I gave birth to our first child two weeks ago, with no epidural and pushed for 3 min! I’m very proud! I didn’t know I had it in me 💪🏼💛 God gave me all the strength!
Grace Morgan speaks RUclips Channel thank you for that! I’ve been having a very hard time in my life right now and I know it’s such a small thing but it just reminded me this too shall pass and good times are ahead !
@@Pampy93, Tamar was also there for a long time. This didn't stop a lot of us from disliking her. I am not a big fan of Amanda as she is not very mature. She doesn't accept other people's opinions most of the time. She also only believes in racism against black people even when she watches videos on the show showing black people being aggressive and racist towards other races. I don't mind her when she is civil. The problem is that's a rare occurrence.
Can we talk about how torturous it is to have a nurse coming in your room every half hour?! Your baby might be sleeping but they don't let you get any rest!
@Chloe Palmer I think she is authentic and funny. I fine jeannie cringy sometimes and Loni would have to laugh really loud to cover up the weird stuff she says. Ppl take Loni too seriously so it gets awkward. Tamera is really quiet about any topic that hits too deep and Adrienne is cool but is judged too much be people. I like the addition of Amanda.
100% believe in broken heart syndrome. You see it all the time, especially with older couples that have been married for decades. They don’t know how to live without the other person and can’t comprehend it. It’s very sad, but completely understandable.
I absolutely adore this convo they had about broken heart syndrome and mental health. A lot of the times you feel REAL heart pain when going through trauma or grief and it’s comforting to know it’s not just in our head. These introspective conversations I believe is what keeps The Real fam together 🙌🏿🙌🏿 more in 2020 👏🏿💕
Let’s just all appreciate what women go through when they’re pregnant. You people are amazing. (I’m also a woman but I don’t think I want to have a baby)
Gaby Irigoyen now with the virus in the world, there is so much more pregnant women have to go through and worry about... more than normal. I’m almost 36 weeks pregnant and this virus stuff has been so stressful. No visitors at the hospital or at home, no going out and being stuck at home, some women are changing their birth plans and not wanting to go to the hospital to avoid any chances of being near someone who could possibly be infected. It’s a stressful time.
You can also convince your body that you're pregnant. One of the reasons I love that I am in nursing school is because I love how complex and complicated the human body is. It's amazing. I wish people truly understood how amazing our minds are.
My biggest fear is being pregnant and not knowing until the day of 😭, I've read it as a silent pregnancy. Whenever I read news articles about that phenomenon, my palms get sweaty, suddenly I gotta poo, that really terrifies me on a level I can't explain 😅😭
Anyone Notice the Difference between William and His Father when being loving to the mother of his children after birth Also Tamtam Thankyou for keeping it real REAL about afterbirth. You could tell everyone else at the table felt uncomfortable but it was the same for me and i appreciate your realness girl
I legit gave birth and 5.5 hours later I was at home. They monitor your bleeding and your well-being and if you're fine here in the Netherlands they send you home.
My son was out after 2 pushes and took less than ten minutes. My first poop I was in the bathroom for a long ass time in a world of pain. Thank God for creating prunes and nature's bounty for their prune juice. One cup per day saved me.
Love how real Tam is about c sections! Had to have my daughter via c section and I don’t regret it one bit! She’s a completely happy and healthy almost 3 year old now 😊
When I had my son I felt good. I was bugging the Dr to discharge us ASAP. I Wanted to be in the comfort of my home with my husband. The hospital is so uncomfortable and cold!
Yes! Thank you ladies, it's important to have these discussions. I'm always interested in hearing other women's experiences on childbirth. I feel as women we shouldn't be ashamed or shy away from real conversations like these that may make others cringe. This is how we all got here. Lol thanks for always touching on topics others may not be comfortable with. ❤️🤰🏽🤱🏽
I remember because the episode brought up a whole conversation with a family member when she heard Tamera talking about not being discharged until going to the bathroom and releasing her bowel.. 🤣
9:10 on that note of having so much power within our minds, remember that we have the power to bring on peace and call when we truly need it. Reminding our minds that sometimes (in certain situations) stress and worry are unnecessary in certain moments...✨take a deep breath when you need it, and remind yourself that things can be okay.
It’s so crazy how all my friends where telling me to expect not to be discharged until I have my first poop, literally no one brought it to my awareness that I had to poop before I got discharged. I did poop the day I was leaving but still none of the nurses asked? (Had my little Man last week by the way) 💙
I’ve been stressed and I literally feel like I’m going to die and I panic more but thank god my husband always calms me down and checks up on me ... Guys be happy don’t stress about anything nothing is worth your peace always be around your loved ones Watch your shows that make you happy and laugh I honestly love laughting it brings me peace ☺️☺️☺️ I hope everyone is taking care of themselves 😚 ☺️
Adriennes reaction to Tams comment on women going into the fields to labor is too dramatic. Girl, you are latina..... dont you know that indigenous women from all latina american countries been doing this forever? Our abuelitas would go to the river/water and birth their babies.
What a lucky lady .7 hours after I gave birth I am half way dead.I have to hold on to my iv pole and on every peice of furniture trying to walk the next day.Way to go Kate.Strong lady.!!!!
I had a c-section after 18 hours of labor so I had to stay 4 days. I was admitted Saturday night @ 1145pm and left Wednesday @ 10am. I didn’t have my first bowel movement until about a week after. My son was born on Mother’s Day, the day before my birthday. It was an amazing week. ❤️
Had my first naturally at a stand alone birth center. He was born at 2:34pm I was home by 6pm. I dont think it's unrealistic but in America they make it seem that way. Epidurals are a big thing and you can't leave the hospital until you have bowel movement because of it, not only that but you have to gain the feeling back. My second was a csection because she was breech and it was a totally different experience. I just remember wanting to be home with her but couldn't.
Giving a birth is no joke last week a friend mine had an Emergency C section sometime during the procedure her Colon was ruptured she ended up passing away from sepsis a few days later leaving behind 6 yr son and a Newborn son
@@danixnikki From my mucus plug coming out, up until her arrival, it was about 10 hours of leaking and then contractions and she was out in 3 pushes plus 1 for the placenta. 😊🌻💜
I think Broken Heart Syndrome is real!!! ☹️😪 I’ve been through it, and it’s so hard to come out of it. So sad to even think about it. If it weren’t for people that loved me through it, I would’ve totally resigned myself to God to take me. I thank God for them.
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” The Good News: Though you may feel defeated, God is closer than you realize. He is always with you and can heal your heart. “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
I think more than anything, Kate probably left because... I mean, they have to shut down a whole ward for security reasons and screen everyone so I'm sure they'd rather have her back at Kensington at a more controlled environment and to also allow the hospital to put patients back into rooms on the Lindo wing x
In South Africa also, 6 hours post giving birth & there are no medical complications with family support, the mother & the child are allowed to go home after normal vaginal delivery,and it's normal.
I have a story: I was 7 days late and was born during Easter weekend. It's a big deal for my family & they came down and had a fish fry, because my mom didnt have me the week before. She checked herself out after having me against doctor's wishes went home and ate fried catfish. She was hella sick, but she said it was worth it...
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I gave birth to our first child two weeks ago, with no epidural and pushed for 3 min! I’m very proud! I didn’t know I had it in me 💪🏼💛 God gave me all the strength!
Do you have any secrets because 3 mins is great!!! Congrats for your baby!!!🎊🎉
Girl YES!!!! I'm a new mommy myself, pushed for 12 min totally unmedicated, didn't even tear. We are women! That's the secret. We have it in us
Deja Rush congrats girl!!! That’s awesome 💞💞💞
Jessica Cruz I walked a lot and bounced on my ball prior to having him. Also I prayed a lot for strength! 💛
Amen, congratulations girl 😍
Whoever is reading may you find true happiness and joy in these hard times. Be calm, focused and fear not. Peace
Grace Morgan speaks RUclips Channel ❤️
Grace Morgan speaks RUclips Channel thank you for that! I’ve been having a very hard time in my life right now and I know it’s such a small thing but it just reminded me this too shall pass and good times are ahead !
💛💛💛
Thank you so much. I really needed it at this specific moment. Bless you.
Thank you.
“Sir why you laughing? That’s the truth!” You tell him Tam!
Tamera is hilarious! “Sir why are you laughing” 😂😂😂 I’m going to miss her on here!! 😭
“Sir why are you laughing “ 😂😂😂 her facial expression made me laugh.
“Sir why are you laughing? That’s the truth!” 😂
I miss the 4 of them
The vibe is so much better with just the 4
Me too
So true
Me toooo
Me too
This clip just reinforces why the show should have stayed with 4 co-hosts.
roter13 get over it. It's been months already 🤣🤣🤣 Amanda ain't going anywhere
Edit: joke on me she's gone but so is Tam. Who's next go go go go 💃🏿
I know!
@@Pampy93, Tamar was also there for a long time. This didn't stop a lot of us from disliking her. I am not a big fan of Amanda as she is not very mature. She doesn't accept other people's opinions most of the time. She also only believes in racism against black people even when she watches videos on the show showing black people being aggressive and racist towards other races. I don't mind her when she is civil. The problem is that's a rare occurrence.
And the seating arrangements ....so happy
@Chloe Palmer, I absolutely agree
Jeannie looks soo gorgeous, with the weight she gained 😍
Grace Medina happy weight
Yesss I agree
Weightgain you say👀👶🏼?? 😋😋😋JK
She is Beautiful with the weight!
I like Adrienne's overalls
SmartLadyLab i read this as ‘ i like adriennes ovaries’
Can we talk about how torturous it is to have a nurse coming in your room every half hour?! Your baby might be sleeping but they don't let you get any rest!
Yes! I was literally delirious by the time I came home. I cried so much because I was so tired, it really took away the bonding I wanted with me baby
I love it when it's just these 4 queens
Enchantress well get over it
Right? I feel it’s not as noisy lol
You can’t get this kind of chemistry and display of friendship with Amanda around.
I miss amanda
@Chloe Palmer I think she is authentic and funny. I fine jeannie cringy sometimes and Loni would have to laugh really loud to cover up the weird stuff she says. Ppl take Loni too seriously so it gets awkward. Tamera is really quiet about any topic that hits too deep and Adrienne is cool but is judged too much be people. I like the addition of Amanda.
Tamera’s curls are beautiful
Ugh Tamera’s part at 11:20 definitely was so deep. I got teary eyed. Truly is a mother’s prayer 🙏🏻💕💕
This convo had great energy and it was loving and peaceful!
Your right I'm so glad to have this show while on lockdown
Right! I want only dem 4. Don't like the serious energy of the new lady. It's too much
We women are amazing! I gave birth to both my boys vaginally with no epidural (11 months apart) & I’m really proud of myself. ☺️❤️
lesxjl you’re a warrior goddess!
lesxjl you should be!!!
lesxjl your amazing 👑
WOW!!!!! Yo go mama🙌🙌🙌
@Glen CoCo I've heard that before. That their mortality rate is much lower.
I want Tam's jacket. So pretty, like her.
It's nice
Shaydah Delfanian I know I’m loving that color ❤️❤️✨
@@Veda-knowledgeoflife907 Ikr.
I love her whole outfit
I love how open and honest Tamera was about her experience.❤️❤️❤️🙌🏾
I went home 4 hours after giving birth here in the Netherlands. I was blessed to have no complications or stitches! 🙌🏽
Lonnie is beautiful and I don't care what anyone says.
Tameras hair looking 🔥
100% believe in broken heart syndrome. You see it all the time, especially with older couples that have been married for decades. They don’t know how to live without the other person and can’t comprehend it. It’s very sad, but completely understandable.
6:56
"Is your heart" *points at head*
"And your mind" *points at chest*
😂😂😂
I absolutely adore this convo they had about broken heart syndrome and mental health. A lot of the times you feel REAL heart pain when going through trauma or grief and it’s comforting to know it’s not just in our head. These introspective conversations I believe is what keeps The Real fam together 🙌🏿🙌🏿 more in 2020 👏🏿💕
I actually loved Tamera's Accent😁
i love Adrienne’s outfit here! quirky but so cute!
Let’s just all appreciate what women go through when they’re pregnant. You people are amazing. (I’m also a woman but I don’t think I want to have a baby)
Gaby Irigoyen now with the virus in the world, there is so much more pregnant women have to go through and worry about... more than normal. I’m almost 36 weeks pregnant and this virus stuff has been so stressful. No visitors at the hospital or at home, no going out and being stuck at home, some women are changing their birth plans and not wanting to go to the hospital to avoid any chances of being near someone who could possibly be infected. It’s a stressful time.
You can also convince your body that you're pregnant. One of the reasons I love that I am in nursing school is because I love how complex and complicated the human body is. It's amazing. I wish people truly understood how amazing our minds are.
My biggest fear is being pregnant and not knowing until the day of 😭, I've read it as a silent pregnancy. Whenever I read news articles about that phenomenon, my palms get sweaty, suddenly I gotta poo, that really terrifies me on a level I can't explain 😅😭
@@ojitosrodriguez114 oooh now I get it that's pretty messed up.
Anyone Notice the Difference between William and His Father when being loving to the mother of his children after birth
Also Tamtam Thankyou for keeping it real REAL about afterbirth. You could tell everyone else at the table felt uncomfortable but it was the same for me and i appreciate your realness girl
Yeah the afterbirth was disgusting.
I thought I’m the only one who noticed the difference between them photos
@@kmrf27 same
The days when they let jeanine talk and don’t talk over each other ..🥺🥺🥺i miss this
"You're heart" *points to head "...and your mind" *points to heart* 6:56
I legit gave birth and 5.5 hours later I was at home. They monitor your bleeding and your well-being and if you're fine here in the Netherlands they send you home.
Adrienne’s blush is giving me life
AH, I remember seeing the whole girl chat segment on RUclips....the days
so, no more competing to talk.
Shadeee lmao
PERIOD!!
This is an old (Vault) episode.
Hanna Tilahun too bad it’s an old episode becky 😢
Yes because Amanda wasn’t there then
Watching this from my hospital bed after giving birth 😂
Congrats!
Congratulations 🌹🌷⚘
congratulations
Your baby is 1 now!! Congrats boo!!
@@KD-mw4jf thank you, she’s about to be 2 next month 🙂
Jennie was so proud of herself for saying Chimamanda's name and I was like, i love you sis but you didn't say it right.
That's True
True 😂😂😂😂
I love how they always compliment and hype eachother up 😌
Same!
So true Jeannie , life can take a toll on a person's looks and health
This was such a good convo nothing but uplifting ❤️🙏🏽
My son was out after 2 pushes and took less than ten minutes. My first poop I was in the bathroom for a long ass time in a world of pain. Thank God for creating prunes and nature's bounty for their prune juice. One cup per day saved me.
Love how real Tam is about c sections! Had to have my daughter via c section and I don’t regret it one bit! She’s a completely happy and healthy almost 3 year old now 😊
Love this conversation and Adrienne looks so pretty. They all do. I’m watching old clips before the world wasn’t as crazy as it is now.
OMG I love Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. Such a great writer!
One of the best talk shows can’t get enough!
When I had my son I felt good. I was bugging the Dr to discharge us ASAP. I Wanted to be in the comfort of my home with my husband. The hospital is so uncomfortable and cold!
Tamaras little speech at the end made me tear up a little. She’s sooo pure
7 hours? i needed all 3 hospital days lol . #CSection
Right 😂
I stayed a week
Entered thursday morning left Sunday morning...almost kicked out lol...and now my babys gonna be 1 yr on Sunday🤗🥰🤗
I stayed 3 days and was pissed when I had to leave 😂
@@ss-hn5yh 😂😂😂
Yes! Thank you ladies, it's important to have these discussions. I'm always interested in hearing other women's experiences on childbirth. I feel as women we shouldn't be ashamed or shy away from real conversations like these that may make others cringe. This is how we all got here. Lol thanks for always touching on topics others may not be comfortable with. ❤️🤰🏽🤱🏽
Anyone notice when Jennie said heart and mine she pointed to the opposite 😭
Everyone THIS VIDEO IS FROM SEASON 3/4‼️ Right now this season is SEASON 6 🗣🗣🗣 GIRL CHAT VAULT MEANS ITS OLD
Tameri Harding I though Jeannie was trying to bulk up just within the last year or so... damn
I don’t think it’s that old.. yeah Jeannie started bulking up last year
I remember when the episode aired on RUclips for the first time... April 28, 2018. I was on a trip to visit the university I am in now. 😆
Oh wow😂😂😂
I remember because the episode brought up a whole conversation with a family member when she heard Tamera talking about not being discharged until going to the bathroom and releasing her bowel.. 🤣
@@Crz4wizard April 28 my bdayy LOL
I just love Loni's spirit. You can tell it's so pure, genuine and she really truly cares about other people.
Tam looks so flawless I love everything about her look 💖💖💖
Funny! I didn't know she was pregnant ha ha! This is so much I follow the loyalty. I just like to see these ladies.
9:10 on that note of having so much power within our minds, remember that we have the power to bring on peace and call when we truly need it. Reminding our minds that sometimes (in certain situations) stress and worry are unnecessary in certain moments...✨take a deep breath when you need it, and remind yourself that things can be okay.
They're all so beautiful!❤️ Love The Real!
Yasss this is sooo necessary with this lock down thank god for the real 🙌
And now Jeannie is engaged~ and Loni's boo'd up
I want Tamera’s jacket 🥰
Absolutely my grandma was heartbroken from a horrible betrayal. Her heart couldn’t with stand it. I absolutely believe in this.
Adrienne is so pretty without her tan☺️
Um ? she’s pretty with her tan as well. If anything I think her beautiful TAN brings her out. This is a weird comment
It’s so crazy how all my friends where telling me to expect not to be discharged until I have my first poop, literally no one brought it to my awareness that I had to poop before I got discharged. I did poop the day I was leaving but still none of the nurses asked? (Had my little Man last week by the way) 💙
Congratulations 🤗
Hephzibah lol thankss 😅
Love their chemistry in this clip 💕
4:09 🤣 i love tam tamm😭😭 i love all of them this is my favorite talk show🤍💜
I’ve been stressed and I literally feel like I’m going to die and I panic more but thank god my husband always calms me down and checks up on me ...
Guys be happy don’t stress about anything nothing is worth your peace always be around your loved ones
Watch your shows that make you happy and laugh I honestly love laughting it brings me peace ☺️☺️☺️
I hope everyone is taking care of themselves 😚 ☺️
Loni’s face when Jeannie said let’s live together hahaha . She wouldn’t last a week🤣love them girls !!!!
I missed these days with the girls without Amanda
Ana de la Cruz - I used to not like Amanda but she’s definitely growing on me. Give her a chance......🤪
luxaholic anonymous I am doing it 😆 promise 😇
Ana de la Cruz - LOL!
Tamera’s jacket is fabulous just like her! When I had my kids I had to stay 2 days in the hospital. Lol I think that I should move to the Uk😂
Yh when my sister was born my mum went to the hospital as i left for a school and when i came home i had a baby sister 🤣🤣
I love in the UK and I've left the hospital after six hours with all of my children. Just can't wait to get home.
I love Adrian's outfit!
Adriennes reaction to Tams comment on women going into the fields to labor is too dramatic. Girl, you are latina..... dont you know that indigenous women from all latina american countries been doing this forever? Our abuelitas would go to the river/water and birth their babies.
She could have just been shocked I mean she probably didn’t expect it like that
Hiii ladies from #The Real. I pray everyone is great! ❤️
Tamarea was like we’re’’ Super human “😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I love it when it’s just the 4 of them
4:09 “ Sir, why are you laughing? That’s the truth.” Lmao
What a lucky lady .7 hours after I gave birth I am half way dead.I have to hold on to my iv pole and on every peice of furniture trying to walk the next day.Way to go Kate.Strong lady.!!!!
Adrienne looks soooo pretty!
This is my favorite Episode. They are all very real and emotional. I stan this
See, now I want overalls-wear the clothes don't let it wear you! Yes Adrienne👏
Love Jeanie said heart and pointed to her head 😂 then said mind and pointed to her heart 😂
I had to laugh when Jeannie pointed to her head talking about her heart and vice versa. 😆
I completely understand you Tam 😩💕
I had a c-section after 18 hours of labor so I had to stay 4 days. I was admitted Saturday night @ 1145pm and left Wednesday @ 10am. I didn’t have my first bowel movement until about a week after. My son was born on Mother’s Day, the day before my birthday. It was an amazing week. ❤️
Had my first naturally at a stand alone birth center. He was born at 2:34pm I was home by 6pm. I dont think it's unrealistic but in America they make it seem that way. Epidurals are a big thing and you can't leave the hospital until you have bowel movement because of it, not only that but you have to gain the feeling back. My second was a csection because she was breech and it was a totally different experience. I just remember wanting to be home with her but couldn't.
Giving a birth is no joke last week a friend mine had an Emergency C section sometime during the procedure her Colon was ruptured she ended up passing away from sepsis a few days later leaving behind 6 yr son and a Newborn son
Chas 99 I’m sorry
Chas 99 I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ rip angel
Oh no! My comfort to you and her family.
😔😔
Oh I am so sorry.
I definitely had a natural home birth with my daughter last September! It was beautiful 😭🙌🏽 I also had a midwife and doula. 💜🌻💪🏽
Congratulations momma!!! ❤
How long were you in labor for?
@@danixnikki From my mucus plug coming out, up until her arrival, it was about 10 hours of leaking and then contractions and she was out in 3 pushes plus 1 for the placenta. 😊🌻💜
@@danixnikki And thank you!
I think Broken Heart Syndrome is real!!! ☹️😪 I’ve been through it, and it’s so hard to come out of it. So sad to even think about it. If it weren’t for people that loved me through it, I would’ve totally resigned myself to God to take me. I thank God for them.
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” The Good News: Though you may feel defeated, God is closer than you realize. He is always with you and can heal your heart. “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
Jeannie is right about the heart and mind. Very important.
🤣🤣🤣🤣well Jeannie you didn't have it the Ngozi part🤣🤣🤣 but great with the Chimamanda
i miss just the 4 of them!!!! ONLY 4 CO-HOSTS!!!!!!!
I think more than anything, Kate probably left because... I mean, they have to shut down a whole ward for security reasons and screen everyone so I'm sure they'd rather have her back at Kensington at a more controlled environment and to also allow the hospital to put patients back into rooms on the Lindo wing x
I left the hospital 6 hours after giving birth to both of my children just over a year between them 🙊
Emma Pate 👏🏿👏🏿 that’s a blessing
@@Nnnnnnnn426 oh definitely bounced back straight after birth could of gone round the hospital cleaning as soon as they were out 😂😂😂😂
Emma Pate 😂😂
We don't really get epidurals in the Caribbean. The nurses encourage us and tell us that we can breathe through the pain and we do.
In South Africa also, 6 hours post giving birth & there are no medical complications with family support, the mother & the child are allowed to go home after normal vaginal delivery,and it's normal.
I have a story: I was 7 days late and was born during Easter weekend. It's a big deal for my family & they came down and had a fish fry, because my mom didnt have me the week before. She checked herself out after having me against doctor's wishes went home and ate fried catfish. She was hella sick, but she said it was worth it...
Tamera is looking extra pretty😊
“Family is framily” 😂😂
1st baby emergency c section- 4 days, 2nd baby( vbac)- 1 night. 3rd baby( c section)- 3 days.
I am nursing student I have observed so many C/S.... It is so funny when Tamera says they put intestines on the table.....😂I love you.