GIRL CHAT VAULT: A Backup Man

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • Real fam, are you in a relationship but have a backup man ready in case things don’t work out?

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  • @poeticjustice8420
    @poeticjustice8420 4 года назад +335

    I actually like when they have a Male added to the girl chat cause its surprisingly relaxing and they just fit

    • @jessalvarez
      @jessalvarez 4 года назад +13

      i wish they had a male every week instead of the new lady not that im being rude its just better and we get the male perspective aswell and like you said lol refreshing and intresting 🤗😊😋🤩

    • @Noob-zi2ce
      @Noob-zi2ce 4 года назад +4

      I'm a man, and I'll spill the truth right here. You'll never get a male perspective on this kind of show, if you do, the show won't last.

  • @nicoleavery7238
    @nicoleavery7238 4 года назад +450

    I love how he calls out the audience for being mindless followers clapping for anything or whenever anyone else claps like robots instead of being genuine lol

    • @AC-87
      @AC-87 4 года назад +13

      I know!! That was great!!

    • @enderqueen4157
      @enderqueen4157 4 года назад +8

      I know right! I'm glad someone pointed it out xD

    • @rashida8576
      @rashida8576 4 года назад +28

      If you’ve ever been to a show taping then you know there’s always a audience coordinator who signals for people to clap and cheer.
      Especially when there’s a guest who is coming out who will be telling jokes. They tell you to be nice and laugh even when the joke isn’t that funny.
      I’ve been to a taping for this show and this has been the most real reactions without the need of an audience coordinator.

    • @atomknight8361
      @atomknight8361 4 года назад

      every studio audience ever literal seels

    • @EssenceNicoleSmith
      @EssenceNicoleSmith 4 года назад

      Save

  • @mashii.i3323
    @mashii.i3323 4 года назад +641

    People need to know that girl chat vault means it’s old

    • @fatimacoulibaly8773
      @fatimacoulibaly8773 4 года назад +28

      Mashii.i How am I just learning this 😭 Thxs

    • @liviapope8290
      @liviapope8290 4 года назад +10

      T H A N K Y O U 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂 how long they been doing this ain’t they still don’t know

    • @ilovelife3328
      @ilovelife3328 4 года назад +7

      Exactly! I don't mind because I can't watch the show in real time.

    • @Mon-kv8tv
      @Mon-kv8tv 4 года назад

      when and where is the show on tv? like i cant ever find it on tv or any tv channel apps

    • @stargazierlily0670
      @stargazierlily0670 4 года назад

      Mashii.i got yeh

  • @IJALIPSTV
    @IJALIPSTV 4 года назад +159

    Not all men like chasing women, some people don't play games, so be careful with that alternative fact ! You might lose a good man in the process.

    • @pwrhitterp
      @pwrhitterp 4 года назад +21

      Big facts ... I rather chase money

    • @chriss6531
      @chriss6531 4 года назад +13

      right, Adrienne was doing so much talking from the male perspective when they have an actual man on the panel.

    • @PossiblyAzrael
      @PossiblyAzrael 4 года назад +10

      If she had a backup, I wouldn’t see her as an investment at that point.

    • @matthewrose8002
      @matthewrose8002 3 года назад +1

      Men don't usually want to chase women. Women get attraction from attention from men. Chasing women fills this attention need for women. It does nothing for men.

    • @constantnipples2428
      @constantnipples2428 2 года назад

      I prefer men that haunt for what they want thou

  • @NPORT1981
    @NPORT1981 4 года назад +71

    I love how their logic is "They must not be treated right if they have a backup plan" or how about they are bad partners.

  • @scorpioskates3168
    @scorpioskates3168 4 года назад +193

    If a Woman needs a Back Up Man, then she is Single like me!

    • @ilovelife3328
      @ilovelife3328 4 года назад +7

      Basically! In reality, you aren't truly partnered up with someone until marriage. A lot of people casually date multiple people at once these days and polyamory has become a thing with Gen Z. Unfortunately, even marriage isn't even sacred anymore.

  • @riverasheba807
    @riverasheba807 4 года назад +251

    I’m very addicted to my husband. I don’t have back up man.

    • @angelicac2187
      @angelicac2187 4 года назад +8

      Maybe your husband was your back up man?

    • @riverasheba807
      @riverasheba807 4 года назад +2

      @@angelicac2187 You can say that !!!!

    • @riverasheba807
      @riverasheba807 4 года назад +6

      Never lose sleep over the small stuff FYI we always together. He love me as well I love him. He never cheated on me. He is a faithful husband. Most of all love his albino self

    • @riverasheba807
      @riverasheba807 4 года назад

      Never lose sleep over the small stuff w/e

    • @armandohenriquez2103
      @armandohenriquez2103 4 года назад

      Liar

  • @toomokoisvip
    @toomokoisvip 4 года назад +166

    2:51 when Jeannie realised this segment was meant for her to start some drama 😅

  • @o.o1015
    @o.o1015 4 года назад +20

    These shows are Red pilling guys everyday haha. She is never yours........just yours right now. Thanks ladies haha

  • @lisaking4160
    @lisaking4160 2 года назад +3

    Adrienne is always talking about some people this some people that meanwhile it’s her 😂

  • @ntbarnes656
    @ntbarnes656 4 года назад +192

    He is a good mix on the show. I liked how he fit in with the ladies.

  • @oppnow
    @oppnow 4 года назад +252

    I'm weak af..no one clapped for him when they introduced him.

    • @Pinkjayy
      @Pinkjayy 4 года назад +11

      K Day'LaShaun yes they did . Look at it again

    • @SamMKKK
      @SamMKKK 4 года назад +1

      They said, “WHO?” 😭

  • @susanw.2456
    @susanw.2456 4 года назад +107

    That's terrible - falls into the "cheating realm" it's not cool at all. I'm with Adrrien on this

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 4 года назад +21

      Yes but its only bad when men are involved, If women are doing shady things we celebrate it and pretend its OK.

    • @susanw.2456
      @susanw.2456 4 года назад +9

      @@tubester4567 it's terrible when men do it! I blame them for starting it really

    • @aann7132
      @aann7132 4 года назад +10

      Susan W. My tax return says SINGLE! Unless I’m off the market 100%, I will be looking out for me.

    • @Mon-kv8tv
      @Mon-kv8tv 4 года назад +3

      Asia A lmaoooo girll yessss

    • @the_guy_on_the_internet5108
      @the_guy_on_the_internet5108 3 года назад +1

      @@susanw.2456 🖕🏻

  • @fatimatunkara2007
    @fatimatunkara2007 4 года назад +42

    1:28 tho LMFAOOOO "Trust me Jeannie u have a bunch of them"

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 года назад

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @angelicac2187
      @angelicac2187 4 года назад +1

      What about Jennie’s ex-husband. Imagine that, I don’t remember them divorcing that long ago and he remarried a “friend” quite quickly after the divorce🤔🤔🤔

  • @thrilla72
    @thrilla72 4 года назад +46

    Adrienne showing her true colours. No man should marry such a woman. 'I'm going to date my ex to get back at you, because I know it'll hurt.'

    • @agentsmith8568
      @agentsmith8568 4 года назад +5

      Another underated comment. You need more likes sir

  • @IntrovertidoTieneFlow
    @IntrovertidoTieneFlow 4 года назад +45

    They have back up plans because they can't be alone. A lot of women are needy, and insecure.

    • @lll1146
      @lll1146 3 года назад +5

      This is true 😂 we all want attention lol so a backup plan is just in case not saying it’s right but it is what it is

    • @kattodoggo3868
      @kattodoggo3868 3 года назад +3

      I must agree. It's sad actually.

    • @lll1146
      @lll1146 3 года назад +1

      @@kattodoggo3868 love the honesty! 🤍gotta keep it real

    • @emayan06
      @emayan06 2 года назад

      Men too lol a lot of them are needy and insecure. So many people like that.

    • @mitcheltillman2461
      @mitcheltillman2461 2 года назад

      @@emayan06 most men aren’t actually like this we likely are just alone when broken up with some men but very small amount

  • @scorpioskates3168
    @scorpioskates3168 4 года назад +25

    My Man's Jesus and he don't need any man's Backup! That is why I can afford to be picky! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @leahortiz6045
    @leahortiz6045 4 года назад +24

    Steve Harvey said if you make a plan b you’re going to need it

  • @Dayamyg
    @Dayamyg 4 года назад +71

    Ahaha can't relate to that! I don't even have a man imagine a backup... 😂✋

  • @mj_9450
    @mj_9450 3 года назад +18

    Loni always looking after the guest co-hosts, making sure they're comfortable... you're great Loni Love

  • @MasonPerry7
    @MasonPerry7 4 года назад +95

    Why not just go straight to your plan B and call it a day.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 года назад +84

    Backup Man?!?! Ain’t that just a lowkey side dude... even though he’s technically not on the side... but he’s in the back of that woman’s mind and she already has tricks up on her sleeve on what to do just in case things go wrong... she got him on SPEED DIAL ! I know people like that... as soon as relationships are on a break they’re like “ Tom pick me up tomorrow at 8” 😂

  • @britneyaguirre4088
    @britneyaguirre4088 4 года назад +21

    My husband is my plan A-Z 💯

  • @Besh-ls5ee
    @Besh-ls5ee 4 года назад +42

    Multidate??
    It's a bloody jungle out there! Hard to find one descent guy to go on a date with.🤧😭

  • @sujincho1742
    @sujincho1742 4 года назад +9

    Dang I loved this girl chat!!! Love hearing the man's point of view with a lot of the topics. You guys should get more male guest hosts!!

  • @ebbyc1817
    @ebbyc1817 4 года назад +21

    Every woman has a back-up man, whether they know it or not.
    Truth! 😊

    • @ebbyc1817
      @ebbyc1817 4 года назад +4

      @@id3389 :) back-up man, not better-than man.

    • @user-pv6lj2no2d
      @user-pv6lj2no2d 4 года назад +1

      I D “whether they know it OR NOT”

    • @TaneshaThomas
      @TaneshaThomas 4 года назад

      I Literally only hang out other females

  • @DmanDice
    @DmanDice 4 года назад +27

    This what they teaching young women now days..yikes lol

  • @allthingscreative1631
    @allthingscreative1631 4 года назад +78

    I would have loved to hear what tamera had to say about this topic, jeannie what is this shirt,sweater, hoodie thing🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @13ashwilliams
      @13ashwilliams 4 года назад +7

      Honestly, if her shirt were a little more form fitting I might actually be feeling it. I'm still on the fence about it, something about it has me like yea but then something else has me like nah.

    • @allthingscreative1631
      @allthingscreative1631 4 года назад +1

      @@13ashwilliams same

    • @chubbybunny123
      @chubbybunny123 4 года назад +9

      Tamera would have left clear that "THIS DOESNT HAPPEN IN MY MARRIAGE ADAM IS SO WONDERFUL" there you go

    • @allthingscreative1631
      @allthingscreative1631 4 года назад

      @@chubbybunny123 lol

    • @Naturalista242
      @Naturalista242 4 года назад +1

      Pregnant?

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger 4 года назад +4

    You don't need a backup plan if you're sure of yourself because think about it...insecure ppl need backups because they're afraid to be vulnerable with the person they are dating and see it going somewhere. Ik there are cheating women out here but I choose the woman I want to be with and hope she remains faithful like I do but I'm not stalking her to see what she's doing either because the moment I find out by a friend or anyone she cheats..she is out of my life like dumping her and she'll never get another chance with me and I think that will hurt more that she missed out on a loyal dude who's ambitious about life and want to see things get better.

  • @EezeeGroover
    @EezeeGroover 2 года назад +4

    Women will find every excuse to avoid accountability. It's either that their toxic behaviors should be accepted, or that they're a man's fault.

  • @tajahneyespinosa1208
    @tajahneyespinosa1208 4 года назад +6

    @Jennie “You wanna touch your friend that way” 😂

  • @CandaceT7
    @CandaceT7 4 года назад +35

    Adrienne must have showed up late n didn’t get to get a chance to do her hair

    • @blameitonmonsta1532
      @blameitonmonsta1532 4 года назад +6

      Natural look is dope sometimes

    • @CandaceT7
      @CandaceT7 4 года назад

      She don’t look bad just don’t look like her hair done per usual

    • @saronwolde8262
      @saronwolde8262 4 года назад

      They went more casual for this. They coordinate outfits

  • @angelaleaa480
    @angelaleaa480 4 года назад +38

    I agree with Loni . You shouldn’t be bringing another person into the bedroom when you’re married .

    • @rosiedispensa6697
      @rosiedispensa6697 4 года назад

      Angela Leaa psh If my man gets a ring on my finger his party has just begun 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @toccarawilliams9647
      @toccarawilliams9647 4 года назад +6

      That's how I lost my husband

    • @DrLesiaThePreachasDiviNation
      @DrLesiaThePreachasDiviNation 4 года назад +4

      Toccara Williams possibly, and some people uses a threesome as an excuse to leave too, like a smokescreen.
      Sorry that happened to you.

    • @richardjohnson6140
      @richardjohnson6140 4 года назад +2

      Marriage is meaningless anyway, there’s no morals anymore

    • @laneshajackson1775
      @laneshajackson1775 3 года назад

      @@richardjohnson6140 you are so right marriages suck nowadays

  • @mattpartington5312
    @mattpartington5312 4 года назад +10

    I'd love to see a knowledgeable mgtow/red pill guy go on that show, that would be an interesting episode

    • @raylevi5343
      @raylevi5343 4 года назад +3

      They would be traumatised from how many facts he'll spit.

  • @torisefford989
    @torisefford989 4 года назад +7

    if you have a backup man,men usually know it,that is why he will break up with you

  • @kyliee.c
    @kyliee.c 4 года назад +7

    i don't need a plan b. i am not scared of being single

  • @ehtishamamin5601
    @ehtishamamin5601 4 года назад +12

    You guys do know that you are only making things hard for young women who want to have families because I'm only 19 and this type of content just makes me not want to do anything with women. Imagine lots of "High quality Men" watching this and changing their mind.

    • @Scaley_Reptile
      @Scaley_Reptile 4 года назад +1

      Any man who respects himself should STOP dating.

  • @Churros12355
    @Churros12355 4 года назад +10

    I love how interactive the audience is in this episode 😂😂

  • @LifeInTheWorldOfSeth
    @LifeInTheWorldOfSeth 4 года назад +6

    ADRIENNE, I LOVE THAT YOU JUST ARGUE 1V1 WITH AUDIENCE MEMBERS MID CHAT, I LIVE FOR IT "SO YOU WOULD NEVER?!"

  • @3DPrintWorldx1c
    @3DPrintWorldx1c 4 года назад +6

    I for sure dont have a back up man 😂

  • @lx9414
    @lx9414 3 года назад +2

    Jeannie needs more props for her answers

  • @lenajafaryassinosman2168
    @lenajafaryassinosman2168 4 года назад +35

    This is the most joyable talk so far. 😂

  • @1_808_1
    @1_808_1 4 года назад +1

    What came to my mind @ first was someone who you know & have no feelings for but you know that you guys would be good together and they would treat you right. 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @nicoleavery7238
    @nicoleavery7238 4 года назад +4

    Not everyone has thought about it Jeannie some people still know what real love is and are loyal

  • @DoniTalks
    @DoniTalks 4 года назад +16

    But what about STDs

  • @sevens3
    @sevens3 4 года назад +2

    Ha ha haha, with facts like these, why would ANYONE expect or oblige monogamy?

  • @odd-one-out4409
    @odd-one-out4409 4 года назад +1

    Adrienne looks nice here without all that tanning and very dark foundation.

  • @2livenoob
    @2livenoob 4 года назад +6

    Why don't men open up about their feelings to women? Answer -> 3:50

    • @raylevi5343
      @raylevi5343 4 года назад +1

      🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @agentsmith8568
      @agentsmith8568 4 года назад

      LMFAO THE MOST UNDERATED COMMENT IN THE THE STRING. 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

  • @theelaveaux
    @theelaveaux 4 года назад +5

    I wouldn't consider it a backup man. I almost wish they would have kept the "whether they know it or not" point of view. Cause I think it's completely normal to not want to BE with another man but to have an idea of someone from the past that things never went anywhere with that you would probably be pursuing if your current man wasn't in the picture. The the chemistry was there back then but the timing wasn't, maybe.

  • @kathrynnpetersen8876
    @kathrynnpetersen8876 Год назад +1

    For a second there I thought their guest co-host was going to be sara Gilbert dispite the fact that she also In the television show living biblically well guest starred on anyway

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger 4 года назад +3

    NO!!! WOMEN PLEASE DONT LISTEN TO THAT FOOLISH WOMAN the more guys a woman is dating does NOT make guys want to pursue you more. We look at it like - I don't want a woman with a ego or with all these options because she's more prone to have an ego constantly thinking every guy wants her. If a woman has 20 men around her I LOSE interest if she's entertaining all of them that shows me nothing more than she has a high chance of being unfaithful in the future.

  • @trish8321
    @trish8321 4 года назад +7

    "The less english she speaks the better" 😂😂😭😭😭

  • @ryanphillips5591
    @ryanphillips5591 4 года назад +6

    Its called "hypergamy". Women are naturally hypergamous.

    • @learnwithme8946
      @learnwithme8946 4 года назад +1

      Ryan Phillips i don’t think it’s naturally, I️ think we’re taught to marry up because people don’t expect us to be career driven. I’ve known many women who don’t care and would marry down. I️ prefer men who are below my pay. But society expects the man to be the money maker

    • @agentsmith8568
      @agentsmith8568 4 года назад +1

      @@learnwithme8946 um...you don't listen to society all the time but you pick and choose when to blame it for your decisions....gtfoh!

  • @jennyoneill8879
    @jennyoneill8879 4 года назад +4

    I have watched The View and The Talk and I could never relate to the topics and most were boring but this show i can relate to

  • @halomerric8611
    @halomerric8611 4 года назад +6

    Freddy had a backup woman.

  • @danyielsays4621
    @danyielsays4621 4 года назад +4

    That's kinda sad that u would need a back up man...I think one of my long time friends is my back up,we always joke and say we gonna end up married if we single at an old age

  • @thrilla72
    @thrilla72 4 года назад +5

    How are you going to get to marriage if you're multi-dating.

    • @cgt2816
      @cgt2816 4 года назад +3

      Process of elimination

  • @nylahburns9767
    @nylahburns9767 4 года назад +8

    2:52 Jenne* knew what was up 😭😭😭

    • @Summer55Nicole
      @Summer55Nicole 4 года назад +1

      Nylah Burns yessss! Noticed that too 😂

  • @marv4630
    @marv4630 4 года назад +4

    This sounds like Hailey Baldwin to Justin lol

  • @harvemedharvemed7796
    @harvemedharvemed7796 4 года назад

    This is true and mine just told me he doesnt care where I am in life he loves and will be there for me.

  • @GoddessMala
    @GoddessMala 4 года назад +15

    I miss Tamera already, I wanna hear her point.

  • @nicoleavery7238
    @nicoleavery7238 4 года назад +10

    If you need a third person you’re not with the person you’re meant to be with period. This generation is trash

    • @cgt2816
      @cgt2816 4 года назад

      Every generation is trash. Guess which generation made swinging popular? Go ahead, I'll wait 💅

  • @enemay
    @enemay 4 года назад +4

    Ooh you mean back up "simp".

    • @kb8170
      @kb8170 4 года назад

      🙄

  • @snmelendez23
    @snmelendez23 2 года назад

    I am so sorry, Jeannie. What the hell are you wearing, girl???

  • @sweetrisse
    @sweetrisse 4 года назад +2

    Why you need a back up plan though? Damn you have to protect yourself from being single like that's so terrible. Who wants to my!p from man to man 🤔😕

  • @richardjohnson6140
    @richardjohnson6140 4 года назад

    If you think your girlfriend or wife has a “ backup C*ck” just end it . better to be alone than to be with a terrible human being

  • @srsly___uio
    @srsly___uio 4 года назад +1

    Because of all of these girl chat vault ive realized that tamera is sick the most out of all the girls

  • @CannibalLecter
    @CannibalLecter 4 года назад +2

    So 50 percent of those women are just like Dalia Dippolito.

  • @sevens3
    @sevens3 4 года назад +2

    @8:00
    Oh, look--all the insecurity that's responsible for these contradictory, failed, approaches to "romance/relationships" we see in the status quo (e.g. "it's a free for all while I"m dating, until it spontaneously ISN'T," etc. etc.), delightful!

  • @waltenigusaetop3320
    @waltenigusaetop3320 4 года назад +2

    Even animals don’t do three some!

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful9455 2 года назад +1

    Be single… this is too much.. make your money.. who got time to be worried about all this! Focus on something else!

  • @danijelpirc2821
    @danijelpirc2821 4 года назад +2

    How about men having backup women in case their woman does something wrong to the relationship? Or protect their finances in case their wife decides to divorce them for yoga instructor?

  • @sevens3
    @sevens3 4 года назад +2

    @9:40
    LOL, right--NOBODY'S for them, yet somehow we all KNOW that they're HAPPENING, so SOMEBODY must be lying... x'D

  • @xoXDonnieXox
    @xoXDonnieXox 4 года назад +2

    Soooooooo dont trust em. That percentage is too high.

  • @dccarlos15
    @dccarlos15 4 года назад +2

    I thought the prompt meant backup man like, if we're both single by 40, let's get married.

  • @soniiabaybee
    @soniiabaybee 4 года назад

    Ik women who use me male friend as a backup .. even when these women have bfs. Marry a man who has no history! Same for women.

  • @denisewynn2971
    @denisewynn2971 4 года назад +2

    Loni looks really nice today. Did she get engaged? I missed a couple shows over the holidays. She has a ring on her finger.

  • @liviapope8290
    @liviapope8290 4 года назад +2

    Jeannie that interesting HAAAA😭😭😭 Right cause her ex sure did move on quickly

  • @massetozacarias5693
    @massetozacarias5693 3 года назад

    I'm not a backup guy, I'm more than that...

  • @elenamoreno7644
    @elenamoreno7644 4 года назад +8

    Off topic but I’m sick too Tam happy winter🤒

    • @katabrams5566
      @katabrams5566 4 года назад +2

      Elena Moreno Same man 🤕

    • @jenniferbaptiste8601
      @jenniferbaptiste8601 4 года назад +3

      Get well tam..

    • @jotamj6752
      @jotamj6752 4 года назад +9

      Girl this episode is soo old. How do you guys don’t know yet that these are reruns?

    • @noteanoshade7788
      @noteanoshade7788 4 года назад

      @@elenamoreno7644 Girlllll calm down why are you being so mean damn lmao she was just pointing out it's an old episode!

    • @elenamoreno7644
      @elenamoreno7644 4 года назад

      no tea, no shade Bc it’s so annoying 😂 you can say that without talking to people like they’re stupid

  • @jazzzzzz1233
    @jazzzzzz1233 4 года назад +4

    Y’all in these comments are REALLY SLOW!! All of the the old clips say GIRL CHAT VAULT!!! The real been doing these clips for OVER A YEAR y’all be coming to the comments asking the same thing every time YES ITS AN OLD EPISODE 😤😤🤬🤬

    • @emonigreen1694
      @emonigreen1694 4 года назад +1

      jazzzzzz123 same thing I’m sayin!!!!

  • @ayequedroma8256
    @ayequedroma8256 4 года назад

    What fantasy life do you live in? People's feelings change some love isn't ment to withstand the test of time, and you can't dictate what your partner will feel in the future either. A plan B is only bad if you stop focusing on your relationship for it. Acknowledging that someone is intrested in you isn't going to wreck your marriage, obsessing over it does. Chill, just relax and do the best you can in every relationship you're blessed to be in.

  • @princessbabe1313
    @princessbabe1313 4 года назад +47

    Lmaooo tony is funny I like him

  • @DeepakMatthews90
    @DeepakMatthews90 4 года назад +2

    OUUHHHHH PREACH JEANNIE @ 14:03 !! GOD CERTAINLY DID NOT intend or condone any type of threesomes. So any 3some is a Devil's 3some. Word.

  • @Noob-zi2ce
    @Noob-zi2ce 4 года назад +1

    Well you can have a back up man...but there's a high chance you'll also be a back up or third choice woman to him when you're ready. That sucks!

  • @Sara.Lahlou
    @Sara.Lahlou 4 года назад +4

    I like this guy!

  • @patriciamarie9802
    @patriciamarie9802 4 года назад +1

    Plan B is usually your ex or if you have several exes it's the one that you wanted to be with but it just didn't work out because you were young I agree with Adrian, if you're married you should not have a plan B.

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 4 года назад +2

    Toni, "I'm in the hair salon"!😂😂😂

  • @wadatamana
    @wadatamana 3 года назад +2

    The more you talk the more members for MGTOW.

  • @sevens3
    @sevens3 4 года назад +1

    @10:20
    Yes, it clearly implies sex is--at the LEAST--LESS valuable IN the context of marriage than not. That's LITERALLY necessitated as a premise by that logic (i.e. "you shouldn't do things you'd otherwise voluntarily do, because you want to enjoy doing so, on account of this status of marriage alone--i.e. whatever values IT, presumably serves, MUST be therefore considered SUPERIOR to that sacrifice of whatever value one placed in the acts one abstains from, but otherwise wouldn't BUT FOR the being married, e.g. in this instance certain sexual acts you would otherwise both consent to and enjoy). Now, you can layout all kind of RATIONALES for WHY a person might endorse such a value hierarchy, but what is undeniably logically NECESSARY is that EITHER you DO have such a hierarchy (wherein, marriage serves other values, more important to you, than sexual fulfillment) OR you must believe that marriage ALSO serves that value (sexual fulfillment) BETTER than mutually exclusive alternatives, and to believe THAT, you must necessarily believe (IF you ALSO believe marriage entails, say, an indefinite commitment to monogamy, and thus necessarily means giving up all things, such as group sex, MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE with monogamy) that there is some aspect unique to marriage that is even more NET sexually fulfilling than anything that in its own right might be net sexually fulfilling, but less so than that part of marriage it is mutually exclusive with that is even MORE net sexually fulfilling. In short, if you start with the assumption marriage means indefinite monogamy, then it MUST be true that either (1) sex (sexually satisfaction, fulfillment, whatever) isn't as important to you as something else, whatever else, something that marriage is "better for"; OR (2) you don't believe that the loss of non-monogamy is actually any loss, or at least not NET any loss (that is, you believe, possibly among other reasons you might value it, whether more or less in importance than this reason, that sex is actually BETTER overall/on balance between two individuals mutually committed to indefinite monogamy with each other, than in any other possible configuration mutually exclusive with that, that which we've already established in our initial premises is, arguendo, essential to/defining of marriage).
    For whatever it's worth, for me personally at least, this (the way people seem to think/talk about and imagine marriage) is one example among many that DOES indeed beg the question "what IS the value of marriage", and it's a question I've yet to find a compelling persuasive answer to--but I've ALSO lived long enough to become well acquainted with the fact that not everyone has the same experience (and, likewise, probably related), values, and/or beliefs that I do, and there are some (many, even) zones of ambiguity in life such that REASONABLE minds can and do differ on conclusions on a great many things, including most salient and important here what is and/or OUGHT be "desirable" in life. Thus, I don't EXPECT everyone to share my estimation of the value of "marriage", because among other reasons I don't EXPECT everyone to start from a common set of values and/or expectations (however REASONABLE or not I, they, or any other, might find those values and/or expectation to be, on examination) regarding marriage (or for that matter, much if anything else).

  • @carnivore4life470
    @carnivore4life470 3 года назад +1

    I completely disagree the multidating thing, most dudes if they find out they will split. We think that multi dating chicks are ho’s

  • @sevens3
    @sevens3 4 года назад +1

    @7:00
    As with most things in life, reducing it to a single categorical turning on a single variable ("men will do X, because men like/are y") is DANGEROUSLY overly simplistic. Some, sure, that's absolutely true of--some, recognize a lose-lose scenario when they see it, and will opt out of such situations entirely. It's all a question of what you value--and how well you KNOW what you value, and the relationship of your values to your actions.

  • @gretchenortiz3414
    @gretchenortiz3414 4 года назад +2

    Jeannie was sooooo sarcastic 😂😂😂 huh, interesting

  • @myfanverse4558
    @myfanverse4558 4 года назад +2

    I can’t even get a date with one person

  • @maramsaba9830
    @maramsaba9830 4 года назад +3

    I don’t even have a man yet

    • @rawanessa1
      @rawanessa1 4 года назад

      maram saba same lol 😂

  • @Scaley_Reptile
    @Scaley_Reptile 4 года назад +2

    Thats projection..
    MOST men never have a backup plan..we have TO WORK at impressing women..
    Not just say "ok".
    MOST men dont even notice other women when in love.
    Just because THEY have plan Bs just 'assume' most men do the same.
    Btw, how can they recognize that a man with a 'sidechick' isnt committed and should KEEP IT REAL
    but women...its ok to disrespect a man by having no commitment ,?
    Double standards need to stop.

    • @Scaley_Reptile
      @Scaley_Reptile 4 года назад +1

      Why do men cheat ?
      Same your not making him happy...takes 2..
      These women are DILUSIONAL

  • @samanthabustamante8055
    @samanthabustamante8055 4 года назад +3

    I agree with Adrienne 100%

  • @rocking1313
    @rocking1313 3 года назад +1

    Call-a-friend option is good to have if your partner says Not Tonight Honey!

  • @jimmyfirecracker1831
    @jimmyfirecracker1831 4 года назад +1

    Does that mean men should have a backup woman?

    • @muscleman482
      @muscleman482 4 года назад

      No. It’s only ok if women cheat. At least from their perspective

    • @Kenshiroit
      @Kenshiroit 4 года назад +1

      thats because they got raised by narcissistic hoe moms, and they dont know any better.

  • @samanthagabbudon4559
    @samanthagabbudon4559 4 года назад +1

    I'm a old soul because you shouldn't leave no room for a backup plan.🤔🤔