in that case, she needs more practice.
Every relationship is different. There are relationships that started with sex on the first date and lasted 20+ years and then there are relationships where people waited till marriage and the relationship didnt last as long. One shoe size doesnt fit all.
Having sex earlier in the relationship doesn’t make someone a person with no self control. When I’m single I’m completely single. I mean no love life what so ever. No sex, no flirting nothing. So if I have no bf I don’t have sex or anything so if I’m a year single a year of no sex. But I have had sex early in the relationship but I can hold out
Amanda is too judgemental. It's her way or the high way (or so it seems) and it also seems the other ladies are too afraid to actually voice their opinions for fear of judgement. To me, anyway.
Truly getting to know the person before sex is awesome. I wanted my partner to also be my best friend and now I have both. A strong relationship starts with a good foundation. Doesn't have to be 90...but I have to be in a relationship before becoming intimate. Let me see what you're about, how we handle conflict, communication, etc. first. I need someone to be worth my time and effort and I'm so happy!
I made my ex wait and I thought he was a wonderful man because he wasn't pressuring me. We got married and well...it ended up being a sexless marriage. He just didn't like sex...period 😒
Omg😵thats such a shame. We wait for the perfect guy so that when we find him we can get it onnnnn lool it would suck to not even get it after. Smh. Id be hella mad at him for that. Like he shoulda told u upfront.
Not to diss Loni or anything but I do feel like it's a case of her probably trying to represent a different perspective even if it's not her own. Also, she has said that she tries out comedy material out on the show so I feel like her acting the way she does for these topics is purely for the sake of entertainment. I don't believe a person who supposedly changes their individual every three weeks or a person who multi-dates talks like this.
Most boys bounce as soon as girls (how it should be) demand a STD test for everything to get acces to their bodys. There is no 90 day rule without a std test
@@cocopuff6810 true, but still after the wait if the comment which I made does occur she will/may end up probably not feeling great, we do not know 🤷🏾♀️
Why does it always have to be one way or the other with these women? We all have different sex drives and it has been disproven that men have higher sex drives than women. It varies from person to person. How about this? DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU
That's true! It also depends on the relationship too. Sometimes you gotta just go for it with this one, but maybe with another one you gotta take your time
I know a man who waited for 10yrs!!!! After he got the Cookie, he bounced!! Trust me, go with your instinct. When you love someone for real, they will know. It goes for both genders.
I’m with Loni on this. I was intimate with my boyfriend on the first month of dating and getting to know each other, and he still stayed at the end because he wanted to be with me. I think there’s something special about that too, he didn’t just want sex and bounce, he wanted to continue to get to know me.
Lauren Delise you must don’t pay attention to my comments as a fan of TheReal Talk Show and by the way I love the full table of multicultural of beautiful women.........so you definitely misread my comment God Bless
But some guys will wait 90 days and still bounce. If he really likes you, he'll stay even if you give it up day 1. There's nothing wrong with taking your time but Loni is right fam
I mean if someone wants to hook up before the 90 days, i think they should. I think people miss out on so many opportunities because we arent vulnerable and we play games
Amara’s skin tone is so BEAUTIFUL - makeup is gorgeous. Loni's makeup is not looking right today (not sure what happened ). I don't know if my volume is loud or Adrienne is just loud. Liking this convo ladies.
There is nothing wrong with a woman waiting 90 days before having relations anymore than there is nothing wrong with a man waiting 90 days before spending money on dates and buying gifts. They both get to know one another, win win for both!
Amara is so cute! And absolutely GORGEOUS look at her beautiful skin. I would LOVE to have just an ounce of her skin tone she is absolutely beautiful inside and out!!😍😍 absolutely BEAUTIFUL 😍😍
Broadcasting your 90 day rule to the world lowkey defeats the purpose. Now he knows he has to stick around for 3 months before he can get the 🍪. It’s better to just tell him you’ll have sex when You’re ready. And wait the 90 days to get to know him. 🤷🏾♀️
The Wait by Megan Goode and her husband DeVon Franklin is an excellent read. It has me really thinking about celibacy and actually sticking with it FOR ME ... as well as just evaluating my relationship history
So, Amanda is cool, but I have not been feelin' the 5 host situation. I know a lot of people are saying they like it and other shows have 5 hosts, but this is just my opinion. I liked the 4 host better, it seemed to work well. Then I had heard some rumors a while back saying Jeanie was pregnant, and have not heard anything since. then I got to thinking maybe they got another host because Jeannie is pregnant?! Or maybe Adrienne on the DL? No one looks pregnant. They are all beautiful, pregers or not. Just trying to figure out why they are messing with a good thing. Plus, if they are bringing on a new host, I thought Tisha Campbell would have be so great!!
Lonnie steals the show, as usual. LMAO! She's right. If you are over 40, 90 days is a loooooooooooooong time. By the time you are that age you are in the second half of life. If you like someone and have chemistry, than go for it. Life is too short.
The concept is to get to know all the important stuff about a man before trusting him with all your emotions or physical stuff. Sometimes, maybe based on precedence (how they have handled their lives and relationships so far) you can decide you know them within a month. However, sometimes it takes a little longer to know someone enough to decide you want to spend the rest of your life with him.
It totally doesn't matter because when a guy wants to stay around he will AFTER he gets the prize. Otherwise they just fake it to take it and then ghost u after. It happens a lot. Might as well get it out the way and get him to want you for MORE then sex
That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard..sex isn’t used as a tool to keep a guy hanging around..the point of waiting is to establish a stable foundation, trust, and know who YOU are sleeping with
Also during that 90 days you can caught feeling s for that person, and when finally comes that night end up being bad or you dont like it... I'm with Loni
I'm waiting for marriage. Bump a 90 day. And anyone who isn't willing to wait, "boy bye." "shawty U disqualified" cause I've been there, done that, ain't doing it no mo! Ladies we are worth waiting for. It took me a long time to accept this but now that I have it's the standard and I'm not settling for anything less than my God given and defined worth. "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies." (Proverbs 31 : 10)
I agree with the 90 day rule. For relationships, friendships, business partners, jobs! Everything! Most people reveal their true intentions in that time.
Loni!!! So true!!! There's nothing wrong to be on celibacy. But once we reached certain age and clock is click (biological woman well being) you cannot wait 😆. Im forever to be embarrassed for a situation that happened to me, we meet,we talked for a while (2mo) after we meet, and then things started to get hot and curious🤦♀️ we meet up again, and sisters!!! Was a disaster. Nope! Sex was bad, bad,bad... nope! I couldn't even try again the next day. We ruined our friendship, I couldn't even face him. I just waited for his safe arrival to his home and disconnect. I became extremely busy, work,house, child... enough. Chao👋 boo!
Agree with Loni on this. Age makes a difference, however even older women fall into the trap of getting carried away with being in lust and not seeing the true nature of the guy until he starts to ghost them. Whatever age you are sex can cloud the issue for many women as they then can't clearly get to know the guy without sex getting in the way. Most men can't hide their true nature for 3 months - especially if you spend a lot of time with them in different circumstances. But protecting your body is also about setting standards to a man you see as potential and taking time to get to know the real him. But women also need to spend as much time protecting their heart and not allowing themselves to get drawn in so quickly to a man who hasn't shown his qualities. Personally I don't want to wait more than a few months as at my age I don't have time to mess about. Also the respect and consideration a man gives a women during intimacy also says a lot about what kind of man he really is. Its disappointing to wait a long time and then find he's a selfish lover. Makes you feel that you've wasted time.
Amara’s skin tone is unreal, she’s gorgeous!!!
Gaby Irigoyen I thought I was the only one thinking that!! Her complexion is sooooooo gorgeous! 😍
samantha simon You’re so bitter.
@samantha simon 😜😂😂😂😂😂wat a hater aww u hate yrself so u wanna project u ugly inside n out creature
samantha simon ok Samantha. Sorry, that no one gives you any compliments.
Her complextion is so beautiful what a beautiful woman
Amara is GORGEOUS 😍 Sidebar: They need to fire Loni’s makeup artist ASAP every so often they do her like this 😒
@Roena Skates the powder under her eyes is too light again
This is old guys , we can tell by Loni’s makeup we discussed this 😂
She looks half baked that’s what’s wrong with her makeup ! And if they can’t hire a makeup team that knows how do deal with the diverse shades of skin , as well hair type, they don’t need to be on the air.
How do none of the other girls say something...?
Amara's dark beauty though. That skin girrrllll!! #FLAWLESS
Not dark beauty... jus Beauty
@@xoxo9354 lol thanks for the correction.
Anne Marie Amen!
Yeah she’s stunning! 😍🙌🏻
I used to wait but when i met my husband the chemistry was so great that we had sex on our 2nd date. 3 months later he proposed n a few days ago we celebrated our 16th wedding Anniversary.
Sofie Rawls when you know, you know! Congratulations!!!
Wow I got goosebumps. Girl you are lucky. Congrats
Nice :)
Aw that's awesome, congratulations
Beautiful❤❤ soulmates connections can happen hella quick boo
Now whoever did that concealer on Loni was dead wrong
It drives me crazy. But she should say something, ugh.
They always do her wrong makeup, wigs I don’t pay attention to outfits there’s only a few occasions where her entire outfit is on point
Even with the wig she Giving Michael Jackson vibes LMAOOO
Toni Jay SIS!!!!! 😩
Yeah Loni's make up is often bad. But Adrienne sometimes looks bad as well. Adrienne's make-up sometimes makes her look like a white ghost. I was watching an old Vault episode and Adrienne looked terrible. These make-up artists need to do camera tests. Check out this clip to see what I mean about Adrienne.
ruclips.net/video/juKEjqlkhS0/видео.html
90 days 90 months 90 years I ain’t givin it up till marriage lol. (Hard)
Xavi i totally agree with you! None of these boys are worth breaking my vow to celibacy and I meannn noneeee! Idc how fine he is, where he works or what he drives I ain’t stepping out of my promise that I made with God!
@@ashLen868 you know divorce is a sin
brianroyal1 I honestly didn’t know that😩😔 can you tell me where in the Bible says that?
@@ashLen868Except for these reasons, there is no justification given in the Bible for divorce. No grounds exist for divorce on the basis of incompatibility, lack of love, or differing career goals. Frankly, it seems impossible that two born-again Christians who are dedicated to serving Jesus Christ can find any grounds for divorce.
Obviously, when a person who does not have biblical grounds for divorce remarries, he or she is technically committing adultery.
@@ashLen868 Haven't you read that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' and said, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh?" So they are no longer two but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate" (Matthew 19:4-6).
If the dude is gonna leave after getting the cookie, does it really matter how long you wait? It depends on the guy at the end of the day.
It depends on both and what you want. If you have nothing to offer except sex, don't expect anything more.
It only takes a minute to discuss what you're looking for.
Seems like women should focus on selecting higher quality men!!!
So true
Believe me - it’s less likely. Unless he discovered something else about you that made you incompatible with him. However, if a guy waits that long (like actively waits and two people are actively talking and getting to know each other), it begs the question: Why did the girl not demand marriage first? If you wait 4 years, you might as well.
Definitely depends on the guy
I value waiting for marriage. So...YES... waiting at least 90 days.
And yes...guys can still dump you. But it helps filter out many jerks to save you from diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and broken hearts.
I think relationships can be sacred and sex is sacred as well. It has meaning for me.
I tried waiting till marriage. Didn't but my first was someone I trusted and loved deeply. I was blessed enough to marry him and I don't regret it 1 bit. And if he can hold out on cheating when you aren't giving it up, he may be able to be disciplined enough to not cheat once married. I think it shows great discipline. Im with you!!!!! Nothing wrong with waiting til marriage. 😁😁😁
@Christian One I am going to wait until marriage. I hope I can meet the right person this year. Honestly I'm looking forward to the relationship part the rest can come later. It makes it more special to wait :)
I mean, condoms protect you from diseases and unwanted pregnancy just fine. And celibacy is no protection from a broken heart.
@@amethystwolf24572 They aren't fully effective. I have many friends and relatives who had "surprise" babies even when using protection. Luckily they had chosen their mate carefully and were able to give their children two healthy loving parents by their wise life choices. Celibacy saves you from getting hormonally wrapped up in another person. Oxytocin, and other hormones are powerful and released in high doses during and after sex and for women those bonding chemicals really change a relationship much more quickly once sex is introduced. A guy could still leave but if it's before sex, it will hurt MUCH less. A friend of mine was sleeping with a guy she adored but she hadn't taken time and precautions to get checked for diseases and make sure he was clean too. She was fine with the idea of having his baby so they had unprotected sex. Instead of a baby she got hpv and genital warts. The virus led to cervical cancer.
Certainly these things don't happen to everyone but it's silly to pretend they don't happen at all. In my view, keeping the commandments is a way to not only honor my creator's will but it helps me to more fully love others as myself by treating us all with respect. Sexual bonding is a SYMBOL of uniting lives in service to a greater cause than yourselves. It's a type of false promise when you have the symbol with no commitment to care for and protect the other person's soul. (Not to mention, if you believe demons or dark energy exists...having sex creates soul ties that unites you with WHATEVER junk they have hidden, and however many people they have slept with. That can bring a lot of darkness into your life. For example, chinese soldiers who were murdering innocent Tibetans insisted on bringing in prostitutes to the battle front. I believe they used the women as "stress and demon dumping grounds" to cope with all the evil they were doing daily. Many don't believe in soul ties or demons so we can keep the topic limited to disease and pregnancy protection.)
I agree with you. Self discipline. I'm for the 90 days rule, better yet marriage. Sex is spiritual and more than animalistic which this society has boiled it down to.
Chile I can barely keep them for 30 days without them insinuating about sex 🙄
@Andrea Gomez wow eaither is you hang with wrong people or eaither your body language is something off
My hubbs an i waited 4 months and weve been together almost a decade. May 8th will be 10 years. Find the right dude
You can dry hump. Ain’t no penetration......I’m just saying.
@@iacobus4227 🤣
Huh? 🙄
I love Amara's energy
Plus shes hella beautiful too, I cant stop staring at her
Right! She has a beautiful aura 🙌🏻
If someone on the show is reading this and knows who did Amara’s makeup, 1) give them a raise 2) ask them what eyeshadow(s) they used and let me know
Allison L loooooooool! I agree though. It’s a glitter top on her look at peony/pink (fuchsia type) glitters
Maybe they can talk to Loni’s makeup artist lol
Awillii naafr give that artist tips! She always looks half baked, I’m tired of shows with a diverse group of people and make up artist or hair people who can’t deal with all type of hair and all shades of skin
Allison L the glitter reminds me of the Tati beauty palette
@@Awillii fr😂
In my opinion, I think Amara would have made such a lovely addition to the ladies of The Real. Not to keep bagging on Amanda or anything - but there is such a difference between the chemistry and the over all pleasantries that Amara brings to the table as opposed to Amanda... Amara just has this charming and refreshing approach to these topics - every little thing doesn't have to get automatically morphed into issues of race, discrimination or sexism... Not to mention she is just so GORGEOUS to watch!
I soooooo agree!!!! Amanda just doesn't fit with the vibe. I have been watching since day 1 and I don't care what anybody else thinks,.. she just rubs me the wrong way. Amara has such an approachable vibe to her. Not confrontational at all. Don't get me wrong. Amanda is very very smart and intelligent. But I am just not a fan of her in this mix. I still had no idea who she was.
Of course she doesn't fit. After all she doesn't go out of her way to make all of you comfortable, she's about keeping it real.
@@amazingperson326 not saying she doesn't keep it real.
I love Amara, but fans NEED to let. It. Go!
Im tired of reading repetitive comment "Oh! This guest should've been the new addition, oh no, this guest, then that guest."
Its like be grateful The Real is uploading more frequently already, so shut up, watch and enjoy the show.
I'm almost willing to bet regardless of who get chosen as the fourth co-host, there is always bound to be backlash no matter what. Its just a matter of time and different excuses to hate someone.
We should be celebrating woman having a voice, and when they do give voice, they not gonna be perfect and always say the right things. No, they gonna be human and sometimes fall short. Who cares? I'm not perfect neither and Ill be doomed if someone try to silence me over that.
As much as we try to act like sex means nothing-it does. That's like the ultimate form of energy transference.
Exactly!! I feel like Amara (and maybe the other ladies) gets that but Loni ain't about that, haha
right !
Ultimate? Tell that to my vibrator.
+ oxytocin which makes us feel bonded and takes a while to flush out of our system. Men's testosterone neutralizes the oxytocin they would normally get from sex. Read Patty Stangers "Become your own Matchmaker"
To moat men, having sex is like taking a pizz. Just a means to bust a nut...Any man telling you otherwise, is in the process of doing the same to you. That's fact...
I wanted Amara to be the fifth member. Amanda just keeps interrupting the other hosts ugh
She’s like a real life Barbie doll 😍
Men can wait. Society has taught them that they can’t and don’t have to.
Women can wait before a man spends his money on her for dates. They will wait 90 days also, so you two can really get to know one another.
Her: A real man will date for 90 days before having sex.
Him: A real woman will not let a man pay a dime on her on all dates for 90 days.
Her: What? Wait.... It don't work that way...
It does for me. A dude tried to take me on a date and I refused knowing he had no money. I only agreed to ride in his car to enjoy the night and him, i swear. we got to the window and he forced me to order something. i said felt guilt and weird, and i ordered small fries. an hour later he told me i did something wrong and shouldve atleast ordered a burger. i really like this guy . - i wish money didnt exist and i wish he didnt have to worry about it, but it does, and thats not his fault or mine, its just the shitty world we live in. i didnt even want him to spend money on the small fries if we are being honest. but he FORCED me after i said no TWICE. i want u 2 know real women still exist. @@jimmyfirecracker1831
Look at that hair! 😍
And her skin!!!!
Who TF is doing Loni's makeup? Its soo bad..🙅♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@Star Spiritual Advisor Ikr..and it's so sad because Loni is a beautiful woman and she deserves a talented makeup artist that knows how to highlight and bring out her features. Girl do you see her concealer? Just tragic. And..one of the other cast members needs to pull her to the side and let her know she looks like a walking talking corpse ..if they were her real friends they wouldn't hesitate to do it.
I don't understand why her makeup is like this.... Of all the sets I've worked on TV or Movie, they have a couple of MAKEUP ARTISTS and also someone who does hair. Why would a makeup artist let her go on camera like this. Looks like my 8 year old grandson did her makeup. AWFUL.
Love you lol 😂
Loni's makeup artist did her dirty. Not sure if that's concealer or highlight. But the make up artist was dead wrong.
chy, i was looking at the same thing..lol. It looks like they used a yellow setting powder when they let her bake r somethin...she looks washed out. they need to do better. she needs a new artist unless she's doing her makeup herself then in that case, she needs more practice.
Her makeup artist BEEN doing her dirty. You can definitely tell when she switches up her mua for that day!
Cici_Cera yeah. Cuz it’s like we see what the attempt was but it’s not blended in...or just the wrong color.
mxdchix4lyfe yeah. Well whoever this is....needsta be fired. Idc if they tryna give someone a chance. You can’t be on live tv looking crazy.
Medine Charles yes ma’am. We get the attempt they just need to work a little harder next time.
The older you get the MORE discipline you should be because you have more to loose.
her SKIN 😧 and her teeth!! 😍 WOW
Every one here is so pretty
Every relationship is different. There are relationships that started with sex on the first date and lasted 20+ years and then there are relationships where people waited till marriage and the relationship didnt last as long. One shoe size doesnt fit all.
I'm with you! There are no guarantees with these rules. It's so much worse when you wait so long only for the relationship to fail.
very true
It depends on the individual
If you cannot hold out for 90 days +, then you obviously don’t have a lot of self control. This is why cheating is so common... no self control
I can. I don’t want to. Not sure how that makes someone a cheater
Preach!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Having sex earlier in the relationship doesn’t make someone a person with no self control. When I’m single I’m completely single. I mean no love life what so ever. No sex, no flirting nothing. So if I have no bf I don’t have sex or anything so if I’m a year single a year of no sex. But I have had sex early in the relationship but I can hold out
So hope you can accept my 90day rule of not paying for dates and all that then because I want to see if you can wait
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In a perfect world, Amara would’ve been the 5th cohost 👏🏿 but I appreciate Amanda forcing the girls out of their PC opinions, it’s refreshing
she's not really she's just giving them eye rolls
Tameri Harding that would’ve been awesome omg
Amanda is too judgemental. It's her way or the high way (or so it seems) and it also seems the other ladies are too afraid to actually voice their opinions for fear of judgement. To me, anyway.
Karma comes in many forms. A man duh left/fired.
I think loni overcompensates about sexual topics. *huge eye roll* Amara looks amazing as always
Loni's facial expressions while Amara was talking though....
Yeah, looks like she was being kind of disrespectful to the guest opinion.
Truly getting to know the person before sex is awesome. I wanted my partner to also be my best friend and now I have both. A strong relationship starts with a good foundation. Doesn't have to be 90...but I have to be in a relationship before becoming intimate. Let me see what you're about, how we handle conflict, communication, etc. first. I need someone to be worth my time and effort and I'm so happy!
I made my ex wait and I thought he was a wonderful man because he wasn't pressuring me.
We got married and well...it ended up being a sexless marriage.
He just didn't like sex...period
😒
He is probably gay
🤣😂🤣😂
Omg😵thats such a shame. We wait for the perfect guy so that when we find him we can get it onnnnn lool it would suck to not even get it after. Smh. Id be hella mad at him for that. Like he shoulda told u upfront.
He’s probably gay sis
i do wonder how many men Loni has really been with. is she coy because its so few or too many to count lol
It's Friday she makes up half her stories.
Not to diss Loni or anything but I do feel like it's a case of her probably trying to represent a different perspective even if it's not her own. Also, she has said that she tries out comedy material out on the show so I feel like her acting the way she does for these topics is purely for the sake of entertainment. I don't believe a person who supposedly changes their individual every three weeks or a person who multi-dates talks like this.
It's Friday exaggeration
She's exaggerating hard
Too many to count
I think Loni's make up artist needs 90 days of suspension for putting on a concealer too light on her. 😬
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Yoooooooooo
Most boys bounce as soon as girls (how it should be) demand a STD test for everything to get acces to their bodys. There is no 90 day rule without a std test
But after 90 days he could still leave. Within the 90 days he could be acting 🤷🏾♀️
da.nicaaa EXACTLY💯
its not about him its about her choosing what she wants for her body
@@BATOOLESK yes and whatever she chooses good for her, it doesn't change anything I've said.
Honestly it's more about how u feel if u give it up 9 days or 90 days. If u are ok with yourself.
@@cocopuff6810 true, but still after the wait if the comment which I made does occur she will/may end up probably not feeling great, we do not know 🤷🏾♀️
amara to be fifth host, shes so gorgeous a d her energy serms much more positive
Raya K exactly Amanda has negative energy all over her
I'm sorry but whoever did Lonnie makeup should be having the talk to. Don't let our girl be on television like that
Ummm 90 days isn't a lot, I hope females know this. Furthermore if the man isnt loyal 90 days won't make him loyal.
Why does it always have to be one way or the other with these women?
We all have different sex drives and it has been disproven that men have higher sex drives than women. It varies from person to person.
How about this? DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU
Exactly
That's true! It also depends on the relationship too. Sometimes you gotta just go for it with this one, but maybe with another one you gotta take your time
Loni’s makeup artist didn’t have time to properly blend her concealer? Got sis on TV looking crazy.
Amara:I wish I would've waited
Loni: you'll be born again 😂
Loving Adrienne’s outfit !!!!!!!! On point !!
I love the fashion even more than the topics😍
Look at all the women were quiet when she said after they get the cookie they leave they all know it’s true lol
Yep lol
thats why i waiting until marriage haha
@Anna Stella nah i did that and iam happily married now for 4 years , its about my standards too , not about him
@Anna Stella sorry for not clarifying that , yes he was .
I know a man who waited for 10yrs!!!!
After he got the Cookie, he bounced!! Trust me, go with your instinct. When you love someone for real, they will know. It goes for both genders.
10 years???? There had to be red flags
He wasn’t waiting he was getting some side and I don’t blame him one bit
I’m with Loni on this. I was intimate with my boyfriend on the first month of dating and getting to know each other, and he still stayed at the end because he wanted to be with me. I think there’s something special about that too, he didn’t just want sex and bounce, he wanted to continue to get to know me.
Is it me or has the energy at the table changed compared to recent clips?
Rochelle Smith how so?
Felt like they were having more fun here. Heavy topics are necessary too of course but it's like there's a cloud over it now.
Sara Elisabeth yess... thiss
@@saraelisabeth9038 100% agree with you
Yes a lot and i hate it
Tamara n Adrienne are just beautiful ....Tamara is loving her gorgeous because she pays close attention to the monitor in front of her
Lol you focus on the light skin women being gorgeous when there’s a beautiful chocolate sister who’s the most beautiful of them all.
Lauren Delise you must don’t pay attention to my comments as a fan of TheReal Talk Show and by the way I love the full table of multicultural of beautiful women.........so you definitely misread my comment
God Bless
I just purchased Israel's album with Reckless Love on it--I forgot how much I LOVE that song!!!!
Lonnie: I be mad! 🤣
When you said this I lol’d because I know what you mean!! 😭
But some guys will wait 90 days and still bounce. If he really likes you, he'll stay even if you give it up day 1. There's nothing wrong with taking your time but Loni is right fam
These women don’t know how men think they have it all wrong
You should explain
I mean if someone wants to hook up before the 90 days, i think they should. I think people miss out on so many opportunities because we arent vulnerable and we play games
Amara’s skin tone is so BEAUTIFUL - makeup is gorgeous. Loni's makeup is not looking right today (not sure what happened ). I don't know if my volume is loud or Adrienne is just loud. Liking this convo ladies.
Tamara: nothing like you won’t do ANYTHING
Asexuals: ...
LOOOL ROSA WHAT ARE YOU SAYING????
She is beautiful!! The NAILS!
There is nothing wrong with a woman waiting 90 days before having relations anymore than there is nothing wrong with a man waiting 90 days before spending money on dates and buying gifts. They both get to know one another, win win for both!
O my goodness. I swear Amara is the most goregeous black woman Ive seen. Her super dark glistening skin is be-you-ti-full
Amara is so cute! And absolutely GORGEOUS look at her beautiful skin. I would LOVE to have just an ounce of her skin tone she is absolutely beautiful inside and out!!😍😍 absolutely BEAUTIFUL 😍😍
Amara is soooo beautiful. Can't say it enough 😭😍💕
-Was that a makeup on your face loni ?😬😬
- yes girl, why ?
-beaucoup it' looks like mess up ..😂😂😂
Broadcasting your 90 day rule to the world lowkey defeats the purpose. Now he knows he has to stick around for 3 months before he can get the 🍪. It’s better to just tell him you’ll have sex when You’re ready. And wait the 90 days to get to know him. 🤷🏾♀️
if a guy waits 90 day s just to get a cookie and dissapear he is a psycho xD
A man. Will tell you he isn’t doing anything, but what he does in his own time you wouldn’t know.
Do they have long convos like this anymore? Asking because I don’t watch them on tv only on RUclips.
The Wait by Megan Goode and her husband DeVon Franklin is an excellent read. It has me really thinking about celibacy and actually sticking with it FOR ME ... as well as just evaluating my relationship history
Sadly they’re now breaking up...
Who else here is still virgin, and waiting till marriage?
Farrah Stewart I’m not even necessarily waiting for marriage...I just wanna find someone I like😂🤣😭.
Yes I’m 27 too . And so proud of myself ❤️💪🏾
Just turned 22 here and virgin. I'm not gonna lie it's not easy but I'd rather be judged badly by people than by God
Me
27year old virgin
So, Amanda is cool, but I have not been feelin' the 5 host situation. I know a lot of people are saying they like it and other shows have 5 hosts, but this is just my opinion. I liked the 4 host better, it seemed to work well. Then I had heard some rumors a while back saying Jeanie was pregnant, and have not heard anything since. then I got to thinking maybe they got another host because Jeannie is pregnant?! Or maybe Adrienne on the DL? No one looks pregnant. They are all beautiful, pregers or not. Just trying to figure out why they are messing with a good thing. Plus, if they are bringing on a new host, I thought Tisha Campbell would have be so great!!
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I kind of agree. I think they are switching it up to keep things "interesting" but i like the 4 host chemistry the best
I thought Jeanie didn’t want kids
Yes! 90 minutes with Loni, Yes! I will be coming back for the whole Cookie 🍪 Jar.
Is Adrienne shouting or my earphones are loud
I thought it was just me.
Cindy Audrey she always shouting lmao
I’m laughing at Adrienne going “it happens” like we ain’t watch it happen with her lol
Lonnie steals the show, as usual. LMAO! She's right. If you are over 40, 90 days is a loooooooooooooong time. By the time you are that age you are in the second half of life. If you like someone and have chemistry, than go for it. Life is too short.
LMAO when Ade said rubber omg OTL
Adrienne ALWAYS looks good. Amara, gorgeous.
13:32....that part🥲, yeah loni I feel you.
Is the moment you wanna cry cause you wasted your time.
The concept is to get to know all the important stuff about a man before trusting him with all your emotions or physical stuff. Sometimes, maybe based on precedence (how they have handled their lives and relationships so far) you can decide you know them within a month. However, sometimes it takes a little longer to know someone enough to decide you want to spend the rest of your life with him.
That banana powder on loni's face!!!
It totally doesn't matter because when a guy wants to stay around he will AFTER he gets the prize. Otherwise they just fake it to take it and then ghost u after. It happens a lot. Might as well get it out the way and get him to want you for MORE then sex
Good point
Right!
That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard..sex isn’t used as a tool to keep a guy hanging around..the point of waiting is to establish a stable foundation, trust, and know who YOU are sleeping with
Would it be ok if a man said I want to get to know you over the phone and walking and talking for 90 days?
Also during that 90 days you can caught feeling s for that person, and when finally comes that night end up being bad or you dont like it... I'm with Loni
Exactly
then u knew him long enough and can dump him ... it doesnt have to be one way or the other whatever works for u
Thank you amara for being a real one, woman should wait
Lonnie is absolutely hysterical.
❤❤❤ *"Rhubarbe" it's very colorful and kinda sour, great on pies* we need more Latina guests though
I wish I could be on the show I love u guys I watch the real everyday
Amara is freaking stunning!!
1:02 jeanies laugh..
Valerie Castro i can’t stand it she does it all the time 😂💖
Valerie Castro woody woodpecker
Omg Amara is so beautiful her skin is 😍😍😍😍😍and that hair 😍😍😍😍😍
Loni was sipping her cocktail
Are we gonna ignore that Adrienne isn’t drinking alcohol.... is she pregnant 🤯🤩🤩🤩🤩
No this is old
These ladies look so good in this video❤️❤️❤️
@9:30
That dichotomy, or the belief in it, is PRECISELY example of why so many people fail--in "romance" specifically, and in life generally.
I agree with Adrienne.
I'm waiting for marriage. Bump a 90 day. And anyone who isn't willing to wait, "boy bye." "shawty U disqualified" cause I've been there, done that, ain't doing it no mo! Ladies we are worth waiting for. It took me a long time to accept this but now that I have it's the standard and I'm not settling for anything less than my God given and defined worth.
"Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies."
(Proverbs 31 : 10)
Mam you aint a virgin so stop the proverbs.
I agree with the 90 day rule. For relationships, friendships, business partners, jobs! Everything! Most people reveal their true intentions in that time.
They can still go after the 90 days are over with.
Am I one of the only ones left who believes in waiting until marriage?
March?! 😄 January always drags.
oh my god amara is FLAWLESS 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Loni!!! So true!!! There's nothing wrong to be on celibacy. But once we reached certain age and clock is click (biological woman well being) you cannot wait 😆. Im forever to be embarrassed for a situation that happened to me, we meet,we talked for a while (2mo) after we meet, and then things started to get hot and curious🤦♀️ we meet up again, and sisters!!! Was a disaster. Nope! Sex was bad, bad,bad... nope! I couldn't even try again the next day. We ruined our friendship, I couldn't even face him. I just waited for his safe arrival to his home and disconnect. I became extremely busy, work,house, child... enough. Chao👋 boo!
I’m a 26 yr old virgin and I’m waiting until marriage... I am getting married next Saturday 😬 worth it
Congratulations😭😭😭
😇 Thank you!! Bless you! And be safe ✌️
DEEPENS ON THE PERSON YOU'RE DATING!
I only know Amara La Negra from MQB in Univision channel I had no idea she speaks English very well and that she does music 🎶 like wow I’m Proud 👏🏻
Agree with Loni on this. Age makes a difference, however even older women fall into the trap of getting carried away with being in lust and not seeing the true nature of the guy until he starts to ghost them. Whatever age you are sex can cloud the issue for many women as they then can't clearly get to know the guy without sex getting in the way. Most men can't hide their true nature for 3 months - especially if you spend a lot of time with them in different circumstances. But protecting your body is also about setting standards to a man you see as potential and taking time to get to know the real him. But women also need to spend as much time protecting their heart and not allowing themselves to get drawn in so quickly to a man who hasn't shown his qualities. Personally I don't want to wait more than a few months as at my age I don't have time to mess about. Also the respect and consideration a man gives a women during intimacy also says a lot about what kind of man he really is. Its disappointing to wait a long time and then find he's a selfish lover. Makes you feel that you've wasted time.