i wish they had a male every week instead of the new lady not that im being rude its just better and we get the male perspective aswell and like you said lol refreshing and intresting 🤗😊😋🤩
I love how he calls out the audience for being mindless followers clapping for anything or whenever anyone else claps like robots instead of being genuine lol
If you’ve ever been to a show taping then you know there’s always a audience coordinator who signals for people to clap and cheer. Especially when there’s a guest who is coming out who will be telling jokes. They tell you to be nice and laugh even when the joke isn’t that funny. I’ve been to a taping for this show and this has been the most real reactions without the need of an audience coordinator.
Men don't usually want to chase women. Women get attraction from attention from men. Chasing women fills this attention need for women. It does nothing for men.
Basically! In reality, you aren't truly partnered up with someone until marriage. A lot of people casually date multiple people at once these days and polyamory has become a thing with Gen Z. Unfortunately, even marriage isn't even sacred anymore.
Never lose sleep over the small stuff FYI we always together. He love me as well I love him. He never cheated on me. He is a faithful husband. Most of all love his albino self
What about Jennie’s ex-husband. Imagine that, I don’t remember them divorcing that long ago and he remarried a “friend” quite quickly after the divorce🤔🤔🤔
Backup Man?!?! Ain’t that just a lowkey side dude... even though he’s technically not on the side... but he’s in the back of that woman’s mind and she already has tricks up on her sleeve on what to do just in case things go wrong... she got him on SPEED DIAL ! I know people like that... as soon as relationships are on a break they’re like “ Tom pick me up tomorrow at 8” 😂
Honestly, if her shirt were a little more form fitting I might actually be feeling it. I'm still on the fence about it, something about it has me like yea but then something else has me like nah.
You don't need a backup plan if you're sure of yourself because think about it...insecure ppl need backups because they're afraid to be vulnerable with the person they are dating and see it going somewhere. Ik there are cheating women out here but I choose the woman I want to be with and hope she remains faithful like I do but I'm not stalking her to see what she's doing either because the moment I find out by a friend or anyone she cheats..she is out of my life like dumping her and she'll never get another chance with me and I think that will hurt more that she missed out on a loyal dude who's ambitious about life and want to see things get better.
You guys do know that you are only making things hard for young women who want to have families because I'm only 19 and this type of content just makes me not want to do anything with women. Imagine lots of "High quality Men" watching this and changing their mind.
What came to my mind @ first was someone who you know & have no feelings for but you know that you guys would be good together and they would treat you right. 🤷🏿♀️
I wouldn't consider it a backup man. I almost wish they would have kept the "whether they know it or not" point of view. Cause I think it's completely normal to not want to BE with another man but to have an idea of someone from the past that things never went anywhere with that you would probably be pursuing if your current man wasn't in the picture. The the chemistry was there back then but the timing wasn't, maybe.
For a second there I thought their guest co-host was going to be sara Gilbert dispite the fact that she also In the television show living biblically well guest starred on anyway
NO!!! WOMEN PLEASE DONT LISTEN TO THAT FOOLISH WOMAN the more guys a woman is dating does NOT make guys want to pursue you more. We look at it like - I don't want a woman with a ego or with all these options because she's more prone to have an ego constantly thinking every guy wants her. If a woman has 20 men around her I LOSE interest if she's entertaining all of them that shows me nothing more than she has a high chance of being unfaithful in the future.
Ryan Phillips i don’t think it’s naturally, I️ think we’re taught to marry up because people don’t expect us to be career driven. I’ve known many women who don’t care and would marry down. I️ prefer men who are below my pay. But society expects the man to be the money maker
That's kinda sad that u would need a back up man...I think one of my long time friends is my back up,we always joke and say we gonna end up married if we single at an old age
@8:00 Oh, look--all the insecurity that's responsible for these contradictory, failed, approaches to "romance/relationships" we see in the status quo (e.g. "it's a free for all while I"m dating, until it spontaneously ISN'T," etc. etc.), delightful!
How about men having backup women in case their woman does something wrong to the relationship? Or protect their finances in case their wife decides to divorce them for yoga instructor?
Y’all in these comments are REALLY SLOW!! All of the the old clips say GIRL CHAT VAULT!!! The real been doing these clips for OVER A YEAR y’all be coming to the comments asking the same thing every time YES ITS AN OLD EPISODE 😤😤🤬🤬
What fantasy life do you live in? People's feelings change some love isn't ment to withstand the test of time, and you can't dictate what your partner will feel in the future either. A plan B is only bad if you stop focusing on your relationship for it. Acknowledging that someone is intrested in you isn't going to wreck your marriage, obsessing over it does. Chill, just relax and do the best you can in every relationship you're blessed to be in.
Plan B is usually your ex or if you have several exes it's the one that you wanted to be with but it just didn't work out because you were young I agree with Adrian, if you're married you should not have a plan B.
@10:20 Yes, it clearly implies sex is--at the LEAST--LESS valuable IN the context of marriage than not. That's LITERALLY necessitated as a premise by that logic (i.e. "you shouldn't do things you'd otherwise voluntarily do, because you want to enjoy doing so, on account of this status of marriage alone--i.e. whatever values IT, presumably serves, MUST be therefore considered SUPERIOR to that sacrifice of whatever value one placed in the acts one abstains from, but otherwise wouldn't BUT FOR the being married, e.g. in this instance certain sexual acts you would otherwise both consent to and enjoy). Now, you can layout all kind of RATIONALES for WHY a person might endorse such a value hierarchy, but what is undeniably logically NECESSARY is that EITHER you DO have such a hierarchy (wherein, marriage serves other values, more important to you, than sexual fulfillment) OR you must believe that marriage ALSO serves that value (sexual fulfillment) BETTER than mutually exclusive alternatives, and to believe THAT, you must necessarily believe (IF you ALSO believe marriage entails, say, an indefinite commitment to monogamy, and thus necessarily means giving up all things, such as group sex, MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE with monogamy) that there is some aspect unique to marriage that is even more NET sexually fulfilling than anything that in its own right might be net sexually fulfilling, but less so than that part of marriage it is mutually exclusive with that is even MORE net sexually fulfilling. In short, if you start with the assumption marriage means indefinite monogamy, then it MUST be true that either (1) sex (sexually satisfaction, fulfillment, whatever) isn't as important to you as something else, whatever else, something that marriage is "better for"; OR (2) you don't believe that the loss of non-monogamy is actually any loss, or at least not NET any loss (that is, you believe, possibly among other reasons you might value it, whether more or less in importance than this reason, that sex is actually BETTER overall/on balance between two individuals mutually committed to indefinite monogamy with each other, than in any other possible configuration mutually exclusive with that, that which we've already established in our initial premises is, arguendo, essential to/defining of marriage). For whatever it's worth, for me personally at least, this (the way people seem to think/talk about and imagine marriage) is one example among many that DOES indeed beg the question "what IS the value of marriage", and it's a question I've yet to find a compelling persuasive answer to--but I've ALSO lived long enough to become well acquainted with the fact that not everyone has the same experience (and, likewise, probably related), values, and/or beliefs that I do, and there are some (many, even) zones of ambiguity in life such that REASONABLE minds can and do differ on conclusions on a great many things, including most salient and important here what is and/or OUGHT be "desirable" in life. Thus, I don't EXPECT everyone to share my estimation of the value of "marriage", because among other reasons I don't EXPECT everyone to start from a common set of values and/or expectations (however REASONABLE or not I, they, or any other, might find those values and/or expectation to be, on examination) regarding marriage (or for that matter, much if anything else).
@7:00 As with most things in life, reducing it to a single categorical turning on a single variable ("men will do X, because men like/are y") is DANGEROUSLY overly simplistic. Some, sure, that's absolutely true of--some, recognize a lose-lose scenario when they see it, and will opt out of such situations entirely. It's all a question of what you value--and how well you KNOW what you value, and the relationship of your values to your actions.
Thats projection.. MOST men never have a backup plan..we have TO WORK at impressing women.. Not just say "ok". MOST men dont even notice other women when in love. Just because THEY have plan Bs just 'assume' most men do the same. Btw, how can they recognize that a man with a 'sidechick' isnt committed and should KEEP IT REAL but women...its ok to disrespect a man by having no commitment ,? Double standards need to stop.
I actually like when they have a Male added to the girl chat cause its surprisingly relaxing and they just fit
i wish they had a male every week instead of the new lady not that im being rude its just better and we get the male perspective aswell and like you said lol refreshing and intresting 🤗😊😋🤩
I'm a man, and I'll spill the truth right here. You'll never get a male perspective on this kind of show, if you do, the show won't last.
I love how he calls out the audience for being mindless followers clapping for anything or whenever anyone else claps like robots instead of being genuine lol
I know!! That was great!!
I know right! I'm glad someone pointed it out xD
If you’ve ever been to a show taping then you know there’s always a audience coordinator who signals for people to clap and cheer.
Especially when there’s a guest who is coming out who will be telling jokes. They tell you to be nice and laugh even when the joke isn’t that funny.
I’ve been to a taping for this show and this has been the most real reactions without the need of an audience coordinator.
every studio audience ever literal seels
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People need to know that girl chat vault means it’s old
Mashii.i How am I just learning this 😭 Thxs
T H A N K Y O U 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂 how long they been doing this ain’t they still don’t know
Exactly! I don't mind because I can't watch the show in real time.
when and where is the show on tv? like i cant ever find it on tv or any tv channel apps
Mashii.i got yeh
Not all men like chasing women, some people don't play games, so be careful with that alternative fact ! You might lose a good man in the process.
Big facts ... I rather chase money
right, Adrienne was doing so much talking from the male perspective when they have an actual man on the panel.
If she had a backup, I wouldn’t see her as an investment at that point.
Men don't usually want to chase women. Women get attraction from attention from men. Chasing women fills this attention need for women. It does nothing for men.
I prefer men that haunt for what they want thou
I love how their logic is "They must not be treated right if they have a backup plan" or how about they are bad partners.
If a Woman needs a Back Up Man, then she is Single like me!
Basically! In reality, you aren't truly partnered up with someone until marriage. A lot of people casually date multiple people at once these days and polyamory has become a thing with Gen Z. Unfortunately, even marriage isn't even sacred anymore.
I’m very addicted to my husband. I don’t have back up man.
Maybe your husband was your back up man?
@@angelicac2187 You can say that !!!!
Never lose sleep over the small stuff FYI we always together. He love me as well I love him. He never cheated on me. He is a faithful husband. Most of all love his albino self
Never lose sleep over the small stuff w/e
Liar
2:51 when Jeannie realised this segment was meant for her to start some drama 😅
Lol
Deadass🤣
Fleur Flower so true. Haha she thought about Freddy and linsey
Nella J was the way I w
Jonny T w
These shows are Red pilling guys everyday haha. She is never yours........just yours right now. Thanks ladies haha
Adrienne is always talking about some people this some people that meanwhile it’s her 😂
He is a good mix on the show. I liked how he fit in with the ladies.
Yeah but trade Jennie for Tam
Ladies, where?
I'm weak af..no one clapped for him when they introduced him.
K Day'LaShaun yes they did . Look at it again
They said, “WHO?” 😭
That's terrible - falls into the "cheating realm" it's not cool at all. I'm with Adrrien on this
Yes but its only bad when men are involved, If women are doing shady things we celebrate it and pretend its OK.
@@tubester4567 it's terrible when men do it! I blame them for starting it really
Susan W. My tax return says SINGLE! Unless I’m off the market 100%, I will be looking out for me.
Asia A lmaoooo girll yessss
@@susanw.2456 🖕🏻
1:28 tho LMFAOOOO "Trust me Jeannie u have a bunch of them"
😂😂😂😂😂
What about Jennie’s ex-husband. Imagine that, I don’t remember them divorcing that long ago and he remarried a “friend” quite quickly after the divorce🤔🤔🤔
Adrienne showing her true colours. No man should marry such a woman. 'I'm going to date my ex to get back at you, because I know it'll hurt.'
Another underated comment. You need more likes sir
They have back up plans because they can't be alone. A lot of women are needy, and insecure.
This is true 😂 we all want attention lol so a backup plan is just in case not saying it’s right but it is what it is
I must agree. It's sad actually.
@@kattodoggo3868 love the honesty! 🤍gotta keep it real
Men too lol a lot of them are needy and insecure. So many people like that.
@@emayan06 most men aren’t actually like this we likely are just alone when broken up with some men but very small amount
My Man's Jesus and he don't need any man's Backup! That is why I can afford to be picky! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Steve Harvey said if you make a plan b you’re going to need it
Ahaha can't relate to that! I don't even have a man imagine a backup... 😂✋
😂😂😂😂😂
For real😂 same🤣🤣🤣
I'm right here boo
Loni always looking after the guest co-hosts, making sure they're comfortable... you're great Loni Love
Why not just go straight to your plan B and call it a day.
👍👍agree 1000%
They want the benefits of both men.
So true boo
They want their cake to be able to eat it too
then they have a plan C
Backup Man?!?! Ain’t that just a lowkey side dude... even though he’s technically not on the side... but he’s in the back of that woman’s mind and she already has tricks up on her sleeve on what to do just in case things go wrong... she got him on SPEED DIAL ! I know people like that... as soon as relationships are on a break they’re like “ Tom pick me up tomorrow at 8” 😂
Yep lol
My husband is my plan A-Z 💯
Multidate??
It's a bloody jungle out there! Hard to find one descent guy to go on a date with.🤧😭
Exactly lol
It’s your choices
Very simple, you are not a decent woman.
Not high status de$$$$$cent men
Dang I loved this girl chat!!! Love hearing the man's point of view with a lot of the topics. You guys should get more male guest hosts!!
Every woman has a back-up man, whether they know it or not.
Truth! 😊
@@id3389 :) back-up man, not better-than man.
I D “whether they know it OR NOT”
I Literally only hang out other females
This what they teaching young women now days..yikes lol
I would have loved to hear what tamera had to say about this topic, jeannie what is this shirt,sweater, hoodie thing🤦♀️🤦♀️
Honestly, if her shirt were a little more form fitting I might actually be feeling it. I'm still on the fence about it, something about it has me like yea but then something else has me like nah.
@@13ashwilliams same
Tamera would have left clear that "THIS DOESNT HAPPEN IN MY MARRIAGE ADAM IS SO WONDERFUL" there you go
@@chubbybunny123 lol
Pregnant?
You don't need a backup plan if you're sure of yourself because think about it...insecure ppl need backups because they're afraid to be vulnerable with the person they are dating and see it going somewhere. Ik there are cheating women out here but I choose the woman I want to be with and hope she remains faithful like I do but I'm not stalking her to see what she's doing either because the moment I find out by a friend or anyone she cheats..she is out of my life like dumping her and she'll never get another chance with me and I think that will hurt more that she missed out on a loyal dude who's ambitious about life and want to see things get better.
Women will find every excuse to avoid accountability. It's either that their toxic behaviors should be accepted, or that they're a man's fault.
Big facts
@Jennie “You wanna touch your friend that way” 😂
Adrienne must have showed up late n didn’t get to get a chance to do her hair
Natural look is dope sometimes
She don’t look bad just don’t look like her hair done per usual
They went more casual for this. They coordinate outfits
I agree with Loni . You shouldn’t be bringing another person into the bedroom when you’re married .
Angela Leaa psh If my man gets a ring on my finger his party has just begun 🤷🏻♀️
That's how I lost my husband
Toccara Williams possibly, and some people uses a threesome as an excuse to leave too, like a smokescreen.
Sorry that happened to you.
Marriage is meaningless anyway, there’s no morals anymore
@@richardjohnson6140 you are so right marriages suck nowadays
I'd love to see a knowledgeable mgtow/red pill guy go on that show, that would be an interesting episode
They would be traumatised from how many facts he'll spit.
if you have a backup man,men usually know it,that is why he will break up with you
i don't need a plan b. i am not scared of being single
You guys do know that you are only making things hard for young women who want to have families because I'm only 19 and this type of content just makes me not want to do anything with women. Imagine lots of "High quality Men" watching this and changing their mind.
Any man who respects himself should STOP dating.
I love how interactive the audience is in this episode 😂😂
ADRIENNE, I LOVE THAT YOU JUST ARGUE 1V1 WITH AUDIENCE MEMBERS MID CHAT, I LIVE FOR IT "SO YOU WOULD NEVER?!"
I for sure dont have a back up man 😂
Jeannie needs more props for her answers
This is the most joyable talk so far. 😂
What came to my mind @ first was someone who you know & have no feelings for but you know that you guys would be good together and they would treat you right. 🤷🏿♀️
Not everyone has thought about it Jeannie some people still know what real love is and are loyal
But what about STDs
Donya’s Corner the use the rubber perhaps
🙌🙌🙌
Ha ha haha, with facts like these, why would ANYONE expect or oblige monogamy?
Adrienne looks nice here without all that tanning and very dark foundation.
Why don't men open up about their feelings to women? Answer -> 3:50
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LMFAO THE MOST UNDERATED COMMENT IN THE THE STRING. 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
I wouldn't consider it a backup man. I almost wish they would have kept the "whether they know it or not" point of view. Cause I think it's completely normal to not want to BE with another man but to have an idea of someone from the past that things never went anywhere with that you would probably be pursuing if your current man wasn't in the picture. The the chemistry was there back then but the timing wasn't, maybe.
For a second there I thought their guest co-host was going to be sara Gilbert dispite the fact that she also In the television show living biblically well guest starred on anyway
NO!!! WOMEN PLEASE DONT LISTEN TO THAT FOOLISH WOMAN the more guys a woman is dating does NOT make guys want to pursue you more. We look at it like - I don't want a woman with a ego or with all these options because she's more prone to have an ego constantly thinking every guy wants her. If a woman has 20 men around her I LOSE interest if she's entertaining all of them that shows me nothing more than she has a high chance of being unfaithful in the future.
"The less english she speaks the better" 😂😂😭😭😭
Its called "hypergamy". Women are naturally hypergamous.
Ryan Phillips i don’t think it’s naturally, I️ think we’re taught to marry up because people don’t expect us to be career driven. I’ve known many women who don’t care and would marry down. I️ prefer men who are below my pay. But society expects the man to be the money maker
@@learnwithme8946 um...you don't listen to society all the time but you pick and choose when to blame it for your decisions....gtfoh!
I have watched The View and The Talk and I could never relate to the topics and most were boring but this show i can relate to
Freddy had a backup woman.
Hell yeah he did.
That's kinda sad that u would need a back up man...I think one of my long time friends is my back up,we always joke and say we gonna end up married if we single at an old age
How are you going to get to marriage if you're multi-dating.
Process of elimination
2:52 Jenne* knew what was up 😭😭😭
Nylah Burns yessss! Noticed that too 😂
This sounds like Hailey Baldwin to Justin lol
This is true and mine just told me he doesnt care where I am in life he loves and will be there for me.
I miss Tamera already, I wanna hear her point.
If you need a third person you’re not with the person you’re meant to be with period. This generation is trash
Every generation is trash. Guess which generation made swinging popular? Go ahead, I'll wait 💅
Ooh you mean back up "simp".
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I am so sorry, Jeannie. What the hell are you wearing, girl???
Why you need a back up plan though? Damn you have to protect yourself from being single like that's so terrible. Who wants to my!p from man to man 🤔😕
If you think your girlfriend or wife has a “ backup C*ck” just end it . better to be alone than to be with a terrible human being
Because of all of these girl chat vault ive realized that tamera is sick the most out of all the girls
So 50 percent of those women are just like Dalia Dippolito.
@8:00
Oh, look--all the insecurity that's responsible for these contradictory, failed, approaches to "romance/relationships" we see in the status quo (e.g. "it's a free for all while I"m dating, until it spontaneously ISN'T," etc. etc.), delightful!
Even animals don’t do three some!
Be single… this is too much.. make your money.. who got time to be worried about all this! Focus on something else!
How about men having backup women in case their woman does something wrong to the relationship? Or protect their finances in case their wife decides to divorce them for yoga instructor?
@9:40
LOL, right--NOBODY'S for them, yet somehow we all KNOW that they're HAPPENING, so SOMEBODY must be lying... x'D
Soooooooo dont trust em. That percentage is too high.
I thought the prompt meant backup man like, if we're both single by 40, let's get married.
Ik women who use me male friend as a backup .. even when these women have bfs. Marry a man who has no history! Same for women.
Loni looks really nice today. Did she get engaged? I missed a couple shows over the holidays. She has a ring on her finger.
Jeannie that interesting HAAAA😭😭😭 Right cause her ex sure did move on quickly
I'm not a backup guy, I'm more than that...
Off topic but I’m sick too Tam happy winter🤒
Elena Moreno Same man 🤕
Get well tam..
Girl this episode is soo old. How do you guys don’t know yet that these are reruns?
@@elenamoreno7644 Girlllll calm down why are you being so mean damn lmao she was just pointing out it's an old episode!
no tea, no shade Bc it’s so annoying 😂 you can say that without talking to people like they’re stupid
Y’all in these comments are REALLY SLOW!! All of the the old clips say GIRL CHAT VAULT!!! The real been doing these clips for OVER A YEAR y’all be coming to the comments asking the same thing every time YES ITS AN OLD EPISODE 😤😤🤬🤬
jazzzzzz123 same thing I’m sayin!!!!
What fantasy life do you live in? People's feelings change some love isn't ment to withstand the test of time, and you can't dictate what your partner will feel in the future either. A plan B is only bad if you stop focusing on your relationship for it. Acknowledging that someone is intrested in you isn't going to wreck your marriage, obsessing over it does. Chill, just relax and do the best you can in every relationship you're blessed to be in.
Lmaooo tony is funny I like him
OUUHHHHH PREACH JEANNIE @ 14:03 !! GOD CERTAINLY DID NOT intend or condone any type of threesomes. So any 3some is a Devil's 3some. Word.
Well you can have a back up man...but there's a high chance you'll also be a back up or third choice woman to him when you're ready. That sucks!
I like this guy!
Plan B is usually your ex or if you have several exes it's the one that you wanted to be with but it just didn't work out because you were young I agree with Adrian, if you're married you should not have a plan B.
Toni, "I'm in the hair salon"!😂😂😂
The more you talk the more members for MGTOW.
@10:20
Yes, it clearly implies sex is--at the LEAST--LESS valuable IN the context of marriage than not. That's LITERALLY necessitated as a premise by that logic (i.e. "you shouldn't do things you'd otherwise voluntarily do, because you want to enjoy doing so, on account of this status of marriage alone--i.e. whatever values IT, presumably serves, MUST be therefore considered SUPERIOR to that sacrifice of whatever value one placed in the acts one abstains from, but otherwise wouldn't BUT FOR the being married, e.g. in this instance certain sexual acts you would otherwise both consent to and enjoy). Now, you can layout all kind of RATIONALES for WHY a person might endorse such a value hierarchy, but what is undeniably logically NECESSARY is that EITHER you DO have such a hierarchy (wherein, marriage serves other values, more important to you, than sexual fulfillment) OR you must believe that marriage ALSO serves that value (sexual fulfillment) BETTER than mutually exclusive alternatives, and to believe THAT, you must necessarily believe (IF you ALSO believe marriage entails, say, an indefinite commitment to monogamy, and thus necessarily means giving up all things, such as group sex, MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE with monogamy) that there is some aspect unique to marriage that is even more NET sexually fulfilling than anything that in its own right might be net sexually fulfilling, but less so than that part of marriage it is mutually exclusive with that is even MORE net sexually fulfilling. In short, if you start with the assumption marriage means indefinite monogamy, then it MUST be true that either (1) sex (sexually satisfaction, fulfillment, whatever) isn't as important to you as something else, whatever else, something that marriage is "better for"; OR (2) you don't believe that the loss of non-monogamy is actually any loss, or at least not NET any loss (that is, you believe, possibly among other reasons you might value it, whether more or less in importance than this reason, that sex is actually BETTER overall/on balance between two individuals mutually committed to indefinite monogamy with each other, than in any other possible configuration mutually exclusive with that, that which we've already established in our initial premises is, arguendo, essential to/defining of marriage).
For whatever it's worth, for me personally at least, this (the way people seem to think/talk about and imagine marriage) is one example among many that DOES indeed beg the question "what IS the value of marriage", and it's a question I've yet to find a compelling persuasive answer to--but I've ALSO lived long enough to become well acquainted with the fact that not everyone has the same experience (and, likewise, probably related), values, and/or beliefs that I do, and there are some (many, even) zones of ambiguity in life such that REASONABLE minds can and do differ on conclusions on a great many things, including most salient and important here what is and/or OUGHT be "desirable" in life. Thus, I don't EXPECT everyone to share my estimation of the value of "marriage", because among other reasons I don't EXPECT everyone to start from a common set of values and/or expectations (however REASONABLE or not I, they, or any other, might find those values and/or expectation to be, on examination) regarding marriage (or for that matter, much if anything else).
I completely disagree the multidating thing, most dudes if they find out they will split. We think that multi dating chicks are ho’s
@7:00
As with most things in life, reducing it to a single categorical turning on a single variable ("men will do X, because men like/are y") is DANGEROUSLY overly simplistic. Some, sure, that's absolutely true of--some, recognize a lose-lose scenario when they see it, and will opt out of such situations entirely. It's all a question of what you value--and how well you KNOW what you value, and the relationship of your values to your actions.
Jeannie was sooooo sarcastic 😂😂😂 huh, interesting
I can’t even get a date with one person
I don’t even have a man yet
maram saba same lol 😂
Thats projection..
MOST men never have a backup plan..we have TO WORK at impressing women..
Not just say "ok".
MOST men dont even notice other women when in love.
Just because THEY have plan Bs just 'assume' most men do the same.
Btw, how can they recognize that a man with a 'sidechick' isnt committed and should KEEP IT REAL
but women...its ok to disrespect a man by having no commitment ,?
Double standards need to stop.
Why do men cheat ?
Same your not making him happy...takes 2..
These women are DILUSIONAL
I agree with Adrienne 100%
Call-a-friend option is good to have if your partner says Not Tonight Honey!
Does that mean men should have a backup woman?
No. It’s only ok if women cheat. At least from their perspective
thats because they got raised by narcissistic hoe moms, and they dont know any better.
I'm a old soul because you shouldn't leave no room for a backup plan.🤔🤔